Chapter 7: X3Pure Couples Series
Dealing with Anger
• Four styles of conflict.
Dealing with Anger
• Four styles of conflict.
Dealing with Anger
- Win- Yield
- Withdraw
- Resolve
• Four styles of conflict.
Dealing with Anger
- Win- Yield
- Withdraw
- Resolve
• Conflict can be good if it’s resolved.
• Four styles of conflict.
Dealing with Anger
- Win- Yield
- Withdraw
- Resolve
• Conflict can be good if it’s resolved.
• Confronting in love.
Anger
Anger
• 3 Types of Anger
Anger
• 3 Types of Anger- Situation specific
Anger
• 3 Types of Anger- Situation specific
- Displaced anger
Anger
• 3 Types of Anger- Situation specific
- Displaced anger
- Chronic anger
Chronic Anger
Chronic Anger
• Chronic anger is situation-specific but displaced from another situation.
Chronic Anger
• Chronic anger is situation-specific but displaced from another situation.
• Similar to displaced anger but chronic anger is connected to your past, a wound, or abuse. Chronic anger is usually the result of unresolved issues.
Chronic Anger
Chronic Anger
• To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.
Chronic Anger
• To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.
• Chronic anger is usually tied to a person or a past event.
Chronic Anger
• To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.
• Chronic anger is usually tied to a person or a past event.
• Until you are able to forgive you will never break free from chronic anger.
Forgiveness
Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a command
Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a commandBe kind
Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a commandBe kind
Be compassionate
Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a commandBe kind
Be compassionate
Forgive
Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a commandBe kind
Be compassionate
Forgive
• In Christ
Forgiveness
Forgiveness
• “When you forgive someone you set a prisoner free only to discover that you were the prisoner.”
Forgiveness
• “When you forgive someone you set a prisoner free only to discover that you were the prisoner.”
• Forgiveness is not about the other person, it’s about me.
Homework Assignment
Homework Assignment
• Begin the process of forgiveness today