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NAGINDAS KHANDWALA

COLLEGE OF

MANAGEMENT STUDIES.

FYBMS-A

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INDEX:

INTRODUCTION

WHAT ARE MARTIANS ALL ABOUT?

WHAT ARE VENUSIANS ALL ABOUT?

HOW THEY COMMUNICATE? TOPICS ON WHICH THEY COMMUNICATE.

BARRIERS TO COMMUNICATION BETWEEN

MEN AND WOMEN

CONCLUSION.

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INTRODUCTION

Imagine that men are from mars and women are

from Venus. One day long ago the Martians looking

through their telescopes discovered the venusian.

Just glimpsing the venusians awaked feeling they

had never known. They fell in love and quicklyinvented space travel and flew to venus.

The venusians welcomed the martians with open

arms. They had intuitively known that this day

would come. Their hearts opened wide to a lovethey had never felt before.

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The love between the venusians and the martians

was magical.

They were delighted with being together ,doing

things together and sharing together. Though fromdifferent worlds they reveled in their differences.

They spent months learning about each other,

exploring and appreciating their different needs,

preferences and behaviour patterns. For years they lived in love and harmony.

Then they decided to fly to Earth. In the beginning

everything was wonderful and beautiful. But the

effects of Earths and its atmosphere took hold andone morning everyone woke up with a peculiar kind

of amnesia.

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Both the martians and venusians forgot that theywere from different planets and were supposed to

be different.

AND SINCE THAT DAY MEN AND WOMEN HAVE

BEEN IN CONFLICT !!!!!!!!

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MEN ARE FROM MARS

WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS

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WHATAREMARTIANSALLABOUT ?

They value power , competent, efficiency

and achievement. They are always doing

things to prove themselves and develop

their power and skills. Their sense of self isdefined through their ability to achieve

results. They experience fulfillment primarily

through success and accomplishments.

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WHATAREVENUSIANSALLABOUT

Venusians.have different values. They value

love, communication, beauty and

relationship.

They spent a lot of time supporting, helping

and nurturing one another. Their sense of

self is defined through their feelings and the

quality of their relationships. They

experience fulfilment through sharing and

relating.

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HOWDO MEN ANDWOMEN COMMUNICATE

?????

PRACTICAL EMOTIONAL

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MEN TAKE DECISION FROM BRAINS.

MEN DONT OFTEN SHOW THEIR EMOTIONS.

MEN ARE CONTENT LISTENERS .

MEN TALK ABOUT THE REALITY.

PRACTICAL

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EMOTIONS

WOMEN --- HEART

MEN ARE LOGICAL AND WOMEN ARE

DILLOGICAL.

WOMEN--- CONSIDERED AS WHOLE AND SOULOF FAMILY ,WHY?

TAKE TIME TO ACCEPT REALITY

Satirically, TEARS---CAN BE DEFINED AS , THE

HYDRAULIC FORCE BY WHICH MASCULINEWILL-POWER IS DEFEATED BY FEMININE

WATER- POWER.

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TOPICS ON WHICH THEY

COMMUNICATE

LIKES AND DISLIKES OF MEN AND

WOMEN.

COMMUNICATION WHEN TIMES AREDIFFICULT .

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LIKES AND DISLIKES OF MEN

Likes- Men like to be respected and listened to.

Plus they like it when you value their opinion.

If you can be adventurous andspontaneous man love this

Dislikes- No man likes a nagging or

smothering woman

Dont treat your man like he is a kid or belittle

him in front of his buddies.

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LIKES AND DISLIKES OF WOMEN

Likes-Women are more likely to feel lovewhen they receive gifts,

The old myth says that women prefershopping more than men is proved true

Dislikes-Women are not interested to date

a guy who appears boring to them.

Women do not like men being late whenthey have to meet at some place

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COMMUNICATIONWHENTIMESAREDIFFICULT

When men are in problems they dont

want to discuss but want to solve it

where as women want to discuss their

problems rather than solving it.

When women are disappointed etc

they sound more critical and when

men are upset they are rude, meanand uncaring

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BARRIERS TO THEIR COMMUNICATION

MISUNDERSTANDING

EGO

IGNORANCE

OPINION DIFFERENCE

ATTITUDE

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OPINION DIFFERENCE

When men and women differ

on a topic their communication

mostly turn into argumentsand debate

It can cause half hearing,

misunderstanding etc.

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ATTITUDE

Feeling of superiority

Friends and family influenceattitude of a person

Misunderstanding

Half hearing

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IGNORANCE

Women hate when men ignore

them or dont listen to them.

When women talk and men

pretend to listen it is also a kind ofignorance.

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EGO

I,ME AND MYSELF

ARROGANCE + EGO = AGO

MEN HAS LOT OF EGO ASCOMPARE TO WOMEN

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MISUNDERSTANDING

THERE CAN BE A NUMBER OF FACTORS

LEADING TO MISUNDERSTANDING BETWEEN

BOYS AND GIRLS:-

1)LACK OF OPINION

2)LACK OF INTEREST

3)BLAMING EACH OTHER4)POOR COMMUNICATION

5) NOT GIVING SPACE TO EACH OTHER

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MEN VS WOMEN

MEN WOMEN

Sense of self:achievementTask-orientedSelf-reliantFocus is ongoal

Competition

Sense of self:relationshipsRelational-

orientedInter-

dependent

Enjoy theprocess.

Cooperation

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CONCLUSION

SO ALL THIS BRING US TO THE CONCLUSION

THAT GIRLS AND BOYS CAN NEITHER LIVE

WITH EACH OTHER NOR WITHOUT EACH

OTHER.

IT SEEMS LIKE BATTLE WILL GO ON FOR EVER

AND EVER BUT STILL THEY FEEL LOVE AND

AFFECTION FOR EACH OTHER.

IF IT WAS NOT SO THE WORLD WOULDNT

EXIST.THIS IS A PHASE OF LIFE .THIS IS NOTWHERE IT ENDS BUT ITS WHERE IT ALL

BEGINS