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Lead pastor : Jerry Lawson & 24 to Double Coach : Richard Chancy
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  • Lead pastor : Jerry Lawson & 24 to Double Coach : Richard Chancy

  • Table of Contents

    Introduction 1

    Chapter 1 : Using Positive Reinforcement as a Guide 3

    Chapter 2 : Reinventing the Wheel 6

    Chapter 3 : Too Many People Doing Favors 9

    Chapter 4 : No Quantiable Goals 11

    Chapter 5 : Doubting What God Can Do Through You 14

    Chapter 6 : Doing It All 16

    Index

  • Thank you for downloading 6Things Pastors Doto Kill Church Growth .This book is composed from an interview of Pastor Jerry Lawson, lead pastor of Daystar Church by church building consultant, Richard Chancy. They had a very thorough discussion of all the mistakes that eitherthey have made or they have seen other pastors make that seem to limit what they can do in their church.

    Richard : Jerry, why dont you give us a brief overview of who you are and Daystar Church.

    Jerry : Sure. When I think of six mistakes that pastors do to kill a church, I think Ive probably done them all and many more. We started our church out of a 65-year-old established church. We rebirthed it as a new church, starting from scratch and built a whole new model. The church has grown from under 100 people to over 2,000 in a really small town. We learned so much.

    When we started teaching that to other churches through a process called 24toDouble, we literally, over the last ve years, taught several hundred churches. Weve learned so much from those pastors and picked up so much about how to better our process that I just love taking opportunities like this to share with other pastors who might be dealing with some of the same issues Ive been through or pastors have been through over the years.

    Richard : Talk a little bit about the history of Daystar and what your experience with that church is, where it was, and where it is now.Jerry : We started Daystar, a church replant, when I was about 28 with about 60 people I had some gifts. God gives us all gifts. I was very energetic and worked really hard, so the church began to grow almost immediately. But we tapped out. We really maxed out at 400-500.

    I met a church growth leader who was a great guy with a good heart. He opened my eyes to a lot of things that we didnt know about: systems, structure, and building teams so that your ministry is reproducible. The reason we were stuck was because things went pretty well as long as my hand was in them, as long as I had enough energy to get to everything and be involved in everything going on. They went pretty well because I had a high standard and a lot of energy.

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  • However, when I wasnt able to be there, I began to think, God forbid, if Im gone, if I die, if I leave, what happens to this church? I just knew we werent structured for long-term growth.

    When we started putting the 24toDouble structure in place, I found out that it wasnt just a replacement for me being there, but there are actually people in our church who are more gifted in certain areas and certainly more passionate about certain things than I was. So we started really leaning on their gifts and talents, and thats when our church exploded in growth and really took o.

    Richard : Thank you, Jerry. Now that youve introduced yourself and your church, I should introduce myself. Im Richard Chancy. After I graduated from college, I worked in nancial services for about eight or nine years. Then I woke up one morning and realized that I hated it. Through Gods intervention, I met some people from John C. Maxwells organization about that same time and had the opportunity to go to work for John Maxwell,consulting for businesspeople as well as for churches.

    Over the next few years, I really fell in love with building the church. When John sold the organization, I started working with churches, doing consulting in preparation for church construction and really got a heart for the how-to part of church, trying to go out and nd people who had good systems and good processes that we could put in place for church growth.

    As I was doing that, my good friend over at The Rocket Company, Casey Graham, introduced me to Jerry Lawson and Lance Self from Daystar who wanted to take this 24toDouble content that was primarily event-driven and put it online so that more pastors would have access to it from a geographic standpoint as well as cost. Taking the resources online meant pastors could learn at their own pace, without travel expenses, but most importantly, they could involve their team.

    That was my background. Now, were just trying to nd ways that we can leverage technology to add value to pastors and, hopefully, inspire you to move forward into what God has planned for you.With that in mind, were going to jump right into the 6Things Pastors Do To Kill Church Growth. We want to try and add as much value as we can in this eBook. With that, Jerry, lets consider the rst mistake pastors make to kill church growth in chapter 1.

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  • Richard : The rst mistake is they are using positive reinforcement as a guide. Right now, unfortunately, the church in America is losing steam. We know that about 86% of churches are in decline. Another 6-7% are at and only 6-7% are growing.

    If youre in a church where the system is failing,but youre getting positive reinforcement from people telling you how good a job you're doing, thats not good, because all that the positive reinforcement is doing is reinforcing the idea that things are great. And right now, we need to look at positive reinforcement and say thats not what we need right now. We need resistance.

    Jerry, why dont you jump in right here and give some ideas on how positive reinforcement might be holding us back and what it feels like to push against the plow on this.

    Jerry : Everybody likes to be armed and likes to be told, That was a great sermon, pastor. You did a good job. We eat that up. I do, and I know most pastors do. But I dont think we can really trust that.

    Heres why. I like to say it like this: The great sermon that I preached this weekend was Gods gift to me, but the people who I brought into the church are my gift back to God.

    What I mean by that is youre gifted. If youre able to get up in front of a lot of people and share the Gospel, know theres some hard work, prayer and study, but most of that is Gods gift to you. Americans number one fear is falling to their death. The second fear is public speaking.

    The very fact that youre able to get up and youre not afraid, and youre able to condently get up and speak, means God gifted you with some abilities. Thats wonderful. Ive been amazed through the years by how many small churches have great communicators really good preachers. But Ive come to realize that youre not going to preach your church into changing your community. Youre not going to preach your way into growing your church or ministry eectiveness.

    The truth is people dont want to disappoint you. By nature, most people are people-pleasers. When they meet you at that back door, theyre going to say, Great job, pastor. And it may have been a great job, but you cant rest on that. You cant say, Thats enough, because theres so much more to do.

    Jesus called us to make disciples. He called us to, I believe, build teams where disciples are doing the work of ministry, and thats so much more than just a good presentation, good singing, and good preaching.

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  • Richard : We know that for a church thats been around for a long time, kind of like Daystar was before you started pastoring a church that might be 60, 70, 80, or 100 years oldand you have members who have been there for a halfacentury, when you begin to get momentum around this idea of reaching new people for Christ, its going to cost you something. Theres going to be some pain associated with it.

    Talk a little bit about the pain that came when you decided, Im going to do something big here and Im going to let God have His hands on it.

    Jerry : There was a lot of pain involved in that. For a church thats been doing things a certain way for such a long time, when you decide were going to be a more purpose-driven, more life-giving kind of church, then theres change involved; you dont just keep doing the same old things over and over again. You may not continue to have dinner on the grounds. You may not continue to have Southern Gospel singing. There may be a lot of things that you change.

    The way you present the message on the weekend is also dierent because the words you use and the little catch phrases that people are used to that are kind of religious jargon go away because you start thinking about the lost people that your church folks have been inviting.

    Its painful to me. I catch myself. At least, when we started to make that change, I would catch myself often saying what I could have said dierently. So its painful to me. Its a little bit painful for the people because we change things. Thats why you dont want to change it all at once but gradually. You need to see your church not like a speedboat, but like a cruise ship. You can turn that speedboat on a dime and everyone is okay, but if you try to turn a cruise ship really fast, it will tip over and youd lose a lot of people. That kind of change is painful and it has to be taken slowly.

    Richard : Did you have an experience where somebody you just absolutely knew was behind you and then there was a point in time where they either werent behind you or they were gone?

    Jerry : They were not only not behind me and not only gone, but they were in front of me. They were against us. It was amazing when we changed. I learned from a great leader, Dr. Raymond Culpepper. He told me once that the people who got you to where you are today will usually not be the people to get you to where you want to go to tomorrow. It was so painful for me when I heard him say that. It was more painful as Ive watched it unfold.

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  • Even former board members who left us were angry about the way

    we changed and some of the things that happened. Listen, Im not one of those pastors who

    just throw caution to the wind and say, This is the way its going to be. Leave if you dont like

    it. There are some successful leaders who do it that way. I dont do it that way. Its painful when

    someone leaves, but I cannot compromise the calling that we have, and the vision, the picture

    of what we think ministry is supposed to look like. I cant compromise that for anyone. I have

    to be willing to be a bold enough leader to lose people if absolutely necessary.

    Richard : I think on the ip side of that, there are probably people who came out of the wood-

    work. You may not have even known them when you started this, but they came along beside

    what you were doing. And had you not had the vision for growing this church and reaching

    new people, those people would never have appeared.

    Jerry : Theres no doubt that to say there are ten times more who come out of the woodwork

    when those leave wouldnt even be accurate. I would probably have to say 50 to 100 times

    more.

    The benets of following Gods calling and following the dream and vision that you have far

    outweigh the liabilities of such. The only thing is sometimes, you will lose the ones youre

    going to lose. And even if you dont lose them, theyre not as excited or as involved as they

    used to be. That will happen on the front end.

    You have to have faith to believe that the gains are going to come later. A lot of guys will not

    sustain the energy that it takes to bring meaningful change, because you dont see the

    change you want up front and its dicult to hang in there and wait for it.

    Richard : Yes. Lets move on to the second mistake.

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  • Richard : There are far too many churches that are killing their growth because theyre trying to reinvent the wheel. Theyre trying to come up with a new way to do church, and I think thats especially a challenge for the church planter. I do believe that God put something in every person whos going to plan a church that says, Youre going to do this a brand new way. I think He puts it there to make you crazy enough to actually plant a church.

    Talk about the peril of trying to reinvent the wheel.

    Jerry : We did that. I think probably every pastor has tried to do that. Now there are so many dierent resources out there. Theres all kinds of conferences you can go to. You can only get your eyes on and your head around so many dierent models. Its a real dangerous trap.

    Thats one of the things Dr. Owen Weston told us. Hes a consultant and one of my mentors and one of the mentors for Daystar church. He said, Be very careful that you dont try to piecemeal your model. You get a little something from Craig Groeschel, a little something from Andy Stanley, a little something from Rick Warren, a little something from the Church of the Highlands. Be careful not to do that.

    Make sure you determine what youre trying to do. Whos doing something that is most like what youre trying to do? Whos doing it in the same kind of environment with the same kind of challenges that you face? And then learn from them.

    Now, dont copy anyone. Dont just do what theyre doing.Your church is unique and there is no other church like yours, but there are some churches out there that have a similar goal, similar kind of idea of what they want to do, and some similar circumstances.

    Honestly, Richard, thats why at Daystar we started training other churches. When Dr. Weston rst suggested to me that we do this 24toDouble and start training churches, I said, No one will come and hear what we have to say.

    But they did; they started asking, Youre in a small town and you dont have a very big budget. Youre a lot like us. Were not in a mega city and we have to make a budget. How were you able to take a church under 100 to over 500, then over 1,000, then over 1,500 and then over 2,000? There were a lot of people who wanted that.

    Thats why we decided to start doing the training that we do. There were people who liked the model. Its a great model and they felt like it would applyin a lot of dierent circumstances.

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  • Thats what I would encourage pastors to do. Dont go away to Catalyst and come home with ve new things from Catalyst, and then go to ARC Conference and come away with that, and then go to Exponential and come away with that because,with piecemealing, you end up with a big mess. The leaders of those conferences are all incredible leaders, and I go to those conferences and learn so much.

    However, in terms of the model for my church, I have to nd that one model I can look to and learn from. Its probably not someone whos church is 20,000 members stronger than mine. Its someone whos right in front of me who I can learn from and whos been through some of the same things that Ive been through, and who is accessible to share some of that knowledge.

    Whatever that is for you, stay true to that. Learn from those people over and over and over again as much as you can.

    Richard : This reminds me of the quote, The confused mind says no. If you dont take some time to really take a step back from your ministry and work on the ministry instead of working in the ministry, I think what happens is you get blown by the wind. When you see somebody speak at an event and they tell you about how much success they have with doing small groups this way or leading their sta this way, if you dont have a comprehensive plan that you sat down and thought through, then the next big idea is just around the corner. Its the next book you read, the next video that you watch, or the next conference that you go to. That can be a dangerous cycle to be in.

    Jerry : A quick example of that is I went to Catalyst a few years ago, and a person I have the utmost respect for, Francis Chan, was talking about the church they constructed in Southern California. Its kind of like an old-time tabernacle. Theres not even walls. Its more like a stadium.

    We had just built a big multi-million-dollar building. If I could say it, I felt like crap. Look at all that money we wasted on brick-and-mortar. We should have sent that to the mission eld like Francis Chan and his church did.

    I got home and we had some dreary, cold, rainy days. I thought, Ive never seen that in Southern California. Then we had some blazing hot Alabama-like days like you really dont have in South-ern California.

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  • Then a few years later, Francis Chan wasnt at that church anymore.

    I thought, I really have to look at me, my church, my community, and listen

    to a couple of mentors who I can really learn from. Sure, I can be inspired by a lot of authors and

    a lot of conferences, but, like you said, its really hard for my team back home my congregation,

    my leaders to get on board when Im turning on a dime every six months because theres a new

    conference out there.

    Richard : That year, the last time Francis Chan was at Catalyst, I drove him to the airport when the

    event was over with. We got to talking about my work doing church construction. We got about

    halfway there, and he said, Man, you really enjoy what you do, dont you?

    I said, Yeah. I feel like Im in the right place. I feel like Im where God wants me right now, doing

    what He wants me to do. Then I asked, How about you?

    I was just kidding, thinking he was going to say, Oh, I couldnt imagine my life being any better.

    I could tell from the comments that he made that he was overwhelmed by his schedule. I nally

    just told him, Francis, I go to just about every church conference there is because of my work,

    and youre at all of them. Its okay to say no to some things.

    I think thats important thing to realize right now while were talking about not reinventing the

    wheel. What you say no to is going to be more important than what you say yes to. You have to

    get that lter on that says, Not in my church, for most things. That clarity only comes when you

    have a really well-dened vision of where youre going and a mapped-out strategy for how youre

    going to get there.

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  • Richard : Jerry, talk about what it looks like when you have too

    many people doing favors.

    Jerry : One of the phrases I tell people at Daystar all the time when we recruit people to serve,is,

    Do me a favor and dont do me any favors. In most pastors churches all around America, the

    people who are serving on ministry teams feel like theyre doing the pastor a favor.

    It starts all the way from that moment when they come right up from the altar call experience.

    They come to the front,they gave their life to Christ, and we immediately strap them with nursery

    duty. Just in that very moment, theyre serving.

    Most of the time, they stink at it. They still have tears in their eyes when you ask them, Will you be

    willing to do this? Theyre going to do it because their heartsare open and they received some-

    thing.

    The truth of the matter is theyre neither passionate about that nor are they gifted at doing that.

    So they end up doing something that theyre awful at, and you wish theyd stop doing it, but

    youre embarrassed to get them to stop, and they want to stop doing it, but theyre guilty and

    dont want to stop.

    So what happens is they dont just stop doing that ministry; they just quit your church altogether

    because theyre embarrassed about it.I call it the desperate volunteer model. We teach about that

    in 24 to Double in one of the sessions.

    We want to have people on a destiny-driven model. We have this simple little equation. We say

    that your passion plus your spiritual gift equals your destiny. We have created a prole thats a gift

    and passion prole where we help people answer a few questions, and that helps them deter-

    mine what their spiritual gift mix is. Its not just any gift, but a gift mix. Also, they determine what

    their area of passion is.

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  • If you can help a person determine the intersection, where those

    two indexes intersect, thats the point where theyre supposed to

    serve in their calling. And when you get people serving in their calling,

    then theyre doing it for God and not for you. As a pastor, Ive had people doing me favors serving

    in dierent areas, and now I have people serving in areas because they feel called to do it. I cannot

    tell you how big a dierence that is, how wonderful it feels to know that these are folks getting up

    every morningand theyre getting up particularly on the weekendand they say, Today is my

    day to serve and Im going to do what God has called me to do as opposed to, Oh, my goodness,

    should I call the pastor and tell him I cant be there again? Thats just so painful.

    When you get to the place where people arent doing you a favor but theyve found their gift, and

    you helped them nd their gift and calling, thats like the dierence between pushing a

    wheel-barrel with a at tire up hill and riding a go-cart downhill. Thats where you want to be:

    helping people nd their destiny.

    Richard : This one hits the nail on the head for me. Ive been at my church here in Atlanta now for

    about 15 years, and, for much of that time, we led small groups. I did a lot of time on the parking

    team. I even led a parking team. I enjoyed that, but I think there was always this sense of what

    your talking about. That I was doing the church a favor. About two-and-a-half years ago, I started

    leading a high school small group, and the thought that Im doing my church a favor has not

    crossed my mind since then.

    I feel like not only am I getting an education on what its like to be a teenagers these years, which

    is incredibly important for me, bringing up an 11-year-old daughter, but I like the idea of purpose

    and belonging. I have these great friends now who are high school kids. I look back, and, as Im

    looking at this gift, testing what were doing to get people in the right seat on teams, Im thinking

    I couldve been doing this for 15 years, but, instead, I hopped around until I found the right spot

    for me. This is a critical part of a ministry.

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    Chapter- 2Richard : Another mistake that pastors are making that kill church

    growth is they dont have quantiable goals. They dont have

    something theyre shooting for. Talk a little bit about that and the areas where thats important,

    Jerry.

    Jerry : That all begins with vision. Thats why we start Module 1 of 24toDoublewith vision. We say

    that before you can do anything else, you have to nd out what youre great at, what youre called

    to do.

    We use something called the Hedgehog Principle, which helps you nd out where your vision

    should be. Its a great little process to take your team through.

    When you start with vision and then continue to recast vision, and that vision gets more and

    more detailed and more and more specic, then people will know what it looks like when we win.

    Andy Stanley said vision leaks. I think thats so true. Also,Rick Warren said that you have to restate

    your vision every 30 days to your people. I believe thats so important because I think people will

    live and die for vision, but, if it lacks clarity, they wont do anything. Theyll climb a mountain for

    vision. They wont cross the road for lack of clarity. So we need to know what it is were after.

    Habakkuk 2 tells us to put it on a billboard and make it very plain. Habakkuk 1 tells us that that

    vision is based on your burden. You have a burden in your heart and that burden births a vision.

    People need to know. They need to feel that.

    Then make it quantiable. On our teams, the worship team has goals they need to meet. The altar

    team has a goal of a certain number of people who will raise their hand that they want to receive

    Christ, and then we encourage them to come forward. We count the hands raised. We count how

    many people came forward. We count how many people who made a commitment and get

    baptized. We count how many people went from that commitment into our growth track, how

    many went from 101 to 201 . We count it all. We measure it all.

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    Chapter- 2We even keep metrics on each individual sta member so that the reason they get a pay raise is not because cost of living went up 3%, but because they met their benchmarks and they met their goals. And if they dont meet their goals, the whole church doesnt mean its goals. I can be blowing it up in youth ministry, but if the church didnt grow and the budget didnt grow, then I cant get a pay raise in youth ministry. So everybody is tied into the whole team. It basically says if we all dont win, I cant win. Thats a big part of how you get that camaraderie and that teamwork and every-body on board at the same time.

    Richard : A big part of the way that you run Daystar and the way that 24toDouble runs is that many of those sta members are responsible for one of these seven teams that we help build. Theyre driven to get people in the right seat on those teams.

    Jerry : Yes, and its very clear. When we started out, almost every team leader was a volunteer. I think, to date, we have one of the seven teams that is led by a volunteer still. But, as Doc O explained it to us,when the church grows, youll have people on sta in those positions. Early on, almost every position was occupied by a volunteer, and they worked their way into that ministry.

    The beautiful thing about the matrixand we wont get into that yet because its deep into the process of 24 to Doublebut theres a matrix that really weaves all the team together. Its impossible to have an independent team.

    I was a youth pastor and I led a renegade team. I thought my youth group was better than the whole rest of the church; I couldnt stand the childrens department, and they couldnt stand me.But this matrix doesnt make that possible. It really causes everyone to come together, and its a beautiful thing where we all share in the goals.

    I have some specic goals for my department if Im a youth or childrens pastor, but there are shared goals that we have to all meet together. Thats really the backbone of unity.

    Richard : You touched on something a little bit there that I want to explore a little more. In my years doing church construction and getting churches ready for that, I was always amazed to see that facilities were not the largest expense for most churches. It was actually sta.

    Talk about what the 24toDouble model has done to your sta costs.

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    Jerry : The best way I can tell it is to quote the accountant who does our church books. He is the second largest accountant for churches in America, and he told me that he has never done church books for a church that has less sta cost than Daystar. Hes done huge churches. He does T.D. Jakess church. Hes done small churches and rural churches. He said theres never been a church with a smaller percentage of sta.

    Thats because we empower people, we build teams, and people have a path. They dont just go straight from the altar to being over something. They nd their gift and talent, and they grow and mature, and there are places for them to expand. Its a process that helps people have a safe place to serve and grow into a bigger area of responsibility.

    Someone on our sta,Dave, was talking to a volunteerwho wanted to be in ministry. He told me what he told the volunteer. He said, Basically, if you want to be on sta at Daystar, you just do so much until they cant make it without you. Then you get a job. Incidentally, thats exactly what Dave had done. Thats exactly how he got in the ministry: he did so much, we couldnt make it without him. There are constantly people growing, because we make it so clear and so plain what we want them to do, they will grow in their area of ministry and they love it, until eventually, as the church is growing and we need a new position, theyre clearly the person we need.

    Thats so huge. Thats so much better than going out and hiring some big gun from some other church, because I dont know what he believes in, I dont know what his ethics are, and I dont know what he thinks about me and my leadership or my church. I dont know if he likes our town. There are so many variables that we get to bypass when we have great teams that are growing our sta from within. There are still a few, but most of those variables are solved as theyve grown up through our church.

    Richard : The lead pastor of a church over in Athens that I built for told me a funny story. He told me that one time that he interviewed ve or six people for their small groups pastor and none of them had ever led a small group.

    To make a serious point, if youve ever had to re somebody who looked good on paper but couldnt get the job done, this will eliminate that. If you have people who work their way into a positionso that when you start paying them, you know they can do what they say they can do, I think thats grand.

    This next point is a big one.

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  • One of the mistakes that will kill church growth is not having the belief in yourself; doubting what God can do through you.

    Jerry: Yes, thats a problem when we think too small. I think theres a big problem, and then theres a bigger problem. The big problem is when you take yourself too seriously. The bigger problem is when you dont take yourself seriously enough. This may sound like a contradiction, but let me explain it.

    I think there are a lot of religious people who take themselves way too seriously. They cant be called by their rst name; they have to be called Bishop or pastor. They cant wear whatever they feel comfortable wearing. They cant just talk in these terms; they have to have on their preacher voice on Sunday and say big words that are learned in seminary. I think thats taking yourself too serious.

    But on the other hand, there are times that you need to take yourself more seriously. Im talking to pastors. I want you to hear me when I say this: you are called by Heaven. We believe that the church is the hope for all humanity and there is no plan B. You are it. The church is it, and youre the leader. You need to take that calling seriously and you need to know that the vision that God birthed inside of you, he is well capable of doing that thing.

    You need to take it seriously that youre the temple of the Holy Spirit. He ows inside of you and what He can do for you is beyond your ability.

    When we started Daystar,my little church, we were in a town of 491 people. Before we left that town, we had 800 in attendance. So, the town almost doubled on Sunday because we opened up shop. Thats amazing!

    I want to tell you that God is the same God for you. He can do huge things for you. It doesnt matter. You dont have to keep looking at the Andy Stanleys and Craig Groeschels of the world who are in bigger cities with dierent scenarios. Theres something big where you live. Theres something huge in the heart of God where you live, and Hes chosen to speak to you about it.

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    Doubting What God Can Do Through You

  • So I don't let pastors tell me, It just wouldnt work for me. I dont

    have those gifts. They have the same Gifter that I have, and thats

    God, and the God who created them put gifts inside of them. Im passion about this, making

    pastors know that they ought to be serious about their gift and calling, because God is very

    serious. When He said, I formed you in your mothers womb and put gifts inside of you before you

    were even born, I take that very seriously, and I think every pastor readingthis should as well.

    Richard : A few weeks ago, I was in Texarkana, Texas,nishing a construction job of a $5 million

    building that was a new sanctuary out there, and I got to be really good friends with the pastor,

    Tim Montgomery, over that time. .

    We built this incredible new worship facility for this church and a new childrens ministry building,

    and a hallway or mezzanine that ran between the old building and the new one.We were stand-

    ing in the mezzanine area of this church,and I thought, This hallway is going to change this

    church, the way these people do church and the way they do community before and after

    services. Tim and I were standing there talking, and I asked him, Did you ever think it would be

    like this?

    He said, In my wildest imagination, ten years ago when we were meeting in a boot store in Texar-

    kana, Texas, I would never have imagined this.

    Heres the point Im trying to make. You really cant think as big as where God is taking you, so

    thinking small is dangerous, because even when you do think really big, God is going far above

    and beyond that. We have to develop that muscle inside of usthat faith musclethat says, I

    can. And even if I cant, He can. And were making ourselves available.

    In my mind, the commitment to doing what God is calling you to do is more important than

    being able to see clearly where Hes taking you, because Hes going to take you farther beyond

    that.

    Jerry : Thats a good one. Lets talk about the last one, number six.

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  • Jerry : Pastors kill their church by doing it all. Listen, Im a good person to talk about this problem because Ive had this problem many times. Im a Type A personality, a very detail-oriented person, and Im a controller.

    Ive had to confess that and give that to the Lord, and Hes redeemed it and helped me be a good leader, but, by nature, Im a controller, so its hard for me to let things go. I want to run everything.

    I remember reading a book by John Maxwell in which he said, Great leaders walk slowly through the crowd. Boy, that was like hitting me with a boat paddle in the face, because I didnt do that. I wanted to be a great leader, and I thought I was a fairly good leader, but I clearly didnt do that because I was doing too many things, especially on Sunday. Id be zipping through that sanctuary, making sure this was right and that was right. If youre doing that, pastor, thats a clear sign that youre doing too many things.

    Heres what we tell our sta now that Ive learned that lesson over many years. I tell my team, We dont hire doers. You cannot maintain your job by doing enough things. We hire leaders. I tell them, If somehow you slip through the cracks and you got hired and youre a doer, then you dont get to stay in this job until you learn how to be a leader.

    I do a small group on leadership. I teach leadership principles, too. I tell my sta, If you think maybe you slipped through the cracks and I havent found out yet that youre just a doer, then the best thing to do is join my small group and let me teach you how to be a better leader because if youre not empowering others, youre not doing the great commission. He didnt say 'Go and make a big crowd. He said,'Go make disciples.

    And when you think about what Jesus did, how did he do discipleship? He didnt say, Go to Sunday school. Weve always said Sunday school is discipleship. He said, Come and follow me. And so, rst Jesus did and they watched him do it. And then they did it with Jesus. And then, thirdly, they did it and Jesus watched.

    Thats what great leadership is. If you could just boil it down to three things, you model it, you partner in it, and then you watch as they do it.

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    Doing It All

  • Thats a big part of what we teach in 24toDouble is empowering leaders, showing people how to build teams so that constantly new leaders are emerging. I love it because, every month,it seems like theres some new leader emerging. Somebody will come up to me. In fact, the way Lance ended up getting on our team as Executive Pastor was when he was on a youth ministry leadership team and the youth pastor came up to me and said, Pastor, youve got to meet Lance. Hes an incredi-ble leader.

    We would have never known it if we were just doing all the stu, but were constantly empower-ing people to do things, and then occasionally someone just blows the roof o the place and you say, Wow, I had no idea there was someone with that much potential in the room. Again, that will never happen until you start building teams and empower leaders to do things on their own.

    Richard : One thing that comes to my mind is a book I read a while back called The 4-Hour Work-week. One of the questions that the author asks partway through that book is: if your doctor told you that youre going to die unless you stop working except for two hours a day, what would you do with those two hours a day? You work through that exercise of saying, Okay, if I were only going to work two hours a day, I would do this, this, this, and this and hand everything else o.

    The next thing the author asks is: what if you go back and your doctor says, Its not getting any better. Now you can only work two hours a week. What would you do?

    What reading that did for me was put me in the frame of mind of asking, What are the things that only I can do, and how do I get to the point where I can hand o some of this other stu?

    Sometimes for you, pastor, that means you have to hand things o to people who are volunteers. You have to seek them out, nd out what theyre good at, and hand stu o to them so that youre not doing everything. This is what I do know: one man cannot grow a church. Its impossible. The formula for keeping your church small is to do everything.

    Jerry : I think its very irresponsible, too. Some people do have great capacity in doing things. That was one of my challenges. Im a really good doer. Our church did grow when it was all leaning on me. However, through prayer, God just convicted me and said, Jerry, this thing is not about you, and if you went awayif something happened to you and you went awaythis whole thing would come crashing down.

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  • I think weve all seen churches that have done that, even big huge

    churches built on one man, and the whole thing comes crashing

    down. I just dont think thats Gods model for us. I dont think its his call at all. Thats why we are

    so passionate about helping build teams. We built a whole church around seven teams that are a

    logical step from the rst time you will hear about our church all the way until youre fully

    integrated. You go teams one through seven, and its like you have seven labs of team building

    and seven labs of leadership building.

    I just love knowing that I have all these teams and all these potential leaders growing up on a

    daily basis. Its so exciting to be a pastor and know thats coming your way.

    Richard:Thank you, Jerry! I'd like to summarize what we've examined by listing the 6 mistakes and

    what our readers can do to avoid them.

    1. First, don't use positive reinforcement as a guide. That's like a politician only looking at

    polls taken of party loyalists. While it's nice to receive compliments on a good sermon, don't let

    that lull you into a false sense of complacency. Don't be afraid to initiate positive, gradual chang-

    es that will grow your church in the long run just because you might receive criticism and lose

    some members in the short run.

    2. Don't try to reinvent the wheel by taking bits and pieces of systems to come up with a

    new way to do church. Such a piecemeal approach wouldn't work for a school and it certainly

    won't work for a church. To avoid this, rst determine what youre trying to do. Then nd out

    whos doing something that is most like what youre trying to do in the same kind of environment

    with the same kind of challenges. And then learn from them.

    3. Don't have too many people doing favors. When volunteers do something they don't

    like and/or they're not good at out of a sense of obligation, it's a lose/lose situation. You wish they

    would stop and they feel guilty and eventually stop or may even leave the church because of it.

    But if you have volunteers doing what they're gifted at and have a passion for, then it's a win/win

    situation that can only lead to growth.

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  • 4. Don't try to accomplish something without quantiable

    goals. That's like a coach telling his team that they're going to go out

    there to play fair and have fun. That's not going to inspire them to do their best. He has to have a

    vision: "We're going to go out there and win!" And it has to be a quantiable goal to shoot for (e.g.,

    14 wins and no losses). When you have teams working toward measurable goals they can

    envision, you get a lot more done with fewer people. And as your church grows, people grow.

    Volunteers become permanent sta and they know what they're doing.

    5. Don't doubt what God can do through you, but be careful to walk the ne line. On the

    one hand, don't take yourself too seriously and become holier than thou. On the other hand,

    don't diminish your importance as an instrument of God's will. Have the understanding that God

    can work through you to accomplish greater things for your church than you can ever imagine.

    6. Finally, don't do it all yourself. Be a leader, not a doer. Let go of micromanaging every-

    thing, and delegate. Ask yourself what you would do if you could only work a few hours a week,

    then do those things and delegate the rest. Empower people to do things and some of them may

    grow into leaders themselves.

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