When you are friends, as opposed to dating, there are fewer demands

You can learn more about each other without the strains of a more serious bond

In dating, you practice relationship skills You learn what qualities you like in a

partner You try out communication skills You are more prepared for a future

relationship

Parents don’t want teens to: be in a situation they can’t controlget involved in close relationships before

they’re ready lose sight of their goals

The benefits to going out in groups are:You can relax and have funYou feel less self-conscious and nervous

…allows experience with different people and personalities

It doesn’t limit relationships Gives more opportunities to meet others

… brings a sense of security and provides an opportunity to get to know one person well

Take the time to choose the right partner

Communication Conflict resolution

Problems…Teens don’t take marriage seriouslyFail to choose a partner carefullyHave money problemsChange as they matureHighest rate of divorce

What is love based on?Love is based on caring and a desire to

work toward common goals What does love require of people?

It requires give-and-take, devotion, admiration, and affection

What question can you ask about a relationship to determine whether it is love or infatuation? Is the relationship based upon more than

just physical attraction? Is the feeling based on the TOTAL person? Is concern for each person’s well-being and

happiness important to the other?Have you given it enough time?

Intense, short-term feelings of love for someone

Usually with someone with whom a romantic relationship isn’t possible

The best way to handle jealousy is to talk honestly about it

Resentment is stowed away, slowly builds, and later erupts at an inappropriate, unrelated time

Make a clean end of it Be straight with the other person Be firm Avoid using pressure to stop the

breakup Speak fairly about the other person to

friends Give yourself time to recover from the

hurt Use what you have learned for future

relationships

Teenage pregnancy causes difficult decisions

It makes finishing school difficult Teens miss friends and activities, may

have little money, and face poor job prospects

Teens must juggle demands of working and parenting

Teens face problems with their parents

Pregnancy STD’s (sexually transmitted diseases) Feelings of shame and being used

Hormones TV and movies peers

Abstinence Go out in groups Spend time at home with family Make your wishes clear to your partner Use self-control Plan how to handle dating in advance