131124 eng i wish i knew series (part 8 - the approach to anger management) by ps. timothy loh

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The Approach to Anger Management

Introduction:A practical series about living life with

fewer regrets and more purpose.

3 Greatest Regrets:

1. Finance

3 Greatest Regrets:

1. Finance

2. Relationship

3 Greatest Regrets:

1. Finance

2. Relationship

3. Character

The series:

• How to make better decisions

The series:

• How to make better decisions • How to get out of debts

The series:

• How to make better decisions • How to get out of debts • How to gain financial margin

The series:

• How to make better decisions • How to get out of debts • How to gain financial margin • How to have a strong marriage

The series:

• How to make better decisions • How to get out of debts • How to gain financial margin • How to have a strong marriage• How to build a healthy dating life /

parenting life

The series:

• How to make better decisions • How to get out of debts • How to gain financial margin • How to have a strong marriage• How to build a healthy dating life /

parenting life • How to keep anger at bay

The series:

• How to make better decisions • How to get out of debts • How to gain financial margin • How to have a strong marriage• How to build a healthy dating life /

parenting life • How to keep anger at bay• How to not worry

Anger• The rise of anger in our society

Anger• The rise of anger in our society

o In its frequency

Anger• The rise of anger in our society

o In its frequencyo In its intensity

Anger• The rise of anger in our society

o In its frequencyo In its intensity o In its variety

Anger• The rise of anger in our society

o In its frequencyo In its intensity o In its variety

• Wrap rage

Anger• The rise of anger in our society

o In its frequencyo In its intensity o In its variety

• Wrap rage • Computer rage

Anger• The rise of anger in our society

o In its frequencyo In its intensity o In its variety

• Wrap rage • Computer rage • Trolley rage

Anger• The rise of anger in our society

o In its frequencyo In its intensity o In its variety

• Wrap rage • Computer rage • Trolley rage • On line bullies

Anger• The rise of anger in our society

o In its frequencyo In its intensity o In its variety

• Wrap rage • Computer rage • Trolley rage • On line bullies • Rejection Rage

Anger• The rise of anger in our society

o In its frequencyo In its intensity o In its variety

• Wrap rage • Computer rage • Trolley rage • On line bullies • Rejection Rage • Car rage – “autocide”

3 things we need to know:

1. Its potency

3 things we need to know:

1. Its potency

2. Its produce

3 things we need to know:

1. Its potency

2. Its produce

3. Its path to freedom

Its Potency

• Spirit – it opens a door for the enemy

Its Potency

• Spirit – it opens a door for the enemyEph 4, 6 “Be angry, and do not sin”, do not let the sun go down on your wrath,27 nor give place to the devil

Its Potency

• Spirit – it opens a door for the enemyProv 16:32, He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, And he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.

Its Potency

• Spirit – it opens a door for the enemy1 Tim 2:8, 8I desire therefore that the men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting

Its Potency

• Soul – it poisons our soul Eph 4, 31 Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. 32 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.

Its Potency

• Body – it affects our hearts, blood pressure

Its Produce

James 1:19-20, 19 So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath / anger; 20 for the wrath / anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.

Its Produce

It produces:1. Harm / hurts

Ps 37:8, Cease from anger, and forsake wrath; Do not fret—it only causes harm.

Its Produce

It produces:1. Harm / hurts

Ps 37:8, Cease from anger, and forsake wrath; Do not fret—it only causes harm.

2. A life of strife / sin Prov 15:18, A hot-tempered man stirs up strife, but he who is slow to anger quiets contention.

Proverbs 29:22, A man of wrath stirs up strife, and one given to anger causes much transgression.

Its Produce

It produces:3. A life of calamity / folly / wrong judgment

Prov 14:29, He who is slow to wrath has great understanding, But he who is impulsive exalts folly.

Its Produce

It produces:3. A life of calamity / folly / wrong judgment

Prov 14:29, He who is slow to wrath has great understanding, But he who is impulsive exalts folly.

4. A life that is vulnerable Prov 25:28, Whoever has no rule over his own spirit Is like a city broken down, without walls.

Its Produce

It produces:5. A house that is full of turmoil / troubles

Its Produce

It produces:5. A house that is full of turmoil / troubles

6. A life filled with regrets

Its Produce

It produces:5. A house that is full of turmoil / troubles

6. A life filled with regrets

7. A life that reproduces anger Prov 22, 24Make no friendship with an angry man, And with a furious man do not go, 25Lest you learn his ways And set a snare for your soul.

Its Path to Freedom

• Presence

Its Path to Freedom

• Presence

• Principleso Confess

Its Path to Freedom

• Presence

• Principleso Confess o Control

Its Path to Freedom

• Presence

• Principleso Confess o Control o Conquer

Its Path to Freedom

• Presence

• Principleso Confess o Control o Conquero Channel

Its Path to Freedom

• Presence

• Principleso Confess o Control o Conquero Channel

• People

The Approach to Anger Management