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Bing Pick-U Artist (PUA) is sthing tht
t guys rd but, rn nd vn ci t
b, yt hn skd ht this ctuy ns, it
is tn dicut t inint n xct dnitin t
th tr PUA. As such hn I vry rst strtd
rning h t gt gd ith n, I ntd tkn xcty ht it ns t b PUA, s I strtd
rsrching th tchnic dnitin vr th
b r Gg t Wikidi. Nhr did it sy
PUA s n highy skid t ccting hn
nubrs, rcking-u cbk dtis r buidingu bs -i ddrsss, ht I quicky
risd r cn dnitins s tht PUA
is cry n h is highy skid t sducing
n. As such I hv rt dn s y
n rsn thdgis in cnvrting thsnubr, cbk nd i css in t dts s
tht yu hv th chnc t -u nd bc
PUA.
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Th u g is vit thugh br yu
vn cs, thr r s tchniqus yu cn us
hist in-st t nsur yur -u is succssu:
TIME-BRIDGE: Ti-bridging is cnct hr
by yu rrng dt hist in-st nd this ssists
n thr srt vs
1. It rvids justid rsn t cs.
2. It svs t ti in ing-u, r-
stbishing crt nd thn rrnging dt,
n yur -u cn b uch shrtr nd
str nd stis it is s si s ing-
u t cnr ti r ctin th dt.
3. Fr rsn cndnc it is r bst i
yu kn yu hv rdy n dt rrngd,
nd this cr cndnc i ntury z ut
yu in urthr intrctins (b it nthr st
r just rindy cnvrstin in surrkt)
Pre-Follow Up:
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Three basic examples of Time Bridging:
PUA: D yu ik Chins d?
HB: Ys.
PUA: M t, thr is this grt rsturnt nt r
r hr in Chin Tn, tty hv t chck
it ut.
HB: Hh sur.
PUA: K. Whts yur hn nubr.
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PUA: D yu ik Chins d?
HB: N.
PUA: I bt tht is bcus yu hv trid th
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crci cs, thr is this grt rsturnt
nt r r hr in Chin Tn, tty hv t
chck it ut.
HB: Oky sur.
PUA: K. Whts yur hn nubr.
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THE EXIT: Just s irtnt s th rch is thxit; s such t guys tnd t gt vry xcitd t
gtting cs nd jct quicky tr thy rciv it.
Wht this ctivy ds is v th gir ing vry
ch s th st thing sh rbrs is yu running
ith yur hn in yur hnd ik trhy. Atr yuhv csd I strngy dvis tht yu ut yur hn
y, trnsitin nd sty in-st itt ngr, v th
cnvrstin n high nd ith th gir rbring
th intrctin nding n strng, sitiv nt.
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BUILD A CONNECTION: A t guys g in-st nd
y th ntrtinr r hr by thy cntinuusy
tk, k jks nd in s rst-cs scnris
vn rr gic tricks. Yu y cs th
bck th ntrtinr r, thugh it i nt b
sid nd is iky t fk, s thr is nt sidbs r hr t think bck t th intrctin nd sy
Yh tht guy s vry cndnt in hi s nd
hd d cnnctin instd yu i c
r ik sugr, st but yu bgin ting
th nt yu v st. Buiding cnnctins is vry rg tic, nd I cud rit h bk
n it, in ct tht is xcty ht I did, chck ut th
ing ink :-P
htt://.utrining.c/s/brchurs/nic-guy-g.d
INSTANT DATE: I kn thr r t PUA
Gurus h ud disrv th id instnt
dts, thugh in y xrinc this is by r th
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st ctiv thd t nsur yur -u
g is succssu. Wht I hv und is tht by
ging n n instnt dt yu r buiding s uch
crt nd rrt th cs bcs nthing
r thn si rity (As, I hv und
instnt dts t b th strting int s dyys Why ud yu k y ith nubr,
thn d -u g, thn rrng dy 2,
thn sxuy sct nd -cs, hn it cn
b dn n th s dy??).
MY ALL TIME FAVOURITE SET..THUS FAR:
I hv dn s ny rchs nd csd in s
ny dirnt shins trying ut stu tht Iv rd
n rus, things Iv sn n Yutub nd vnth ny vrius 100% rjctin-r csing
tchniqus s ny gurus hv bn ubishing
sinc br I vn hrd ick-u. Hvr, th
st in-hich I tk th biggst rning xrinc
y r s ctuy th rst gir I vr gd.
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I tk but hr in y bk Nic Guy G but
king bck I subcnsciusy did ny th
tchniqus bv Th gir snt hr unch brk
ith shing (Instnt Dt), Sh s in t rt
s I suggstd ging t th Ntin Art Gry
(Ti-Bridg) nd I vn csd ry n in thintrctin hist r shing; thus th st
thing sh rbd s nt csing, but
king hr t rk (Th Exit).
Th rst thing I ud sy ith ny th thds -u g is tht yu ys nt t b
nd-rsut cusd, kn ht yu nt t chiv
nt ny in th ng-tr but s in th shrt ith
vry itt st th -u.
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I ging t tk but txt g rst, s it is yrrrd thd vr hn g siy r th
ti cincy, s yu dnt hv t c nd cht,
snding r r ti thn riting ssg nd
hitting th snd buttn.
THE FIRST MESSAGE:
Th rst ssg is by r th st irtnt, it is
hr sh i dcid hthr sh i fk n yu
r nt s this n hs t b n int. First thing I
ging t sk yu t d is t think but th kind rst ssg yu ud snd t gir tht yu
csd, think th xct rds yud rit
Text Game vsPhone Game:
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Mst guys tnd t d sthing such s th
ing:
Hey babe, it was great meeting you last night. How
about a drink this Friday? Bob (Guy you met in Ye
Old Bar last night).
N thr r ints irvnt in hr,
rsty Hy bb this is vry gnric nickn t
giv t gir, sh i hv hrd it iin tis
br nd it is nt scic t hr r th t yu. Hvr, th cnct nickn is vry
ru, it cn gnrt bth crt nd huur,
but th nickn shud b scic t th t
yu .g. i yu t gir in Strbucks, it cud b
s si s Hy Strbucks Idy i yu tsdhr but sthing in st us this, I t gir
h s ring vry sxy utt ith high hs
nd stunning drss, but s r gsss, hist
in-st I sid t hr Sh cnt inncnt itt
I kn yur rky gk nd i tk dvntg
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t hich int sh ughd nd hn I txt
hr I nd th txt ith Hy Frky Gk
t s grt ting yu isnt bd, thugh I nd
ss cny usd djctivs t dscrib ting
th gir g dn uch bttr s thy rfct rtin nd nvr b rid t xrss this tin
ith r ssin. I tn ik sying t girs It s
rndy quirky ting yu sciy i t
in dyg. A studnt in rcnty snt txt
t gir sying It s vry surr ting yu sh t gir n th trin, tht gt n th s
st s hi nd thy hd quick instnt c
dt br rting ys.
At this int I ud s b iing t dd itt bitr substnc hr in rdr t buid crt. Th
rsn bing tht hn gir givs yu hr nubr,
sh gnuiny intndd t rsnd (sciy
i yu us th r- u g tchniqus
ntind bv), thugh s sh gts n ith hr
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i, ts hr rinds, hs rk ddins t t,
sci circ unctins, hr buying trtur t
rsnd dcrss sighty, s such it is irtnt
t gt tht trtur bcku s sh rsnds.
A gd y t buid this crt is t shr ittbit but yur dy r vning nd thn sk hr
but hrs .g. I nt t n tr rty ith y
rinds, h s th rst yur night
Hr I ud just ut y n ith u st, thris n nd t criy hr r hn yu t, yu
ust ssu tht sh uy rbrs givn th
nickn nd th rir rts th ssg.
Hvr, this is nt th nd th ssg, just sith r--u g Th Exit is vry irtnt
nd th st thing yu sy in th txt ssg is
vry irtnt in hr rsnding. As such I ik t
ut PS nd this PS is ys st tins
ith qustin rk .g. Hgn Dzs r Krisy
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Krs? Th rsn r this st tins is siy
tht it i ntic curisity, bsic hun tin
tht is strngr in s thn s nd ds
t ntur inquisitivnss; thus siy t kn
hy yur sking rnd st tins sh
rsnd, s sh nt t kn hy yur sking,is it t sk hr ut, is it bcus yu cnt dcid
hr t g r is it tht yu just cnt dcid hich
n is bttr. As, this cn siy d n t dt,
hichvr tin sh icks yu cn rrng t g
thr th bck it in th scnd txt ssg.Rbr I ntind rir t b nd rsut
cusd t vry st th -u g, th
rst ssg is nt t rrng dt but rthr t
gt ry, s i sh ris nc, bviusy sh
i d s gin.
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S th n txt ssg ud k sthing
ik th ing:
Hey Freeky Geek. It was randomly quirky meeting
you. I went to an afterparty with my friends, how
was the rest of your night? Dharam. Ps HaganDazs or Krispy Kremes?
BASIC PRINCIPLES OF TEXT GAME:
After sending the rst message it is importantt hd ut r rsns nd nt txt gin. A
t n i tk thir ti t rsnd r
th rst ssg st ik ini-tst t s
h ndy yu r, s b tint nd just it
it ut. In terms of when to send the rst message,
gnry I ud sy i yu hv buit strng
nugh cnnctin in-st, s ntind in r-
u g it shudnt ry ttr t
uch hn yu snd th rst txt, thugh yu
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dnt nt t v it t ng. My rsn ru
is i I cs in th dyti I i snd th rst txt
tr tht vning nd i I cs in th vning I
i snd th rst txt th nxt vning. Unss
th vning I ging t txt is ithr Fridy
r Sturdy night, in hich cs I i it untiSundy.
Keep end result focused making sure you are
rrnging dt s sn s ssib r txt
g, thugh d nt hsitt t k txting
st rrngnt dt s it i buid rcrt r hn yu t u.
E-mail message game is exactly the same
rcss s txt ssgs, thugh it is dn
vr th intrnt.
BASIC PRINCIPLES OF PHONE GAME:
Cing gir is uch sir thn txt g,
thugh tks itt ngr s yu hv t snd
ti n th hn tking.
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Always call when in a good state; perhaps even
istn t s usic tht gts yu in gd stt
rir t ringing.
I have found that as opposed to arranging a
dt n th rst hn c, k shrt
cs, nd thn rrng dt. Avoid notoriously long calls such as the clich
ns tht nd-u ith th Yu hng-u, n yu
hng-u nish.
At the end of each phone conversation hang
u n high ik ving th gir nting t tkr ik ny gd stry tr.
Aim to build connections on the phone, just
think it ik nr st ithut ny kin.
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Fcbk is sci ntrking sit tht hs rguby
bc th st ctiv ns ing-u
s yu hv th rtunity t gt t kn rbut ch thr thn ny thr ns.
Th rst ssg is snt hist snding rind
rqust, nd it is in th xct s rt s th
txt ssg rt. Hvr, th ky dirncis ith th Fcbk r yu hv, s th bsic
rincis sttd b r rtd t yur r
nd xiising intrst.
BASIC PRINCIPLES OF FACEBOOK GAME:
PICTURES: This is ky, n k thrugh
yur hts ith n tthcb nd thy hv
t b ttrctiv. Idy yud nt icturs tht
in t n th ing thr ctgris:
Facebook Game:
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Picturs yu ith girs!!!
Picturs yu ding k stu (B it
trving th rd such s n ictur yu
in Mxic ring sbrr nd thn n
yu in R ith th cisu rchitctur
bhind yu r hbby such s rck cibingr krt).
Picturs yu ith chidrn (I hv rind
h is sing dd ys uding icturs
hi nd his dughtr nd n bsuty
uv it, think its th st stst thing in thrd).
THE WALL: It is irtnt tht yur
shs yu hv n ctiv i, idy n
cnting n yur . I hv gru thr r ur girs tht I cbk csd nd
dsit nvr ting u ith th hv
cnvrstins tn, hich givs y cbk
r t rsctin.
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STATUS UPDATES: Thr r rinds
n y cbk hs cbk sttus I ys
just ignr nd brush st. Th rsn bing
tht thy g sthing ik this: I just ku,
I strugging t gt ut bd, I t r
rk, I n trin, tc tc tc I ry dntcr, s th n ti thy ight ut sthing
intrsting s thr cbk sttus I vrk
it. As such cbk sttus chngs shudnt
hn tn nd hn thy d, k th
irtnt nnuncnts, vry quirky rrkr king un t rticur gir (Nt n yur
trying t g, t uch invstnt, it shud
b rind).