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FINDING A GIRLFRIEND
Guide for Finding Your Love..
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WHAT DOES A WOMAN WANT?
There's no way to generalize about what "all women want". Somewomen are attracted by the strong, protective type. Some
women like a quiet poet who will read with them. Some womenwant an active man who will bike and hike. Some women want a
smart guy, to do crossword puzzles with and share longconversations.
However, all women, like all human beings, want someone they
will *enjoy* being with.They want to be treated with kindness, tobe loved and cared for.They want to be accepted - really accepted
- for what they are. Women get more than enough prodding frommedia andTV to "be thinner" and "be younger" and "be sexier".
They want a guy who will let them know they are beautiful - justthe way they are.
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Always remember: there are no
men or women in a good
relationship! What do women want in relationships? What do men want in
relationships? It doesn't matter. What does matter? It matters whatpeople want in relationships. Women aren't a mysterious alien race.They're people, just like men. So to all you men out there: if youwant to get a girlfriend, and keep her, treat her like a person. Ifyou're with a girl that you can fall in love with and be with forever,you can be open, honest and straightforward about your feelings forher and what you want in a partner, and you can take at face valueeverything she says or does. If you are truly honest and treat her
with respect, and you find that her words and actions are misleadingor dishonest, tell her what you would want to hear in that situation.If you let her know it's okay for her to trust you and stop playinggames, and she's looking for the same things you are, you'll alwayshave success.
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Be Happy
One of the most important things a girl looks for in a guy is that theguy is happy withwhat he is. I'm not saying EGOSTISTICAL or selfsatisfied. But very few people in the world want to be aroundsomeone who is grumpy, angry and mean all the time.They want tohave fun, they want to have a good time. If you are a generallyhappy person, satisfied withwhat you have in life, girls will be drawnto that like a magnet.They will want to share in your happiness andbe happy too. So instead of looking at the bad side of things, look atthe good side. Appreciate the many good qualities you have and
cherish the great blessings you have in life.The more content youare with your world, the more likely that others will wish to join youin it.
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Be Where the Girls Are
Of course, the key to finding a girlfriend is talking with girls. You won'thave much chance if you are hanging out in a boys-only school!There aremany types of activities which tend to attract more girls than guys. If youfound a club or group near you, you probably would have an easy timemeeting with girls. Not only that, but you would have a built-in subject totalk about!
* Garden clubs* Dance groups and events* Child care or child charity* Sewing groups* Ballet or musical performances* Cooking classes
Look in your local paper - most areas have all sorts of dances going on alldays of the week, and offer free lessons. You learn a free skill, and youget to meet a wide variety of girls in the process!
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Bite Her!
Bite her all over making you a girl magnet!
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Confidence
Confidence is keyYou'll never get a girl buy shaking in the cornerwishing you could make your move.
(unless you want a girl to take pity upon yourpoor shivvering soul hehe)be confident in all of your actions, but not overconfident mind you,confidence can reassure those around you that
you are someone who knows your next actionand knows what you're doing, while obviousoverconfidence can make you seem haughty andmore or less of a "know it all" (not sexy people,sorry n_~)
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Confidence continued (7)
Flirting 101, the pinicle of flirtation and mastery of the art, beginswith this one understanding~
Flirting is like playing with a cat~
If you just drop th
e string on it'sh
ead, it'llh
ave fun for a moment,then leave the room, AND YOU. you wnat to entertain the cat,otherwise you're just another object, like a chair or something. now,you don't want to drop compliments on a girl left and right becauseshe, like the cat, will get bored. now if you dangle the string just outof reach, the cat goes crazy for it n_n and the cat'll be entertained
forhours, and will come to you for fun. Same goes for a girl, if youdangle your complements just out of reach, and make her try forthem, she'll have fun and feel like she's earned them by truelyimpressing you, even if it's something small n_n
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Girls are like cats,if you give them everything they want with no resistance,they'll get bored with you very quickly.if you take the time to play, she'll have fun making you fallin
love with
h
er by impressing you, and you'llh
ave a great timewatching as she grows closer and more attached to you.
if you just complent the crap out ofher, you'll never get toknow her, got it n_~*
good luck people!!!Sincerely,or merely,in reverie,
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Confidence continued (2) Your best bet, is to LOOK at people before approaching them.
and no boys i don't mean the Breasts. Say you're in a starbucks (myultimate fave place (yes I'm a man who loves Latte's, if you have aproblem with that then lets re-anylize our success with the opposinggender lmao sorry bout that n_n;) so you're in a starbucks, and ohmy god you see the perfect hotty!!! (gasp! lmao) DONOTWALKUP
TOHER AND DROPA RETARDEDPICKUPLINE (that's gotta be theleast attractive thing ever~) look her in the eyes while you walk up toher (just a tip, but try to look at the pupils ofher eyes, not just thegeneral vacinity, no idea why but for some reason people react tothis(if you've seen memoirs of a geisha you know what i mean n_n)okay so you're walking towards her, she turns her head and you lookher directly in the eyes and smile (not huge, not even your bigestsmile, just a little cute one (girls like cute, it's something they just do,so even if you're reading this and you're hulk hogan, time to cutesyup big boy n_~* roflmao)continued in "Confidence continued (3) cuz it's long lol
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Confidence continued (4)
Two of the most important peices of the information you got from frommy last post, are
1)IS SHE STILL SMILING EVENTHOUGH SHE HASTURNED AWAYFROM YOU/BROKENTHE EYE CONTACT???
Smiling is anOUTWARD gesture to display inward feelings, people tendnot to smile when they know no one is watching, so if she turns awayandKEEPS smiling, she almost deffinatly either knows that you're stillwatching, or is hopeing that you're still watching.You can tell if she's hopeing or knows by the ways she faces, she'llalmost never turn completely away from you, most likely remain
positioned so th
at at leasth
er face is visible to you even th
e sligh
test bit,and will take more care in her movements so that she'll seem gracefull.This is your cue,read on in confidence continued (5)Keep reading people n_n and deffinatly text me with any questions n_~*
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Conversation
Don't be stuck with nothing to say or there
will be an akward siclence. plan out things to
talk about
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Dont Go too fast
You never want to put a move on a girl too
soon. If you know you like the girl, but don't
quite knowh
ow sh
e feels about you, geth
ernumber, hang around her more, maybe wait a
few weeks, monthes if you have to. You will
never gain anything by asking out a girl you
just met, but you wont find girls running up toyou and asking you out just because you are
there either. Be availiable.
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Dosti Karo To Dhoka Mat dena If friends were flowers I would not pick you! I'll let you grow in the
garden & cultivate you with love and care so I can keep you as afriend 4ever
DostiKaroTo Dhoka Mat dena,KisiKoAashaonKaTohfa Mat dena,Dil Se RoyeKoiTumheYaadKarke,Aisa kabhiKisi Ko Mooka Mat dena
Best frnds r lyk a pair of scissors,joint togthr, often go in opp dirctions,But they giv punishment to those whocome between them.
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Harkhushi dil ke kareeb nahi hoti,zindagi gum se door nahi hoti,Sanjokar rakhna ye dosti humari,yeh dosti har kisi ko naseeb nahi hoti
Samne ho Manzil to Rasta na ModnaJo Mann me ho woKhwab naTodnaHarKadam pe MilegiKamyabi AapkoBus Sitare Chhunne ke liye KabhizaminnaChhodna
If You Have Any Problem,BindaasTell Me, I Will Help You.If You Do
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How to get a Date!! I've seen many guys struggle with finding a girl or even to get a date
with one. Its not as hard as you think. No matter what you look like, howmuchmoney you make, what car you drive... it DOESNTmatter.Theseare the limiting beliefs that men have and why they cant attract women.
The 1st step in the process is ATTRACTION. Attraction is not onlyphysical. Women are attracted to man of HIGHVALUE.Of course when
you go out to meet a woman you must look presentable. HIGHVALUE isdemostrated by being interesting, by being confident, by showing thatyou are goal oriented and that you believe yourself and in your life.Gentlemen... Attraction IS NOT a choice. YOU can trigger a woman'sattraction to you by mearly Demnonstrating HigherValue and by havingsometing in common withher.
So Heres how to get a date1. Approaching: Approach the woman and begin a conversation...youDONT need some cheesy pickup line. "Hi" works very well.
2. Initiate a conversation: Find something in common. Generally theconversation will flow and even better if it takes tangents and you areboth very interested in it.
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Just go for it
Sometimes, the best way to ask a girl out is justto remind yourself that you've got not much tolose and a lot to gain.
I'm a personal fan of the 'just try it and see how itgoes' attitude as it means you can have lots ofconfidence simply because you're doing whatyou want to do! :D
After all, wh
at's th
e point in wasting goodopportunities? You'll only hate yourself later ifyou had a chance but didn't take it..
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Keep eye contact
Keeping good eye contact make her morecomfortable around you.
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Learn to Dance
Learning to dance is just aboutTHE easiest wayto find a girlfriend that there is. Any club, anydance, any social event you go to, there are tons
of girls dancing and hardly any guys. If you are aguy that has even the slightest idea ofhow todance, you will find it extremely easy to meetand be sought after by girls.They are simply
th
rilled to find th
at you can evenT
RY to dance,even a little. And the better you get, the moreimpressed they are!
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Learn to Flirt
There are probably already girls all around
you, but you aren't sure how to break the ice
and begin to talk to th
em. Learn to flirt! Wehave tons of tips on flirting here at
romanceclass. Start reading through them,
and then start practicing!The first step to
getting a girlfriend is having a Girl Friend.
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Not getting struck down
If you like someone instead of going up toher/him and asking her/him on a date andgetting turned down try to use some body
langue I no itsh
ard to do it and you dont wannaseem too obvious at the same time dependingon how you feel when you make eye contactthats good If you smile while doing eye contactthats much better always smile and let her/him
no sh
e/h
e likes you with
out saying a word youwill get a bad or good vibe from these thingsyou'll know what to do better then getting struckdown~!
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the hitch
30% is good conversation, and 70% is the way
you act and move through out the day think
about it. good luck peopleh
ope you find th
eright one.
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Take her to places she
loves... By talking to her if you hear a place or thing
she loves then try it out...
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Support her Dreams
Every woman has things she hopes for, thingsshe wants to achieve.Talk withher and learnwhat her dreams and aspirations are. And then
find ways - even small ways - to help her achievethose dreams. If she wants to be a doctor, gether a small doctor statue for her birthday to puton her desk. If she wants to visit Japan someday,
geth
er a book on Japanese customs, toh
elph
erlearn more about the country. By helping herkeep her goals in sight, you will show how muchyou care for her and her hopes.