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LET’S ROLL:LET’S ROLL:KIDS PROGRAMSKIDS PROGRAMSDRAW FAMILIES DRAW FAMILIES TO BOSTON’S TO BOSTON’S MFAMFA
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Do you know the next CSB CHAMPION?
If you know an individual or group of students who deserve recognition for their success in school, sports, the arts or the community, honor them as a CSB Champion. Simply email [email protected] to nominate them.
How did the kids come up with the program of Bennett Bucks? I came up with the idea last year. Each year we have a “wish list” and parents can send in something needed for the classroom around the holidays. As I looked around the classroom, I felt very fortunate to have many wonderful things for the classroom such as markers, glue, crayons, etc. So I thought about the idea of giving back and trying to teach the children about giving and needs and wants. They all knew of the tradition of bringing in gifts for the class so when I asked them what they thought we needed they couldn’t think of anything. That is how Bennett Bucks began. As the students show random acts of kindness, giving or something good, I put a “buck” in the bucket. At the end of the week, we count the bucks and I turn it into real cash that is donated to the United Way. (And Clinton Savings Bank MATCHES our donation!)
How would you describe what it means to be a “champion” in any field? So many things come to mind, to me a “cham-pion” is being a role model or as a friend once said to me, “Be the change you want to see.” If you want to see change, you have to work at it, show others and hopefully it will be passed on.
What are the unique qualities of your students that make them CSB Champions? I have a great group of students this year and when I told them about the idea of “Bennett Bucks,” they loved it and were very willing to want to help others. I extend the invitation to parents and they can do the same thing at home. I know they are proud of what they are doing because they came to school after the letter went home telling me of the bucks they have already earned.
In what way are they leaders in the school? Well, they are only first graders, so I’m not sure if they truly know what it means to be a leader. My hope is that someday they will be old enough to understand that what they did in first grade was something special and carry out something just as special as they get older.
What moment is the one you are most proud of? With the United Way and the money we contribute to this organization we are feeding families over the holidays. It takes $50 to feed one family. The moment I am most proud of is when the children find out how many families we “feed,” and they go home to share the news with their parents and the parents tell me.
Berlin Memorial’s First Graders Bennett Bucks Program
Notes on page 28, journalist Sue Wambolt writes of women who are juggling these responsibilities. Following her story are emails that came to baystateparent from our Facebook discussion, each filled with advice for others who plan to go back to school. On a lighter note, comedienne Kerri Louise has some ideas for the new year that are sure to make you smile. In her article, Mommy’s New Year’s Resolutions, she lists 25 things she plans to change this year. Among her priorities: shaving her legs without interruption, and throwing herself at the PTA. That last one? Not what you think it is. Enjoy her piece on page 14. Our stunning cover photo this month is also a tribute to the season. Twins Jada and Jacinda Hewes of Granby are a beautiful addition to a winter landscape. The picture was emailed to baystateparent recently by their mother, Jennifer. She thought we might use the picture inside the magazine, but when our Creative Director Paula Ethier saw the photo, her eyes grew wide and she said, “This is a cover!” By the end of the day, we had our January cover photo. At baystateparent, we are also enjoying new beginnings. Our new website, baystateparent.com, is
alive with interesting stories, news, events, giveaways, and intriguing blogs. It is a place to share your thoughts among a community of parents just like you. Together, we can inspire and support each other in our common goal to create happy and healthy families. Finally, a thank you for the generous “welcome home” that many of you recently shared. This month, I became Editor in Chief for baystateparent magazine and website. While it is another new beginning, it is also a return home. In 1996, I was the original editor for Today’s Parent magazine which later became baystateparent. For nearly five years, I worked alongside Paula to establish the magazine before leaving to establish my family and career. To step back at the helm and see how much we all have grown is rewarding. Even better, to see how much we plan to do in the coming year is exciting. The new year is just getting started and so are we! Thank you for sharing it with baystateparent. Together, we will support and empower each other to make it great. Happy New Year,
MaryJo Kurtz
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Happy New Year. This is the Big Beginning that has a lot of us considering change — making resolutions to improve our lives. So, how fitting that this comes in the dead of winter when it appears Mother Nature is regrouping, too. Each time I see the pretty snowflakes blowing through the air, I think She is hinting at glorious spring plans in the making. This month, baystateparent celebrates the promise of a new year with stories to inspire you as you make your resolutions. Among the most interesting is a piece on local mothers who are balancing parenthood with a college education. In When Mom Goes Back to School: Women Share
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Jacinda and Jada! This month’s cover photo was taken by Jenniferrosephotography.org photographer Jennifer Hewes of Granby, and it features her 10-year-old twin daughters, Jacinda Rose (left) and Jada Isabelle (right).
1. What do you like best about modeling?Jacinda: I like to get treats after modeling, like money or chocolate!Jada: I like wearing the beautiful outfits, and I like doing different poses.
2. What is your favorite winter activity?Jacinda: I love making a snow fort!Jada: I love to go tubing at Butternut Mountain!
3. Where did you go on your favorite vacation?Jacinda: I like to go to Disney for vacation and go on Splash Mountain. I also loved Block Island because I like the small houses, making things from clay on the beach, and riding the boogie boards. Jada: My favorite vacation was Daytona Beach, staying at the Wyndham Ocean Walk Resort. I love the pool and beach area together.
4. Who is your favorite teacher?Jacinda: I liked all my teachers, but my favorite one was my mom in Kindergarten. Jada: I loved having my mom for my Kindergarten teacher at St. John's in Ludlow.
5. Tell us something about being a twin that would surprise us.Jacinda: It's very surprising when we think alike sometimes. At school sometimes we get the same answers wrong or draw the same pictures, and we don't even sit near each other!Jada: It's surprising that we do everything together (school, dance, soccer, etc.) and don't get sick of each other that much!
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DreamWorks’ Turbo DVD Facebook recipe contest winner: Heather Plotkin, Groton
In our contest to win a copy of DreamWorks’ Turbo DVD, we asked readers to Turbo-charge their ovens and share a cookie recipe perfect for snow day fun. Heather’s winning recipe is for butter cookies. Get the decorations out and have fun making this with the kids. It’s a great snow day treat!
Directions: In a small bowl, mix flour, baking soda, and cream of tartar. Set aside. In a a large bowl, beat together the butter and sugar until light and fluffy. In a third bowl, beat egg yolks at medium speed until thick and pale yellow. Mix together the egg and butter mixtures with the vanilla. Stir in the flour mix. Create cookies, flatten slightly, and decorate with your favorite sprinkles and jimmies. Bake at 350 degrees for 12 to 15 minutes.
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Kerri Louise had us laughing out loud with her article Mommy’s New Year’s Resolutions on page 14. We especially enjoyed her proclamation of love for the PTA (that’s #17 on the list of 25, btw). Kerri is a stand-up comedienne and mother of three boys. Her recent credits include Nick Mom on Nickelodeon and Stand Up in Stilettos for the TV Guide channel. Kerri was a semi-finalist on Last Comic Standing on NBC and a regular correspondent on the Oprah show. For more about her and to subscribe to her monthly webisode, Mommy Minute, visit mymommyminute.com.
What happens when you ask your children to come up with your New Year’s resolutions? Longtime local columnist Jon McGrath found out. In Don’t Wear Sweatpants…and Other Resolutions from My Kids on page 15, Jon shared the list of unexpected grievances tossed his way — including everything from his swim fashion to the tone of his voice. Jon grew up in Westborough and still calls the town home. He and his wife, Jen, have three kids (ages 14, 12, and 10). The Little League baseball coach previously wrote for The Westborough News and Westborough Patch. He invites you to follow him on Twitter, @Jon_McGrath.
Doug Page is our resident worrier. As the dad of two boys, 11 and 10, Doug admits he worries about everything — teachers, friends, health, sports teams, and more. Just like most parents. “That’s what I’m thinking while interviewing someone for baystateparent. How’s a dad going to react to this story? What does a concerned, possibly nervous mom want to know when reading this article?” He uses that concern to his advantage this month in his article Investing in the Future: A Tuition Tutorial on page 32 , offering expert advice about saving for college. Before writing for baystateparent, this Medfield father worked United Press International and the Chicago Sun-Times. You can reach him at [email protected].
If you know of someone in the process of building a family through adoption, you may be wondering what you can do to help. Journalist Michelle Shirk offers suggestions in her article 8 Ways to Support Adoptive Parents, part of our monthly Finally, Forever column on page12. As the adoptive mother of a daughter through domestic adoption, Michelle writes from personal experience. From loaning baby items to attending the finalization ceremony, her tips are both sensitive and practical. Michelle is an attorney, freelance writer and proud mother of one. She writes about adoption, family, travel and other topics for a number of publications.
These days, you can often find Westborough journalist Susan Smith at the ice rink. Her teenage daughter is a talented figure skater rising in competitive skating, and the Smith family spends many hours at the rink each week. In her article Figuring It Out: Children and Figure Skating on page 44, she offers a guide for families interested in the sport, discussing everything from choosing a coach to paying for lessons. Susan is the mother of two, 11 and 13. She lives in Westborough with her children, husband Mike and two pet guinea pigs, Johnny and Bob.
Any mother who is considering a return to school will gain insight and inspiration from Sue Wambolt’s article When Mom Goes Back to School on page 28. In it, Sue spoke with several women to explore the pros and cons of raising children while hitting the books. The Southborough writer has a degree in Early Childhood Education and taught kindergarten before staying home to raise her four children. Now that her youngest is off to college, Sue spends her time writing and pursing her passion for photography. Sue wrote a parenting column for Patch and writes regularly for the Community Advocate.
MEET OUR JANUARY CONTRIBUTORS
Massachusetts freelance writers interested in covering family and parenting topics for baystateparent magazine, please contact editor MaryJo Kurtz at [email protected].
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KIDS IN THE KITCHENIntroducing young children to cooking does not have to be time consum-
ing or messy. Use this quick and easy snack idea to teach about measuring ingredients, cleaning produce, and assembling a finished dish — leaving plenty of time to share the tasty treat together.
DirectionsPluck a handful of grapes into a colander, removing stems and giving them
a good scrub. Place in a bowl. Break banana into small sections, about a half inch wide. Take a minute to show your kids how the cross section of a banana piece looks like a sliced pizza or pie. Toss the banana pieces into the bowl with the grapes. Top with one to two tablespoons of yogurt and one to two teaspoons of your favorite jam. Serve.
Recipe courtesy: “Gotta Eat, Can’t Cook,” by Westborough’s Bruce Tretter. Bruce’s “Show Me How” Video and Picture Book Recipes can be found at www.gotta-eat.com. Bruce would like to hear from you! If there is recipe that you hope to see made kid-friendly, let him know at [email protected]. You may see your request in his new Kid-Friendly Food Picture Book Recipe Book.
The Worcester Common Oval skating rink is open to the public now through Feb. 23. Winter fun for all ages takes
place at 455 Main St. Open Saturdays and Sundays, 1 to 5 p.m.; weekdays during February school vacation, 1 to
5 p.m.; and Thursdays for a lunchtime skate, 12 to 2 p.m. Admission is $2 per person; free for children 6 and under.
Skate rentals are $3. In the event of questionable weather conditions, call 508-929-0777 for rink schedule.
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LOCAL FAMILY MUSICIAN WINS GRAMMY NODAlastair Moock, one of Bos-
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The adoption process is often compared to a roller coaster. Many prospective adoptive families spend months or even years completing paperwork and waiting
for placement of a child, and some encounter significant setbacks along the way. The journey that ultimately led my husband and me to a successful domestic infant adoption was a lengthy one. However, to say our amazing daughter was worth the wait would be a tremendous understatement. I am confident that we ended up with exactly the right child for our family and will remain forever grateful to our wonderful family and friends for their support along the way. If you know someone in the process of building a family through adoption, you may be wondering what you can do to help. Below are some tips for providing support to a prospective adoptive family before and after the placement of a child in their home.
Throughout the Adoption Process
1. Understand the type of adoption involved. Adoptive families can be formed in a variety of ways including international adoption, domestic infant adoption, adoption through the foster care system, and stepparent adoption. Adoption.com and similar websites provide excellent background information on the various types of adoption, but keep in mind that rules can vary depending on the state, country and/or agency involved. 2. Offer tangible assistance. Families in the adoption process sometimes need a favor. Many if not all candidates for adoption will require reference letters from friends or family members. Some may also need photographs for a profile book, help spreading the word about their desire to adopt, or just a listening ear. If you want to help out but aren’t sure what you can do, just ask.
3. Celebrate significant milestones. Depending on the type of adoption involved, landmark moments might include: making the decision to adopt, completing the home study process, matching with an expectant mother, or receiving the referral of a child. There are many ways to acknowledge these milestones. To celebrate the start of our process, one thoughtful friend gave us a picture frame intended to hold a photo of our future child. Others simply told us how excited they were when they learned about progress we had made. A handwritten note or card is also a nice gesture.
4. Acknowledge setbacks and disappointments. The “lows” of the adoption process can include anything from a paperwork snafu to a failed match with an expectant mother. If you aren’t sure what to say in such a circumstance, try a simple, “I’m thinking about you.”
After Placement of a Child
1. Offer the use of baby supplies. Because the adoption timeline is often uncertain, some prospective adoptive families choose not to purchase many baby supplies in advance. This approach saved our sanity during the wait but left us scrambling when we received word our daughter had been born several states away. Fortunately, friends provided us with clothing and supplies left over from their own children to help us get through the first few weeks. If you’re already a parent, consider loaning your dormant Diaper Genie or baby washcloths to a family in the early stages of parenthood.
2. Respect privacy about the details of the adoption. Adoptive families have varying comfort levels regarding the information they wish to share
about their fertility history, their child’s biological parents, and the circumstances that lead to the adoption. The closeness of your relationship with the individuals involved obviously impacts the types of questions that are appropriate. Regardless of the situation, though, try to avoid putting new parents on the spot about issues they seem hesitant to discuss.
3. Focus on adoption as the desired outcome. Adoption should be treated as a wonderful way to build a family, not a second best option. Comments such as, “Are you still going to try to have your own child?” are better left unsaid. 4. Celebrate the end of the adoption process. In some cases, an adoption is not finalized until after a child has been home for weeks or months. It’s a big deal to be legally recognized as parents, so consider offering a
We are Family: A Post-Adoption Support Group. Emerson Hospital Campus, Route 2, Concord. Third Thursday of each month, 7 to 9 p.m. A monthly support and education group for parents who are caring for foster children, have adopted a child at age 3 or older, or whose adopted child is now over age 5. 978-287-0221, ext. 218.
Boston Regional Adoption Information Meetings. Massachusetts Department of Children and Families, 451 Blue Hill Ave., Dorchester. Third Wednesday of every month,
4 to 5:30 p.m. Learn how you can change the future of a child in need by becoming a foster or adoptive parent. No registration required. 617-989-9209.
Western Massachusetts Adoption Information Meeting. Massachusetts Department of Children and Families, 140 High St., 5th floor, Springfield. First Tuesday of every month, 4 to 6 p.m. For questions or to RSVP, call 413-452-3369.
Baby Care for First-Time Prospective Adopters. Adoption Community of New England, Inc., 45 Lyman St., #2,
Westborough. Saturday, January 7, 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Learn basics of baby care in a nationally recognized program and an adoption-friendly environment. $5 per person. 508-872-2230 or [email protected].
If your group or organization is presenting a program for adoptive families, and you would like to include it in
baystateparent magazine or on our website, please send information to:
Megan is a dynamic and energetic 15-year-old Caucasian girl. She is friendly, sociable, and enjoys participating in several afterschool activities. Meg, as she prefers to be called, takes pride in being part of the yearbook and newspaper clubs as well as the school choir. Although she can be shy about performing solo in front of an audience, she enjoys singing and dancing as part of a group. Meg has suffered many dis-appointments and deserves a family who will give her their attention and love her through moments of stubbornness and the ups and downs of her teenage years. She will continue to blossom under the guidance of two parents or a single female parent. Meg is legally free for adoption and will need to remain in contact with her older sister. For more information about Megan, please contact Department of Children and Families (DCF) Adoption Supervisor Eileen Griffin at (978) 353-3629. For more information about the adoption process in general, the DCF Worcester Office hosts monthly informational meetings. Please call (508) 929-2143 for information about the next meeting.
hearty “Congratulations!” when this milestone is reached. If you are particularly close with the family, you may even wish to offer to attend the final court hearing. We were touched and honored to have family members willing to travel by plane to celebrate the finalization of our adoption. I look forward to sharing photos and memories from this trip with our daughter as she grows.
The suggestions above are neither mandatory nor all-inclusive but simply a starting point to help you support a prospective adoptive family in your circle. Like most journeys, the adoption process is a lot more fun with family members and good friends along for the ride.
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I will no longer go to the bathroom with an audience.
I will NOT end my shower until I finish shaving my legs, deep conditioning my hair, and exfoliating my whole body.
I will not stop what I’m doing unless I hear, “I’m bleeding profusely, I’m on fire, or Bradley Cooper’s here.” (“I’m bleeding” alone will not stop me. It needs to be followed by “profusely.” I will also take “a lot,” “it’s gushing,” and “I hit a vein.”)
I will finish my morning coffee.
I will not feel guilty about letting my children eat a whole packet of butter, watch too much TV, or play violent video games.
Every Wednesday, my children will get to choose their own dinner - sugared cereal or Pop Tarts.
I will no longer yell at my children. I will just say “YES,” all the time to everything and anything.
The next movie I see will be rated R or worse...I mean better.
When my children are screaming and fighting in the back seat of the car,
I will turn my radio up and pretend I don't hear anything.
Every time I say, “Keep your hands to yourself!” I will go back to my college drinking game days and make myself do a shot of vodka.
I will finish my afternoon coffee.
I will not care that I can’t get my child to the birthday party on time. I will embrace the fact that all the other mothers are looking at me like I’m the bad, unorganized mommy.
I will not do HOMEWORK! I refuse to feel dumb when I can’t help my children do their homework. Especially the common core MATH.
The next time I forget to change over the laundry or I ask myself, “Why did I come into this room?” I will take that as a sure sign that I’m tired or overwhelmed, and I will take a nap immediately.
I will not ignore my children while I go on Facebook. I will no longer get depressed looking at all the wonderful things that other mothers are doing with their beautiful children.
I will find the bitch who started doing elaborate birthday parties for her 3-year-old. Sparing no expense at these extraordinary places and handing out
amazing party favors that cost more than the gift you brought the little bastard you hardly know. I promise I will find her and kill her.
I will get deeply involved with the PTA. I will respect, throw myself at, become infatuated with, and do anything necessary to get the job done. I will completely dedicate myself, grant their every wish, cater to their every need, and hobnob with the PTA. (By the way “PTA” is my pet name for my husband).
I will learn a new language. Texting. Apparently that's the only language my babysitters use to communicate. An actual text from one of my sitters: “BTW I texted 911 because your son is turning blue and they haven't shown up yet????” My text back: “I'm coming home now, BTW YOUR FIRED!!!” (For those of you who are not fluent in texting, BTW stands for “by the way,” and it's not another pet name for my husband.)
I will no longer issue time outs! However, I will take a time out for myself at least once a day. I will sit in a corner and be quiet for 5 minutes with my sippy cup filled with “Mommy Juice.” “Mommy juice” isn't going to hurt anyone. It’s going to save some lives.
The next time we go on vacation, I will pack only for myself. Everyone else is on their own. Good luck, Mommy loves you!
I will start clocking in my mommy hours. I will take all my sick days this year and demand a raise. Although, I loved my bonus last year. The necklace made of tri-colored rigatoni. I demand that the bonus comes with stalk options.
I will plan more play dates. (AKA “Girls Night Out”).
Car pools are a must this year.
I will think about giving up coffee since I never have time to finish it anyway.
I will make my children give me a 10 second hug at least once a day. I will do the counting. I will count by 1 Mississippi 2 Mississippi 3... I will refuse to let them let go until I get to 10. (This will seem like an eternity to a 10-year-old boy, but will put a smile on my face.)
When I was asked to write for baystateparent, my initial reaction was, “Why me?” I have three kids (two boys, 12 and 14, and a daughter, 10). Beyond that, I claim no particular area of parenting expertise beyond keeping my kids away from Grand Theft Auto and Justin Bieber (not necessarily in that order). I thought about it a little bit and realized that no one else really knows anything, either. As many books and parenting “how-to” articles we may read, many seemingly written by people with well-informed answers to every parenting scenario, we’re all just winging it, to some extent.
When all is said and done, these are my goals:
• My kids are at least somewhat productive members of society.• My wife, Jen, and I do a decent enough job with them that they want to sustain relationships with us throughout their adulthood, but we’re not so nice to them that they are still living with us throughout their adulthood.
So, I do my best as a dad. I know I’m not perfect. And that brings me to my New Year’s resolutions. At a time of the year when resolutions are made for self-improvement, I sought direct feedback from my kids on how I could be a better person and dad, asking them what my New Year’s resolutions should be.
The results were interesting.
Resolution: Don’t wear sweatpants, ever (you’re not cool).Rebuttal: Sweatpants are among my winter pajama wardrobe. I never wear them out of the house. While not “cool,” they are comfortable. I thought they would criticize my Red Sox or
Guinness pajama pants before the sweats. What hurt the most was not the criticism of sweatpants, but the seemingly casual observation that I am not cool.
Resolution: When we are at someone’s house, don’t say jokes (no one actually thinks you are funny).Rebuttal: Sure, having me as a dad isn’t as funny a time as Chris Rock and Will Ferrell’s kids probably have, but their kids probably don’t think they’re funny, either.
Resolution: Get a new phone that’s not greasy.Rebuttal: They have no idea what they’re talking about. I have a Samsung 4G that’s about 18-months-old. I think this suggestion is based on its protective case, which, honestly, is beaten up. I just don’t care.
Resolution: Don’t talk in your calm voice and don’t yell (just talk in your normal voice).Rebuttal: A complete no-win situation, here. My “calm voice” is the tone I (and many other parents) use when I’m about to blow my stack and trying to stay calm. So, when discussing that someone (most likely male) has recently peed on the seat and refuses to clean it up, blaming it on everyone else in the house (including the ladies) and they are all fighting about this (again), I’m supposed to use my normal speaking voice.
Resolution: Don’t wear flip-flops or a safari hat, and get a swim shirt.Rebuttal: I like flip-flops and my safari hat keeps me cool and my Irish skin sunburn-free. They may have a point with the swim shirt, as I wouldn’t want to see me shirtless, either.
Resolution: Don’t make us sort socks.
Rebuttal: I’ve only asked them to sort socks once, ever. It just happened to be on the day I asked for this list of resolutions.
Resolution: Don’t be so high-maintenance.Rebuttal: Being at a loss for this one (I may be many things, but “high-maintenance” is not one), I asked for examples, which included “needs warm water for the shower,” “always wears clean clothes,” and “always needs the discard pile neatly stacked when we play Uno.” I’ll give them the third one, but the other two are crazy.
Other suggestions were more of a Festivus-like “Airing of Grievances” than actual possible resolutions, including:
• Don’t say “this movie is just so good” during a stupid movie.• Don’t raise your eyebrows when you’re upset.• Don’t bring the trash to the dump before you go to Wegman’s. (Why this matters is beyond me.)• Don’t call Merry (one of the guinea pigs) Meriadoc. (My tribute to Meriadoc Brandybuck from The Lord of the Rings, a name I will continue to call her because it’s the only guinea pig related thing I control, including the fact that we even have guinea pigs.)
Finally, I thought I was done with this column, but they were looking over my shoulder and told me I left out the most important one: “Don’t turn around when you run just to tell people about how you run to impress them.” I left it out because I had no idea what they were talking about and it made no sense. But then I put it back in because that’s a pretty good example about a typical day as a parent.
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1 Wednesday60th Annual Festival of Lights. The National Shrine of Our Lady of LaSalette, 947 Park St., Attleboro. 5 to 9 p.m. Holiday light display features over 300,000 lights over 10 acres. Crèche museum, music. Free.
The Enchanted Village. Jordan’s Furniture Store, 100 Stockwell Dr., Avon. 11 a.m. to 8 p.m. Christmas display that originated at Jordan Marsh in Boston in the1960s is now restored and on public display in Avon. All ages. jordans.com.
Blink! Faneuil Hall Marketplace, Boston. Beginning at 4:30 p.m., running every half-hour. A holiday light show set to music featuring over 350,000 lights and music of the Holiday Pops. All ages.
Holly Days: Woodland Magic. Tower Hill Botanic Garden, 11 French Dr., Boylston. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Thousands of lights provide backdrop for handcrafted decorations in the Woodland Magic theme. Over three miles of lights decorate trees in the Milton Gallery, Reception Hall, Conservatories and Links. Included with museum admission. 508-869-6111. towerhillbg.org.
Peter and the Wolf. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station Street, Brookline. 10:30 a.m. and 1 p.m. Presented by the National Marionette Theatre. Tickets $15. puppetshowplace.org.
Bright Nights at Forest Park. Sumner Ave., Springfield. 5 to 9 p.m. Drive-through holiday light display. $18 per vehicle. 413-733-3800. brightnights.org
Walking in a Winter Wonderland. Eastern States Expo, 1305 Memorial Ave., West Springfield. 3 to 9 p.m. Stroll through snowy forest among holiday scenes. Enjoy traditions of the Christmas season. $10, free for children 12 and under. walkinginawinterwonderland.com
2 Thursday60th Annual Festival of Lights. The National Shrine of Our Lady of LaSalette, 947 Park St., Attleboro. 5 to 9 p.m. Holiday light display features over 300,000 lights over 10 acres. Crèche museum, music. Free.
The Enchanted Village. Jordan’s Furniture Store, 100 Stockwell Dr., Avon. 11 a.m. to 8 p.m. The Christmas display that originated at Jordan Marsh in Boston in the 1960s is now restored and on public display in Avon. All ages. jordans.com.
Blink! Faneuil Hall Marketplace, Boston. Beginning at 4:30 p.m., running every half-hour. A holiday light show set to music featuring over 350,000 lights and music of the Holiday Pops. All ages.
Holly Days: Woodland Magic. Tower Hill Botanic Garden, 11 French Dr., Boylston. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Thousands of lights provide backdrop for handcrafted decorations in the Woodland Magic theme. Over three miles of lights decorate trees in the Milton Gallery, Reception Hall, Conservatories and Links. Included with museum admission. 508-869-6111. towerhillbg.org.
Peter and the Wolf. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station Street, Brookline. 10:30 a.m. and 1
p.m. Presented by the National Marionette Theatre. Tickets $15. puppetshowplace.org.
Bright Nights at Forest Park. Sumner Ave., Springfield. 5 to 9 p.m. Drive-through holiday light display. $18 per vehicle. 413-733-3800. brightnights.org
Walking in a Winter Wonderland. Eastern States Expo, 1305 Memorial Ave., West Springfield. 3 to 9 p.m. Stroll through snowy forest among holiday scenes. Enjoy traditions of the Christmas season. $10, free for children 12 and under. walkinginawinterwonderland.com
Drop-In Playgroup. Worcester Family Partnership, 130 Leeds St., Worcester. 9:30 to 11 a.m. Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Fridays. Through Jan. 30. Leader-led program offers play activities for adults and children. Books, puzzles, toys, blocks, more. Free. 508-799-3136.
3 Friday60th Annual Festival of Lights. The National Shrine of Our Lady of LaSalette, 947 Park St., Attleboro. 5 to 9 p.m. Holiday light display features over 300,000 lights over 10 acres. Crèche museum, music. Free.
The Enchanted Village. Jordan’s Furniture Store, 100 Stockwell Dr., Avon. 11 a.m. to 8 p.m. The Christmas display that originated at Jordan Marsh in Boston in the 1960s is now restored and on public display in Avon. All ages. jordans.com.
Blink! Faneuil Hall Marketplace, Boston. Beginning at 4:30 p.m., running every half-hour. A holiday light show set to music featuring over 350,000 lights and music of the Holiday Pops. All ages.
Holly Days: Woodland Magic. Tower Hill Botanic Garden, 11 French Dr., Boylston. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Thousands of lights provide backdrop for handcrafted decorations in the Woodland Magic theme. Over three miles of lights decorate trees in the Milton Gallery, Reception Hall, Conservatories and Links. Included with museum admission. 508-869-6111. towerhillbg.org.
Bright Nights at Forest Park. Sumner Ave., Springfield. 5 to 11 p.m. Drive-through holiday light display. $21 per vehicle. 413-733-3800. brightnights.org
Walking in a Winter Wonderland. Eastern States Expo, 1305 Memorial Ave., West Springfield. 3 to 10 p.m. Stroll through snowy forest among holiday scenes. Enjoy traditions of the Christmas season. $10, free for children 12 and under. walkinginawinterwonderland.com
Teen New Year’s Celebration. Worcester Public Library, 3 Salem Sq., Worcester. 3:30 to 5:30 p.m. No registration necessary. Festivities and food. Open to teens 13 to 18. Teen Room, Main Library. Free. 508-799-1671. worcpublib.org.
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Marionette characters from the Tanglewood Marionettes production “Sleeping Beauty,” to be performed on January 11 at the Overlook
4 Saturday60th Annual Festival of Lights. The National Shrine of Our Lady of LaSalette, 947 Park St., Attleboro. 5 to 9 p.m. Holiday light display features over 300,000 lights over 10 acres. Crèche museum, music. Free.
The Enchanted Village. Jordan’s Furniture Store, 100 Stockwell Dr., Avon. 10 a.m. to 9 p.m. The Christmas display that originated at Jordan Marsh in Boston in the 1960s is now restored and on public display in Avon. All ages. jordans.com.
Blink! Faneuil Hall Marketplace, Boston. Beginning at 4:30 p.m., running every half-hour. A holiday light show set to music featuring over 350,000 lights and music of the Holiday Pops. All ages.
Holly Days: Woodland Magic. Tower Hill Botanic Garden, 11 French Dr., Boylston. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Thousands of lights provide backdrop for handcrafted decorations in the Woodland Magic theme. Over three miles of lights decorate trees in the Milton Gallery, Reception Hall, Conservatories and Links. Included with museum admission. 508-869-6111. towerhillbg.org.
Bright Nights at Forest Park. Sumner Ave., Springfield. 5 to 11 p.m. Drive-through holiday light display. $21 per vehicle. 413-733-3800. brightnights.org
Walking in a Winter Wonderland. Eastern States Expo, 1305 Memorial Ave., West Springfield. 10 a.m. to 10 p.m. Stroll through snowy forest among holiday scenes. Enjoy traditions of the Christmas season. $10, free for children 12 and under. walkinginawinterwonderland.com
African Story-Acting with Laura Partridge. Worcester Public Library, 3 Salem Sq., Worcester. 2:30 to 4 p.m. Professional storyteller leads children ages 5 to 9 in acting out western African folk tales. Children’s Room, Main Library. No registration necessary. Free. 508-799-1655. worcpublib.org.
Family Tours. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. 10:30 to 11 a.m. Explore the museum galleries with your family on a docent-guided discovery tour. Hear fun facts and stories. Free admission on the first Saturday of each month between 10 a.m. and noon. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
Family Time: Make Art. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. 11 to 11:30 a.m. Drop-in for this intergenerational time in the galleries. Materials will be provided. Free with museum admission. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
5 SundayThe Enchanted Village. Jordan’s Furniture Store, 100 Stockwell Dr., Avon. 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. The Christmas display that originated at Jordan Marsh in Boston in the 1960s is now restored and on public display in Avon. All ages. jordans.com.
Blink! Faneuil Hall Marketplace, Boston. Beginning at 4:30 p.m., running every half-hour. A holiday light show set to music featuring over 350,000 lights and music of the Holiday Pops. All ages.
Holly Days: Woodland Magic. Tower Hill Botanic Garden, 11 French Dr., Boylston. 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Thousands of lights provide backdrop for handcrafted decorations in the Woodland Magic theme. Over three miles of lights decorate trees in the Milton Gallery, Reception Hall, Conservatories and Links. Included with museum admission. 508-869-6111. towerhillbg.org.
Debbie and Friends’ Multimedia Variety Show. Coolidge Corner Theatre, 290 Harvard St., Brookline. Interactive family show featuring rock, pop, country, reggae, and show tunes. Suitable for all ages. $10 adults, $8 children. 617-734-2500.
Bright Nights at Forest Park. Sumner Ave., Springfield. 5 to 9 p.m. Drive-through holiday light display. $18 per vehicle. 413-733-3800. brightnights.org
Walking in a Winter Wonderland. Eastern States Expo, 1305 Memorial Ave., West Springfield. 11 a.m. to 9 p.m. Stroll through snowy forest among holiday scenes. Enjoy traditions of the Christmas season. $10, free for children 12 and under. walkinginawinterwonderland.com
6 MondayNitro Circus Live. TD Garden, 100 Legends Way, Boston. 6 p.m. Starring 17 times X Games medalist Travis Pastrana, Nitro Circus Live is a 2-hour, fully choreographed, action sports show. Tickets $36.50 to $154.85. tdgarden.com.
7 TuesdayDrop-In Playgroup. Worcester Family
Partnership, 130 Leeds St., Worcester. 9:30 to 11 a.m. Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Fridays. Through Jan. 30. Leader-led program offers play activities for adults and children. Books, puzzles, toys, blocks, more. Free. 508-799-3136.
8 WednesdayPuppet Playtime for Toddlers and Tiny Tots. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station Street, Brookline. 10:30 a.m. Tickets $15 adult, $10 child. puppetshowplace.org.
Owl Prowl. Black Bog Pond, Mt. Blue St., Norwell. 4 to 5:30 p.m. Presented by Mass Audubon, South Shore Regional Office. Experience an owl’s adaptations first hand, find out about the owls that this area home, and go on a hike to see one for yourself. Registration required. 781-837-9400.
Family Tours and Family Time, featured Saturdays at the Worcester Art Museum.
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9 Thursday2014 Prudential US Figure Skating Championships. TD Garden, 100 Legends Way, Boston. Held for the first time in Boston since 2001. Winners will go on to represent Team USA in the winter games of the XXII Olympiad in Sochi, Russia. Showtimes and prices vary; check website for details. tdgarden.com
Worcester Sharks vs. Hartford Wolf Pack. DCU Center, 50 Foster St., Worcester. 7:30 p.m. AHL Hockey. Tickets $10 to $30. 800-745-3000. sharksahl.com.
10 Friday2014 Prudential US Figure Skating Championships. TD Garden, 100 Legends Way, Boston. Held for the first time in Boston since 2001. Winners will go on to represent Team USA in the winter games of the XXII Olympiad in Sochi, Russia. Showtimes and prices vary; check website for details. tdgarden.com
Dinosaur Train Live. Springfield Symphony Hall, 34 Court Street, Springfield. 6:30 p.m. Children’s Music and Theather. Tickets $20 to $25.
11 Saturday2014 Prudential US Figure Skating Championships. TD Garden, 100 Legends Way, Boston. Held for the first time in Boston since 2001. Winners will go on to represent Team USA in the winter games of the XXII Olympiad in Sochi, Russia. Showtimes and prices vary; check website for details. tdgarden.com
Robin Hood. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station Street, Brookline. 1 and 3 p.m. Presented by Brad Shur, artist in residence. Tickets $12. puppetshowplace.org.
Sleeping Beauty, presented by Tanglewood Marionettes. The Overlook Performing Arts Center, 88 Masonic Home Road, Charlton. 11 a.m. Nationally touring marionette theater. tanglewoodmarionettes.com.
Owl Prowl. North Hill Marsh Wildlife Sanctuary, Duxbury. 4 to 5:30 p.m. Presented by Mass Audubon, South Shore Regional Office. Experience an owl’s adaptations first hand, find out about the owls that make these places their home, and go on a hike to see one for yourself. Registration required. 781-837-9400.
Family Day Program: Dance! Norman Rockwell Museum, 9 Route 183, Stockbridge. 1 to 4 p.m. Program inspired by Dancing Princesses
and the art of Ruth Sanderson. Dancers from Berkshire Ballroom will demonstrate technique and teach basic ballroom steps, and dancer Hattie McLean will offer an interactive look at the history of dance. Exhibition, readings, book signing with Ruth Sanders. Museum admission: $16 for adults, $14.50 for seniors, $10 for college students, $5 children 6 to 18, free for children 5 and under.
Family Tours. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. 10:30 to 11 a.m. Explore the museum galleries with your family on a docent-guided discovery tour. Hear fun facts and stories. Free for children 17 and under. Free for adults with museum admission. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
Family Time: Make Art. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. 11 to 11:30 a.m. Drop-in for this intergenerational time in the galleries. Materials will be provided. Free with museum admission. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
Worcester Sharks vs. Norfold Admirals. DCU Center, 50 Foster St., Worcester. 7 p.m. AHL hockey. Tickets $10 to $30. 800-745-3000. sharksahl.com.
12 Sunday2014 Prudential US Figure Skating Championships. TD Garden, 100 Legends Way, Boston. Held for the first time in Boston since 2001. Winners will go on to represent Team USA in the winter games of the XXII Olympiad in Sochi, Russia. Showtimes and prices vary; check website for details. tdgarden.com
Robin Hood. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station Street, Brookline. 1 and 3 p.m. Presented by Brad Shur, artist in residence. Tickets $12. puppetshowplace.org.
Summer Camp Fair. Sharon High School, 181 Pond Street, Sharon. 1 to 3:30 p.m. Information on summer camps for children, programs for teens, sleep away camps, creative and performing arts camps, wilderness adventures, sports camps, travel, internships, language immersion, academic enrichment, and community service programs here and abroad. Free. 781-806-5285. acacamps.com.
Worcester Sharks vs. Portland Pirates. DCU Center, 50 Foster St., Worcester. 3 p.m. AHL hockey. Tickets $10 to $30. 800-745-3000. sharksahl.com.
13 MondayDrop-In Playgroup. Worcester Family
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Asperger’s Association of New England presents “Essential Techniques for Building Independence in Your Teen.” 51 Water Street, Suite 206, Watertown. 10 a.m. to noon. Instructor is Lynne Mitchell, MSW. This program will focus on specific strategies to begin implementing immediately, to help teens develop into more independent, engaged, confident, and responsible adults. $40 members, $55 non-members. 617-393-3824. aane.org.
Read to Nemo. Worcester Public Library, 3 Salem Sq., Worcester. 6:30 to 7:30 p.m. Nemo is a Newfoundland dog who is a certified rescue and therapy dog. Sit with him on his blanket and read to him. Opportunity to encourage reluctant readers and practice reading skills. Ages 5 to 10. Children’s Room. Free. worcpublib.org
15 WednesdayPuppet Playtime for Toddlers and Tiny Tots. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station Street, Brookline. 10:30 a.m. Tickets $15 adult, $10 child. puppetshowplace.org.
16 ThursdayValentines Making Workshop. Worcester Public Library, 3 Salem Sq., Worcester. 4 to 5 p.m. Children ages 12 and under are invited to create Valentines and enter the Worcester Historical Society Contest. Children’s Room. worcpublib.org.
17 FridayRobin Hood. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station Street, Brookline. 7 p.m. Presented by Brad Shur, artist in residence. Tickets $12. puppetshowplace.org.
“Sesame Street Live: Can’t Stop Singing.” The Hanover Theatre, 2 Southbridge St., Worcester. 6 p.m. When Elmo gets his furry fingers on Abby Cadabby’s magic wand, there’s something in the air — and Sesame Street becomes a nonstop, all-singing, all-dancing
musical montage. Tickets are $19, $32, $42. Limited “sunny seats” available for $67; includes premium seating, pre-show photo opportunites, meet & greet with Elmo and another show character. $15 tickets available for price levels 3, 4, and 5 on opening night only (cannot be combined with any other discounts). 877-571-7469. thehanovertheatre.org.
18 SaturdayRobin Hood. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station Street, Brookline. 1 and 3 p.m. Presented by Brad Shur, artist in residence. Tickets $12. puppetshowplace.org.
The Pirate, The Princess, and The Pea: Crabgrass Puppet Theatre. TCAN Center for the Arts, 14 Summer Street, Natick. 11 a.m. This madcap mashup combines pirate lore and the classic story “The Princess and The Pea.” Featuring world-class puppetry, the Crabgrass Puppet Theatre tells the story of the rivaling pirate and princess who are on the hunt for the same treasure. After many adventures and trials, the two learn about the importance of cooperation and friendship. Tickets $10 adult, $8 child. crabgrasspuppets.com.
Family Tours. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. 10:30 to 11 a.m. Explore the museum galleries with your family
on a docent-guided discovery tour. Hear fun facts and stories. Free for children 17 and under. Free for adults with museum admission. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
Family Time: Make Art. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. 11 to 11:30 a.m. Drop-in for this intergenerational time in the galleries. Materials will be provided. Free with museum admission. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
“Sesame Street Live: Can’t Stop Singing.” The Hanover Theatre, 2 Southbridge St., Worcester. 10:30 a.m., 2 p.m., 5:30 p.m. When Elmo gets his furry fingers on Abby Cadabby’s magic wand, there’s something in the air — and Sesame Street becomes a nonstop, all-singing, all-dancing musical montage. Tickets are $19, $32, $42. Limited “sunny seats” available for $67; includes premium seating, pre-show photo opportunities, meet & greet with Elmo and another show character. 877-571-7469. thehanovertheatre.org.
19 SundayRobin Hood. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station Street, Brookline. 1 and 3 p.m.
Presented by Brad Shur, artist in residence. Tickets $12. puppetshowplace.org.
“Sesame Street Live: Can’t Stop Singing.” The Hanover Theatre, 2 Southbridge St., Worcester. 1 and 6:30 p.m. When Elmo gets his furry fingers on Abby Cadabby’s magic wand, there’s something in the air — and Sesame Street becomes a nonstop, all-singing, all-dancing musical montage. Tickets are $19, $32, $42. Limited “sunny seats” available for $67; includes premium seating, pre-show photo opportunities, meet & greet with Elmo and another show character. 877-571-7469. thehanovertheatre.org.
20 MondayRobin Hood. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station Street, Brookline. 10:30 a.m. and 1 p.m. Presented by Brad Shur, artist in residence. Tickets $12. puppetshowplace.org.
21 TuesdayDrop-In Playgroup. Worcester Family Partnership, 130 Leeds St., Worcester. 9:30 to 11 a.m. Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Fridays. Through Jan. 30. Leader-led program offers play activities for adults and children. Books, puzzles, toys, blocks, more. Free. 508-799-3136.
22 WednesdayPuppet Playtime for Toddlers and Tiny Tots. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station
Owl Prowl. Colby Phillips Property, Hanover. 4:15 to 5:45 p.m. Presented by Mass Audubon, South Shore Regional Office. Experience an owl’s adaptations first hand, find out about the owls that make these places their home, and go on a hike to see one for yourself. Registration required. 781-837-9400.
Summer Camp Information Fair. 7 to 9 p.m. Newman Elementary School Cafeteria, 1155 Central Avenue, Needham. Snow date is February 6. Sponsored by the Needham Park and Recreation Commission. Free. 508-320-8323.
23 ThursdayHearts and Hugs: Handcraft Some Love for Our Soldiers Overseas. Worcester Public Library, 3 Salem Sq., Worcester. 3 to 4 p.m. Create Valentines to send to troops overseas. Banx Room, Main Library. worcpublib.org.
24 FridayHairspray, The Broadway Musical. Wheelock Family Theatre. Wheelock College, 200 The Riverway, Boston. 7:30 p.m. Public performances offer open captioning. Tickets $20 to $35. [email protected]. 617-879-2300.
2014 Worcester Auto Show. DCU Center, 50 Foster St., Worcester. 4 to 8 p.m. Exhibition Hall. Tickets $6. worcestershows.com.
25 SaturdayGood Sports Invitational. TD Garden, 100 Legends Way, Boston. Division 1 boys high school basketball 7-game tournament featuring 14 high school from Massachusetts. Schedule: Triton Regional vs. Bishop Fenwick, 10 a.m.; St. John’s Prep vs. Wellesley , 11:30 a.m.; Malden vs. Lynn Classical , 1 p.m.; Acton-Boxboro vs. Lexington , 2:30 p.m.; Andover vs. Brookline, 4 p.m.; Mansfield vs. Franklin, 5:30 p.m.; Newton North vs. Newton South, 7 p.m. Tickets $15. A portion of proceeds benefit Good Sports, Inc. goodsports.org
Hairspray, The Broadway Musical. Wheelock Family Theatre. Wheelock College, 200 The Riverway, Boston. 3 p.m. Public performances offer open captioning. Tickets $20 to $35. [email protected]. 617-879-2300.
Robin Hood. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station Street, Brookline. 1 and 3 p.m. Presented by Brad Shur, artist in residence. Tickets $12. puppetshowplace.org.
Perseus and Medusa, presented by Tanglewood Marionettes. The Amazing Firehouse, 160 Hollis Street, Framingham. 2:30 p.m. Nationally touring marionette theater. tanglewoodmarionettes.com.
Summer Camp & Activities Fair. Lexington High School Cafeteria, 251 Waltham Street, Lexington. 11 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. Free. masscamp.com.
Ben Rudnick and Friends. TCAN Center for the Arts, 14 Summer Street, Natick. 11 a.m. Live performances range from light folk, bluegrass, calypso, rock, and even Irish jigs. Winners of five Parents’ Choice Awards, the band considers its main focus to be providing a common ground where all family members can enjoy a shared musical experience. Tickets $10 adult, $8 child. benrudnick.com.
2014 Worcester Auto Show. DCU Center, 50 Foster St., Worcester. 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. Exhibition Hall. Tickets $6. worcestershows.com.
Family Tours. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. 10:30 to 11 a.m. Explore the museum galleries with your family on a docent-guided discovery tour. Hear fun facts and stories. Free for children 17 and under. Free for adults with museum admission. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
Family Time: Make Art. Worcester Art Museum, 55 Salisbury St., Worcester. 11 to 11:30 a.m. Drop-in for this intergenerational time in the galleries. Materials will be provided. Free with museum admission. 508-799-4406. worcesterart.org.
Worcester Sharks vs. Providence Bruins. DCU Center, 50 Foster St., Worcester. 7 p.m. AHL hockey. Tickets $10 to $30. sharksahl.com. 800-745-3000.
26 SundayHairspray, The Broadway Musical. Wheelock Family Theatre. Wheelock College, 200 The Riverway, Boston. 3 p.m. Public performances offer open captioning. Tickets $20 to $35. [email protected]. 617-879-2300.
Robin Hood. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station St., Brookline. 1 and 3 p.m. Presented by Brad Shur, artist in residence. Tickets $12. puppetshowplace.org.
Summer Camp Fair. Lincoln-Sudbury Regional High School, 390 Lincoln Rd., Sudbury. 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Free. masscamp.com
2014 Worcester Auto Show. DCU Center, 50 Foster St., Worcester. 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Exhibition Hall. Tickets $6. worcestershows.com.
Worcester Sharks vs. Manchester Monarchs. DCU Center, 50 Foster St., Worcester. 3 p.m. AHL hockey. Tickets $10 to $30. 800-745-3000. sharksahl.com.
27 MondayOpen Door Theater Auditions. Dragonfly Theater, RJ Grey Junior High, 16 Charter Rd., Acton. Talented singers, dancers, and actors of all ages and abilities are encouraged to audition for “Working.” Children must be at least 9 as of January 1, 2014 to participate. Since 1980, Open Door Theater has been creating learning experiences through theater for people with special needs. Reserve your audition spot on-line at www.opendoortheater.org.
28 TuesdayOpen Door Theater Auditions. Dragonfly Theater, RJ Grey Junior High, 16 Charter Rd., Acton. Talented singers, dancers, and actors of all ages and abilities are encouraged to audition for “Working.” Children must be at least 9 as of January 1, 2014 to participate. Since 1980, Open Door Theater has been creating learning experiences through theater for people with special needs. Reserve your audition spot on-line at www.opendoortheater.org.
29 WednesdayOpen Door Theater Auditions. Dragonfly Theater, RJ Grey Junior High, 16 Charter Rd., Acton. Talented singers, dancers, and actors of
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The Crabgrass Puppet Theatre presents The Pirate, The Princess, and The Pea on Saturday, January 18 at the TCAN Center for the Arts in Natick.
all ages and abilities are encouraged to audition for “Working.” Children must be at least 9 as of January 1, 2014 to participate. Since 1980, Open Door Theater has been creating learning experiences through theater for people with special needs. Reserve your audition spot on-line at www.opendoortheater.org.
Puppet Playtime for Toddlers and Tiny Tots. Puppet Showplace Theatre, 32 Station Street, Brookline. 10:30 a.m. Tickets $15 adult, $10 child. puppetshowplace.org.
Worcester Sharks vs. Birmingham Senators. DCU Center, 50 Foster St., Worcester. 7 p.m. AHL hockey. Tickets $10 to $30. 800-745-3000. sharksahl.com.
31 FridayBeauty and the Beast. Youth Musical Theatre Corporation, 190 Savoie St., Fall River. Tickets $15 to $90. 508-280-8840. ymtc.org.
Shrek. Stoneham Theatre, 395 Main St., Stoneham. 7 p.m. Performed by The Young Company children’s theater group. Tickets $15. stonehamtheatre.org.
Worcester Sharks vs. Springfield Falcons. DCU Center, 50 Foster St., Worcester. 7:30 p.m. AHL hockey. Tickets $10 to $30. 800-745-3000. sharksahl.com.
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Happy Birthday: Belmont Family Film Festival Turns 11
Belmont World Film presents the 11th edition of its popular Family Festival with four days of animated and live action films from South Africa, the Netherlands, Ghana, Canada, Tunisia, the UK, the US, and more. The festival takes place January 17 through 20 at the Studio Cinema Belmont (376 Trapelo Road) and the Arlington Regent Theater (5 Medford Street).
Tickets prices range from $5 to $10 and are available in advance at www.mktix.com/bwf-festival or in person at the Studio Cinema box office. For full film descriptions and additional information visit www.belmontworldfilm.org or call 617-484-3980.
Get This Party Started: The ¡Carnaval! is Coming to Town! ¡Carnaval! opens at The Worcester Center for Crafts, 25 Sagamore
Rd., Worcester, on Jan. 28. Take the family to see photos, videos, costume pieces, masks, and displays to help interpret this centuries-old pre-Lenten tradition from around the world.
¡Carnaval! celebrates eight communities in Europe and the Americas, including New Orleans’ Mardi Gras. It looks at the history of a celebration that dates back to 12th century Rome and brings together people to celebrate life in many different ways.
The lively exhibit runs through March 16. It is free and suitable for all ages.
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Homework is not just for kids. A growing number of moms are hitting the books while raising children. Some are looking to advance careers, others preparing to change them. No matter what the reason,
the decision to return to school while parenting children presents unique challenges.
Setting an Example Westborough mom Laura Gilmartin was 34 when she decided to go back to school. For Laura, the motivation to pursue a higher education lay in the “intellectual challenge” it offered. After 11 years as a stay-at-home mom to three young children, she decided to pursue her interest in history and politics and her desire to understand the legal frameworks in society by enrolling in the New England School of Law in Boston. It was a challenge she welcomed and something that, Laura said, “just felt right.” With a supportive husband who was willing to increase responsibilities around the house, Laura was able to attend classes three nights a week. Weekends were devoted to studying, with Saturdays spent at the Northborough Public Library and Sundays at the law library in Boston.
Being away from home was not a guilt-free endeavor for Laura, so she put aside time each week for a one-on-one “date” with each child, often taking them out for “coffee” at Dunkin Donuts to spend some quality time over donuts and hot chocolate. Although Laura missed weekend time with her children, she felt like she was setting a good example for them, teaching them that you are never too old to learn or go back to school and work hard. Laura graduated with a Juris Doctor degree and is currently working as an assistant district attorney. To other moms considering a return to school, Laura said to go with your gut feelings. “If you feel strongly that it is the right path for you, and you have support of a spouse or other family members and friends, then just go out there and do it,” she said.
Building a Foundation For single mom Jennifer Lacasse, 24, of Uxbridge, the return to school was a decision of necessity. After leaving her husband of three years and filing for divorce, the stay-at-home mom and her 16-month-old son moved in with her parents. She returned to work and, soon after, enrolled in Quinsigamond
Community College where she is currently pursuing a degree in nursing. “Unfortunately, without a degree, raising a child alone can be quite stressful financially,” Jennifer said. “Therefore, I decided to return to school full-time, while continuing to work full-time. It has been such a blessing, and I feel comfort knowing that my child will thrive in a home with an independent mother.” Jennifer said that juggling work, school and parenting is not easy, but it is certainly not impossible. While night classes keep her away from home in the evenings — missing the bedtime stories and nighttime snuggling — the benefits, she said, outweigh the drawbacks. “I know it won’t last forever, and receiving my degree will bring such fulfillment to our lives,” said Jennifer. “My son will learn as he grows to be independent and strong, no matter what obstacles he faces.”
Juggling Responsibilities For Lynn Trelease of East Longmeadow, education is a click away. With the introduction of the Internet and online education, many educational opportunities are open for moms who wish to pursue higher education. Virtual learners are offered
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Single Uxbridge mom Jennifer Lacasse (with son, Mathew) is pursuing a degree in nursing.
the convenience, easy access and flexibility that are often absent from traditional brick-and-mortar schools. Because online course materials can be accessed 24-hours-a-day every day, many mothers are choosing this route. Lynn, 44, is currently pursuing a Speech and Language Pathology Assistant degree from Elms College. The online option has allowed her to take classes from the comfort of home while her children are sleeping. Lynn, who already has a Bachelor of Applied Science degree from the University of Delaware and a Master’s of Social Work from Springfield College, worked as a social worker in foster care and with the homeless before becoming an Adjustment Counselor for Springfield Public Schools. Burned out on social work, she decided to change her career path. Fortunately for Lynn, a low interest loan from a family member has allowed her to change the course of her career. By putting her education first, though, she had to put home renovation projects on hold. It is a sacrifice she is willing to make. Even with the convenience of online classes, Lynn finds it “beyond challenging” to juggle the kids’ homework, her own homework, working part-time, completing practicum hours and after school
activities. For now, she said, she is struggling to “do it all.”
Fulfilling a Dream Whether pursuing an intellectual challenge, fulfilling a dream or building a better life, moms who go back to school while raising a family come from all walks of life — they are rich, poor, younger, older, married, single. Some have found the transition seamless while others struggle to keep family, school and home in check. All are making a sacrifice. And all have decided, whether by choice or necessity, to raise children while also raising a dream. If you are a mom who returned to school while raising children, we want to know what advice you have for other women considering the same decision. Send your story and tips to: [email protected]. We will select a few of our responses for publication in the February issue of baystateparent.
Moms Share:Making Home Work with Homework
I decided to go back to school in the fall of 2010 part-time to finish my undergrad because it was something I always wanted to do but — due to
having to work to support my family — I had to put it on hold. Currently, I work full-time as a Service Coordinator for Wayside Youth and Families. I try to take classes online or at night and even first thing in the morning to be able to work and get my school work done. Honestly, I sometimes ask myself how I will get everything done in a week. Things like term papers due, studying, housework, mommy duties and other activities I’m involved with in the community are usually what my agenda for the week looks like. My coworkers and family know how hard I work to complete my degree and have all seen my bad days and good days. I truly dislike math and everyone has helped one way or the other to get it done. These days, I don’t sleep much, and I pray to be able to cope with the stress and anxiety that comes with all the demands. To cover the expenses, my job pays up to $1,000. a semester. The rest I cover with financial aid and student loans. My family still struggles with not having me around as much, but they try to understand and help when they can. My youngest son is the one who has the most difficult time because he usually wants me around to help him with homework, read a story together or watch a movie together. My husband has been very supportive when he can, but I know it bothers him when he wants to do something with me and I say, “Sorry, but I have to study or write a paper.” I personally try to manage my time so that I can be available for them as much as possible, especially on the weekends. We have a good routine. The kids play sports and their games are Saturdays, so we all go. And on Sunday mornings, we go to church, and then we go as a family for a big breakfast — and then I usually cook dinner for them and rest at home.
The decision was very hard, and I’m not sure if I’ll do it again. I just want to get it done for myself, my family and friends because we did this together. It is not just my success, it is ours!
Michelle Montanez, 38Psychology major, Worcester State University
Worcester mom of three (ages 19, 13, 9)
I am a wife, Mama, full-time employee, and a student at Bridgewater State. Just typing out all my roles makes me feel like I need a vacation.
I spent my 20s living in Los Angeles and pursuing my every whim — career, fun, travel. But once my then boyfriend and I had our sights set on marriage, children, and home ownership, we decided to head back to our home state of MA. Now that we are married with children, I decided I want a more meaningful career and one that would afford me more time off to spend with my family. So, I enrolled in an accelerated program at Bridgewater State to become a middle school English teacher. To say that juggling my many roles is overwhelming would be an understatement, but I keep reminding myself that it will all be worth it when my children are in school and we are on the same schedule. I will be able to have quality time with them during summer and holiday breaks and will be spending my time away from them doing something fulfilling and meaningful. While I was enamored by the corporate world before I had a family, sitting in an office just doesn’t do it for me at this point in life. So I’m sucking it up and doing it all (while pregnant!) so that our lifestyle will be more family focused in the future. To women considering returning to school, I would recommend finding a program that is partially or completely online if possible. I am able to complete most of my schoolwork after my daughter goes to bed, and I don’t have to worry about arranging child care on top of everything else I have going on. Another piece of advice is to just do it now. There will never be an ideal time — you will always be busy. It is overwhelming at times, but just power through it. It will be worth it in the end!
Lori, 35Education major, Bridgewater State University
Taunton mom of one (21-months-old) and expecting
I have been a practicing physical therapist for the past 15 years. I have a Bachelor’s Degree in Biology from the University of Hartford and a
Master’s in Physical Therapy from the University of Rhode Island. Although I worked full-time for a few years in outpatient orthopedics, once we had children I began working part-time in adult rehabilitation and homecare therapy, juggling weekends, nights, on-call shifts, whatever fit into a busy family schedule. It has been a fantastic career choice and one that remains challenging for me, yet still allows me to be with my children and support their lives through volunteer work in their schools and in our church. 2011 marked a significant change for me as my youngest son started full day kindergarten. It ended an 11-year period of raising babies and toddlers! I evaluated my career and began shifting my work in rehabilitation towards pediatric rehabilitation. Most recently, I started a position as a school-based Physical Therapist for Wachusett Regional Schools.
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Single Uxbridge mom Jennifer Lacasse (with son, Mathew) is pursuing a degree in nursing.
Simultaneously, the American Physical Therapy Association established its VISION 2020, which set the goal for all physical therapists to achieve doctoral level education by the year 2020. Mindful of these suggestions, I enrolled in the Doctoral Program for Physical Therapy at Northeastern University, with an emphasis in pediatrics. It’s funny when folks hear that the program is based on online learning, as they often say, “Oh that’s nice! It must be easier!” and I’ll admit that I was thinking the same thing when I first enrolled. In reality, the courses have demanded more time and energy than any “classroom” courses I have ever taken! Whereas it definitely saves me a trip into Boston to attend classes, the “online classroom” is always present! The discussion boards demand attention nearly 7 days a week and the amount of writing has been so significant that sometimes I can produce up to 100 pages of work for a single course! Juggling a busy family with four boys, working part-time and maintaining my own sanity isn’t an easy feat! We often have 8 or 9 sports teams, boy scouts, religious education — it goes on and on! “How do you do it?” people ask. I usually answer, “Sometimes not very well.” Just like any mom, it’s a daily challenge. Some days, I feel like “Super-Mom” and things go smoothly. More often, days are tough. Just like any family, we struggle with fighting children, homework schedules and shuffling our kids between activities. We get exhausted. The only way I can really manage is through the support of my husband. He’s backed me 100% and always seems to pick up the slack when I need extra time for school projects. In addition, I have a great network of friends and neighbors who help me on a daily basis with carpooling, parenting ideas or just a listening ear. Finally, I always try and take time for myself. Despite all of the time demands on my weekly schedule, I haven’t given up the time I NEED to run or swim, even if it means my laundry piles up or my kitchen has breakfast dishes in the sink!
Jenn Colebourn, 41Doctoral student in physical therapy at
Northeastern University Westborough mother of four boys (7, 9, 11, 12)
I was a stay at home mom for three years with my son. Prior to having him, I was in school and I can admit, I was not enjoying it. I was then referred
to Workforce Central from the Department of Transitional Assistance. I was dreading the fact that I would have to face reality, reality of what I wanted and what I needed to do with my life. It’s a scary feeling being a single mother yet having no clue what is going to make you happy or how you are going to support your child when you don’t know what you want to do with your life. After my first day of orientation, I had an appoint-ment set up to meet with my Career Counselor, Kelley Smith. I honestly couldn’t sleep the night before I met with Kelley. My brain was running, thinking, “What am I going to tell her that I want to do for a career? What kinds of questions is she going to ask me? What do I want to go back to school for? What is going to make me happy?” Kelley didn’t really ask me these questions, but instead she assisted me through answering my own questions. I left the office that day feeling like a huge weight was lifted off of my shoulders. With the help of Workforce Central, I was able to receive a training voucher to go back to school for my Medical Administration Certificate through the Worcester Adult Education Center. I passed my certificate program with highest honors. About two weeks later, I returned back to Workforce Central because I was accepted into the Full Time Job Search Program. I was hoping to be able to find a job right away but that was not reality. It took me a long time of filling out 10-15 applications a day, partaking in numerous job-related workshops, and I also started to do various internships, including interning in the Workforce Resource Room, and interning at the Central Massachusetts Workforce Investment Board. A year later, I am working in the Human Resource Department at a nearby hospital. Not only am I working in such a great department but I am now doing recruitment for the hospital, pre-screening applications, doing reference checks, along with conducting phone interviews, new employee orientations, and offering people positions. It is so surreal to me to think about it. I am truly proud of myself. Along with working full-time, I also started back to college taking Human Services. I am now in my second semester of classes and doing great. I even completed last semester being placed on the Merit List.
I never imagined that I would be where I am today. I am proud to show my son that I am working full- time, taking classes, and at the same time making sure that I give him the attention that he needs in order for him to become a hard working, successful man one day. What makes it all worth it in the end is when I come home from school and I hear my son say, “I’m proud of you Mommy!”
Kayla ScottCollege student majoring in Human Services
Auburn mother of one (5-years-old)
From the baystateparent Facebook page,
Moms Share: It’s completely worth the hard work! You will also be teaching your children how strong women can be! They will respect you for it!!
Kathy Marie I am a mom of three who is pursuing my masters. It is a juggling act, but I feel it is a great role model for the kids and I have a supporting spouse. I am enjoying meeting new people and having my own “thing.” The guilt is there sometimes, also.
Shari-Lynn B. Ludwick
I went back to nursing school, three small kids, support of a spouse. My kids learned that we could go weeks without the TV on. They also learned that hard work/studying allowed me to graduate.
Amy Reno
I pursued my RN from the time my kids were 3 and 5, they are now 10 and 12. I graduated with an ADN last year, got a job last month and am in a BSN program. My kids tell everyone that mom is a nurse. I failed a semester and went back and passed. My kids are learning first-hand how hard work, dedication and school pay off — best thing I could have taught them.
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Take 8 with Anne Marie Osheyack:
The 2014 Teacher of the YearMeet the 2014 Massachusetts Teacher of the Year (TOY) Anne Marie Osheyack, an English teacher at
Northampton High School. and baystateparent had a chance to Take 8 with her and we found out a few of her secrets — like that special dance she did when she found out she won!
2How did your students react when they learned that you were the Teacher of the Year? They were rooting for me the entire way. Each class gave me a round of thunderous applause and cheers. Not only was it a great moment for me, but it was a bragging moment for them.
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What is your most memorable teaching moment? It came from a girl who won our annual National Poetry Out Loud competition. She was in my drama class. Her personal life was a tough one, and she refused to participate in anything at school. When she found out she would be reciting two poems in public, she asked for my help. We worked together to prepare. The night of the competition, she blew through her first poem and rocked the house. Round two, however, was a different story. A third of the way through her poem, she suddenly drew a blank. Her confidence shaken, tears streamed down her cheeks, and she looked at me sitting in the front row and whispered, “I’m sorry.”
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1 How does a teacher become a Massachusetts Teacher of the Year? There are three rounds in the process. The first is an application of essays and questions. Those go to the State Department of Education (DOE), where a group narrows the pool to 11 teachers. Next, there is another application and a videotaped lesson in the classroom. The pool is then narrowed to five finalists. Finally, we meet with a panel of 12 to 15 interviewers. Once that’s over, we wait for phone calls with good or bad news.
What did you think when you learned you were chosen as the 2014 Massachusetts Teacher of the Year? The other four women in my group were wonderfully
talented, intelligent and driven individuals. So when the call came, I was sure it was going to be, “Thanks for playing, but we’ve
chosen someone else.” I had to ask the caller to repeat herself! When I hung up the phone, I did an old-school Punky Brewster
dance around the living room and called everyone — all my family and friends. I was absolutely ecstatic.
What is your favorite part of your job? The conversations that I have with the students. They are hilarious and brilliant.6
If you could make one change in today’s educational system, what would it be? I would scrap a high stakes test as the only method of proving both a student and a teacher’s value. I am not opposed to standardized testing in general, because I think there are benefits to those tests. However, I’ve seen nightmarish effects in schools across the country as a result. We are demoralizing students, losing fantastic teachers, and — really — our scores are not improving because of these fear tactics. We’ve moved to a business model of education, which has a faulty premise - that we are working with products, not people. I am a big proponent of the Common Core, and I think teachers have reservations about it because it is attached to a high-stakes test, not because the Core is a bad idea in itself. In education, policies and initiatives are driven by a majority of people who have little or no experience in education. We’ve lost the idea that teachers are professionals, and we need to revive it.
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Why did you decide to become a teacher? I wanted to make a difference. Friends suggested teaching. It’s fitting,
in a way, because there were two English teachers in high school who really turned me around and focused me on college. I see my career as a way of paying it forward. What advice do you have
for someone who would like to become a teacher?
Anyone can be a terrible teacher. So when people tell you that
teaching is easy, that’s what they are referring to. Good teaching, real teaching, is hard work and it takes a long time to get very
good at it. When you go to do your
pre-practicum work and your practicum hours, find the
toughest, most demanding teachers in the building and
watch as many of them as you can. Work under them. Demand that they push you, critique you, and take nothing less than your
best. And above all else, love kids. Even the ones that make it the
most difficult because they need it the most. Good luck!
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I looked her in the eye and said, “Don’t you dare apologize, you are doing great”. To my surprise, she didn’t sit down. She struggled, stammered, and line-by-line, she finished that poem. I was so proud of her in that moment. The audience was, too, because they gave her a standing ovation.
Like death and taxes, staggering tuition costs are unavoidable. The annual price tag for a college education is expected to double, possibly triple, over the next 16 years. By 2030, one year at a private top-tier college could run as much as $130,000, up from today’s average of about $43,000, said Kalman Chany, author of Paying for College Without Going Broke. The annual in-state tuition for a state-run school like the University of Massachusetts is expected at nearly $60,000 in 2030. That is up from about $25,000 today. These are shocking numbers, but the experts say there are options for parents who hope to invest in their children’s futures.
Start Early “Save early, save often,” said Robert Ostberg, a Northampton financial advisor at Ostberg & Associates Financial Services and Insurance. “The power of compounding, even if you’re only putting aside $25 a month when the child is born, is so powerful,” said Newburyport financial advisor Sheila Brand Stehlin. “You need to be as aggressive in your investments as you can possibly stomach (so the college fund increases in value) and then pull back as they (the child or children) get closer to going to college.” She recommended that parents, when their children are young, put money into aggressive investments, like a Standard & Poor’s exchange traded fund. In
the long run, these types of funds are more likely to increase in value than other safer, conservative investments. “Put the pedal to the metal,” Stehlin said.
Savings Plans There are a host of savings and investment tools, sometimes called “vehicles” by financial advisors, which can be used to save for college. They include 529 plans, some types of individual retirement accounts, and life insurance policies. Offered in each state, 529 plans offer parents flexibility. They are managed by financial executives and offer a variety of funds, from aggressive to conservative. Money saved through a 529 plan can be used at any college in the country, and parents can change the beneficiary — or recipient — with ease. Another advantage of a 529 plan is that its growth is not taxed. For example, if parents were to place $5,000 into a child’s 529 plan in January and its value increased by $2,000 by the end of the same year, the additional value would not be taxed — as long as the money remains in the plan. In addition, money withdrawn from a 529 plan is not taxed as long as it is used to pay what the Internal Revenue Service calls “qualified higher education expenses.” This includes tuition, fees, books, room and board, laptops, tablets, Internet service, and software. A parent may contribute, tax free, as much as
$14,000 a year to each child’s 529 plan. A married couple may contribute as much as $28,000 to one of their children’s 529 plans, said Lisa Babineau, an accountant in Framingham. The Massachusetts 529 plan is commonly called the UFund. Working with the Massachusetts Educational Financing Authority (MEFA), Fidelity Investments manages the fund. Money can be invested in a variety of mutual funds, from aggressive to conservative. Parents can open a 529 plan through MEFA with an initial $50 deposit and contribute as little as $15 a month to their child’s plan. Money cannot be contributed into the plan once its value reaches $350,000, said MEFA spokesperson Martha Savery. But as with any stock market investment, there is always a chance the value could fall. “Don’t panic when the stock market goes down,” advised Stehlin. “People sometimes say it’s never been this way before, but it’s always been this way before — with drops sometimes of 20 percent in the stock market’s value. You need to be disciplined and hang on because you’ll never recover your losses if you pull out.” For parents nervous about the stock market, there is another savings option through MEFA, called UPlan. This is a way to pre-pay tuition at 80 Bay State private and public universities. To participate in UPlan, parents visit the MEFA website at http://www.mefa.org and download the application form. A minimum of $300 is required to open an account. With a UPlan account, parents are buying tuition certificates to be redeemed at one of the 80 Bay State
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colleges. Depending on the amount of certificates purchased, college tuition will either be reduced in price or paid completely. Parents need to keep a few things in mind with a UPlan account: • The certificates can only be purchased between May 1 and June 30 of any given year.
• Unlike a UFund account, which can be set up online, a UPlan account is set up either by mailing in a form downloaded from MEFA’s website or visiting MEFA’s offices in Boston.
• UPlan certificates can be redeemed for cash, so parents can pay for a college outside of Massachusetts.
• The certificates need at least five years to mature, meaning parents must start buying them by the time their child is in the seventh grade.
Other Options Two other ways to finance a college education include life insurance and a Roth IRA, according to financial advisors. Robert Ostberg said cash value life insurance policies may finance a child’s college education because they are usually held in the parent’s name. This means their child isn’t shown as having access to this policy should they be completing financial aid forms. If parents have an IRA, Stehlin suggested they
convert them to Roth IRAs. By doing so, parents who are at least 59 ½ years old will be able to use the money in the Roth IRA tax free — up to $11,000 a year — to pay for college. There are income restrictions on who can set up a Roth IRA, so it is best to consult with a financial advisor or accountant. An additional savings is available to families through the American Opportunity Tax Credit, which has been extended through the end of 2017. Framingham accountant Lisa Babineau explained that the credit is available for parents who meet the income requirement $80,000 for single filers and $160,000 for joint filers. This is a $2,500 credit parents can claim on their annual tax forms, as long as they can show money was used to pay for tuition, fees, books, Internet services, software and even a laptop or tablet for their child’s college education.
Financial Aid Suzanne Peters, the Financial Aid Director at the University of Massachusetts – Amherst, said the single best thing students applying for financial aid can do is apply early for the assistance, in January of the year they are hoping to attend. She said UMass Amherst receives about 20,000 financial aid applications each year and the first decisions on the aid come in March. “We have more (financial) resources earlier than we have later, which is why anyone applying for financial aid needs to do so sooner, not later,” she said. Katie Abel, of the Massachusetts Department of Higher Education, said her department lists
scholarships and grants on its website, http://www.osfa.mass.edu. She also suggested parents and students attend College Goal Sunday on January 26, which will give them the chance to better understand how to complete the Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA). For a list of locations where free FAFSA assistance is available this month in Massachusetts, see FAFSA Day: Helping You Get Cash for College on page 34.
Additional Resources for Parents:
Sheila Brand Stehlin’s Website: http://www.
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Robert Ostberg’s Website: http://www.ostbergassociates.com/
Lisa Babineau’s Website: http://babineaucpa.com/
Another Resourse is:There’s also a book parents may to buy, entitled Paying for College Without Going Broke, by Kalman Chany. Chany is the founder and president of Campus Consultants, a firm that’s helped families seeking college financial aid.
The IRS website on the American Opportunity Tax Credit:
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The 10th annual FAFSA Day takes place in Massachusetts on January 26 and February 23. Volunteers will be available throughout the state to help families and students fill out the FAFSA (Free Application for Federal Student Aid)
form. FAFSA is the first step to qualifying for college financial aid. “The U.S. Department of Education awards about $150 billion every year to help millions of students pay for college,” reports the US Department of Education (DOE). “This federal student aid is awarded in the form of grants, low-interest loans, and work-study funds.” That’s a lot of dough from the DOE. And there is more money available through states and colleges, many of which use information from your FAFSA to determine if you qualify for state or school aid. According to the US DOE website, to be eligible to receive federal student financial aid, you must:
• Be a US citizen or eligible noncitizen.• Have a valid Social Security Number.• Have a high school diploma, GED, or have completed homeschooling.• Be enrolled in an eligible program as a regular student seeking a degree or certificate.• Maintain satisfactory progress.• Not owe a refund on a federal student grant or be in default on a federal student loan.
• Be registered with Selective Service, if you are a male and not currently on active duty in the US Armed Forces. • Not have a conviction for the possession or sale of illegal drugs or an offense that occurred while you were receiving federal student aid.
Students planning to attend college during the 2014-2015 school year must fill out the latest FAFSA form (available after January 1 at fafsa.gov) to be eligible for federal financial aid. Applications may be submitted online or mailed. To take advantage of the free assistance offered by FAFSA Day Massachusetts volunteers, stop by one of the locations listed here. Many offer translators and computer access; some have wi-fi. If attending one of these workshops, students and parents are asked to each bring the following:
•FAFSA Pin (available at www.pin.ed.gov)• Social Security Number• Driver’s License number• Most recent federal tax return• Most recent W-2 or year-end pay stub• Untaxed income records• Bank statements• Business and investment records• Alien Registration Card (if not a U.S. Citizen)
To register for any of these FAFSA Day Massachusetts events, visit fafsaday.org.
• Amesbury High School, 5 Highland St., Amesbury. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. 978-388-4800. • Amherst-Pelham Regional High School, 21 Mattoon St., Amherst. January 23. 7 p.m. No computer access, wi-fi access. 413-542-8298.• Quabbin Regional High School, 800 South St., Barre. January 23. 6 p.m. Computer access. 978-355-4651.• ASA College Planning Center, Boston Public Library, 700 Boylston St., Boston. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access, wi-fi access. Translators available: Spanish. 617-592-4540.• Upper Cape Cod Regional Technical School, 220 Sandwich Rd., Bourne. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. 508-759-7711.• Massasoit Community College, 1 Massasoit Blvd., Brockton. February 10. 6:30 p.m. No computer access.• Burlington High School, 123 Cambridge St., Burlington. January 26. 1 p.m. • Cambridge Rindge & Latin School, 459 Broadway, Cambridge. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. • Pine Manor College, 400 Heath St., Chestnut Hill. February 23. 1 p.m. Computer access.
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“The U.S. Department of Education awards about $150 billion every year to help millions of students pay for college.”
• Bristol Community College, G Building, Commonwealth College Center, 777 Elsbree St., Fall River. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. • Fitchburg State University, Hammond Campus Center, 160 Pearl St., Fitchburg. 1 p.m. Computer access. 978-665-3556.• Framingham High School, 115 A St., Framingham. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. 508-854-4260. • Dean College, A.W. Pierce Technology & Science Center, 99 Main St., Franklin. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. • Mount Wachusett Community College, 444 Green St., Gardner. February 23. 1 p.m. Computer access. 978-630-9169.• Northern Essex Community College, Louise Haffner Fournier Education Center, 78 Amesbury St., Lawrence. February 23. 1 p.m. Computer access. Translators available: Spanish.• Middlesex Community College, 33 Kearney Square, Lowell. January 26. 1 p.m. No computer access, wi-fi access. • North Shore Community College, 300 Broad St., Lynn. February 23. 1 p.m. Computer access. 978-762-4000 x4050. • Malden High School, 77 Salem St., Malden. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. Translators available: Spanish, Portuguese, Creole, French, Mandarin. • Marlborough High School, 431 Bolton St.,
Marlborough. January 23. 6:30 p.m. Computer access. Translators available: Spanish, Portuguese. • Turners Falls High School, 222 Turnpike Rd., Montague. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access.• Fisher College, North Attleboro Campus, 451 Elm St., North Attleborough. January 25. 1 p.m. Computer access. 508-699-6200.• Intermodal Education Center, Berkshire Community College satellite campus), 1 Columbus Ave., 2nd floor, Pittsfield. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. • John A. Shelburne Community Center, 2730 Washington St., Roxbury. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. • Madison Park Technical Vocational High School, 75 Malcolm X Blvd., Roxbury. February 8. 9 a.m. Computer access, wi-fi access. Translators available: Spanish, Creole. 617-592-4540.• Roxbury Community College, 1234 Columbus Ave., Roxbury Crossing. February 23. 1 p.m. No computer access. • Somerville High School, 81 Highland Ave., Somerville. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. Translators available: Spanish, Portuguese, Creole, French. • American International College, 1000 State St., Springfield. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. 413-205-3280.
• Blackstone Valley Vocational Regional School District, 65 Pleasant St., Upton. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. Translators available: Spanish. 508-529-7758 x3009.• Northeast Metro Tech High School, 100 Hemlock Rd., Wakefield. January 22. 6 p.m. Computer access. Translators available: Spanish. • Bartlett High School, 52 Lake Parkway, Webster. January 26. 1 p.m. Computer access. • Worcester Public Library, 3 Salem Sq., Worcester. January 26. 1:30 p.m. No computer access. • Quinsigamond Community College, 670 West Boylston St., Worcester. February 23. 1 p.m. Computer access. 508-854-4275.
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at Teen Social Media Profilesby maryjo kurtz
Studies show that online reputation matters, especially for teens applying for college. New research indicates that college admissions officers are increasingly using social media to learn
about applicants. The news is a wake up call that has many families discussing the implications of a digital profile and identifying ways to help teens make smart choices. “Social media is very important for this new generation. It is how they form their communities,” said Ann McDermott, Director of Admissions at The College of the Holy Cross in Worcester. “It is powerful and not to be underestimated by any means.” The power is not lost in the college admissions process. Between July and August of 2013, Kaplan Test Prep surveyed 381 admissions officers from the nation’s top national, regional, and liberal arts colleges and universities (as compiled by US News and World Report). The results revealed that 29 percent of college admissions officers have Googled an applicant, and 31 percent have visited an applicant’s Facebook or other social networking page. “Since 2008, when we first started this survey, the trends have accelerated. In 2008, only one in ten of college admissions offices were looking at an applicant’s social media profile, mostly on Facebook. Today, that number is now one in three. And they
are checking many sources of social media,” said Christine Brown, Executive Director of K-12 and College Prep Programs for Kaplan Test Prep. “The numbers do not surprise me. The are in line with most of the other surveys I’ve seen,” said Jim Fowler, Assistant Vice President of Enrollment at Dean College in Franklin. “Colleges are concerned about the students chosen to populate a campus. They want to create a safe and welcoming community.”
Many Colleges Do Not Check Social Media
Yet, even with the reported rise, the majority of US colleges and universities are not turning to social media for college admissions. “Dean College does not look at a digital profile as part of our admissions process,” Fowler told baystateparent. “Our philosophy toward students is that they may make a mistake… We encourage students to use their college years to reset, rebuild, and reintroduce themselves.” McDermott added that Holy Cross also does not routinely look at an applicant’s social media behavior. “We just don’t have enough time. With 7,300 applicants, it’s just not feasible. The only time we might is if something causes a red flag. But, even then, we are likely to go first to a guidance counselor.”
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Of the schools that reported using social media profiles in the college application process, 30 percent reported finding something that negatively impacted an applicant’s admission success. That number is down from 35 percent in 2012. “This really speaks to the fact that as social media becomes ubiquitous, students and adults are becoming more aware of their digital footprints,” noted McDermott. She added that a recent Kaplan survey showed that students are taking steps to improve their online profiles. The results showed that 22 percent of students reported changing their searchable names on social media, 26 percent had untagged themselves from photos, and 12 percent deleted their social media profiles. In addition, students reported only mild concern about colleges creeping onto their social media. The survey asked, “If a college admissions officer were to do an online search of you right now, how concerned would you be with what they found negatively impacting your chances of getting in?” The results showed that 50 percent would be “not at all concerned”; 27 percent said “not too concerned”; 14 percent said they would be “very concerned”; and the remainder reported being “somewhat concerned.”
Parents and Educators Play a Role
While colleges and students grapple with the importance of social media in the college applications process, families have an opportunity to discuss best practices with tweens and teens. “Certainly, parents and educators have done a lot to help students understand the importance of this issue, but there is still room to go,” Fowler said. “Parents must be having this discussion. If not, that’s where the problems begin.” When asked what advice he had for teens, Fowler quickly said, “If you don’t want your parents to see it, then don’t post it.” To start a conversation with children about the impact of social media on college admissions and future employment, the educators recommend:
1. FrequentlyGoogleyourchild. “The biggest thing I recommend is to be aware of the digital footprint,” said Brown.
2. Examine comments made on Facebook.Look for anything that could be misconstrued or offensive. Remember that comments made on someone else’s Facebook page can be seen by a wider arena than your child’s friend base.
3. ReviewtheFacebookpagesthatareliked.TV shows, movies, music, and celebrity pages that are followed help to paint a picture of the student.
4. UntagnegativephotosonFacebook.
5. Consider theamountand typesof selfiesthat are posted. Evaluate if they are compromising or too frequently posted.
7. Read through your child’s Twitter feed. “Watch the hash tags that are utilized,” offered Fowler.
8. Change inappropriate email addressesbefore applying to college. “I am always surprised by the amount of silly or inappropriate email addresses,” said McDermott. “Applicants must realize that everything they do can be considered and seen.”
9. Coveravarietyofsocialmediaplatforms.Facebook is no longer the only game in town. Check Twitter, Instagram, Vine, blogs, websites, and other online activity.
10. Usesocialmediatomarkettocolleges.Turn a potential negative into a positive. Post news of awards, volunteer work, extracurricular activities, sports accomplishments, and other achievements.
Most importantly, said Brown, is to stress to the student to “take a moment to think before you put anything out there. The Internet has a long memory.” She also advised that families keep things in perspective. “I encourage kids and parents not to stress about this. While this is a potential factor in the admissions process, at the end of the day GPA, test scores, and extracurricular activities will still play a major role.”
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Driving by the stately, hallowed Museum of Fine Arts (MFA) building on Huntington Avenue in Boston can muster up ideas of echoing, dark hallways filled with 18th century portraits. But luckily for Massachusetts families, the MFA is not your grandma’s museum. Today, it is a busy, friendly attraction that is regularly pulling in adults and children of all ages. Yes, children. In an art museum. And there are plenty of reasons why. Here are 5 of our favorites:
1. MFA Playdates
On the first and third Mondays of every month, from 10:15 to 11:15 a.m., the museum fills with parents and toddlers. Designed for kids from 2- to 4-years-old, MFA Playdates include walks through the galleries, story time, and creative projects. “We get about 140 people every time we have it,” said Brooke DiGiovanni Evans, MFA’s Head of Gallery Learning. “We have seven or eight teachers, each leading a group of about 10 to 15 people.” Educational themes keep little ones engaged in the museum. For example, said Evans, a discussion of “big and small” challenged kids to see the difference between a small structure and the giant Thomas Sully painting, The Passage of the Delaware, with George Washington. “We include activities for each theme. Children might, for instance, get a grouping of paper horses that are both large and small, and they will be asked to put them in order by size,” she said. “Perhaps they will then make a ‘big and small’ collage art project.”
2. Family Art Cart
Located in the Shapiro Family Courtyard, a large enclosed space at the museum, is the Family Art Cart. Here, children ages 4 and up choose from a variety of interactive activities to enjoy while exploring the museum. There are puzzles, books, and scavenger hunts, each with an age-sensitive theme. The majority
of kids using this feature are between 6 and 10, said Evans. “For example, the mummies are popular with this age group,” she noted. “The Art Cart has information about the mummies case, cards about mummies, sketch materials, and other activities. The idea is to focus on the general concepts in the collection.” The self-guided activities at the Family Art Cart are rotated monthly so that repeat visitors have new subjects to explore. Families choose from among four or five themes, picking up materials to borrow during their visit. Among the more popular themes are animals, food, and musical instruments.
3. Art Connection Cards
Art Connections Cards are available to download online (mfa.org) or pick up at the museum. Each self-guided activity sheet explores a different subject and is filled with fun facts and games. Kids can search the museum for objects and images, and they can try some of the activities included on the card. There are many topics, including chocolate, flowers, barnyard animals, mythical creatures, and arms and armor. The Art Connections Cards can be found at the Sharf Visitor Center. They are available in Spanish and recommended for all ages.
4. Family Totes
Another option to engage children in the museum are the Family Activity Totes. These, too, are available at the Sharf Visitor Center. They are filled with self-guided gallery activities, and they include a sketchpad and colored pencils. “Older children who are not interested in the activities on the Art Cards might enjoy the sketchpad,” said Evans. The totes are available during the week and are
recommended for children ages 4 and up.
5. Drawing in the Galleries
On Wednesday evenings, the MFA provides drawing materials for all ages and invites visitors to sketch together. Subjects range from clothed models to objects in the museum collection. “The teachers are artists,” said Evans. “I’ve seen all ages enjoying the program. I’ve seen grandparents and grandchildren who participate together, drawing in the galleries.” While the program is open to all ages, Evans said that the group is usually older. “I think the fact that it is held on a Wednesday evening is the primary reason. It’s a school night.”
The Museum of Fine Arts is made of a number of collections: • Art of the Americas• Art of Europe• Contemporary Art• Art of Asia, Oceania, and Africa• Art of the Ancient World• Prints, Drawings, and Photographs• Textile and Fashion Arts• Musical Instruments The museum is open seven days a week: Saturdays through Tuesdays, 10 a.m. to 4:45 p.m.; Wednesdays through Fridays, 10 a.m. to 9:45 p.m. Admission, which includes one repeat visit within 10 days, is $25 for adults and $23 for seniors and students age 18 and older. Children 17 and younger are admitted free on weekdays after 3 p.m., weekends, and on Boston Public School holidays; at other times, the charge is $10. On Wednesdays after 4 p.m., all admission is by voluntary contribution. Many public libraries offer reduced admission passes. The MFA is closed on New Year’s Day, Patriots Day, Independence Day, Thanksgiving, and Christmas. For more information, call 617-267-9300.
by maryjo kurtzCreative Programs Draw Families to the MFA
play baystateparent magazine is commemorating the Boston Children’s Museum on its 100 year anniversary with this special section
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100 Ways for Children to Play
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KIDS1. Gather a few flashlights and in a dark room play flashlight tag, tell stories, or make light patterns on the ceiling and walls.
2. Turn a leftover box into a car by cutting out windows, a door and by drawing wheels.
3. Make a tape drawing using different colored tape.
4. Do a texture hunt in your old magazines at home - find something that looks: fuzzy, rough, slippery, slimy, bumpy, soft, etc.
5. Grab a big glass bowl filled with water and some food coloring – experiment with color mixing my adding one drop of food coloring at a time.
6. Cut some string and play cat’s cradle. Check out this link for some tips (http://www.wikihow.com/ Play-The-Cat%27s-Cradle-Game).
7. Play 20 questions.
8. Make a sled out of a cardboard box.
9. Pretend that you and your child haven’t met before, and strike up a conversation at the playground. Encourage your child to ask questions and trade information.
10. Dress up like your favorite super-hero. Don’t have a costume? Make one!
baystateparent is collaborating with Boston Children’s Museum to create a new, exciting supplement to our publication, which we’re entitling “The Power of Play.” Each month, we will include
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The perfect place for children 0-3All aboard! Where is your train headed? Watch out for the cows! Get messy. Dance to music. Relax on the waterbed. Put gas in a car. Climb, jump, and slide in the tree house. The first exhibit of its kind anywhere, PlaySpace, part of the Carolyn and Peter Lynch Early Learning Gallery, was created specifically to spark exploration and creativity in young children ages 0-3 and their caregivers. PlaySpace gives our youngest visitors a chance to explore, experiment, and pretend in a safe place built just for them. The accompanying Family Resource Room even offers an area to have a snack, talk with other caregivers, and take home some parenting information.
Early experiences impact the architecture of the maturing brain. Like building a house, PlaySpace provides experiences to establish a sturdy foundation for all the developmental behavior that follows.
Science Saturdays at the MuseumSaturdays are special science days at the Museum. Join us every Saturday for hands-on activities exploring the physical and natural world. Notice, wonder, question, play. Investigate magnets. Experiment with dry ice. Touch a live snake. Boston Children’s Museum is a welcoming, imaginative learning environment that helps children develop foundational skills in science, technology, math, and engineering, and supports families in nurturing their children’s curiosity.
Museum educators develop daily activities that inspire hands-on investigation and greater awareness of the world around us. Children may practice using tools such as magnifying glasses to take a closer look at everyday objects. Experiments introduce visitors to new materials, such as water-repellent fabric engineered through nanotechnology. Games and puzzles help children recognize patterns, and develop math and problem solving skills.
Live animal programs help children understand their connection to all living things. Boston Children’s Museum offers many opportunities to meet the Museum’s resident live animals up close! Creature Features happen frequently in Play Space, Countdown to Kindergarten and Investigate. Monthly Critter Days are special live animal programs that bring experts to the Museum to share everything from live hawks and alligators to domestic working dogs that help kids learn to read.http://www.bostonchildrensmuseum.org/exhibits-programs/programs/science-technology-engineering-math
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On November 22, the award-winning Boston Children’s Chorus (BCC) was honored in the East Room of the White House. There, First Lady Michelle Obama presented the 2013 National Arts and Humanities Youth Program Award to David Howse, Executive Director of the BCC, and Amber Rodriguez, a Southie teenager who spent the majority of her life singing with the choir. In addition, sixteen members of the chorus made the trip to Washington to take part in the ceremony. “I was star struck,” Howse told baystateparent when asked about meeting Mrs. Obama. He laughed a bit as he recalled how giddy the moment felt, adding that he was afraid he might trip walking to accept the award. “It was such an honor to be recognized and to be in that amazingly historic room. The First Lady was warm and gracious. She put us all at ease.”
A National Distinction
The distinguished award honors community based arts and humanities programs that make a marked difference in the lives of children. It is the highest honor for afterschool arts and humanities programs in the United States. The BCC was one of 12 winners chosen from a pool of more than 350 nominations. It was recognized as an innovative arts education organization
that unites children across racial and socioeconomic divides. “People recognize us for beautiful and amazing performances, but many don’t realize there is a social justice engine that drives our music,” Howse said. He explained that the curriculum works to unite people with different backgrounds, helping the children to engage with others. The organization believes that musical excellence can be used as a tool to create dialog around difficult issues. Launched in 2003 with just twenty children, the BCC now includes almost 500 from over 50 of Boston’s urban and suburban neighborhoods. The organization supports 12 different choirs in five city locations, including the South End, Allston-Brighton, and Dorchester. As part of the honor, ten thousand dollars was awarded to the Boston Children’s Chorus. Howse explained that the funds will be used to support programming for the choirs.
The Road to the White House
The road to the White House was a long process with a lot of paperwork. The application was submitted over a year earlier. Fifty finalists were notified about their selection this past spring. “We were told we won in early August,” Howse said. “However, the official announcement was not made
until the event in November. So, we could not tell the kids about it until we were in Washington, DC.” Adding to the excitement of the trip, the chorus members were invited to participate in a flash mob to entertain guests at a special reception the night before the award ceremony. “Louis Vuitton was the corporate sponsor and hosted a swanky reception at the Willard Hotel in Washington,” Howse explained. The kids learned the music and movement the morning of the reception. “The guests had no idea they would be treated to a random act of culture. The group was well received. They worked the room.” As he thought back on the White House experience, Howse was quick to point out the highlight. “For me, I must say it was watching and observing Amber Rodriguez. She was watching in joy and amazement. There was wonder and disbelief in her eyes. That was the biggest joy for me.” Rodriguez started with the chorus ten years ago. She moved from the training level to the premier choir. At the White House, she spoke of the experience, saying, “The power of programs like BCC’s can change kids’ lives by giving them a voice. It has changed mine and I am grateful that programs like this are recognized and valued.” “To be honest, I could have taken any of the kids,” Howse said. “They each would have served us well.”
Building Unity Through Song
The Boston Children’s Chorus is open to children ages 7 to 18. Howse said that the singers get three things from participation. “First, they get a creative skill set. Second, they learn how to connect with others, how to embrace empathy and compassion. And third, they learn to become active, engaged citizens of the community.” Auditions for the BCC take place in the spring. Forms and information are available on the group’s website. Ensembles meet at various times and locations, and they are broken into four different skill levels. The signature event for the Boston Children’s Chorus will take place on January 20, with two shows in honor of the Martin Luther King, Jr. holiday. The shows are planned for 2 and 7 p.m. in Jordan Hall at the New England Conservatory, 290 Huntington Avenue, Boston. Tickets range from $25 to $45 and are available on the BCC website. Three of the BCC choirs are scheduled to perform. It seems fitting that the premier annual event for the Boston Children’s Chorus is a concert honoring a man whose work was steeped in social justice. “It will be a celebration of our music and social justice curriculum,” said Howse. “We’re incredibly proud of our young singers who celebrate diversity and unity through song.”
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temperatures wearing ultra-sharp blades on the bottom of their feet? Hmmmm…. maybe we should think this over. What is it that is so appealing about being a figure skater? Perhaps it is the dramatic combination of grace and speed, beauty and athleticism, skills that draw TV fans of the sport in record numbers. There is something captivating about watching skaters defy gravity with double, triple and even quad jumps in electrifying programs with astonishing spins. But don’t worry, beginning skaters won’t start out with death spirals and pancake spins, since those are advanced figure skating elements and take many hours of practice to master. Beginners will learn the foundational skills that are necessary to eventually work on advanced elements as their skills increase. The sport of figure skating has long fascinated children and adults alike, especially here in Massachusetts as we prepare for the US Figure Skating (USFS) National Championships in Boston in January and the Winter Olympics in February. Fortunately, for families in New England, there are many opportunities to try skating on for size and see if it is a good match for your child.
How do I start and what age is appropriate?
The best way to introduce your child to figure skating is to enroll them in a learn-to-skate program, found at local ice skating rinks. Danielle David, figure skating coach and assistant to the director of the North Star Figure Skating Club in Westborough said, “There is no correct age to introduce your child to skating. However, sometimes a child can be too young and will cry the whole time. If that happens, wait six months and try again. No one is ever too old to try skating.” Rinks often rent skates so you can “try before you buy” and suggest your beginning skater wear warm clothing, a helmet and gloves. Wei Descheneaux of Upton, whose 11-year-old daughter, Elise, is now a Preliminary Freestyle skater, remembered, “When my daughter got her first badge in learn-to-skate lessons, she wanted to keep skating to get the next one.”
My child loves skating and is making great progress. What’s next?
If your child can’t seem to get enough of the ice and she is having fun and ready for an additional challenge, she is probably ready to move beyond learn-to-skate. The next step
is to start small group or private lessons and to learn the individual skills which make up the USFS Basic Skills program. At this point, David suggests buying a quality pair of new or used figure skates which “fit well and are stiff around the ankle for good support.” There are eight levels of basic skills, each requiring specific elements that must be mastered and tested. After a child passes each test, she earns a badge for that level. After the eight levels are mastered, the skater will move on to the USFS Freestyle levels 1-6. When a child has passed all six freestyle tests, she typically taking USFS Moves-in-the-Field and Freestyle tests. She is then eligible to compete in USFS Open competitions, the road that ultimately leads to regional, sectional and national championships, and — yes — even the Olympics.
How long does this take and how much does it cost?
On average, it can take between one and three years for a skater to complete the Basic Skills and Freestyle levels, depending on how much time the skater spends on the ice and how quickly she learns new skills and passes tests. Natalia Kierul of Southborough, whose daughters Julia and Olivia both skate at the Juvenile Freestyle level, noted some important
traits needed to succeed in figure skating. “It's their determination as well as passion. They have to love skating. I know my daughters love skating because even after they fall over and over again trying to land a jump, they come in the next day and keep trying.” David said that at North Star, Learn-to-Skate lessons are about $15 per week based on a 10 week package. As skaters develop, they take private lessons and those prices vary depending on the coach. Figure skating can become more expensive as the skater advances. Mary Hom of Southborough, mother of ten-year-old Jade who skates both individual freestyle and also ice dances with a partner, explaind that Jade spends roughly 15 hours each week on the ice. When asked what costs are involved, Hom joked, “too much to tell, but more than my mortgage.” While this may be an exaggeration, costs for advanced skaters include ice time, private coaching lessons, off-ice lessons for dance and strength, as well as competition entrance fees, equipment and costumes. Kierul shared one of her favorite cost-saving tips: “Shop on eBay to save some money on dresses and equipment.” David said that one of the most frequently asked questions from parents is, “How do I help my skater to progress faster?” Her typical answer is, “The more time on the ice, the faster a skater progresses.”
How do I select a private coach?
Your child’s private coach will spend quite a bit of time on the ice with your child and will direct many of the decisions about when your child will take tests and compete. The coach will also be part of a team that selects music and choreographs their program, so it is important to select a coach that both you and your child are comfortable with. Hom suggested, “Ask other parents and watch and observe coaches while they are teaching.” "Keep in mind the emotional needs of your child
and select a coach that matches and check their credentials online. The first coach is always very special and has the greatest influence,” said Kierul. Marie Boyle of Hopkinton, whose 11 year-old-
daughter Keelan skates at the Preliminary Freestyle level, said that it is important to “provide positive reinforcement and equally as important to let the coach do her job.”
What will my child get out of the sport?
From an early stage, children have the opportunity to design a program set to music and to compete, as
early as the Basic Skills levels. Most figure skating clubs also host shows so that their skaters can perform and showcase their skills for friends and families each year. In addition to singles, ice dance and pairs, figure skaters can also be part of a team by joining a synchronized skating team or a theater-on-ice company. Hom said the rink is “a second home to my daughter” and Descheneaux said that they learn to “never give up when struggling to learn a difficult new skill. They expand their social circle by making new friends and they have fun and support each other.” “Serious skaters develop self-discipline, goal setting, and time management skills that will help them in school, career and home life,” said David. What’s more, many skaters stick with the sport in college. Some make extra money coaching and some participate on their college’s skating team. Skaters who qualify can also try out for Disney on Ice and cruise ship entertainment, audition for the Bruins Ice Girls, or take a different track and work with figure skaters as a sports psychologist. Most importantly in skating, you always learn to land on your feet – in practice, in competition and in life. Are there any special opportunities for male skaters? David said, “Since girls outnumber boys in figure skating, the girls look for partners in pairs and dance, and this is a great opportunity for boys to have success in figure skating.” Boys can also participate in singles and synchronized skating.
What is life like for parents at the rink?
Descheneaux laughed, “It’s cold if the heat is not on but fun watching your child learning new skills. It’s also fun chatting with the other parents. I go to almost every practice and
competition to support Elise.” Kierul added, “You develop a deep relationship with the other skaters and their parents because we all go through the same experience. We're sort of like dance moms.”
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While you are feeling the chill of a New England January, the heat is on for the summer camp industry. The start of a new year begins a season of fairs, mailings, and advertising aimed at winning your summer camp budget. According to the American Camping Association, there are over 12,000 day and resident camps in the United States, each vying for a piece of an industry that’s valued at a $15 billion annually. Billion, with a B. The competition has created a host of niche camps and creative programming for children and adults of all ages and backgrounds. Prices vary greatly. While it sounds terrific to have so many choices, it can also be confusing and overwhelming for parents looking for the best bang for their buck. This is just one of many reasons why
camp fairs have become increasingly popular through the years. They are a one-stop information shop for families who want to browse summer options. Visitors are introduced to traditional camps as well as exotic and specialty camps. Booths, brochures, photos, videos, and camp staff are available to answer questions and provide resource material. Many camp fairs are scheduled to take place in January, and the calendar will fill with more well into the spring. Here are several planned for Massachusetts this month:
Virtual Camp Fair @ Summer Camp Live
January 1 through 31www.summercamplive.com/children-
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Westford Summer Camp and Activities Fair
Saturday, January 11, 11:30 a.m. to 2 p.m.
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Summer Opportunities and Camp Fair
Sunday, January 12, 1 to 3:30 p.m. Sharon High School,
f181 Pond Street, Sharon
Summer Camp Information FairWednesday, January 22, 7 to 9 p.m.
Snowdate: February 6Newman Elementary School Cafeteria, 1155 Central Ave.,
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Lexington Summer Camp and Activities Fair
Saturday, January 25, 11:30 a.m. to 2 p.m.
Lexington High School Cafeteria, 251 Waltham Street, Lexington
Sudbury Summer Camp Fair 2014Sunday, January 26, 11 a.m. to 2 p.m.
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