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The Ways We Learn and The Ways We Learn and ChangeChange
© Dr. Gary Sweeten© Dr. Gary SweetenEducator, Coach and ConsultantEducator, Coach and Consultant
Sweeten Life SystemsSweeten Life Systemswww.sweetenlife.com
gary@sweetenlife.com
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ChangeChange Build rituals -- actions that become Build rituals -- actions that become
automatic and bring goals together.automatic and bring goals together.– Physical: getting up a half hour earlierPhysical: getting up a half hour earlier– Emotional: a weekly date with spouseEmotional: a weekly date with spouse– Mental: study a new subjectMental: study a new subject– Spiritual: journal or prayerSpiritual: journal or prayer– The result is energy, balance and attitude The result is energy, balance and attitude
that fuels high performance and a that fuels high performance and a rounded life. rounded life.
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RememberRemember
– We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence is not a singular act, but a habit. is not a singular act, but a habit.
– Aristotle Aristotle
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StructureStructure
Win the battle for structure and lose the Win the battle for structure and lose the battle for control. battle for control. – Carl WhittakerCarl Whittaker
The processes, boundaries and rules keep The processes, boundaries and rules keep the group on track and developing well so the group on track and developing well so we can trust the process and develop we can trust the process and develop unconscious values, skills and habits.unconscious values, skills and habits.
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Education and TrainingEducation and Training Education tends to focus on didactic theory and Education tends to focus on didactic theory and
intellectual mastery of materials.intellectual mastery of materials.– Aims at the headAims at the head– Assess by writing examsAssess by writing exams– Intellectual QuotientIntellectual Quotient– TheoryTheory
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TrainingTraining
Training will focus on developing new skills, Training will focus on developing new skills, behaviors and feelings.behaviors and feelings.– Aims at head, heart and handsAims at head, heart and hands– Assess by observing behaviorAssess by observing behavior– Emotional IQ and Practical IQ Emotional IQ and Practical IQ – Theory Into Practical ServiceTheory Into Practical Service
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2121stst Century Learning Century Learning Involve entire person and entire groupInvolve entire person and entire group Use many delivery systemsUse many delivery systems
– Bricks and Mortar/Clicks and MortarBricks and Mortar/Clicks and Mortar– Individual/GroupIndividual/Group– Theory/PracticeTheory/Practice– Coach/LectureCoach/Lecture
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FocusFocus
Learner centered not Teacher centeredLearner centered not Teacher centered Involve in real life applicationsInvolve in real life applications Support system applicationSupport system application
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Curriculum DevelopmentCurriculum Development Whole person: DREAMSWhole person: DREAMS
– Didactic lecturesDidactic lectures– Reflection: Journaling, papers, discussions, etcReflection: Journaling, papers, discussions, etc– Experiences: Practice in learner environmentExperiences: Practice in learner environment– Accountability: Local learner authorityAccountability: Local learner authority– Modeling: Seek best practicesModeling: Seek best practices– Spiritual Acts: Values, faith, worship, prayerSpiritual Acts: Values, faith, worship, prayer
Developmental over timeDevelopmental over time Systemic and InteractiveSystemic and Interactive
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IQ, concepts,
knowledge, talk,
reading, lectures,
content, etc.
CHANGES COME
QUICKLY
EIQ heart values, ethics,
memory, caring, habits, life
style, skills, relationships, etc.
CHANGE REQUIRES
PRACTICE,
SUPERVISION &
CORRECTION
Cerebral CORTEX
LIMBICHippocampus & Amygdala
Note the difference between communicating with the cerebral-cortex (so called “Right Brain”) and the Limbic (“Left Brain”). Influencing both parts will produce long-term change.
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LecturesLectures LecturesLectures Fair for a very short timeFair for a very short time Fair for a very short timeFair for a very short time PoorPoor PoorPoor
BooksBooks BooksBooks Fair for a short timeFair for a short time Fair for a short timeFair for a short time PoorPoor PoorPoor
SlidesSlides SlidesSlides FairFair FairFair PoorPoor PoorPoor
MemorizationMemorization MemorizationMemorization Fair for a short timeFair for a short time Fair for a short timeFair for a short time PoorPoor PoorPoor
Study & PracticeStudy & Practice Study & PracticeStudy & Practice Good for a longer timeGood for a longer time Good for a longer timeGood for a longer time FairFair FairFair
Easy to Implement
Easy to Implement
Costly, Ineffective
and Unproducti
ve
Costly, Ineffective
and Unproducti
ve
SUMMARY
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Threats & Threats & PunishmentsPunishments
Threats & Threats & PunishmentsPunishments Remember fear/painRemember fear/pain Remember fear/painRemember fear/pain Negative– Fight / Flight /
Freeze / Suspicion/PTSD
Negative– Fight / Flight / Freeze / Suspicion/PTSD
DemandsDemands DemandsDemands Perform exact taskPerform exact task Perform exact taskPerform exact task
Fear based Fear based storiesstories
Fear based Fear based storiesstories Remember fear Remember fear
meaning with memorymeaning with memory
Remember fear Remember fear meaning with memorymeaning with memory
Easy to Implement
Easy to Implement
Costly, Ineffective,
Unproductive and Destructive
Costly, Ineffective,
Unproductive and Destructive
SUMMARY
Negative– Fight / Flight / Freeze / Suspicion/
Negative– Fight / Flight / Freeze / Suspicion/
Negative– Fight / Flight / Freeze / Suspicion/PTSD
Negative– Fight / Flight / Freeze / Suspicion/PTSD
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RewardsRewards RewardsRewards Remember rewardRemember reward Remember rewardRemember reward
Inspiring Inspiring stories / filmsstories / films
Inspiring Inspiring stories / filmsstories / films
Assigned meaning Assigned meaning with hopewith hope
Assigned meaning Assigned meaning with hopewith hope
Warm Warm relationshipsrelationships
Warm Warm relationshipsrelationships
Modeling insightsModeling insights Modeling insightsModeling insights
Creative and
Intuitive
Creative and
Intuitive
Excites, inspires
and energizes
Excites, inspires
and energizes
SUMMARY
Motivation for self support Motivation for self support and change and energizesand change and energizes
Motivation for self support Motivation for self support and change and energizesand change and energizes
Creative Creative imagination imagination exercisesexercises
Creative Creative imagination imagination exercisesexercises
Exciting possibilities / Exciting possibilities / energy to createenergy to create
Exciting possibilities / Exciting possibilities / energy to createenergy to create
Can lead to small changes Can lead to small changes at the right time and right wayat the right time and right way
Can lead to small changes Can lead to small changes at the right time and right wayat the right time and right way
Inspired to follow rewires Inspired to follow rewires brain and transforms bodybrain and transforms body
Inspired to follow rewires Inspired to follow rewires brain and transforms bodybrain and transforms body
Assigned meaning, Assigned meaning, opens possibilities, opens possibilities, integrates new thinkingintegrates new thinking
Assigned meaning, Assigned meaning, opens possibilities, opens possibilities, integrates new thinkingintegrates new thinking
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Lifeskills training Lifeskills training theory, word, into theory, word, into practicepractice
Lifeskills training Lifeskills training theory, word, into theory, word, into practicepractice
Insights, skills with Insights, skills with new behavior appliednew behavior applied
Insights, skills with Insights, skills with new behavior appliednew behavior applied
Inspiring Inspiring stories / warm stories / warm relationshipsrelationships
Inspiring Inspiring stories / warm stories / warm relationshipsrelationships
InsightInsight InsightInsight Most transformation Most transformation over a long period of over a long period of time. Tips company or time. Tips company or group into a strong unit group into a strong unit and learning communityand learning community
Most transformation Most transformation over a long period of over a long period of time. Tips company or time. Tips company or group into a strong unit group into a strong unit and learning communityand learning community
Great long term Great long term impact with new habits impact with new habits and physical changesand physical changes
Great long term Great long term impact with new habits impact with new habits and physical changesand physical changes
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Coaching / Coaching / mentoring with mentoring with Lifeskills and Lifeskills and accountabilityaccountability
Coaching / Coaching / mentoring with mentoring with Lifeskills and Lifeskills and accountabilityaccountability
Modeling insightsModeling insights Modeling insightsModeling insights
Difficult to Implement.
Requires Expertise and
Commitment Over Time.
Difficult to Implement.
Requires Expertise and
Commitment Over Time.
Once Tipped it will Change the
ENTIRE SYSTEM and Reproduce itself. It is the
Least Expensive.
Once Tipped it will Change the
ENTIRE SYSTEM and Reproduce itself. It is the
Least Expensive.
SUMMARY
Community of Community of warm, inspiring warm, inspiring models who care models who care with accountabilitywith accountability
Community of Community of warm, inspiring warm, inspiring models who care models who care with accountabilitywith accountability
Exciting possibilities / Exciting possibilities / energy to createenergy to create
Exciting possibilities / Exciting possibilities / energy to createenergy to create
Inspired to follow; Inspired to follow; rewires brain and rewires brain and transforms bodytransforms body
Inspired to follow; Inspired to follow; rewires brain and rewires brain and transforms bodytransforms body
Assigned meaning, Assigned meaning, opens possibilities, opens possibilities, integrates new thinkingintegrates new thinking
Assigned meaning, Assigned meaning, opens possibilities, opens possibilities, integrates new thinkingintegrates new thinking
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RewardsRewards RewardsRewards
Remember rewardRemember reward Remember rewardRemember reward
Inspiring stories / filmsInspiring stories / films Inspiring stories / filmsInspiring stories / films Assigned meaning with hopeAssigned meaning with hope
Assigned meaning with hopeAssigned meaning with hope
Warm relationshipsWarm relationships Warm relationshipsWarm relationships Modeling insightsModeling insights
Modeling insightsModeling insights
Motivation for self support and change motivates and Motivation for self support and change motivates and energizesenergizes
Motivation for self support and change motivates and Motivation for self support and change motivates and energizesenergizes
Creative imagination Creative imagination exercisesexercises
Creative imagination Creative imagination exercisesexercises
Exciting possibilities / energy to createExciting possibilities / energy to create Exciting possibilities / energy to createExciting possibilities / energy to create
Inspired to follow rewires brain and transforms bodyInspired to follow rewires brain and transforms body Inspired to follow rewires brain and transforms bodyInspired to follow rewires brain and transforms body
Assigned meaning, opens possibilities, Assigned meaning, opens possibilities, integrates new thinkingintegrates new thinking
Assigned meaning, opens possibilities, Assigned meaning, opens possibilities, integrates new thinkingintegrates new thinking
Can lead to small changes if at the right time and Can lead to small changes if at the right time and right wayright way
Can lead to small changes if at the right time and Can lead to small changes if at the right time and right wayright way
Lifeskills training of theory into Lifeskills training of theory into practicepractice
Lifeskills training of theory into Lifeskills training of theory into practicepractice
Insights, skills with new behavior appliedInsights, skills with new behavior applied Insights, skills with new behavior appliedInsights, skills with new behavior applied
Inspiring stories / warm Inspiring stories / warm relationshipsrelationships
Inspiring stories / warm Inspiring stories / warm relationshipsrelationships
Great insightGreat insight Great insightGreat insight
Most transformation over a long period of time. Most transformation over a long period of time. Tips company or group into a strong unit. A Tips company or group into a strong unit. A learning community forms. learning community forms.
Most transformation over a long period of time. Most transformation over a long period of time. Tips company or group into a strong unit. A Tips company or group into a strong unit. A learning community forms. learning community forms.
Great long term impact with new habits Great long term impact with new habits and physical changesand physical changes
Great long term impact with new habits Great long term impact with new habits and physical changesand physical changes
Coaching / mentoring with Coaching / mentoring with Lifeskills and accountabilityLifeskills and accountability
Coaching / mentoring with Coaching / mentoring with Lifeskills and accountabilityLifeskills and accountability Modeling insightsModeling insights
Modeling insightsModeling insights
Community of warm, inspiring Community of warm, inspiring models who care with accountabilitymodels who care with accountability
Community of warm, inspiring Community of warm, inspiring models who care with accountabilitymodels who care with accountability
Exciting possibilities / energy to createExciting possibilities / energy to create Exciting possibilities / energy to createExciting possibilities / energy to create
Inspired to follow rewires brain and transforms Inspired to follow rewires brain and transforms bodybody
Inspired to follow rewires brain and transforms Inspired to follow rewires brain and transforms bodybody
Assigned meaning, opens possibilities, Assigned meaning, opens possibilities, integrates new thinkingintegrates new thinking
Assigned meaning, opens possibilities, Assigned meaning, opens possibilities, integrates new thinkingintegrates new thinking
A Combination of INPIRATION and COACHING is the
most effective way to bring permanent changes into a
class, group, team and an organization
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