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Facebook IS changing the rules of da?ng
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“Facebook has created a whole new slew of obstacles and awkward conversa4ons that previously didn’t exist for people
in the dreadful world of da4ng.” -‐ Gretchen Kelmer
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“There’s less structure for people today as rela?onships develop. A leJerman’s jacket or a class ring — those kinds of social courtship scripts don’t exist on Facebook.” -‐Gretchen Kelmer
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Facebook is one of the primary tools for interac?on early in the experimen?ng stage of roman?c rela?onship development.
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“Deciding to go FBO means laying your emo?onal cards on the table, face up.” -‐ Tom Jacobs
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It represents a “new ?er in the rela?onal hierarchy, an announcement that two people are in an exclusive, long-‐term, and public commitment.” Jesse Fox
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“Those that displayed their significant other in their profile picture and were listed as “in a rela?onship” were more likely to stay together and less likely to have cheated.
They also showed lower levels of alterna?ve partner monitoring,” -‐Gretchen Kelmer
You have to break online hearts too
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Studies show “ People feel more pressure from friends and family to stay together when they have their partner in profile picture and rela?onship status.” Kelmer
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Not to men4on your exes can follow you everywhere Photo by Oregon State University (Flickr)
Studies show, “Remaining Facebook friends with an ex delayed emo?onal recovery and led to greater distress over the breakup, nega?ve feelings, sexual desire and longing for the ex-‐partner.” Tara Marshall
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“This has created a situa?on where we are trea?ng each other as though we were
stalkers.'" Dr. Turkle
This is creepy!
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“Always-‐on-‐your devices provide three powerful fantasies: that we will always be heard; that we can put our aJen?on wherever we want it to be; and that we never have to be alone.” Sherry Turkle
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“Facebook is preJy much real life now so don’t treat it any differently than you do da?ng OUT THERE. Be normal, be cool, be nice.” Allison McCann
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“But now, thanks to our smartphones, it is never OK to be unavailable. Ever. Not for a minute.” Elizabeth Bernstein
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Sources hJp://www.buzzfeed.com/atmccann/how-‐facebook-‐ruined-‐da?ng-‐and-‐breaking-‐up-‐too hJp://www.psmag.com/blogs/news-‐blog/i-‐now-‐pronounce-‐you-‐io-‐facebook-‐official-‐51307/ hJp://online.wsj.com/ar?cle/SB10001424052702304708604577502672286303452.html hJp://www.ny?mes.com/2012/04/22/opinion/sunday/the-‐flight-‐from-‐conversa?on.html?pagewanted=all hJp://esciencenews.com/ar?cles/2013/01/20/from.bullying.rela?onships.mapping.our.online.communica?ons
hJp://www.buzzfeed.com/atmccann/how-‐facebook-‐ruined-‐da?ng-‐and-‐breaking-‐up-‐too hJp://www.psmag.com/blogs/news-‐blog/i-‐now-‐pronounce-‐you-‐io-‐facebook-‐official-‐51307/ hJp://online.wsj.com/ar?cle/SB10001424052702304708604577502672286303452.html hJp://www.ny?mes.com/2012/04/22/opinion/sunday/the-‐flight-‐from-‐conversa?on.html?pagewanted=all hJp://esciencenews.com/ar?cles/2013/01/20/from.bullying.rela?onships.mapping.our.online.communica?ons