Karl Benzio, MD. Why Does Response Matter? Copyright 2013 - Lighthouse Network This Lifetime...

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Karl Benzio, MD

Why Does Response Why Does Response Matter?Matter?

Your wish Your wish is my is my

command!command!

SOLOMONSOLOMON1 Kings 3:5, 9-11

The Most Important The Most Important Spiritual Discipline:Spiritual Discipline:

Romans 12 : 1-2Romans 12 : 1-2

I therefore urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercies, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices that are holy and pleasing to God, for this is the your spiritual act of worship.

Do not be conformed to this world, but continually be transformed by the renewing of your minds so that you may be able to determine what God's will is-what is proper, pleasing, and perfect.

For though we walk in the flesh, we are not waging war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds. We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ, being ready to punish every disobedience, when your obedience is complete.

2 Corinthians 10:3-62 Corinthians 10:3-6

1 Thessalonians 5:16-1 Thessalonians 5:16-2222

Rejoice always; pray without ceasing;in everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. Do not quench the Spirit; do not despise prophetic utterances. But examine everything carefully; hold fast to that which is good; abstain from every form of evil.

Proverbs 4:23

Keep thy heart with all diligence; For out of it flows the wellspring of life.

As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.Proverbs 23:7

Deuteronomy 30Deuteronomy 30

10 The Lord your God will delight in you if you obey his voice and keep the commands and decrees written in this Book of Instruction, and if you turn to the Lord your God with all your heart and soul.

11This command I am giving you today is not too difficult for you to understand, and it is within your reach.

19Today I have given you the choice between life and death, between blessings and curses. Now I call on heaven and earth to witness the choice you make. Oh, that you would choose life, so that you and your descendants might live!

20 You can make this choice by loving the Lord your God, obeying him, and committing yourself firmly to him. This is the key to your life. And if you love and obey the Lord, you will live long in the land the Lord swore to give your ancestors Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.

KarlKarl’’s s StoryStory

Why did I become a

psychiatrist?

Karl’s First Beer

Goal: Mind of Christ

Jesus’ Brain = Perfection!

1.Perceived everything from a Godly perspective

2.Responded with Biblical skills

BrainWorks – My BrainWorks – My BrainBrain

Based on new scientific research, my brain does 2 things

Perceives

Responds

BrainWorksBrainWorks Research Research

GI / Cardiac

Panic Disorder Study

Panic Disorder and DepressionPanic Disorder and DepressionBefore and After St. JohnBefore and After St. John’’s Wort and s Wort and

EMDREMDR

Heart Heart of Transformation: of Transformation: Decision-MakingDecision-Making

• No biological Intervention• But Brain Chemistry Improved/Renewed

Decision-making is exercise for brain• Good decisions = stronger brain• Bad decisions = injured brain

What determines accurate Perception and Response?Human Manuals – Distort lenses and responseHoly Bible – God’s Instruction Manual

DM: Science and Faith MeetPractical Theology

Integration and DM are Key!Integration and DM are Key!

SpiritBody

Decision-Making Decision-Making ==

Spirit, Mind, & Body

IntegrationIntegration

1. Solomon’s Wish, God was pleased Most Important Spiritual Discipline/Skill

2. God’s greatest gift you have 100% control of3. Spiritual Act of Worship4. Divinely Powerful Weapon5. Constant Mode of Prayer/Communication6. Wellspring of Life7. Key to Your Life8. Brain Exercise = Renews the Mind

Neurobiological Intervention9. Intersection of Spirit, Mind, and Body;

Science / Faith10.Light for Evangelism

• Classes in DM?• Bible– Jesus, Paul, Solomon, David, Peter, James– Biographies of good and bad

• Most people – Random– E-M-M-M, R-P-S, Dice, Magic 8 Ball, Coin

Flip• Bible– Gideon’s fleece, Cast lots, Urim and

For what I am doing, I do not understand; for I am not practicing what I would like to do, but I am doing the very thing I hate So now, no longer am I the one doing it, but sin which dwells in me. For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh; for the willing is present in me, but the doing of the good is not. For the good that I want, I do not do, but I practice the very evil that I do not want. But if I am doing the very thing I do not want, I am no longer the one doing it, but sin which dwells in me.

I find then the principle that evil is present in me, the one who wants to do good. For I joyfully concur with the law of God in the inner man, but I see a different law in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin which is in my members. Wretched man that I am! Who will set me free from the body of this death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, on the one hand I myself with my mind am serving the law of God, but on the other, with my flesh the law of sin.

Decision-Making StrategyDecision-Making Strategy

• How many Decisions per day?

• Decisions Determine the course of your life.

• Decisions determine whether your brain gets stronger or weaker

• How do you make decisions?

Regarding your former way of life, you were taught to strip off your old man, which is being ruined by its deceptive desires, to be renewed in the spirit of your minds,

and to clothe yourselves with the new man, which was created according to the likeness of God in righteousness and true holiness.

Ephesians 4:22-24Ephesians 4:22-24

1 Peter 1:13-151 Peter 1:13-15 Therefore, prepare your minds for

action, keep a clear head, and set your hope completely on the grace to be given you when Jesus Christ is revealed. As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance,

but as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct.

SPEARSSPEARS• All the elements• Right sequence• Requires thought• Requires intention• Requires practice

Stimuli

Perception

Emotion

Assessment

Response

Summary Thought

StimuliStimuli

• Stimuli is anything that acts on or mobilizes your coping mechanisms

• All stimuli is neutral

• God is sovereign

Stimuli

Perception

Emotion

Assessment

Response

Summary Thought

What word do you see?What word do you see?

TestTest

• How many squares are there?

• Hint: What is the most important question?

• Is this the only way to view this?

Perception ExercisePerception Exercise

• Things are not always as they seem: 84!

• Assumptions• Jumping to

conclusions• Knee-jerk reactions

PerceptionPerception

• Perception is what really drives the decision-making process

• Subconscious• We are usually unaware of

perception because it occurs so fast in the decision-making process

• Adversary with a Strategy

Stimuli

Perception

Emotion

Assessment

Response

Summary Thought

Devil DogsDevil Dogs

No Drool

PerceptionPerception• Satan gets to us as

early as possible, when we are most gullible

• Unpack Life - FOO• Our brains our easily

influenced as kids (neuroplasticity)

• Relationships• Maturity is seeing life

clearly

Stimuli

Perception

Emotion

Assessment

Response

Summary Thought

FiltersFilters

EmotionsEmotions

God has lots of God has lots of emotions!emotions!

• Anger – Mat 23, Mark 3, John 2, 2 Kings 24• Jealousy – Exodus 20, Deut 6• Sad/Wept – Luke 19, John 11, Heb 5• Troubled – John 12• Forsaken – Matt 27• Abandoned – Matt 27• Tempted – Matt 4• Worried – Luke 22

EmotionEmotion• Warning system• Not a decision-

making system• Distort reality

- Court- Doctors

• Volume Buttons• Biblical truths soothe

Stimuli

Perception

Emotion

Assessment

Response

Summary Thought

AssessmentAssessment

• Who is stronger: a tiger or a man?

• Emotional and intellectual volume– We fail when we let

our emotions rule our intellect

– Poor tolerance and soothing of negative feelings

Stimuli

Perception

Emotion

Assessment

Response

Summary Thought

AssessmentAssessment• Options• Pros and Cons

• Weigh pros and cons using the filters (GPT, GPN, LDO, C, M)– SMB Damage/growth– Motivators

Stimuli

Perception

Emotion

Assessment

Response

Summary Thought

ResponseResponse

• We need a relationship with God

• We need to put on the Armor of God

• Is this helping me or others become more Christ-like?

• WWJD?• Mark 12:30• Sometimes a combo of

Stimuli

Perception

Emotion

Assessment

Response

Summary Thought

Summary ThoughtSummary Thought

• After review of each element

• Celebrate our successes, and learn from our failures

• Are my responses working for long term health

• Heart Change• Self-reflection and

assessment is paramount• Autopsy

Stimuli

Perception

Emotion

Assessment

Response

Summary Thought

Driving Force for DysfunctionDriving Force for Dysfunction

Stimuli

Perception

Emotion

Assessment

Response

Summary Thought

Main ProblemsMain ProblemsOLD Beliefs-Lies NEW Beliefs-TruthNegative feelings are bad Negative feelings are our warning

system

I am all alone Jesus is with me, hook his yoke

We can’t endure negative feelings

We can endure and grow;God will meet us and give peace

We only have skills and of 8 yo We have skills and of an adult

Talking about them is bad Talking abut them is good

One variable is same, so all are same

One variable is same, so only one is same

Deconstruction/Deconstruction/ReconstructionReconstruction

• Prospective• Retrospective – Autopsy• Flexibility• Journaling• Thinking about it more – then real

time use• Skills need Practice• Behavioral Change• Examination of Heart• Heart Change leads to Real

Hardware SummaryHardware Summary

• Most important Spiritual Discipline• Bible talks the most about DM• Exercise for the Brain, Spirit, Mind• Intersection of S,M,B• Intersection of Science and Faith• Need a Strategy, Slow the Mind• SPEARS• Reveals what’s in the Heart• Easiest way to reflect/detect/resurrect

DM Key PointsDM Key Points

• Darwin and Freud

• Faith: the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.• Science: Hard Data, Measurables• Definitions Collide• Do they work together?

Science and FaithScience and Faith

Science is:• The study of what God made

• Understanding how He designed it to work

• Learning how to maximally steward it for God’s glory and our abundant living

God’s Great God’s Great GiftsGifts

Mind/HeartFree Will: Decision Making

Science is a tool.Science is a tool.So let’s not ignore the science.

LighthouseLighthouse NETWORK NETWORK ResourcesResources

• WITHIN REACH: Disciplines for Real Life Change– 10+ Hours of DVD– 140 Page Workbook

• EDGING FORWARD: Mastering the Art of Godly Decision-Making– 8 Chapels(25 min each) on DVD

• Free Stepping Stones Daily Devotional – Emailed daily

• Addiction: Sin, Disease, or Psychological Defect DVD• Can Psych Meds Help Christians? DVD• Depression, Cutting, Bipolar DVDs• No Other Gods (SPEARS and example) DVD

• Parenting workshops available on DVD

• Finds addiction and MH treatment options.• Expertise about all elements of the system• Free to client• Saves the clinician incredible amounts of time• We find great options for struggling people

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Got Questions?Got Questions?

For if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place, but you and your father’s family will perish. And who knows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this?

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