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Know thyself



Introduction:

One defnition states that “ NLP is the study o the structure o subjectiveexperience.”

So what isNLP…..

!i"ht# So $et %e repeat%y &uestion' (hat is

NLP…..

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L

P

Neuro

Lin"uistic

Pro"ra%%in

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!eers to the %ind and how we or"anise ourthou"hts and %enta$ $ie.

)s about $an"ua"e* how we use it and how it a+ectsus. ,hat is the $an"ua"e we use to describe andcate"orise our wor$d* and %a-e sense o ourexperiences.)s about our se&uences o repetitive behaviour*patterns o thou"ht and how they he$p or hinder us.



NLP and You

ow do we do what wedo

ow do wethin-

ow do we $earn

ow do we "etan"ry

ow do we "ethappy

ow do successu$ peop$edo it

(hat do )want

(hatwor-s

ow do you dothat

(hat is the di+erencethat %a-es the

di+erence



NLP and Beliefs

(hat we be$ieve deep$y a+ects what we thin-* how we act and react.

/any an ar"u%ent can be on whether a be$ie is ri"ht or wron"* however NLPsees be$ies in ter%s o he$pu$ and not he$pu$.

0s a resu$t o your be$ies1

(hat do you doow do you actow do you trans$ate what you seeow do you trans$ate what you hear

0s we can2t possib$y -now everythin" about everythin"……rea$$y……%any o ourbe$ies are our best "uess at the ti%e.

Get curious……..what are your beliefs and how do they serveyou?



Roots of NLP

“The Structure of Magic” volume 1, Richar !anler " #ohn

$riner

[NLP is a Synthesis]

Virginia Satir

Fritz Perls

Frank Farrelly

Milton Erickson

Others

Transformational

Grammar

Roots of NLP

Family Therapy

Congruence

Groups

Change

Gestalt Therapy

Context

Proocatie Therapy

Attitude

Humour

ChallengeExplore limits

Honesty

!ypnosis

Ambiguity

Conversatio

George Miller

Gregory Bates

Alfred Korzybs

Ed!ard "apir

Mathematical #

$eep structure

"urface "tructure

$eletion

$istortion

Generalization



The our Le!s of NLP

Sensory0cuity

3ehavioura$4$exibi$ity

!apport

Outco%eOrientatio

n

"lic# each bo$ to %nd out &ore……..



The our Le!s of NLP

!apport

5enera$$y bein" in rapport with so%eone* isabout "ettin" on with the%.

3ut in NLP it is %uch %ore than this.!apport1

)s the frst step to "ood co%%unication

)s %eetin" others in their %ode$ o the wor$d

)s %atchin" the way you co%%unicate to theway the other person ta-es in inor%ation

)ncreases the $i-e$ihood that the %essa"e yousend wi$$ be the one they receive

Pro%otes trust and co%ort between peop$e



The our Le!s of NLP

,he second $e" is to -now what you want.(ithout -nowin" what you want you cannot

defne success* ce$ebrate when you achieve* or

%ap your journey towards your "oa$s.

6ou need to as- yourse$ the o$$owin"

&uestions1

'hat do ) want

(hat do ) want

(hat do I want

(hat do ) want

Outco%eOrientation



The our Le!s of NLP

,he third $e" is to notice what is happenin" to you and tothers around you. 3eco%e %ore curious and aware o

the e+ects and i%pact o what you do. On$y then wi$$ yo

tru$y -now i you are on course to achieve your "oa$. 6o

can then use this eedbac- to adjust what you are doin"

6ou need to as- yourse$ the o$$owin" &uestions1

ow wi$$ ) -now when ) have "ot it(hat wi$$ ) be seein" when ) have "ot it

(hat wi$$ ) be hearin" when ) have "ot it(hat wi$$ ) be ee$in" when ) have "ot it(hat wi$$ you see %e doin"* when ) have "ot it(hat wi$$ you hear %e sayin" when ) have "ot it

Sensory0cuity



The our Le!s of NLP

) what you are doin" isn2t wor-in" doso%ethin" di+erent.

If you always do what you(ve always done)

you will always !et what you(ve always !ot

!e%e%ber* you a$ways have a choice o what

action you ta-e and how you act and react to

situations. )t is useu$ to $oo- at the wor$d ro%

di+erent perspectives and points o view. ,he

%ore behavioura$ 7exibi$ity you have the %ore

choices you wi$$ discover.

*ee+ chan!in! what you do until you !etwhat you want

3ehavioura$4$exibi$ity

%ction ahea



Thin& of something you really want'not something you

on(t want or want less of or feel you shoul have)

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*magine yourself having achieve what

you really want) Let your unconscious o this for you ' allow yourself to ream) /sing your uncon

&ey 6art of the 6rocess) !e aware of what you are seeing, hearing, feeling 6hyssmelling, tasting, an feeling emotionally) !e sure to o this “from your own sh

*N +*0 0.NT57TS %R5 -./ *M%$*N*N$-./RS5L3 +*T T*S ./T0.M5% *n which ones o you want to have this



*magine how this can 8e or is a real 8enefit to

the significant 6eo6le in your life)

*t is vital that it is win9win) *f there is anything you nee to o in your thin&ing to ma&e it win9win, o that

+%T S.RT .3 0.ST +*LL -./ %:5 T. P%

%0*5:5 T*S% %re you willing to 6ay this 6rice

% *f not, let go of the outcome an 6ut your energies into somet

else)



+hat oes maintaining your 6resent state o for you

%ssuming you coul have achieve this outcome 8efore an evaluate)

ow can you 8uil the 8enefits of the 6resent state into the achievement of thestate

% ow oes achieving this outcome contri8ute to a higher goal

or an overall 6ur6ose that you have in your life

% *n what way oes achieving this outcome fit with who you ar

who you are 8ecoming

% +hat s6ecifically are you going to o that emonstrates yourcommitment to achieving this outcome +hen s6ecifically wi

o that !e very 6recise here a8out your action 6lan)

% *t nee only 8e the first ste6, 8ut it oes nee to 8e 6recise



+ell forme outcome 1 State in the 6ositive ;what you o want rather than what you on(t<)

= 5>6resse in the 6resent tense ;imagining it as if you have it right now<)

? 5>6resse in all senses) -ou can escri8e what you are seeing, hearing, feeling 8y tou

smelling an feeling emotionally)

@ *t is self2maintaine ;it is a8out your 6art of the system, not e>6resse in terms of oth

A *t is a win9winB it is a win for the significant others in your life as well as for you)

C *t is an en result not Dust a ste6 en route)

E *t has a higher 6ur6ose ;it is ultimately a8out ma&ing a ifference in the worl for oth

self<)

F *t fits with who you are) *f you are an e>6lorer at heart, there(s no 6oint having a goa

security) G *t satisfies the 6ayoff that you get from your 6resent state)

1H -ou are 6re6are to 6ay the 6rice to achieve it an this is emonstrate 8y your ans

following Iuestion)

11 -ou are committe to ta&ing the s6ecific ne>t ste6)

1= -ou are willing to act an o so)

1? -ou hol the 8elief throughout that whatever ha66ens is fee8ac& ' there is no rawlearning)

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