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Dorji ThinlayChief Investigation OfficerAnti-corruption commissionThimphu Bhutan
www.acc.org.btACC Delegation, Maldives & Timor-Leste, 10 - 15 July, 2011
Universal Human Value
5th
Nation’s Conscience Nation’s Conscience
Lead by ExampleLead by Example
If you Care, You will DareIf you Care, You will Dare
XX OO XX
OO XX OO
XX OO XX
Objective - Score Maximum points.Objective - Score Maximum points.
Each straight line scores 5 points.Each straight line scores 5 points.
You get 30 seconds, (you need only 15 seconds)You get 30 seconds, (you need only 15 seconds)
Exercise on Team Work
Brain teaserConscious invoker
XX OO XX
OO XX OO
XX OO XX
Points = 5Points = 5
Team Work: Competitive
OO XX XX
XX OO OO
XX OO OO
Points = 5Points = 5
Team Work: Competitive
XX OO XX
XX OO XX
XX OO XX
Points = 15Points = 15
Team Work: Self endeavour
XX XX XX
XX XX XX
XX XX XX
Points = 15 + 15 = 30Points = 15 + 15 = 30
Team Work
Excellence
OO OO OO
OO OO OO
OO OO OO
Points = 15 + 15 = 30Points = 15 + 15 = 30
Team Work: Supportive
Excellence
Scores, how many scored:Scores, how many scored:
1.1. Zero = Zero =
2.2. Five = Five =
3.3. Ten =Ten =
4.4. Fifteen =Fifteen =
5.5. Thirty = Thirty =
6.6. Any other =Any other =
We talk about Team Work.
Do we pause for a minute, analyze and think how one could contribute?
What is this so called What is this so called ’Human Value’’Human Value’??
Human Conduct or Behaviour based on Human Conduct or Behaviour based on
one’s Natural Acceptance verified on one’s Natural Acceptance verified on
one’s Own Rightone’s Own Right
What is this Natural Acceptance?What is this Natural Acceptance?
Natural Acceptance is :-Natural Acceptance is :-
- Innate Self- Innate Self
- Inner self- Inner self
- Natural Self (coming from heart)- Natural Self (coming from heart)
- Un-corrupt Self- Un-corrupt Self
We want to be happyWe want to be happy
We want to be prosperousWe want to be prosperous
We want the continuity of We want the continuity of happiness and happiness and prosperityprosperity
Are we happy?Are we happy?
Are we prosperous?Are we prosperous?
Is there continuity of our Is there continuity of our happiness and happiness and prosperity?prosperity?
DesireDesire State of BeingState of Being
What is the Ultimate Goal (desire) as a What is the Ultimate Goal (desire) as a Human Being?Human Being?
Happiness is being in HarmonyHappiness is being in Harmony
Disharmony or Contradiction means (brings) = UnhappinessDisharmony or Contradiction means (brings) = Unhappiness
Prosperity is Prosperity is FeelingFeeling of having more than required Physical of having more than required Physical Facilities.Facilities.
Then the feeling of not having more than required Physical Then the feeling of not having more than required Physical Facility = Deprivation. Facility = Deprivation.
Living in Living in HarmonyHarmony with: with:
1.1. SelfSelf
2.2. Other SelfOther Self
3.3. Family Family
4.4. Society Society
5.5. Nature Nature
6.6. UniverseUniverse
FeelingFeeling of having more than of having more than required Physical Facilities.required Physical Facilities.
Ingredient forIngredient forHappinessHappiness ProsperityProsperity
Right UnderstandingCorrect assessment of need for
Physical Facilities.
Right Understanding
Living in Living in HarmonyHarmony with: with:
1.1. SelfSelf
2.2. Other SelfOther Self
3.3. Family Family
4.4. Society Society
5.5. Nature Nature
6.6. UniverseUniverse
FeelingFeeling of having more than of having more than required Physical Facilities.required Physical Facilities.
Ingredient forIngredient forHappinessHappiness ProsperityProsperity
For continuous happiness & prosperity
Continuous Right Understanding
Process of dialogue
More important dialogue
within SELF
Who is the biggest stranger
to you? Yourself
How Much???
Dialogue within SELF
How much do we understand
self?
Therefore,….
Dialogue within SELF
Right Understanding is deficientRight Understanding is deficient
Conclusion drawn based on:Conclusion drawn based on:
1.1.Pre-conditioningPre-conditioning
2.2.Assumption Assumption
RELATIONSHIP with human
beings
PHYSICAL FACILITY
with rest of nature
RIGHT UNDERSTANDING
in the self
MUTUAL HAPPINESS MUTUAL PROSPERITY
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Priority: Right Understanding of Relationship Priority: Right Understanding of Relationship & Physical Facility& Physical Facility
Feelings- Trust- Respect- …
RELATIONSHIPwith human
beings
PHYSICAL FACILITY
with rest of nature
RIGHT UNDERSTANDING
in the self
1?
?
Priority: Physical FacilityPriority: Physical Facility
UNHAPPINESS (Mutual) DEPRIVATION (Mutual)
Conflict, fight, war Exploitation, corruption
9 Feelings in relationship:9 Feelings in relationship:
1- Trust FOUNDATION VALUE2- Respect 3- Affection 4- Care5- Guidance
6- Reverence 7- Glory 8- Gratitude 9- Love COMPLETE
VALUE
Trust Trust = = to be assuredto be assured
= = to have the clarity that the other to have the clarity that the other wants to make me happy & wants to make me happy & prosperousprosperous
When there is Trust on Intention, you feel When there is Trust on Intention, you feel related to the otherrelated to the other
Absence of Trust on IntentionAbsence of Trust on Intention
= lack of assurance that the other intends my = lack of assurance that the other intends my happiness & prosperityhappiness & prosperity
Verify on the basis of your Verify on the basis of your natural acceptancenatural acceptance
1a. I 1a. I want to want to make myself make myself happyhappy
2a. I 2a. I want to want to make the other make the other happyhappy
3a. The other 3a. The other wants to wants to make make herself/himself happyherself/himself happy
4a. The other 4a. The other wants to wants to make make me happyme happy
Verify on the basis of your Verify on the basis of your
competencecompetence
1b. I 1b. I am able to am able to make myself make myself
always happy always happy ??
2b. I 2b. I am able to am able to make the other make the other
always happy always happy ??
3b. The other 3b. The other is able to is able to make make
herself/himself always happyherself/himself always happy??
4b. The other 4b. The other is able to is able to make me make me
always happyalways happy ?? ??
Evaluating Trust – Between 2 IndividualsEvaluating Trust – Between 2 Individuals
Intention – Natural Acceptance
What is Naturally Acceptable to MeCompetence
What I am (∑ D, T, E)
√
?
√
√
The other broke a glassThe other broke a glass
The other makes mistakes The other makes mistakes intentionallyintentionally
The other intended to break the The other intended to break the glass – The other is a bad glass – The other is a bad personperson
The glass broke by accidentThe glass broke by accident
I make mistakes by accidentI make mistakes by accident
Even if I make the same Even if I make the same mistake 100 times, I never mistake 100 times, I never doubt my intention – I always doubt my intention – I always feel I am a good personfeel I am a good person
About the Other About Myself About the Other About Myself
I evaluate my self on my intention (2a) ... I conclude “I am good”I evaluate the other on his competence (4b) ... I conclude “the other is bad”I conclude about the intention of the other on the basis of his competence ... I doubt his intentionIrritation, anger, condemning the other are indications of doubt on intention
Doubt on intention is a major reason for problems in relationships
When there is Trust on Intention, you feel When there is Trust on Intention, you feel related to the otherrelated to the other
Absence of Trust on Intention = lack of assurance Absence of Trust on Intention = lack of assurance that the other intends my happiness & that the other intends my happiness & prosperityprosperity
Check within yourselfCheck within yourselfHow many persons do you have trust on intention How many persons do you have trust on intention
(natural acceptance) (natural acceptance) – – unconditional, continuous?unconditional, continuous?
If you have unconditional, continuous trust on If you have unconditional, continuous trust on intention (natural acceptance) of the other and if intention (natural acceptance) of the other and if the other is lacking competence, what will you do:the other is lacking competence, what will you do:
a)a) Try to improve his competenceTry to improve his competenceb)b) Get irritatedGet irritatedc)c) Get angryGet angryd)d) Have a feeling of oppositionHave a feeling of opposition
This is fundamental. Trust on intention is the This is fundamental. Trust on intention is the foundation of relationshipfoundation of relationship
If Trust on Intention
If Doubt on Intention
Respect = Right EvaluationRespect = Right Evaluation
Over evaluationOver evaluation – to evaluate for more than what it is– to evaluate for more than what it is
Under evaluationUnder evaluation – to evaluate for less than what it is– to evaluate for less than what it is
Otherwise evaluationOtherwise evaluation – to evaluate for other than what it is– to evaluate for other than what it is
Whenever the evaluation is not right, it is disrespectWhenever the evaluation is not right, it is disrespect
Disrespect
RespectRespect
Respect: Respect: Right Evaluation on the basis of the Self (I)Right Evaluation on the basis of the Self (I)
1.1. PurposePurpose I want to live with continuous happiness & prosperityI want to live with continuous happiness & prosperity The other also wants to live with continuous happiness & prosperityThe other also wants to live with continuous happiness & prosperity
Our purpose is similar (on the basis of Natural Acceptance)Our purpose is similar (on the basis of Natural Acceptance)2.2. ProgramProgram
My program is to My program is to understand and to live in harmony at all levelsunderstand and to live in harmony at all levels The program of the other is also to understand and to live in harmony at all The program of the other is also to understand and to live in harmony at all
levelslevels
Our program is similarOur program is similar3.3. PotentialPotential
Desire, Thought & ExpectationDesire, Thought & Expectation is continuous in me. I am endowed with Natural is continuous in me. I am endowed with Natural AcceptanceAcceptance
Desire, Thought & ExpectationDesire, Thought & Expectation is continuous in the other. The other is also is continuous in the other. The other is also endowed with Natural Acceptanceendowed with Natural Acceptance
Our potential is similarOur potential is similar
The Other is Similar to Me The Other is Similar to Me I feelfeel related Do not doubt IntentionDoubt his Competency Feeling: make him understandI am committed to facilitate understanding in the other
DifferentiationDifferentiation
Differentiation = Disrespect Differentiation = Disrespect
Not Naturally Acceptable… Opposition…Not Naturally Acceptable… Opposition…
Evaluation on the basis of Body, Physical Facility or Beliefs Evaluation on the basis of Body, Physical Facility or Beliefs (preconditioning) turns out to be differentiation and therefore (preconditioning) turns out to be differentiation and therefore disrespectdisrespect
Differentiation
Body Physical Facility Beliefs
Age Gender PostWealth Isms Physical Strength
Race Sects Info
Self Confidence, Ego & DepressionSelf Confidence, Ego & DepressionRight Evaluation Over Evaluation Under / Otherwise
Evaluation
Self Confidence Ego Depression
I am self referential The other is my reference The other is my reference
Definite Conduct Indefinite Conduct Indefinite Conduct
Check within Yourself! Check within Yourself!
The unhappiness in your family isThe unhappiness in your family is More due to lack of More due to lack of physical facilityphysical facility or or More due to lack of fulfillment in More due to lack of fulfillment in relationshiprelationship??
How much time and effort are you investing:How much time and effort are you investing: For For physical facilityphysical facility For fulfillment in For fulfillment in relationshiprelationship
The unhappiness is more due to lack of fulfillment The unhappiness is more due to lack of fulfillment in in relationshiprelationship
Most of the time and effort is spent for Most of the time and effort is spent for physical physical facilityfacility
Therefore we can observe two categories of Therefore we can observe two categories of human beingshuman beings
1.1. Lacking Lacking physical facilityphysical facility, unhappy deprived, unhappy deprived
2.2. Having Having physical facilityphysical facility, unhappy deprived, unhappy deprived
AffectionAffectionThe feeling of being related to the otherThe feeling of being related to the other
(acceptance of the other as one’s (acceptance of the other as one’s relative)relative)
One naturally feels related to the other when one has One naturally feels related to the other when one has the feelings of Trust and Respect in oneself for the the feelings of Trust and Respect in oneself for the otherother
Absence of Affection = Opposition, JealousyAbsence of Affection = Opposition, Jealousy
Feeling of responsibility Feeling of responsibility toward the body of my toward the body of my relativerelative
The responsibility & The responsibility & commitment for commitment for nurturingnurturing and and protecting protecting the Body of the Body of my relativemy relative
Feeling of responsibility Feeling of responsibility toward the self(I) of my toward the self(I) of my relative relative
The responsibility & The responsibility & commitment for ensuring commitment for ensuring Right UnderstandingRight Understanding and and Right Feeling Right Feeling in the in the self(I) of my relativeself(I) of my relative
Care Care GuidanceGuidance
Care & Guidance naturally follow Affection
ReverenceReverenceThe feeling of acceptance for ExcellenceThe feeling of acceptance for Excellence
Excellence Excellence
Understanding Harmony &Understanding Harmony &
Living in HarmonyLiving in Harmony
The other is like me – I Trust, respect, care and guide…..The other is like me – I Trust, respect, care and guide…..
Excellence and competition are not similar.Excellence and competition are not similar.
In excellence, one helps to bring the other to his levelIn excellence, one helps to bring the other to his level
In competition, he hinders the other from reaching to his levelIn competition, he hinders the other from reaching to his level
at all 4 levels1. In the Self, as an Individual2. In Family3. In Society4. In Nature/Existence
Verify on the basis of your natural acceptance if you Verify on the basis of your natural acceptance if you want to be related want to be related to:to:
NoneNone
OneOne
ManyMany
EveryoneEveryone
Affection Affection – The feeling of being related to the other– The feeling of being related to the other
(acceptance of the other as one’s relative)(acceptance of the other as one’s relative)
Love – The feeling of being related to all (Complete Value)Love – The feeling of being related to all (Complete Value)
Affection
Love
X
√
√√
The feeling of being related to none – in opposition to allThe feeling of being related to oneThe feeling of being related to many
The feeling of being related to all
Program for Continuous HappinessProgram for Continuous HappinessTo understand the To understand the Harmony at all levels of our BeingHarmony at all levels of our Being
1.1. Harmony in the Human BeingHarmony in the Human Being
2.2. Harmony in the FamilyHarmony in the Family
3.3. Harmony in the SocietyHarmony in the Society
4.4. Harmony in Nature/ExistenceHarmony in Nature/Existence
To live in Harmony at all levels of our BeingTo live in Harmony at all levels of our Being1.1. As an IndividualAs an Individual
2.2. In FamilyIn Family
3.3. In SocietyIn Society
4.4. In Nature/ExistenceIn Nature/Existence
Scope of Understanding
Scope of Living
Right UnderstandingRight Understanding
RELATIONSHIP with human beings
PHYSICAL FACILITY
with rest of nature
RIGHT UNDERSTANDING
in the self
MUTUAL HAPPINESS MUTUAL PROSPERITY
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Living in Harmony at all 4 levels:
- Individual- Family- Society- Nature/Existence
Understanding Harmony:-Harmony in the Individual-Harmony in Family-Harmony in Society-Harmony in Nature/Existence
Living in Harmony at all 4 levels:-Individual-Family-Society-Nature/Existence
Living with Human Consciousness
MUTUAL HAPPINESS
MUTUAL PROSPERITY
Let’s Living with Human ConsciousnessLet’s live HappilyLet’s live ProsperouslyIt only takes Right Understanding