BEING SINGLE CAN MAKE YOUR LIFE BEST LIVING OR WORST LIVING, CHOICE IS YOURS!

Hi Friends,

Today I gonna share with you my thoughts on BEING SINGLE Life. Love , committed relationship Break up are very common in today’s world forget about teen agers , now a days I have seen kids are also fall in love ,That also 8-9 years old kids , they also know it’s meaning . It’s very common in today’s world.

My mom & papa told in their time Love was like crime, means very rare case only 10% people get the chance to do the love marriage at that time. In case if anyone fall in love either boy or girl Letter was the best medium & they fear to talk with each other before anyone & love marriage were not socially acceptable by all at that time. Very few who were well educated even do good jobs & staying in town they were mainly getting the chance to marry whom they love.

Now in 20th century Love is common, now it spread like a virus which affect everyone. I am not saying about serious love cases I am saying about time pass love cases. Now a day’s no matter how you look or what you do you can get someone for love. SERIOUSLY TELLING! I never live in my village, But whenever I go to village (Native place) I ask about everyone (My old friends) but one answer I always get – “She LOVES someone or He loves someone, when I say I AM SINGLE, they laugh at me. Ha” I also join with them. So never think that only Town people are smart now a day’s educated villages also, now a days villages are developing , if we all try we can also develop them . Sometimes I feel shame

when they say why you are single, you looks good THEN? My answer is I don’t get anyone Forget about my friends, When any family party occurs , we all brothers & sisters join together our Hot discussion always on Love matters, But I don’t know WHY ME & MY LITTLE BROTHER always laughed by others, some also proudly say they flute with 50 girls, some 5 boys, like wise they show their list of boyfriends & girl friends even their phone numbers. where as we (ME & MY BROTHER) Sit like Fool , yeah my brother also sometimes flute but he is a very serious guy that’s why I always suggest to stay away from Love , it’s the best option for him . I know today’s girls & my brother. My brother is over serious, huh. Sometimes I also act as mediator for many people. I help those who truly love someone even I am a spoiler also who can destroy any false relationship. Many times I helped my friends to save their life from Wrong guys, I support even oppose the love. I oppose when I see if someone try to cheat someone, but for this I also face lots of obstacle.

But I feel being single is best thing you can do for yourself.

Now the question is HOW?

Like I am saying about me , till 12th end I had no any love issues even I hate if any guy proposed me . I have always two principle“Either I try to convince him -I can’t fall in love as I hate this or I slab on their face”. I rarely slap on someone face , I slap only one guy till now , he was one of my junior in my school , he was my junior so I can slap on his face . Most

of the cases I complained before my teachers & I get full support from my teachers so I never faced any problem either in school life or in 11th & 12th life. I have a records of complain about boys from my school to 12thboard time, that’s the reason most of the boys hate me, I remember I had real friendship with many boys till 10th board after that I have no such friendship, yeah I have, but not so good friendship like in school time. In school time we all were friends from 5th to 10th so a long relation friendship, No love issues were there only good friendship & I like that. But when I came in college life (11th) I felt that “if I’ll make any friendship that will turn into love” as that age was like that. I saw most of my friends were committed even many times I also act as mediators, as nobody doubt on me. I act as mediators for my good friends.

But heartily saying, I really feel a relax life with single life; my own tension always gives me lots of pressure I have no time to take another pressure. Seriously guys! My bests friends are my parents , they love me so much so I have no time to love others & my own study + dream always gives me lots of pressure . That’s the reason till 12th I was stay away from love issues, as medical was everything for me. I wanted to get that by hook or by crook. So my own tension has great power to make me mad in case if I’ll fall in love then nobody can imagine what will be my condition.According to my brothers words –“ If you love someone or if someone love you either he gonna mad or you will kill him within 2-3 days , as no one can stay with such a serious girl & no one can obey your all strict discipline rules & regulation”. Yeah , it’s true I am very strict in my own

personality , my time , my thoughts specially in discipline matter .This also true. I don’t force others to follow me but I love to live with my own principle, I love it but I try to make others also discipline but teen agers & now a day’s guys don’t like it. I am not saying I sound like a soldier, sorry I am not! I am a v. simple girl but I am very serious for my work & some principle. Whereas now a days I have seen many people don’t care these, even they hurt someone it doesn’t make them feel guilty likewise many cases are there which I really hate. I want everyone should live as a good human being, but my this principle spoil many people’s mood. Yeah, my brother is not like that but I am very serious for him as he is my brother, so he also don’t listen my words most of the time.

At first 11th time Whenever I saw any couple I also wanted to be like that even sometimes I imagined if I’ll be in their place but then ! when I saw so many restriction , doubts & cheat, I felt Staying single is the best thing I can do for myself ,Then I promised I’ll stay single throughout my education life.

You know why I choose this because I have seen many cases, how sometimes boys or girls becomes victim here.

I have seen many boys or girls can’t see their partner’s success so during exam time they create problems which ultimately spoil their exam, I saw this from 11th board to 8th semester of my engineering career. It’s general, but some boys & girls are very nice they support their partner & teach them thoroughly, which untimely help both. So here in committed relationship either you will be benefited or you

will be looser. I have seen how boys helps their girlfriends , even I have seen many girls or boys never study but before exam they study together & help each other’s finally secure better than us. Where as we study every time. In education case I have seen boys are mainly very cooperative, Case studies from my committed friend’s exam preparation’s .Sorry BUT NO BOY HELPED ME IN MY EDUCATION TILL NOW, ALL HATE ME :P So it has both positive even negative effect, so better why you take risk, be single, so no one try to down you in Love matters. Many people try to down you but this is an extra headache :P

I have seen how girl & boy act as CBI or CID: P

A girl’s question to her boy friend.

Where you were now? What you are doing? Why you look at her? Who is that girl with whom you are talking in phone / in coffee shop / market / college campus? Who is that girl who send you friend request in face book , how she find you , what the relationship with her ,why you like her pic / give comment

, why you are chatting with her . Ok, entry her name in sister list then only I can believe you. Right now! Why your sleep late night? Why you like this flower / game / food / anything else you can add & a boy bounds to give her all questions answers? I know you still love your Ex girlfriend as she is more beautiful than me! I know you can’t place me in your ex girl friend’s position SAD :P This question doesn’t make any sense still some also ask this :D ha Why you don’t like what I like, maybe it’s someone’s best choice? : P When a girl feels jealous how she convinces her boyfriend - She is characterless, I have seen her many boy friendships how can you talk with her. You should talk with a girl who deserve. : P Sorry friends, I have no vast knowledge but how much I have heard & seen I have written all. My 12 years experienced life (my 10 years - 22 years)

A boy’s question to his girl friend.

Sorry I have no vast knowledge still some I know, so please forgive me if I write anything wrong. Why you didn’t receive my phone call / why you didn’t call back / replay my message. Who is that guy whom you are calling Bhai (Brother) ; he is not your actual brother: P Who is that boy who gives you this beautiful gift, they ask like girls are beggars & they stare on boy’s pocket money: P Who have told you about this, I know you have no so much brain: P OMG, how can you do this or who help you here, they laugh at you even in a simple work, they feel like girls can’t do anything without their company: P

Why so many boys in your face book friendliest / why you followers so many boys in twitter, with whom you are chatting. Who is that guys whom you told handsome, you never comment me like this in my pic.

Likewise many are many or questions will be there which I don’t know but these are common.

Seriously guys, this is true. Even a committed person can say whether my statements are right or wrong. But I never in committed relationship , these are all case studies on my friends .I love to mark everything , I am very judgmental , within 24 hours I can say about someone after judging him/her activities without knowing them. I can bet you.

So these are the important questions which actually make me irritate no doubts my friends suffer but I feel irritate when they quarrel, I don’t know whom I scold as I act as mediators. Sometimes I give wrong advice like Break up, I know it’s wrong still I give as its best way to free them from the cage like doubt love .If I was in their place Sorry, I can’t obey all. I love to be free even I let others free.

I wanna say if you love someone try to trust them , if you can’t trust them better to make them free so that they can live a better life. If you truly love someone but you find he/she cheat you better leave him/her for forever, if they realize their mistake accept them as friends but don’t do the same mistake further. Don’t fall in love otherwise they will try to fool you further. Forgive someone but don’t forget the case. It’s difficult to see a face within a face but always remember everyone do at least one mistake everyday from that you can identify the actual person.

So I think falling in love is easy but keep it every difficult but if you love someone try to be loyal, try to keep it till death. You shouldn’t fall in love for someone’s beauty or

talent or money. You should love her for her heart, as you gonna spend your entire life with her, it’s easy to marry gain & again but do you think it make any sense or it’s true. No! Not at all. Love happens once & that’s for life time. So when you marry someone or love someone think thrice or 10 or 100 times then fall in love.

Now a day’s love is like a jock, it’s like Newton’s law LOVE IS NEITHER BE CREATED NOR BE DESTROYED, IT TRANSFER FROM ONE GIRL FRIEND TO ANOTHER or VICE VERSE . I hate such type of relation but many people love this, now days 90% are in this kind of relationship. Now love is like time pass & getting befit, except this nothing else. But I wanna say you one thing here you can’t get any true love. That’s the reason I stay away from these kinds of relations.

Now I gonna tell Being single can make your life worst also!

Yeah, I am also saying I am not 100% perfect , I was perfect till 12th but after entering into engineering career I also cut my own leg in my hand , everything I have started to save myself from committed relationship or Love life , I did all drama but finally I become the victim of that drama . here I don’t wanna spoil anyone’s life even don’t blame anyone for this but to stay away from love issues & from someone, I made a plan & told I love someone & I gonna committed but my own foolishness & my all stupid work not only down my image before my friends but also down my career , it affected a lot in my career also . For which I am blaming myself now, if I didn’t started this may be these whole cases may not happened with me. But one side I don’t wanna love

someone as I love a free life & I believe you can’t love someone forcefully, it happens from both side. So story was started from me & finally ended with me. For that reason now I really fear to make any fake issue, Forget about Love now I fear to tell IF I LIKE SOMEONE :P as you can’t predict your future anything can be happen.

In past I was too foolish so I cut my own hand publicly , but now I am cleaver so I don’t wanna repeat the same mistake so if I love someone better to hide , otherwise many spoilers are there who can spoil you.

I can’t remember, till now with whom my name was joined, I ever talk with them. But you will hear many friendship stories about me, it’s kind of friendship love movies (which make me irritate a lot), many imaginary & few real. My all issues started with social media but ended with my real life. But truly saying I never talk with those boys in my real life, even I really talk with them in social media.

I faced such kind of situation as I had no boyfriend & even no such real boy – friend (ONLY FRIEND) who will help me here. So I entered into mud slowly without doing anything wrong, finally I dip wholly & no one can there rescue me. But if will see the whole case, I had no any fault neither in real life I have any relation. Some of them were my only friends at the beginning. But I always keep the friendship & love separately , I can’t take my friendships as my lovers or my lover as my friend.

SO I LEARNT ONE GREAT LESSON “ if you are single, anyone can join your name with any guy , no problem

! as you are free property. Even many times boys use single girls name to make their girl friend jealous even sometimes girls also do the same. Sometimes boys think if a girl is single means they can join her as their wish, no matter whether that girl really likes it or not. They actually don’t care most of the time. They do this to show their girlfriend that he has also a BACKUP option or to show their fluting talent to their friends, like one girl is single means no one can able to say her I love you or she hate all these, there is a great competition among the boys for love matters, who can make that girl fall for him, that’s matters a lot for them. If any guys become successful he become the winner then that guy decide whether he will love her permanently or do time pass with her, what I have seen , in these cases boys are mainly choose a girl for time pass , if they found a girl is extremely strict they leave her after fluting with her within 1-2 months. It’s a matter of jock for them. So Single girls mainly suffer if they have no friendship with boys, what I have seen even Faced. So being single also can make your life worst also. If you are fool you will suffer more like me :P even you have not done any mistake still you have to suffer & have to listen comments as you are SINGLE. Now I really fear the committed guys, in my school & college (11th & 12th) life I only talk with committed people as I feel secure there as they have girl friend how they can fall in love. Even many times I also help them & unite them when they quarrel but after coming engineering life now I fear the committed people but after coming engineering I really understand what is actually happening in our society. I am not blaming anyone here, as I learn one great lesson

which is really a memorable for me TILL MY DEATH. :P Girls can be best friend even can be worst friend “if their boyfriend start loving you, no matter whether you are accept him or not.” If I am also in their position I also do the same, I also agree. Love can’t be share, so Better choose a RIGHT GUY for you.

So now I don’t wanna be single more but it doesn’t mean I gonna marry or I want someone immediately .but previously I hate love issues but now I don’t hate as my 90% education career ended only 10% left that’s for help others & do something for society . But I don’t like to make my own home stealing bricks from another home. I can’t do this, BEYOND MY PRINCIPLE. I wanna do this by own with new bricks or my parents will help.

I feel it’s better to stay single till you get someone who really fit for you. Love is like a lock & key, if you lock then your partner is the key, every lock you can’t open in every key. . Our love is also like that God has made someone for you, so don’t cheat with someone, either leave them totally or live with them wholly. In this world only 5% don’t marry, maybe I gonna be include within this 5% or not - my time will decide. But I don’t prefer to destroy someone’s life so I rarely live in committed relationship. I feel it’s better to wait for someone who really fit for you than to use hit & trial method to check who really fit for you. Hit & trial method is not applicable for Love relations as it’s a matter of your whole life. You should n’t compromise with your life .so choose someone who really Fit for you Or STAY SINGLE is the last best choice.

CHOICE IS YOURS!