Cultivating Equanimity - Chris LuVogt

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Being calm and composed in difficult situations is not only an immensely useful life skill, but a learnable one, "in just 15 minutes a day!" In this talk, you'll not only learn about the what, why, and how of equanimity, but also get an interactive lesson on just how easy it is to cultivate it in your daily life.

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Tori Amos

“I found the secret to life. I'm okay when

everything is not okay.”

Cultivating EquanimityChris LuVogt - Convox 2014

What if...you could have➔mental calmness➔ composure➔presence of mindespecially in difficult situations...

...without drugs, in 15 minutes/day?

Equanimity

1. Resistance…

...is futile

2. Going with the flow...

...can get you lost...

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...or worse...

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3. Equanimity - centered resilience

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Life is always throwing you more plates…

...and you’realways trying to catch & spin them.

Why?

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You need a way to selectively choose which plates to spin…

...a way to focus your attention

Anxiety== not Equanimity

Anxiety== not Equanimity

Why Equanimity? Typical Interaction:

ReactionEvent

Emotion / Habit

Why Equanimity? Better Interaction:

ReactionEvent

Emotion / Habit

RespondNotice Reflect

Emotion / Habit

➔mental calmness➔ composure➔presence of mind

Cultivating EquanimityPractice

Practice

Practice

MindfulnessMeditation

Cultivating Equanimity - Meditation

ReactionThought

orEmotion

Focuson

BreathNotice

Reflectw/o

Judging

distractionnegative emotionsrumination

emotional reactivityanxiety

depressionScientificEvidence

Mindfulness Meditation

ScientificEvidence

Mindfulness Meditation

distraction

negative emotions rumination

emotional reactivity

anxiety

depression

relationship satisfactioninfo processingcognitive flexibilityimmune functionemotion regulationintuitionresilience

...and the effects scale!

A Case Study - “The Pit”Better Relationships

Presence of Mind

Listening

Resilience

Persistence

Noticing Child-like Wonder

Willpower

Centered

Less Fear

Tolerance

Compassion

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ConscientiousnessPersistence

PhysicalBehaviors

MentalBehaviors

SocialBehaviors

Reset YourselfDaily

MeasureDaily

Healthy Habits & Paths

PhysicallyHealthyBehaviors

MentallyHealthyBehaviors

SociallyHealthyBehaviors

Health

Longevity Happiness

“Measure”Continuously

Reset Continuously

Notice

Reflect

Respond