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Before you say I do it’s a
good idea to know your
future spouse’s financial side.
Mismanaged finances can be a
huge problem in a marriage or
quite a surprise should a spouse
die. Finding oneself suddenly
single can be overwhelming,
especially if one spouse
handled all of the household
finances. This brochure offers
tips on how to keep your
finances strong before, during
and after the marriage.
Keys to a financially successful relationship
1. Understand how both of you view money
Couples who successfully manage their money have some
of the happiest relationships. Keep in mind that if you’re not
careful with your finances, you’ll make your life and the lives
of your loved ones more complicated down the road.
Knowing exactly how both of you save, spend and view finan-
cial responsibility is key. If you lived together before marriage,
then you already have insight into this. Even so, take time to
find out what money really means to each of you.
n Set aside uninterrupted time to have a serious talk about
your separate money, “our” money and money matters of
the present and future.
n Make a list of topics to explore. Examine each other’s credit
report. AnnualCreditReport.com provides consumers with
a secure means to request and obtain a free credit report
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once every 12 months from each of the three nationwide
consumer credit reporting companies in accordance with
the Fair and Accurate Credit Transactions Act (FACT Act).
Select the ordering method that best meets your needs:
n Online at AnnualCreditReport.com
n By phone – 1-(877)-322-8228 (TDD 1-877-730-4104)
n By mail – download the request form from
AnnualCreditReport.com, complete and mail it to:
Annual Credit Report Request Service, PO Box 105281,
Atlanta, GA 30348-5281
n Is one of you a saver and the other a spender? Does one or
both of you live paycheck to paycheck?
n Pay off as many bills as you can before saying I do. How
much unsecured debt does each of you have separately?
Decide what debts become joint debts and what debt
remains the sole responsibility of one party.
n Consider how you will handle checking and savings
accounts. Will you have a joint account for joint household
living expenses and maintain separate accounts for
individual expenses?
n Develop a household budget. Will you jointly share respon-
sibility for handling the money matters or will one person
take care of the bills each month? If one person is going
to do all the household accounting, then the other person
needs to be sure they understand what’s going on with the
money. Go over monthly expenses and bills together so
each of you know how much money is coming in and how
much money is going out and for what.
n Use online banking such as Members 1st Online. This way
both of you can oversee the household finances and know
where the money is going.
n Decide on a record keeping method. Where will you file
receipts, monthly statements and other important financial
papers?
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2. Have the kids talk.
You may just be starting out or you may be blending families.
In either case, discuss how you’re going to financially manage
kids and all of the expenses associated with raising them. If
you don’t have kids now but plan to it’s a good idea to talk
about both of you working or one of you staying home for a
while once the baby is born. Blended families have additional
concerns such as child and spousal support payments to
make or receive.
3. Investment planning.
Financial security is important, especially during major life
changes such as marriage/divorce, buying a home, paying
for college, changing jobs, and retirement. Consider meeting
with a financial planner.
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4. What about pre-marital agreements, power ofattorney and wills?
Many couples opt to have a pre-marital agreement that outlines
that particular assets remain the property of a certain individual
should the marriage dissolve. A good family lawyer can help
you with this. You’ll need to make decisions on inheritances and
guardianship especially if children are involved.
5. Where to live, vacation, how to save and spend.
Where to liven Plan to attend one of our FREE Home Buyers Seminars or
Construction Loan Seminars so that you can learn all about
the home buying or home construction process.
n Talk to us about our First Time Home Buyers program that
provides you with affordable financing with minimal out-
of-pocket expense. First time home buyers can benefit
from our relationship with the Pennsylvania Housing
Finance Agency (PHFA).
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n Meet with one of our Mortgage Specialists before you
begin looking for a new home. Get an idea as to how much
home you can realistically afford and the types of financing
that is available. Ask to be pre-qualified for a mortgage.
Ask about down payments required, application fees,
information needed to apply for a mortgage, inspection
fees, closing costs and other miscellaneous costs such as
home owners insurance.
n Pick up our Buying vs. Renting brochure for tips.
Vacation Clubs and Holiday ClubsA Members 1st Club Account is the perfect way to save for
holiday gifts, a vacation, or any other special savings goal. You
have the ability to set your money aside as you save while
still maintaining access to it in case you need it. Plus, our Club
Accounts are flexible, allowing you to be in control of your
deposit schedule and opening balance. Plan ahead and take
advantage of a Club Account today! Open your account at
any branch or online with Members 1st Online.
Savings OptionsYour personal savings plan demands personalized products
and services. At Members 1st, we provide a variety of savings
vehicles to meet your varied needs. Whether you prefer a
traditional savings account, a higher-yield money manage-
ment account, or a certificate of deposit, you’ll find a savings
account that’s just right for you at Members 1st.
Checking account and free Visa Debit Card with Swipe 5®
Checking with us will be a positive experience as our check-
ing is convenient and easy. No minimum balance is required.
Dividends are paid on balances of $2,500 or more. No
monthly service fees are assessed. And we don’t charge per
check fees. Overdraft protection is available for up to 6 over-
drafts monthly in conjunction with EZ Call and Members 1st
Online. You simply pay for your checks. Our checking offers a
free VISA Debit Card with our exclusive Swipe 5® Rebate. That
means you earn a 5- cent rebate each time you make a pur-
chase using this card as “credit”. This card looks like a credit
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card but works like a check as funds are deducted directly
from your Members 1st checking account. To earn the rebate,
simply always select “credit” at the checkout and sign the
sales slip. Swipe 5® Rebate is posted to your checking account
on the last day of the month. Some restrictions may apply.
Overdraft protection is now available for VISA Debit Card and
ATM point of sale (POS) transactions.
Financially surviving divorce or death of your significant other
Just like with marriage, divorce or death brings on new experi-
ences and responsibilities. You may need to file for child sup-
port, spousal support/alimony or Social Security. You may need
to deal with insurance claims and estate settlements. You also
find yourself 100 percent responsible for the household bills.
Divorce check list:n Educate yourself. Go through all of your financial records
and figure out where the money is. Pull credit reports to see
if there are any credit cards or loans you don’t know about.
n Collect information. Before you visit an attorney, make
copies of all financial records including all account
statements from all financial institutions in which
you do business, investment statements, tax returns,
mortgage statements, insurance policies, safe deposit box
information, wills, trusts and bills.
n If you have children, file for child support and/or spousal
support/alimony.
n Establish credit in your own name. Open a checking
account and a savings account in your own name. Get one
credit card in your own name and manage it very carefully.
n Separate credit accounts. Debt incurred in a joint account
will follow both spouses after the divorce.
n Maintain insurance coverage. You’ll still be covered under
your spouse’s health insurance until you’re divorced and at
that time, health insurance must be specified.
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n If you’re in a financial bind, we have several loan options to
consider such as a Signature Loan to help you manage your
current accounts or establish credit in your name.
n If you don’t have automatic payments set up, consider
doing so. This way you know your bills will be paid on time
and you won’t forget about anything.
n Update your beneficiary designations on IRAs, retirement
plans, employee benefits, annuity contracts and life
insurance policies and estate plan. Re-title assets if needed.
n Identify retirement money available to you.
n Protect your identity. Be sure to change your online
passwords and watch for signs that new accounts have
been opened in your name.
Death of a spouse:n First, take time to grieve and adjust. Contact your attorney
to verify that all steps you take are consistent with your
spouse’s will.
n Organize your finances and evaluate your current financial
situation. Go through all financial papers and make a list
of your assets and liabilities. If you live in a community
property state, credit accounts opened during marriage are
automatically joint. You’ll be responsible for any debt that
your deceased spouse incurred.
n Get at least 10 copies of the death certificate. You’ll need
copies for insurance claims, 401(k) payouts, Social Security,
your financial institution(s), probate and to change the title
on property.
n Contact your spouse’s employer and all previous employers
to figure out what benefits you may be entitled to.
n Cancel any unnecessary accounts, subscriptions and
services. These include health clubs, private club
memberships, etc.
n Contact life and health insurance providers. Insurance
companies will distribute money to the beneficiary listed
on the policy. Don’t cancel any health insurance until all
outstanding medical bills have been paid.
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n Meet with a financial professional to review your
investments and insurance coverage.
n Set up an Estate Account. This account is used to manage
funds for the deceased. It is managed by the Executor,
Executrix or Administrator of the decedent’s estate. It may
be used to accept deposits earned by the estate or to
pay estate expenses such as those for funeral expenses,
medical bills, debts or taxes.
n Protect your identity.
n If you need money for funeral or medical expenses,
consider a Signature Loan or a Home Equity Loan to get
you through a financially challenging time.
n Once your situation settles and all final expenses are paid,
consider various savings options. Short and long term
certificates will help you have money saved at a higher
interest rate. You can select terms that meet your savings
needs so your money is available if you need it 3, 6, or more
months down the road.
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Member Loyalty Rewards
This unique rewards program is based on your account
relationship with us. You benefit in terms of even fewer fees,
more free services, reduced consumer loan rates, and bonus
certificate rates.
How do I participate in Member Loyalty Rewards?
Your reward level is based upon the total of your combined
savings, loan, and Members 1st Investment Services balances
(excluding first mortgages). Balances are calculated at the end
of the month. Reward levels are re-evaluated and change
based on your qualifying products and balances at the end
of each month. Each reward level has its own minimum total
balance requirement.
What are the Member Loyalty Rewards levels?
We offer four reward levels - Silver, Gold, Platinum, and
Titanium. For details on each specific reward level, ask
for our Member Loyalty Rewards brochure or go to
www.members1st.org, click on the “membership” tab,
followed by “member loyalty rewards.”
You need to use at least three products to benefit. To move
up to the next level, increase your account balances by
transferring accounts you may have elsewhere or using more
of what we offer. Levels are re-evaluated and will change
based on your qualifying products and balances at the end of
each month.
Same address? Everyone benefits
You may form a group comprised of your family members
who live at your address so that all account owners at the
same address can enjoy the same reward benefits. Each
account owner must agree to be in the group. Forming
a group does not affect account access or ownership.
Everyone’s balances are added together to make the rewards
more beneficial to all. Simply ask an associate for details.
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Free Seminars
Members 1st offers a variety of free seminars throughout
the year on topics such as Identity Theft, Home Buyers and
Home Construction Loans, and Student Loans. Go to
www.members1st.org, click “News and Events,” followed by
“Calendar of Events” for details.
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For questions about Individual Retirement Accounts, call (800) 283-2328, ext. 209
For general loan inquiries or to apply, call (800) 283-2328, ext. 6040
For Member Loyalty Rewards questions, call (800) 237-7288
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