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Dr. Scott W. KunkelUniversity of San Diego
Stephen Covey’s
The 7 Habits ofHighly Effective People
Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
Presentation by:
Dr. Scott KunkelAssociate Professor
University of San Diego
Dr. Scott W. KunkelUniversity of San Diego
Personality and Character Ethics
• Personality Ethic (post WWI)– Personality, public image, attitudes &
behaviors, skills and techniques, quick fixes
• Character Ethic (pre WWI)– Integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance,
courage, justice, patience, industry, simplicity, modesty, the Golden Rule
– Not just “What do I want?” but “Why do I want it?”
Dr. Scott W. KunkelUniversity of San Diego
The Power of a Paradigm Shift
• What is a paradigm?• What is a paradigm shift?• My paradigm shift -- caring vs. enabling• Near-death experiences frequently cause
people to experience a paradigm shift.• Not all paradigm shifts are instantaneous --
some happen gradually over time.
Dr. Scott W. KunkelUniversity of San Diego
Will the left side of the room please stand and face the back of
the roomI will show the right side of the room a picture for ten seconds and ask you
to remember what you saw
Dr. Scott W. KunkelUniversity of San Diego
Will the right side of the room please stand and face the back of
the roomI will show the left side of the room a picture for ten seconds and ask you
to remember what you saw
Dr. Scott W. KunkelUniversity of San Diego
Will both sides of the room please sit back down
I will show you a picture for ten seconds and ask you to describe what
you saw
Dr. Scott W. KunkelUniversity of San Diego
The Seven Habits
Knowledge(what to, why to)
Desire(want to)
Skills(how to)
Habits
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Freedomto
Choose
Stimulus Response
Independent Will
ConscienceImagination
Self-Awarness
Dr. Scott W. KunkelUniversity of San Diego
Alternative “Centers”
• Spouse centered• Family centered• Money centered• Possession centered
• Pleasure centered• Friend/Enemy centered• Church centered• Self centered
• Principle Centered
Write a Personal Mission Statement
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Time Management MatrixN
ot I
mp
orta
nt
Imp
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Urgent Not Urgent
I II
III IV
Activities:CrisesPressing ProblemsDeadline Driven Projects
Activities:Interruptions, some callsSome mail, some reportsSome meetingsProximate, pressing mattersPopular activities
Activities:Prevention, PC activitiesRelationship buildingRecognizing new opportunitiesPlanning, recreation
Activities:Trivia, busy workSome mailSome phone callsTime wastersPleasant activities
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Six Paradigms of Human Interaction
• Win
• Win/lose
• Lose/Win
• Lose/Lose
• Win/Win
• Win/Win or No Deal
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Habit # 5
Seek First to Understand,
Then to be Understood
Dr. Scott W. KunkelUniversity of San Diego
PhysicalExercise, NutritionStress Management
Social/EmotionalService, Empathy
Synergy, Intrinsic Security
MentalReading, Visualizing
Planning, Writing
SpiritualValue Clarification
& Commitment, Study & Meditation