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on the afternoon of 4 Sep, 1997.o Palestinian suicide bombershere too. Just before 3pm, they hemselves up.hat followed was a surreal blur.adar’s father, 58-year-old Rami
an only remembers “going fromstation to police station and
hospital to hospital” after atold him he had seen Smadarown.found himself standing in ae at the end of the night.elt a tremendous amount of inside me, eating me up...” says
Mr Elhanan. “When someone takes your 14-year-old away, all you want todo is get even.”
What did he want to do?“I wanted to blow myself up too,”
he says. “I wanted to kill Palestinians,Jewish settlers, our own government,everyone and anyone who madeSmadar pay for our mistakes.”
But as the months passed, his grief evolved into reflection. He wondered: What would make someone become asuicide bomber?
He joined the Parents Circle, apeace organisation of Israelis andPalestinians who have lost loves onesto the conflict.
It was there that, for the first timein his life, Mr Elhanan shook hands with a Palestinian.
“We hugged and we cried,” he says.
“I cannot explain why."Since it started with 24 members in
1995, the Parents Circle has grown toover 500 today, says co-founder RoniHirshenson.
It has been 10 years since Smadar’sdeath and these days Mr Elhananhelps Parents Circle organise eventslike summer peace camps.
“We meet to talk – Palestiniansand Israelis – if we want this toend,” he says. “We cannot hidebehind a wall forever.”
The statistics, though, show thatsuicide bombings have decreasedsince the wall was built.
Dialogue is fine. But when lives areat stake, isn’t a sturdy wall a betterguarantee?
“Yes, dialogue is harder,” admitsMr Elhanan. “But it’s the right thing todo.”
A wall to separate. A circle toembrace.
Two ways to resolve a conflict.But which one leads to peace?
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RAEL’S SIDE: They lose kids to Palestinian suicide bombers & the wall goes upINININININININININININININININININININININ
v A youth and his toddler brottaking a long detour around t
wall, after going out to groceries at the market. (Inse
file picture of Smadar Elhanwho died after Palestinians bl
themselves up near
YOUNGIN HOLY LAND
TOMORROW INTHE NEW PAPER:The two little girls – one Arabone Jew – are friends, allthanks to one kindergarten
d of victim still trieseach out to ‘enemy’
Monday, 25 Jun 2007 THE NEW PAPER