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THE ART OF HEALING 101: OVERCOMING FEAR OF SUCCESS AND FAILURE

Getting Useless Fears Out of Your Way So You Can Attract What You Really Want

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FEAR OF FAILURE VS. SUCCESS• Both are toxic states to be in • Fear of success is worse because it more

often stops you from even trying • Both will prevent you from achieving your

potential and true happiness • Keep you stuck • Create Thought Allergies and Trapped

Emotions (and other energies)

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FEAR OF FAILURE

• Can be a driving force toward a goal, but often acts as a self-fulfilling prophecy

• The focus is all on the wrong thing - what we focus on is what we attract

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WHAT CAUSES FEAR OF FAILURE?

• Living in the shadow of past failures and past traumas

• I always fail • I’m going to fail • I’m not worthy • I’m not capable

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WHAT CAUSES FEAR OF FAILURE?

• Living in fear of future failure, not trusting yourself (Often driven by past stuff)

• If I fail, it will be painful • I’ll have further to fall if I succeed • It’s safer if I stay where I am • It’s easier to avoid success and failure

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RECOGNIZING ISSUES

• Living in the past is continuing to suffer from old pain

• Depression • Living in the future is to cripple yourself

with a source of pain that doesn’t even exist

• Anxiety

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RECOGNIZING ISSUES

• Develop your intuition so you can easily recognize your feelings and behaviors for what they are

• Is this an appropriate reaction to the situation?

• Is this being driven by something else?

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RECOGNIZING ISSUES

• Anytime you’re uncomfortable, emotional or feeling out of it, ask yourself:

• Who or what is driving? • Is it you? • Your baggage?

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RECOGNIZING ISSUES

• What if it is you? • Is your thinking toxic? • Could just be bad habits • Helpful to realize where this came from • Often these are “tapes” or messages from

your childhood

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TOXIC THINKING

• Train yourself to recognize toxic thought patterns

• Set firm and positive internal boundaries with yourself to stop immediately

• Brush it off and keep going - don’t fixate!

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SELF-SABOTAGE

• Recognize when you’re sabotaging your own success

• Find out what’s causing this blockage • Find out what you need to do to keep

pushing forward and achieve your goal

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GOALS + ALIGNMENT = SUCCESS

• In order to achieve success, you need to have:

• Clear goals • Be in alignment with them • Have no blockages in the way

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WHAT TO ASK?

• To find and eliminate blockages, use the question formula

• 2 ways to ask questions: • Goal oriented • Issue oriented

• Use common sense and intuition to decide which kind to use

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GOAL ORIENTED QUESTIONING

• Goal oriented • What can I do to achieve my goal • How can I become completely alignment

with success?

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GOAL ORIENTED QUESTIONS

• What needs to be released in order for ____________?

• Am I okay with achieving ____? • Am I okay with having _____? • Am I okay with receiving ____? • Am I okay with being recognized

for __________? • Do I deserve to ____________

• Am I blocked from ________? • Is it safe for me to _________? • Is it okay for me to _________? • Is anything negative related to

____? (e.g. more work, potential negative effect on others)

• Is something driving the fear of others’ jealousy if I ______?

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GOAL ORIENTED QUESTIONS

• Am I 100% willing to achieve / have / receive _____?

• Is my subconscious 100% in alignment with me achieving /having / receiving _____ ?

• If no, why not?

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ISSUE ORIENTED QUESTIONING

• Issue oriented • What is blocking me from achieving my

goal? • What is blocking me from being

completely alignment with success?

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ISSUE ORIENTED QUESTIONS

• What is causing ______? • What is contributing to __? • What is creating ______? • Do I deserve to get rid of this? • Do I deserve to have this issue? • Is it safe for me to get rid of this

___ issue?

• Is it necessary for me to have this _____ issue?

• Is it serving me in some way to have this _______ issue?

• Is something blocking me from getting rid of this ______ issue?

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ISSUE ORIENTED QUESTIONS

• What is the most important imbalance to release to overcome ________ ?

• What is the most powerful imbalance causing ______?

• Is there anything connected to ______?

• Is there an inherited imbalance creating this issue _______?

• Is my subconscious fully aware that something is creating sabotage?

• Is this sabotage benefitting me? • Is this sabotage keeping me

safe?

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WHAT CAUSES FEAR OF SUCCESS?

• The idea that success will be overwhelming

• I’m not capable of holding it together • I’m already too overwhelmed, or will

become overwhelmed • The unknown is scary • I’m afraid of something else falling apart

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WHAT CAUSES FEAR OF SUCCESS?

• The idea that being visible is negative • I am invisible • Being unnoticed is safer / easier • If I fail it will be painful • Everyone will see

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WHAT CAUSES FEAR OF SUCCESS?

• The idea that others might be jealous • If others are jealous, it will hurt me • Others will sabotage me • I’ll be vulnerable to their jealousy • (This is co-dependent!)

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WHAT CAUSES FEAR OF SUCCESS?

• Fear of your own power / your own gifts / what is really possible

• Lack of trust in yourself if you become powerful

• Fear of something bad within you

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WHAT CAUSES FEAR OF SUCCESS?

• The idea that you’re not worthy • I’m not worthy of achieving / having /

being / etc • I don’t deserve • I’m not _____ enough to ______

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YOU ARE WORTHY!

• Would you ever tell someone else they weren’t good enough?

• Stop doing it to yourself! • “That doesn’t align with my belief system”

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YOU ARE WORTHY!

• A change in the way you actively treat yourself will allow old programming and negativity to be released

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THE COMFORT ZONE

• It’s safe • Magic rarely happens there • “Life begins at the end of your comfort

zone.” - Neale Donald Walsch

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PUSH YOURSELF!

• Pushing yourself outside your comfort zone in some way can help your confidence

• Commit to doing it • Get in alignment • Don’t let your lower self defeat your higher

self

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CHANGING YOUR WAYS

• We all have bad habits and negative thought patterns, and it takes effort to change

• It takes awareness, removing the negative and a focus on the positive instead

• Anything is possible!

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HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT

• Think about something you really want to do but haven’t achieved yet

• Analyze why you haven’t done it, and work on it (using The Body Code and goal oriented and/or issue oriented questioning

• Make it into a SMART goal (Specific, Measurable, Action-oriented, Realistic, Time specific) and make it happen!

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SUCCESS SUPPORT ACCESS

• Access to Success Support Team • Via phone and email

• email: 101support@healerslibrary.com • phone: 1.888.855.9278