ADVENT and CHRISTMAS
DATE EVENT Sun 3rd Dec 11.15am ADVENT SUNDAY Sun 10th Dec 11.15am THE SECOND SUNDAY IN ADVENT
Lighting of The Grimstad Christmas Tree Sun 17th Dec 9.30 am Communion Service in the St Rognvald Chapel.
11.15am THE THIRD SUNDAY IN ADVENT 6.30pm FESTIVAL OF NINE LESSONS AND CAROLS - The Cathedral Choir
Tues 19th Dec 7.30 pm KGS Carol Service Wed 20th Dec 10.00am Papdale Primary School Christmas Service Sun 24th Dec 11.15 am Christmas Eve – ALL-AGE WORSHIP SERVICE
11.00pm Community Carol Singing 11.30pm JOINT WATCHNIGHT SERVICE
Sun 31st Dec 11.15 THE FIRST SUNDAY OF CHRISTMAS
Services are held in St Magnus Cathedral every Sunday at 11.15 am
All Age Worship
We are hoping to have an All-‐age Worship Service on the 24th of December, to which all are invited.
The year’s Christmas Offerings from the joint Watchnight Service will go to the St Magnus Way and Christian Aid
Please join us for
mulled wine, sherry and mince pies
after the Sunday morning service on
Sunday 24th December.
service beginning at 11.15am
Christmas 2017
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From the Manse
God is not Santa Claus.
He sees you when you’re sleeping.
He knows when you’re awake.
He knows if you’ve been bad or good,
So be good for goodness sake.
The older I get and the longer I walk this road of faith, the more I realize how little I understand about God. The easy answers of my youth no longer suffice, and I now need to find better ones.
Like many Christians, I was unknowingly raised on the idea of God-‐as-‐Santa-‐Claus.
God watched me at all times, keeping careful track of my goodness or badness, deciding my reward or rejection. Stay on His good side and He’d bring tidings of great joy, but be placed on the wrong list and I’d be left with tears and sulphur when He came back.
Prayer became a daily, glorified Christmas List; an ever-‐growing petition for the stuff I wanted from the Big Man, and my job was to be good enough to merit those things and to understand that my performance was the key to it all. Good kids got good things.
Like Santa, God was conditionally benevolent. He was prepared to be unfathomably generous with blessings — but I had to earn it. Yes, God had Grace to lavish on us, but we had to do enough to get Him to open His bag.
I no longer have peace with that God.
I no longer believe that God is an invisible, yet ever-‐present monitor, continually separating the Naughty or Nice and doling out favour or damnation accordingly; that my days are nothing more than a perpetual act of trying to deserve gifts of answered prayers and avoiding the penalty of being found not nice enough.
I think the idea of Santa that was always so disturbing was that there could be some clearly defined line between Good and Bad girls and boys; that this world was a stark binary split of those who earned reward and those who merited cruelty. You couldn’t be found in both lists. That was where the cracks in that Christmas story began to show for me as a young boy. I knew that two distinct lists of the In and the Out didn’t match my experience of people. I knew it didn’t mesh with my understanding of myself.
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I couldn’t imagine life as a pass-‐fail experience, with people’s worth being determined by the sum total of our every act.
And this is where my adult spiritual journey has meandered away from the kids’ stuff that I once accepted without thinking. I am seeking a better story; one that allows for the nuance and the grey that I find as I live in it. I’m looking for a religion that is as messy as the world around me.
Some will say that God should receive the same fate as Santa Claus, that a Divine Creator should be relegated to childhood myths that we outgrow once we learn to face the difficult paradoxes of this life. But I’m hopeful that there is a way to understand faith and God as an adult; one that doesn’t require perfection or grade performance, and that doesn’t reduce humanity to the Good and the Bad. I’ve seen what that idea does in the world, and how every dangerous it is.
I’m searching for a spirituality that doesn’t revolve around a bearded man with a big book, who’s watching my every move and needs me to get it right or be very disappointed when he returns. I’m praying for a God I don’t need to outgrow.
That’s what’s on my Christmas List this year!
Wishing you a peaceful Christmas
Fraser
Our new Elders -‐ Denise & Simon Brown
We have been asked to introduce ourselves as we are the newest Elders at the Cathedral, so here goes.
We came to Orkney first for a few days’ holiday in 2002 and fell under its spell; after a second visit, in 2004, we decided we would move here when I [Denise] retired in 2009. This was met by a variety of responses from family and friends; those who knew where Orkney was thought we were mad, those who didn’t spent ages with a map scouring the Western Isles for Orkney. They were, however, all agreed on one thing – it would never happen. We lived in Old Harlow, Essex, before moving to Orkney, and both worked in the main library in Harlow, with Simon driving the mobile library van. I had been there for over 30 years and Simon for 25 years, so we were pretty set
in our ways.
However, fate took a hand, and a friend saw an advert for a mobile library driver in Orkney. Simon applied, and he moved here to start work in March 2006. I stayed behind to sell our house and moved in June the same year. We stayed in Kirkwall before buying our house in Deerness, and went to services at the Cathedral right from the start. All our family and most of our friends have been to Orkney several times. No one thinks we are mad now. We are truly settled and very happy.
We were surprised and honoured to be asked to become Elders and were ordained in August this year.
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Planting a seed for the Rohingya
As you may be aware, there is a crisis in Myanmar (the old Burma), where 600,000 Rohingya people are fleeing for their safety into India and Bangladesh. This is an ethnic group which is known as the “world’s most persecuted minority”.
The Rohingians are in a stateless vacuum as they are not recognised as citizens of that country. They live in the coastal area of Rakhine, in small villages, and have very little in the way of services or opportunities. Over the last few months their homes, shops and entire villages have been burned to the ground. The refugees fleeing the violence have crossed the border from Burma injured and ill, and in need of urgent medical attention. There are camps in Bangladesh which do not have sufficient resources to treat the injured or feed the many that haven't eaten for a long time, and so they need our help.
In the Cathedral, we had raised some funds earlier this year for refugees by having a retiring collection.
But now the challenge is to do more: could we do something different? Could we raise the profile of this group as well as raising some desperately needed cash?
On the 20th of October, we were issued a challenge by a member of the congregation, who donated some seed funding of £100 in £10 lots. These £10 ‘investment parcels’ were offered to members of the congregation for them to employ their time and talents to transform the £10 parcels into goods to sell, and so generate additional funds. The proceeds will be given to the emergency appeal.
Members of the congregation are already creating all manner of things: baking, making and creating, and selling them to friends and family, and hopefully there are even more ideas that have not yet come to light!
Whatever the final amount raised, the profile of this desperate people has been highlighted and we have been able to keep the Rohingya people in our thoughts.
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Looking back ...............
Long-‐serving members of St. Magnus Cathedral choir receive their Long Service Certificates.
Can anyone remember in which issue and date of The Grapevine this photograph featured, and name the singers? Answers to the editor to receive a Christmas pudding!
.......... and looking forward
The new St Magnus Cathedral Choir CD, Magnus 900, will be released in the very near future. There are 23 pieces on the CD, including:
Ave Verum Corpus, Mozart; Pater Noster, Stravinsky; Be Still for the Presence of the Lord, arr Evans; For You the Pride, arr Roberton; O Magnus of My Love, Iain Campbell; In Remembrance, Andy Cant;
Trisagion, Palestrina /Russian Orthodox Chant; The Chorister’s Prayer, Michael Bell.
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........... and wise words.
When a man whose marriage was in trouble sought his advice, the Abba said, ‘You must learn to listen to your wife’.
The man took this advice to heart, and returned after a month to say that he had learned to listen to every word his wife was saying.
Said the Abba with a smile,’ Now go home and listen to every word she isn’t saying!’
Anthony de Mello, One Minute Wisdom
Psalm 26:3 Jeremiah 31:22 John 13:23
St Magnus Way and the Guild
The Guild, which is open to all, was delighted to welcome many members and friends to their recent meeting, when the Reverend David McNeish gave a most interesting presentation on the creation of the St Magnus Way, the new 55-‐mile pilgrim walk from Evie to Kirkwall.
This project was certainly no simple task but the coming together of many like-‐minded people, with David taking the lead. After many trials and tribulations, the first stretch of the walk was opened back in April.
There are five sections to the walk, with each part reflecting an aspect of the martyrdom of Magnus. For Evie to Birsay it is loss, then Birsay to Dounby, growth. The third section, from Dounby to Finstown, is change, and Finstown to Orphir Is forgiveness. The final stretch, from Orphir to Kirkwall and the Cathedral, is hospitality.
For those of us who are less able but have access to technology, there is going to be the possibility of a virtual walk, thanks to Google.
In the meantime, the route will hopefully continue to be improved, and from next April there will be a St Magnus Way leaflet and guide book available, as well as fundraising gifts.
There is no doubt that this whole venture has been a great success, so much so that David hinted at several other pilgrimage routes being created within these islands, although he was quick to say that he would not be getting involved!
If you would like to know more, please log on to www.stmagnusway.com
The 2018 Spring Guild programme is as follows:
Tuesday 9th January ‘Can We Help’, Kirkwall Citizens Advice Bureau. Saturday 10th Feb. ‘Come for a cuppa’ coffee morning
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Tuesday 13th Feb. ‘Visit to Clan’ Friday 2nd March ‘World Day of Prayer’ Tuesday 13th March AGM + ‘The work of The Children’s Panel’, Rosie Wallace. April lunch Details to follow
Sit down, don't go, stay a bit longer!
These are the words I hear every day when I'm out visiting. Of course you don't have to be sick, bereaved or elderly to be lonely, although loneliness is most prevalent in these groups of people. Perhaps we fail to recognise loneliness -‐ it is not always obvious! There are those who, even though they are surrounded by people, don't feel understood, loved or cared for. Loneliness is a feeling! Loneliness is smiling cheerfully, but feeling alone no matter how many people are around you. It is a feeling of being separated, disconnected, unplugged, left out and isolated. Loneliness is an emotional pain, a yearning to be accepted by someone. As the Bible story of Adam and Eve illustrates, God intends for us to share our lives with other people. By God's design, we have an innate need to be loved and to belong. It's when that need for affection and fellowship goes unfulfilled that we become restless, unhappy and lonely. If you are struggling with loneliness, you're not alone. The Christmas season is, for many, the hardest time of the year. We look through windows and see twinkling Christmas trees; we imagine happy family celebrations and feel left out in the cold. Then the TV bombards us with an often unrealistic picture of festive cheer which can depress us further. This Christmas, please give time: time to a neighbour, a friend or a relative. Pick up the phone, send an email, and make peace where there has been a family rift. Time really is the best present. May God's love and peace surround you this Christmas and always.
Candles of Waiting and Hope for Advent & Christmas
Candle One
What are we waiting for? Switch on the lights! Twinkling, glitzy lights leading to shops, Internet delights. Seductive and brash, special offers are waiting ... for credit card or cash.
Candle Two
What are they waiting for? Give them some light! Tiny pinpricks of light, leading to peace,
an end to their plight. In darkness, despair, these folk are waiting for someone to care.
Candle Three
What are we hoping for? Blaze out the lights! Bigger, flashier lights outdoing our neighbours, blinding our nights. Tech gadgets, over-‐priced toys, children are hoping for these short-‐lived joys. Candle Four
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What are they hoping for? Flash out a light! Welcome, guiding light leading to safety, a bed for the night. Shelter, warmth, food on the table, that’s what they’re hoping. Yes, even a stable.
Candle for Christmas Day
Waiting and hoping? Is this what it’s for? Enter the Christ-‐light! Frail, new-‐born light, glowing in Bethlehem, understated but bright. If our love feeds the flame, this world’s waiting and hoping will not be in vain.
Recipes – The Stuffing and the Gravy
Stuffing
5oz butter
5oz marg
6oz oatmeal
6oz porage oats
12oz diced onions
1 ½ Knorr chicken stock cubes
Melt butter and marg and lightly fry diced onions for 5 mins.
Add oatmeal and porage oats and mix well. Add crushed stock cubes and mix well.
Add pepper to taste. NO additional salt required when using stock cubes.
Cook in double boiler for at least 60 mins, or at 175-‐185⁰ in ovenproof dish for 60-‐90 mins.
These quantities can be easily adjusted to increase or decrease amount required.
Gravy
Butter
Finely diced onions
Stock
Bisto + cornflour
Gently fry onions in melted butter till starting to go soft.
Add prepared stock of your choice + pepper (no salt at this point).
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Bring to boil and thicken to desired consistency with half-‐and-‐half Bisto gravy powder and cornflour, slaked with a little water.
Bring back to boil and cook out gently for a few mins, adjusting seasoning if necessary.
This method of thickening doesn’t produce such a glutinous end product.
And for Christmas tea ... Mincemeat Ravioli (apologies to Delia)
Roll out half the pastry of your choice into an oblong and brush with egg.
Space out small amounts of mincemeat on the oblong (e.g. 5×6), and roll out the rest of the pastry and cover. Press down and mark with a pastry wheel.
Egg wash, sprinkle with sugar and put a couple of snips in each section to allow steam to escape. Bake at 200° for approx 15 mins.
TIP. For easy flaky pastry, grate frozen butter into flour and proceed as normal.
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Our November Thursday-‐morning pop-‐up cafe in the St Magnus Centre (10am -‐ 12 noon) has been well frequented, with people saying such nice things as, ‘A great idea. It's always nice to meet new people, and in the cafe with the best view’.
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So we have decided to carry on the cafe over December and January at least, but, in order to do so, we would need a few more people to be involved in the very simple preparation and serving. It really is just a case of making the tea and coffee and chatting with people ... a lovely way to share a morning in fellowship.
Would you be willing to take a turn? If so, please contact either Barbara on 874955, Shona on 872893, Elspeth on 874061 or Helen on 861260.
We hope there are enough volunteers so that you would only be ‘on duty’ once a month, from approximately 9.45am -‐ 12 noon on a Thursday morning.
You will, of course, be warmly welcomed and supported as you learn the ropes!
From a children’s nativity play:
Mary (thrusting a large doll (Jesus) onto Joseph’s knee):
‘You have him a bit, he’s getting heavy!’
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Isobel Scholes
Isobel was born on 24 May, 1933, second daughter to James & Violet Couper. Her older sister is Violet Grieve.
Isobel went to school in Kirkwall. When she was not helping at home, she was a keen Girl Guide. After leaving school, she joined a local bank. While single, Isobel loved to travel. Her first visits to aunties in London involved driving from Kirkwall to London with her parents, a trip that took three days. Later, she had regular trips to London with friends to visit her relations, and also enjoyed bus trips to both Italy and Norway. Isobel regularly took part in the annual KAOS production; Gilbert & Sullivan musicals were her favourite.
Her single days ended when she met Alastair Scholes. Alastair had arrived from Dumfries to work at Foubister & Bain, Chartered Accountants, and he later set up his own practice, A J B Scholes, CA. Isobel and Alastair had three children -‐ Inga, Karen & Leonard.
Isobel spent her days supporting both her family and the business. She continued her love of travel, and was delighted to visit India, Hong Kong and New York, along with most European cities. Portugal was a favourite destination for Isobel and Alastair.
Hobbies were few, but she was an active member of Kirkwall & St Ola Community Council, Kirkwall & St Ola WI, St Magnus Cathedral Guild and the Choir. She lived for her family, and spent her later years childminding for her grandchildren, Morgan, Marcus & Katelin. She then cared for her mum, who lived to the fantastic age of 102.
Sadly, Isobel passed away on 1st September, 2017, after a brief battle with cancer. She is missed every day.
Long Table communion
Our next Long Table communion will be on the 4th of February.
Our aim is to recreate the sense of community at communion – a sense that everyone sitting around the table will hopefully feel.
We hope to welcome you to this special communion.
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St. Magnus Cathedral: Outreach
Following a suggestion made by a visitor to the Cathedral, votive candleholders were provided by the congregation so that people could take a moment, light a candle, reflect, say a prayer or just remember loved ones. The candles are looked after on busy days by volunteers from the congregation, but otherwise the support of the custodians has been invaluable. The generosity of those taking the opportunity to light a candle has generated funds of about £8,500 in each of the last two years. Reflecting on this, the Kirk Session felt that these funds should benefit more than the congregation. For 2017, therefore, it was decided that these donations would be collected for local, national and international charities. This extends significantly the initiative taken in 2016 to donate funds raised at soup lunches and the County Show to other charities, and for the offering on Remembrance Sunday to benefit the Royal British Legion. It is hoped to continue this approach for as long as we can continue to balance our congregational income and expenditure.
After careful consideration the recipients of St Magnus Outreach donations for 2017 are:
Street Pastors, both local and nationally. Locally, Street Pastors help people avoid getting into trouble, becoming a nuisance or hurting themselves or others. Nationally, there are teams of Response Pastors, Rail Pastors (on platforms and on trains), and School Pastors.
Weekly pop-‐up congregational cafe in the St Magnus Centre. Members of the congregation and their friends are invited to the Centre to enjoy a cuppa and conversation.
Befriending in Orkney. Befriending is aimed at combating loneliness among the elderly and developing social skills in disadvantaged young people.
Dementia Friendly Community for Orkney. Dementia Friendly Orkney aims to promote a dementia-‐ friendly culture within the community of Orkney, and to assist people with dementia, and those who care for them, to enjoy life and feel valued.
If you know anyone with dementia, you may be interested to know that National Trading Standards will provide them with a free call blocker if they are currently receiving scam or nuisance phone calls. They should apply at www.friendsagainstscams.org.uk/callblocker
St Magnus Way. The St Magnus Way pilgrimage route was completed this year. Future publicity may include ideas such as St Magnus Way postcards and a guide book.
Fuel vouchers at The Orkney Foodbank. Donating money for fuel vouchers means that deserving people will not have to choose between cooking, heating or eating.
Fischy Music. Fischy Music is a charity that supports emotional, social and spiritual wellbeing in children through song. The group visited Orkney in September.
Borderline. Borderline was founded in 1990 by The Church of Scotland London Advisory Service (COSLAS) to support homeless and insecurely housed Scots in London, and to tackle, where possible, the causes of homelessness.
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Oxfam. Projects include: share in a farmyard, goats, feed a family, seeds, and honey bees.
Farm Africa. Farm Africa is an international organisation helping farmers to increase their harvests, build their incomes and sustain natural resources.
Water Aid. Water Aid works with local partners in 37 countries to transform millions of lives every year by improving access to safe water, toilets and hygiene.
Disasters Emergency Committee. This agency provides support and aid to tackle the disasters which afflict the world every year, from drought and famine to floods, storms and earthquakes.
The Grenfell Tower Block disaster. A donation was sent at the time to support anyone affected by the disaster.
Parish Register
WEDDING
14th October Eilidh Russell and Fraser Christie
FUNERALS
2nd October Mike Berston 29a Victoria Street, Kirkwall
4th November Diana Preston Kingsdale Lodge, Grimbister
11th November Laurie Hale Rosewood, Holm Road, Kirkwall
23rd November Marjorie Campbell 89 Meadowbank, Kirkwall
Gabriel: ‘Are you Mary?’
Mary: ‘Yes!’
Gabriel: ‘God sent me to tell you you’re having a baby.’
Mary: ‘I don’t know anything about this.’
Gabriel: ‘It will be a boy, and he will be great…’
Mary: ‘What if it’s a girl?’