Hello to our wonderful supporters. It is always with mixed emotions that I make that welcome as I know all too well you have found your way to us because you, or someone you care about deeply, has needed our support after the loss of such a precious life. I must start this newsletter with a message for the dads that are facing Fathers Day this weekend. I know the stores are filled with cards and promotions, the television is playing commercials and it seems everyone is looking forward to this day of celebration for the men in our children’s lives or our own fathers… it’s tough, I realise that. There are always reminders every day of the year, but the lead up for you this week can be somewhat daunting, and you’d be forgiven if you just felt like hiding away. The thing to remember is you deserve to be celebrated too. You are a father and will forever be a father to your child that has died, and no amount of time or distance can change that fact. That said, its no doubt not the way you may have imagined your Fathers Day celebrations to be. Therefore it is important that you are honest with yourself and those around you about how you think you might be able to muddle through the day, or find ways to add some hope and light to your day. The past few months have been super busy for the Bears Of Hope team. Firstly I must personally thank and congratulate the City2Surf participants – the results for this year far exceeded our expectations and with your help we will continue to reach families across Australia and more importantly increase our Beyond the Bear support for these families…Toni has done an exceptional job on this event and truly deserves a medal for the work it takes to make it all happen! Beards Of Hope – well this truly was a tiny idea that grew into a beast by the end of the season! Here’s a local AFL team, wondering how they might be able to help Bears Of Hope and they came to us with the idea, needless to say it was a no brainer to get on board and now we exceptional fundraising, awareness and some dads feeling like they personally are making a big difference in honour of their angel. Just a few weeks ago we held our 6th Annual Benefit Ball, oh what a night! Thank you to the volunteers that prepare throughout the year for this incredible event, our best ever! If you missed out you can save the date for next year 22nd August at Waterview Sydney Olympic Park – get in early as I expect tickets will sell out quickly based on the responses so far. Our traditional candle lighting was absolutely heavenly thanks to Luke Zancanaro music. At the ball we recognised the incredible work of a number of volunteers and congratulations again of course to our award winners: 2013 Founders Award: Jennifer & Nick Thomas 2013 Volunteer of the Year: Claire Jones 2014 Founders Award: Kelly Merchant 2014 Volunteer of the Year: Awarded equally to Cathryn Wilson & Maria Bond So what’s ahead? How can you get involved? What are we planning so you can join in a community of people willing to acknowledge that they are parents of babies no longer here, yearning to lead a full, loving and hope filled life? We have a Fathers Day event this Friday in Castle Hill Sydney and final numbers must be received by this Tuesday – see website for details. Remembrance day events are happening in a number of places and our biggest event will again be held at Eden Gardens North Ryde where we would love to have you and your family and friends join us. Dancing with the stars…what on earth does that have to do with Bears Of Hope? Well stay tuned for updates and information but be sure to watch channel 7 – Dancing with the Stars and support the incredible Lynne McGranger (known for her character on Home & Away, Spring Edition, September 2014 • Welcome from our President • The Sacred Project • Garden Of Angels • Messages of Love • “It’s Not All Black And White” • ‘Recognition Of Life' Certificates • 2014 Benefit Ball Sponsors • Recent Fundraisers • A Parent’s Story • Dick Smith Foods Charity Giveaway • 2014 Entertainment Memberships • Upcoming Fundraisers • Other Fundraising Ideas • Beards Of Hope update • Bears Of Hope Packages for Families & Hospitals • Resources: Book, CD and Jewellery Collection • Social Media links • Support Groups, Play Groups & Skype Workshop • Vision, Mission and Values • Contacts for Counselling and Support Services • Our generous business partners 1
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Hello to our wonderful supporters. It is always with mixed emotions that I make that welcome as I know all too well you have found your way to us because you, or someone you care about deeply, has needed our support after the loss of such a precious life. !I must start this newsletter with a message for the dads that are facing Fathers Day this weekend. I know the stores are filled with cards and promotions, the television is playing commercials and it seems everyone is looking forward to this day of celebration for the men in our children’s lives or our own fathers… it’s tough, I realise that. There are always reminders every day of the year, but the lead up for you this week can be somewhat daunting, and you’d be forgiven if you just felt like hiding away. The thing to remember is you deserve to be celebrated too. You are a father and will forever be a father to your child that has died, and no amount of time or distance can change that fact. That said, its no doubt not the way you may have imagined your Fathers Day celebrations to be. Therefore it is important that you are honest with yourself and those around you about how you think you might be able to muddle through the day, or find ways to add some hope and light to your day. !The past few months have been super busy for the Bears Of Hope team. Firstly I must personally thank and congratulate the City2Surf participants – the results for this year far exceeded our expectations and with your help we will continue to reach families across Australia and more importantly increase our Beyond the Bear
support for these families…Toni has done an exceptional job on this event and truly deserves a medal for the work it takes to make it all happen!!!Beards Of Hope – well this truly was a tiny idea that grew into a beast by the end of the season! Here’s a local AFL team, wondering how they might be able to help Bears Of Hope and they came to us with the idea, needless to say it was a no brainer to get on board and now we exceptional fundraising, awareness and some dads feeling like they personally are making a big difference in honour of their angel.!!Just a few weeks ago we held our 6th Annual Benefit Ball, oh what a night! Thank you to the volunteers that prepare throughout the year for this incredible event, our best ever! If you missed out you can save the date for next year 22nd August at Waterview Sydney Olympic Park – get in early as I expect tickets will sell out quickly based on the responses so far. Our traditional candle lighting was absolutely heavenly thanks to Luke Zancanaro music.!!At the ball we recognised the incredible work of a number of volunteers and congratulations again of course to our award winners:!2013 Founders Award: Jennifer & Nick Thomas!2013 Volunteer of the Year: Claire Jones!2014 Founders Award: Kelly Merchant!2014 Volunteer of the Year: Awarded equally to Cathryn Wilson & Maria Bond!!So what’s ahead? How can you get involved? What are we planning so you can join in a community of people willing to acknowledge that they are parents of babies no longer here, yearning to lead a full, loving and hope filled life?!!We have a Fathers Day event this Friday in Castle Hill Sydney and final numbers must be received by this Tuesday – see website for details.!!Remembrance day events are happening in a number of places and our biggest event will again be held at Eden Gardens North Ryde where we would love to have you and your family and friends join us.!!Dancing with the stars…what on earth does that have to do with Bears Of Hope? Well stay tuned for updates and information but be sure to watch channel 7 – Dancing with the Stars and support the incredible Lynne McGranger (known for her character on Home & Away,
Spring Edition, September 2014
• Welcome from our President • The Sacred Project • Garden Of Angels • Messages of Love • “It’s Not All Black And White” • ‘Recognition Of Life' Certificates • 2014 Benefit Ball Sponsors • Recent Fundraisers • A Parent’s Story • Dick Smith Foods Charity Giveaway • 2014 Entertainment Memberships • Upcoming Fundraisers • Other Fundraising Ideas • Beards Of Hope update • Bears Of Hope Packages for Families & Hospitals • Resources: Book, CD and Jewellery Collection • Social Media links • Support Groups, Play Groups & Skype Workshop • Vision, Mission and Values • Contacts for Counselling and Support Services • Our generous business partners
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If you would like to have your Angel listed in the relevant quarterly newsletter, please email Rosalind: [email protected] with your Angel’s name and date of birth.
Please note that we only include names and dates for angels that fall into the months for that season's particular newsletter.
With hope, !Amanda Bowles President & Co-Founder
Our Spring Angels Charlotte Rose Taylor 1 Sep 2004 Primrose Jemima Florence White-O’Rourke 5-6 Sep 2013 Paul Lawrence Forth 7 Sep 2013 Grace Teena Trainor 8 Sep 2010 Colton Maxwell Lovering 10.9.13-2.10.13 Alaska Jade Burns 11 Sep 2008 Chloe May McIntyre 12 Sep 2009 Joel Matthew Graham 12 Sep 2002 Emma Louise Graham 14 Sep 2002 Alicia Jasmine Norval 17 Sep 2006 Lucy Griffen 17 Sep 2009 Ned Griffen 17 Sep 2009 Aishah Dieckmann 15.9.11-22.7.12 Marcus Forbes 15.9.94-22.9.94 Nathan Pratt 21 Sep 2011 Christian Pratt 21 Sep 2011 Angel Timmins 25 Sep 2009 Jordan Copp 4 Oct 2011 Gabriel Timothy Reynolds 8 Oct 2013 Ava Lennox 10 Oct 2007 Ella Lennox 10 Oct 2007 Imogen Dewson Dyball 6 Oct 2010 Gabriel Timothy Reynolds 8 Oct 2013 Ethan Wilson 21 Oct 2006 Imogene Kate Comito 27 Oct 2008 Owen Reilly 28 Oct 2009 Isabella Rose Rowlands 29 Oct 2009 Jaime Paige Ptolemy 1 Nov 2008 Jacinta Tattis 3 Nov 2003 Madelin Tattis 3 Nov 2003 Jordyn Kate Tattis 7 Nov 2001 Daniel Wagner 7 Nov 2009 Zoha Bhinde 7 Nov 2010 Ashten Roy Banister 8 Nov 2008 Mason Flanagan 10 Nov 2010 Eva Vivienne Scott 11.11.13-19.11.13 Calum Ward-Vella 14 Nov 2006 Eva Vivienne King 15 Nov 2013 Sienna Mary Rees 17 Nov 2009 Ruby Rose Brown 19 Nov 2008 Oliver Natale Jordan 19 Nov 2008 Elijah Scott Corbett 22 Nov 2011 Cooper Nathan Jenkins 28 Nov 2006 Hunter Joel Graham 28 Nov 2004
The Sacred Project is an opportunity for mothers who have experienced the death of a baby during pregnancy or infancy to create something delicate & bold in honor of their child. !Filmmaker Pia Dorer of “It’s Not All Black & White” along with Sweet Pea Project’s founder artist/writer Stephanie Paige Cole, have teamed up to create a new project that will raise awareness and unite bereaved mothers from all across the world. Based on Stephanie's poem "Sacred" from the recently released poetry collection “To Linger On Hot Coals” the Sacred Project aims to honor the bond shared by mother and child. !Pia and Stephanie are beyond excited to launch this new campaign at a global level later in the year, but right now, they need your participation. We would like to invite the mothers in our community, who have experienced the death of a baby during pregnancy or infancy, to be among the first women involved in this beautiful new project. We aren’t releasing the details on social media quite yet, in an effort to keep things quiet, but what we can tell you is that it will take just a few minutes of your time, it will be breathtakingly beautiful, and it will honour your child and the sacred bond that you two share. !If you would like to consider being a part of this project, please email [email protected] and we'd be happy to share the details with you. Thank you.
Irene) as she helps us through her fundraising and!awareness building through the show. We are beyond humbled and excited to have been considered let alone chosen as Lynne’s charity of choice for the show – we MUST get voting and keep her in there!!!Dads, wishing you a week filled with support & love from all around you and hoping you are surrounded by peace & hope for Fathers Day.!!Thank you once again to everyone that volunteers or helps Bears Of Hope in any capacity – without each and everyone of you we cannot build momentum and continue to grow for those families that need us now and in the future – we cannot do this without you.!
‘Recognition Of Life’ Certificates In Australia, the birth of a baby is formally recognised by the Government from 20 weeks gestation with a Birth Certificate. Bears Of Hope have created a Recognition of Life Certificate
for parents who experience a loss prior to 20 weeks gestation. There are 2 designs available.
You can find more information here: http://www.bearsofhope.org.au/a/226.html
To our beautiful baby boy Gabriel Timothy Reynolds, !The 8th of October 2014 will be 1 year since you were born into God's arms. Never would we have ever imagined that you would be taken from us so soon. You were our first born baby and at just 22 weeks gestation, you weren't strong enough to survive. But your memory has and you have touched so many lives in the short time that you were with us. You brought Daddy and I so much happiness and we will never forget you, nor will your grandparents, uncles, aunts and friends. !One day when your brothers and sisters come along, we will share your photos and the love we have for you with them so that you will never be forgotten. You were the most beautiful baby we have ever seen. !Your photos and casts of your hands and feet take pride of place in our house and not a day goes by that we don't look at them. !We miss you every day our beautiful boy, we love you with all of our hearts and we will see you again some day. !Love Mummy and Daddy xxxx !!To our precious baby girl Aurelia Skye Metchette Bates. We miss you & we love you very much. Love from Daddy & Mummy. X !!“Divine memories silently kept of babies we love and will never forget. We held them for a little while, made plans to watch them grow. We played each waking moment so they would know we loved them so. We cherish all the tiny things that went unnoticed then, an extraordinary bond between us grew our little ones, our men, our friends. A place of honor they will always have in our hearts and in our home. It gives us strength and peace to know that they're together and not alone. I know that god now holds them close and tends their every need. Our boys are safe in heaven now; they hold a noble place indeed.” For Thomas and Isaac from their Dad Luke.
“It’s Not All Black And White” !At our Benefit Ball last year we were so proud to launch this powerful and honest short film about pregnancy & infant loss. !“It's Not All Black And White” shares the stories of five families who have experienced the loss of their precious babies through miscarriage, stillbirth and neonatal loss (loss in the 28 days of life). !It is an essential film for everyone to see - it provides education and insight for those who have not lost a child as well as support and acknowledgment for families who have. !Pregnancy & Infant Loss does not discriminate. It cares not about race, financial status or health. It effects so many families worldwide yet it is still considered taboo to talk about. Only by BREAKING THE SILENCE can we heal together as communities, nations and as one united human race. Only then can we give a voice to this devastating loss and find HOPE in the journey ahead. !In developed countries alone: • 1 IN 4 WOMEN WILL EXPERIENCE MISCARRIAGE • 2% OF FAMILIES WILL EXPERIENCE THE LOSS OF
THEIR CHILD THROUGH STILLBIRTH OR NEONATAL LOSS !
Numbers are even higher in developing nations. !Pregnancy loss is common but that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. !You can watch this moving film here: http://vimeo.com/76042283
Our Annual Benefit Ball was held in Sydney on Saturday 16th August. It was our most successful event ever with an enormous amount of sponsors
donating goods and services to our guests. We thank each and every one of you who contributed to a fantastic night.
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Abby Dante Event Management Allison Matthews in honour of Declan Noah Parker Anaconda ANZ Stadium Aquila Arlene Muller in honour of BJ Aurea Designs Australian Bush Essences Australian Chamber Orchestra Australian Cruise Group Australian Reptile Park Australian Rugby Union Ba Mack Cottage - Mudgee Balance Water Bec Clark – Tupperware Consultant Betal Designs Betts Shoes Big 4 Holiday Parks Biore Bling it all Together Boutique Heidi Breville Brooks Running Bunnings - North Penrith Bunnings - Penrith Cadbury's Calmsley Hill City Farm Carly Owen in honour of Asher Cale Owen & Eden Lee Owen Casa Italia Gourmet Food & Wines Christiane's Hair - Cherrybrook
Christiane's Hair - Norwest Circa Christine St Flour in honour of Baby Parkes & Bailey Antoni Thomas City Extra Crafy Kate in honour of Baby Parkes Cricket Australia Cricket NSW Cronulla Sharks Danielle Azzopardi in honour of Willow Darlinghurst Theatre Company Dearnner & Derek Harris in honour of Morgan Democorp Di Bella Coffee Dolphin Marine Magic Eco Tours Edible Blooms Ego QV Eleven Music Management Erin and Tye Angland in honour of Billie Rose & Harlow Grace Angland Ettamogah Pub Fit for a Queen in honour of Jesse Jay Pace & Jamie Vic Pace Gai Waterhouse Racing Stables Garage 79 Geraldine Maguire in honour of Jesse Buttons Bowles Glenworth Valley Greens General Food Hair by PHD - Parramatta Herbie's Herbs Hampers Homebased IT
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The Laser Lounge Castle Hill The Leggo and Morrison Family in honour of Isabella Morrison & Cooper Morrison & Tarea Leggo The Meyer Family in honour of Xavier Christopher Meyer The Stephenson Family in honour of Amelia Rose Stephenson The Thomas Family in honour of Bailey Antoni Thomas Therese Durham in honour of Jesse Jay Pace & Jamie Vic Pace Ti Amo Bella Jewellery Tiny Touch Jewellery Toni Tattis in honour of Rhys Tattis, Jordyn Tattis, Cooper & Kaitlyn, Jacinta & Madelin Tattis & James Tattis Tony Holmes Urban Spa Vicarys Winery Vitality Brands
Innoxa iSubscribe Joseph Meyer from Ray White Kellyville Julie Wilson Kylie Pace in honour of Jesse Jay Pace & Jamie Vic Pace La Reve Lattouf Hair and Day Spa Leila Rose Candles in honour of Jesse Jay Pace & Jamie Vic Pace Lesley Warren in honour Isaac Jesse Warren Let's Go Surfing Lindt & Sprungli Little Silver Prints Living Memories by Mersina Luke Zancanaro Music Mailee Ballam in honour of Xavier Jake Larkham Manly Kayak Centre Masterfood Max Brenner Michinka Hair Mikah Hand Stamped Jewellery in honour of George Momento Mr Taxman in honour of Sophie Cleo Raftery Naomi Hamilton Photography Natio Nicole Collins in honour of Declan Noah Parker Oh My Giddy Aunt Paklite Pancakes on the Rocks Pandora Penrith Water Pevonia Botanica and ELES Mineral Makeup Pharmacare Polli Powerhouse Museum Pulcati Rabbitohs Raewyn Dunbar in honour of Dustin Leigh Tasker Real Foods Rebecca George in honour of Jed Knox Cole Renee Rosequi in honour of Gabriel Angel Rosasqui Robert Cliff Master Jeweller Robyn Carter in honour of Tom Travis Southern Ryde Parramatta Golf Club Sally Findley San Churro Parramatta Scentsy SCG and Allianz Stadium Tour Experience Sensory Solutions Smik St Flour & Associates Stacey Weeks and in honour of Len Weeks, Bruce Weeks, R.J. Weeks and J.B Weeks Starshots Sticky Strandbags Strathfield Golf Club Sweet Emotions Photography Sweet William Sweet William Prints Sydney Symphony Sydney Tall Ships Table of Plenty Taronga Zoo
Sweet Emotions Photography kindly put together this video montage of some photos from the night: http://vimeo.com/104874211
Archie’s parents Brittney, Lachlan & their daughter
“Toni, thank you for your support at the finish line. It was a lovely day
and the balloon release was beautiful.”
Lyn (Archie’s Nanna)
Team Archie raised $5,285.75 (113 bears) in memory of
Archie Lachlan Finch Whittaker 19th January 2013
“On 19th January 2013 a beautiful angel Archie entered, left and changed our lives forever. Last year his brave mum Britt and dad Lachlan decided to gather family members together to walk the City2Surf and raise funds for Bears of Hope in memory of their beautiful son. Lachlan pushed Britt in a wheelchair all the way as she was pregnant again and her doctor advised against walking. !This year Lachlan pushed a pram carrying their gorgeous baby daughter, Ivy Violet, Archie's sister, all decked out in her "Remembering Archie" jumpsuit. Supporting this beautiful family was Team Archie in both 2013 & 2014 consisting of grandparents, cousins, aunties, uncles, extended family and friends proudly remembering our precious angel and raising much needed funds for Bears of Hope to help others who unfortunately will suffer similar tragedy in their lives. !2014 was made even more special for Team Archie at the finish line when we not only jubilantly finished our 2nd City2Surf but we were privileged to be a part of the very moving balloon release with the Bears of Hope crew in memory of all our beautiful angels. Always loved, always remembered. !Congratulations and thank you Toni and Bears of Hope for your amazing work. Nothing beautiful in this world is ever really lost… and those we cherish will always live on in our memory. !Love you Archie Annie Granny xxx
This was my first year and I walked with Team Archie. We had a wonderful day and the balloon release was a lovely finish. I couldn’t walk last
year due to work commitments, I will be walking again next year – for Archie. !
Archie is my Grandson, our family are making this a yearly get together for Archie.
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City2Surf fundraiser Michael Hebb participated with his daughter Charlotte in honour of
Charlotte’s sister Bridgette Faith Hebb 16.03.11. Together they raised $336 which will
support 7 families. Thank you Michael & Charlotte for your efforts.
All ready to start the City2Surf with Bridgette's bear right
there along with us!Charlotte proudly showing
off her Bridgette shirt.A beautiful way to finish such a special day! My little princess Charlotte wanted to take her sister
the medal won in her honour.
“The City2Surf was an unbelievable adventure. Pete and I have had highs and lows since I miscarried last year, this was a high. It was an amazing feeling to raise just over $3,900 for Bears of Hope. The support of Toni and mothers I've met through the Facebook support page has been immeasurable and this is my thank you. We gratefully had a number of friends enter with us which made the day even more special. Jim had a lady running behind him the last 6km she came up to him at the end and said I've been following you and I almost stopped running but I saw your shirt and Lailah got me through it. Wow! We did this for Lailah and all of your angels. If you are able to join in one year please do, I simply can not describe the feeling of crossing over that finish line at the end of 14kms. Well done to all who entered this year. We are all amazing and our angels were with us all the way. See you next year Sydney!” !- Kellie Thomas
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“This year I ran the City2Surf with the blue pack. Although I had trained for the last few months leading up to the big race, I was full of nerves and excitement at the same time.. I think because for the first time I was running for a cause so close to my heart. I had chosen to open up about my personal story to friends and family, about how we lost our little one at just 6 weeks, in order to raise awareness about the importance of quality support for those dealing with such a tremendous loss. In return I was inundated with support, encouragement, inspiration and well wishes along with funds raised for Bears of Hope. It was exciting to be a part of such a large annual event knowing that so many others were contributing to a charity which meant something to them. I felt like I was doing okay during the first leg of the race and keeping up with my usual training pace along with the majority of the crowd. It was when I hit Heartbreak Hill that I started feeling exhausted. My legs felt like heavy weights which I was dragging up and slowing my whole body down. I was really unprepared for the hill and I had forgotten about the strength and endurance required to run up. At one point I just gave up and started walking because it all felt too hard! My walk almost turned in to a Sunday stroll when I felt a tap from behind. I turned around and saw a girl also wearing a Bears of Hope singlet. She said 'hi' and 'well done'. It was all the motivation and encouragement I needed to focus back on the race and bring back home why I was there in the first place. !I decided to make the most of what I had left and just be really positive. So I mustered up all the energy from inside, thought about my little one lost, got in to my zone, and put in my very best effort to finish it off. My legs were aching and I was out of breath towards the end but I made it to the finish line in a total time of 84 minutes and 22 seconds! And just when my body was aching all over I knew I was going to give it another shot next year :)” -Minerva Ho Thank you Minerva for raising $792 in memory of Baby Trinh 14th February 2014. Another 18 families will receive support from your efforts.
‘On May 18th I took part in the Great Ocean Road 45km Ultra Marathon from Lorne to Apollo Bay in an effort to raise funds for Bears of Hope and I am
delighted to say we managed to pull together $3,550 for the cause. The run itself was the toughest thing I have ever taken part in – the rolling hills proved a real test but at the 25km mark I rolled over on my knee so carried a bad injury
for the final 20km. If it hadn’t been for the support and contributions from family and friends, I know I wouldn’t have been able to complete the race. !
Finishing in a time of 3 hours 48 mins I am delighted with the achievement, but the real pleasure comes from knowing that we have managed to help out such
a worthwhile charity. After attending the annual Bears of Hope Ball and speaking to friends who have personally received support and care from Bears of Hope, I could not think of a more worthy cause, the difference that the Bears make to help families through tough times continues to amaze me. Hopefully the funds raised will provide Bears of Hope with the help they need to assist
more families in need.’ !Thanks, from Allan Russell
!“If there's one thing I've learnt is that you never know
what it's like to be a mum until you are a mum. I know 2 beautiful people who are already mummies
and like some of us mums out there wanted to have a another baby to share their world with - but they both came to our world sleeping. My heart still breaks for
them and their families every day. My City2Surf run is dedicated to them and their angels, their bravery, their
courage and the fact that we will never forget their beautiful children. !
For Victoria and Phoenix xx !Thank you Rita, you raised $996.30
(22 bears) in memory of Victoria and Phoenix
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Cath and I set up a meeting point for the day just 50m shy of the finish line this year. It was the best position with a view of the gorgeous ocean as well as being able to cheer our courageous Bears Of Hope families and friends across the line. A few tears were shed as those feelings of pride and heartache were felt watching each of our runners and walkers finish in memory of their precious babies. It was a real special part of the day for us both. This was also our first major sporting event wearing our newly designed shirts and caps. They were received by reaching our fundraising incentives we offer for sporting events or purchased from our website. The shirts were worn with so much pride and looked fantastic amongst the crowd. Fundraisers and supporters had the opportunity to then come and see us afterwards where it was lovely to meet everyone who I had been emailing and speaking on the phone with over the past 5 months. A lovely touch to end the 2014 City2Surf event was being able to release a balloon in memory of all the precious babies over the ocean.
The Sydney City2Surf was held on Sunday 10th August 2014. Lots of entertainment and gorgeous views enliven your senses as you weave your way along the 14km course starting at Sydney CBD and finishing at beautiful Bondi Beach. This was our 6th year in this event and another fantastic one with 53 active fundraisers and over 70 people supporting us on the day in memory of beautiful babies who they hold close to their hearts.
Wrap-up from Toni Tattis
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A HUGE Congratulations to our top 3 individual fundraisers: • Josh Parr in memory of Billy Parr, raised $17,594.59 • Tye Angland, in memory of Billie & Harlow Angland, raised $16,813.02 • Liam Bowles, in memory of Jesse Buttons, raised $9,503.75 !A HUGE congratulations to our top 3 teams • Adam & Merridy Keightley & Annah & Mez, in memory of Harry Keightley, raised $10,036.90 • David Maguire, Liam Bowles & Jack Byrnes, in memory of Jesse Buttons, raised $9,503.75 • Kathryn Jackson, Elizabeth Hunt, Fiona Smart, Verity Shaw & Kirsten Prentice in memory of Sebastian,
Rose, Ben and Moses, raised $8,61.67 (176 bears) !The 2014 Sydney City2surf was a very successful fundraiser raising over a phenomenal $93,000 for Bears Of Hope. Funds raised will be put towards our Bears of Hope Support Packages and other objectives and donated to families across Australia. !THANK YOU to each and every one of our fundraisers, and their generous donors, who made it our most prosperous one yet and we hope to see you all again at next year’s event. !-Toni Tattis, Co-founder/Vice-President
Odette raised $1,536.85 (34 bears) in memory of
her nephew Jonah
Jodie raised $542.85 (12 bears) in memory of
River and Shanice Amanda raised $1,325 (29 bears) in memory of
Jaxx Elliot
Phillip and Xanthie raised $1,212.55 (26 bears) in memory of their daughter, Hope Scott.
bears) for Bears Of Hope in memory of Sebastion, Moses,
Ben and Rose.
David and his Grandsons, Jack & Liam, raised $9,503.75 in memory of Jesse Buttons. Liam was our 3rd highest individual fundraiser for 2014. Well done Liam!!!
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Tye Angland raised $16,813.02 in memory of Billie & Harlow Angland taking out our
2nd highest fundraiser for 2014.
Josh Parr raised $17,594.59 in memory of Billy Parr, becoming our
highest individual fundraiser for 2014.
Adam & Merridy Keightley along with Annah and Mez raised $10,036.90 (223 bears) in
memory of Harry Keightley. They were joined by Meg and
Adam on the day.
Crystal raised $3,663.20 in memory of Melody & Goran Stojcevski’s precious
baby, and Avoca’s elder sibling, Pebbles Silver Stojcevski.
Team Arya - Tameeka, Jye, Danielle, Lylah, Rose, Pete, and Frances raised $2,955 (66 bears) in memory of Arya Martyn.
Tye, Erin, Josh, Amanda and Ryan
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The Beards Of Hope campaign began early this year after the Nor-West Jets approached Bears Of Hope in March 2014 with the idea. We absolutely loved it! !The Nor-West Jets set up the first online fundraising page. Their goal was to raise $5,000 for our charity whilst they grew their beards through the 3 months of the winter/footy season and then shave them off in September. Since then, more than 70 guys (from across TAS, ACT, VIC, NSW and QLD) have jumped on board this new campaign and have raised over $35,000. Thank you so much to everyone who has supported these bearded brethren. !It has been absolutely heart-warming to see so many guys get involved, so many help raise a conversation about the loss of a baby and our support available, and to see so many honour their beautiful babies in this way. The beards look awesome and have been a real conversation starter. !Over the next 6 weeks we will see the beards shaved off which we hope to be able to share some photos and articles with you in our next newsletter edition. We know how courageous these guys are and we are so grateful to each and every one of them for getting involved. !On Saturday 9th August, the Nor-West Jets were interviewed for a Beards Of Hope promo. Thank you to the Nor-West Jets and Pia Dorer from Orange Identity for putting this together. You can watch the promo here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gX3L4kEWzDs !Beards Of Hope is going to be an annual awareness campaign so if you have been inspired by this year’s guys, please consider joining in next year’s event. It will kick off from 1st June 2015 – 30th September 2015. Here’s a few photos of some of the guys so far…
Dom Shipley Daniel WrenJason Woodward and Michael Morgan
Adam Newton Daniel Cropley Shaun Anderson Anthony Rosta Ewan Stewart
Ewan's story !“Up until the day I signed up to Beards of hope I had no plans at all to shave my beard, I cannot stress this enough, NONE! I have been growing the beard (Tobias) since November 2012, and have not really even trimmed him in that time, this was the beard of a lifetime. I am sure at some stage I would have neatened up the length... eventually… but the days of ever being clean shaven were over. !As you can tell I love my beard a lot and have embraced everything to do with it, in fact it was through a post on Facebook by Beard Alliance that I discovered the Bears of Hope charity and this particular fundraising effort. !I signed up almost immediately (almost against my own will). The reason I did this is because in September 2011 my wife and I lost our son Austin at 20 weeks. It felt like the time to honour his memory and participating in something that benefits families that go through such a devastating event seemed right. From a personal perspective as someone who went through this without the materials and support offered by Bears of Hope I think what you do is wonderful and wish that I had known about you during my time of grief. !I am very eager to at least reach the $1,000 raised goal as a minimum requirement to remove the beard for two reasons: 1. It helps Bears of Hope, and 2. It eases my pain at the thought of being clean shaven.” !At the time of publication, Ewan’s fundraising efforts had reached $1,503 closing in on his target of $1,750. If you’d like to donate head over to his GoFundraise page: http://beardsofhope.gofundraise.com.au/page/StewartEwan
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The Dick Smith Foods Foundation!is running a charity giveaway! !
How does it work?!!It’s very simple! Just take a photograph
of any Dick Smith Foods product(s) in your pantry and text* or email it to
The new 2014/2015 Sydney Greater West Entertainment™ Memberships are available now and packed with thousands of
up to 50% off and 2-for-1 offers.
This year you have the choice between the Entertainment™ Book Membership and the new Entertainment™ Digital Membership!
From every Entertainment™ Membership we sell, 20% goes towards our fundraising!
The more Entertainment™ Memberships we sell, the more we raise, so please tell your family and friends! !For just $65, you'll receive over $20,000 worth of valuable offers.
Use just a few of these offers and you'll more than cover the cost of your Entertainment™ Membership. !Please remember to reference Bears of Hope Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support
when registering your 2014/2015 Entertainment™ Membership.
ORDER NOW! !Or contact Amanda Bowles with enquiries
This winter, men all over the country have been growing their beards to represent hope for the families who have experienced a miscarriage,
stillbirth, neonatal or infant loss and help break the silence surrounding the loss of a baby. In September they will “brave the shave” in memory
of these much loved, precious babies. !We would like to send an enormous THANK YOU to all the blokes
taking part and everyone who has donated so far. You are helping us provide vital support services to fails in need. !
There’s still time to donate so head to our GoFundraise page: http://beardsofhope.gofundraise.com.au/
Coin Donation Boxes !Coin boxes are an easy fundraising option for you. We have these available to be placed in your workplace, at a local business or to include as part of your
fundraising event. !If you are interested in organising a coin box fundraiser, please register using
the link above to get your Fundraising Authority Number.
Would you like to raise funds for Bears Of Hope? Bears Of Hope rely heavily on the community to fundraise to be able to continue our valuable support services. We are so grateful and thankful for all the amazing support we have received over the past 8 years. !Our organisation has fundraising licences for the following states: NSW, ACT, QLD, VIC, TAS, NT and SA. !We apologise to all WA residents who wish to fundraise for us as we are currently unable to accept any fundraising until we attain our licence. However, you are most welcome to make donations through our website. We hope to have our WA licence in the near future. !ALL fundraising, whether it is collecting donations, holding a raffle or trivia night, MUST be registered with Bears Of Hope BEFORE you begin fundraising. Register here to receive your Fundraising Authority Number:
Bears Of Hope have a vision to offer personal guided support to all families before they leave the hospital from a miscarriage, stillbirth, neonatal or infant loss. We hope to soften the devastating fall for parents by wrapping them in our love and support right from the very beginning and provide them with the most crucial information they need to know before leaving the hospital without their baby. !The "Bears Of Hope Gift Package" Project for our Early Support Program was launched throughout Maternity Hospitals of Australia in January 2011. Both our “Early Support” and “Beyond the Bear” Programs are highly supported but we need your help to continue this very important service. !We currently provide three Support Packages to meet the more personal needs of families: ! Hope Package - Early Miscarriage Loss Support Donated to support families who experience an early pregnancy loss where they don't have the opportunity to see and hold their baby. !! Sophie Package - Mid to Full Term Loss Support Donated to support families who experience the loss of their baby during and after birth who are not transferred to Intensive care. This is where families have the opportunity to see and hold their baby which includes late miscarriage, stillbirth and loss shortly after birth. !! Xavier Package - Neonatal or Infant Loss Support Donated to support families who experience the loss of their baby whilst in Intensive Care, Special Care Nursery or Paediatric Intensive Care Units. !!Our Support Packages include: • A Bear of Hope keepsake: Sophie, Xavier or Hope teddy bears tagged with your baby's name and date of birth. • “Creating a Lifetime Of Memories In Just One Moment" Booklet: a must have guide for parents to create cherished memories with a ‘no regrets’ outlook, and to immediately connect parents with our parent support network. • A Candle. • Seeds of Hope (Forget-Me-Not Flowers). • Journal / Notepad and Pen• A Photo Frame with sunset and poem "A Life So Brief, A Child So Small, You Had The Power To Touch Us All". • Guidance Brochure for family and friends on how to support parents.• Standard Brochure about Bears Of Hope.• Our Song “Live Among Angels” on CD.!Our items are of high quality and each item has been deliberately chosen by our executive committee of bereaved parents, to meet the very early and ongoing needs of parents. !!!• Set our program up in your local hospital - Please contact us for further information. • Donate a Bears Of Hope Package in honour of your baby to a hospital • Create an online fundraiser for family and friends to honour your baby and support another family. All donations over $2 are tax deductible. !!!Our Gift Packages come at no cost to hospitals across Australia. We can deliver as many as you need for as long as you need. If you find that there is something else you would like us to provide your families within this bag, or to omit, please let us know so that we can better assist you in your role. Please email [email protected] for more information.
A child's journey through the loss of their baby brother or sister can be filled with sadness, confusion, anger, and loneliness. It can also be filled with incredible love and gentle remembrance. “I Have a Baby Sister in Heave” acknowledges and honours the special connection a grieving, young girl continues to have with her sister who now lives in heaven. !SPECIAL OFFER: $1 from every sale of this book in October to be donated to Bears Of Hope. The book will be on sale for $14.99 during October only. !Purchase your copy here: www.tonitattis.com
Bears Of Hope has created it’s own beautiful song song “Live Among Angels” to help grieving parents. !Please visit our website to purchase the CD: www.bearsofhope.org.au/a/269.html !Or visit iTunes to sample and download the song: www.itunes.apple.com/au/album/live-among-angels-bears-hope/id406221882
“Live Among Angels”
Bears Of Hope is proud to work with Aurea Designs to bring you a range of Bears Of Hope Pregnancy & Infant Loss memorial jewellery items. We have worked closely with Aurea Designs to put together this range which represents and embodies Bears of Hope and all that it entails. !Furthermore, the relationship with Aurea Designs is not simply one in which jewellery is made, it is one where Aurea Designs will donate 10% of every piece of jewellery purchased by a Bears of Hope member to the Bears of Hope cause. !You can view and purchase pieces from this stunning collection here: www.bearsofhope.bigcartel.com/products
Facebook This is a great initiative for us to create pregnancy and infant loss awareness, help raise our profile and maintain regular contact with the community. Keep up to date with our program by Liking our Page and please recruit your family and friends. We also have a range of private support groups on Facebook so that parents, friends and family have the opportunity to connect with each other for support. Parents are also able to connect with each other through the Bears Of Hope they have received and donated, as well as to build friendships with others who have experienced baby loss. These groups are closed and secret so you will need to request to join. !Twitter You can now also follow us on Twitter to get the latest updates on our events, sponsors and fundraisers. We welcome you to retweet our posts and help spread the word!
Our parent-led groups are a wonderful avenue to make connections, develop friendships and feel supported throughout your grief journey. Some of our groups are also facilitated by a psychologist and are a free service to families. !Please note: there may be other bereaved mums that are in a subsequent pregnancy that attend these meetings. These are informal gatherings of bereaved parents – neither Bears Of Hope, it’s management nor it’s volunteers will be liable for any damages whatsoever arising out of, or in any way related to the groups. !Sydney !Hills District Venue: Garden Room Level 1, Castle Grand, Address: Cnr Castle & Pennant Streets, Castle Hill Time: 7.00-9.00pmWhen: First Friday of the Month RSVP: [email protected] • Dinner can be arranged at an additional cost. Facilitated by our Psychologist, Sally Findley, who is available during the evening at no cost to you. !Northern Beaches Venue: Nelson Heather Centre Address: 2-6 Jackson Rd Warriewood (carpark entry via Boondah Rd) Time: 7.30-9.30pm When: Last Wednesday of the Month RSVP: [email protected] • Facilitated by our Psychologist, Sally Findley, who is available during the evening at no cost to you. !Sutherland Venue: Stapleton Avenue Community Centre Meeting Room 2 **We will also be running a 6-week Grief Workshop, please email to register your interest**Address: Cnr Stapleton Road and Belmont Streets Time: 7.30pm - 9.30pmWhen: First Tuesday of the Month RSVP: [email protected] or call 1300 11 HOPE • Morning Tea is provided. !Regional NSW !Central Coast Venue: Meeting Space 2, Erina Centre Address: The Hive, Erina FairTime: 7.00-10.00pmWhen: Third Friday of the Month RSVP: [email protected] or call Emma on 0412 563 446
Tasmania !Launceston SHARE is a place you can journey with others whohave experienced pregnancy loss. This free support group is facilitated by professional and experienced grief counsellors and available to families who have recently, or some time ago experienced the heartache of miscarriage, stillbirth or neonatal death. Venue: Dayspring Address: 8 Hobart Road, Kings Meadows Time: 7-9pm When: Fortnightly on Tuesdays • For more information, or to register your interest
Bears Of Hope Playgroups are an opportunity for siblings to play and comfortably talk about their Angel brother or sister with other children that understand what it is like. We welcome any mums that are expecting a new baby after a loss as this is an opportunity to talk to others that have been through a pregnancy
since their loss also. !Sydney Venue: Kenthurst Time: 10:30am-1:30pmWhen: First Tuesday of each Month RSVP: [email protected] • Please bring a plate of something to share !Central Coast Time & venue varies - please email [email protected] for information !
Skype 10-week Grief Support Workshop Each Thursday from 7.30-8:30pm.Max 6 people to the group. Counsellor Facilitation. Requires you to have Skype installed. Suitable for those that are approx.12months from the date of loss. !The next workshop has not yet been scheduled. Please email [email protected] for more information or to register your interest. !Please note: This service is only available to Australian Residents.
Vision To provide leading support and exceptional care for families who experience the loss of their baby. !Mission Bears offered at every hospital providing vitalEarly supportAn Australia wide program which provides timely andRelevant information to families who experienceStillbirth, miscarriage, neonatal or infant loss Ongoing comfort and a lifetime of supportFrom families who understand Helping to challenge and shape beliefs surrounding lossOutstanding carePassionate pregnancy & infant loss supportEducation and awareness !Values • Committed to achieving our vision with integrity. • Dedicated to and passionate about making a difference. • Respecting grief is personal and unique. • Every family has the right to be offered support without judgement. • Equal acceptance and acknowledgement of every loss.
Bears Of Hope Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support Inc. 9885618 !Website www.bearsofhope.org.au !Postal address PO Box 352 Stanhope Gardens NSW 2768 !Contacts Amanda Bowles - President and Co-FounderPh: 0439 643 203 Email: [email protected] !Toni Tattis - Vice President & Co-FounderPh: 0400 475 012 Email: [email protected] !Newsletter Editor Rosalind Avellino Email: [email protected] !General Enquiries Ph 1300 11 BEAR Email: [email protected] !Grief Support Ph: 1300 11 HOPE Email: [email protected]
More information about Support Groups !Central Coast Please call Emma Sutherland on 0412 563 446 for more information. !Newcastle Please email [email protected] if you are interested in coordinating this group. !Singleton Please email [email protected] who is available to meet with parents over a coffee !Penrith Please email [email protected] for information on the support group for this area.
If you are interested in becoming a Support Group Leader, hosting a Play Group or a organising casual Coffee Meeting, please email [email protected] or call 1300 11 HOPE.
Keep up to date with events and fundraisers throughout the year by
“Little Big Love”!Containing an anthology of stories by women and men affected by miscarriage, aged between 17-78, this book challenges the medical profession to update its practices and procedures so as to offer more effective support to women who have been through the experience. !10% of net sales will be donated to Bears Of Hope. https://www.facebook.com/Littlebiglove.com.au or www.littlebiglove.com.au for more information.
Aurea Designs will donate 10% of every piece of jewellery purchased by a Bears of Hope member to the Bears of Hope cause. This includes
all jewellery, from a stunning custom made engagement ring, premium Raymond Weill watches through to remodelling of jewellery you already own. It also includes the Bears Of Hope Jewellery Range. Remember to mention Bears Of Hope when making your purchase: www.aureadesigns.com
Herbert Smith Freehills is an Australian-based international law firm. They back up their commitment to providing innovative, commercial legal advice to clients around the world, with the resources and expertise of around 1000 lawyers, including more than 200 partners across offices in Australia and South-East Asia. !Their support and advice is invaluable and their commitment to our program is incredible. They do all our work for Bears Of Hope pro-bono and we are incredibly grateful. See their website for more info: www.herbertsmithfreehills.com
Herbal blends to support the mind, body and soul. 15c from every bottle sold worldwide will be donated to Bears of Hope.
