“No Fault Formula” of Communication
From Getting the Love You Want, by
Harville Hendrix:
“For some reason, we enter marriage with
the expectation that our partners will
magically restore [a] feeling of wholeness
[that we lost somewhere]. It is as if they hold
the key to a long-ago kingdom, and all we
have to do is persuade them to unlock the
door. Their failure to do so is one of the main
reasons for our eventual unhappiness.”
No Charlatan Consulting is Grant Wadley
About Me
Educated at Princeton Seminary, Emory’s
Goizueta Business School, and Harvard
University. My training and experience
includes strategic planning, market
research, business modeling, business
planning, advertising strategy, success/life
coaching, and marriage counseling.
NO CHARLATAN CONSULTING 2657 Lenox Rd. NE #204
Atlanta, GA 30324
Relationship Counseling & Family Therapy
No Charlatan Consulting
Mission: to help clients find
extraordinary happiness in
becoming their best.
Need to get below this line
Data
Beliefs/Assumptions
Impact/Feelings
Needs
Solutions/Actions
Esp., “What do you
need from me?”
Contact Info
Phone: 609.422.9539
Email: [email protected]
Website: facebook.com/nocharlatan
Model of Family Stress
A = stressors: marriage,
restructuring family and
friendships, change in
employment/income, relocating
B = resources: financial, social
support, open communication,
flexibility, emotional connection,
spirituality, habits
C = perception/meaning: making
sense of the stress, reframing the
story, perception of control,
value in the struggle
Examples of Distorted Thinking