Confirmation Preparation Handbook

Confirmation is on March 17, 2013, at 3:00 p.m.

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Table of Contents

About the Sacrament of Confirmation ................................................................ 3

Candidate Preparation and Involvement After Confirmation ............................... 4

Rite of Enrollment .................................................................................................. 4

Immediate Preparation for Confirmation............................................................... 4

Choosing a Sponsor (by October 7) ....................................................................................... 5

Confirmation Name Reflection(by November 30) ................................................................. 6

Letter of Intent (by January 13) ............................................................................................ 7

Service Reflection (by March 1) ............................................................................................ 7

Readiness of the Candidate .................................................................................................. 8

The Sacrament of Reconciliation .......................................................................................... 8

Faith KnowledgeFormulas of Catholic Doctrine ................................................................. 9

Involvement After Confirmation ......................................................................................... 13

Parents Role and Responsibilities .................................................................... 14

Information for Confirmation Sponsors ............................................................ 16

Role of a Confirmation Sponsor .......................................................................................... 16

Eligibility of a Confirmation Sponsor ................................................................................... 16

Suggestions for Sponsors .................................................................................................... 16

Liturgy Dress Code for Confirmation Sponsor ..................................................................... 17

The Confirmation Liturgy .................................................................................. 19

Dress Code for Candidates .................................................................................................. 19

Renewal of Baptismal Promises .......................................................................................... 19

The Anointing with Chrism (to be practiced) ...................................................................... 20

Forms and Paperwork ...................................................................................... 20

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I. About the Sacrament of Confirmation

From the Catechism of the Catholic Church #1316-1321

Confirmation perfects Baptismal grace; it is the sacrament which gives the

Holy Spirit in order to root us more deeply in the divine filiation, incorporate us

more firmly into Christ, strengthen our bond with the Church, associate us more

closely with her mission, and help us bear witness to the Christian faith in words

accompanied by deeds.

Confirmation, like Baptism, imprints a spiritual mark or indelible character

on the Christian's soul; for this reason one can receive this sacrament only once

in one's life.

In the Latin Church this sacrament is administered when the age of reason has

been reached, and its celebration is ordinarily reserved to the bishop, thus

signifying that this sacrament strengthens the ecclesial bond.

A candidate for Confirmation who has attained the age of reason must

profess the faith

be in the state of grace

have the intention of receiving the sacrament

and be prepared to assume the role of disciple and witness to Christ, both within the ecclesial community and in temporal affairs.

The essential rite of Confirmation is anointing the forehead of the baptized

with sacred chrism, together with the laying on of the minister's hand and the

words: "Accipe signaculum doni Spiritus Sancti" (Be sealed with the Gift of the

Holy Spirit.) in the Roman rite.

When Confirmation is celebrated separately from Baptism, its connection with

Baptism is expressed, among other ways, by the renewal of baptismal promises.

The celebration of Confirmation during the Eucharist helps underline the unity of

the sacraments of Christian initiation.

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From YOUCAT (Youth Catechism of the Catholic Church)

#205 What happens in Confirmation?

To be confirmed means to make a covenant with God. The confirmed

says, Yes, I believe in you, my God give me your Holy Spirit, so that I

might belong entirely to you and never be separated from you and may

witness to you throughout my whole life, body and soul, in my words and

deeds, on good days and bad. And God says, Yes, I believe in you, too,

my childand I will give you my Spirit, my very self. I will belong entirely

to you. I will never separate myself from you, in this life or eternally in

the next. I will be in your body and your soul, in your words and deeds.

Even if you forget me, I will still be thereon good days and bad.

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II. Candidates Preparation and Involvement after

Confirmation

A. Rite of Enrollment

The immediate preparation for Confirmation formally begins with the

Rite of Enrollment, when the students officially and publically state their

desire to enter into preparations for the Sacrament of Confirmation. At

the beginning of the first Confirmation Session, each student will be given

a Confirmation Commitment Form that s/he will sign. Candidates will

stand and state their names and make their commitment to the

requirements of Confirmation. Students will hand in the Commitment

Form at the end of the ceremony when they officially become Candidates.

B. Immediate Preparation for Confirmation

The stage of immediate preparation for Confirmation includes the

following, which the candidate is expected to perform:

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1. Attend all sessions being held for Confirmation preparation. These

include Religious Education classes (held in parish school or CCD) and

two additional Sunday evening sessions:

a. Session #1: Spiritual Growth Sunday, October 7, 6:00-8:00

p.m. (includes candidates and sponsors; meet in church)

b. Session #2: Spiritual Gifts Sunday, January 13, 6:00-8:00

p.m. in the Parish Center

2. Attend a retreat which will be held on Sunday, February 3, from 8:00

a.m. to 1:30 p.m. in the Parish Center (includes 12:30 p.m. Mass)

3. Attend the rehearsal on Sunday, March 10, 6:00-8:00 p.m. with your

sponsor and/or a parent

4. Participate regularly in the life of the Church by attending Sunday and

Holy Day Mass, receiving the Sacraments, including Reconciliation,

and actively giving service to others

5. Complete and return all forms by the required date in order to be

properly prepared and presented for reception of the Sacrament of

Confirmation at this time. Below is an explanation of each of the

forms:

1. Choosing a Sponsor: Confirmation Name and Sponsor

Information Form and Sponsor Certificate: due by October 7

The Confirmation Name and Sponsor Information Form is the way that

you formally declare the Confirmation Name you have chosen and who

your Confirmation Sponsor will be. We have to verify that your

Confirmation Name is not foreign to Christian sensibilities (Canon 855)

and that your Sponsor is eligible to fulfill that role.

In short, you should choose a Confirmation Sponsor who you see as a

model of living the Catholic faith and someone who you feel comfortable

with to talk about your spiritual journey. To be eligible to be a Sponsor,

the person must be an active Catholic above the age of 16 and must obtain

verification from his/her pastor that s/he is eligible. If you Sponsor is

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from Holy Family Parish, we will verify his/her eligibility with Msgr.

Connell based on your Confirmation Name and Sponsor Information

Form. If s/he is from another parish, s/he will need to fill out a Sponsor

Certificate and have his/her pastor sign and seal it.

2. Confirmation Name Reflection: due by November 30

The tradition of taking a new name to show a new role can be traced back

to the Old Testament. When Abram was called to lead his people to

believe in the one God, his name was changed from Abram to Abraham,

Father of many nations. Again, in the New Testament, we find Simons

name changed to Peter, meaning Rock, because he was to become the

rock upon which Jesus founded his Church.

Now that you are about to be confirmed, it is time to choose the name you

will take as a sign of your growth in faith. The Church strongly suggests

that you choose your Baptismal name since Confirmation is the

completion of Baptism. You may also choose the name of a favorite Saint

(you can choose the name of a Saint of the opposite gender). Whatever

name you choose, we ask that you do some research about your

namesake.