- Not a Better Marriage, a Fantastic Marriage

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M en who were poor leaders for their families are illustrated in

numerous ways in the Bible. Some failed to discipline their children, oth-ers ignored them, and some were abusive. But there are also many examples of men who were good fa-thers in scripture. They were sources of encouragement and set the ex-ample of faithfulness to their children.

As our series on Leadership contin-ues this month, as we did in May with women, so we think of men who have set positive examples for their fami-lies. I thought I’d spend this column talking about leader-ship from the standpoint, not of a pastor, but as a son.

One of the special blessings I’ve had at Asbury has been the comments a number of you have shared with me be-cause you knew my dad, Hugh Harrison, at either Dowell or at Amoco (research center on 41st and Yale). He served our nation in the military during the Korean War. He loved sports, particularly the University of Arkansas football team. I remember watching him play softball with the men of our Methodist Church when I was a kid. He coached my little league teams. He loved to boo referees. He liked to fish. He didn’t like it when teenage boys had long hair. He liter-ally helped build a church - Oak Forest UMC in Little Rock.

Basil James, one of our members, knew him (and mom) when they were in school together at OU. (Basil told me soon after I moved to Asbury: “Tom, I knew you before you were born!”)

Some of you knew him through our church experi-ences at Rose Hill, Epworth, and University UMC’s. Oth-ers met him through “Lay Witness Missions.” He was a highly intelligent man - a research chemist who worked in the patent department at Dowell. He was fiercely conservative in most of his ways. He worked hard. He respected authority. He was a man’s man. It was hard for him to express tender emotions - that was not the way he was raised. He paid my way through college and seminary. He was always a source of wisdom. He kept a very messy office at home (mom just gave up on that room). He was diabetic since the Korean War time and seldom took care of himself. As a result, he died of complications of diabetes in 1986 at the age of 56.

He loved his grandkids, and though I miss having con-versations with him, the biggest loss I felt was that my kids never really got to know him. He would have been a great influence on them. To a very large degree, I am who I am because of the influence of my dad.

Certainly the biggest moment of our family life was a Sunday in April of 1969 when our family made a pro-fession of faith in Christ together. The Lord used an event called a “Lay Witness Mission” to introduce the concept of grace to us. We were all members of the church, but giving your heart to the Lord was a totally new thing for us. Dad became a leader in this, too.

Leaders come in all sizes and shapes. Being a dad (or a mom) is one of the greatest gifts any of us can have. Let’s not waste that opportunity. It will last beyond our lifetime.

Asbury

TIDINGSJUNE 2010

3. Asaph the First Minister of Music4. Grace Unto You6. I’m A Leader Too8. What Is Your Role?10. Living and Leaving a Legacy12. Hope After Divorce14. The Real Rockstar

17 Oh the Memories18. Leadership: Grace Through Moral Strength20. Follow the Leader22. Daniel and the Mighty Fire Ants24. Opportunities

Managing Editor Tara Lynn Thompsontara@taralynnthompson.com

Graphic Designer Jonathan Van Risseghemvanriss.com

Photographer Don Kreutzweiserdonsimages.com

Guest Contributors Dee Gibbs, Marcia Culver, Mary L. Herrold, Bridget Powell, Kara Beair, Malia Miller, Nikki Boyd,

Kim Beair, John C. Westervelt,

Asbury Tidings is a monthly publication designed to tell stories of lives being transformed by the power of Jesus Christ. You may read back issues

by visiting www.asburytulsa.org

Dr. Tom Harrison, Sr. Pastor (and son)

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ASAPHthe First Minister of Music

Early in Psalm 78, Asaph writes, “For He established a testimony in Jacob, and appointed a law in Israel, which He commanded our fathers, that they should teach them to their children, that the generation to come might know, even the children yet to be born, that they may arise and tell them to their chil-dren, that they should put their confidence in God.”

Asaph continues in Psalm 78 describing a way-ward Hebrew people, then near the end of Psalm 78 he writes, “The Lord rejected the tent of Jo-seph, and did not choose the tribe of Ephraim, but chose the tribe of Judah...He also chose Da-vid His servant, and took him from the sheepfolds; from the care of the ewes with suckling lambs He brought him, to shepherd Jacob His people.”

The opening verses of Psalm 81 show that mu-sic is a form of worship. “Sing for joy to God our strength; shout joyfully to the God of Jacob. Raise a song, strike the timbrel, the sweet sound-ing lyre with the harp. Blow the trumpet at the new moon, at the full moon, on our feast day.”

David and Asaph left you and me a legacy of worship through music.

I Chronicles 15,16,23,25; Psalm 50, 73-83

love for music began as a boy while playing the harp. When he became king, he appointed Asaph as chief musician and assigned him to create choirs to sing songs of praise and hymns of thanksgiving.

The first performance was in celebration of the return of the ark to the temple in Jerusalem. Asaph directed the singers and musicians playing harps and lyres while he played loud cymbals of bronze.

Music was important to David as evidenced by the fact that Asaph enlisted 288 professional sing-ers and musicians to teach 4,000 pupils. David di-vided the musicians into 24 groups to correspond to the 24 groups of Levite priests, so choirs and accompaniment were available for every occasion.

Under the direction of King David, Asaph proph-esied in song. This first Minister of Music lives on in history. Asaph’s name is the byline of Psalms 50 and 73 through 83. Some of these Psalms are lyr-ics written by Asaph, while others were written by Asaph’s descendants or possibly by choirmas-ters of a choir guild that was named after Asaph.

In Psalm 50, Asaph recognizes the self-sufficiency of God, “...For every animal of the forest is Mine, and the cattle on a thousand hills. I know every bird of the mountains, and everything that moves in the field is Mine. If I were hungry, I would not tell you; for the world is Mine, and all it contains.”

King David’s

By John C. Westervelt

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By Nikki Boyd When people hear the word “grace”, different images can come to mind - a short prayer said before a meal, a pardon, or maybe an expression of someone’s moral strength, something elegant or beautiful.

Of course, the most amazing grace is what Jesus offers us. He fulfilled our greatest need and gives us what we don’t deserve - forgiveness of sin and reconciliation with our Creator. In return, we have the opportunity to ex-press this love to others and lead them to the same life-changing grace that only comes through a Savior.

Meeting the needs of people is what Restore Hope Ministries is all about. Through things as simple and tangible as a coat, a can of green beans, and an arm-full of school supplies, Restore Hope is demonstrating “grace” to those in crisis and changing lives with God’s love on a daily basis.

Since 1978, Restore Hope has been helping meet the growing needs of families by annually providing more than $750,000 in direct emergency assistance. Through on-going programs and seasonal events, Restore Hope fulfills its mission to “Restore Families in Financial Crisis to Economic and Spiritual Vitality”.

For the last few years, Asbury has been directly involved with Restore Hope through our Super Care Sunday Food Drive. (This past February over 8,700 pounds of food was given!) But did you know there are many other ways to invest in the life of this vital local ministry?

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homelessness prevention initiative Restore Hope provides rent assistance for at-risk homeless individuals and families. The initiative targets the working poor to prevent them from being added to Tulsa’s ever growing homeless population. The initiative offers rent assistance to families who can document a recent, sudden loss of income and are facing immediate eviction from their homes.

hunger reduction Studies reveal that one in five children in Tulsa County are undernourished. Hunger negatively impacts every aspect of a person’s life - body, mind, and soul. Within the last year, re-quests for food at Restore Hope increased by 30 percent, with 70 percent of those being new clients.

emotional and spiritual nurturing When a crisis strikes, economic or otherwise, it can damage an individual’s or family’s emotions and sense of worth. Restore Hope addresses these needs by providing daily chapel services, volunteer prayer counselors, and a staff chaplain.

housekeeping kits Along with rent assistance, Restore Hope gives each family a “Housekeep-ing Kit” that provides practical supplies every home needs. Each kit contains: 12 rolls of toilet paper, 4 boxes of facial tissue, 4 bars of hand soap, bleach, laundry detergent, all purpose cleaner, dish soap, toilet bowl cleaner, glass cleaner, 2 rolls of paper towels, 3 scrub sponges. “Fresh Start Partners” are always needed to

donate products or provide a designated gift. (One kit can be built with $20.) Along with on-going pro-grams, Restore Hope also provides special seasonal projects that meet specific needs:

school supply driveFinancial pressures can often make it a challenge for families to provide school supplies for their school age children. Restore Hope helps by equipping children for the first day of school. This can free up hundreds of dollars for families to focus on other daily needs. Last year over 2,500 children were helped. A gift of $25 will provide one child with a full set of supplies.

thanksgiving basket drive Each Thanksgiving, Restore Hope expands its food assistance program to include Thanksgiving baskets. Each basket includes a

whole turkey and other items needed to prepare a traditional Thanksgiving dinner. Last year over 800 baskets were distributed to families in need. With $25, you can provide a

Thanksgiving dinner for a family of four.

christmas family sponsorship ”Family Sponsors” are given the opportunity to engage face-to-face and heart-to-heart with families needing personal and tangible evidence of God’s love for them. Individu-

als, families, work or church groups can request a family to sponsor. This is a great opportunity to brighten the Christmas sea-son for someone outside your family circle and create a lasting memory for yourself, your family, or your church community.

family sponsorship program There is an urgent need to replenish Restore Hope’s “Family Sponsorship Fund”. This program provides direct assistance to families facing an unforeseen financial crisis. Requests for rent and food assistance continue to increase. Currently, the average aid per family is $350.

Jesus gives the gift of grace – something we need desperately, can’t earn and don’t deserve. We are called to extend that kind of love and grace to others also in need. Whether it’s the gift of finances, time, food, or other tangible items, everything given in the name of Christ has eternal significance.

How can you, your family, or your community show God’s grace and love to someone in need? Prayerfully consider how God might be prompting you to get involved with Restore Hope Ministries. Volunteers, greet-ers for the reception area, case workers and assistant chaplains are always needed. Training is provided. Call Restore Hope at 582-5766 or visit www.restorehope.org for other volunteer opportunities.

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Ageisn’t a disqualifier. Leading comes from God, from the heart, from actions. None of these things are limited due to age, a fact obvious in these inspirational testimonies from a couple of youth after their missions trip experiences. They aren’t only learning

to be leaders of tomorrow, they are being leaders today.

Hi my name is Brooke Hall.I went on the Houston mission trip.

When I went on the trip it was amazing. I was really lucky to have a good group and leaders. I conquered my fear of talking to homeless people, and I really stepped out of my comfort zone.

The first two days when we got to Houston I was com-plaining a lot and just thinking what I could have been doing back home. The next morning we were at this site, and I just remember someone telling me what they had been through, and it really just motivated me to step out of my comfort zone.

That night we had a really strong worship, and I accepted Jesus into my heart. The next couple of days I was determined to give it my all and make a difference. The last day I was really sad to know the trip was coming to an end. I think that God put my group members, the leaders, and the host in my group because everyone made a difference in my life.

On the way back home I was thinking about how much I have learned and how much closer I have gotten to God.

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After the mission trip I wanted to go back really bad. When school started I was really shocked with who I was hanging out with and what we were doing. It made me really mad that I was that type of person.

Since then I have made a lot of new friends and lost a lot. Now, I have this thing that if anything comes up affects me going to church and making my relationship stronger with God, I tell them I can’t go.

Recently I have had a lot of soccer games early on Sun-day, and I tell my coach I can’t go and that was a really big step for me. I love going to church every Sunday now and the mission trip made a really big difference in my life.

- Brooke Hall (7th Grade Student)

Before the Houston mission trip, I just threw God’s forgiveness around like it was nothing. I would think, well God will forgive me so it doesn’t matter if I cuss.

I started cussing a lot, almost every other word that came out of my mouth was a cuss word. The only time I didn’t cuss was with my parents. My life was revolving around cussing. I cussed in the morning when I woke up and all the time at school. It was crazy.

I started to hang around people that cussed. I even got a couple of my friends who weren’t cussing to start. When we got a new friend in our group and they heard me cussing a lot, they would be shocked and my friends would just simply say, “oh that’s Hannah, she cusses a lot, if you have a problem then leave.”

One of my friends’ parents actually stopped letting her hang out with me because of the things she has heard me say, but I liked the way I was, I was content with the way I was.

So I left for the mission trip with that attitude, honestly not really wanting to go at all. I had trouble connecting at first, and then I heard the verse James 3:9-10. It says “with the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and then cursing.” These two verses were both eye openers for me. They gave me something to connect with. Finally, I realized that cussing didn’t make me cool and it really didn’t make me feel any better so I decided to stop.

But it wasn’t as easy as I thought it would be. When I got back to school the first week it was so hard. I wanted to cuss so badly, and I caught myself saying cuss words out of habit!

But then I started thinking, I knew I could do anything through Christ who strengthens me and that if the mission trip really changed me then I wouldn’t want to go back to the way I was before. Once I really got that through my head it was easier for me to stop. But I also realized it wasn’t gonna be that easy because I started listening to my friends… and they cussed A LOT! I wanted to scream at them and tell them that cussing doesn’t solve anything. Some of them had noticed that I had stopped cussing, but nobody asked why.

I’ve been praying for them and will keep praying. It’s not easy to stop cussing but it has changed me, it really has. It has freed my heart for more room for God. But if I hadn’t gone on the mission trip, I don’t even want to think about what I would be like right now.

God has done so much for me and has made me a new person! He has worked in my life so much, now I chal-lenge you to open up and let him work in yours, you will not be disappointed.

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The Holy Spirit is at work in and around us.

God equips us to glorify Him in the body of Christ with His Word (the Bible), His Revelation (the Holy Spir-it), His Character (through humility in trials, tribulations, and revelations the Fruit of the Spirit becomes more evi-dent) and through Spiritual Gifts.

Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 12:1, “Now about spiri-tual gifts, brother, I do not want you to be ignorant.” and jumping down to 12:7 he adds, “Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common

good…” verse 11 adds...“He gives them to each one as He determines.”

The spiritual gifts are listed in four main scripture passages. None of the lists is complete--but there is some overlap:

Romans 12:6-8

1 Corinthians 12:8-10 1 Corinthians 12:28-30

Ephesians 4:11-12

When do you receive these gifts? When you receive the Holy Spirit. When you ask Jesus to come into your life and be Lord of your life! Romans 12:6 tells us that our gifts are different according to “the grace given us.” And that we will use them “in proportion with our faith.” Spiritual gifts are SUPERNATURAL gifts. They are God working in and through us to fulfill His plans. Are you a willing vessel? Not a perfect vessel, a willing vessel.

At Asbury, our mission states we are here to “Glo-rify God and Make Disciples,” and our vision includes becoming servants of Christ. Number eight in our objectives reads, “Every member discovering and using

the spirituals gifts for ministry and mission.” Why is this so important? We have a phenomenal pastorate staff here but they can’t do it all alone. I know when I am struggling, I turn to my friends for mercy and en-couragement and support. If each of us lends a hand “the yoke will be easy.”

Being able to use my gifts to serve the Lord has been one of the greatest blessings in my life. That fact that He trusts me with His people is a solemn thought…one I don’t take lightly. I serve them as if serving Him. I prepare and give my best for that moment. Spiritual gifts are part of our stewardship.

In the parable of the Talents, the master went on va-cation and gave each of his servants some coins to in-vest for him while he was gone. The first two doubled

WHAT ISYOUR ROLE?

“Being able to use my gifts to serve the Lord has been one of the greatest blessings in my life.”

By Dee Gibbs

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AdministratorOrder, rule and get people to work together

ApostlesMissions, outreach and/or plant new churches

DiscernerProtect us from false teaching and lies

EncouragersInspire us to spiritual growth

EvangelistsSpeak the gospel and reach unbelievers

Faith BuildersTurn us back to God, teach us perseverances

GiversFinancial support joyfully without feelingof obligation

HospitalitySense of belonging/being welcome

KnowledgeSee God’s will/His plans

LeadershipVision, Ability to influence and motivate others

Mercy ProvidersExude comfort and tenderness

Pastor/shepherdsSense of protection, care and direction

ProphetsIlluminate awareness of sin

ServerLends a helping hand

TeacherShed light on doctrine, instructs us on how to live

Wisdom seekerSettles issues and mediates problems

the money the last hid his in the ground. The Master’s response to the first two was, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” But to the third He admonished, “You wicked lazy servant.”

Which one are you? Are you using and multiplying what God has gifted you with? What is your role? (you will have at least one)

These are obviously over-simplified definitions. However, they give you an idea in a very small way of the areas in which the Lord gifts us. How sad if there were no teachers to instruct. But sadder yet if the body did not congregate to take advantage of that teaching. I know when I am struggling I turn to my friends with Mercy and Encouragement for support. How sad for them if I never admitted I had a need for them.

Which brings me to the final point. And that is the church body needs each member to play his/her role to meet all the needs of the body. What a beautiful thing to watch at work when it is working as He planned.

Hebrew admonishes us to, ”not forsake the assem-bling of ourselves together as the manner of some…” We need each other. And it is such a blessing to “fit” somewhere, to belong, to have purpose. As we mature in the use of our gifts, those around us benefit by also maturing and the entire community benefits.

Personally, you will experience the joy of partnering with God Almighty. He blesses us by declaring us fit to serve with Him and He blesses us by allowing us to see the fruit of our labor.

Matthew 16:27 gives us the future picture of what happens when the faithful servant invests his “talent” and he says, “For the Son of Man is going to come in his Father’s glory with his angels, and then he will reward each person according to what he has done.”

What are you doing with what you’ve been given by God?

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Over the years, Jack and Lena participated in Bible studies, discipleship communities, and three mission trips. And, just a few years after they began attending Asbury, they found themselves back in a familiar place – volunteering in the church library. At that time the library was managed by another couple, who taught Jack and Lena the ropes, and then eventually stepped down from their duties. This paved the way for the Greers to take over operation of the library.

For eleven years, they worked side by side as they helped grow and develop the library. Upon Jack’s pass-ing a few years ago, the name of the library was official-ly changed to the Greer Library in honor of the work he and Lena had done to make it such a special place.

Today, Lena continues to manage and volunteer in the library. On Tuesdays and Thursdays, you will find her at the library help desk, working diligently as she has for more than 15 years.

Most striking of all is how humble Lena is. Though the library bears her name, she gives all the credit for its success to the generous members of Asbury and the volunteer team that works in the library.

“Books cost money, and we have what we do be-cause so many wonderful people at Asbury are will-ing to give,” Lena says.

With the constant flow of donations and so many

Over 20 years ago, Jack and Lena Greer moved from McAlester, Oklahoma, to start anew in

Tulsa. Though some might think it difficult to leave their home and church of the last 40 years, it was an easy decision for Jack and Lena. Tulsa was home to their son Dr. Jerry Greer, daughter-in-law Joy, and four grandchildren: Jon, David, Paul, and Bethany. Being clos-er to their family, especially their grandchildren, made the move seem well worth it.

The Greers had been fixtures in their hometown of McAlester. Jack served in a number of capacities from schoolteacher to middle school principal to may-or. Lena worked at Grand Avenue United Methodist Church, where the couple also attended. In addition, Jack and Lena were very involved in volunteer work, taking every opportunity they could to serve others.

During their time in McAlester, they shared their love of reading and books with the children of the church. This passion led them to establish a church library at Grand Avenue UMC. Leaving McAlester meant leaving their church family and their library behind, but Jack and Lena knew that new challenges and opportunities awaited them.

Upon their arrival to Tulsa, the Greers began dis-cussing where they would attend church. Since Jerry, Joy, and the kids attended Asbury, and it was nearby, it seemed a logical choice. They visited and knew they’d found their church home.

By Kara Beair

LIVINGAND LEAVING A LEGACY

~ The Greer Library ~

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Here’s a snapshot of some of their on-going programs: members eager to check out books, it takes a special group of people to maintain the library. Otis Osborn, Edna Willimann, Naomi Mitchell, Winnie King, and Jerry Oxley volunteer with Lena to keep the library up and running.

In its cozy corner just off the South Foy-er, the Greer library is home to many great books, videos, cassette tapes, CDs, and DVDs, which Asbury members can check out throughout the week. Organized into 39 sec-tions, there are books on numerous topics including Evangelism, Stewardship, Sermons, Missions, Worship/Music, and so much more. Lena says one area that is growing in popular-ity is the Christian Fiction section. Another section, which has always held a special place in Lena’s heart, is the children’s section where age appropriate books for Asbury’s young-est readers can be found. In the Greer Li-brary there is something for everyone no matter what their age or interest may be.

The library isn’t just a place to check out books, however. It is also home to some very special items.

“In our library we have the three most wonderful things that have always been and always will be so important to our lives – the cross, the Ten Commandments, and the American flag,” Lena explains.

There is also a display, which discusses the locations of our church missions and high-lights some of our missionaries and items from their travels. Additionally, a special sit-ting area in the library is a popular place for gathering, especially on Sunday morning.

For all that Lena and her late husband Jack put into making the library so wonder-ful, it is what you will not find on the shelves there that makes Lena most proud. Since the donations from members are so plen-tiful and the church often receives dupli-cates of books, Asbury shares the wealth.

“Sometimes we wonder why our library is so small,” Lena said. “Then we realize that the Lord has blessed us so much that we are

able to reach out and give some good books to others. We have given books to Restore Hope, retirement centers, pris-ons, other churches, and individuals and families in need.”

If you visit the Greer library it is easy to see that it is so much more than shelves and books. It is a legacy, which has and will continue to impact the lives of Asbury’s members, as well as members of the community. Leadership expert Lee J. Colan once said, “We were meant to give our lives away. Spend more time living your legacy instead of worrying about leaving it.” This exemplifies the Greers. They lived their lives as ser-vants to the Lord and to others, and without even knowing it, they created a legacy.

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Just as the last few pieces of the picture puzzle of who I am, were being put in place, someone came along and knocked all of the pieces on the floor.

What do I do? My life is in shambles!

I was sitting by the warm fire of married love, now sud-denly I am alone and out in the cold.

It’s not so bad. I can adjust to anything because I am a strong and self-sufficient person. But, why do I feel so depressed and lonely?

The past is the past, today is the presentand tomorrow is a future...really?

Sound familiar? We all have a past, a story, but as recovering

Christians, we have a testimony about how God brought us out of the pits of sin and despair and gave us hope, purpose and freedom from our past.

Married 26 years with one child, my husband and I struggled constantly with our relationship. We went to counseling at different times in our marriage but nev-er seemed to get any positive results. It seemed all we wanted to hear was how one of us was right and the other was wrong, when in fact the truth was we never committed to making Christ the center of our mar-riage or doing whatever the other needed to feel loved.

We always had our own agendas.

My “Love Tank” was on empty. I was lonely in my marriage, emotionally drained and spiritually lost. I became bitter and my bitterness made my husband very resentful and bitter towards me, which eventu-ally turned into bitterness between the three of us.

We were committed to raising our son and keeping the family together, but there was no commitment to meeting each others needs as husband and wife. For more than 15 years, we were parents and financial sup-port of a household, but the last three years of our mar-

riage became an emotional roller coaster for all of us.

Just after my son began his first year in college, I became physically ill due to the emotional stress in my life. I felt I was at a place of no return and I had no desire to con-tinue my life as it was. I considered suicide on more than one occasion, but instead found myself in the middle of a field on a summer evening screaming and crying to the top of my lungs for God to take away my pain. I prayed to Him and asked for some kind of sign that I should go on with my life, that there was a purpose for me, and that I needed to be able to turn everything over to Him.

All of a sudden peace came over me and out of those tears, I was able to begin focusing on the beautiful sky and sunset that was in front of me. I noticed a small lonely cloud that had formed in a clear sky as the setting sun lined it with a silver edge of light.

By Malia Miller

Hope after Divorce Finding God’s plan for your healing and your life

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Divorce RebuildingFor those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorceJim Small 697-4220 | Thursdays 7:00-8:30 pm | Room 1335

Divorce RecoveryFor those suffering from the early, highly emotional

stages of divorce and separation trauma

Malia Miller 494-9596 | Jim LaMay 747-6631Tuesdays 7:00-8:30 pm | Room 1335

I began thinking, was this God’s sign to me? Was God speaking to me by showing me that this small lonely cloud represented me and that there was hope for me? That my future would have a silver lining as long as I had faith in Him?

I believe to this day that it was because it was at that moment I finally surrendered my life and future over to him. After much prayer, God made it clear to me I was going to have to initiate change in my life and it would have to begin by accepting that my marriage had to come to an end. We divorced three months later on our 26th wedding anniversary.

I have spent the last seven and a half years working on myself and learning to forgive and let go of all the things in my past that so deeply hurt me, and I have attempted to make amends with all those that I know I have hurt. I joined Asbury on Easter Sunday of 2004 and the Christian love and teaching I have received through our ministries and mem-bers has helped me in the healing process and has grown my Christian faith and walk.

I began my journey attending Divorce Re-covery, then Divorce Rebuilding, to work through the necessary, but sometimes very emotional, phases of the divorce recovery process. I attended Celebrate Recovery and a 12 Step Group to help resolve the multi-tude of issues in my past. I learned to forgive, how to seek forgiveness and that I needed to forgive myself, as well. Now I walk free as a child of God, knowing that I am forgiven and that I have a place in my Father’s House.

I wanted to learn more about becoming a Christian, so I attended Alpha. I had never read the Bible, so I attended a seminar on learning the books of the Bible. I had never studied the Bible, so I began attending small group Bible studies and even facilitated a study on the book of Daniel. I want to con-tinue to learn and draw closer to God’s word by reading, studying, listening and allowing the Holy Spirit to speak and work through me to help draw others to him, as well.

The scripture that I have continued to stand on through my healing has been Jer-emiah 29:11; “For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

I received the “Gifts of Mercy and Grace”

and God has set me on a path to use those gifts to help others by using the life experiences I have had as a means to reach those that are hurting and be there to walk alongside them as they heal. To serve in God’s work and pay it forward, I was given the opportunity to become the new Co-Facilitator for Asbury’s Divorce Recovery, which meets every Tuesday in room 1335.

Jim LaMay and I work with those who are in the early stages of divorce, while Jim Small and Cam Brothers Co-Facilitate Divorce Rebuilding on Thursday nights in the same room. Their group is based on the book “Rebuilding - After the Relationship Ends” by Dr. Bruce Fisher.

In addition, I have been attending Stephens Ministry Training so that I am better equipped to facilitate in Care Ministry.

I have learned to be happy with who I am as a “Single Person” and I am ready and have the desire to share myself and my heart with others in God’s work.

Hope after Divorce Finding God’s plan for your healing and your life

In 1998, a series of events led Danny to Nowata, Oklahoma. Though it’s easy to imagine that Danny saw it all while in the music industry, his time in Nowata opened his eyes to people and a lifestyle like noth-ing he had ever known. There, he was introduced to a family that as he explains, “walked and lived what Christianity is all about.”

As he researched what it was that made this fam-ily so different and special, he found himself wanting what they had. What they had was a relationship with Christ, and so began Danny’s journey to get to know his Heavenly Father.

Before long, Danny was saved and walking with God. Though he stumbled frequently in those early days and continues to stumble on occasion now, he has learned that God forgives and His grace is enough.

After becoming a Christian, Danny continued his work in the music industry, but his focus changed a great deal. His foremost goal became glorifying God and making disciples, and the arena in which he did this was vast.

“I’ve worked with the NFL, MLB and Nascar on everything from halftime and playoff shows to champi-onship racing events. I’ve toured with Ozzfest, P.O.D., Linkin Park, Pillar, Lenny Kravitz, David Bowie and more.

Danny Hill’s childhood was a difficult one. Born in Chicago, Illinois, he was the youngest of

four children. The product of a broken home, his fa-ther left when he was just two years old. Over the years, Danny had multiple step-fathers, none of whom were the stable role model a child needs. Exposed to alcohol, drugs, and a number of difficult situations at an early age, he developed some very bad habits.

At the age of 9 or 10, Danny began playing the guitar. As he grew older, he decided to turn his passion for music into a career. With a plan to become a rock star, Danny entered the music industry. He quickly discov-ered that his greatest talent was helping others reach super stardom.

Working in various aspects of the industry from Pro-duction to Tour Management to Artist Management, Danny made a name for himself. The problem was be-ing in the music industry allowed him to continue the destructive habits he’d learned as a child.

“It’s hard to explain, but in a sense we lived in our own world and a lot of the things that are morally wrong are overlooked. You are almost untouchable. So many people wish for that life, but it’s not one that is lived so easily,” Danny says.

By Kara Beair

THE REALROCKSTAR

A father, a Christian, a music ministry,Danny Hill shares his journey through rock n’roll to the real rock

By Kara Beair

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I saw Billy Graham take the stage on various occasions, MTV TRL, two New Year’s Eve performances in Times Square, sat on the same stage where the Beatles played their first show in Liverpool, etc. I’ve been across the spectrum and those things are just since I’ve been a Christian. God has opened more doors than I deserve for sure.”

Some of the most fun he has had was working with Christian recording artists, such as Third Day and Casting Crowns. Today, Danny is dedicated to using his gifts for ministry and reaching others, and because of his career, he has been able to do this on a large scale.

A father, a Christian, a music ministry,Danny Hill shares his journey through rock n’roll to the real rock

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While he has ministered to individuals across the country, Danny has done what is argu-

ably some of his best work since coming to Asbury. After applying to be Geoff Logan’s replacement when he left to serve as a missionary, it was discovered that Danny had the talent and skills to fill another important position at the church as the Techical Arts Director. Through a series of interviews, it was determined he was the right man for the job.

It was an answer to prayer, as Danny had been looking for a position that would allow him to stop touring and spend more time with his children. Now, instead of lead-ing production for Ozzy Osbourne and the men of Third Day, he is helping Chris and Ben in Venue68, Hart and Mark in the sanctuary, Dub in Open House Worship, and the fabulous crew that works with the youth at Asbury to accomplish their production goals. His work has trans-formed the simple songs sung each week into a worship experience. Danny’s work doesn’t stop there, however.

When a change was made to Celebrate Recovery, Danny was asked to join the CR worship team. Recruit-ing two of his associates, George and Callan, he formed a dynamic group. Though they originally thought it was a temporary gig, the guys are still leading worship at Cel-ebrate Recovery. They have found that they get as much from the experience as they give.

“God gave us an outlet to not only lead in worship, but also be fed. CR has in essence been an accidental place of

healing I have found. I didn’t go in thinking I needed CR, but quickly found out that it offered so much in the areas of family, ministry and growth that I needed. It’s been a great journey so far and I love being part of that worship team,” Danny explains.

For all the hats that Danny wears, there is none that is more important to him than his role as dad. His ministry really begins at home where he can be the stable role model for his daughters that he never had as a child.

In a sermon some time ago, Tom said, “First, Godly fathers are first Godly men…” This was a statement Danny truly took to heart.

“It is not good enough just to make children go to church, say their prayers, and learn Bible verses. It must also be taught by my own walk. Kids aren’t stupid. They see more than we think. That being said, I am on a daily walk to improve myself and set a standard for my chil-dren. Am I perfect? Far from it, but I’m working on it,” Danny says.

No matter what Danny has been through in his past or what opportunities and challenges he faces in his future, he knows God has a plan for him just as Proverbs 3:5-6 promises.

“This verse reminds me daily that God has a plan for me. He planned yesterday and tomorrow and guess what? His plan is always better than mine. Believe that!”

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OH THE MEMORIESVacation Bible School set for Monday, June 14th through Thursday, June 17th

Vaction Bible SchoolThose three words bring such joy to my heart and life.

As a child I attended VBS each summer in our tiny little Methodist church in Oologah, Oklahoma. I joined my best friend and our very small group of friends to make crafts, play games, and most impor-tantly learn about our Saviour, Jesus Christ.

Those are wonderful memories.

As I grew into middle school, I enjoyed volunteer-ing at our church during VBS as a “teen helper.” I felt very grown-up.

VBS took a backseat for many years until I had children of my own, and I knew I wanted them to have those same memories. I never dreamed that Asbury Vacation Bible School would also create new VBS memories for me, as well.

I began volunteering in the summer of 2004 as a Pre-school Crew Leader. I loved it and so did my son Rhett. I knew I had found a place to grow in service to our church, our children, and most importantly to Christ.

In the summers of 2006, 2007, and 2008, I worked with another member of our church to co-coordi-nate Family Fun Night. Jill Kurtz and I had quite a time getting ready for the big celebration that culminated VBS each summer. Not only did we enjoy our time of service, but we became good friends in the process.

“But God made the Earth by his power; he founded the world by his wisdom and stretched out the heav-ens by his understanding.” ~Jeremiah 10:12

In the summer of 2009, I served as 1st Grade Coach, leading the 1st Grade Crew Leaders. I en-joyed getting to know each of the Crew Leaders and loved watching them grow close to the sweet kiddos in their group. This year I am Co-Directing VBS with a wonderful friend, Leanne Campbell.

Asbury Vacation Bible School is the reason that I have these amazing God-given friends. God created a way for me to volunteer in an area where I could serve Him alongside other friends as we cultivate and encourage each child’s desire to live their lives for Him and His kingdom. What started as a way to volunteer each year has become a passion and something I look forward to every summer.

We would love to have you come along for the ride on the Cosmic Quest…Journey to Eternity and Beyond. Vacation Bible School will take place Mon-day, June 14th through Thursday, June 17th. Each day will begin at 9 am and end at 12:30 pm.

You can register your children at www.asburytulsa.org. If you would like to volunteer, call Jennifer Barnes at 392-4582 or email jbarnes@asburytulsa.org.

Come make memories with us. They will be ones you will never forget!

By Bridget Powell

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Leadership:

There are many definitions of Grace. People often define grace in terms of an outward and visible state of calm strength; others see it

as a forgiving heart. We know as Christians it is the freely given, unmerited favor and love of God, as well as the spirit of God operating in humans to regenerate and strengthen us. It can be defined as a virtue or can be thought of as a state or condition of being in God’s favor. People often say “there but for the grace of God go I.” And last but not least, everyone is familiar with “saying grace” at mealtime.

In terms of a Christian walk, grace is far more than all the positive aspects mentioned above. Asked to identify Biblical characters exuding grace, one might think of Ruth, Naomi, Queen Esther, Nehemiah, John or Mary – either the mother of Jesus or sister of Martha, take your pick. Generally speaking one wouldn’t initially think of Paul or Peter, let’s just say they are more assertive and bold than those to whom we attribute the characteristics of grace. Is it possible they exude grace just as much as the oth-ers but perhaps in a different way?

Father’s Day is upon us, so let’s consider how our Heavenly Father can lead by grace, to holiness, as citizens of our earthly world. We can take a lesson from Him regarding what grace really means at a deeper level.

The following scriptures speak to the loving heart of a parent:

“Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.” Luke 12:7 (NIV)

“If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him?” Matthew 7:11(NIV)

As a parent it is very easy to identify with God’s deep love for His children. Oftentimes parents love a child so much they give that child everything in the world as an expression of that love. It is interesting, however, that God does not merely address the feelings of all-consuming love for our children, but also addresses love in a different form - that of discipline.

By Kim Beair, MS, LPC, NCC

Grace Through Moral Strength

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Proverbs 3:11-12 (NIV) states “My son, do not despise the LORD’s discipline and do not resent his rebuke, because

the LORD disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in.”

It almost sounds a little like favoritism; if I am God’s favorite, he disciplines me more so I will have a long and blessed life. In a parent’s world, that is a lot like delayed gratification. Parents will tell stories of disciplining their children and all hell breaking loose for doing so. It is far more difficult to do the “hard thing” and set boundaries and limits for the child a parent loves, than to give in and do the “easy thing.”

Psalm 52:3 says “you love evil rather than good, falsehood rather than speaking the truth.”

As citizens (all of us – not just parents), we must rely on God to give us the grace to perform our moral duties – meaning leadership through moral strength. It is that kind of grace that keeps us living in truth and being able to do the right thing in the face of adversity. At times people will not like it because the truth and discipline can hurt. In the long run, it generally becomes the case of “no pain, no gain.” Growth doesn’t always feel good at the time, but in the end the growing pains are remembered fondly after ex-periencing the end result.

As citizens of the earthly world for now, we are required to live in truth and discipline, which includes doing the right thing by all those we come in contact with.

Make this your prayer today: “God give us your strength, grace, wisdom and discernment to perform our moral duties in this day; leading with your truth and discipline for all to see.”

Read more at http://kimspirations-bykimbeair.blogspot.com/

Grace Through Moral Strength

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aaaaaaa Follow the LeaderLeadership, what does that mean? Merriam-

Webster defines leadership as ‘the office or position of a leader’ or ‘capacity to lead’. Okay, so what does it mean to lead? Again as defined by Merriam-Webster the definition of lead is ‘to guide on a way especially by going in ad-vance’ or ‘to direct on a course or in a direction’.

Putting the definitions together we can surmise that leadership is when someone has the position or the capacity to lead by guiding or directing in a specific direction.

What makes a good leader? Strength? Character? Planning? Influence? Vision? Wisdom?

Leadership comes in many forms. Some people are born leaders. It is part of their character. People look to them for direction and trust their guidance. We may not be sure exactly what it is about the per-son that draws us in to their leadership but we are drawn to them.

Moses was a great leader in the Bible. He was chosen by God and people followed him without question.

Some people come into leadership quite unex-pectedly. Through an event or situation, their behav-ior and character are born and they find themselves with a following.

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Josiah is an example of someone in the Bible who found himself in a leadership position at a very young age. David is another example from the Bible of some-one who became a leader by his actions against Goliath.

In the Children’s Ministry, children like to play follow the leader. For the game to be successful you need both a good leader and good followers. If everyone tries to lead, the game will not be any fun, but if every-one sits back and waits, we will never play the game. We need a balance of leadership and participation.

When looking at the church we see many types of leaders: pastors, lay leaders, community presidents and volunteers. What is it about these individuals that call them to step forward to lead? Why do they put forth the extra time and energy to commit to lead others? Wouldn’t it be much easier to be a fol-lower? Why put yourself out there for others to judge your ideas, suggestions and leadership?

Leaders see the opportunity that others may over-look. Leaders see ways to improve processes where others may see broken pieces.

History may show that great leaders do not lead for their own benefit. They lead for the good of oth-ers. Our best example of this is Jesus. He led a groupof many through many successes and struggles and

eventually gave his life for the good of others, our salvation. What can we gain from his leadership skills?

He started at a young age preaching in the temple. Did he have training? No. He figured it out on his own. Well, maybe he had a little help from his Fa-ther. He walked into situations that would stop most people from continuing on, but he did not stop. He had faith that everything would work out, his leader-ship skills did not prove him wrong. If only more of us could step out in faith like Jesus.

The last sermon series was Be Generous. So many people stepped forward to be generous with their time and/or talents. What a blessing to have so many peo-ple be committed to the greater good for the church.

This series is on Leadership. So how can we lead as members of the church? Participate in a Commu-nity. Volunteer your time. Commit to helping with an event and invite your friends. Live your life as an ex-ample to others. The first church is a great example of being generous.

“All the believers were one in heart and mind. No one claimed that any of his possessions was his own, but they shared everything they had.” Acts 4:32. Isn’t that what church should be? Shouldn’t we all be support-ive of each other? Either as a leader or as a follower?

But what about the followers? In the Bible, the best example of followers may be the disciples. Think about it. If Jesus came and was a great lead-er but did not have good followers where would we be today? Jesus set a course for the disci-ples to follow along a specific path. The disciples started the first church, spread the word of Je-sus’ life and death and continued his teaching so that even today we are following in his footsteps.

The church needs followers. too. What if you do not wish to step into a leadership role? There are still plenty of supportive roles in the church that help keep the church moving forward. Find out how to help in a support role. Support a leader in a Community. Pray for a specific ministry. Encour-age someone for the work they do at the church.

The Children’s Ministry has many opportunities for leaders and followers. Our staff would love to have you join us as we lead the children and learn about God together.

aaaaaaa Follow the LeaderBy Marcia Culver

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DANIEL AND THE MIGHTY FIRE ANTS It was just one of those lazy Saturday mornings when

my 11-year-old granddaughter Hannah in Sugarland, Texas called. “Grandma, Daddy has just been bitten by some fire ants and we are on our way to the hospital.”

This would be Daniel’s fourth attack; three resulting in life-threatening allergic reactions. “Hannah, pray for your Daddy, honey,” I said, asking her to keep me updated.

I called our eldest son David, who immediately enlist-ed his wife and friends from their Sunday School Class at First Methodist Tulsa, in a wide circle of defensive inter-cessory prayer. I then called our youngest son, Matthew, at Katy, Texas. Hannah had already called and had indicated the entire family were in the car bound for the hospital.

After these calls, I told my husband, Don, what was happening. I prayed that God in his almighty power would protect and save our son from harm.

Hannah called back. ”Daddy is unconscious, but he is still breathing. We are not at the hospital yet.” Then she called back again, “Grandma, we just had a car wreck. Everyone is alright though.“ I asked her about wheth-er Daniel was still unconscious. But Hannah did not answer my question before my phone went dead. I thought, “O God in the name of Jesus protect my family.”

In my mind’s eye, I went back to the first time Daniel, at age 14, had an allergic reaction. He had been stung by two red hornets while mowing a neighbor’s yard. There was no immediate reaction other than the pain of the stings.

Then about a month later while en route to Wood-land Hills Shopping Center, we stopped by Woolf’s Nursery on South Lewis. Daniel was stung by two wasps on his leg while alighting the car. We didn’t think anything about it except it also was painful. A short while thereafter, we continued the trip on toward 71st and Memorial. At Sheridan Road, Daniel broke out in a noticeable sweat and began to have the dry heaves.

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DANIEL AND THE MIGHTY FIRE ANTS When Daniel moved to SugarLand a year ago, I gave

him an “epi-kit” complete with a syringe filled with epi-nephrine. I told him to get a new one when he got settled in SugarLand. But he never followed up. It had been 13 years since his last attack. So when he was bitten, he in-jected himself with the out-of-date epinephrine syringe.

He thought that would end the allergic reaction – but it didn’t. Five minutes later, he realized he was in trouble. He told Amanda to take him to the hospital,

although she wanted to call an ambulance. He was afraid there wasn’t enough time.

Half way there, he fell into unconsciousness and a frothy foam poured out of his mouth with his breath-ing becoming indiscernible. Amanda thought he was dying so she gunned the accelerator, ran through an in-tersection against a red light, and was hit by a crossing car. None was hurt. Thank God! Everyone had their seatbelts on and were saved from injury as a result. A fireman pulled Daniel from the car and an ambulance came and worked on opening his airway at the curb. His blood pressure was 60 over 40 and at first they found no pulse. But those EMTs, through the intervention of God’s unseen angels, saved his life then and there!

Later, they took Daniel to the hospital where he stayed under observation until stabilized and released. That night Daniel and Amanda went out to dinner to celebrate their 14th wedding anniversary they had been preserved to share together.

We thank God who preserved our granddaughters’ daddy, and Amanda, her husband. Don and I will praise God for saving our son and answering our prayers. Life is so precious and are so blessed. Rejoice, and be glad, for great are the works of the Father, the Al-mighty God, Creator of the Universe.

The Lord says, “I will rescue those who love me. I will protect those who trust in my name.” (Psalms 91:14-16 NLT)

I thought he was just sick, so I pulled over into a parking lot where he opened the car door and just about fell out. Matthew, who was riding in the car with us, said, “Mom, he’s having a reaction to those wasp stings. We just learned about it in Boy Scouts.”

We were actually only one block from our doctor’s office. I ran into the office, told the staff, and ran out-side to grab Daniel, only to find him lying on top of Matthew in the parking lot. We carried him into the

office where he collapsed. His blood pressure was 70 over 50. The staff immediately called an ambulance and gave him a shot or two to delay the antiphylactic shock while he was simultaneously given oxygen.

After a few minutes, seemingly an eternity went by, Daniel responded completely recovered in a short time. That’s when the nurse told me the office had re-ceived a new “epi-pen” only a few days before; other-wise, they would have been unprepared for the emer-gency. God is so good and we were so blessed.

Daniel had two more allergic reactions after that. One was in Austin when he was a sophomore at the University of Texas. He was bitten by fire ants while sunbathing and had to be taken to the hospital by am-bulance. The other reaction occurred while he was on his honeymoon in the Cayman Islands. Once more, the culprits were fire ants.

After the attack in Austin, Don and I had located an allergy clinic that began sensitivity tests. The clinic tai-lored antivenom shots to detoxify the antibodies over-reaction to his own body from wasp and fire ant stings. This therapy had continued one and a half years.

On that Saturday morning, I was panicked. But I was a long way off and without a charged cell phone to keep in touch. I didn’t know either what was happening or about to happen. We had no choice but to trust God to take care of all our “Sugarlanders.”

by Mary L. Herrold

asburyopportunitiesGENERAL INFORMATIONBreakfastServed from 7:15-9:00 am in the CLC. Come enjoy fellowship with Asburians along with fresh donuts, bagels, biscuits & gravy, sausage, eggs, fruit, and ce-real. $3 for adults & $1 for children 12 & under.

Sunday Morning Worship8:00 am Mason Chapel(Traditional Communion)9:15 am Sanctuary (Contemporary)9:15 am CLC (Open House Worship)(Acoustic Worship, Casual Setting)11:00 am Sanctuary (Traditional)11:00 am Venue 68 (Modern with sign interpreter)

Sunday Evening Worship6:30 pm Venue 68 (Modern)

Sundays for Children and Students6 Weeks - 4 Years 8:00, 9:15, and 11:00 amK-6th Grades 9:15 or 11:00 am7th, 8th & 9th Grades 9:15 & 11:00 am10th, 11th & 12th Grades 9:15 am only

Adult Discipleship CommunitiesSunday at 8:00, 9:15, & 11:00 am, 20/30 Vision meets at 9:15 Sunday mornings in room 1507 for ages 20s-30s. If you are a motorcycle enthusiast, try our new Circuit Riders, who meet in front of the statue on the west parking lot each Sunday at 2 p.m. for a ride before fellowship time (weather permitting!)

Rooted: A NEW community of young couples—some engaged, mostly married—who are seeking to know and love Jesus and share Him with the world. We also have lot of fun! Come join us! E-mail JO-dom@asburytulsa.org for more information.20s/Early 30s; 9:15 AM in room 2314

The Team: A NEW community of singles and cou-ples who like to get together and talk about Jesus and what it looks like to follow Him. We’re mostly in our early to mid 20s and like doing lots of fun stuff together! Come hang out! E-mail Rachel.Read@ou.edu for more information! For 20s/Early 30s; 7.30-9:00 PM, Wednesday nights in the Venue 68 N Lobby; Childcare provided

Surgery or Hospitalization Scheduled?Be sure to let Asbury know ahead of time by calling Pam at 392-4589 so your pastors can be in prayer

for you. When you enter the hospital, please designate Asbury as your church. The after-hours pastoral emer-gency line can be reached by calling 492-1771, selecting option 6, and leaving a message for the pastor on call.

Engaged CouplesIf you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required pre-marital sessions).

The Gazebo is OpenCDs of Tom’s message of the day are available immedi-ately following the worship service - $3. Prayer Journals are also available for $5 each.

RecyclingRecycle unwanted paper products. Three bins are avail-able, located in the south and east parking lots.

Asbury Family Newsis available at the Welcome Centers. It includes births, deaths, marriages, baptisms and military listings.

Doors of Asburyposters are at the Welcome Centers...FREE! Suitable for framing.

New Additions to the LibraryThe Asbury Library is a wonderful resource. Thank you to all who continue to contribute books to our Library.

ToastmastersToastmasters is a learn-by-doing workshop in which participants hone their speaking and leadership skills in a friendly atmosphere. Members learn communica-tion skills by performing a series of 10 self-paced speak-ing assignments designed to instill a basic foundation in public speaking. Members also learn leadership skills by taking on various meeting roles. Every Monday that the church is open, 11:45 am – 12:45 pm, Room 2820

ACCESSHands of Love Sign ChoirSundays, 6:00-7:00 pm, Rm. 2821

Friends in Christ CommunitySundays, 11:00 am, Rm. 1507

BIBLE STUDYRoadMap Check out the Summer 2010 RoadMap courses in the new brochure and on the Asbury website at www.as-burytulsa.org. Accept Pastor Tom’s challenge to get ac-tively involved in digging deeper into God’s Word ~ there is something for everyone! Beth Moore’s “When Godly People Do Ungodly Things” on Wednesday nights 6:30-8 pm in CLC, Scripture Memory on Thursday nights 6:30-7:30 pm. See website or brochure for details.

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Asperger Support GroupFirst Thursday from 7:00-9:00 pm in Rm 1506. For mothers of children with Asperger Syndrome. Child-care available.

Alzheimer’s Support GroupThird Thursday, from 1:30-3:00 pm in Rm 1621. Chris-tian hope, support and education for friends and family of those with Alzheimer’s or other dementia.

Cancer Support GroupSecond Sunday of each month, 4:00-6:00 pm, Parlor - Reflections on the 23rd Psalm & sharing for people with cancer and their families.

Divorce RecoveryTuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma. Childcare available.

Divorce Rebuilding Thursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. Childcare available.

Eating Disorder RecoveryFirst and third Wednesdays, 12:00-1:30 pm, Room 1621 - For individuals seeking support in the recovery process. Bring sack lunch.

Grandparents Raising GrandchildrenFirst and third Tuesdays, 6:30-8:30 pm, Rm 1506.

Mental Health Support for FamiliesFor family members or caregivers of people affected by a mental illness. 4th Thursdays from 1:30 - 3:00 pm in Rm 1507.

Military ConnectionPlease join us in praying for our troops in harm’s way and their families. Periodic care packages and month-ly encouragement cards with God’s Word are sent to Asbury-related military personnel. The Prayer Minis-try also covers them in prayer. Please send contact information (complete name and address) to Gwen Mohler at grmohler@aol.com or call Ruth at 392-1146.

Asbury Bear BagsAsbury Bear Bags with coloring books have comforted young children for many years, but now you may give a Bear Bag with a scripture-based journal included in-stead! Great for teens and adults. Anyone may deliver an Asbury Bear to someone who is grieving. For more information, contact Beth at beth.bears@yahoo.com.

CARE AND SUPPORTS.M.I.L.E. (Single Mothers in the Lord’s Embrace)A new ministry that seeks to strengthen, empower, and support single moms while providing emotional and spiritual encouragement; a place to belong, be loved, and accepted; allowing ‘me’ time with free childcare. An opportunity for single moms to walk with others through this challenging journey knowing they are not alone. Meets the 4th Thursday of each month this summer beginning June 24 in Parlor. For more informa-tion, contact Mary-Margaret at 808-0981 or Kellie at kaustin10@cox.net. Childcare and free time included!

Healing Hats MinistryA new Asbury ministry created to provide hats to can-cer patients who have lost their hair. Home spun with knots of love, woven together with help from above! Simply knit, crochet or sew a hat of your choice and drop it in the collection box located next to the Ga-zebo. Find more information in the literature rack at-tached to the collection box. Contact Sue at 455-2816 or HealingHatsMin@aol.com for more information.

Visits to Asbury MembersAsbury has a group of volunteers (Asbury Connec-tion) who regularly visit people who are homebound, in nursing homes or in assisted living facilities. If you are interested in being visited, call Adrena at 392-1144, or contact the coordinator, Abby Sluice at 392-4583 or asluice@asburytulsa.org.

Résumé Assistance and ReviewDo you have an effective résumé? An extra set of eyes can make a difference. E-mail your résumé to employ.transitions@yahoo.com.

OJT (Overcoming Job Transitions)The unemployed are not lepers, but sometimes it feels that way. How can YOU help people you know deal-ing with job issues? INVITE THEM TO OJT! We offer encouragement, prayer support and hands-on work-shops helping with résumés, networking, interview-ing, the internet and more. WE NEED MORE JOB CANDIDATES! You know someone who needs this! Meets the third Tuesday of each month, 6:30 pm - 9:00 pm, Family Room. Questions? Contact Russ Knight at OJTjobs@gmail.com or call Ruth at 392-1146.

Prayer Card Sending TeamUsually meets first and third Mondays at 10:00 am in Room 1508 to send cards with God’s encouraging words and our prayers to those who are ill or going through hard times. Cards and care packages are also sent to Asbury-related military personnel. Contact Gwen Mohler at GRMOHLER@aol.com for more in-formation, or call Ruth at 392-1146.

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CHILDRENRegistration forms for all children’s activities are avail-able in the preschool and elementary lobbies.

Core Childcare HoursParents who are involved in RoadMap classes during these core hours will have childcare provided for children 6 weeks - 12 years of age with no reservations needed:Sun 8:00 am - 12:00 pmMon & Tue 9:00 am - 12:00 pmTue, Wed, & Thur 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Promotion SundayChildren’s Ministry is excited to announce Promotion Sunday, June 6, for all children as they move into their new classrooms for 2010-2011. We hope to make the transition as stress-free as possible. Below is a listing of ages and new classrooms by the child’s birthdate or the grade they will enter into in the fall. Asbury’s Children’s Ministry has classes for children infant through 6th grade.

Downstairs Early ChildhoodNursery (Rooms have 2 staff members and volunteers) Infant Room Room 1912 Crawl Room Room 191413 months to 15 months Room 1915 16 months to 18 months Room 1917 19 months to 21 months Room 1954

2 Years Room Number and Birthdates(Rooms have 1 staff member and volunteers)1964 June – Sept 1, 20081962 March - May 20081961 Dec 2007 - Feb 20081957 Sept 2 – Nov 2007

3 Years Room Number and Birthdates1948 June – Sept 1, 20071925 March – May 20071946 Dec 2006 - Feb 20071932 Sept 2 - Nov 2006

4 years Room Number and Birthdates1938 May – Sept 1, 20061942 Jan - April 20061951 Sept 2 - Dec 2005 and Growth Year

Upstairs ElementaryKindergarten2947 May 2005-Sept 1, 20052945 Jan —April 20052946 Sept 2 – Dec 2004

Elementary2927 - 1st and 2nd Grade2909 – 3rd and 4th Grade2901 – 5th and 6th Grade

VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL 2010 - Cosmic QuestBlast off with us to Asbury’s VBS! It will be a journey to eternity and beyond! Through Meteorite Music, Bi-ble Booster Theater, Cosmic Crafts, Missions Possible and Galactic Games, kids will build bonds of friendship with each other and with their crew leaders. They will discover that God made the earth by His power and we can worship Him!

VBSFor children 1st through 4th grades (fall 2010)June 14th – 17th , 9:00 am – 12:30 pmCost: $10.00 per child

Our 1st -4th graders will begin their day with worship and then spend 25 minutes in each area of VBS. The cost includes a VBS shirt. Please register online awe-some time. To make your registration complete, make sure you return the signed form to Asbury with the fee and pick up your T-shirt. For additional information, call Jennifer Barnes, 392-4582 or jbarnes@asburytulsa.org.

VBS CHALLENGE CAMP5th and 6th graders (fall 2010)Monday, June 14th AND Thursday, June 17th – 8:45am – 5:00pmTuesday, June 15th AND Wednesday, June 16th - 8:45 am to 12:45 pm

Cost is $30.00 for the entire week

Challenge camp takes place in Venue 68 the same week as VBS and is the next step for our older kids. We will have a longer day on Monday to do our planning, including worship and lunch and then head right into our VBS rotation. Tuesday and Wednesday we will have our normal VBS rotation. Each day they will share VBS with each other and end with worship. They will also have a day to practice their missionary skills in the Tul-sa community. We will celebrate on Thursday follow-ing the VBS day to end our week of hard work. We’ll stay in the Venue for lunch and then head out for lots of fun! Parents can pick up at 5pm. Please register online. To complete your registration, make sure you return the signed form to Asbury with the fee and pick up your T-shirt. For additional information, call Amber Cox, 392-1171 or acox@asburytulsa.org.

VBS T-shirt Pick up DaysAfter you’ve completed your paperwork and turned in your money, you may pick up your T-shirts on Sunday mornings in the 2nd floor Children’s Lobby area on May 2nd, May 16th and June 6th. Please remember that registrations received after Friday, May 22nd are not guaranteed a T-shirt.

VBS VOLUNTEER TRAININGThursday, June 10th, 6:00 – 7:30 pm (childcare available on Thursday only) or Saturday, June 12th, 8:30 - 10:00 am

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If you are interested in volunteering with VBS, you may call Jennifer Barnes at 392-4582 or Kim Broadhurst at 392-1165 to find a place that works for you. There is VBS for kindergarten age and younger if you vol-unteer on site all week. You may register them on-line. Volunteers must attend one of the mandatory training sessions to ensure a successful week teach-ing our kids about Christ while keeping them safe.

TEEN TRAINING Thursday, June 3rd , 2pm – 3:00pmTeen volunteers who are entering 7th grade through 19 years old are also needed! If your teen is inter-ested in volunteering, have them register online, print out the form, sign it, have a parent sign it and put it in the drop box in Venue 68. Training is mandatory; you will be able to pick up your t-shirt then. For ad-ditional information, call Jennifer Barnes, 392-4582 or jbarnes@asburytulsa.org.

DISCIPLESHIPDiscipleship CommunitiesIf you have not yet found an Adult Discipleship Com-munity check out “Get Involved” on our website, www.asburytulsa.org or pick up a brochure at one of our Welcome Centers.

ENDOWMENTSLeave a legacy that continues to give forever to a minis-try you want to support. There are endowments that support many areas of Asbury’s outreach including children, youth, music, missions, and training of pastors as well as a General endowment. You can easily impact a ministry thru your will or a current gift. Contact Dwight Yoder at 392-1113 or dyoder@asburytulsa.org.

MARRIAGE & FAMILYDynamic MarriageGive us 9 weeks…we’ll give you a dynamic marriage! This is an interactive class that will help you replace old habits with new ones in a unique, safe environ-ment. Go from good to great, mediocre to magnifi-cent or hurt to healed. Cost: $130/couple (many ma-terials included, scholarships available) $50 holds your spot. To register, contact Jackie or Ron at 251-6665 or asburydynamicmarriage@windstream.net. Limited to first 12 paid couples in each class. Childcare available. Classes start Tuesday, June 22 OR Wednesday, June 9, 6:30-9:00 pm, room 2201.

Attention Engaged CouplesIf you are planning to use an Asbury pastor to officiate and/or use Asbury’s facilities, be sure to book ASAP to allow ample time for Couple-to-Couple (required premarital sessions).

Milestone Wedding AnniversariesEmail your upcoming Milestone Anniversary (5,10,15,20, etc.) to Carolyn Schutte at brucars2@cox.net or call Ruth at 392-1146.

MEMBERSHIPAsbury ExplorationCome to a lunch/class to learn more about becoming a member of Asbury. Sunday, June 6, from 12:15-2:00 pm in Community Life Center. Lunch provided and childcare is available for children six weeks through 6th grade. Call 392-1191 to register.

MENMen’s Prayer Breakfast –Wednesdays, 6:30-7:30 am in the CLC.Attention men of Asbury. Make plans to join us for a great time of meaningful worship, life-changing prayer and an awesome big breakfast, all for just $3 per per-son. First-time guests are free.

June 2 Pec ClarkJune 9 Don HerroldJune 16 Todd JohnsonJune 23 Bill JohnsonJune 30 Mark Springer

Men’s Open BasketballFridays, 11:30 am – 1:15 pm, Gym. Men! Make plans to join other Asbury guys and their friends each week as we get together for a little “round ball” and lots of fun! Come show us what you’ve got, and we’ll have a great time of exercise and fellowship. Invite your friends, and we’ll see you on the court!

Mature Men’s Ministry R.O.M.E.O. LuncheonAre you a “Retired Old Man” who wants to “Eat Out?” If so, then these luncheons are for you! Two groups of men are meeting every Thursday or every 2nd & 4th Friday at 11:15 a.m., for good food and great fellow-ship. Both groups meet at Village Inn (71st and Memo-rial), and are open to anyone 60 years and up. Choose a day and join us this week! For more information, contact Bud at bdmathes@cox.net (Thursdays), or Jim at rober@cox.net (Fridays.)

Home Improvement Work DaysSaturday, June 19, meet in the CLC at 8:30-9:30 am for planning. The Home Improvement Ministry serves widows and single moms within the Asbury family. Our men’s ministry volunteers make themselves avail-able every other month to help folks out with minor home repairs and/or home improvement projects. If you’d like to help, contact Michiel at michiel0930@sbcglobal.net. If you are in need of help, just pick up a request form at the south welcome desk, or call your request in to Pam Wallace (392-2589), at least ten days before the scheduled work day. A Home Im-provement volunteer will contact you, and make final arrangements to get the job(s) done!

Car Care WorkdaySaturday, July 10, 9:00 am – 12:00 noon, Outside Break-away entrance, northeast side. Car Care Saturday is an every-other-month workday provided for Asbury’s

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widows and single moms, through our men’s ministry. While the ladies wait in the comfort of the café, volun-teers check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries. They also vacuum and wash the vehicles, and then update owners on what’s running smoothly and what needs professional attention. This free service gives our men the opportunity to put their faith in to action through loving and serving those in need. If you would like to volunteer to help, contact Mike at mnalley16@cox.net. If you are in need of these services, just get your vehicle in line by 11:30! No reservations necessary!

MISSIONSHabitat 2010 Build The Habitat Build continues on Saturdays through June 19 at 2205 N. Atlanta Court. Habitat building up-date or rainout information, 280-7125.

Project TransformationProject Transformation is a summer literacy camp for underserved elementary age children in urban areas of Oklahoma which is sponsored by the United Method-ist Church. Asbury is partnering with Aldersgate UMC. Volunteers are needed to listen to children read on:

- Wednesday, June 30, 12:45-2:50 pm - Thursday, July 1, 9:45 am-noon

Please contact Joanne Stadler at 622-3614 to volunteer.

2nd SaturdayLooking for an easy way to make a difference and share Christ’s love in Tulsa! Join us this 2nd Saturday, June 12, at 8:30 a.m. at Venue68 and choose between local mission opportunities. At 8:45 we head to the minis-try sites. Teams work from 9:00-11:30 a.m. and buses return to Venue68 no later than 12:15. Families with children welcomed and encouraged! Contact Betty Higgins at carevets@aol.com for more information.

Community Club AwardsOperation Hope no longer accepts the CCA receipts (Wal-Mart, QT, etc.). This program has been discontinued.

MISSIONS/VIMVolunteers In Mission 2010 OpportunitiesJune 3-14 Estonia, LighthouseJune 5-12 Ecuador, MBS & ConstructionJune 16-28 Tanzania, East Africa, MedicalJuly 22-August 2 Estonia, Parnu, MBS & Light ConstructionSeptember 15-27 Tanzania, East Africa, ConstructionSeptember 30-October 9 Central Asia, Relationship, Teaching & Light ConstructionFall Cookson Hills, Oklahoma, Light ConstructionOctober 16-23 Monterrey, Mexico, MBS & ConstructionNovember 3-7 Monterrey, Mexico, Medical

VIM Leader Training:September 18 - Oklahoma City and October 23-Okla-homa City.

Contact Marilene Long at 392-1164 or mlong@as-burytulsa.org if you are interested in serving on any of these teams or being part of the VIM Leader Training. MUSICChancel ChoirWednesdays, 7:00 pm, Choir Room

New Covenant OrchestraWednesdays, 6:00-7:30 pm, Rm 1510

SummerSong ProgramSummerSong 2010 will present Elijah Friday, June 11 at 7 PM in the sanctuary. Come enjoy 50 4th-6th grade children as they tell the story of God’s faithfulness to His people through song, acting, and dance. You will not want to miss this!

PRAYERAltar PrayerIf you would like someone to pray with you during Holy Communion or immediately following a wor-ship service, please come to the altar rail. A pastor or member of the Altar Prayer Team will be glad to pray with you for your needs – physical, emotional or spiritual - at the altar or in the Prayer Room.

Prayer Room ReservationsThe leadership of Asbury’s prayer ministry would like to remind you that the main facility Prayer Room is open not only to individuals desiring to pray in a qui-et, meditative atmosphere, but also to prayer groups within communities and ministries. Just give Debbie in the Adult Ministries office a call at 392-1177 to re-serve the Prayer Room for your group on a weekly or monthly basis.

Prayer Room Days & TimesOur prayer rooms are accessible to you at these times:

Mason Chapel & Venue 68Sundays from 7:00 am - 12:30 pm through the interior doors.

Main Facility, Mason Chapel, & Venue 68Monday - Friday 8:00 am - 9:00 pm

Saturday 10:00 am - 3:00 pmSunday 12:30 pm - 9:00 pm

To obtain pass codes, call Debbie in the Adult Minis-tries office at 392-1177.

VBS Prayer VigilMonday, June 14 – Thursday June 17. Make a differ-ence in the lives of children. Commit to one hour of prayer, on-site, while our children attend Vacation Bible School. It is essential that we pray for our chil-dren during VBS, considering many children make first

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time decisions for Christ while attending. Sign-up on line, from our webpage (www.asburytulsa.org), or on Sunday, June 6 in the south lobby & in Venue 68. “The little children were brought to Jesus for Him to place His hands on them and pray for them.” Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” Matthew 19:13-14

RECOVERYCelebrate RecoveryCome join this supportive group of people each Mon-day night at 6:00 pm. Dinner at 6:00 pm; Worship from 7:00-8:00 pm; Small Groups from 8:00-9:00 pm; Dessert from 9:00-9:30 pm. Hiding any hurts, habits or hang-ups? God never intended for you to live in bondage.

SENIOR ADULTSVisits to Asbury MembersAsbury has a unique group of volunteers (Asbury Connection) who regularly visit people who are either homebound or in nursing homes. If you are interested in being visited, call Adrena at 392-1144, or contact the coordinator, Abby Sluice at ozyanks2000@yahoo.com

Senior Sit and Fit Stretching ClassMondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 9:00-9:30 am in the Gym. All senior adults are invited to join us for a time of stretching, coupled with lots of fun and fel-lowship. No high impact workout here. We take it nice and easy. Come give it a try.

Senior Walk in the Gym with HimMondays, Wednesdays and Fridays from 8:30-9:00 am in the gym. All senior adults are invited to join us for power walking, coupled with lots of fun and fellow-ship. Come give it a try.

Senior Game TimeEvery third Thursday – 1:00 – 4:00 p.m. Attention As-bury Senior Adults! How would you like to get to-gether on a regular basis with a wonderful bunch of folks and play a few rounds of cards, dominoes, or whatever board or card game you chose? You KNOW you’d love it! If you’re a senior adult age 55 and up, come check it out in Room 2820. Bring a friend and stay for as long as you like! This fun group will meet every third Thursday, so mark your calendars!

Senior Adult Meal & MovieAttention all senior adults of Asbury! If you’re 55 years of age or over, our monthly meal and movie day event may be just the “ticket” for you! We get together at a different Tulsa restaurant each month, and then head off to see a “first run” movie. The dates and times vary according to the movie selected, but those who express an interest will be contacted a few days ahead of time so they can make plans accordingly. For more information or to sign up for the call list,

contact Sally Wood, sally-wood@sbcglobal.net.

Senior Adult Day Trip to Norman, OKThursday, June 24, Gather at 7:45 am, Depart at 8:00 am – Return between 6:30 – 7:00 pm. Cost is $35. Come experience three adventures in one fun-filled day! Our first stop will be the Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History, which features four billion years of history! Five galleries showcase the world’s largest Apatosaurus exhibit, walk-through nature dra-mas and a “hands-on” discovery room. We will also spend time exploring a traveling exhibit from Field Mu-seum in Chicago, “The History of Chocolate”. Yum!

After a delicious lunch at Coach’s (ordering from their lunch menu) in downtown Norman, we will travel on to the National Weather Center, a government re-search lab where they offer a guided or sit-down vir-tual tour of the facility. Learn how hazardous weather is observed and reported by research scientists, op-erational meteorologists and climatologists, engineers and technicians – totaling approximately 550 staff in all. (All attendees must have a photo ID & be an American citizen.)

Our final stop will be the Fred Jones, Jr. Museum of Art. Founded in 1936 by OU Art Professor Oscar Ja-cobson, the museum now features works of American, Native American, Asian, Contemporary and European artists, as well as photography.

Our charter bus will only accommodate 55, so regis-ter soon. Registration forms are available at the south welcome desk. The registration deadline is Thursday, June 17 or until all seats on the bus have been re-served. Don’t miss it! SINGLESDivorce RecoveryTuesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those suffering from the early, highly emotional stages of divorce and separation trauma.Childcare available.

Divorce RebuildingThursdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Rm 1335 - For those ready to rebuild their lives after separation or divorce. Childcare available.

Single’s Potluck FellowshipSunday, June 27, 12:15 – 1:30 pm, Parlor. Come, bring your children and enjoy a delicious lunch, courtesy of your fellow singles! Just bring a “family-sized” food item, homemade or purchased! Great food, great fellowship, new friends … it just doesn’t get much better than that!

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Crafty Ladies FellowshipMondays, 9:30 am - 1:00 pm, Rm 2820. Ladies, if you enjoy doing crafts and fellowshipping at the same time, this activity is for you! We gather on Monday morn-ings to work on our own individual arts and crafts, stop for a delicious pot-luck lunch, and continue on through until 1:00 p.m. We have a wonderful time to-gether, and would love to have you join us! For more information, contact Betty Seetin, and stop by some Monday and check us out!

UMW June Covered Dish LuncheonThursday, June 3, 11:30 am – 1:00 pm, CLC. Atten-tion all ladies! It’s summertime, and the pace is a little slower for Asbury’s UMW. Join us on June 3 at 11:30 am for our Covered Dish Summer Salad Luncheon. This month’s luncheon will feature the awarding of the Mission Recognition Award and the 2010-2011 UMW Scholarship Award. Bring your favorite salad and a friend, and get ready for a relaxing and celebrative time with your Asbury sisters in Christ.

Home Improvement Work DaysSaturday, June 19. The Home Improvement Ministry serves widows and single moms within the Asbury family. Our men’s ministry volunteers make them-selves available every other month to help folks out with minor home repairs and/or home improvement projects. If you’d like to help, contact Michiel at mich-iel0930@sbcglobal.net. If you are in need of help, just pick up a request form at the south welcome desk, or call your request in to Pam Wallace (392-2589), at least ten days before the scheduled work day. A Home Improvement volunteer will contact you, and make final arrangements to get the job(s) done!

Car Care WorkdaySaturday, July 10, 9:00 am – 12:00 noon, Outside Break-away entrance, northeast side. Car Care Saturday is an every-other-month workday provided for Asbury’s widows and single moms, through our men’s ministry. While the ladies wait in the comfort of the café, volun-teers check tires, belts, fluids, filters and batteries. They also vacuum and wash the vehicles, and then update owners on what’s running smoothly and what needs professional attention. This free service gives our men the opportunity to put their faith in to action through loving and serving those in need. If you would like to volunteer to help, contact Mike at mnalley16@cox.net. If you are in need of these services, just get your vehicle in line by 11:30! No reservations necessary!

UMW Annual Garage SaleCome one; come all to the United Methodisten’s Annual Garage Sale, benefitting mission efforts in our community and beyond! This colossal event takes place on Friday, July 16 from 8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., and Saturday, July 17 from 8:00 a.m. - noon in the Commu-nity Life Center, and draws hundreds of contributors

STUDENTS789Grade BreakawaySunday mornings, 9:15-10:30 am in the Breakaway Area. This isn’t your normal Sunday school. Come join us for worship, fun and games, interactive talk/lesson, and sometimes free candy and gift cards.

789 Tulsa Mission SignupIt’s missions here in our own neighborhood all sum-mer long. Be Jesus to the poor, lonely, and lost at plac-es like the Day Center for the Homeless, Tulsa Food Bank, John 3:16, and Wesley UMC Kids Camp. You will receive a card and an email, be sure and come with dates you can serve on Sunday, June 6 to get signed up!

789 Food BankMonday, June 7. Come help the hungry people of Oklahoma by serving at the Tulsa Food Bank, all 789 students welcome, meet at Venue at 8:30 am and we will return at 12:15 pm (wear closed-toe shoes). Also bring 5 cans of food to donate!

789 Float TripWednesday, June 9; 7th, 8th, and 9th graders are go-ing to float the Illinois! Watch for registrations they are due June 6! We will meet at Asbury at 8:00 am and return around 4 pm. Cost is $25; plus bring your own sack lunch! Also bring 3 rolls of paper towels to donate!

101112 BreakawayEvery Wednesday night we come together for a time of connection and worship. Our desire is to explore who God really is and how our lives matter to Him. We get started around 6:30 pm and wrap up around 8:30ish. Plan on hanging out afterwards for pizza.

101112 grade Small GroupsGet Connected – Are you looking for a way to get more connected? Are you looking for a place to grow in your walk with Jesus? Then being a part of a small group is where you need to be. If you are already in a small group, don’t forget to re-sign up for your group. Our small groups meet every Sunday night, times vary. Some of the groups meet in homes and others meet at the church. Call Todd @ 392-1154 or Amy @ 392-1156 to get more info.

VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES Get plugged in! Volunteer opportunities have been updated and can be found at the information desks near the main entrances and Venue68. Updates are also posted on the website. There is a link in the left column on the home page.WOMENWomen of the WordWednesdays from 10:00-11:00 am in Rm 2319, Rev. Darlene Johnson, teacher.

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Women’s Annual Garage Sale, benefitting mission ef-forts in our community and beyond! This colossal event takes place on Friday, July 16 from 8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., and Saturday, July 17 from 8:00 a.m. - noon in the Community Life Center, and draws hundreds of contributors and bargain hunters alike! You’ll find toys, gently-used clothing, books, DVD’s, jewelry, small appliances, furniture and so much more! Those wish-ing to donate items may bring them to the CLC on Thursday, July 15 from 9:00 am – 5:00 pm. (No un-derclothing, socks, shoes or computers, and all clothes must be on hangers, please.) Don’t miss this great opportunity to get good quality items at rock-bottom prices! See you at the sale!

WORSHIP8:00 am Communion ServiceMason Chapel. Traditional service with music led by Hart Morris. Communion is served and Dr. Harrison preaches.

9:15 am Contemporary Praise & WorshipSanctuary. Contemporary music led by Mark Bennett and team, time of prayer and the message will all carry a prevailing theme for the morning. Dr. Harrison preaches.

9:15 am Open House WorshipCommunity Life Center. A relaxed atmosphere with engaging worship led by Dub Ambrose and team. Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is simulcast with an occasion-al live sermon from another pastor.

11:00 am Traditional ServiceSanctuary. The Chancel Choir, the New Covenant Or-chestra and various vocal and instrumental ensembles offer a variety of styles of music led by Hart Morris. Dr. Tom Harrison preaches.

11:00 am Modern ServiceVenue 68. Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by Chris Cleveland and team. Sign interpreters for the deaf are offered. Dr. Tom Harrison’s message is simulcast.

6:30 pm Modern ServiceVenue68. Rich blend of ancient and modern worship, led by the Ben Kilgore and team. Rev. Spencer Smith preaches.

asburymarriagesbirths &deathsmarriages:Zachary Stucky and Lindsey Bigelowwere married April 10, 2010.

Mary Ann Schroepfer and Squire Lawrence were married April 30, 2010

births:Aislyn Quest Coberley,daughter of Dustin & Sheena Coberley, was born March 31, 2010.

Andrew Ethan Ball (Drew), son of Andrew & Brenda Ball, was born April 13, 2010.

deaths:Harold Shirk, husband of Eleanor, died March 28.

John Cluts, husband of Barbara, died April 8, 2010.

Forrest (Dale) Bunney,husband of Carol, died April 11, 2010.

Marjorie David, died April 18, 2010.

Van Dickson, husband of Nola, died April 22, 2010.

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asburyanniversaries!65 YearsSid & Maxine LeeJune 23, 1945

60 YearsAlden & Sarah Miller June 4, 1950

Ray & Ada MillerJune 4, 1950

Clyde & Mary JohnsonJune 11, 1950

55 YearsMel & Mary Pearson June 1, 1955

Randy & Fannie Edens

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Ray & Alda Miller

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asburyanniversaries!

50 YearsRandy & Fannie Edens

June 18, 1960

Jim & Danys SelfJune 17, 1960

10 YearsAl & Deb Komarek

June 10, 2000

Randy & Fannie Edens

Jim & Danys Self

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new members

Jack & Diane Harr with Lindsey

asbury

John & Sherry Creason with Jennifer

Patsy Bennett Darin & Cindi Crawfordwith Matthew

Quanta Bayles

John Dean

Edward & Angela Watsonwith Aaron and Eden

Nathan & Hayley Nitchelswith Evan and Amelia

Dorothy Setser

asbury exploration classesif you are interested in learning more about who we are, plan to

attend one of the Exploration classesdesigned to tell you more aboutAsbury and what we believe.

Upcoming 2010 Exploration classes will be held on – June 6, August 8, September 12, October 3, November 7 and December 5.

Please call 392-1191 to reserve your place.Childcare is available and lunch is provided

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