BEST MUM IN THE WORLD
Copyright © Summersdale Publishers Ltd 2007
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Illustrations by Rosie Brooks.
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The strength of motherhood is greater than natural laws.
Barbara Kingsolver
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There was never a great man who had not a great mother.
Olive Schreiner
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To describe my mother would be to write about a hurricane in its
perfect power.
Maya Angelou
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If I was damned of body and soul,I know whose prayers would make
me whole,Mother o’ mine, O mother o’ mine.
Rudyard Kipling
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My mother’s great. She has the major looks. She could stop
you from doing anything, through a closed door even,
with a single look.
Whoopi Goldberg
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When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A
mother always has to think twice, once for herself and
once for her child.
Sophia Loren
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No gift to your mother can ever equal her gift to you – life.
Anonymous
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[Motherhood is] having someone else to blame when there is a
rude smell in the air.
Jane Horrocks
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The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will
always � nd forgiveness.
Honoré de Balzac
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[A] mother is one to whom you hurry when you are troubled.
Emily Dickinson
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Life began with waking up and loving my mother’s face.
George Eliot
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A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us.
Washington Irving
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Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children.
William Makepeace Thackeray
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My mother had a slender, small body, but a large heart –
a heart so large that everybody’s joys found welcome in it, and hospitable accommodation.
Mark Twain
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Youth fades; love droops; the leaves of friendship fall;
A mother’s secret hope outlives them all.
Oliver Wendell Holmes
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A mother is she who can take the place of all others but whose place
no one else can take.
Cardinal Mermillod
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That best academy, a mother’s knee.
James Russell Lowell
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She may scold you for little things, but never for the big ones.
Harry Truman
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God could not be everywhere, so he created mothers.
Jewish Proverb
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A suburban mother’s role is to deliver children obstetrically once, and by
car forever after.
Peter De Vries
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A mother is not a person to lean on but a person to make
leaning unnecessary.
Dorothy Canfield Fisher
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Mothers are the most instinctive philosophers.
Harriet Beecher Stowe
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Any mother could perform the jobs of several air traf� c
controllers with ease.
Lisa Alther
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No painter’s brush, nor poet’s penIn justice to her fame
Has ever reached half high enoughTo write a mother’s name.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Motherhood: all love begins and ends there.
Robert Browning
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The most remarkable thing about my mother is that for thirty years she served the family nothing but leftovers. The original meal has
never been found.
Calvin Trillin
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If you desire to drain to the dregs the fullest cup of scorn and hatred that a fellow human being can pour out
for you, let a young mother hear you call dear baby ‘it’.
Jerome K. Jerome
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What do girls do who haven’t any mothers to help them through
their troubles?
Louisa May Alcott
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Women knowThe way to rear up children (to be just)
They know a simple, merry, tender knack
Of tying sashes, � tting baby shoes,And stringing pretty words
that make no sense,And kissing full sense
into empty words.
Elizabeth Barrett Browning
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It is not what you do for your children but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings.
Ann Landers
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Mother’s love is peace. It need not be acquired, it need
not be deserved.
Erich Fromm
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Men make a camp; a swarm of bees a comb;
Birds make a nest; a woman makes a home.
Arthur Guiterman
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A mother understands what a child does not say.
Anonymous
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Some mothers are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers,
but it is love just the same, and most mothers kiss
and scold together.
Pearl S. Buck
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So for the mother’s sake the child was dear,
And dearer was the mother for the child.
Samuel Taylor Coleridge
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If evolution really works, how come mothers only have two hands?
Milton Berle
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Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother.
Oprah Winfrey
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She never quite leaves her children at home, even when she doesn’t
take them along.
Margaret Culkin Banning
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Motherhood has relaxed me in many ways. You learn to
deal with crisis.
Jane Seymour
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All that I am or ever hope to be, I owe to my angel Mother.
Abraham Lincoln
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Mothers’ Day is in honour of the best mother who ever lived –
the mother of your heart.
Anna Jarvis
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Who ran to help me when I fell,And would some pretty story tell,Or kiss the place to make it well?
My mother.
Ann Taylor
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Motherhood has a very humanizing effect. Everything gets reduced
to essentials.
Meryl Streep
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Life is the fruit she longs to hand you,Ripe on a plate.
And while you live,Relentlessly she understands you.
Phyllis McGinley
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A mother’s arms are made of tenderness and children sleep
soundly in them.
Victor Hugo
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Women are aristocrats, and it is always the mother who makes
us feel that we belong to the better sort.
John Lancaster Spalding
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How simple a thing it seems to me that to know ourselves as
we are, we must know our mothers’ names.
Alice Walker
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I cannot forget my mother. She is my bridge. When I needed to get
across, she steadied herself long enough for me to
run across safely.
Renita Weems
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The real religion of the world comes from women much more than from
men – from mothers most of all, who carry the key of our souls
in their bosoms.
Oliver Wendell Holmes
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There is none, In all this cold and hollow world,
No fount of deep, strong, deathless love,
Save that within a mother’s heart.
Felicia D. Hemans
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Most of all the other beautiful things in life come by twos and threes, by dozens and hundreds. Plenty of roses, stars, sunsets, rainbows, brothers and sisters, aunts and cousins, comrades and friends – but only one mother in the whole world.
Kate Douglas Wiggin
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The mother loves her child most divinely, not when she surrounds him with comfort and anticipates his wants, but when she resolutely holds him to the highest standards
and is content with nothing less than his best.
Hamilton Wright Mabie
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A man’s work is from sun to sun, but a mother’s work is never done.
Author unknown
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For the hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world.
William Ross Wallace
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The tie which links mother and child is of such pure and immaculate strength as
to be never violated.
Washington Irving
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The mother’s heart is the child’s school-room.
Henry Ward Beecher
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My mother had a great deal of trouble with me, but I think
she enjoyed it.
Mark Twain
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There was a place in childhood that I remember well,
And there a voice of sweetest tone bright fairy tales did tell.
Samuel Lover
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A mother’s love is patient and forgiving when all others are forsaking, and it never fails or falters, even though the
heart is breaking.
Helen Steiner Rice
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Stories � rst heard at a mother’s knee are never wholly forgotten – a little spring that never quite dries up in our journey through
scorching years.
Giovanni Ruffini
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One of the very few reasons I had any respect for my mother when I was thirteen was because she would reach into the sink with her bare hands – bare hands – and
pick up that lethal gunk and drop it into the garbage.
Robert Fulghum
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I shall never forget my mother, for it was she who planted and nurtured the � rst seeds of good within me.
Immanuel Kant
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Mother’s love grows by giving.
Charles Lamb
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A little girl, asked where her home was, replied, ‘Where mother is.’
Keith L. Brooks
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A mother’s happiness is like a beacon, lighting up the future but re� ected also on the past in the
guise of fond memories.
Honoré de Balzac
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Every beetle is a gazelle in the eyes of its mother.
Moorish proverb
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I remember my mother’s prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life.
Abraham Lincoln
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