Glee All Break Up Scenes

O https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VW2EjGwgs08

Break- Ups

Glee - Finchel Break-Up Scene | Goodbye

O https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L4CWcc-t5GY

Reasons Why People Break Up

Many different reasons…

O Grow apart.O Change your mind or feeling about the

other person.O Don’t enjoy being together anymore.O Argue too much.O Don’t want the same things.O Develop feelings for someone else.O Decide you don’t want a serious

relationship.

Breaking Up is Hard to Do

You may ask yourself questions like:O “Will things get better?”O “Should I give it another chance?”O “Will I regret this decision?”

You may need time to think about it…but make sure you think things through so you’re clear with yourself on why you want to break up. Then act.

Glee Break- Up SceneO https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=

avk_MZ2Fi1Y

Breaking up over text.

O Agree or Disagree?

O Why?

Toxic People: How to End a Bad Relationship

O https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPwck0EQkgs

How to Break Up Respectfully

Break Up Do’s & Don’ts

O Keep in mind one size does not fit all…

DO!O Think over what you want and

why you want it. Even if the other person might be hurt by your decision, it’s OK to do what is right for you. Just be sensitive.

O Think about what you’ll say and how the other person might react.

O Have good intentions.

O Be honest- not brutal.

O Say it in person.

O If it helps, confide in someone you trust.

DON’T!O Don’t avoid the other person or the

conversation you need to have. You never want the person you’re breaking up with to hear it from someone else before hearing it from you.

O Don’t rush into a difficult conversation without thinking it through.

O Don’t disrespect.

What to Say & How to Say It

1. Tell your BF or GF that you want to talk about something important.

2. Start by mentioning something you like or value about the other person.

3. Say what’s not working.4. Say you want to break up.5. Say you’re sorry if this hurts.6. Say something kind or positive.7. Listen to what the other person wants to

say. 8. Give the person space.

How do you think relationships can help us learn?

Tell me what you think?

Relationships Help Us Learn

O Each relationship has special meaning and value.

O Teach us something about ourselves, another person, and what we want and need in a future partner.

O Chance to learn to care about another person and experience being cared about.

O Builds our skills with being honest and kind during conversations.

Expectations Vs. Reality

O https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQb_zGR-ap8

O https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXy8_ZX2W3k

Healthiest ways to get over a break up

O Let it OutO Share your feelings. O Don’t be afraid to cry.

Healthiest ways to get over a break up

O Be Kind to Yourself.O Remember what’s good about you.O Take good care of yourself.O Do the things you normally enjoy.O Keep yourself busy.O Give yourself time.

How to leave and abusive relationship

O https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lwNr0eQmmuI

Turning Adversity Into Opportunity

O http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/blog/turning-adversity-into-opportunity-interview-with-kathy-eldon/