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Diaries of Pioneer Women - Troths Confessed or Society's Expectations Met? by Annette Bennington McElhiney I n the years between 1830 and 1890, many women accompanied their immediate families or husbands across the wide Missouri, through Kansas and Colorado, and across the Rockies to the West coast. A surprising number of these women kept diaries or journals of their experienees. Some of these were sent back to the families that the women had left behind. Still others were kept in the woman's possession until she died. In their writings, the single women and young brides often openly reveal their enthusaistie atitudes toward the adventure. The major portion of married women's diaries, however, sf!lem to be coneerned with rather indifferent accounts of events, the weather, the eamp sites, the necessary preparations for meals, and other details. In general, the married. women say yery little about either their positive or negative feelings eoncerning the trip West. The few negative eomments they make are usually cloaked in terms aeceptable to nineteenth eentury soeiety. 1n other words, the distinct differenees between the comments made by unmarried women and young brides and by married women may suggest the influenee of the nineteenth eentury's code of behavior particularly for married women. If we look through much popular literature written in nineteenth eentury America, we will note that between 1820 and 1860, particularly on the Eastern seaboard, a prescriptive literature was presented to women in various womens' magazines, in gift annuals, and in various religious publications. The attributes by which a cultured Eastern woman, particularly a married woman, was judged by herself and by society were divided into four basic virtues--piety, purity, submissiveness, and domesticity. I Such characteristics were said to define the cultured nineteenth century American woman's being. Women were told that religion belonged to them by divine right, as a gift from God and nature. (p. 97) Thus, 14
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Diaries of Pioneer Women - Troths Confessed or Society's

Expectations Met? by

Annette Bennington McElhiney

In the years between 1830 and 1890, many women accompanied their immediate families or husbands we.~tward

across the wide Missouri, through Kansas and Colorado, and across the Rockies to the West coast. A surprising number of

these women kept diaries or journals of their experienees. Some of these were sent back to the families that the women had left behind. Still others were kept in the woman's possession until she died. In their writings, the single women and young brides often openly reveal their enthusaistie atitudes toward the adventure. The major portion of married women's diaries, however, sf!lem to be coneerned with rather indifferent accounts of events, the weather, the eamp sites, the necessary preparations for meals, and other details. In general, the married. women say yery little about either their positive or negative feelings eoncerning the trip West. The few negative eomments they make are usually cloaked in terms aeceptable to nineteenth eentury soeiety. 1n other words, the distinct differenees between the comments made by unmarried women and young brides and by married women may suggest the influenee of the nineteenth eentury's code of behavior particularly for married women.

If we look through much popular literature written in nineteenth eentury America, we will note that between 1820 and 1860, particularly on the Eastern seaboard, a prescriptive literature was presented to women in various womens' magazines, in gift annuals, and in various religious publications. The attributes by which a cultured Eastern woman, particularly a married woman, was judged by herself and by society were divided into four basic virtues--piety, purity, submissiveness, and domesticity. I Such characteristics were said to define the cultured nineteenth century American woman's being. Women were told that religion belonged to them by divine right, as a gift from God and nature. (p. 97) Thus,

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111gb Kansas and Colorado, and t coast. A surprising number of Js of their experiences. Some of that the wompn had left behind. D'5 posses.sion until she died. In lnd young brides often openly ward the adventure. The major however, seem to be concerned events, the weather, the camp rr mesh, and other details. In very little about either their rning the trip West, The few ,re usually cloaked in terms society. In other words. the omments made by unmarried larned women may suggest the 5 code of behaVior partieu(arly

;Ktpular literature written in II note that between 1820 and lboard, a pre<icriptive literature I! womens' magazines, in gift ublications, The attributes by larticularly a married woman, y were divided into four basic iE&'i, and domestieity, I Sueh le eultured nineteenth century rere told that religion belonged I God and naturt'. (p. 97) Thus,

they were encouraged to bring religion to the men they knew who either did not have it or had strayed from it. In addition. women were told to bring up their own children with the appropriate religious views. They were told that they must remain virtuous, even though men, because of their mOle sensual and aggressive natures, would attempt to destroy women's virtue. (p. 91) Purity, then, wa~ a moral uecessity. By retaining it, a woman showed hPT moral superiority to men, a natural expectation in view of her religious superiority.

In addition, women were told that submission was the most laudable feminine virtue, that "men were the movers, the doen, the actors. Women were the passive submissive responders." (p. 102) Thl' litf'raturf' which prescribed this virtue as necessary to women based its logic on Biblical text. Man was supprior to woman just as Cod was superior to man. If woman attempted to dominate man, she was tampering with the order of the univer~. (po 102) Conspquently. she was urged to be passive and to submit to what her husband ordered, Moreover, she was told to be submissive to her fate as a mother. The Ladies' Parlor Companion, in an artiele entitled "A Submissive Mother," told of an ideal mother who had already buried several children and was m;rsing a critically ill baby. The mother watched as her other remaining child, a toddler. was nearly scalded to death. "Handing over the infant to die in the arms of a friend, she bowed in sweet submission to the double stroke:' (p. 105) However, the toddler survived. as the magazine, applauding the submissiveness of the mother 1 suggests "through the goodness of God." (p. 105) Thus the mother learned to say "Thy will be done." Perhaps this kind of reaction would be eonsidered by most of us today as atypical and melodramatic, but this behavior was indeed held up to the nineteenth century Ameripan woman as the "ideal behavior" of a submissive mother.

Moreover, the woman's prescribed sphere was to be her own fireside- -" as daughter, sister, but most of all as wife and mother." (p. 105) Here she was to be eomforter, nur~. domestic servant, and moral uplifter. The status of motherhood in middle class nineteenth century America was even considered an elevated plane of being as it was the American mother who was to raise a "whole generation of Christian statesmen." (p. 113) Researehers into v.umen's history have noted that some women seemed completely indoctrinated with the idea that the home was "their appropriate sphere of action; and that whenever they negelected their duties, or went out of this sphere of action to mingle in any of the great public movements of the day,

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they were deserting the station which God and nature had assigned them."2 Evidently these women internalized society's prescribed views and accepted them as their own. Thus they saw themselves simply as submissive wives and mothers. Furlher inland rhan rhe Eastern seaboard, women who were never exposed directly to rhis prescriptive literature but who received it by observing the behavior of their Eastern sisters assimilated this behavior into their own lives.

Alexis de Tocqueville observed American women and commented on their statm as women and wives. He readily admitted that no eommunity can exist without morals and that "morals were the work of women."~ However, he also noted that young unmarried woman in Ameriea was exposed to a much wider range of experiences than she was permitted later in her life. He observed that "rhe great scene of the world is constantly open to her view:' that the "vices and danger of society are early revealed to her," and that she viewed them without illusion and braved them without fear. (p. 118) Yet he also observed that "in Ameriea the independence of woman is irrecoverably lost in the bonds of matrimony: if an unmarried woman is less constrained there than elsewhere, a wife is subjected to strieter obligaliom:' (p. 113) After looking at the prescriptive literature aimed primarily at wives and mothers, it is not difficult to see that the nineteenth century made comiderably more demands on the attitudes and behavior of married women than on those of the single women or even the young brides.

In looking at the diaries of young unmarried women, we ean see the expected, that Alexis de Tocqueville's thesis is borne out. Yet isn't a difference between the married woman's attitude and the single woman's attitude toward traveling to the frontier to be expected? After all, many times the eircumstanees for the young girl were totally different from those of married women. For example, in making the trip to the frontier, the young girl's world was not ehanged radieally. She was still expected to help her mother cook, tend the younger children, etc., as she had at home, but she was not deprived of her own place in a social world, her home, her chureh aetivities, her club, etc. Sometimes a young girl would even aecompanya relative aeross the prairie just as a ehange of paee from her life baek home. In a diary' written in 1862, Rose Bell tells about her trip aeross Missouri and Kamas on routp from Rock Island, Illinois, to Pikes Peak, Colorado. As a young unmarried woman in the nineteenth century, she is expected to exemplify the virtues-­piety, purity, and submission to hpr parpnts. However, she is not

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~h God and nature had assigned nternalized society's prescribed )wo, Thus they saw themselves Ithecs, Further inland than the :e never exposed direetly to this ved it by observing the behavior lis behavior into their own lives. rved American wornen and 'omen and wives. He readily GUt without morals and that '" However, he also noted that :a was exposed to a much wider permitted later in her life. He ! world is constantly open to her of societ)' are early revealed to thout illusion and braved them ob5erved that "in America the werably lost in the bonds of n is leM constrained there than cler obligations." (p. 113) After e aimed primarily at wives and ilt the nineteenth century made he attitudes and behavior of the single women or even the

mg unmarried women, we can lueville's thesis is borne out. Yet ried woman's attitude and the raveling to the frontier to be ~ircumstancesfor the young girl married women. For example, the young girl's world was not ected to help her mother cook, Ie had at home, but she was not 11 world, her home, her church les a young girl would even rie just as a change of pace from min 1862, Rose Bell tells about is on route from Rock Island, I a young unmarried woman in ded to exemplify the virtues-­r parents. However, she is not

encumbered by the burden of trying to recreate a home away from home in a covered wagon. Therefore, she can say, "we are enjoying ourselves firstrate."4 She can sometimes lie in the wagon, read hooks she has brought with her, and view the trip as a pleasant change. Another young girl, HarrietSmith, accompained her uncle to Pikes Peak during the Civil War days. Her diary is filled with enthusiasm for the new experience: "I like this country very well. The atmosphere is very pure and 1 think this is the place for those that are all the time grunting in the states for it agrees with me very well."5

Another young unmarried woman, Sarah Raymond Herndon, crossed the plains in 1865 and relished the new experience. She fancied herself a literary figure and treated many every-day incidents in a flowery style when she wrote about them. She accompanied her family to Virginia City, Montana in 1865 and kept a diary on the trip. However, she did not compile all of her reminiscences until 1902, when she was a wife and mother. In her reminiscences, she philosophizes about the trek westward. In fact, her thoughts seem to stem from a self-conscious desire to fix in the mind of the reader the historical grandeur of the adventure. In one of the first entries, Sarah tells the reader why she is on the journey.

The chief aim in life is the pursuit of life, liberty, and happiness. Are we not taking risks, in thus veutnriug into the wilderness? When devoted men and women leave home, friends and the enjoyments of life to go to some missionary movement we think that is a great sacrifice and we wish we had been called too. But when people who are comfortably and pleasantly sitl1ated pull up stakes and leave all, or nearly all, that make:; life worth the living, ~tart on along, and perhaps tediuus journey, to seek a home in a strange land among strangers, with no other motive than that of bettering their cirel1mstance:;, by gaining wealth, and heaping together riches, that perish with the using, it seems strange that so many people do it. The motive does not seem to jl1stify the inCQnvience, the anxiety, the suspense tbat must be endured, Yet how wOl1ld the Great West be (l€opled were it not so? God knows best- It is withont donbt, this spirit of T~tJessness, a"d u"'ati,fied longing. m ambitio,,--if yo" pl"ase--which is implanted i" our natur" hy a" all-wire Cr"ator that ha.> poeopled the earth."

Many times Miss Herndon (aments that she is not an artist, that she is unable to paint the pictures she sees, the storms, the rnountains. She climbs to the top of a rnountain and says that she realizes why people take hazardous trips just to gain a view. She cornrnents on the people returning from Montana and says that one would be discouraged "if it were not so palpable that they are hornesick, and everyone knows that when that disease is fairly developed, everything is colored with a deep dark blue, and even pleasant things seem extremely disagreeable to the afflicted person. The

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ladies seem to have the diseasc in its wont form, and of coune they make the gentlemen do as they wish which is to take thcm home to mother and other dear ones." (po 172) Yet aU of Miss Herndon's reminiscences are based on the diary that she wrote when she was a young girl not yet subjected to the grueling tasks imposed upon the married women; hence shc can be critical of the wives aud mothers for not eontinuing the journey.

The young brides, evcn, start their journeys with mort' enthusiasm than hesitation. In letters back home to New York, Ellen Gordt'n Fletcher r('.veals some of her f'-'flings about her trip to Virginia City. Montana. Previously, she had taught school but retiroo to marry Mr. Fletcher who had just gotten back from Virginia City. As Mr. Fletcher was already familiar with the trail. Mrs. Fletcher fel~ entirely secure and rega.rded the trip as an adventure. This young bride was educated. familiar with romantic nature literature; therefore, she tended to describc the scenery with Wordsworthian enthusiasm, to romantize her deseription of campfires, rainbows, and mountajn~. From Summit City, August 16, she writes home, "I would so like to have you come and see me in my mountain borne. You would find it romantic and wild enough for any of yOll _"7

In 1904, another woman, Mrs. Margaret Frink, looked back on her experiences as a young bride. She took some of the things she said in a diary made in 1850 and reconstructed the story of her experiences. Iu her remini:-.cence.s she remembers the attention she received as a woman going West. Mcn would come and peek in tht' wagon and tell her that she was "certainly a soldier to attempt it."s She rememhpr_~ heing told by a woman she meets that in California, gold awaits every man, and if a woman can cook, sixtecn dollan a '-":'ek for cooking for each man awaits a 'MJman. Margaret becomes so excited about the possibility of finding gold and so 'MJrried that all the grass on the prairie will be eateu by the horses and cattlc in the wagon trains in front of her own train that, in the absenct' of the (eader of the train, she gives orders for the train to go faster and not allow flny wa~on... to pass them, She expresses excilemellt .....heu watehing a buffalo hunt. She says she can understand \\hy men so enjoy hunting. Margaret also becomes quite excited about crossing the South Platte River.

Susan Magoffin, who as a young bride aecompanied her husband on the Sante Fe Trail in 1846-47, was usually enthusiastic about her adventure. Susan traveled with a maid who prepared her food, tarts and wine inelud£'d, and therefore she wa~ lIut subjected

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worst form, and of course they I which is to take them home to L72) Yet all of Miss Herndon's r that she wrote when she was a ;rueling tasks imposed upon the ritical of the wives and mothers

rt their journeys with more I back home to New York, Ellen :tel' feelings about her trip to ~', she had taught school but 10 had jU5t gotten back from uready familiar with the trail, and regarded the trip as an ucated, familiar with romantic led to describe the scenery with omantize her description of IS. From Summit City, August to have you come and see me in :l it romantic and wild enough

Iotargaret Frink, looked back on took some of the things shc said constructed the story of her e remembers the attention _~he

:m would come and peek in the tainlya soldier to attempt it."~

m she meets that in California, nan can cook, sixtcen dollars a sa v.oman. Margaret becomes lding gold and so v.orried that llim by the horses and cattle in rain that, in the absencc of thc or the train to go faster and not Ie expresses excitement when Ie can understaud why men so ~s quite excited about crossing

:nmg bride accompanied her 16-47, was usually enthusiastic with a maid who prepared her berefore she was not subjected

to much work on the journey. Early in the trip, she writes, "Tonight is my fifth in el camp. Ob, this is a life I would not exchange for a good deal! There is such independence, so much free uncontaminated air, which imprpgnah's the mind, the feelings, nay every thought, with purity. I breathe free without that oppression and uneasiness felt in the gossiping circles of a settled home."u Susan becomes pregnant on the journey and loses her baby. probably as a result of the horrible travel conditions. (Bernard De Voto, in his book The Year of Decision, 1846, tells about the rigorous hardships of this particular journey.) In general. like most of the young brides, Susan's complaints are few. She does say "1 do think a woman emberaso [embarazada-pregnant] has a hard time of it, some sickness all the time, heart-burn, hpad.ache, cramps etc. after all this thing of marrying is not what it is cracked up to be." (p. 245) This statement, though, only occurs weeks after her pregnancy is over and after the longest section of the journey. ThL~ mixture of enthusiasm and restrained complaint5 about the trip may indicate that my hypothesis about the nineteenth century's influence on married women's behavior and their expression of their feelings is valid. On the other hand, because Susan is freed from work by her maid, she can enjoy the freedom of adventurc like other unmarried women. But, perhaps because she has been cautioned by her society to be submissive to her fate as a wife and mother, she may play down her complaints about pregnancy and losing a child. At any rate, to a reader in the 1970's, it seems odd that Susan mentions so little about her pregnancy and the loss of her child when we know that it must have affected her in some way. Also, although Susan may have felt genuinely disturbed by the men's habits, she demonstrates that she adheres to the recommended practice of being the preserver of morals. Thus she expresses her unhappiness with "so much swearing; the animals are unruly tis true and worde'> the patience of their drivers, but 1 scarcely think they need be so profane." (p. 3) Moreover, whcn they reach their destination, Susan comments on her husband's non-observance of the Sabbath. "I wish mi alma would observe the Sabbath more than he does, and though 'tis the custom of the country to do otherwise, shut his store up. It hurts me more than I can tell; that he does not find six days of the week sufficient to gain the good of this world, but is also constrained to devote the day God himself has appointed us to keep holy to the same business." (p.21O)

If we read historical analyses of the composition of people who traveled to the frontier, we will note that not only adventurous

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single people or young married couples were brave enough to pioneer. In fact, "from 1841 until 1867, the year in which the transcontinental railroad was completed, nearly 350,000 North Americans emigrated to the Pacific coast along thc western wagon road known variously as the Oregon, the California, or simply the Overland Trail. This migration was esscntially a family phenomenon."10 Therefore, as we might expect, a number wives and mothers wrote diaries also. These personal accounts, however, differ markedly from the accounts we have just read.

A curious situation existed because when the marrilXl woman left her former home, a ncw experience opened before her. She was leaVing the world of prescribed "ideal womanhood" and was going to a land which offered new ways of living and new ways of thinking. Here was her chance to abandon nineteenth century restrictions on the behavior of women. But as Johnny Faragher and Christine Stansell suggest, ..most women did not view the experience that way. They viewed it as a male enterprise from its very inception." (p. 151) They felt this way because "the supervision of child-rearing, household economy, and the moral and religiDus life Df the family granted women a certain degree of real autonomy and cDntrol over their lives as well as those of their husbands and children." (p. 152) Thus to women, leaVing a conventional hDme and all that running it entailed became a threat because it often ruptured thc sphere they were alloted. Rather than respDnding to the new freedom from so many cultural and domestic restrictions, as did young brides like Ellen Fletcher. Mrs. Frink, and Susan Magoffin, most married women viewed their new adventure as estrangement from their usual spheres of activity, mDrality, religion, family life, and domesticity. The husbands of these women had been encouraged to seek challenges, opportunities, and chances to be individuals. The women had not. Thus, the frontier offered to women not challenge and opportunity - positive values. but isolation and loneliness - negative values.

Knowing that many married women did not choose pioneering, we might expect their diaries to be filled with loud complaints about having tD accompany their husbands and families to the frontier. In fact, when I started reading in the diaries, I expected to find confessional comments by the women, comments about how they resented leaving their families, how they hated the hardships of pioneering and how they disliked the loneliness and isolation that it imposed on them. These comments which I expected to find are ones which many women in the 1970's would certainly make if they were

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couples were brave enough to ~ 1867, the year in which the npleted, nearly 350,000 North ~ coast along the we:;;tern wagon m, the CsliIornia, or ~imply the n was essentially a family might expect, a number wives

ese personal accounts, however, Vffl have just read. !IIuse when the married woman moe opened before her. She was eal womanhood" and was going )IS of living and new ways of o abandon nineteenth century en. But as Johnny Faragher and men did not view the experience male enterprise from its very vay because "the supervision of and the moral and religious life lin degree of real autonomy and

those of their husbands and I, leaving a eonventional home came a threat beeause it often red. Rather than responding to .ral and domestic restrictions, as ober, Mrs. Frink, and Susan lewed their new adventure as pberes of activity, morality, " The husbands of these women ~, opportunities, and ehances Irt. Thus, the frontier offered to y. positive values, but isolation

.men did not ehoose pioneering, lIed with lond complaints about and families to the frontier, In

le diaries, l expected to find en, comments about how they v they hated the hardships of ! loneliness and isolation that it 'rueh I expected to find are ones uld certainly make if they were

placed in a similar situation. Therefore, I was struck by the lack in these women's diaries of strong statements about their conflicts. I simply could not believe that in one hundred years, the feelings and reactions that a woman would probably experience when placed in a situation which imposed such physical and emotional hardships upon her could change so radically. Consequently, I sifted through hundreds and perhaps even thousands of pages in the diaries, pages relating domestic duties such as baking bread, washing clothes, preparing food for the next day's travel, preserving what little food they found on the trail and nursing the sick. I noted descriptions of eampsites, number of miles covered each day, details about scenery, and details about weather. I found relatively few statements about how the women felt emotionally or psychologically about their impo.sed loneliness, the physical hardships, and the rigorous demands of the journey.

The sparse entries about feelings which I did find and which will now be recorded do suggest to me, however, that the married women may have felt strongly about many things but did not feel comfortable stating so directly. The women seem to handle their veiled complaints in rather odd and unexpected ways, ways which may have contributed to our impression of them as simple women with few conflicts about their lives. Some women simply accepted their fate, did what they had to do as pioneers, and wrote as objectively as possible their accounts of their experiences. They wrote in simple language without any overt complaints about their feelings regarding these experiences. For example, Lavinia Porter recalls her experience as she leaves her home and family in Kansas:

I m..ver recall that sad parting hom my dear sister ou the plains of Kansll5 wHhout Ihl' tl'8n flowing fad and free .... \\'l' Wl'rl' the eldest of a large family, and the ooud of affection lind love thai l'ri~led between us was strong inderd .... a., ~he with the other friends turned 10 leave me for the ferry which Wll5 to tne them back home and civilization, 1stood alone on that wild prairie. Looking westward I saw my hllsband driving slowly over the plain; turning my face once more to the east, my dear sister's footsteps were fast widenin!\ the dldam,e between us. For the time I knew not which way to go, nor whom to follow. Bllt in a few mom..nls I nillied mr forces ... and sl><Jn overtook the slowl> moving o~en who W"Ie bearing my husband and child OVl'r lhl' green prairie... the llnbidden tean would flow in .Ipite of my bra\'l' resl}h'~ to be the courageous and valiant (Iooti",nwoman."

The language is simple and the tone is sad but not impassioned, as we might expect since we suspect that many women were quite opposed to going West. Despite the sadness that Lavinia or any woman starting West may have felt, most women were not Willing to turn their backs on their own immediate families because they

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loved their husbands and families and wanted to hold their families together. Yet, they were also bound by the expectations of their society to hold the family together regardless of the cost to them personally, a laudable aim, but perhaps very restrictive on the women's personal freedom of choice. She was damned if she stayed home and let her husband go alone not only because she was giving up the man she loved, but also because she was breaking up her immediate family, an aetion condemned by nineteenth century society. She could not insist that the entire family stay home because then she was imposing her will upon her husband's wishes, and thar was tampering with the order of things prescribed by religion and the code. She might also be damned if she pioneered because she left her own home and conven60nal society, her sphere of domesticity and morality might be hopelessly fractured. Consequently, she had to "rally her forces," to use Mrs. Porter's words, to become the "courageous and valiant frontierswoman" who tried to recreate a home and the conventions of society on the frontier and to complain as little as possible about her fate. Yet beneath the objecUve statements like the one Mrs. Porter makes, we may surmise that the pioneer woman had strong and conflicting feelings about leaving her home and family.

Mrs. Byron Pengra tells about the endless stream of work that faced her on the journey, both new work not prescribed by the code, such as driving the cattle, gathering buffalo chips, and setting up camp, as well as her usual work load of cooking, washing, nursing sick, and doing other domestic chores. In her diary, she admits that the journey is more difficult than she had thought it would be and that for her there is "no rest in such a journey."u She expresses her loneliness but also her awareness that she must submit to her husband's decision to pioneer: "I felt that indeed I had left all my friends save my husband and his brother, to journey over the dreaded Plains, without one female acquaintance even for a companion, of course I wept and grieved about it but to no purpose:' (pp. 15-16). She realizes she must accompany her husband; therefore, she tries to make the best of it. When asked if she wishes she had not come, she says, .. if I had known the terror and disadvantage of such a storm as we witnessed last night, I should not have started, for I should not have thought I could have lived through it, but I have and feel pretty well:' (p. 19) She expresses dismay at the poor way the travelers celebrate the Lord's day; they either travel or they stop, they repair wagons, wash clothing, etc. Near the end of the diary, she expresses only slight discouragement:

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md wanted to hold their families tnd by the expectations of their I' regardless of the cost to them perhaps very restrictive on the e. She was damned if she stayed i not only because she was giving ecause she was breaking up her demned by nineteenth century ! entire family stay home because I] her hllSband's wish~, and that Mng:!l prescribed by religion and lif she pioneered Decause she left lclety, her sphere of domesticity ~actured. Consequently, she had Porter's warch, to become the

roman" who tried to recreate a 'on the frontier and to complain lte. Yet beneath the objective makes, we may surmise that the rnfIicting feeling-; about leaving

the endla-; stream of work that work not prescribed by the code, tg buffalo chips, and setting up u:t of eooking, washing, nursing 1lS. In her diary, she admits that ~ had thought it would be and l a joumey."lB She expresses her that she must submit to her

It that indeed I had left aU my brother, to journey over the

laIe acquaintance even for a :I grieved. about it but to no r.es she mrnt accompany her re the be>t of it, When asked if r, "if I had known the terror and ri.tnessed last night, I should not Ie thought I eould have lived tty well:' (p, 19) She expresse; I celebrate the Lord's day; they iii' wagons, wash clothing, etc, l!lIIlS only slight discouragement:

"I am somewhat discouraged and shall be glad when the journey is ended," (p. 53) Yet, she does not dwell on her discouragement; she simply says that she is discouraged,

Another anonymous diary written on the Overland Trail speaks briefly about a woman's grief at leaving friends and her awareness of her role as a wife. She says, I "have thought of home and loved ones and of the long time that must intervene before I see them, I know if I put my tru.st in God and my du ty, [as a wifeJHe will take care of me."U She knows her duty lies with her husband and family as well as with her own religious state. Even though she is aware of what is expected of her, the thought, "I wonder how many [days] must pass before I can have the privilege of again seeing the loved ones at home" keeps plaguing her. She records the camp sites, the weather, and the work required of her, as well as the travel conditions. Yet, she doesn't eomplain loudly, She simply says, "have passed over the most horrible roads ever traveled by man or beast, unfit for a wagon of any kind; but here we are and must brave it through. All I ask is strength of understanding 10 foot it over the WDrst:' Even when the jo'uney overland is completed, her lot doesn't get much better. She arrives in Placerville in 1851 and finds many letters awaiting her. She enjoys reading the letters, but they make her feel acutely aware of the distance between her and her family and friends. Just three weeks after arriving, she writes. "1 am all alone, George has gone to the express offiee. He left his jaek knife to defend myself'" Knowing the fear that she must be living under, we might expect this woman to feel sorry for herself and in a confessional style, to tell us about her complaints. This is not the case, however, as she simply says, in a seemingly indifferent fashion, that this is the way things are.

We are all aware that it took courage for the women to pioneer, and in the married women's diaries, the women reveal how much eourage it took. For example, Sarah Roycc traveled from the East to Iowa and then waited several months before taking the next stage of the journey. The day Mrs. Royce and her family were seheduled to leave on the second half of the trip, the weather was gloomy and rain seemed eertain. In her reminiseences, Mrs. Royce says that she knows her duty and that she will not delay their departure for fear of the weather because she has made up her mind to go; therefore, she knows that she will have to meet bravely whatever comes. She knows the journey is going to be difficult. but admits that she is not adequately prepared for camping out at night, with nothing to protect her and her family except the thin piece of canvas that covers

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the wagon. Nevertheless, Mr.>. Royce ignores the shrinking in her heart at the prospect of.mch accommodations. She says, "I kept it all to myself and we were soon busy making things as comfortable as we could for the night. "14 Sarah Royce, like other women in the nineteenth century, clings to her religion for strength. When told that she will be left alone with her child in the middle of the desert, she writes, "I made no opposition; I felt no inclination to oppose; though I knew the helplessness and loneliness of the position would be greatly increased. But that calm strength, that certainty of One near and all sufficient hushed and cheered me." (p. 45) Like other Igood mothers, her only fears are for her child. "What if I should be taken and leave my little Mary motherless? Or, still more distracting thought--what if we [her husband and herself] both should be laid low and she be left a destitute orphan, among strangers," (p. 17) But when these worries plague her, she says that she prays to God and commits both herself and her child into his hands. After she has done this, she can say from her heart, "Thy will be done," and feel "strong for duty and endurance," (p.17) those cherished virtues of the nineteenth century.

Despite the courage which Sarah Royce's words reveal, other comments suggest that she continues to long for the home she had before she came West. Only after she reaches her destination, California, does she admit how much she misses her home: "However brave a face I might have put on most of the time, I knew my coward heart was yearning all the while for a home-nest and a welcome into it," (p. 72) Sarah doesn't complain about the poorly eowtructed shack. the laek of privacy, and the poor equipment she has to set up housekeeping, She merely says that she "had never before realized the worth of quiet domestic life." (p.103) Because these women seem to be so objective about and accepting of the hardships they encounter. it is easy to see why we perceive them as simple women without conflicts. Yet perhaps the fact that they understate their negative reacHom by writing so sparsely and I objectively about them should suggest something to us about the pressure that they may have felt to behave in a manner aeeeptable to I their society,

All of the diaries thus far have contained relatively objective comments about these women's responses to the hardships on the frontier. Still other women handled their eomplaints differently. For example, Mollie Sanford writes:

My heart has been like a turbul"nt stream, wh~e waters rush on in quenllous molion My little bark d....h"S oul on the turbulent wan", t<Jday. It

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roe ignores the shrinking in her ImClations. She says, "I kept it all aling things a~ comfortable a~ we !)'re, like other women in the digion for strength. When told ~hild in the middle of the desert, I felt no inclination to oppose; loneliness of the position would :strength, that certainty of One cheered me." (p. 45) Like other r her child. "What if I should be lerl~? Or, still morc distracting IlDd herself! both should be laid n, among strangers." (p. 17) But sa)'s that she prays to God and

o.to his hands. After she has done "Thy will be done." and feel p.17) those cherished virtues of

cab Royce's words reveal, other :!S to long for the home she had r she reaches her destination, much she misses her home: put on most of the time, I knew :he while for a home-nest and a sn't complain about the poorly t:y, and the poor equipment she erely says that she "had never domestic life." (p.103) Because ve about and accepting of the 10 see why we perceive them as (et perhaps the fact that they s by writing so sparsely and ~t something to us about the ~have in a manner acceptable to

~ contained relatively objective ponses to the hardships on the d their complaints differently.

lent stream. whlEe waters rush on in ~ out on the turbulent W;l~e'5 tod"Y' It

~hould !lIlV,," been m<Xlred in II quiet harbor. I sit llltlessly with dripping oars, lind hel'd not it> wll}'Ward direction. Over th .. dark rher I see the green ShOT""

and bright 5uruohine I ean behold but nol reachl Musl 1 thlB recklessly claih along ",ilhpul onl'effort to make the brighter side? Must I remain in the shadow when I might reach the sunshine? Ro",e faint heart. Does not everything of beauty beckon me ashoI1""/

Therel My effort has .\a~ed me. [ leave the troubled water~ behind."

I To some, the language in this entry may secm trite and

sentimental. Yet knowing the hardships and deprivations that these women so obvionsly endured. we must be aware of the emotions , behind Mollie's 'MJrds. Perhaps the explanation for Mollie's use of trite and sentimental words to express deep and strong emotion is not so complicated as it may seem. Because of the way nineteenth century society expected women to behave - to be submissive to husbands as well as obedient and devoted a~ wives and mothers, the women who went West were not encouraged to express direetly any anger, resentment, and frustration which they might have had. As contemporary readers, we might qUe'ition how these women did expr~s themselves. Some women evidently said nothing; they didn't write diaries and suffered none the worse for it. Other women remained silent and went insane. Perhaps still others found a way to expres.~ themselves without being thought rebellious. Because women were supposed to have an abundance of emotions, they were not cha~tized by their society if they beeame emotional and sometimes even maudlin in expressing how they felt. Consequently, the anger, resentment, and frustration which these pioneer women may have felt were sometimes redirected into composing sentimental entries like the one just quoted. Also, knowing how anguished most women are when they lose a child, we may suspect that Mollie Sanford, in the following entry, may be channeling her anger and resentment into an acceptable mode:

J After many Wf'els I again seek my Journal. On the 28th of August m~' little

babe was bnrn, a beautiful boy, but he did not stay with us, GocIto..,k him to hil fold. this one pet lamb. Wlren I fil"it looked on his face. he 'Ilia.< in hi~ little enrfin, dr=ed in one of thO' ~weetest of the robe< I had made. into whose

I ,titche-; I had woven dreams of my angel haby. (p. 157)

Once again, the euphemistic statements like "God took him to his fold, this one pet lamb" may be Mollie's way of redirecting her agony at losing a baby, partially as the result of the poor conditions she is living under. Like the mother in the Ladies Parlor Companion who bows her head in submission when her baby and her toddler near death, Mollie realizes she must not lash out at her fate. Instead she couches her thoughts in words which are very sentimental, but which are entirely acceptable to her society as words women use to

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express their fe('lings. Ella Bailey, another married woman who settles in Weld

County, Colorado, evidently shares some of Mollie's feelings about living on the frontier. Ella cooks for the men on her farm and, in her diary, records the huge amounl~ of food. needed, fifty-one pies one day and twenty-three the next. as well as three thousand cookies and fifteen loaves of bread. Her response to the work she has to do is to say "home is where the heart is. Love will make endurable a thing which else would ovcrsd the brain or break Lhe heart,»l6 In another place, Ella writes of her loneliness. "Looking for Mr. Bailey home. Seems like he has been gone a month though the days are forty-eight hours long in Colorado and the Sundays seventy-two hours long." Later she says, "by myself today. Everything [is) as still and loudy looking as a grave yard." I have "been thinking of home. I can't help but wish I had never seen Colorado. It is lonesome and desolate. If being here didn't make one think of home. I don't know what would:' In these passages, unlike the more objective entries, we note Ella's lorty-eight hour days and her seventy-two hour Sundays...0\150 some of her expressions seem cliched, "home is where the heart is," and "lonply looking as a grave yard." Certainly Ella, like many other lonely women stranded on isolated homesteads all over the frontier, must have felt that the days really were that long and Sundays even longer. Obviomly Ella is not a literary artist; therefore, it is natural for her to use cliches to express herself. Yet it also seems possible that Ella Bailey may have chosen these trite cliches rather than more plain and graphic worck of her own beeause these cliches do not threaten the values of her society. In using them. she is not actively expressing a complaint about her fate as a lonely woman on a homestead. Thus the ~liche-ridden,

sentimentalized language Which charactcrizes eertain entries made by pioneer women may not only be the najve language of simple, uneducated women, bLlt also an aceeptable way for them to express their negative feelin~ about pioneering in a nineteenth century society which prescribed their behavior and attitudes lor them.

Some women, despite the unpleasantness of the eonditions of pioneering, tended to deal with their reactions to their experiences by euphemizing them in their diaries, journals or reminiseences. We cannot know that they didn't feel about the experiences as they say they did, but we can gain some sense of the validity of their responses by determining to whom they wrote. For example, Harriet Sherrill Ward writes her journal specifically to send to the folks back home. She is so conscious of her nineteenth century audience that

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I woman who settles in Weld 5 SQme of Mollie's feelings about 'the men on her farm and, in her : foOO needed, fifty-one pies one ell as three thousand cooki~ and Ie to the work she has to do is to we will make endurable a thing 1:1£ break the heart. "j~ In another "Looling for Mr. Bailey home.

1 though the days are forty-eight ndays seventy-two hours long'" :verything [is] as still and lonely m thinking of home. I ean"t heJp I. It is lonesome and desolate. If of home, I don't know what

~ more objective entries, we note seventy-two hour Sundays. Also ~. "home is where the heart is," rd." Certainly Ella, like many Dlated homesteads all over the lays really were that long and Ella is not a literary artist;

i e1iche:s to express herself. Yet it y may have ehosen these trite Jd graphie words of her own 1m the values of her society. In IlSing.ll. eomplaint about her fate tead. Thus the cliche-ridden. U'acterizes: certain entries made ~ the naive language of simple, eptable way for them to express lering in a nineteenth century vior and attitudes for them. :easantne;s of the conditions of it reactions to their experiences I, journals or reminiscences. We )()t.It the experiences as they say sense of the validity of their leY wrote. For example, Harriet :ifically to send to the folks back leteenth century audience that

she addressf':§ it saying that they would laugh if they could peek at the camp at that moment:

!t is just four months today since we left our dear home and friends, perhaps forever, and have since been leading this wild wandering, gypsy life. Oh when will the day arrive when we can say this journey is over? You may possibly infer from this remark that I am becoming weary of this mode of life but iudeed, my dear children, were you all with u~ lind our horses fresh it would notwithstllnding all it!; hardships be to me a P':'rf.,.;:t pleasure trip. There is so much variety and excitement about it, and the ~nery through which we are corntantly passing i~ so wild and magnificently grand that it elevates the soul from earth to heaven and cau5eS su{'h an elll..ticity of mind that I forget I am old. Indeed I sometimes feel a., if I should take the wing; of morning and fiy awav. 17

and later: We have passed the entire summer in this wild, wandering way, toiled

onward day lifter day, week after week and month after month toward that far off land where thousands have gone belore us to die of diSllppointment, and perhaps no better fate awaits mauy of 115. I often look about me and wonder who of all the numerous throng by which we are surrounded are to be favorites of Dame Fortune; but the anxiety of all seems to be to reach our antiC'ipated goal, and when rea<:hed I presume our anxieties will only take a new form. It will no longer be, 'Huw soon shall we get there?' but 'What shall we do, nO'"-' we are here?' (p. 152)

and finally, when they reach California, when they are isolated and eompletely hemmed in by the snow-elad mountains;

But so it 'I. Here ....e are like Rasselas of old, shut LIp in the happy valley and like him, wilhing tll be liberated and trembling to mingle with thl' world again, But my mollo hll.'i bt"t>n 'Hope on, hope ever;' and now my dear friends, on this bright and beautiful morn of the 10th of April I will bid you all Goodbye anu pray that om H"av"nly Fa.ther will ble~s a.nd protect vou all (po 171)

Obviously Mrs. Ward is a well-read woman. Her referencc in the first entry to the "elasticity of mind" that she feels as a result of the beautiful scenery reminds us of Wordsworth and his transportation of mind, In the seeond passage. her reference to the favorites of "Dame Fortune" recalls Chaucer and the medieval .....heel of fortune, The last entry even mentions Rasselas. the main character in Samuel Johnson's book of the same name, and equates her o.....n entrapment in the valley of California to Rasselas' confinement in his valley. Thus her experiences as a pioneer are related in a fairly formal and self-consciously literary fashion which plays do.....n the hardships and realities of the journey and emphasizes the felicities of it.

Another woman, Arvazine Angeline Cooper, expresses her feelings about pioneering in a similar, if less literary, fashion, We recognize her reluctance to express her negative feelings about her

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-experience beeause of what she says about telling her kinfolk and neighbon: good-bye: "10 brooding over all this, I let a kind of wordless grief take posse.~sion of me, I kept it all to myself, and shed my tears when others were asleep and kept up appearances so well that no one suspeeted I was not Tea~onably happy."IB In similar fashion, she plays down her condition when she goes into labor and stops the progress of the wagon train. She describes herself as being "in a poor fix to travel.·' (p. 148) After having the baby, instead of dwelling on all of the gruC50me details uf givillg blrth inside a co\'ered wagon surrounded by restless cattle, Mrs. Cooper says in one sentence, "At two o'clock a little blue-eyed brother came to our wagon to share the honors and favors with the black.eyed belle." (p. 1413) Certainly Mrs. Cooper must have had great self-discipline to write about such a momentous event so succinctly and in such terms. After the birth of her baby. she says that the narrative will now become so personal that she must write about her...elf in the third person. Therefore. instead of writing directly about her fears of the wagon turning over when the team runs off with it. she says: "The mother had long since resigned herself to the inevitable, and made no outcry, thinking if she only knew which way the wagun wuukl turn when it went over, as surely it must, she might somehow be able to keep her baby more safe, till she became sensible that the movement was decide!)' slowe.." (p. 1.')0) Later, instead of eomplaiuing auout the strains of nursing a new baby while traveling in a wagon train. she writes about herself as though she were another person or a person in a novel. "The poor mother was not able to steep a wink while the wagon was in motion. she was in excredingty sore straits, for there was nothing in the limited variety of food available that the baby would eat. However, sre 'A'as saved from utter despair by another mother whose sick baby would eat very little, and so the good woman coneeived the idea of feeding her baby for he.." (p. 152) Again, like Mrs. Ward, Mrs. Cooper does not write directly about her negative feelings but tries to soften them by putting her remarks in the third person, in perspective as literature rather than a confession of her own ft:'t:lings.

After looking at these entries from various diarie<> and jonrnals written by married women, we may realize that the simple physical pieture<> that they pre.~ent of themselves are very similar to the one historians have drawn of them. For example, if we look at Dee Brown's book. The Gentle Tamers. written in 1958, we note that he entitles his first chapter. "The Sunbonnet Myth." In it, he pose<> the qUe<>tions, "Who was the Western woman?" "What wa~ sh€ like, this;

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liYS about tclling her kinfolk and Ig over aU this, I let a kind of e, I kept it all to myself, and shed and kept up appearances so well reuonably happy."'8 In similar tfon when she goes into labar and Lin. She describes herself as being rUter having the baby, instead of details of giving birth inSide a tless cattle, Mrs. Cooper says in ie blue-eyed brother came to our IrS with the black-eyed belle." (p. bave had great self-discipline to ltSO SUCCinctly and in such terms. i8.}'S that the narrative will now write about herself in the third ~g directly about her fear.~ of the 1 runs off with it, she says: "The :self to the inevitable, and made !W which way the wagon would it must, she might somehow be :ill she became sensible that the " (p. 150) Later, instead of fling a new baby while traveling IUt herself as though she were !Vel. "The poor mother was not gon was in motion, she was in ilII nothing iu the limited variety aid eat. However, she was saved her whose sick baby would eat ~nceived the idea of feeding her [n. Ward, Mrs, Cooper does not dings but tries to soften them by ~n, in perspective as literature feelings.

om various diaries and journals realize that the simple physical

lves are very' similar to the one Ir example, if we look at Dee mtten in 1958, we note that he IDnet Myth." In it, he poses the Iman?" "What was she like, this

gentle, yel persistent tamer of the wild land that was the American West?,,19 His initial, but forceful, answer is a quote from Emerson Hough who saw the pioneer woman as a patient and submissive figure in a sunbonnet:

Tht> chielligure of t~ Americiln \Vest, the figure of the ages, i< not the long_haired. fringed-legging man riding II raw-boned pony, but tht> gaunt and jad-f"~",,d woman sitting Oll lht> Iront Sl'at of the wagon, following her lord wh"'" he might lead, her fael' hiddETJ in the same ragged suobonnet which had crOlSed the Apfllal'hiam and the Mi>'iOlui long before. (p. 2)

Nancy Wilson Ross, in her book Westward the Women, written in 1944, describes the wOmen who came We5t as women who came, "in tight-lipped protest, simply because their man had caught the virulent Oregon Fever and there was nothing to do but follow."20 Yet, she too praises these women for their lack of self-pity and for their fortitude and gallantry:

Life demanded of them a standard of conduct that fen little short of heroism. Yet thnugh it Wa5 difficullllJ the far \ .... e:;t to avoid acting the part of a heroine. wOrneU did not think 01 them<elve:; in such a role. They 'luidl~

ac'<Xpted .lI.5 a part of the pioneer e~p"rienc~ the n€(''eS5ity for courage and endnranct' In the face of any emergency. Ip. 182)

Even Walter Prescott in The Great Plains speaks of the courage and endurance which the plains demanded from women who tried to settle there: "The loneliness which women endured on the Great Plains must have been such as to crush the soul, provided one did not meet the isolation with an adventurous spirit."21

These historical portraits, then, are synonymous with the physical portraits that the women reveal of themselves in their diaries and journals. Occasionally the entries reveal the pioneer women's concern with the laek of religious opportunity, with the upset in their domestic lives, and with the loneliness that they had to face, but only briefly and in relatively objective, sentimentalized, or euphemistic words that were aceeptable to their society, not in any overtly critieal remarks about their lot as women. As contemporary readers, we might expect that these women would have said more about their negative reaetions to going West. Yet, we must also realize that these women, partieularly the wives and mothers, had internalized the values of their own society so completely that they rarely revealed any direct opposition to or conflict about them. They presented portraits of themselves which we readily aceepted, portraits like the following written b}' Catherine Amanda Scott Coburn:

Having b...,,, asked to define or describe ",oman's 5tation in pioneer life. I, intuitively, after the manner of woman re.ll'0n.d, ¥ioman's station in piOIlt'l'r dap was that of the true WOnlan in all time lind conditiorl5, faithful to du~-.

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-ll~lfilh de\lotiou to the intereo;ts of the lami!"; loyal ~upp<Jr\ of patriotic and religious inten~b !lod primitiYf> (·hurch instituti<:>ll:;; prumpt to answer the call {If neighborhood needs; ready, in brief, for the duty Ihllt la~' nearest. Woman fillEd her station in the pioneer era lIS she hilS filled it in all eras of the world's pro~.-helprull}. cheerfully, and with daily widE'ning pUfJXl..e.."

Certainly, as Naner Ross Wilson suggests, it might be interesting "to speculate what the effect would have been on the woman marching weshvard into the unknown America of the forties, the fifties, and the sixties had there been photographers, gossip columnists, and staff membPTS of women's magazines to observe them at given points along the route: at Independence, Missouri, for instance, where they began the journey toward the limitless hoTizon; on the other side of the Platt, whpr€ many a new widow would have turned back had there been anyone to accompany her; or finally on the crest of the Continental Divide with the fabled hardships supposed now behind them."n However. we have no such record. The only records which we have lead us to see the pioneer women as simple, courageous, submissive, and patient women. Consequently, we can only guess at the intensity of emotion, and perhaps conflict, that may lip behind these tenuous entries and recognize that perhaps these objectives, s.entimentaHzed, and euphemistic ('ntries are written evidence of how nineteenth century pioneer women could deal with their feelings and reactions. Thus the diaTies become documents of society's expectations met rather than the graphic truths of pioneer women confess('d.

Littleton. Colorado

SOTES

'Ba,bar. WaJ"'r, "The Cull 01 True Wu",.nh<l>'C<l, 1~2(1_1S80:' '''iginally publ;'h<d in A ....""on (J""rler'V. XVIII (Summer, 1900), 151·174, r.prmle<J in ()~, ,~ ...ncon 5",,,,,,. ech .. J.an E Fri<d",". and \.I'm",,,, C, Shade {B",'an, Allyn and Baona lno.• 1(1';31, r. 00

'''I ... A. J Cra,.., ft~m Woman ;n A",,,,,,,,,,· !king On E<o""nolrOn ;n'o lA..· -"10",1 ond 10"II,,-h,01 {;"";'liaM of A",,,,,,,,,n F"""I, Sodl'1y IS....... York, H-orp" a"d B"" , 1!!4 II ..printed in Root of a,it..,.,...", <d , Nan<1 F. Con {No'" Yurk, E, P, Dulton &, CO [DC., 18721. p, U

'AI••., deT"","...-ilie. --On Am""';o.n Women ."dAmen,an Wi'.... (,am ,\I""i.<d. TOCqu«',Ue, De..OCTI7'11 ;n America, I"", Hen') fl. rev. ed, (New York, Colom.1 J>r...,. IM\l!. VoL II. pp 2Clll-2nZ21-2114. ",prinre<! in Rao' oj B"" p 117,

'II"", Boll, --Pi.".' of II~ 1Ie11-- lunpuhlished ",.u"-,,,ripl in Colorado $t... Hi"o",·.1 ~<ci,"" Museum Libr.')', Den..r Col,,,.do)

~'To Pikes p~..k by P._W.~on _Th. H."i.' S",il Do<' Book:' <d . FI.min~ Fr_, Je ..4""01. oj ;0""0. 10"". St.le Dep.r\m~u, of Hi<to') a"J A",hh'e>, Thi'd Set'''', Vol. xxxv, 2 IFoII. 1959).

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the family; luyll1 support of patTiotic and reb iratitutiolU; pTOmpt to answer the call W. for the duty that lay near€.lt. WomanII_ has fiUed it in all eTas of the world's lrith daily widening purposes."

Wilson suggeo;ts, it might be ~ effect would have becn on the f the unknown America of the

had. there been photographers, :tben; of women's magazines to ng the route: at Independence, ,.. began the journey toward the of the Platt, where many a new

k had there been anyone to Cre>t of the Continental Divide I now behind them. "23 However, 'tlCOros which we have lead us to ~. courageous, submissive, and can only guess at the intensity of It may lie behind these tenuous hese objeetives, spntimpntalizPd, ~n evidence of how ninpleenth Nith their feelings and reactions. is of society's expectations met oneer wompn confessPd.

Littleton. Colorado

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'A Bride 00 ,he 8"""""n Troil·_ Tht L,".... • nd D;,,']1 '" Lllrn fk,d",,· 15M...... non,,,, D. Ho,n.. J' (Medforo. O,e~on, Cud.", P'in"n~ Ctn,e,. In' .. 19,0)

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