NAME : SITI KHADIJAH BINTI SAIDAIREGISTRATION NUMBERS: 03DIP11F1067
CLASS: DIP 1CLECTURER’S NAME: PN. NUZAIMAH
Create a positive image for yourself. Introduce yourself and have a 5 or 10
minute chat. In general, the more personal stuff
you talk about with a stranger, the stronger the connection you make with them.
Being part of a natural group.
An added advantage to making friends through a group is that
you can strengthen your friendships to several people at
once.
Secret social system in a group environment :
People divide themselves into smaller groups with seemingly similar people.
Hierarchy of leaders and followers.
Once you are placed into a certain category or stereotyped then that label sticks.
Refers to our ‘behavior’ Studies show that because of the psychological phenomenon of spontaneous trait transference, people unintentionally transfer to you the traits you ascribe to other people.
Seems artificial, but somehow, this makes us behave differently, it makes us more open to people, to make the effort to say more than a perfunctory hello.
Always Give Value. Don’t Take. Real friendship takes time to grow and
cannot be forced. All you can do is create the conditions that allow real friendship to form.
Studies show that the amount of time you smile during a conversation has a direct effect on how friendly you’re perceived to be.
In fact, people who can’t smile due to facial paralysis have trouble with relationships.