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friend on the afternoon of 4 Sep, 1997. Two Palestinian suicide bombers  were there too. Just before 3pm, they blew themselves up.  What followed was a surreal blur. Smadar’s father, 58-year-old Rami Elhanan only remembers “going from police station to police station and from hospital to hospital” after a friend told him he had seen Smadar downtown. He found himself standing in a morgue at the end of the night. “I felt a tremendous amount of anger inside me, eating me up...” says Mr Elhanan. “When someone takes  your 14-year-old away, all you want to do is get even.”  Wha t did he want to do? “I wanted to blow myself up too,” he says. “I wanted to kill Palestinians, Jewish settlers, our own government, everyone and anyone who made Smadar pay for our mistakes.” But as the months passed, his grief evolved into reflection. He wondered:  What would make someone become a suicide bomber? He joined the Parents Circle, a peace organisation of Israelis and Palestinians who have lost loves ones to the conflict. It was there that, for the first time in his life, Mr Elhanan shook hands  with a Palestinian. “We hugged and we cried,” he says. “I cannot explain why." Since it started with 24 members in 1995, the Parents Circle has grown to over 500 today, says co-founder Roni Hirshenson. It has been 10 years since Smadar’s death and these days Mr Elhanan helps Parents Circle organise events like summer peace camps. “We meet to talk – Palestinians and Israelis – if we want this to end,” he says. “We cannot hide behind a wall forever.” The statistics, though, show that suicide bombings have decreased since the wall was built. Dialogue is fine. But when lives are at stake, isn’t a sturdy wall a better guarantee? “Yes, dialogue is harder,” admits Mr Elhanan. “But it’s the right thing to do.”  A wall to separate. A circle to embrace. Two ways to resolve a conflict. But which one leads to peace? From page 13 WALLED WALLED WALLED WALLED WALLED WALLED WALLED WALLED WALLED WALLED WALLED ISRAEL’S SIDE: They lose kids to Palestinian suicide bombers & the wall goes up IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN IN v A youth and his toddler brother taking a long detour around the wall, after going out to get  groceries at the market. (Inset) A  file picture of Smadar Elhanan who died after Palestinians blew themselves up nearby. YOUNG IN HOLY LAND TOMORROW IN THE NEW PAPER: The two little girls – one Arab, one Jew – are friends, all thanks to one kindergarte n Dad of victim still tries to reach out to ‘enemy’ PAGE 16 Monday, 25 Jun 2007 THE NEW PAPER
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on the afternoon of 4 Sep, 1997.o Palestinian suicide bombershere too. Just before 3pm, they hemselves up.hat followed was a surreal blur.adar’s father, 58-year-old Rami

an only remembers “going fromstation to police station and

hospital to hospital” after atold him he had seen Smadarown.found himself standing in ae at the end of the night.elt a tremendous amount of inside me, eating me up...” says

Mr Elhanan. “When someone takes your 14-year-old away, all you want todo is get even.”

What did he want to do?“I wanted to blow myself up too,”

he says. “I wanted to kill Palestinians,Jewish settlers, our own government,everyone and anyone who madeSmadar pay for our mistakes.”

But as the months passed, his grief evolved into reflection. He wondered: What would make someone become asuicide bomber?

He joined the Parents Circle, apeace organisation of Israelis andPalestinians who have lost loves onesto the conflict.

It was there that, for the first timein his life, Mr Elhanan shook hands with a Palestinian.

“We hugged and we cried,” he says.

“I cannot explain why."Since it started with 24 members in

1995, the Parents Circle has grown toover 500 today, says co-founder RoniHirshenson.

It has been 10 years since Smadar’sdeath and these days Mr Elhananhelps Parents Circle organise eventslike summer peace camps.

“We meet to talk – Palestiniansand Israelis – if we want this toend,” he says. “We cannot hidebehind a wall forever.”

The statistics, though, show thatsuicide bombings have decreasedsince the wall was built.

Dialogue is fine. But when lives areat stake, isn’t a sturdy wall a betterguarantee?

“Yes, dialogue is harder,” admitsMr Elhanan. “But it’s the right thing todo.”

A wall to separate. A circle toembrace.

Two ways to resolve a conflict.But which one leads to peace?

m page 13

WALLEDWALLEDWALLEDWALLEDWALLEDWALLEDWALLEDWALLEDWALLEDWALLEDWALLED

RAEL’S SIDE: They lose kids to Palestinian suicide bombers & the wall goes upINININININININININININININININININININININ

v A youth and his toddler brottaking a long detour around t

wall, after going out to groceries at the market. (Inse

file picture of Smadar Elhanwho died after Palestinians bl

themselves up near

YOUNGIN HOLY LAND

TOMORROW INTHE NEW PAPER:The two little girls – one Arabone Jew – are friends, allthanks to one kindergarten

d of victim still trieseach out to ‘enemy’

Monday, 25 Jun 2007 THE NEW PAPER


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