ANTIDOTES - VOL 2 - How to survive other human beings

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ANTIDOTES HOW TO SURVIVE OTHER HUMAN BEINGS

VOLUME 2

BY MILES JAPARA

1The more you rely on others, the more out of balance you will be.

ANTIDOTES HOW TO SURVIVE OTHER HUMAN BEINGS BY MILES JAPARA

2Context has an incredibly effect on people, we think we’re always the same, but we’re merely mirrors.

3Every person’s opinionis a mirror into their pastexperience.

4Beware of the people who are always thinking, talking, acting the same, year after year.

5Talking is cheap. It’s not what people say,but rather what they dothat really shows who they are.

6It’s not that people aregood or bad, it’s our assumptions about themthat makes them so.

7Do not let others own your feelings (and moods).

8Even if you have to pretend,be self-confident:people are driven by it.

9Never expect appreciation or care from others, they have their own life.

the present document is purely speculative,every reference is purely coincidental.no one really expects you to believe in it.no matter what’s written here,you’ll have to figure out and believe things for yourself.the sole goal of this document is to point out how complex human-to-human relationships are.nothing more, nothing less.

ANTIDOTES HOW TO SURVIVE OTHER HUMAN BEINGS

VOLUME 3

BY MILES JAPARA

1Eventually, everybody leaves, make sure you enjoy being in your own company.

2No one is really busy: it all depends which position you occupy in their priority list.

3Everybody is selfish, beware of those who fool themselves of the contrary.

4Unless people add something - anything - to your life you shouldn’t waste your time with them.

5Talk is cheap.What really matters is to pay attention to how people make you feel.

6You are the average of the people you spend time with.

7People don’t remember what happened, but they’ll remember how you made them feel.

8When you speak, aim to the reptile brain.

9Everyone lives by its own mental model of the world,and each model differs from yours.

the present document is purely speculative,every reference is purely coincidental.no one really expects you to believe in it.no matter what’s written here,you’ll have to figure out and believe things for yourself.the sole goal of this document is to point out how complex human-to-human relationships are.nothing more, nothing less.

ANTIDOTES - VOL 2 - How to survive other human beings

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