Conversation Camp

7/30/2019 Conversation Camp

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D I C A R L O C O A C H I N G C o n v e r s a t i o n B O O T C A M P M a n

N e v e r r u n o u t o f t h i n g s t o s a y t o w o m e n a g a i n

DC 7-525

CONVERSATION CAM


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CONTENTS

Introduction

A Few ips o Get Te Most From It

Treading

Conversation Loaded With A Wide Range O opics

Improvisation

Questions

Inner Process

Vocal onality Pausing

Warm Reading

Observational Conversation

Facial Expressions

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Howd you like to know exactly what you need to do to be the guy that picks up every

time he goes out?

What about having the ability to start conversations with any woman at any time, andkeep it owing, and be completely out o your head and devoid o anxiety?

What i I said you could create a type o energy within you that attracted women withno e ort required at all? So you could stop trying to pick women up and it would justhappen.

Tis conversation camp workshop handbook contains a series o exercises that very ew people in the world have seen or used.

First, I want to explain why this bootcamp manual is going to completely revolutionizeyour game.

I spent 3 years going out almost every weekend and never took a single girl home. Not.

Even. One. Ten, almost instantly, I began to take women home EVERY night I wentout.

Its important I highlight that. I went rom zero to every night. Even i you dont want totake women home every night you go out, its nice to be able to have the choice.

For me, being able to pick up women when I went out to bars and clubs was animportant part in me eeling like a man. No matter how con dent I was in other parts

o my li e, when Id go to a bar I elt like a low status guy.

I had riends that would pick up really attractive women and take them home, and orsome reason I elt like I lacked value when I was at a popular venue. It was almost like Iwas lacking something but I didnt know what.

So when I began to pick up every time Id go out, or have many options to be able to, itgave me a massive con dence boost. Not only was I completely sexually satis ed, I elt

like a real man.

Introduction


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When I started coaching and helping guys with their con dence with women I wantedto bottle whatever changed or me and give it them. Te trouble was that I was havingtrouble guring out exactly what the tipping point was or my own results with women.

I had tried and experimented with so many things I wasnt quite sure what the ONEmassive switch was or guys to turn on.

Not long a er I went to a meditation retreat called Vipassana where you dont say a single word or 10 days. Yeah! I know! Crazy right? I began to re ect on a singlequestion or an entire day:

What changed between NEVER picking up and ALWAYS picking up?

Tat day, I realized there was ONE single thing that made all the di erence.

Tis is the closest thing Ive ever ound to a magic bullet. It worked or me and it canwork or you. Its a very simple and easy principle that will revolutionize the way youthink about meeting women.

You see I used to think about being good with women as being a type o skill. Likeriding a bike or playing a guitar. It took me a long time to realize that this was a terribleway to think about it because a bike and a guitar dont talk back, have eelings and

emotions and you can ride a bike and play a guitar in your own time and in your ownspace. Unlike 99% o the ways you meet women.

Tere are de nitely some elements o meeting women that are similar to learning askill like understanding body language, learning people skills and improving your voicetone and projection. It was when I reed mysel up rom the skill paradigm that theresults really showed.

So what was the major shi ? How do I think about meeting women now?

I realized that getting success with women was more about how I elt than what I did.Put it this way when you eel like youre in the ultimate mental state, anything willwork. Weve all seen examples o it. Tat guy who is a natural that can say dumb ornormal things...and women are still massively attracted to him. Tere is somethinggoing on. Something beyond the words that WORKS.

For us analytical and smart guys, what does this eeling really mean? And moreimportantly, how can we experience it on demand?


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I bet youve experienced that eeling or state accidentally. Tat night you went out andor some reason women hung on every word you said, you were completely out o your

head and care ree in act, you may have been a little outrageous but didnt care andeverything seemed to work.

Like all guys I had experienced nights like that but I didnt know how to get into that

state with any sort o predictability. I it happened, it was almost pure luck. I started torealize that i I had a way o getting into that state on demand like switching on thetelevision Id get results with women.

Tis conversation handbook is HE SECRE .

And the way I ound out to get into that ultimate picking up women state was towarm-up.

We all know the concept o warming up. You see athletes be ore a game warm-up,sometimes or hours. You probably warm-up be ore a gym workout. We warm-up toreach peak per ormance and also to prevent injury. When it comes to meeting women,we warm-up to get out o our heads and eel ree to do what we want, get into a ow and also to prevent rejection.

I began with doing at least 30 minutes o drills or exercises be ore going out. Te

di erence in my results was VAS . I remember my riends would rock up to the barand be nervous, anxious and inhibited. While I elt like a rockstar and was the centero attention all because I spent a ew minutes doing some role-play and exercisesbe orehand.

When I took women home when I went out, I began to notice and eventually take noteo speci c things I would do be ore to warm-up. Soon my warm-ups became a habit,almost a ritual be ore going out.

I you are more interested in nding a girl riend than picking up lots o girls, thatsokay too because its exactly the same mechanism. You have a much better chance o landing her i you eel amazing.

So what are you waiting or? Lets get started!


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1. Its best to do these with a riend or wingman but you can do them onyour own in the mirror i you like.

2. I you want to get the real bootcamp eel, book a hotel room or theweekend with some riends and do an intense version rom morninguntil night.

3. Te more o en you do these the better they work and the more

confdent you become. I you nd it challenging to begin with thats agood sign. It means youve got a lot o room or improvement.

A few tips to get the most from it:

I recommend getting a couple o chairs acing each other so you can talk and practiceyour eye contact at the same time. You can also do these exercises standing up.

Spend 5 minutes or so on each one and work rom the ront to the back o thehandbook.

Experiment and have un with the exercises. I you arent sure what to do, then guessand do your best. Its not like studying to be a brain surgeon. Tere is no exam at theend. Many o these drills have tons o exibility built in so you can make them yourown.

Tey are designed to stretch you, so its good i you nd them challenging. Tink o itlike improving your tness. But instead o physical tness, this is your conversationaltness.

Keep in mind that each exercise is working on a speci c skill. When you talk to awoman the key to being a conversational master is mixing it up. So mix up as many o these exercises as you can.


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Many guys ask too many questions, ramble on, and generally bore women. Tisexercise is designed to have you say more with less, and get to the point, whilstencouraging women to respond not orcing them to respond.

Asking too many questions is the most common mistake I see. Tis will help you getout o that habit by saying sentences rather than questions.

Tis is to get you into the habit o being able to convey more with less.

A common problem with guys conversationally is that they get nervous and rambleon and their conversations lack ocus. So see how well you can express yoursel with asingle sentence.

1. THREADING

Purpose: o have you talk in a short, punchy manner that displays con dence.

a. Face your partner.b. Say a single sentence. (Not a question!)c. Have your partner respond with a single sentence.d. Cycle or 3-4 sentences each in total, and then start again.

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Many guys dont make it easy or women to converse with them by making the mistakeo providing only a small amount o topics to talk about. Tis exercise will change thatby giving her a wide range o interesting things FOR HER to talk about.

Tis is to make it easier or a woman to responds to you in conversation.

Many times when a woman doesnt respond back or open up when talking to you itsbecause you made it too hard or her to do so. Make it easy by giving her many optionsin which to take the direction o the conversation.

2. Conversation Loaded with a Wide Range of Topics

Purpose: o have you speak power ully, even i you say less.

a. Face your partner.b. Say 2 sentences with a minimum o 5 topics.c. Have your partner respond with the same.d. Cycle or 3-4 exchanges in total, and then start again.

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Many guys struggle with being quick on their eet, and being able to stay in the now with conversation. Especially at the speed women talk and change topics. Tis exercisewill help you build your conversational con dence, and give you mental reedom totalk about anything at all.

Many guys do much better conversing with women a er taking an Improv Actingclass. It makes sense. Tis helps you to be adaptable to whatever happens during theconversation so you are not lost or words.

Ive seen guys make the mistake o trying to prepare entire conversations with womenbe ore they meet them. You are much better o learning how to be spontaneous nomatter what curve ball is thrown at you.

3. Improvisation

Purpose: o have you develop your spontaneity, and ability to think on the spot.

a. Face your partner.b. Your partner says a random word.c. You talk about that random word or 1-2 minutes.d. Cycle or 3-4 threads in total, and then start again.

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Tis exercise is designed to improve the quality o the questions you ask, and give youmore power in your conversations by sparking attraction through asking di erent andinteresting questions than a woman would normally be asked.

A punchy, interesting question makes the other person WAN to respond to you. Inact, they cant help themselves.

Guys o en ask very generic questions when meeting women. Ive seen women turntheir back on a guy and walk away a er a generic question. Focus on somethingunique about the other person like how they are expressing their personality with theirappearance or ask them about their personality or identity.

4. Questions

Purpose: o have you ask power ul, interesting non-generic questions.

a. Face your partner.b. Share 1-2 sentences.c. Ask a punchy, interesting question.d. Determine how good your question was and repeat.

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Many guys speak in a way that bores women, and is too logical, scienti c, and act-based. In this exercise you will begin you talk in a manner that allows people to muchbetter connect with you.

Inner process is when you talk about how something elt. Say you were playingbasketball and took the winning shot and a er the game was asked how did it eel totake that shot? you take about the inner process the emotions, eelings, sensations rather than the technical aspects o taking the shot.

5. Inner Process

Purpose: o have you talk less about details, and more about how you eel.

a. Face your partner.b. alk in terms o inner process.c. Have your partner respond with inner process based threads.d. Cycle or 3-4 threads in total, and then start again.

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In this exercise we will critique your vocal tonality to build a more commanding andmasculine tone, and speak through the right parts o your chest. Tis will also assistwith vocal projection, breathing, and being noticed.

Te worst thing you can do conversationally is be monotone. Tis is where you speak constantly at the same level and tone. ry being ridiculous with how you vary your voice tone and use your acial expressions. Start with tame and get even more animated

rom there.

Tis exercise is designed as an opportunity or you to experiment like crazy and cutloose.

6. Vocal Tonality

Purpose: o be able to say anything and make it interesting by your vocal tonality.

a. Face your partner.b. Use the conversation tools learned so ar.c. Have your partner respond with inner process based threads.d. Critique the vocal tonality in your conversation.e. Go wild in practicing adventurous orms o expression.

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Many guys rush when it comes to talking to women. By pausing, and taking your time,youll not only take the pressure o yoursel , youll attract much more attention by commanding more respect.

Really push the pausing to the extreme in this one. Realize that it can be a power ulway to convey con dence and status. Guys are o en so scared o running out things tosay or rejection that they try to ll every available space with words. Get into the habito not being a raid to allow silence to do all the work or you.

7. Pausing

Purpose: o build more power into your conversation, and be more o a leader.

a. Face your partner.b. Chat using the conversation tools learned so ar.c. Experiment with exaggerated pausing.d. Cycle or 3-4 exchanges in total, and then start again.

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A warm read is where you make an assumption about a woman you just meet. Likeyou tell her something about who she is as a person. Its kind o like an educated guess.Like a pro essional ortuneteller will do with people. Hell see clues about who they are,make statements about them, and they will think he is a genius.

A warm read is simply this: rom the conversation make a direct statement about whothe other person is on a core level. Like say you were talking about animals you mightsay that your partner is a caring, genuine and thought ul person. You are taking theconversation to the next level rom just chit-chat.

8. Warm Reading

Purpose: o give a strong read with women you meet to power ully commandtheir attention.

a. Chat or a couple o minutes.b. You will make a warm read based on their conversation.c. Critique the accuracy o the read and the resulting emotions.

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Using your observational skills to take advantage o anything as interesting engagingconversational material. In NLP, an exercise they get people to do is to look as wide aspossible with both your eyes at the same time. Tis is power ul or your mind as youbecome more aware o your surroundings and this has a pro ound e ect on the way you think and your ability to see opportunities.

When guys meet women o en they get nervous and this causes their vision to narrow.So they miss really easy opportunities to talk about interesting things and they getstuck on generic topics. Once I went to a bar with a riend and saw a woman sittingat the bar drinking a martini on her own. It stood out to me that she must have had arough day so I suggested my riend use that as an opening line. It worked like a charm!

Te most common way o starting conversations with women I see randomly is to beobservational. I notice things about her, or the current situation to talk about. I tendto be good at nding really interesting things around me. o live externally like thistakes practice and along with improving your conversation skills, it will also make youhappier than living li e more internally.

9. Observational Conversation

Purpose: o be able to spark a conversation at any time using situationalin ormation.

a. Identi y things about your partner or about your current situation to startthe conversation with.

b. Vary your level o insight to be more and more insight ul.c. Start to notice really interesting things to talk about that no one else does.

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I experimented once with using extreme acial expressions when talking to women.Instead o rejecting me, all women did was open up and want to talk even more.Having trained thousands o guys Ive seen so many guys with difculty in the way they express themselves. Just not enough emotion, expression and variety.

Youd be amazed at how this one single trick can trans orm your conversationswith women. Practice in a mirror i you can. I nd the more I am in the zone, themore acial expressions I use. So reverse engineer eeling amazing by stretching andexercising your acial expressions.

10. Facial Expressions

Purpose: o better express yoursel non-verbally.

a. Use the conversation tools learned so ar.b. Use more expressive acial expressions.c. Push your com ort zone on how expressive you can be.

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Some guys are too serious, others are insulting. Learn to play ully tease her.

easing adds a real sense o sexual tension to the conversation. While you aretaking a risk, without risk you get no reward. Its good practice to start taking moreconversational risks and being more play ul. Guys that have only serious conversationstend not to be very interesting to women.

11. Teasing

Purpose: o spice up your interactions by adding a play ul element, and havingun with her.

a. Chat or 1-2 minutes with your partner.b. During the conversation you will tease him about something he said.c. Challenge your com ort zone while neither being insulting or too nice.

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NLP is a power ul trans ormational and communication technique (I highly recommend checking it out i you havent already). In this exercise we start to work with her subconscious and its also healthy or us to be thinking a little sexually whiletalking with women.

Te good thing about this exercise is that you start to think in a slightly more sexualway when talking to women. Tis is the key to getting results. When you have only social conversations with women its hard to switch gears to being romantic.

12. NLP styled sexual phrasing

Purpose: Introduce bedroom talk into your normal conversations.

a. You will think o things you would say to women while having sex.b. During the conversation you will include these phrases.c. See how ar you can make them think o the secret meaning while

maintaining your innocence.

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