10 WAYS TO BE THATCONFIDENT PERSON YOUALWAYS WANTED TO BE .

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MANY PEOPLE BELIEVETHAT YOU ARE BORN WITH

CONFIDENCE, BUT THIS ISN’T NECESSARILY TRUE .

SELF-CONFIDENCE ISBUILT UP THROUGH

YOUR LIFE, AND YOU CANCHOOSE TO GAIN

MORE SELF-CONFIDENCE .

IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TOSTART WORKING ON

FINDING YOUR CONFIDENCE

CHECK OUT 10 WAYSYOU CAN BECOME A

MORE CONFIDENT PERSON .

1. MONITORYOUR WORK

SUCCESS

TRACKING YOUR PROGRESS ATWORK WILL GIVE YOU ACTUALPROOF OF YOUR RECENT SUCCESSESAND ACCOMPLISHMENTS – WRITEDOWN EVERYTHING, EVEN THELITTLE ACHIEVEMENTS .

2. TRYSOMETHING NEW

ONCE A WEEK

INSTEAD OF SHYING AWAY FROMNEW EVENTS AND ACTIVITIES, GRABLIFE BY THE HORNS AND SAY ‘YES’TO SOMETHING NEW ONCE A WEEK.LEARNING NEW SKILLS ANDTRYING NEW THINGS IS ONE OF THEMOST FUN WAYS YOU CAN BUILDUP CONFIDENCE .

3. STAND UPSTRAIGHT

DON’T WALK WITH YOURSHOULDER SLUMPED AND YOUREYES LOOKING DOWN – INSTEAD,WALK WITH YOUR BACK STRAIGHTAND DON’T AVOID EYE CONTACT.THIS WILL MAKE YOU LOOK SELF-ASSURED AND CONFIDENT, ANDLOOKING THE PART WILL HELP YOUTO FEEL MORE CONFIDENT ON THEINSIDE.

4. TALK TONEW PEOPLE

TRY STARTING UP ACONVERSATION WITH A CO-WORKER OR A CASHIER. YOU MAYBE SURPRISED BY HOW FRIENDLYPEOPLE ARE, AND THIS WILL HELPYOU TO SHED ANY FEARS YOUHAVE ABOUT SPEAKING UP INHIGH PRESSURE SITUATIONS.

5. DO ANACTIVITY THAT

MAKES YOUFEEL CONFIDENT

ARE YOU AN EXCELLENT SWIMMER,OR A GREAT ARTIST? DO ANACTIVITY THAT MAKES YOU FEELCONFIDENT AT LEAST ONCE A WEEKTO REMIND YOURSELF THAT YOUARE SKILLED AND PROFICIENT.

6. IGNOREYOUR INNER

CRITIC

EVERYONE HAS THE VOICE OF SELF-DOUBT IN THEIR HEAD; CONFIDENTPEOPLE JUST UNDERSTAND THATTHE VOICE IS NEGATIVE ANDINACCURATE. DON’T LISTEN TO THEVOICE THAT SAYS YOU CAN’TACHIEVE – REALIZE THAT IT IS JUST AVOICE, AND IT WILL ALWAYS TRY TOHOLD YOU BACK .

7. DON’TCOMPARE

YOURSELF TOOTHERS

THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOMEONEWHO IS MORE CONFIDENT, AND IFYOU FOCUS ON THIS YOU WON’T SEETHAT YOU ARE STILL MORECONFIDENT THAN MANY OTHERPEOPLE. EVERYONE HAS DIFFERENTGOALS AND TARGETS; SET YOUROWN INSTEAD OF TAKING SOMEONEELSE’S AND YOU WILL FEEL MORECONFIDENT WITHIN YOURSELF.

8. USEAFFIRMATIONS

LOOK IN THE MIRROR EVERYMORNING AND TELL YOURSELF ‘I AMBECOMING MORE CONFIDENT’. THISREMINDS YOU TO FOCUS ONBECOMING MORE CONFIDENT, ANDWHILE YOU MAY FEEL SILLY THE FIRSTTIME YOU DO IT, OVER TIME YOUWILL NOTICE IT FEELS MORE ANDMORE ACCURATE .

9. AVOIDPEOPLE WHO

PUT YOU DOWN

CUT ANYONE OUT OF YOUR LIFEWHO LOWERS YOUR CONFIDENCEAND MAKES YOU FEEL SMALL.SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLEWHO WILL BRING YOU UP ANDSUPPORT YOU, NOT DRAG YOUDOWN AND MAKE YOU DOUBTYOURSELF.

10. WRITEDOWN

SOMETHINGYOU LOVE

EVERY MORNING, WRITE DOWNSOMETHING YOU LOVE ABOUTYOURSELF. FROM YOUR HAIRSTYLETO YOUR KINDNESS, IT ISIMPORTANT TO BE AWARE OF HOWGREAT YOU ACTUALLY ARE. THEMORE YOU LOVE YOURSELF, THEMORE CONFIDENT YOU WILL FEEL .

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