How do you know when you’re making

life too hard for yourself ?

Here are three ways that I’ve personally

witnessed…

1

You know you are making life too hard

for yourself when you are…

Being too “outcomes”

focussed

Or … To say it another way … It is

when you are…

Focusing on the whole to the

exclusion of the parts

2

You know you are making life too hard

for yourself when you are…

Thinking there’s ONE right answer…

(And it’s 42!)

Or… To say it another way … It is

when you are…

Focusing on the parts to the

exclusion of the whole

And… Finally…

3

You know you are making life too hard

for yourself when you are…

Othering(Materializing “Us and

Them”)(Believing the “difficult person”

myth)

Or… To share the antidote…

Parts outside the whole make the whole bigger.

Which of the three have you noticed?