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Editor-in-Chief + Owner + Staff Writer:Liana Measmer
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Staff Writer:Jenn Gervais
Contributing Columnists:Paul AbregoTodd DellaportaNora FioreDave GagliardiSandra GirouxKathy LynchAttorney Jennifer O’BrienBrian PanareseJeff ParentiColleen SgroiPat Zapert
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JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2010VOLUME 2, NUMBER 1
Contents3 Folk Tales on Canvas Artist Colleen Sgroi paints a story into every work of art, especially in her
most recent creation, “Love is All Th ere is.”
6 Love Letters from The Heart Two couples married 50 years share what works–and what doesn’t–
in keeping their marriages strong and vital
14 Robert Calabrese Remembered Billerica’s Renaissance Man Hero, Soulmate, Master, Friend. Although missed, he left a legacy of
laughter and generosity behind for which he will never be forgotten
22 Moving Hearts Toward Hope Christian Singer/Songwriter Julie Kinscheck shares her journey through grace
24 Tackling the Great Imitator: Lyme Disease 2009 was a pivotal year in the treatment of this chronic illness
• By Jenn Gervais
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In this edition:The Sunny Side of The StreetFamily MattersDave SaysCourt’s In SessionGreen HandymanNotes from General SoundVoice of the ArtistIt’s Better Than You Think
Will AchievePet PeevesPower from WithinTeacher’s CornerThe Body EliteMaking CentsOut on the TownThe PlaygroundBusiness to Business
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Liana Measmerliana@thebillericagreen.com
Well, actually, a few weeks ago. We have been a third-week-of-the-month
publication but we are moving up to a second week. We threw EVERYONE
off this month (so don’t feel bad). But that’s how we do things here at Th e
Green. We like to keep people on their toes.
Well, looking back, Family First Night was a big success. I was so excited
to drive into Town Hall’s parking lot and NOT be able to fi nd a parking
space! Th e crafts were fun. Th e hot dogs were yummy. And the Cat in Th e
Hat looked great. Everyone looked like they were having a great time. I
know we were.
So, WHY are we talking about Valentine’s Day so early? Well, it will be
here before you know it. We decided to theme this edition about-yup, you
guessed it: L-O-V-E. Loving your kids. Loving your partner. Loving your
spouse. Loving your dog. Loving your self. We talked to two couples who
have made it work for more than 50 years. Our columnists shared their
tips on how to incorporate love into your daily life. We paid tribute to a
BMOC-Big Man on Campus- who left a void for many in June. Dr. Robert
J. Calabrese was remembered as generous and thoughtful and is due to be
honored at the upcoming Team Trivia Challenge. Read what those closest to
him had to say. We previewed some upcoming events you’ll want to mark on
your calendar--Team Trivia Challenge, Th e Sweetheart Dance, Th e Billerica
Spelling Bee. Plus, the Out on Th e Town section is overfl owing this month
with lots of other things to do-check it out!
As usual, thanks to our team. Tony
had his Art Gallery Opening Reception. It
was a roaring success and his art will be at
BATV until the end of the month in case
you couldn’t make it. Our columnists
were still recovering from the holiday and
getting back in gear so a few of them are missing this month. But not
to worry! Th ey will be back in the groove for the next edition. Media News
continues to be helpful which we so appreciate.
Remember to follow us on Facebook. We post good news on a regular
basis. Join the Billerica Green group and get the scoop before anyone else.
As usual, please share your feedback with us-good or bad. We want to make
Th e Billerica Green the best it can be. If you want or need news or event
coverage, contact us at 978-808-2361 or at liana@thebillericagreen.com. We
are still looking for senior writers and kid contributors.
Be well, Billerica...And stay warm!
Your Editor,
LETTER FROM THE EDITOR
DIDN’T WE JUST GET OUR BILLERICA GREEN?
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By Liana Measmer
It was March 6 at 3:30 pm. Artist Colleen
Sgroi of Colleen Sgroi Art Gallery and
Classes made the fi nal stroke on her ‘Orchard
House’ painting. Th is painting depicted the
historical home of famed author Louisa May
Alcott. Alcott was best remembered for her
book, ‘Little Women’.
Sgroi had glanced at her watch, which
was very unlike her and noted the time. Being
pleased with her work, she put down the
brush. Later that evening she was gathering
all the information she had downloaded off
the web about Alcott when she came across
one sheet describing the author’s life. On it
was listed Alcott’s day and time of death:
March 6 at 3:30 pm.
“I was amazed to fi nd that 113 years
later, to the exact time, I had fi nished this
painting of her home,” said Sgroi.
Th is is only one of the many stories that
Sgroi can tie to her art work. Sgroi, a Billerica
native, has been drawing since she was a child.
As an adolescent, she studied Graphic and
Commercial Arts at Shawsheen Vocational
Technical High School and graduated with
honors. She became a graphic artist until she
had her family. Th en in 1988, she returned
full time to painting professionally, which
was around the time she learned about folk
art. Sgroi has painted folk art as well as
taught it in her gallery, which she opened
eight years ago.
“I like teaching folk art because it leaves
a wide range for people to discover their own
style and talent,” said Sgroi.
Another favorite tale happened seven
years ago when a Bostonian purchased a
piece of her art and had no idea how it
would change her child’s life. Th is woman
had an autistic son who refused to eat.
Every day was a struggle and the mother
grew more and more concerned. Th en one
day, she happened to purchase one of Sgroi’s
paintings, of a bowl of fruit. She brought it
home and hung it in her kitchen. At the next
meal, her son looked at the art work and
began to eat. Every meal afterward, he ate
with no problem. If the mother took the art
work away, he would not eat. It became such
an important tool at meal time that the mom
began to take the painting with her wherever
they went so her son would eat his meals.
She never knew who Sgroi was until Sgroi’s
brother, a Boston building inspector, came
to the door and noticed the painting. Th e
mother begged him to tell Sgroi how grateful
she was for the positive impact her art had
on her family.
“We never know as artists how we will
touch lives,” said Sgroi.
Although she paints realism too, many
of Sgroi’s popular pieces are folk art styled
and include town and village scenes or
depictions. She did a special piece a few
years ago commemorating Billerica’s 350th
anniversary which was a popular sell. At the
end of 2009, Sgroi completed her newest
folk art piece titled “Love is all there is”.
In it, Sgroi hides numerous little hearts
in the various scenes of people on a beach
or walking over a bridge. Th ere is even a
bandstand remarkably similar to the one in
our town common.
Th e inspiration for this piece interestingly
came from watching her children open
Christmas gifts. Her daughter opened a pair
of sunglasses with lenses shaped like hearts.
Sgroi thought it was interesting and made
the connection of looking at life through the
eyes of love.
“Th e message in the painting is if we look
around us, we’ll see love,” said Sgroi. “We
need to decide what we want to see.”
Sgroi’s art has gone all over the world
as well as stayed local. Some of her fans
include Congressman Martin Meehan,
Representative Bill Greene, and Marc
LeBlanc from the sitcom, “Friends”. Th is
year, four of her pieces depicting hope and
inspiration will be hung in a cancer center
in a large Boston hospital. Th ese particular
pieces art exhibits hope, peace, and serenity
and for Sgroi, she’s thankful, which is a
sentiment she is no stranger to.
“Gratitude is the memory of the heart,”
wrote Sgroi as she described one of her
paintings, Th ankful Memories.
In preparation for Valentine’s Day, Sgroi
will be holding an art class for making heart
felt cards. She is calling it Create Love Day
and it will be held on Feb. 4, from 7 - 8:30
pm. For more information, call Sgroi at
978-667-1009 or visit her website at www.
colleensgroi.com.
FOLK TALES ON CANVAS: SGROI PAINTS A STORY INTO EVERY WORK OF ART
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READ WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT THE BILLERICA GREEN!
I am made in the image of God. Th erefore,
I am a creator like Him. How exciting is that!
As an artist it gives me freedom to create my
own style of painting. But, what about how
I create love?
One day, my sweetheart, Rob and I were
driving around having fun, as we usually
do. Th roughout the day he almost always
opened the door for me fi rst before getting
into the car himself. When I told him that I
loved that he did that, he smiled and gave me
some creative love insights. “Tell a guy what
he does that you really love and he will do
it more”. “Guys like to win.” I began to tell
him the little things he does that I love. I got
very specifi c because I fi gured, if this is true,
then I want to massively increase my chances
that he will continue to do these things I love
about him.
I said to Rob: “I like when you open the
door for me and then say, ‘after you darling’.
I love how you say what you want to do and
then stop and look at me and say - ‘want to?’
I like when we are someplace, anyplace, and
you always introduce me. I like that you ask
good questions like, ‘What did you enjoy
today?’ or, when I’m upset you say: ‘Did I do
or say something that lead to that feeling?’ I
love when you randomly reach over, without
even looking at me and gently and lovingly
touch my cheek with the back of your hand.
I enjoy fi nding little notes you left for me. I
smile when I come home to fi nd you have
made the bed.”
Get the picture? He does! He feels loved
and appreciated when I tell him what I like
about how he shows me his love. Th en he
wants to do more of the same and I enjoy
more of his love. It’s wonderful!
Do you ever get stuck on what another
person is not doing and wonder how love
is possible in that moment of frustration?
You may be saying, “He should know what I
want!” Or, “I tell him what I like and I never
get it!” Th is is diff erent, however, than seeing
something your sweetheart does that you like
and telling him how you enjoy it. Do you see
the diff erence? Affi rm what you DO want,
not what you don’t want.
Want to be ready for Valentine’s Day?
Make a card with a list of the little things he
or she does that you love and you will create
love. Come by the gallery and we will make
one together on Create Love Day, Th ursday,
Feb. 4 @ 7 to 8:30 pm (call for more info)
Colleen is a teaching artist at Colleen Sgroi Gallery and Art Classes on 12 Andover Road, Billerica, MA www.ColleenSgroi.com (978) 667-1009 email Colleen@ColleenSgroi.com
CREATE LOVE
The Voice of the Artist•By Colleen Sgroi
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Kinds of insurance Dave recommends?
Dear Dave,I’ve got auto insurance, but can you tell
me what other kinds of insurance are good to have?– Chris
Dear Chris,
Th e purpose of insurance is to transfer
risk. Specifi cally, I’m talking about risk
that you can’t aff ord to take. Most people
can’t aff ord to have a heart attack and triple
bypass surgery. Having to pay for something
like that completely out of pocket would
bankrupt just about anyone. Th at’s why
health insurance is a vital part of any good
fi nancial plan.
It’s also important to have auto and
homeowner’s insurance. If you don’t own a
home, make sure you have renter’s insurance
instead. Don’t forget about life insurance,
either. If you’re married or have kids, you
should carry eight to 10 times your yearly
income in a good, 15- or 20-year level term
life insurance policy. Th is means if you make
$40,000, you should have about $400,000
wrapped up in life insurance.
Long-term disability insurance is vital.
Th e cheapest way to get this is in a group. If
you buy it yourself, out on the open market,
you’ll fi nd that the rates are based more on
your occupation than your age or health. So,
if you fl y a desk, it’ll be a lot cheaper than if
you work with your hands.
And don’t forget long-term care insurance.
You need “nursing home insurance” if you’re
60 or older. It will also take care of you in
your own home. Th e statistical probability of
needing it before age 60 is about one percent,
so wait until then to buy long-term care
insurance. Th is kind of insurance can make
sure you get the kind of care you want in
your declining years. Plus, it can keep your
nest egg with you and your family and out of
the hands of the nursing home!
– Dave
No credit score, no mortgage?
Dear Dave,I’ve never had a credit card or a bank loan,
so I really don’t have any established credit. What should I do when it comes to a cell phone contract or establishing utility service? Also, what will happen if I try to get a mortgage loan at some point?– Matthew
Dear Matthew,
Th ere’s usually no exception on cell
phone contracts or utility service. Chances
are you’ll have to put up the deposit, and
you’ll probably get it back in six months or
maybe a year from now. I still run into this
kind of thing from time to time. It’s almost
like you don’t exist if you don’t have debt and
a credit rating.
Th e mortgage lending rules are changing
almost daily at this point. Under the current
rules, there are two ways to be in a great
position to get a home loan. One is to have
credit running out of your ears and a huge
FICO score. Th is is pretty stupid when you
think about it, but it will get you a home
loan almost instantly. Th e second is to have
no credit whatsoever. So, it’s really the people
in the middle who are feeling the pinch.
When you have no credit, the lender
has to do the underwriting themselves. It’s
something banks used to do, back when they
actually had some sense when it came to
making loans. Th ey take a look to see if you
have a stable job and a decent income. Th ey’ll
probably want some kind of proof that you
pay your bills on time, and this could be as
simple as showing them a few electric bills
and other receipts to show that you honor
your fi nancial commitments.
– Dave
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PUTTING THE OTHER PERSON FIRST. BEING THE BEST OF
FRIENDS. NEVER GIVING UP TOO QUICKLY. COMMUNICATING,
COMMUNICATING, COMMUNICATING. SAVING MONEY. JOINING
CAUSES YOU BELIEVE IN TOGETHER. When these couples who have stayed strong meet newlyweds,
they are all too happy to share the tricks of the trade for a solid
relationship. Married for over 50 years, the Windhams and the
Clements never allowed time and distance to tear down the
bonded lives they worked so hard to build. How did they do it? By
remembering that no matter what, love is always the answer.
a love that’s bigger than usGrowing up in Columbus, Mississippi, Nathaniel Windham was
an only child. He described himself as a kid who needed to entertain
himself and thus, had to learn how to socialize. Little did he know
that he would go on to meet the only person on the planet who
would be able to get him out of his shell.
Joan (Kennedy) Windham was growing up in Billerica with her
four siblings and her mother after her parents divorced, something
unheard of in the 1950’s. But this did not phase her since everyone
in the home was so close.
“We had each other” said Joan.
When Nathaniel and Joan met, Nathaniel was stationed in
Fort Devens, Massachusetts. He was a Marine in a corps that was
heading to Europe for a secret mission. One chilly evening over the
holidays, Nathaniel was invited by a military instructor to join him,
his girlfriend and her best friend to dinner. Nathaniel didn’t argue.
“He told me to just get into the car,” Nathaniel chuckled.
Th at best friend was Joan. Th e couple had a nice time and made
arrangements to see each other again. Soon after, Nathaniel had to
break the news to Joan that he was being sent oversees to Europe.
Although it was hard, they agreed to keep in touch. Many love
letters were exchanged over those next two years when Nathaniel
was away and their love blossomed. Th ey spoke of getting engaged
and someday getting married. Th ey talked about all the things that
were going on in their families, especially the fact that Nathaniel’s
mother was dying of cancer.
Th e couple’s families each accepted them both lovingly. It was
because of this that Joan got the call from Nathaniel’s father letting
her know a visit was in order since Nathaniel’s mother probably
would not make it past the holiday season that following year. Joan
visited, met Nathaniel’s parents and reported back to her future
husband what she saw.
It was four months later in April 1959 that his mother’s doctor
called overseas and Nathaniel was on a plane home two hours later.
He made it back to Mississippi in record time after meeting a bus
driver who knew his mother and whisked him to the hospital. When
he saw her, he knew it wasn’t good. He called Joan and asked her to
come and marry him, as it was the one wish of his dying mother.
Joan scrambled. Th e couple had no money and her family helped
her. She found a holiday dress to wear and got an airplane ticket. Her
mother provided the consent since, although legal age to marry in
Massachusetts, she was too young in Mississippi.
It was at his mother’s bedside, with a Methodist minister
offi ciating, and Nathaniel’s friends Granville Watson and his
girlfriend, Anne standing up for them, that the young couple
exchanged their wedding vows. Joan was sure they were the only
ones in the room but she was pleasantly surprised.
“When I turned around, all the patients and hospital staff were
standing behind us,” Joan said teary-eyed.
After the ceremony, the couple had a gathering at Nathaniel’s
aunt’s home, where the couple
spent the next few days together.
A week later, Nathaniel was
shipped back out to fi nish his
line of duty in Europe with
his Marine corp unit. Joan
returned to Billerica to await
her man’s return.
Following an injury,
Nathaniel returned to the
states one year later, fi nishing
his tenure in the military
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for good. Th e couple moved to Mississippi where they started
their family. Nathaniel worked in a dairy and Joan stayed home
to care for the couple’s three children. Sandra was born in 1961,
Regina was born in 1962, and Mark was born in 1964. Th e couple
reminisced that life moved a little slower in the south than here
in New England. It wasn’t until 1971 that the couple returned to
Billerica to put down their roots.
Even though they were busy with Nathaniel’s work schedule,
fi rst in building supplies and then as a crane operator, the couple
still managed to take time for their family. Th ey invested in a family
camper and would take camping trips to Hampton Beach and
Plum Island on the New Hampshire seacoast. Th eir home was the
house all the neighborhood children congregated at. Th eir church
life at St. Th eresa’s parish was active for all fi ve of them. Later on,
their son Mark went on to the Marine corp and was enlisted in the
same unit his father served decades before. Nathaniel clearly bursts
at the seams with pride every time he tells this story, knowing he
passed on his love of the military to his child. It’s these experiences
that have kept this couple madly in love with each other all these
years.
“Every time I look at her, that’s my celebration,” said
Nathaniel.
always there for each otherLiving in a small town has its perks as well as its downfalls. For
starters, everyone knows everyone. Th is can be a very good thing.
Bill and Karen Clement found this out growing up in Getzville,
New York, a rural suburb of Buff alo.
Th ree years her senior, Karen knew of Bill when she was in
elementary school. Th ey went to a three room school and saw each
other daily. As a teen, Karen was in a sorority when she asked Bill
to be her date to an annual formal. Bill, having grown up a self
described loner and a student of an all-boys vocational high school,
was too afraid to respond to the request.
“I did not have a lot of experience with girls,” smiled Bill.
It wasn’t until later during a group date arranged by Bill’s best
friend, Ted, that the couple were together, enjoying each other’s
company at a drive in movie. Bill was impressed by Karen and they
started dating each other.
“We really hit it off ,” said Karen.
Th ey dated while fi nishing school. Bill was in the naval reserves
and went into active duty in 1956. He was stationed in Niagara
Falls, NY and then went onto naval training in Oklahoma and
Tennessee. Th e couple maintained contact through
writing to each other almost daily. Karen remembers
letters arriving at least three times a week and
happily reports that she has saved every single one
all these years.
“It seemed like there were letters all the time,”
she said.
It was in 1957, on Christmas Eve, that Bill
asked Karen to marry him. She joyfully accepted.
Th ey made no plans to marry initially but two
weeks later when Bill got news he would be
stationed in New Orleans, he asked Karen to
have their ceremony immediately. He did not
want to leave without her.
Karen and her family made all the
arrangements. She borrowed a pink bridesmaid
dress and planned a dinner at a relatives
restaurant. On February 22, she walked down
the aisle with her dad at St. Paul’s Lutheran
Church in
Egger t sv i l l e ,
NY to
exchange vows
with Bill. Th e
next day, they
took all their
be long ings
p a c k e d
into Bill’s
1956 Ford
convertible
and headed
to New
Orleans.
Th e base in Louisiana
was new and still under
construction. Th ere were
no barracks for married
couples so Bill and Karen
stayed in a motel for a
week. After looking at
homes and apartments,
they opted to purchase a
trailer, where they stayed
six years and two girls,
Christine and Elaine,
later.
After eight years in
the service, the couple
returned to the Buff alo
area and purchased a summer cottage which they months
winterizing. Th ey were only there for a short time when Bill was
laid off and ultimately found work with Honeywell working
with computers in Wellesley, MA. He found a home for them
in Billerica. Karen joined him in 1965 and their third daughter,
Lynda, was born the following year.
When they were apart, they missed each other and made every
eff ort to be together. Creating family traditions were key. Th ey
loved to go camping and even made trips back to New Orleans.
Th anksgiving was always spent in Buff alo with extended relatives.
In the 1970’s, Karen got her Master’s degree and become a Certifi ed
Public Accountant. Bill decided that computers were not for him
and took an apprentice course in boat building. He went on to
have a successful boat building and repair business.
Th e couple attributes the success of their relationship to their fi rst
six years together. Th ey were on their own, away from the physical
support of their parents and developed their independence.
“Right from the beginning, it was sink or swim,” said Karen.
“We had to do it together.”
sage adviceTh e common theme the Clements and the Windhams shared
for marital bliss was mutual respect and unselfi shness. Th ey stressed
the need to communicate and share everything openly as well as
honestly. Th ey pointed out that commitment is hard but couples
should hang in there even through the tough times. Going to
church and volunteering together has kept them and their families
close. It was through their own early lessons about life that these
couples went on to build the solid foundations which made their
marriages stand the test of time.
Here’s what
THIS generation
is saying on Facebook...
“My parents just celebrated
their 50th this year. They are
not hi-tech as most people are
these days. Actually, my Dad
can’t go anywhere without my
Mom. My sister & brother-in-
law just celebrated their 30th
this year as well. My family is
very old-fashion and believe
in the whole until death due
us part”
– Steph Jodoin,
Burlington, VT
“Love is a verb not just a feel-
ing. It takes daily work work
and eff ort. Spending time
together. Romantic and plain
old just us time”
– Andrea Kleiner,
Hudson, NH
“I think it takes good face
to face communication to
deal with issues. I fi nd these
days with my dating experi-
ence that people rely too
much on email and texting
- it’s a sure fi re way to kill a
relationship - so much gets
taken out of context and
messages misconstrued.
That’s my take on how high
tech communication tools
can be improperly used”
– Sharon Dingle,
Reading, MA
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It wasn’t supposed to be like this. For
Eileen Ralske, her husband Norman’s
advanced Dementia came on too rapidly at
a time of their lives when retirement dreams
included travel and relaxation. Instead, within
a short two year span, Eileen was staying up
all night because Norman would not sleep
four nights per week, and expended all her
energy attempting to keep him safe. Today,
he is a resident at Billerica Crossing Harbor
Memory Care Unit and Eileen knows he is
well cared for.
“I am so pleased,” said Eileen. “I feel that
he is going to thrive here.”
Opened in December, Harbor has 12
apartments available with the capability to
house up to 16 residents. What the staff
at Harbor have found is there tends to be
an immediacy to move residents in when
families come to tour.
“Sometimes the need happens quickly,”
said Linda Durkin, Executive Director of
Billerica Crossings.
It may be the assumption of most that
Alzheimer’s or Dementia are generally slow
and progressive. What can happen is the
person deteriorates at an accelerated pace. For
Norman Ralske, he had been an accomplished
physician who worked until he was 80 years
old. Upon examination, his doctors believe
that he suff ered from mini-strokes over his
later life time and this impacted his brain
function. At 82, post retirement, Norman
lost his sense of direction. He could not fi nish
sentences, or attend to personal hygiene. He
even struggled with getting dressed. Eileen
spent every waking moment at his side,
ensuring his safety and getting him to all his
various appointments.
“It was exhausting,” she said.
What drew Eileen to Harbor was the
caring staff . She had met Community
Relations Director, Charles Sterling, and
was struck by how genuinely concerned he
was for Norman’s well being. When Norman
was hospitalized prior to moving in, Sterling
would call Eileen periodically to check in on
Norman’s condition. Eileen felt that if the
staff were so concerned for him before he
stepped foot in the building, Norman would
be well cared for once he arrived.
In addition to a secure, safe space,
Harbor off ers activities which are aimed at
maintaining a sense of routine and normalcy
for residents. Harbor Program Director,
Jane Guertin, reads through lengthy
questionnaires provided by families that help
her to determine what were the things the
residents did in their everyday life. Th en she
seeks to replicate those experiences to bring
a sense of familiarity to them. If a resident
is good with numbers, a cooking class using
measurements may be off ered. If they enjoyed
the outdoors, then they will get the chance
to take in some gardening this spring.
“We provide opportunities for them to
feel successful,” said Guertin.
One aspect which is new is staffi ng based
on need not just numbers. In the past, there
were a set number of aides available but
now, based on the acuteness of the residents’
conditions, it will be determined how many
staff will be present to care for them. Th is is
reviewed weekly and adjusted as necessary.
“We are now able to fl uctuate our number
of aides based on need,” said Durkin.
To educate any potential resident or
their families about Alzheimer’s, Billerica
Crossings will be hosting “Th e Heart of Th e
Caregiver”. Th is workshop will be held on
Wednesday, Jan. 20 at Billerica Crossings
on 20 Chanstaff e Lane and will feature
presenter and author Beverly Moore. Moore
is a registered nurse and has written the book,
“Matters of the Mind...and Heart “. She
also owns “StilMee”, a Alzheimer coaching
agency. Refreshments will be served at 5:30
pm and the presentation will commence at
6 pm. Tours of the Harbor Unit will also
be available. For more information or to
RSVP, contact Billerica Crossings at 978-
667-0898 or visit their website at www.
benchmarkquality.com.
JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE: HARBOR UNIT OFFERS DIGNITY TO RESIDENTS
10 / thebillericagreen.com / January-February 2010
L is for the way you Look at me…
I looked online for an acceptable list of
the top 10 love songs of all time. What I
found was the usual vanilla, played to death,
classic stuff . Sure, “Wonderful Tonight” and
“Always and Forever” have their place in
American hearts but as a 20 year veteran DJ,
I decided to make my own list.
O is for the Only one I see…
It is diffi cult for me to be impartial
when picking a great love song. Many of
my personal favorites are forever connected
to special occasions in my past. Th at’s why
music is so awesome. It has a way of creating
a soundtrack to our memories whether
intentional or not. Putting all that aside,
why not check out the following “Top 10”
love songs (in random order) provided by
yours truly, DJ Todd from General Sound
Entertainment. Th ese songs are slightly
more obscure ballads that will have you
instinctively reaching for your partners hand
and asking the DJ, “Who does this song?”
(You can visit the ITunes store and
preview them for free).
V is Very very extraordinary…
“My Valentine” by Martina McBride, “I
Never saw a Miracle” by Curtis Stigers, “Can
I take you out Tonight?” by Luther Vandross,
“I Love You” by Climaxx Blues Band, “At
Last” by Etta James, “Ribbon in the Sky”
by Stevie Wonder, “Don’t Want to Miss a
Th ing” by Aerosmith, “I Cross my Heart”
by George Strait, “Colour my World” by
Chicago, and “It’s Your Love” by Faith Hill
and Tim McGraw.
E is Even more than anyone that you adore…
Some other easy listening this Valentine’s
Day can be found on the recent CDs from
two songbirds with local ties. “Take Love
Easy” is a release from Cathy Nardone. Th e
tracks are smooth and well done representing
several diff erent styles of music from the
bouncy latin-styled “Long Ago and Far
Away” to the soulful title track.
A regular at Joseph’s Winter St. Café
in Newburyport, Nardone sang in a show
called “Lunch with Lily and the Ladies”, a
fundraiser for the Boston women’s shelter
Rosie’s Place. Another local artist, Kimberly
Keating, whose musical talent centers around
the swinging jazz tunes of Frank Sinatra and
more contemporary rhythm and blues, has
released an album entitled “Overjoyed”.
I love her “jazz voice” and found her
interpretations to be a very similar style to
that of Cathy Nardone. For a real treat check
out her version of the Billy Joel classic, “New
York State of Mind”.
Before I go, I’d like to wish my best friend
a Happy 22nd Valentines Anniversary and
let her know…”You’re all I need my love, my
Valentine!”
General Sound Entertainment has been providing clean, upbeat entertainment for the people of Billerica for almost two decades! To inquire about quality entertainment, Videography or Photography for your next event he can be reached at 508-572-6880, on the web at www.generalsound.com, or by email at info@generalsound,com
L-O-V-E AND MUSIC
Notes from General Sound•By Todd Dellaporta
Th e Bodacious Ladies of Billerica
(Red Hat Chapter) ran their 5th annual
Christmas party. Several chapters of the
Red Hat Society from Billerica, Nashua,
Andover, Wakefi eld, Lexington, Tewksbury
and Burlington attended the event. Approx
90 Ladies attended and each brought a
gift to be donated to the House of Hope
in Lowell. Th e gifts were delivered to the
House of Hope by Virginia McGrath, queen
mother of the Bodacious ladies. Th e Red Hat
Society is made up
of ladies over 50
who enjoy going
out, dressing up,
having fun , as
well as always
ready to donate
to charity.
RED HAT LADIES HOUSE OF HOPE GIFTSGive your pup a safe space in his fi rst few
days at home
A crate gives your puppy a safe, comfy
place for resting and chewing on toys.
Introduce your puppy to his new crate by
making it a predictor of yummy surprises:
•When your pup isn’t watching, place one
of his favorite treats (the smellier the better)
right inside the crate. Let him discover it on
his own. After he eats it, repeat, placing each
new treat gradually closer to the back of the
crate.
•Sneak occasional treats or bits of kibble
into the crate to promote regular puppy
inspections.
By Sandra Brigham, Trainer and Behavior Consultant. Sandra is the owner of Train Up Th at Pup! You can reach her at 978-436-0318.
YOUR NEW PUPPY
Owner Wade Winters with Town
manager John Curran, Selectman
Bob Correnti, and Selectman Mike
Rosa on Jan. 8 following his ribbon
cutting ceremony.
Although not new, the 24 hour gym
concept is somewhat of a rarity in Billerica.
Residents have been accustomed to having
staff present while working out. Now,
they can be lifting weights or running on
the treadmill at 3 am, monitored only by
someone at the other end of a surveillance
camera. Can this be considered safe?
During their ribbon cutting celebration on
Jan. 8, Anytime Fitness Owner Wade Winters
said yes. Winters has ensured that the most
innovative and secure surveillance equipment
is installed in his bright, modern facility at
99 Chelmsford Road, right alongside his
new equipment. Anytime Fitness, with 1100
gyms nationwide, has been successful doing
business this way since 2002.
After hours, when a member wants to use
the gym, they enter using their key fob. Once
inside, they pass by a tailgate at the front
door which records how many people pass.
Th is lets the staff know if anyone without
membership tried to gain entry.
Th ere are eight cameras positioned
all around the gym, all monitored by Pro-
Vision, a surveillance company with offi ces
nationwide. For the older member, necklaces
with panic buttons are available, should
they need immediate assistance and a 911
telephone is easily accessible. If there is ever
a problem, Pro-Vision calls the local police
department immediately.
Every new member, before starting
their fi tness program, must complete an
orientation. Th is is another way to keep
people safe.
“Each member goes through orientation
to review our policies and equipment,” said
Winters.
Included in the orientation is a personal
training session with trainer Deb Grumbach.
At that time, Grumbach works with the
member to map out a fi tness program as well
as walks them through the proper use of the
equipment.
Winters noted that there are no weights
heavier than 110 pounds and no Olympic
benches. Th is ensures that members don’t get
hurt when they are exercising on their own.
With Star Trac and Max Rack equipment
available, members can also maximize their
workout in a short amount of time, especially
on such machines as the chest, lift, and arm
curl.
“Th ey can get a full body workout just
from these three machines,” Winters pointed
out during a recent tour.
When fi nished, members can use the
individual, private one person locked
bathrooms with shower stalls available.
Anytime Fitness opened for business offi cially
on Jan. 10 and has membership packages
available. For additional information, visit
their web site at www.anytimefi tness.com or
call 978-667-0300. You can also email your
questions to BillericaMA@anytimefi tness.com.
WORK OUT SAFELY ANYTIME: 24 HOUR GYM OFFERS STATE-OF-THE-ART SECURITY
Town Manager John Curran, Lowell
Chamber of Commerce CEO Jeanne
Osborn, Selectman Bob Correnti,
Selectman Mike Rosa, Community
Alliance Executive Director Pat
Zapert, and Economic Development
Coordinator Stephanie Cronin join
Owner Wade Winters and his staff at his
ribbon cutting celebration on Jan. 8.
KIM WILLMOTT PHOTO
CHANGES THAT PAY: MAKE YOUR HOME ECO-FRIENDLYSubmitted By Carol Woods, Woods Real Estate
Edited By Liana Measmer
Households use about a fi fth of the total
energy consumed in the United States each
year and generate 21 percent of the nation’s
carbon dioxide emissions, according to the
US Department of Energy. With growing
concerns about climate change, government
subsidies for renovating existing homes to
a higher standard are rolling out as never
before. Whether homeowners are looking
at extra insulation, new heating equipment,
or even solar panels, it’s easier -- and more
economical -- than ever to lower monthly
utility bills by a third or more. Here’s how
to get started:
1 GET AUDITED:Th e fi rst order of business in improving
energy effi ciency is to set up an energy audit.
Th is is typically a room-by-room inspection,
often with specifi c tests to assess airtightness
and insulation. An audit will “quickly
reveal the weakest link in the chain,” says
Mark Price, a sustainability specialist with
building systems consultants Steven Winter
Associates in Maynard. Often, the priority
is to stop leaking air. “If there’s air leakage,
extra insulation won’t work.”
MassSAVE, a partnership among the
state, energy effi ciency contractors, and utility
companies, off ers free basic energy audits for
homeowners in one- to four-family structures
(masssave.com or 866-527-7283). It will pay
up to $2,000 for weatherization and up to
$1,000 for effi cient gas heating upgrades.
Most state residents already contribute to the
MassSAVE program. “Every utility has what’s
called a conservation charge of $1.50 or $2
per month per customer,” explains program
manager Jerry Hanna. “All of that is thrown
into a pot for energy effi ciency programs.”
2 DITCH OLD APPLIANCES:When it comes to household appliances
that are 10 years old or older, replacing them
with today’s more energy-effi cient models is
money well spent -- and energy saved. (And
new appliances add to the resale value of
the home.) Under a proposal submitted for
federal approval by the state Department of
Energy Resources, Massachusetts residents
could be eligible for $6.2 million in federal
stimulus-funded rebates for exchanging
ineffi cient clothes washers, dishwashers,
refrigerators, and freezers for new Energy
Star versions. If approved, the state rebate
program would begin in late February or
early March.
Energy Star does not rate clothes dryers,
but newer models do come with moisture
sensors that shut off the dryer when clothes
are dry, saving energy and fabric wear and
tear. To really conserve, dry clothes on an
old-fashioned wooden rack or clothesline.
A new Energy Star-labeled dishwasher uses
less than half as much energy as washing by
hand and saves nearly 5,000 gallons of water
a year, according to the government’s Energy
Star website.
Savings can be had for bigger-ticket items
as well. For non-solar water heaters, biomass
stoves, and qualifi ed heating and cooling
equipment purchased this year or next, the
federal government off ers tax credits of 30
percent of the cost, up to $1,500 (energystar.
gov/taxcredits).
3 CONSIDER SOLAR PANELS:Th e federal government is now off ering
a 30 percent tax credit -- without a cap --
for solar panels installed by 2016, as well as
for other improvements such as solar water
heaters and small wind turbines (energystar.
gov/taxcredits).
But will solar work in chilly Massachusetts?
Th e experts say yes. Compared with an
average 5.5 or 6 peak hours of sunshine per
day in the Southwest, New England averages
about 4.5 peak hours per day over the course
of a year, says Robb Aldrich of Steven Winter
Associates, engineer for the solar village in
Greenfi eld. “It’s not as sunny here, but the
sun still shines.”
Source: Aubin Tyler is a freelance writer in Northampton. Send comments to magazine@globe.com. © Copyright 2009 Globe
Newspaper Company.
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Th e home is the rock foundation, the cornerstone of civilization. Th e church, the school and even the nation stands helpless before a weak and degraded home. No nation will rise above its home. ~ Ezra Benson
What is the foundation on which you
base you life on? What is the cornerstone
you can always depend on when you are at
your worst or best? Th e answer for me is
simple and can be summed up in one word.
Family.
Life is chaotic. Between kid’s schedule,
work and responsibilities, do you ever feel
you can’t keep your head above water?
We all feel that way at some point. Don’t
be fooled by those who say they never
get overwhelmed, they are just fooling
themselves.
Th e impact of stress and burnout
on a family can be devastating, causing
resentment, anxiety and my favorite- “the
short fuse”. When any of these symptoms
start to creep into your family life, make
time together to step back and re-evaluate
your life style and commitment to one
another. Your children are watching and
imitating your actions.
Use positive reinforcement as to not
create more stress for your family. Point out
to each other the areas of your relationship
that are running smoothly. We have a rule
in our house “Never go to bed angry. We
can agree to disagree, but at least come to
some resolution.” We also have a plaque
in our house that reads “A kiss goodnight
is one of the sweetest expressions of love I
know in good times or mad.” And, to take
it one step further, this doesn’t just apply to
your spouse, but can apply to children as
well.
Th e next time you feel everything is
overwhelming you, don’t panic or get angry:
plan ahead. A long-range relief strategy
is to recognize what causes the buildup of
pressure. If you see by your calendar that
you are in for a few heavy weeks or too many
late nights, block out some relief time. Th is
might be a half-day, whole day or extended
weekend. Take yourself out of your normal
situation. Place yourself in a situation where
past experience will show that you can
forget what is going on. Th is may mean a
day alone. Or with special ones at the beach
or the mountains, or a weekend away with
just your spouse. It’s a big help if families
discuss their future schedules together to
identify where the overloads are going to
occur and schedule in down time.
A simple immediate solution is to pause,
take a breath and remember: “Families are
the compass that guide us. Th ey are the
inspiration to reach great heights, and our
comfort when we occasionally falter.” ~
Brad Henry
Be patient with yourself. Learning new
ways to cope and breaking old habits takes
time. Remember you are only as strong as
your cornerstone, your family. Th omas
Jeff erson said “Th e happiest moments of
my life have been with the few which I have
passes at home in the bosom of my family.”
HOME IS YOUR ROCK
Family Matters with Ed and Sandy•By Sandra Giroux
Since the topic of this issue is on
“LOVE”, I thought I’d show you how to get
fi t and get hit by Cupid’s arrow. I think there
is nothing better in the world then a couple
with similar health goals. Staying healthy
together is a strong common bond.
Don’t panic if you’re single. I’m not saying
you have to grow old and retire with this
person. But it’s a great idea to stay healthy
and fi t while going out on dates whether
single or married. Even families can go on
active dates!
Th ere are some local groups were singles
do meet to go on adventures such as hike,
skate and dance. Try looking up a local group
in your area. If singles groups are not your
thing, then how about scouting your local
gym? If you are a regular at a gym, you’ll
see the same people in there day after day.
I think it’s sad when people don’t take the
time to interact when they have something
in common. Th ese people are all in the gym
to get in shape so why not try to strike up a
conversation. Of course, don’t bother them
while they exercising with weights or doing
a routine. However, there is nothing better
than having a buddy to talk to while you are
on the Cardio equipment. Time fl ies when
you’re on a treadmill talking to someone who
can carry on an interesting conversation.
Th is activity stimulates your body and your
mind.
After your aerobic workout is fi nished,
ask that person to go on an active date.
By ACTIVE, I mean taking in something
other than a movie (just sitting on your
butt) or hitting the bars (eating snacks and
drinks that are taking you away from your
healthy goals). Let’s forget those standard
dates . . BORING! Why not go ice-skating
at the Hallenborg Arena? How about taking
in a swim at the Boys and Girls Club? Do
you know they open the Burlington Mall
early so people can walk around the inside
for exercise? Th ere are nature walkways
all around the surrounding communities.
Look them up on the web and fi nd the right
person to go with. Th ese active dates can be
done morning, noon or night.
After you’ve expended some calories
and feel good, hit up a local eatery for some
healthy food. Following exercise, it’s proper
to revitalize your body with nutrients.
A good combination would be a 50-50
protein-carb meal with some veggies and lots
of water. Skip the alcoholic beverages. Th ey
are just empty calories that will negate the
exercise you just performed. A good choice
would be a boneless breast of chicken with
a cup of rice or small baked potato. A salad
with light dressing will fi ll the void along
with a tall mug of ice water with fresh lemon
slices. Th is recipe will work wonders and put
a spark under ‘Ole Cupid. I hope you give
it a try for 2010 and may all your dates be
active ones.
Brian Panarese, B.S. owns Th e Body Elite Professional Fitness Training Company and has been a Professional Trainer for 33 years. If you have a fi tness related question please e-mail him at Body.Elite@verizon.net
FINDING LOVE IN FITNESS
The Body Elite•By Brian Panarese, B.S. Professional Fitness Trainer
Billerica Cat Care Coalition
Recently, the Billerica Cat Care
Coalition (BCCC) was contacted, via
our website, about a situation even
our Animal Control Department did
not hear about. Upon investigation,
BCCC volunteers discovered more
than 20 Siamese, Himalayan and
other types of cats and kittens,
including 3 newborns, inside an attic
wall. Th ey were all left behind when
their owner was foreclosed on.
Th e cats were jumping in and
out of a basement window and were
being fed by some kind neighbors.
None of the cats were spayed or
neutered. Th ey were living in fi lthy
conditions. Some were sick but
have since received medication to
help them get better. One cat even
gave birth to 3 kittens after she was
trapped. Th ough BCCC’s main
mission is Trap/Neuter/Return
(TNR) of feral (wild) cats, we were
able to step in and help rescue the
felines, including getting them
spayed or neutered and placed in
foster care. Had BCCC not stepped
in, this growing cat situation would
have turned into a more disastrous
situation by allowing more kittens
to be born into this situation, all
of whom would have become feral,
leaving them with no place to go.
Th anks to the hard work of
BCCC volunteers, our fellow rescue
organizations and our donors who
help support BCCC’s eff orts, all of
the cats and kittens’ lives were saved.
Th ey were removed to healthy and
loving situations.
If you have a neighbor who is not
spaying or neutering their animals,
please contact Animal Control or
send an e-mail to BCCC’s website.
We can provide information on low-
cost spays or neuters for pets, as well
as provide services for TNR of feral
cats. Spaying or neutering prevents
overpopulation issues, such as the
situation described above. Th is
helps prevent an animal from facing
euthanasia, through no fault of its
own.
If you would like to contribute
to our Good Samaritan Fund,
please visit our website. You can pay
via Paypal or by sending a check
to: BCCC, P.O. Box 141, North
Billerica, MA 01862. If you would
like more information about how
you can help a feral cat, adopt or
volunteer to further BCCC’s no-kill
movement, please visit our website
at: www.billericacatcarecoalition.
org. Many thanks to those of you
who help those who cannot speak
for themselves. Happy New Year!
BILLERICA FORECLOSURE JEOPARDIZES CATS AND KITTENS
By Joan Parcewski
Th is year’s Health Fair will have a new location, new sponsoring
organizations, and some new vendors. Th e Billerica Lions Club
and the Billerica Lodge of Elks are partnering to host the “Billerica
Health and Wellness Fair”. By adding “wellness” to the theme, the
Lions and Elks are looking to add participation by more alternative
groups - i.e. reiki, acupuncture, nutritionists, wellness experts and
the like.
Th e date is Saturday, April 10 from 10am to 2pm at the
Billerica Lodge of Elks. Th e cost is $25 per table space (table and
table cover provided) and food will be provided at a nominal cost
on site for all vendors.
We will be using both the large and small halls at the Elks.
Th e smaller hall will be reserved for activities such as Reiki,
Acupuncture, and brief seminars (10 - 15 minutes).
If you are a business in the health or wellness fi eld (no
insurance companies please) and are interested in participating,
please contact Annette Presseau at stitchlady.netti46@yahoo.com
or contact us through our new Facebook group “Billerica Health
and Wellness Fair”. Joining the group allows for receiving updated
new information and the list of vendors as they sign on.
HEALTH FAIR IS SEEKING VENDORS
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It seems that each year, some men are at
a loss when it comes to just the right gift to
give their respective loved one on Valentines
Day. Truth be told, some are at so much of
a loss that they keep putting it off until they
have completely forgotten about Valentines
Day. It’s only that they hear someone at work
talking about it that they suddenly realize
Valentines Day is TODAY! It’s too late to get
to a fl orist and there aren’t that many candy
shops around.
So, they hit the grocery store around
5pm. Only then do they realize that all of
the Valentines candy is long gone and the
only fl owers left look as if they were left over
from last year. Th e cards are at a premium
too. Th e ones left have a picture of a duck
swimming among the cat-o-nine tails and says
something like “Have A Ducky Valentines
Day”. Figuring they are in trouble, they
stand in the card aisle staring off into space
trying to come up with an excuse they think
their wives will buy into when suddenly hey
hear an announcement suggesting a unique
Valentines gift. A lobster! Th is is when they
end up coming to me and I love it.
Now you have to understand that the
marketing genius who came up with the
idea that a lobster would be an excellent
Valentines gift were “guyz”. Th ey never took
into consideration that the only ones who
would buy into this notion, other “guyz”,
would not understand the follow through
necessary when giving a living crustacean as
a gift. Th ey never thought that dopey would
go home and say “Honey, look what I got
you for Valentines Day. Now let me tell you
how I want mine cooked.” Th is man will
very shortly welcome death.
Now it just so happened that last year, I
had a gentleman who had sense enough to
ask if we steamed the lobsters for people. I
told him that we did and told him that it
would take about 30 minutes. He said that
would be too long and asked me why I
couldn’t just microwave them. Apparently, he
hadn’t graduated Cum Laude from Johnson
and Wales. I told him that micro waving
was not an option and that it would be like
putting a cat in a microwave. I am not sure
he understood.
So, before Valentines Day sneaks up on
you, consider this. If you are waiting for one
particular day to let someone know that you
love and appreciate them, you don’t get it. If
you have to empty out fl ower stores, candy
shops and card stores just to show what you
should be proving every day, you don’t get it.
And, if you are standing in line in front of
my case at 5:00 in the evening on February
14th, looking for that something special, you
are not going to get “it”!
V-DAY LOBSTERS OF LOVE
The Sunny Side of the Street•By Dave Gagliardi
WINTER GUIDELINES FOR TRASH CARTS AND RECYCLE BINS
Now that there is snow on the ground,
residents should take special care to ensure
trash carts are accessible to the arm of the
automated trash trucks, with 3’ clearance
around the cart to all obstacles such as tall
snow banks, recycle bins, overfl ow bags,
mailboxes, trees and parked cars.
Please avoid placing trash carts or
recycling into the plowed roadway by
clearing a small area just off the edge of road
for trash and recycle containers. If possible,
please continue to place recycling on the
opposite side of the driveway or walkway
from the trash cart, and be sure it is clearly
visible from the road and not blocked by
snow banks.
In the event of an active snowstorm on
trash day, please be aware that trash or recycle
containers placed too close to the edge of
road may be tipped over during plowing,
especially with wet heavy snow or slush. Trash
collection may be delayed due to inclement
weather on trash day, and will continue until
complete. In the event that trash collection
must be postponed due to weather, such
notice will be posted on www.billericadpw.
org and BATV with information on when
collection will resume.
2/28/10
Th e annual all-night parking ban will be
in full force on all Billerica roadways. Vehicles
found parked in the roadway longer than
two (2) hours between Midnight and 6:00
AM during the above dates will be tagged
and subject to a fi ne. If a vehicle is parked
as to interfere with snow removal, a fi ne will
be assessed and will be subject to towing.
Upon declaration of a snow emergency by
the Town Manager, parking on all public
ways will be prohibited. Vehicles found
parked on public ways will be subject to a
$50.00 fi ne and towing. Th e Chief of Police
requests the cooperation of all residents to
comply with this public safety ordinance to
insure that snow plowing operations will not
be hampered by illegally parked vehicles.
John Curran, Town Manager
ALL NIGHT WINTER PARKING BAN RUNS UNTIL MAR. 15
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UnforgettableSuperintendent Robert CalabreseRemembered as Billerica’s Renaissance Man By Liana Measmer
Outstandingly versatile. Well-rounded. A brilliant performer. Knowledgeable and educated. Dr. Robert J. Calabrese was every bit the defi nition of the
Renaissance Man. The retired superintendent served for 22 years in the Billerica Public Schools. He retired in 2006, and continued his passion for education as Program Director of Merrimack Education Center (MEC) in Billerica. Bob passed away last June from a heart attack, but his legacy lives on in his accomplishments and the thoughtful way he treated people. Bob was actively involved with the Billerica Scholarship Foundation Team Trivia Challenge, and as the event draws near, it is a fi tting time to recall the man behind the beaming smile who touched so many lives.
HEROTh e defi nition of a hero is someone who sees what needs to be done
and just does it. Th is was Calabrese’s code as a father. A transplant from
Ohio decades ago when he became the Superintendent in Billerica,
he soon found himself the single father to two boys, Christopher
and Peter. Th e boys went through the school system while their
father attended meetings and functions, juggling fatherhood with
demanding work. Today, Peter and Christopher are in their 30s and
are residing out of state with their families.
“Th ey’re both gentlemen and very successful,” said Linda
Calabrese, Bob’s widow.
SOULMATELinda Calabrese met Bob more than 20 years ago, while they
both worked at the School Department. She is an administrative
assistant for fi nance and remembers how they teamed up during the
new Ditson School Building Project. Years later, love blossomed and
they grew very close.
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“We loved each other a lot,” said Linda. “We never
fought.”
Linda smiled wistfully when she described her May
2008 wedding as a fairy tale. She recalled that all her guests
enjoyed themselves. She was tearful when she remembered
her husband’s passing, too soon after celebrating their fi rst
wedding anniversary. Bob always had the TV on, which
Linda called the “noise box.” Now, since the house is so
quiet, she makes sure the noise box stays on.
“I miss him so much,” she said.
As Linda looked back, she smiled every time she
recounted story after story about Bob’s life. As a public
fi gure, when he walked into a room, he knew everyone.
As a public speaker, Bob was talented and focused. He
would take days to re-write his speeches, but had no trouble
incorporating conversations into his them.
“He was down to earth and no one disliked him,” said
Linda.
Linda described him as just a regular guy who did not
need a fancy house or car. One thing he was most proud of
was all the home improvements the couple made together.
When he needed to spend money, his favorite thing to
do was to purchase gifts for others, especially his four
grandchildren and his staff . He made it a point to pick out
personalized gifts, since he did his best to be familiar with
those around him.
“He was kind and gentle and he thought about people
a lot,” said Linda.
Th e Calabrese’s enjoyed traveling or going to cultural
events. Th ey especially liked traveling to Florida. When the
couple joined 10 others on a retirement cruise to Bermuda,
the result was pure fun.
“It was a blast,” said Linda.
Bob was really into baseball and college basketball. One
of the few die-hard Yankees fans in the area, he was steadfast
in defending his favorite team when faced with Red Sox
Nation in his offi ce and home. He would plan out NCAA
travel trips with all his male friends, which were guy-only
weekends. Linda always encouraged him to go.
“He was boisterous and upbeat,” said Linda about his
excitement in being with his friends.
MASTERSince the inception of the Team Trivia Challenge
15 years ago, Bob has been the only Trivia Master of
Ceremonies. He will be forever remembered for quieting
the chatter in the room with his, “Shhhhh!”
He requested the questions the weekend prior to the event
so he could plan his attire. Some famous Calabrese fashions
included a sleek cowboy hat, a smart tuxedo or a fun kilt.
“He thoroughly enjoyed it,” said Linda.
Initially he wasn’t excited to be placed at the helm but
eventually grew to take his role very seriously. Because of
his role, crowds fl ocked to the event to enjoy his humor.
“Because he was well-known, he would be a draw,” said
Maureen Sullivan, Scholarship Foundation chairperson.
COLLEAGUEJim McCormick knew Bob for over 20 years. As
Deputy Executive Director of MEC, McCormick had the
opportunity to work closely with Bob when they sat on
boards together and when Bob was handling the professional
development for his staff . McCormick remembers Bob’s
demeanor with his staff as friendly and gregarious. Bob was
always there to greet people with a smile and at the end of
the day, his staff never questioned that he cared.
“He always made everyone feel important,” said
McCormick.
McCormick and Bob eventually became close
friends. McCormick has fond memories of the friendly
competitiveness the two men shared, no matter if they
were cheering on their favorite baseball teams or swapping
cooking ideas. McCormick loved the Red Sox while Bob
was sure the Yankees would always prove victorious.
McCormick always preferred his Irish Corned Beef while
Bob had a few savory Italian recipes up his sleeve.
After Bob asked for Linda’s hand in marriage, his next
stop was McCormick’s offi ce, where he asked his friend
to be the Justice of Th e Peace and offi ciate his wedding.
McCormick did not hesitate in saying yes.
“I was very proud to do that,” said McCormick.
Upon his passing, the MEC building at 40 Linnell
Circle was dedicated in Bob’s name. McCormick recalled
that the ceremony was moving and there wasn’t a dry eye in
the group of faculty, friends and family who were present.
“He left such a lasting impact on all of us,” said
McCormick.
PREDECESSORWhen Bob retired in 2006, he was replaced by Anthony
Serio. Serio was no stranger to the position, coming to
Billerica with 13 years of superintendent and administrative
experience. However, Serio knew he had giant shoes to fi ll,
so he kept Bob’s legacy alive.
“He was a successful superintendent,” said Serio. “I
wasn’t going to rush in and make a lot of changes.”
Bob took his job seriously, especially when he handled
human resource issues. When he arrived on the scene, Serio
picked up teacher contract negotiations where Bob left off .
Serio described his management style as interdependent and
delegative while he described Bob’s as more independent,
often making decisions on his own. Regardless, Bob was
always available to off er counsel and advice to Serio, who
relied heavily on him to fi ll in the history gaps on his
projects and decisions.
“He was extremely welcoming,” said Serio
LEADERFor Alexander “Sandy” Infanger, retired Locke Middle
School Principal, and Fran O’Donnell, Bob’s administrative
assistant for 14 years, Bob was nothing short of a visionary.
Th e shining feather in his cap was the construction of the
new Ditson School which Bob oversaw until its completion.
Both Infanger and O’Donnell recalled how he shrewdly
managed funds, fi nancing the school within the school
budget.
“He was the building block for a modern Billerica,” said
Infanger.
In the 1980’s into the mid 1990’s, there was a serious
overcrowding problem at the old Ditson School. Bob
made it his mission to have a larger, more modern school
built. Bob was committed to the success of this project and
could often be found in his offi ce working until midnight,
ensuring timely completion of all needed documentation.
“He worked on it morning, noon, and night,” said
O’Donnell. “He was savvy.”
FRIENDBob had numerous friends and Selectman Bob Correnti
was proud to be one of them. Th e two men, along with
countless others, spent hours having fun. Th ey took in
sporting events, played in golf tournaments, and had lively
lunches and dinners. Th e group, sometimes with as many
as 20, shared a lot of laughs and good natured ribbing.
“It was a lot of fun,” said Correnti. “He took it in
stride.”
Correnti recalled how Bob regaled in the fact that he
was personally and privately generous while publicly and
professionally frugal. Correnti found him to be genuine
and he always gave solid advice. Correnti often sought out
Bob’s opinion and misses his friendship very much.
“I feel fortunate that he counted me as one of his many
friends,” said Correnti.
A TRIBUTETh e 2010 Team Trivia Anniversary Challenge is
scheduled for Friday, Feb. 5, at 7 p.m. at the Billerica
Lodge of Elks and will be a celebration honoring all of
Bob’s years of service. Teams interested in playing can visit
the Billerica Scholarship Foundation web site at www.
BillericaScholarship.org for more information. Registrations
must be returned by Jan. 29.
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Billerica Spelling Beewww.billericaspellingbee.org
Feb. 6: 9:30 am-5:30 pm Buck Auditorium, Town Hall 80 Students from grades 3-8 will compete. Awards given at conclusion. Tickets allow
full day admission. Adults: $5; Students and seniors: $3; Under 5 is free
Sweetheart Dancewww.billerica-alliance.org
Feb. 11: 4 pmFor couples married 50 years or more. it down dinner, music and dancing. Transportation provided if needed.Sponsored by The Community Alliance 978-667-4174
Women in Controlwww.waggleforce.com
Feb 4: Informational meeting. Structured job clubs helping unemployed and underemployed in Billerica get back to work. Time and place to be announced Updates will be made on our Facebook page: “WIC - Women in Control” as well as through the local media and on Billerica Access Television Community Bulletin Board. More info womenincontrol61@yahoo.com
Billerica Skatepark Committeewww.billericaskatepark.org
Jan. 19: 7 pm: Public Meeting, Buck Auditorium Town Hall. Support this committee’s efforts to get a skatepark. Open to the public.
Billerica Recreation Departmentwww.town.billerica.ma.us
Feb. 21: Summer Camp Expo. Billerica Lodge of Elks. Webb Brook Road. An free event for parents to begin planning for summer vacation. 978-671-0921. Their winter brochure is available online.
A Night of Hope Fund Raiserwww.julieksings.com or/and www.hopeww.org
HOPE Worldwide
Feb. 20: 7pm A Night of HOPE fund raiser. The Bennett Library. $10 suggested donation per person. Snacks will be provided. Julie Kinscheck will perform. Other local talents will also perform and the evening will include a presentation about the work HOPE is doing for children, orphans and the needy globally.
Middlesex Canal Museum and Associationwww.middlesexcanal.org/museum
Feb. 18: 10:00 am-12:00 pm The Middlesex Canal Museum, 71 Faulkner Street Educational program for children in grades 2 and 3 $15 enrollment fee includes membership to the MCA Contact Traci Jansen at middlesexcanal4kids@gmail.com
Colleen Sgroi Gallery and Art ClassesFeb. 4: 7 pm: Create Love Day.Colleen Sgroi Gallery, 12 Andover Road, Billerica, MA
Make a card with a list of the little things your sweetheart does that you love and you will create love. Come by the gallery and we will make one together. Call for more info (978) 667-100. www.ColleenSgroi.com
Billerica Cat Care CoalitionJan. 16: 11 am to 2 pm: Petco, 51 Middlesex Turnpike, Burlington, MAFeb. 13: 11 am to 2 pm: Meet and Greets at Agway, 24 Maple St., ChelmsfordMar. 13: 11 am to 2 pm: Meet and Greets at Agway, 24 Maple St., Chelmsford
Council On AgingRespite Care Companion Program:
If you have been thinking about getting help caring for the one you love, don’t fret. Everybody needs a little help sometimes, especially caregivers. The respite companions are available to work morning, noon or night, seven days a week. For more information on the respite companion program, please contact Lauren Gray at: 978-671-0916 ext: 226 or lgray@town.billerica.ma.usCOA Van Service: The Van is helping seniors with transportation to do local errands, visit friends or go to lunch. The cost is now $1.00 each way and a 2-day notice is preferred. Call 671-0916, ext 229. NEW! Mah Jongg:Fridays at 12:30 p.m. A tile game that originated in China uses groups of four players who are given a collection of tiles divided into fi ve or six suits. Strategies are used to make tile matches. Men’s Group Meeting: Jan. 20 at 1:00 p.m. Sign up at the front desk.New Bi-Monthly Laughter Yoga Club:Jan. 22 at 10:00 a.m.: What has been happening to laughter? Why is it so important? What does laughter have to tell us about our happiness and well being? Come join us and Robert Herrick will give you the answers. Sign up at the front desk.Book Club: Jan. 26 at 12:30 p.m. The January book is Empire Falls by Richard Russo. Sign up at the front desk.History Lecture: Jan.28 at 10:00 a.m. Paul Hogman presents “Do You Really Know Your State?” Sign up at the front desk.
Pop WarnerJan. 31: The Banquet for players/cheerleaders for the A-E Teams is scheduled at the Billerica Elks. Times are as follows:E Teams: 11:00am-1:00pmD&C Teams: 1:30pm to 4:00pmB&A Teams: 4:30pm to 6:30pm2010 REGISTRATION: Website for details soon.
Sistacamp at The Bennett LibraryFeb. 15-16 only:
Only -$40 for 2 day session (1 girl)$50 for 2 day session (includes2 sisters)$75 for 2 day session (Includes3 or more sisters)3 Concord Road Billerica , MA 01821 Just a place to meet up & hang out with your friends for the day. Email Karla DiChiara at pckelleher@verizon.net for more information or your registration form
Greater Lowell Chamber of CommerceFeb. 16: 7:30: BILLERICA TOWN BUSINESS DAY
Town Hall Auditorium. Free! Open to all businesses, new or established, addressing business issues including State & Municipal (resources, topics, concerns), Financial Options, Procurement & Technical Assistance, Business Counseling & Training
GUEST SPEAKERS
Ms. Jeanne Osborn, President & CEO GLCCState Senator Kenneth DonnellyState Representative William Greene, Jr.Mr. George E. Noel, MA Director of LaborMr. John Curran, Billerica Town ManagerMs. Stephanie Cronin, Economic Development Coordinator Ms. Lisa Gonzalez-Welch SBA (US Small Business Administration)Ms. Terry Williams, Assistant Director, Lowell Small Business Assistance CenterMr. John F. Fioriti, SOMWBAMr. Peter McGarry, SCORE CounselorMs. Barbara O’Neil, Director, Gr. Lowell Workforce Investment BoardKen Goode, Vice President, MassDevelopmentMore info 978-459-8154
Red Hat SocietyAttention ladies! Come join the Red hat Society! The Bodacious Ladies of Billerica would like to invite you and your friends to join our group. We enjoy each others company and have fun, laugher, and parties. We go on day trips and weekend getaways. Some of us have attended the Red Hat conventions in Boston , Niagara Falls , and Savannah this year. Our Queen Mother Virginia went to the London England with the Red Hats and they were in the London New Year’s parade.
We even donate to charities such as ALS, American Cancer, American Diabetes and the House of Hope for Homeless women and children every year.
If you’re 50 or older, you can be a Red Hatter and wear purple and red. If you’re under fi fty, you can be a Pink Hatter and wear lavender and pink. Ladies, there is only one rule in the Red Hat Society:“There are no rules!”
So if you’re looking for some fun and lots of laughter and something to get you out of the house and off the couch come join our group.
Call Queen Mother Virginia McGrath @ 978-667-7487 or contact her at bluedaddy@comcast.net and
OUT ON THE TOWN
YARNNEEDED
Th e Knitters Club
makes hats for
preemies and cancer
patients or slippers for
soldiers. Th ey need all
types of yarn.
Please drop off your
contribution at
Th e Council on Aging25 Concord Road, Billerica
Mon. – Fri.: 8:30 am – 4 pm
For more information,
call 978-671-0916.
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Safe Kids Behind The WheelInformation for Parents of Driving and Pre-Driving Teens and Their Young Drivers.
Feb. 3: 7 pm: Free Workshop! Limited to the FIRST 70 PEOPLE who sign up! The Bennett Library, 3 Concord Road, Billerica Center.
Co-Sponsored by The Billerica Driving School, MTM Brainerd Insurance, and The Billerica Green. Teens and Pre-teens are talking about getting behind the wheel younger and younger. Driving laws have changed since 2007 and parents are expected to become more involved in their teen’s driver education. An insurance agent will speak to the additional need for insurance for the younger driver. A traffi c offi cer will speak on how they handle new drivers and what the repercussions of unsafe driving. There will be discussion about safety concerns--alcohol use, cell phone use, and the importance of removing distractions. RSVP REQUIRED! Email liana@thebillericagreen.com to reserve your space today!
Ye’ Olde Meeting House: Town Hall MeetingsJan. 20: 6 pm: Substance Abuse Prevention Committee, BPS Central Services Conference RoomJan. 20: 6:30 pm: Board of Appeals, AuditoriumJan. 20: 7 pm: Republican Town Com., Rm. 210Jan. 25: 7 pm: Selectmen, Conway RoomJan. 27: 7 pm: Conservation Commission, Rm. 210Feb. 1: 7 pm: Selectmen, Conway RoomFeb. 1: 7:30 pm: Board of Health, Rm. 210Feb. 3: 7 pm: Scholarship Foundation, Collins RoomFeb. 3: 7 pm: Historical Commission, Room AFeb. 3: 7 pm: Republican Town Committee, Rm. 210Feb. 8: 7 pm: Planning Board, Rm. 210Feb. 10: 6 pm: Substance Abuse Prevention Committee, BPS Central Services Conference RoomFeb. 10: 7 pm: Conservation Commission, Rm. 210Feb. 17: 7 pm: Republican Town Com., Rm. 210Feb. 22: 7 pm: Selectmen, Conway RoomFeb. 24: 7 pm: Conservation Commission, Rm. 210
School NewsCalendarJan. 18: No School - Martin Luther King Jr. Day Jan. 19: No School - Special Election Day Jan. 25: Kindergarten ChangeoverFeb. 4: Early Release –Elementary OnlyFeb. 11: Elementary Progress Reports IssuedFeb. 15-19: School VacationFeb. 22: Schools Reopen
Billerica Memorial High School: School Skating Programs: Anyone interested in the skating program should contact Mrs.Cathy Jenkins at 978-528-7911. Her offi ce is located at BMHS, Data Processing Suite, Room 3262.
After School Tutoring: Tutors for math, science, and languages available Mondays, Wednesdays, Thursdays in the school library.
Locke Middle SchoolJan. 20: 7 pm: Adolescent Psychology: The Parent Version
A Evening with Parenting Expert Joani GeltmanLearn how to teen-proof your home and relationship, Set appropriate limits, Identify and deal with experimentation with sex, drugs and alcohol, Identify risk factors for depression and anxiety, Identify high expectation vs. unrealistic ones, Identify your teen or tween’s imaginary audience and personal fable.Tickets $5. To reserve, email lockepto@gmail.com. For more information, locke.billerica.k12.ma.us
Ditson Elementary School:Jan. 16: 1:30 pm: Group Night. Lowell Devils vs. Portland Pirates. Tsongas Arena, Lowell, MAfor those who purchased ticketsFeb. 26: Adult Comedy Night at the Billerica Elks. Doors open at 7:00 pm. Show starts at 8:00 pmTickets are $15.00 until Feb.15th. $20.00 after that and at the door. Appetizers, cash bar & 50/50 raffl e.
John F. Kennedy Elementary School:Jan. 22: 6:30 pm: Ice Cream Social. sponsored by the PTO. Mark your calendars for a night of fun with your friends and family Your teacher may even be your server! We’ll be serving chocolate and vanilla ice cream sundaes with all the toppings and slush. If you are interested in being part of the Ice Cream Social Committee please contact Lori Aquavella.
Jan. 26: 5-8 pm: Kennedy Night at Fuddruckers. Enjoy a night out with your family and support your school at the same time! Fuddruckers is in Reading (located at Jordans Furniture). Bring your voucher and 20% of of the cost of the meal will go to the Kennedy Elementary PTO. Make copies of the voucher and give them to your family and friends. Everyone who turns in a voucher helps the Kennedy.
Substance Abuse Prevention CommitteeJan. 26: 7 pm: Public Forum. Buck AuditoriumTown Hall. Free Event. Open to the PublicSpeaker, Informational handouts and SurveyFor more information, email rsafi er@billerica.k12.ma.us
Billerica Scholarship Foundationwww.billericascholarship.org
Feb. 5: 7 pm: Team Trivia Challenge15th Anniversary Celebration. Billerica Lodge of the Elks. $125 for team of 4. Bring your own snacksDr. Robert J. Calabrese will be honored
Police Athletic League (PAL)Fall Programmingwww.billericapal.org
Floor Hockey
Join your friends for an exciting game of fl oor hockey. Sign ups through the Rec. Department. Co-ed teams will be formed the fi rst week. Equipment provided. Please note that these are tentative game times. Specifi c times will be adjusted according to the registrations received. Register early to ensure your place! On-Site Evaluation and Team Assignment will be Saturday, January 9 9:00 AM -12 Noon. Instructor: Artie RoachLocation: Old Ditson School (Sheriff’s Training Ctr.)Jan. 9 to March 13Fee: $59.00 pp, Grade 2 & 3
Session: 33612-A Saturday: 8:30 amWho: Grade 4 & 5Session: 33612-B Saturday: 9:30 amWho: Grade 6-8Session: 33612-C Saturday: 10:30 amWho: Grade 9-12Session 33612-D Saturday: 11:30 am Winter Open Gym UpdateOld Ditson School / Middlesex Training DepartmentRegistration will be held 7-9PM on Wednesday, 1/6/2010. Cost is $20 per child / $30 per family / $0 for Annual MembersAnnual members can register by emailing info@billericapal.orgBoys Open Gyms - Wednesdays 1/13 - 3/3Grades 3-5: 6:00 - 7:30Grades 6-8: 7:30 - 9:00Girls Open Gyms - Thursdays 1/14 - 3/4Grades 2-8: 6:30 - 8:00High School Hoops - Fridays 1/15 - 3/5Grades 9-12 7:00-9:00
Buttercup is very
much a “princess” who
enjoys quiet time and
is not particularly fond
of other cats, although
she puts up with McGraw, her housemate,
because she has to and has even learned to
love him. She is a calico and seems to have
the temperament of one as she likes to be the
boss and rule the roost! She is very aff ection
with her primary caregiver and is great with
children but would be best placed in a house
that will give her a lot of attention when she
wants it and would be the only cat. She has
the loudest purr and loves to sit on laps and
be petted. She is so soft and beautiful you
can’t help but want to pet her! She was born
in 2006, is spayed, FIV/FELV negative and
up to date on her shots.
McGraw, oh what a
sweetie! Everyone loves this
cat. He is called the puppy
of the house because he
loves to roll over on his
tummy and will jump up on your lap to be
petted. He is VERY social and always wants
to know what is going on around him and
who is in the house. He is amazing with
children and absolutely spectacular to look at.
He is so beautiful with his classic gray tabby
stripes. He even smiles at you! McGraw loves
to play and be loved and would be great in a
family with other cats and children that want
to love him tons! He LOVES catnip toys. He
was born in 2006, is neutered, FIV/FELV
negative and up to date on his shots
Please note: All cats and kittens require an
on-line adoption application be completed
and sent BEFORE consideration for adoption
can take place. On-line applications at www.
billericacatcarecoalition.org.
BILLERICA CATCARE COALITION
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One BookOne BillericaPass it On!
The Billerica Public Library Presents
One Book, One Billerica, Pass It On is a community-wide reading program. It centers on onebook, encouraging people to come together in the library, coffee shop, dentist office waiting
room, schools, homes and offices to read and discuss the same book at the same time.
FEATURED READING!
January 1 - March 31, 2010!Read it and
Pass it On!
Pick up a copy of the book at the library or one of the many distribution points in town (listed below)
Read it, discuss it and then log on to our webpage www.billericalibrary.org and give us your feedback.
Pass it on to a friend, a family member or an acquaintance to enjoy or return it to a distribution spot forsomeone else to discover.
You can pick up a copy of the featured book at the Library, O’Connor Hardware, theCoffee Emporium, Curves, Billerica Chiropractic, Dr. Feuerstein, DMD, CollinsBowladrome, Java’s Brewin’, Colleen Sgroi’s Art Gallery, Billerica Senior Center,Billerica Boys and Girls Club, and the Town Hall.
1.2.3.
US State Senate Election Day
Tuesday, Jan. 19Precinct Polls Open 8 am-8 pm
DemocratAttorney GeneralMartha Coakley
vs
Republican SenatorScott Brown
Your Vote Counts!
Get Out and Vote!
Questions?
Call Town Clerk at
978-671-0924
Th e Sixth Annual Sweetheart Dinner
Dance, sponsored each year by the Billerica
Community Alliance, will be held on
Th ursday, Feb. 11 starting at 4pm at the
Billerica Lodge of Elks on Webb Brook
Road. Th is event is intended for Billerica
couples who have been married for 50 years
or more and is free to those who attend. We
continue to look for local couples who would
be eligible to attend the event. If you know
of a Billerica couple who have been married
since 1960 or longer, contact our offi ce for
more information.
Th is is a truly special event which includes
a full sit-down dinner, music, dancing,
corsages, commemorative photographs and
transportation for those who need it. All of
this is provided at no cost to those who attend
and in 2009, over 55 couples participated.
In addition to the dinner and dancing,
couples will be blessed by local clergy and
proclamations celebrating the occasion will
be read by both the Massachusetts State
Representative and the Board of Selectmen.
Couples also sweetly renew their vows as a
group during the course of the evening.
Th e Billerica Community Alliance is still
seeking sponsors for this event. Sponsorship
options range from sponsoring a single
couple to a table for four couples and are
very aff ordable. If your business has a focus
on senior life, this may well be an event
you wish to sponsor. Recognition will be
given to all sponsors at the event as well as
in the programs for the event. If you are
interested in being a sponsor, please contact
the Community Alliance offi ce at 978-667-
4174 or via email at info@billerica-alliance.
org.
Th e Alliance is also pleased to announce
that we were a recipient of one of the
Community Fund Grants for this event
which were announced at the Jan. 4
Selectmen’s meeting. Th is grant, along
with the sponsorship support we have
received from local businesses, will ensure
that we have suffi cient funds for this year’s
event as well as provide a base for the
event going forward. Now in its twelfth
year, the funds for the Community Fund
Grants program are contributed by local
businesses, many of whom are members of
the Billerica Community Alliance, including
FLIR Systems, Nortel Networks, Bruker
Corporation and Parexel.
Th e Billerica Community Alliance is
interested in expanding our membership
which includes businesses, local organizations
and individuals. If you are interested in
joining us, please contact the offi ce via
phone at 978-667-4174 or via email at
info@billerica-alliance.org.
Pat Zapert is the Executive Director of Th e Billerica Community Alliance.
SWEETHEART DANCE STILL A DRAW FOR SENIORS
Business to Business•By Pat Zapert
Rich Mackay from the Historical Society
received funding to continue repairs on the Clara
Sexton House chimney and gutters.
Town employees and elected offi cials welcomed new Town Manager
John Curran at a coff ee in Buck Auditorium on Jan. 4 held in his honor.
Th is was Curran’s fi rst day in the corner offi ce.
Mike Moore from Th e Billerica
Spelling Bee will use his award to pay
for trophies and medals.
Wayne Smith from the
Community Garden was so
happy to receive his award
he forgot to take the check
from Selectman Mike Rosa.
Th e Boys and Girls Club
received $4,000 from Flir which
they will use toward educational
programs for members.
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In the middle of the challenging real
estate market, Billerica has a success story
at Clocktower Place on Bridge Street. After
securing six tenants, just one small offi ce
space remains.
“Th e quality and design issues were easy,”
says owner Robert MacCormack. “We knew
from day one that since the building would
house our business, it would be fi rst-class.”
MacCormack is referring to the offi ces of
MacCormack Plumbing and the mechanical
engineering fi rm operated by his son. “We
also used our technical know-how to use
energy saving features, which will save money
for tenants.”
Th e quality and appearance
of the building drew several
technology tenants, consistent
with a development trend seen
in Billerica. Th is includes
software, security, staffi ng and
industrial photography tenancies.
MacCormack also secured a
long-term professional tenant in
Dr. Scott Goldberg of Billerica,
who operates Flex Your Smile
cosmetic dentistry.
What type of tenant will
complete the occupancy at 17
Bridge Street? Th e remaining
offi ce is fully design and constructed,
featuring two offi ces and a staff area at
approximately 900 square feet. According
to MacCormack, “We would like to have a
professional tenant that complements our
building and businesses we’ve drawn to
Billerica. I think if they stop in and see the
space and see what we’ve done, it will be an
easy decision.”
Th e Edge Group, Inc. of Lowell, which
specializes in commercial real estate, is the
broker for the Clocktower Place property.
Th ey can be reached at 978-458-8822 or the
space can be viewed at www.edgegroupinc.
com.
Owner and developer, Robert MacCormack,
reviews construction progress.
CLOCKTOWER PLACESEEKING FINAL OFFICE TENANT
Whether new or established, business
owners alike will be able to address any issues
they may have within their companies and
businesses on Feb. 16 at Town Hall. Th e
Lowell Chamber of Commerce is hosting
their Billerica Town Business Day, which is
a free event featuring speakers, networking,
and information.
“A lot of businesses don’t know what
is out there,” said Karon Bergeron, Vice
President of Th e Lowell Chamber.
Th e event will run from 7:30 to 9:30
am and guest speakers will include George
Noel, the Mass. Director of Labor; Lisa
Gonzalez-Welch from the Small Business
Administration; and Peter McGarry, a
SCORE Counselor. Billerica’s own town
manager, John Curran, and Stephanie
Cronin, our Economic Development
Coordinator will be on hand to answer local
questions. State Senator Ken Donnelly and
State Representative William Greene are also
scheduled to attend, barring any necessary
engagements in Boston.
Th e mission of the Chamber is to
provide a vehicle through which the area’s
business climate and quality of life van be
improved. Th e Greater Lowell Chamber of
Commerce is a regional organization serving
Billerica, Dracut, Lowell, Chelmsford,
Tewksbury, Tyngsboro, Westford and other
communities.
“We host Town Business Day in the six
surrounding towns too,” said Bergeron.
Th e speakers will be presenting such
topics as importing and exporting or helping
owners develop business plans. Services like
technical assistance and counseling will
also be discussed. Brochures and fl yers will
be available and light refreshments will be
served.
In addition to Town Business Day in
Billerica, Bergeron also visits Billerica Town
Hall every other month and hosts Small
Business Day from 9 to 10 am. Th is time is
open to all businesses and is for promoting
all the available resources.
“We really want to help grow and promote
business in Billerica,” said Bergeron.
For additional information, call Th e
Greater Lowell Chamber of Commerce
at 978-459-8154. or visit their web site at
www.greaterlowellchamber.org.
CHAMBER DAY BOOSTS BUSINESSES
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candy canes
catching fl akes
hot cocoa
ice skating
no school
reindeer games
shovel
skiing
sledding
snow angels
snow shoes
snowballs
snowboarding
snowman
tubing
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Winter Chillz
Free coloring pages at
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Show Your Pride.
CELEBRATE BILLERICA’S THANKSGIVING DAY VICTORY.
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3 J’3 J’ss Corner Corner
What Martin Luther King Jr. Taught Us: Jarred, 12: “We should use our words and not our fists.” Julia, 7: “We should be kind.” Jacob, 6: “We are all the same.”
Slow DownCocoa
1/2 cup milk1/2 cup water
Chocolate syrupPeppermint candy
cane15 (or more) chocolate
chipsMarshmallow Fluff®
Heat milk and water for about 11/2 minutes in
microwave. (Be careful water may be
hot.)
Add chocolate chips and 2 squirts (or more)
of chocolate syrup.
Stir with candy cane and top with a scoop
of Marshmallow Fluff®.
Enjoy with your Sweet Valentine!
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Julie Kinscheck always loved to sing and
planned to make it big some day. She was going
to have all those things well known performers
have-fame, fortune and prestige. However,
her life took her down a diff erent road than
she expected and instead, she became a soul
transformed who has gone on to bring hope
to thousands. Th rough her voice and drive as
a social activist, Kinscheck continues to dream
of making it big, but not in the way you might
expect.
Born Julie Gibbons in Ithaca, New York,
Kinscheck came to creative arts naturally
since she was part of a very musical family.
Her father sang in local operas and conducted
musicals at Cornell. Her mother wrote poetry.
Her brothers played in a rock and roll band.
“Music was all around me,” said
Kinscheck.
At nine, she began singing her own songs
for others. Kinscheck wanted to be discovered
so walking along the street, she would sing at
the top of her lungs, hoping to be heard. One
of her earliest infl uences was her childhood
music teacher, John Bailey, who taught her
about improvisation. Th is later became the
cornerstone in her song writing and arranging.
Known as “Scat”, it became a talent for
Kinscheck and she later donned the title,
“Queen of Scat”. Kinscheck still enjoys adding
saucy little harmonies to her favorite cover
tunes and confi dently belting them out.
Kinscheck became a Rotary Exchange
student after high school and went onto to
study in Munich, Germany for a year, traveling
to France, Italy and England. She played her
guitar on the streets and loved the reaction of
those who heard her.
“It helped me gain my confi dence,” said
Kinscheck.
Upon returning to the US, she attended
Oberland College, where she discovered Jazz
music and formed her own group. A band
member encouraged her to attend Berklee in
Boston, where she obtained a full scholarship
and learned all the ins and outs of the music
business.
“Berklee was just what I needed to learn
how to make a living as a musician,” said
Kinscheck.
Instead of returning to New York,
Kinscheck remained in Boston and worked
hard. She sang at weddings and taught voice
students privately. She went onto form a cover
band, Centerpiece, and started living the rock
star lifestyle. She performed with her group
at restaurants and bars and ultimately ran her
self to into the ground. She explained that she
became tenacious, never slept and grew to be
very bossy. She thought to make it she had to
be someone she wasn’t and would strut her
stuff seductively on stage because she thought
she had to. She had mistaken this for being a
tough, independent woman.
“I was proud of that,” shrugged
Kinscheck.
What happened next transformed her life
and her career forever. She developed ‘nodes’,
a condition where callouses form on the vocal
chords. Ultimately, she lost her voice and her
band fell apart. She found all the friends she
surrounded herself with, disappeared. It was at
this, her lowest point, where grace stepped in
to save her.
Kinscheck had met Jim Peterson, a
classmate, in college who was a Christian. He
talked about God and Kinscheck listened but
was uninterested. However, upon seeing her
then fi ancée transform under the power of
scriptures, Kinscheck wanted to know more.
She began to study the Bible and wrestle with
her own demons.
“Reading scripture brings a mirror up to
your face,” she said.
Kinscheck made the decision to become
a Christian and miraculously her voice
healed. She went from little venues and
bars to performing in concert halls in front
of thousands at Christian conferences. She
realized the possibilities were endless.
Kinscheck had met her future husband,
Ralph, through school but they never became
friends. Eight years after leaving Berklee,
through Peterson, they met again in church,
new people.
“God had changed us both so much we
were now ready to fall in love,” she said.
Th e couple was married and began making
music together. Ralph played keyboards but
was also a talented songwriter, engineer, and
and producer. He has been an important
factor in helping Kinscheck produce her
three Cd’s. In 2006, Kinscheck, produced
“Faith in Action Live” which was a gospel
jazz arrangement with her A’ Capella group.
Th e same year, she and her husband, through
working in Children’s ministries, put out “Th e
Force”. Th is was Christian rock for kids, aimed
especially at teens.
In 2008, Kinscheck produced her solo
debut album called “Grace with Jazz on Top”.
In it, she had her longings fulfi lled as she was
able to perform a variety of songs spanning
all types of topics. She wrote music which
addressed what women today face in this
society. Also on the CD, is “Precious”, the song
she wrote to her twins, Caleb and Hannah,
who she endured eight years of miscarriage
and medical intervention to fi nally have.
“I couldn’t believe how in love I was with
them and they were just a speck on the screen,”
she smiled.
Th e performing gene apparently runs
strong in this family, because her two children
love to sing and now, at fi ve years old, even
write their own songs.
It was at this time, that Kinscheck found
the organization Hope Worldwide and began
to follow their charity. She had been raised in
a family who had been active in social causes
and through Hope’s events, Kinscheck found a
calling. Here she was able to throw her support
behind something she believed in and use her
talent for the good of others. Hope Worldwide
is an international Christian charity that has
developed housing for lepers in India, built
AIDS clinics in Africa, and staff ed hospitals
in Cambodia. Kinscheck would perform at
benefi ts for them all over the country to raise
awareness and much needed funds.
As a result, Kinscheck will be hosting A
Night of HOPE fund raiser at Th e Bennett
Library. It will be on Saturday, Feb 20 at
7pm with a $10 suggested donation per
person. Snacks will be provided and Julie will
be the feature artist. Other local talents will
also perform and the evening will include a
presentation about the work HOPE is doing
for children, orphans and the needy around
the world. For more information about this
and her other upcoming performances, visit
Kinscheck’s web site at www.julieksings.com.
For more information on Hope Worldwide,
visit www.hopeww.org.
MOVING HEARTS TOWARD HOPE: CHRISTIAN PERFORMER SHARES HER GRACE
EXIT Homestead Realty“Real Estate Solutions”
5 Andover Rd., Billerica, MA 01821 Ph: 978-439-5566 Fax: 978-439-0583
EXIT Homestead Realty has expanded our Real Estate Solutions Center.
• David Morey – Greenpark Mortgage
• Christine Morgan – Real Estate Attorney
• Michael Longo – The Concord River Group
• Harris Real Estate School Andrew & Edna Chalmers
Broker Owners
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Antoinette Sachetta EXIT Homestead Realty is pleased to welcome Antoinette Sachetta to our team. Antoinette is a real estate professional who believes in providing honest, expert advice and service to all of her clients.
Welcome our newest agent!
Preparation classes for the Mass Real Estate Salesperson’s Examination will be held at both morning and evening at 5 Andover Road in Billerica Center.
• Small classroom environment. • Free review before test• Free practice exam • Repeat as many times as needed
Broker Course and Continuing Education will also be available.Call Andrew of EXIT Homestead Realty on 978-439-5566 for schedule.
Harris Real Estate School
The Worker, Homeownership and Business Assistance Act of 2009, signed into law on Nov. 6, 2009, extends and expands the first-time homebuyer credit allowed by previous Acts. Under the new law, an eligible taxpayer must buy, or enter into a
binding contract to buy, a principal residence on or before April 30, 2010 and close on the home by June 30, 2010. For qualifying purchases in 2010, taxpayers have
the option of claiming the credit on either their 2009 or 2010 return.
The new law also: Authorizes the credit for long-time homeowners buyinga replacement principal residence.
Raises the income limitations for homeowners claiming the credit.
Homebuyer Credit Expanded and Extended
I fi nd the New Year to be a time for
resolutions. Each year I sit down and write
my New Year’s resolutions. I review my past
year’s resolutions and see how I did. Th en I
write my new resolutions and goals. Do you
write New Year’s resolutions too?
As a holistically-oriented nutrition
coach, I incorporate a holistic approach that
includes not only what a person eats, but
also how it fi ts into the person’s lifestyle.
Many people resolve to eat better in the New
Year. If that is what you want, I recommend
that eating better be part of your lifestyle
along with exercise, work, fun, relationships,
spirituality, rest and relaxation, and all the
other important parts of life.
Remember that you have the power to
make a diff erence in your life each year. Here
are four tips I think you will fi nd helpful
for creating a year that is wonderful and
balanced:
1. Slow down. Most of us are moving too
fast, doing too much, multitasking,
and stressing ourselves out! I suggest
you make a concerted eff ort to slow
down, calm down, take deep breaths,
meditate, and pray. Do what you need
to do to slow down.
2. Focus on gratitude. Have you ever
noticed a warm fuzzy feeling inside
when you feel grateful? It isn’t always
easy to focus on gratitude when things
are not going well but I fi nd it helps me
feel better when I do. I recommend that
you make an eff ort to thank everyone
who made/makes a positive diff erence
in your life – spread the warm fuzzy
feeling! If you can, try to be grateful
for the things in your life that do not
go the way you want or expect. Even
those things have meaning and lessons
within.
3. Learn to let go. Some things, thoughts,
behaviors, and activities in our lives
are not worth holding onto. Do you
have more things than you need?
Do you notice repetitive, destructive
thoughts? Do you get stuck in the
same frustrating situations over and
over? Consider changing the things,
thoughts, behaviors, and activities that
sabotage you.
4. Add in what counts. After letting go of
what no longer serves us, we then have
room for more of what we want. When
I let go of some unnecessary, unsavory
activity, I feel relieved and happy to be
able to add something more fun and
meaningful into my life. With extra
time, we can fi t in healthy activities
like making home-cooked meals,
exercising, taking a class on a topic we
like, and so on.
Working on these four tips is a process.
By slowing down, being grateful, letting go,
and adding in what counts in your life, you
will be closer to creating your ideal, balanced
lifestyle. Th e New Year is a great time to work
on this. You will be setting the groundwork
for making your New Year’s resolutions a
reality.
Kathy Lynch is founder of WellSkills.com and the WellSkillsTM System, a proven step-by-step program to help busy Moms and their families reach life-long health, energy, and weight. If you want to learn more about local cooking classes, events, and resources, visit www.WellSkills.com. © 2009 Kathy Lynch, WellSkills.
CREATE YOUR IDEAL, BALANCED LIFE
Nourishment for Optimal Health•By Kathy Lynch, CHHC
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Beautiful Bennett Library. Right before the season
ended, Th e Billerica Green got the opportunity to take
these images of one of our classic historical buildings all
decorated for the holidays. Stay tuned for a feature in the spring
showcasing Eleanor Bennett and the library the town turned down.
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Lyme Disease is caused by a spirochete called Borrelia burgdorferi, named
after the scientist who fi rst identifi ed it in 1982 in Lyme, Connecticut. It’s
the number one tick-born disease, has been confi rmed in every state in the
U.S., and is believed to incur 400,000 new cases of Lyme Disease every year.
Borrelia burgdorferi (Bb for short), lives in the stomachs of deer ticks, and gets
transmitted into the blood when the deer tick, in it’s “nymph” phase, bites a
human or animal. When in its nymph stage, the deer tick is about the size of
the period at the end of this sentence. Th ey’re very diffi cult to detect, and Lyme
patients often don’t recall ever having been bitten.
Bb, the Lyme Disease bacteria, is called a spirochete because its body is
spiral shaped. Th is allows the bacteria to bore its way around the body. Infection
begins in the blood, but because of the spiral shape, the bacteria can cross into
other parts of the body, including organs, tissue, joints, and even inside cells
where it rests, protected from antibiotics.
Since chronic Lyme can occur anywhere in the body, symptoms vary
greatly and are often quite numerous. Symptoms seem to trend toward being
either primarily neurological or primarily physical, often attacking the legs.
Most chronic Lyme patients have both types of symptoms, with one type more
prominent.
A diagnosis of chronic Lyme is diffi cult to arrive at, and is also surrounded
by controversy. Lyme Disease has been referred to as “Th e Great Imitator”,
because it often mimics the symptoms of other diseases. Th at list is long, but
includes diseases such as: Multiple Sclerosis, Depression/Anxiety,Parkinson’s
disease, Gout, Carpal Tunnel Syndrome, Ménière’s disease, Hepatitis, TMJ
(jaw pain), Fibromyalgia, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Lupus, Chronic Fatigue
Syndrome, ALS (Lou Gehrig’s disease), Crohn’s disease, ADHD (Attention
Defi cit Hyperactivity Disorder, Epstein-Barr virus infection, Alzheimer’s
disease.
Th is complicates the diagnosis, since each of those diseases need to be
eliminated as the source of the patient’s symptoms before a chronic Lyme
diagnosis can be made. Th ere are blood tests for Lyme, of course; however, if
not done early in the infection, these blood tests result are unreliable. Chronic
Lyme Disease requires a clinical diagnosis. Th is means the patient history,
symptoms, and elimination of other potential diseases is more reliable than
blood test results and clinical diagnosis is what’s used by Lyme savvy doctors,
referred to as “Lyme-literate” doctors, or LLMDs.
Treatment is also controversial. LLMD’s treat chronic Lyme patients
with long-term antibiotics, often cycling between diff erent drugs to ensure
the bacteria is completely eradicated. Opponents maintain that a 4-8 week
course of antibiotics is suffi cient; any lingering symptoms are psychosomatic,
or coincidental of some other, non-Lyme disease. Both camps are fi rmly
entrenched in their beliefs, and the debate between them is heated, political,
and ongoing.
In 2009, two key Lyme Disease events took place. Th e fi rst was the release
of a documentary called “Under Our Skin”. Directed by Andy Abrahams
Wilson, this fi lm has brought insight into the topic of chronic Lyme Disease,
along with presenting both sides of the controversy. It takes the viewer through
the history of Lyme Disease, fromthe 1970’s to now. It gives staggering statistics
which are higher than AIDS and West Nile yet shines the light on the manner
in which doctors and insurance companies treat this as a “psychosomatic
condition”. It also brings to the surface the issue of resistant microbes and
ineff ective antibiotics.
Released on June 13, 2009, it has already won numerous awards, including:
Best in Infectious Disease, Best in Health and Science, Best Documentary, and
Audience Favorite. In December, “Under Our Skin” became a semi-fi nalist to
win the 2009 Tribeca Oscar.
Th e second key event occurred on July 30, 2009, when the Infectious
Disease Society of America (IDSA) assembled a panel in Washington D.C. to
hear testimony from doctors and researchers on each side of the debate. Th e
panel was assembled to review whether the current guidelines for Lyme Disease
diagnosis and treatment are fl awed or were driven by confl icts of interest. Th e
guideline review was mandated under an antitrust settlement initiated by the
Connecticut Attorney General. For details of the suit, go to http://www.ct.gov/
AG/.
Th e outcome of the review could be any of the following: a complete rewrite
of the guidelines, modifi cation of the existing guidelines, or keeping them as is.
Th e settlement called for a fi nal decision to be made by the end of 2009.
As of the writing of this article, that decision is pending. When the decision
is announced, Th e Billerica Green will provide an update to the community.
References
1. Fearn, Douglas W. Lyme Disease and
associated diseases - A plain-language
introduction to tick-borne diseases, Th e
Basics. Th e Lyme Disease Association of
Southeastern Pennsylvania, Inc. www.
LymePa.org
2. Burrascano Joseph, M.D. Advanced
Topics In Lyme Disease - Diagnostic
Hints And Treatment Guidelines For
Lyme And Other Tick Borne Illnesses
Board Member, International Lyme and
Associated Diseases Society
www.ilads.org
3. Kenneth B Singleton M.D., M.P.H. Th e
Lyme Disease Solution,
www.lymedoctor.com
4. “Attorney General Press Release: IDSA
Lyme Disease Guidelines Flawed and
Driven by Confl icts of Interests”,
May 1, 2008. CALDA – California
Lyme Disease Association Web
Site, Accessed December 30, 2009,
http://www.lymedisease.org/news/
lymepolicywonk/15.html
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General’s Investigation Reveals Flawed
Lyme Disease Guideline Process,
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Install Independent Arbiter”, State of
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Accessed December 30, 2009. Offi ce of
Attorney General Richard Blumenthal’s
page: www.ct.gov/AG/cwp/view.
asp?a=2795&q=414284
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Medicine for Someone Like You: Film
Background”, www.underourskin.
com/index.html. Accessed December 29,
2009. http://www.underourskin.com/
fi lm_background.html
Looking back over 2009, it’s been a
pivotal year in the fi ght against
chronic Lyme Disease. Chronic
Lyme is when the Lyme infection is left un-
or under-treated, and the infection spreads
throughout the entire body. Worst case, the
bacteria crosses the blood/brain barrier, and
infects the brain.
Lyme Disease
By Jenn Gervais, Staff Writer
Tackling Th e Great Imitator:Lyme
DiseaseLyme Disease
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Even in Sports Town USA, there are certain adolescents for whom traditional athletics don’t hold appeal. Skaterboarders. Perhaps you have seen some. Th ey aren’t hard to miss. Often donning hats and piercings, through their appearance and behavior, negative public opinion has been generated. In Billerica, this population, which is now split, has given many skateboarders in Billerica a bad reputation.
Much of the public judgment at times has been understandable. Th ere have been complaints that groups of teens on skateboards have harassed shoppers in O’Connor’s Plaza or skated on church property that has been damaged, resulting in a call to the police.
Skateboarder Alex Patterson is frustrated by this. She and her friends, who aren’t into sports, feel “secluded” to town center to skate. She admits they have been outside Walgreens and KMart, getting spoken to by police. She explained that for many, the worst “crimes” they commit is loitering or looking like “trouble’’ because they are diff erent.
“In a town where the center is the only haven for teenagers who can not drive, where else is there to go but parking lots and side walks?” Patterson asked.
Now a group of more than 20 skating teens, who spoke out at a recent public meeting on Dec. 22, are working closely with town offi cials, community leaders and organizations to change this.
“Contrary to popular belief, skateboarding is done by some of the friendliest and nicest people you’ll ever meet,” said Joey Salem, Co-Chairperson of the Billerica Skatepark Committee.
Th e Billerica Skatepark Committee (BSC) wants to dispel preconceived ideas about skateboarders. In the US, 10 million skateboarders fall into the category of street skateboarders which is defi ned as skating on stair sets, hand rails, ledges, and other obstacles due to lack of anywhere else to go.
Th e BSC has a pro-active goal in mind. Th ey would like to see a skate park re-installed at the Lampson Recreation Complex following the removal of damaged ramps in 2008. Th e teens at the meeting explained they were not the vandals.
“We don’t associate with them,” said BSC member Maria Salem.
Th e issue lies in obtaining community acceptance for this growing sport and support for this project. A 2002 report by American Sports Data found that there were 12.5 million skateboarders in the world, while it is currently the third most popular sport in America. According to www.skatboardinformation.com, there is ongoing
discussion of including skateboarding in the 2012 Olympic Games in London, England.
“Skateboarding is an athletic activity,” said Joey.
Th e BSC has recently been under the guidance of the Recreation Department Director, Peggy Hannon-Rizza and the Playground Coordinator, Sandy Libby. Offi cer Dale Sarno, Bernie Hoar, Chairman of the Partners for Education, and Selectman Mike
Rosa have also taken an interest in helping the BSC have an approved, safe place to skate. At the meeting held on Dec. 22, the community leaders and the teens in attendance discussed how to make this skate park a reality.
“As of now, there’s no place for kids to go,” said Sarno.
Th e fi rst thing necessary is fencing for which Sarno and Rosa presented a quote. With a price tag in the thousands, BSC chair, Joey Salem presented ideas like skate-off s and t-shirt sales as possible fund raisers. Currently, the town owns four ramps which are in need of repair. Rosa agreed to repair them and place them on the paved area across from the Boys and Girls Club. Upon the close of the meeting, the teens attending began planning how to proceed with the support of the adults in the room behind them.
“Once you get something, enthusiasm goes up,” said Hannon-Rizza.
Th e BSC has scheduled a second public meeting on Tuesday, Jan. 19 at Buck Auditorium in Town Hall. Th ey plan to further discuss progress and welcome other skaters to attend.
REGAINING THE PIPELINE:SKATEBOARDERS COMBAT STEREOTYPES TO EARN SKATEPARK
Stage 1Purchasing Fencing
-Estimated Cost:$6,000
-Date of Completion: 2010
Stage 2Repair, Place Currently Owned Ramps
-Estimated Cost: Free
-Date of Completion: Shortly after fence
is installed
-Repair Labor and Ramp Placement
being donated by selectman Mike Rosa
Stage 3Purchase and install New Equipment
-Estimated Cost: $25,000+
-Date of Completion: Ongoing
-New Street and Park Elements added
and chosen by skaters
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Maureen Sullivan and Dale Hoar knew
the Team Trivia Challenge would be a big hit
in Billerica when they heard about it 15 years
ago. Th ey had gone to a workshop on fund
raising, representing the Billerica Scholarship
Foundation (BSF). Th ese types of events were
popular so they decided to give it a try.
Th eir gut feeling was
right.
“It really took off ,”
said Sullivan, BSF
Chairperson.
What started as
25 teams is now more
than 50, spanning from
families to organizations
to corporations. For $125,
a team of four can register for this event, which
is scheduled this year for Friday, Feb. 5 at 7
pm at the Lodge of Th e Elks on Webb Brook
Road. Th e funds go toward scholarships which
help a Billerica student fulfi ll their dream of
furthering their education after high school.
Bring your own snacks and plan to dress
up in costume. Since this is an anniversary
celebration, there is not only one theme but all
15 to choose from.
“Part of the fun is coming up with the
costumes,” said Sullivan.
Past themes included Disney, sports, wild
west, tropical paradise, the Super 70’s, and
Space Odyssey. Some of the teams taking home
Best Costume honors in past years included
teachers from the Locke Middle School and
the Library’s “Made for Minutiae”.
Th is year’s celebration will be bittersweet as
Dr. Bob Calabrese will be honored. Calabrese
has been the only Master of Ceremonies for
Team Trivia since it’s inception and has left
big shoes to fi ll. Calabrese was well known for
quieting the crowd with his, “Shhhh!” as well
as his costumes. It was always a secret what he
would wear and while at the podium, he reveled
in light hearted ‘roasting’ of certain friends and
colleagues in the crowd.
“He really enjoyed it,” said Sullivan.
Th e committee began to consider a likely
candidate to take the stage. Initially, one of
Calabrese’s sons off ered but lived out of state,
so it did not work out. Th e
committee then chose Kim
Conway, former School
Committee Chairperson, who
happily accepted the title of
Trivia Master. She was chosen
because she had expressed an
interest in helping the BSF
and because of her link to
the school community.
“Kim was our local pick,” said Christine
Dunleavey, Team Trivia Committee Co-Chair.
“We’re happy to have her.”
To make this a banner year, the committee
has decided to try some new ideas. In past years,
teams could buy an answer later in the game
when they arrived to the advanced play stage.
Now they will have the opportunity to do this
within the fi rst three rounds. Something else
that’s new is teams can purchase a ‘Th is or Th at’.
In doing so, they can put down two answers for
one question in the fi rst three rounds as well.
“We’re increasing the chances of winning,”
said Dunleavey.
Lastly, the BSF is also looking to draw in the
community more so by asking families, schools,
local businesses, town departments, and local
offi cials to participate by giving in diff erent
ways. Th ey can participate in a team, contribute
an item for the raffl e, or make a donation toward
a scholarship in Calabrese’s name.
“We’re trying to make it more interesting,”
said Dunleavey.
To register your team, visit www.
billericascholarship.org. You will receive a
confi rmation letter once your registration is
received and all registrations are due by Feb. 1.
TRIVIAL MATTERS: 15TH ANNIVERSARY OF MEMORABILIA AND MINUTIAE
Billerica Substance Abuse Prevention Committee
On Tuesday, Jan. 26, Th e Billerica
Substance Abuse Prevention Committee
(BSAPC) will host a public forum in the
Buck Auditorium at 7 pm in Town Hall. Th e
general public is welcome to attend this free
event. Parents are especially encouraged to
bring their teens and pre-teens. Th e evening
will feature a speaker recovering from
substance abuse as well informational hand
outs and a survey.
Th e BSAPC’s mission is to increase
awareness, promote education, and provide
resources to the Billerica community in
order to reduce substance abuse using proven
prevention and intervention approaches.
Th ese community events and projects
include:
• Town Hall Forums presenting speakers
discussing a variety of topics including
the physical, psychological, and social
eff ects of substance abuse.
• Th e Sticker Shock program where
students, accompanied by Billerica Police
offi cers, go to a number of package stores
in Billerica for the purpose of placing
stickers on purchases which exhort
buyers not to provide alcohol to underage
minors.
• Th e committee has conducted the
Communities Th at Cares survey of
students in the Billerica Public Schools
to determine the extent of use of alcohol,
marijuana, cigarettes and other drugs
as compared with national norms. Th is
survey also identifi es how our community
measures in relation to state and national
standards.
• Th e committee participates in Yankee
Doodle Weekend and in the Billerica
Health Fair each year providing
information to the community about
substance use and abuse, and where to fi nd
help if needed. Th e committee has also
set up tables for information distribution
at school events such as Back-to-School
Night.
• Th e committee is seeking to establish a
prescription “take back” program where
residents can safely dispose of their
unused and outdated prescription drugs
through a regular, periodic program.
• In the near future, BSAPC hopes to
facilitate a coming together of social
groups throughout the community for
the purpose of coordinating further
education for the young people of
Billerica about making safe choices and
avoiding substance use and abuse.
• Developing a wallet-sized card listing
the phone numbers, website addresses,
etc. of agencies that can assist individuals
and families where substance abuse is a
problem. Th is is referred to as the “Power
of Know”.
For more information about the BSAPC
or the upcoming forum, email the committee
Chairperson, Assistant Superintendent
of Curriculum Richard Safi er at rsafi er@
billerica.k12.ma.us.
HEALTHY CHOICES, HEALTHY LIFESTYLES:PUBLIC FORUM SET TO PROMOTE AWARENESS
As we approach February, people’s minds
turn to love. Th is has left me pondering:
how do you explain love exactly? I mean,
there are so many diff erent kinds of love.
Th ere’s the love of friends and pets.
Which is diff erent than the love of family.
Although I have friends that I love and
consider family. And I have pets that I love
(more than some of my family).
So, what is love? Is it a feeling? An
action? A chemical response? Maybe it’s
a combination of all of these things. It’s a
feeling you get when you hold your baby
for the fi rst time. Like you would move
mountains for this child or throw yourself
in front of speeding bus to protect them.
Sometimes love can be inaction like
letting your loved ones make their own
mistakes so they can learn and grow. I have
more than once refrained from choking
the life out of an obnoxious loved one.
Especially when they’ve said or done the
stupidest thing at the worst time. I think
I have shown oh- so- much love to those
people in my life at that time.
I did read an article once about how we
fall in love with a persons scent. I think there
may be some truth to it. However, I’ve met
some pretty good smelling jerks in my day so
I have my doubts.
With Valentine’s Day soon upon us, some
people go berserk looking for the right gift to
“prove” their love. If the person receiving the
gift doesn’t already know they are loved, one
of you is doing something wrong.
Love should be given freely everyday
to the people in your life. Th ere are so
many diff erent was to show love, it’s mind
boggling. Bake cookies, write a little note
and stick it in a lunch, give out a hug.
Bring home a fl ower for no reason other
than you love them.
Listen to your children when they talk
to you. No, I mean really listen. Put down
what you’re doing for fi ve minutes and pay
attention. Life comes at us so fast but the
little things are important too. Finish a
chore for some one that you know they hate.
Touch an arm as you walk by (please only do
this one to people that you know or you’ll
feel the love of the justice system). Smile at
a stranger. Th ey could be having the worst
day ever and you could help them ever so
slightly with a random act of kindness.
Volunteer at a school, a food pantry, a
shelter, or the humane society. No time or
inclination to volunteer? Th en donate. No
money? No problem. Clean out your clutter
and donate that. Feed the birds, the stray cats,
or adopt a dog. If none of the above works
for you, tell a friend about someone in need.
Maybe they can help. We are all connected;
one act of love has a ripple eff ect.
I know this is idealistic but it does
work. Showing your love on Valentine’s
day is nice but let’s spread it around. Show
love to everyone you meet. See how you
feel at the end of the day. You’ll be happy at
just how much of that love will come back
to you.
GIVE A LITTLE BIT
Pet Peeves•By Nora Fiore
January-February 2010 \ thebillericagreen.com \ 27
When I set the theme for this edition as
love, I had to take a long hard look. A look at
all the places where I love and where I don’t.
It’s not an easy place to venture. Th e road
is rocky and sharp, and if you’re not well
protected, you are certain to get cut up. It’s
like walking on chards of glass in bare feet.
I guess the fi rst question to ask is “WHO
am I? Do you know WHO you are? No. Not
WHAT you are. We all know you are moms
and wives and husbands and fathers. We all
know you are volunteers and teachers and
workers and friends. WHO is the stuff inside
that eventually shows itself on the outside.
It shows itself in how you treat others and
yourself. If your WHO is scared or hurt
or invisible or joyful or positively charged,
then what the world sees will refl ect that.
Sometimes, we are so in touch with our WHO
but living in situations outside our control,
we will squash our reality and put on a facade
for the whole world’s benefi t. But we can’t
stay that way for long. Oh sure, some people
live decades that way. It’s all they know. But
eventually, it all comes back tenfold. Either
in poor physical health. Or emotional health.
Or mental health. Sometimes, it causes pain
so great that people self soothe or medicate.
Alcohol. Food. Drugs. Gambling. Aff airs.
Rage. Jealousy. Depression
Getting to know WHO you are sets
the stage for living well. Are you a helper?
A healer? A listener? A lover? A fi ghter? Our
WHO was determined before we were born,
down in our DNA. We were wired that way.
Our WHO never goes away. It just evolves
as we evolve.
Our WHO does not have to own us. You
can take hold of your WHO and channel
that predetermined energy productively and
put it toward the WHAT you were meant to
be. Some people never fi nd out WHAT they
were meant to be. Th ey walk through life
searching or settling. It’s a lonely existence.
Th e lucky ones fi nd their calling. How
do you KNOW you’ve found your calling?
You can’t wait to wake up in the morning
and start the day. You have hope. You dare
to dream. You believe in the goodness that
surrounds you. You see that what you do is
helping others. You know that you are good
at it. Th e world is your oyster.
My advice? Get to know your WHO.
Become well acquainted and get close.
Be comfortable in WHO you are. Find
peace and serenity for they are valuable
commodities we take for granted. Love and
respect your WHO. Identify those things
that knock your WHO down and avoid
them. Your WHO can be so strong and can
lead to greatness in you. When you realize it,
only then can you ever achieve the WHAT
that is waiting for you.
Beside being Editor of Th e Billerica Green, Liana Measmer is a Licensed Social Worker,
Billerica resident and Mom to three great kids.
TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE
The Power from Within•By Liana Measmer
There are many reasons. I would like to
talk about the most basic one.
Self-Defense.
If we own a home, we have fi re insurance.
Very few homes ever burn down. Very few
people will ever get into a life and death
situation. But homes do burn and people are
attacked. If we protect property against a
possible loss, shouldn’t we do whatever we
can to protect ourselves and those we love
from danger?
Think of the martial arts as life insurance
that pays off while you’re alive and reduces the
chances of injury and death.
Violence or the threat of it is more probable
than losing a house to fi re. A few years ago, in
Maynard, a man put his hand over the mouth
of a nine year old girl and tried dragging her
into his van.
She was playing outside her home.
I’m sure the house had fi re insurance.
The girl yelled, resisted, and got away.
Sometimes a child is not so lucky.
We have an obligation to protect ourselves
and our children. The martial arts is not a youth
sport. It is an education for children and adults
that lasts a lifetime.
I have four children of my own. All black
belts. When she was fi ve, my daughter used to
hide under the bed so she wouldn’t have to go
to karate class. But she persevered, as did my
sons. I’m glad they didn’t quit. I can’t always
be with them.
We are lucky in Billerica to have excellent
martial arts schools. It might be a good way to
start off the New Year by checking one out.
All my best, Alan Kessler
7 Marshall Street | Billerica, MA 01821
978-667-7774
508 Groton Road | Westford, MA 01886
978-692-0479
www.kesslerkarate.com
“Why take the martial arts?”
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By Joan Parcewski
United Nations Celebrates Lion’s Club Humanitarianism
Each year, Lions Day is celebrated with
the United Nations as a reminder of how
the Lions leaders helped write the non-
governmental charter of what would become
known as the UN today. Since 1945, the
Lions have remained affi liated with the UN
humanitarian agencies as consultants to its
Economic and Social Council.
Th is year, Vienna Austria is the venue
for the 32nd Annual Lions Day which will
be held on March 26 at the UN Vienna
International Center. For over 30 years,
the Vienna Lions have organized an annual
event to coincide with the UN event. Th e
Vienna International Center, located north
of the Danube River, houses numerous UN
offi ces like the International Atomic Energy
Agency and the UN Offi ce on Drug and
Crime. Th ere are two UN sites throughout
the world: New York and Geneva.
Each year, the Lions International
President appoints a member to represent
the Lions at all three UN offi ces. In 2010,
Past President Joseph Wroblewski will be in
New York, Past International President and
Professor Dr. Giuseppe Grimaldi will be
in Geneva, and Past International Director
Ernst Musil will be in Vienna.
At exactly 2pm on March 26, event
chairperson Wroblewski will offi cially begin
the ceremonies with speakers talking about
humanitarian service Lions throughout the
world are known for. Th ere will also be a
presentation to the grand prize winners of the
Lions International Peace Poster contest and
the Austrian contest followed by a musical
performance.
Th e relationship between these
international organizations truly represents
a journey of bringing peace throughout the
world. Th e Billerica Lions Club is proud to
have played a part in this journey by annually
hosting a contest at the middle school level
at the beginning of each school year. Th e
Club eagerly looks forward to the entries in
the 2010/2011 contest, themed a “Vision of
Peace”, for it is through our youth that peace
can truly become a reality.
THE LIONS ROAR
28 / thebillericagreen.com / January-February 2010
In a town with multiple banks to choose
from, StonehamBank shines brightly through
their services both inside their branch and
out. In 2009 alone, on more than 40 diff erent
occasions, StonehamBank gave back to Billerica.
With branches in Stoneham and Billerica,
the staff strives to let residents know they care.
Th ey have supported the town both by making
monetary contributions as well as volunteering
their time. In both branches and throughout
surrounding towns, StonehamBank has
volunteered over 2000 employee hours and
donated $150,000 this year. However, for
them, this is the fun part of being on staff .
“Our community participation isn’t
work,” said Joshua Mahoney from Stoneham’s
Marketing Department.
Stoneham receives requests for donations
from the community which they review
regularly. It varies as to how the request will
be fulfi lled. In addition to being sponsors
for dinners and fund raising events,
StonehamBank takes caring for our senior
citizens very seriously. In partnership with the
Council on Aging, StonehamBank’s Security
Manager, Mike McGrath co-leads workshops
with Billerica Police Offi cer Tara Connors
on identity theft and scam recognition. Th e
next identity theft program is scheduled at the
COA for March.
“We tell people if it seems too good to be
true, it probably is,” said Mahoney.
In the spring each year, StonehamBank
partners with the Shawsheen Vocational
High School for Job Shadow Day. About 30
students are bussed to Stoneham from the
business tech shop to learn all about bank
operations. Th e staff makes it fun by having
give aways and prizes for the students. One
year, a female student won Red Sox tickets
and went wild calling everyone she knew to
tell them the news.
When it comes to helping children,
StonehamBank never hesitates to give back.
Between scholarships to the Scholarship
Foundation or sponsorship for Pop Warner
Football to participating in fund raising
volleyball tournaments for Easter Seals,
StonehamBank staff and volunteers can be
found all over town.
“When it comes to kids, it comes to yes,”
said Ed Allan, Vice President of Commercial
Lending.
For Billerica Branch Manager Rebecca
Scott and Assistant Branch Manager Katie
Fudge, seeing their customers outside the
branch is a treat. Th ey have greeted customers
at Yankee Doodle Homecoming or handed
out donuts and coff ee to seniors waiting at the
COA Flu Clinic. Th ey’ve even served hot dogs
at the Snack Shack at Pop Warner games.
“It’s good to see the smiles on their faces,”
said Fudge.
Looking to make a bigger impact,
StonehamBank off ers educational events
that discuss sound money management.
Th ey have supported the Billerica High
DECA Program’s fi nancial literacy project
where students are educating peers basic
budgeting and saving. Th ey host fi rst time
buyer seminars, with the next one scheduled
in April, where attendees get the opportunity
to talk with housing inspectors, appraisers,
attorneys, realtors, and loan offi cers. Th is year
following Tax day on April 17, the general
public is invited to participate in Shred-it Day
at the Billerica branch. People can bring in all
their old documents and have them shredded
for security’s sake.
“We’re a community bank,” said Katie
Gatcomb, Senior Vice President of Risk
Management. “We want to give back to the
community.”
For more information on products and
services, visit the StonehamBank web site at
www.stonehambank.com.
STONEHAMBANK REDEFINES COMMUNITY
For the fi rst time, Billerica will join the ranks of many
US towns across the country when more than 80 students
take the stage at the Buck Auditorium to start spelling.
Th e Billerica Spelling Bee, as part of the Partners for
Education, will run it’s town wide competition on Feb. 6
from 9:30 am to 5:30 pm. Th e list of participants consists
of students from third through eighth grade who are now
hitting the books and studying their 300 word list for the
big day.
“Th e words are consistent with grade level but
are challenging,” said Michael Moore, Spelling Bee
Committee Co-Chairperson.
More than 350 students town wide in grades three
through eight took the written test to qualify for the
Spelling Bee. Each grade will compete in the traditional
spelling bee contest to determine the best speller for their
grade. A fi nal round of competition will pit the winners
from grades fi ve through eight in a championship round
to crown the grand champion speller.
“Th e enthusiasm is there,” said Moore.
Th e earliest evidence of the phrase spelling bee in
print dates back to 1825. Th e United States National
Spelling Bee was started in 1925 by Th e Courier-Journal,
the newspaper of Louisville, Kentucky. In 1941, the
Scripps Howard News Service acquired sponsorship of the
program, and the name changed to the Scripps Howard
National Spelling Bee (later simply “Scripps National
Spelling Bee”).
“Th ere’s a lot of tradition in Spelling Bee,” said Moore.
Moore and his wife Denise were watching the Scripps
National Spelling Bee in May and were impressed with the
students’ determination. Th ey wondered why there wasn’t
a spelling bee event in Billerica since there are programs
for performing arts, visual arts, and sports. Th e couple
decided to meet with the Billerica Partners for Education
and the Public Schools Department to pitch the idea. Th e
response was positive and all parties approved it.
“Th e spelling bee reinforces educational principles,”
said Moore.
Starting at 9 am on Feb. 6, the contestants will arrive
at Town Hall. Th e event will be recorded for broadcast
on BATV. Sponsors have contributed funding as well
as in-kind donations to make this event possible. Cash
donations were made by Billerica Rotary Club, Th e
Billerica
Green, O’Connor’s Hardware, Enterprise Bank, Ma’s
Dry Cleaning and Flir
Systems through the Community Grants programs.
In-kind donations have been made by Microsoft
Corporation (mice), Simon & Schuster (books),
Macmillan (books), Kingfi sher (books), and St. Martin’s
Press (books). Enterprise Bank will also award a $100
savings bond to a student
whose name suggestion is accepted for the bee logo.
Th e committee wants to extend it’s thanks to the sponsors
which are making this possible.
“Because of the sponsors, we’re going to be able to
off er trophies, medals and prize packs,” said Moore.
Tickets will be sold at the door and grant all day
admission. Th ey are $5 for adults, $3 for students
and seniors and children under 5 are free. Visit the
spelling bee web site for additional information at
www.billericaspellingbee.org.
SPELLING PHENOMS HIT THE STAGE: BILLERICA PART OF NATIONAL TRADITION
StonehamBank donates
to Billerica Pop Warner
Frank Geary, Helping Our
Troops and Rebecca Scott, Billerica
Branch Manager.
Why walk in the cold and snow if you don’t
have to? Jennifer Chubb, owner of Peace of
Mind Personalized Pet Care Solutions, stands
by her clients no matter what the weather. She
is happy to take your best friend out! Her furry
friends-- Sedona, Ike, and Stuey donned their
coats and romped in the snow right along side
her. Stay warm!
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HERE’S WHAT WE ARE WORKING FOR NEXT MONTH AT THE BILLERICA GREEN
Real Estate Spring Market Is ComingTh e snow starts to melt and it’s a perfect time to head to open houses. Th e Real
Estate community speaks out on what was 2009 like and what 2010 holds for
buyers and sellers.
Billerican Olympic PrideWith the Olympics about to begin in Vancouver, it’s a fi tting time to recall our
local athletes who went onto to athletic greatness and made us proud.
Vacation DestinationsSchool Vacation Week always leaves parents with time on their hands. Take your
kids around town and have fun while you save gas and money.
Indian Traditions Through TimeTh ree generations of Indian women share their wedding stories and how they
managed to hang onto their culture in modern American society
Q. I was at a party recently and overheard someone saying they
put a Homestead on their property. What exactly is a Homestead and should I have one on my property?
A. A Declaration of Homestead is
something that Massachusetts law
allows a homeowner to fi le in order to protect
the equity of their family home. It is a one-
page form that upon completing, recording,
and paying a $35 fee to the Registry of
Deeds, becomes eff ective immediately. By
fi ling this simple document, a homeowner
may exclude up to $500,000 in equity of
his personal residence from creditors. While
creditors may still go after other assets, such
as bank accounts or retirement homes, they
will be barred from seizing the fi rst $500,000
of a home owner’s residence. As such, if
a home owner’s residence has a value less
than $500,000, his entire home will be free
from creditors. One important aspect of a
Declaration of Homestead, however, is that
it only protects from debts that are incurred
after it is recorded. If a homeowner incurs
a debt in 2005 and records a Homestead in
2010, the home will not be protected from
the 2005 debt.
Some people think it is not necessary to fi le
a Homestead because their credit is good
and they see no occasion where a creditor
would seize their assets. I remind them that
they need not be in fi nancial trouble in order
to benefi t from a Homestead. For example,
say “Bill” isn’t paying attention while driving
and makes a terrible mistake at the wheel
that causes someone to be seriously injured.
Bill’s automobile insurance company informs
him that his policy will pay out $50,000 to
the injured party. Unfortunately the injured
party’s injuries warrant more compensation.
If Bill’s only major asset is his home, but
there is no Homestead fi led, he could lose
his home, as it could be taken to satisfy a
judgment against him. With a Homestead,
Bill, and others like him, are protected in
the event of an unforeseen and catastrophic
accident.
Some other things to know about a
Homestead are that it only applies to a home
owner’s primary residence, rather than his
vacation home. Additionally, if two people
are married and reside in the same home,
only one spouse may fi le a Homestead but
that Homestead still protects the home from
the creditors of both parties. Finally, there is
additional protection for those 62 or older, as
each person is protected for up to $500,000.
Th us if our friend Bill is 63 and is married,
both he and his wife can fi le their own
Homesteads thus protecting their primary
residence from up to $1,000,000. Of course
if Bill’s house is only worth $400,000 to
begin with, the fi ling of one Homestead is
enough. If Bill’s primary residence is worth
$650,000, the extra protection is invaluable.
In short, there is really no downside to fi ling a
Homestead since having one does not prevent
a homeowner from selling or refi nancing. It
also does not aff ect a home owner’s credit or
harm his credit report. While most attorneys
off er to draft a Homestead at the same time
as other estate documents for their clients, a
homeowner can certainly record one himself
by obtaining the form online at www.
lowelldeeds.com or by simply going to the
Registry of Deeds personally. Whether a
homeowner chooses to retain the assistance
of an attorney or record a Homestead by
himself, it is certainly worthwhile.
Jennifer H. O’Brien is the owner of O’Brien Law Offi ces, a general practice located at 630 Boston Road, Billerica, MA 01821. She can be reached at (978) 262-9880 or at www.obrienlawoffi ces.org. Th is information should not be construed as legal advice nor is it intended as a substitute for obtaining legal advice from an attorney. No person should act or rely on any information in this article without seeking the advice of an attorney.
SIMPLE HOMESTEAD PROTECTION
Court's In Session•By Attorney Jennifer O'Brien
For many homeowners, the attic is a
place to store clothes that don’t fi t, the baby’s
crib, Christmas decorations, and stacks of
boxes full of stuff long forgotten. However,
your attic provides a very important function
in your house, and if it does not do its job
properly, it could lead to problems.
Your attic serves as a buff er between the
warm (or cool) air in your house and the cold
(or hot) air outside. Th e important elements
for your attic are insulation and ventilation.
Most people know about good insulation.
Th e fl oor of your attic should be completely
covered in thick insulation. Th is will keep
most of the heat produced by your HVAC
system from escaping upward and away from
the building. If you aren’t sure if you have
enough insulation, there are multiple web
sites that can help you check.
Aside from the attic fl oor, an area that
many homeowners miss is the folding access
stairs. Th is is a huge, uninsulated hole in
your attic where the heated air – which you
paid for – can easily pass through. To cover
this gap, you can build your own box out
of fl at insulation panels or you can buy one
off the shelf at a home center. Just lower it
down over the opening before folding up the
stairs.
Th e second component of a good
working attic is ventilation. Air must be able
to move freely through the attic to exhaust
very hot summer air and warm air from the
main building in the winter.
Ideally, your attic in the winter should be
very cold – nearly as cold as the outside air.
A warm attic can lead to ice dams. Ice dams
can form if warm attic air melts roof snow,
which then rolls down and freezes near the
gutter line, which is always a cold section
of the roof. Th e dam can trap water, which
then has nowhere to drain and can work its
way backwards under shingles and inside the
house.
No matter how well your attic is insulated,
some warm air from the main building will
seep into the attic and try to warm the roof.
To keep the entire roof cold enough to
prevent melting, cold outside air enters the
attic via eave vents. Th e slightly warmer attic
air escapes by way of a ridge vent, which runs
along the peak of the roof.
If your attic is not functioning well in
the winter, one way to tell is by looking at
your roof several days after a snowstorm. If
snow is melting faster from yours compared
to your neighbors, you may have a problem.
A high number of long icicles or water stains
on or near the ceiling of your top-fl oor room
walls might indicate ice dams.
So, when you stow that box full of
sweaters for the season, pay extra attention to
your attic. Take a fl ashlight and have a look
around. It may need a little maintenance.
Jeff rey R. Parenti, P.E. is a registered
professional civil engineer living in Billerica.
TAKE CARE OF YOUR ATTIC
The Green Handyman•By Jeff rey R. Parenti, P.E.
Want to send your sweetie a
message for Valentine’s Day that
they will enjoy all month long?
Are you a secret admirer? Do you
want the whole town to know how
much you love your spouse? Your
boyfriend or girlfriend? Your kids?
In our next edition-due in mailboxes
right before the BIG day, we will run
Th e Billerica Green RED HEART
Classifi eds. For $15 a message of
50 words or less, we will print your
message of love. You can add a photo
for an additional
$10 or an icon for
an additional $5.
Put in their cutesy
nickname only you
two know about. Or
tell your children
how proud you are
all year long. Love
your family and
friends.
My Bobola, My Jujubee, and My Baba, I want you to know how much I love you. On the day you were born, I looked at you and you took my breath away. All these years later, it still happens. Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day! Love You Lots, Your Mama.
For My Darling, We’ve been through a lot and you’ve stuck by my side. We’ve faced struggles and shared many joys. On this Valentine’s Day and every day forward, I know that I can’t live without you. I Love You! Your Soul Mate.
My Bobola, My Jujubee, and My Baba, I want you to know how much I love you. On the day you were born, I looked at you and you took my breath away. All these years later, it still happens. Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day! Love You Lots, Your Mama.
Dear Mom, You have been there for me and we’ve had so much fun! You gave me advice and drove me places. You brushed my hair and painted my nails. Thank You, Mom for giving me your time and your love. I’m so lucky to have you. You’re the best!
For My Darling, We’ve been through a lot and you’ve stuck by my side. We’ve faced struggles and shared many joys. On this Valentine’s Day and every day forward, I know that I can’t live without you. I Love You! Your Soul Mate.
Dear Mom, You have been there for me and we’ve had so much fun! You gave me advice and drove me places. You brushed my hair and painted my nails. Thank You, Mom for giving me your time and your love. I’m so lucky to have you. You’re the best!
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Dear Mom
You Say
the Sweetest Things
Here’s How:
1. Send us an email at liana@thebillericagreen.com with your message of 50
words or less. Put RED HEART CLASSIFIEDS in the subject line. We
reserve the right to shorten the message for space considerations. No vulgarity
please. If we have a question, we will email you back. *We reserve the right to
refuse any message or photo.
2. Drop a check (made out to Th e Billerica Green) in the mail to Th e Billerica
Green, P.O. Box 492, Billerica MA 01821. All payments must be received
prior to print. Payment deadline is February 4th. We will confi rm receipt of
payment via email. If payment is received past print, your check will be returned.
Th at’s it...SIMPLE! Tell Your Sweetheart How Much You Care Th is
Valentine’s Day IN YOUR OWN WORDS!!
Choose from 5 diff erent Icons
or submit your own photo.
1- Loves Grows
2- Rings
3- Hearts
4- Love Birds
5- I Love You