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California Institute of Integral Studies Ethics and Professional Law MCP -Doris Bersing, Ph.D. 6/5/2016 SELF-CARE AND PROFESSIONAL SUPPORT TO AVOID STRESS AND BURNOUT We can avoid numerous ethical-legal pitfalls just by being centered. Yet, to be centered you need to be sane! You learnt how to cover your back and your practice and how to act ethically and legally… Now, the most important part of your practice IS TO USE INTEGRITY, AND “DRIVE DEFENSIVELY”… DO NOT BE AFRAID OF TAKING RISKS BUT DO IT WHILE taking care of the consequences! How to take care of yourself…how to avoid being burned-out? Recognize the signs of danger! Project your career into different spans of time (short-term; mid-term; long-term) Be realistic when setting the time frames to reach your goals. Balance your career goals with personal and social accomplishments and interests. Take care of your physical too (eat well, exercise, rest enough) How You Can Practice Self-Care 1. Identify what activities help you feel your best. Self-care is individual. Self-care for one person will mean something completely different for someone else. One person may need more alone time, for example, while another may nurture herself by spending more time out with friends.” 2. Put it on your calendar — in ink! Take a close look at your calendar and carve out one or two hours for self-care and stick to it. This may take extra prep, but it’s worth it. For Adams, the mornings are the best time to exercise, so at night, she lays out her workout and professional gear and anything else she needs for her day. Keep an eye out for special events, too. “When I see information about a cultural event that I would enjoy, I make a reservation or purchase tickets so that I have something pleasurable on my calendar. If you’re crunched for time, gradually increase your self-care each month by a few minutes. 3. Sneak in self-care where you can. If you don’t have huge chunks of time, you can still fit in little moments of relaxation; don’t wait to add self-care to your life until your schedule frees up. (You might be waiting a while to forever.) Starting is the most important step to take. Even if you take just five minutes to close your eyes and take a few deep breaths, it can help your stress level. A 10-minute walk makes a big difference. Don’t hesitate to get creative either. Use your time between client appointments to listen to music and dance. 4. Take care of yourself physically. This means getting enough sleep, eating nutritious foods and exercising. When you physically take care of yourself, you will reap the benefits emotionally, psychologically, health-wise, and in your relationships. 5. Know when to say no. Your health and well-being come first, eliminate anything that doesn’t feel fulfilling. If you have a hard time saying no, read how to say no and have better boundaries: http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/10/20/just-say-no-10-steps-to-better-boundaries.
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California Institute of Integral Studies Ethics and Professional Law MCP -Doris Bersing, Ph.D.

6/5/2016

SELF-CAREANDPROFESSIONALSUPPORTTOAVOIDSTRESSANDBURNOUTWecanavoidnumerousethical-legalpitfallsjustbybeingcentered.Yet,tobecenteredyouneedtobesane!Youlearnthowtocoveryourbackandyourpracticeandhowtoactethicallyandlegally…Now,themostimportantpartofyourpracticeISTOUSEINTEGRITY,AND“DRIVEDEFENSIVELY”…DONOTBEAFRAIDOFTAKINGRISKSBUTDOITWHILEtakingcareoftheconsequences!

Howtotakecareofyourself…howtoavoidbeingburned-out?

� Recognizethesignsofdanger!� Projectyourcareerintodifferentspansoftime(short-term;mid-term;long-term)� Berealisticwhensettingthetimeframestoreachyourgoals.� Balanceyourcareergoalswithpersonalandsocialaccomplishmentsandinterests.� Takecareofyourphysicaltoo(eatwell,exercise,restenough)

HowYouCanPracticeSelf-Care1. Identifywhatactivitieshelpyoufeelyourbest.Self-careisindividual.Self-careforonepersonwill

meansomethingcompletelydifferentforsomeoneelse.Onepersonmayneedmorealonetime,forexample,whileanothermaynurtureherselfbyspendingmoretimeoutwithfriends.”

2.Putitonyourcalendar—inink!Takeacloselookatyourcalendarandcarveoutoneortwohoursforself-careandsticktoit.Thismaytakeextraprep,butit’sworthit.ForAdams,themorningsarethebesttimetoexercise,soatnight,shelaysoutherworkoutandprofessionalgearandanythingelsesheneedsforherday.Keepaneyeoutforspecialevents,too.“WhenIseeinformationaboutaculturaleventthatIwouldenjoy,ImakeareservationorpurchaseticketssothatIhavesomethingpleasurableonmycalendar.Ifyou’recrunchedfortime,graduallyincreaseyourself-careeachmonthbyafewminutes.3.Sneakinself-carewhereyoucan.Ifyoudon’thavehugechunksoftime,youcanstillfitinlittlemomentsofrelaxation;don’twaittoaddself-caretoyourlifeuntilyourschedulefreesup.(Youmightbewaitingawhiletoforever.)Startingisthemostimportantsteptotake.Evenifyoutakejustfiveminutestocloseyoureyesandtakeafewdeepbreaths,itcanhelpyourstresslevel.A10-minutewalkmakesabigdifference.Don’thesitatetogetcreativeeither.Useyourtimebetweenclientappointmentstolistentomusicanddance.4.Takecareofyourselfphysically.Thismeansgettingenoughsleep,eatingnutritiousfoodsandexercising.Whenyouphysicallytakecareofyourself,youwillreapthebenefitsemotionally,psychologically,health-wise,andinyourrelationships.5.Knowwhentosayno.Yourhealthandwell-beingcomefirst,eliminateanythingthatdoesn’tfeelfulfilling.Ifyouhaveahardtimesayingno,readhowtosaynoandhavebetterboundaries:http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/10/20/just-say-no-10-steps-to-better-boundaries.

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California Institute of Integral Studies Ethics and Professional Law MCP -Doris Bersing, Ph.D.

6/5/2016

6.Checkinwithyourselfregularly.Askyourselfthefollowingcriticalquestions:“Areyouworkingtoomuch?Doyoufeeltappedout?Whatdoyouneedtotakeaway,andwhatwouldyouliketoadd?”7.Surroundyourselfwithgreatpeople.Makesurethatthepeopleinyourlifeareupbeat,positiveandknowhowtoenjoylife.8.Considerthequalityofself-care.Goforquality,especiallywhenthequantityislacking.Forinstance,ratherthangettingsuckedintochannelsurfingforhours,watchtheshowsyou’verecorded.ByminimizingyourTVtime,youhavemoretimeforotherbetterthings.9.Rememberthatself-careisnon-negotiable.Inordertoliveahealthyandrewardinglife,self-careisanecessity.Withthatattitude,itbecomesverynaturalandeasytodo,Usesomeprofessionalresources:� CAMFTCrisisResponseTeams–differentcountiesinCA.� DisasterandCrisiswebsitesandOffices(Suicidecriseshotlines;griefandlossservices;compassion

fatigue;PTSDfederalagency,andothers…Checkyourcoursereader–2pagesbeforelast)Wheneverythingfails…andinmomentsofcrisis:TakeCareofyourself!!!

• Acceptyourfeelings,includingdespondencyandanger–donotjudgethemoranalyzethem!• Rememberwhyyouareahelpingprofessional.• Valueyourtrajectory,work,knowledge,andexpertise.• Practicewhatyoupreach:Takeiteasyonyourself!• BalanceyourGOALS,andyourlifestyleanddonotoverdoandoveralldonottrytobesuper-

therapist!!!

Take the risk of being fried… Just follow your moral compass and play safe!

Good Luck!


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