Be The Best

Please raise your hands….

How many of you want to achieve “HIGH” in your life????

BarriersConcepts and Beliefs Judgemental Likes and Dislikes

Factors Determining Perceptions

ParentingSchoolingEnvironmental

Transformational Tools

1. Leave your grip

2. As you think so you become - Budha

Think big and see the magic

When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extra ordinary projects, all your thoughts break their bonds, your mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction, you find your self in a new great and wonderful world. Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive and you discover your self to be a great person by far than you ever dreamed yourself to be………….. -Patanjali

Make a supreme effort to put only positive thoughts in your memory bank. Refuse to recall unpleasant event.

3. Look Important

Remind your self that you are a first class person

Appearance TalkingGesture Health care

Be a front seaterMake eye contactWalk 25 % fastSpeak upBig smile

4. Use Powerful Words

The words you consistently select will shape your destiny. - Anthony Robins

5. Identify your area of interest and proceed

Introspect yourselfIdentify the areas based upon the

strength in which you are goodChoose the career in that field

and excel

6. Locus of Control

I am not what happened to me, I am what I chose to become…….. - Carl Jung

7. Time Management

It does not matter how hard you work or how much time you spend in working but what matters is how much you achieve in a given period of time. It is all about productivity.

80/20 rule (roughly 80% of the effects come from 20% of the causes)

Where are you? You’re in your 80% if you’re:Working on tasks other people want

you to, but have no investment in themFrequently working on tasks labelled

“urgent”Spending time on tasks you’re not good

at Complaining all of the time.

80/20 ruleWhere are you?You’re in your 20% if you’re:Engaged in activities that advance

your overall purpose in lifeDoing things you have always

wanted to do or that make you feel good about yourself

Working on tasks you don’t like, but you’re doing them know they are related to the bigger picture.

Procrastination:Enemy of Time Management

While procrastinating may give immediate gratification because it delays working on an important (but sometimes undesirable) task, it also brings:

AnxietyReduced sleep IllnessLower gradesPoorer quality of workLess learning as a result of being rushedA personal sense of disappointment

In the end, it hurts you more than it helps you!

Goal SettingThings to do listIdentify PriorityMaking it happenEvaluate deviation

8. CommunicationTop executives from Fortune 500 companies

rate communications skills as the most important quality for business leaders.”

New York TimesBusiness Section

“There may be no single thing more important in our efforts to achieve meaningful work and fulfilling relationships than to learn and practice the art of communication.”

The Art of LeadershipMax De Pree, Author

Communication leads to something being one

Being in communication creates love, closeness and oneness

If you want power in your life, it is through communication

You are shaped by word.

The mantra to kill relationship is to withhold communication.

9. Listening

“ The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them ”.

Hearing: Reception of sound

Listening: Cognitive process.Attach meaning to what weHear

To listen effectively is to reach clarity of understanding.

To understand clearly is to respond appropriately.

To respond appropriately is to enhance communication

Barriers to Listening

Self-CenterednessPrejudgment

SelectiveListening

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Making Listening GreatProvide space to communicator

Listen from nothingness/no prejudice

Put yourself in the place of communicator

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10. Forgiveness

Those are forgiven, who forgive others - Matthew

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11. AffirmationToday is the most wonderful dayToday is the day of highest

performanceEverything is happening for my

highest goodThis, too, shall passGod looks through my eyesI am highly blessed

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Dealing SetbacksSetbackStopThink what went wrongEvaluation of AlternativesChoose and Act

12. LaughterLaughter elevates mood,

promotes creativity and gives energy

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Simplicity

Simplicity allows the beautiful ideas to come from universe to us…..

God resides in heart of all of us..

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