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INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION
CHAPTER FOUR VERBAL COMMUNICATON: SAYING THE
BEST TO OTHERS
HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE THE PASSAGE “WHITER THAN SNOW” TO SOMEONE WHO
HAS NEVER SEEN SNOW?
"LANGUAGE HAS THREE IMPORTANT
USES-IT EXPRESSES THOUGHT, CONCEALS THOUGHT, AND TAKES
THE PLACE OF THOUGHT.“
-UNKNOWN AUTHOR
WHY IS THIS CHAPTER IN THE TEXTBOOK?
THE ABILITY TO PARTICIPATE IN CONVERSATIONWITH OTHERS IS ONE OF THE BEST PREDICTORS
OF COMMUNICATION COMPETENCE
LACK OF CONVERSATION IS PERCEIVED ASLESS INTERPERSONAL SKILL
WORDS HAVE SPECIAL PROPERTIES THATMUST BE MASTERED IN ORDER TO AVOID
BARRIERS TO COMMUNICATION
PREVIEW:
DEFINITION OF VERBAL COMMUNICATION PRINCIPLES OF VERBAL COMMUNICATION
OWNING YOUR LANGUAGE FOUR LEVELS OF COMMUNICATION
SELF DISCLOSURE
ALL COMMUNICATION THAT IS SPOKEN OR WRITTEN
DEFINITION OF VERBAL COMMUNICATION
PRINCIPLES OF VERBAL
COMMUNICATION
LANGUAGE IS SYMBOLIC
TRIANGLE OF MEANING
SYMBOL
THOUGHT
REFERENT
TRIANGLE OF MEANING
CATDOMESTICATED
FELINE
SYMBOL CAT REFERENT DOMESTICATED FELINE THOUGHT
TRIANGLE OF MEANING
LANGUAGE IS SUBJECTIVE
JOKER
ACCORDING TO ONE TEXT, 500
WORDS CAN HAVE 14,000 DIFFERENT
MEANINGS
LANGUGAGE SYMBOLIZES DENOTATIVE AND
CONNOTATIVE MEANINGS
DENOTATIVE MEANING:
RESTRICTIVE OR LITERAL MEANING OF A
WORD.
CONNOTATIVE MEANING:
PERSONAL AND
SUBJECTIVE MEANING OF A WORD.
DENOTATIVE: CREATES CONTENT
(CAR=MOTOR VEHICLE)
CONNOTATIVE: CREATES FEELINGS
(CAR=CRUISED IN COOL RED PONTIAC DURING HIGH SCHOOL)
LANGUAGE IS GOVERNED BY RULES
ARRANGEMENT OF WORDS-SYNTACTIC(THE YODA RULE)
MEANING OF WORDS-SEMANTIC
INTERPRETATION OF WORDS-PRAGMATIC
“TOOL”
LANGUGAGE DEFINES AND LIMITS
LANGUAGE DEFINES AND LIMITS
“SHE IS A DOCTOR”
“HE IS AN ATHLETE”
“HE IS A LAWYER”
“SHE IS A MOTHER”
“SHE IS A MODEL”
LANGUAGE VARIES IN LEVELS OF ABSTRACTION
WORDS SYMBOLIZE CONCRETE OR
ABSTRACT MEANING
HOW WORDS WORK
TRANSPORTATION VEHICLE CAR GERMAN CAR MERCEDES RED MERCEDES 500
WORDS CAN BE CREATIVE
SMARTPHONE
PRINCIPLES OF VERBAL COMMUNICATION
LANGUAGE IS SYMBOLIC LANGUAGE IS SUBJECTIVE DENOTATIVE OR CONOTATIVE GOVERNED BY RULES DEFINES AND LIMITS VARIES IN LEVELS OF ABSTRACTION CAN BE CREATIVE
OWNING YOUR LANGUAGE
“I THINK FRED IS GENEROUS.”
STATE LANGUAGE IN TERMS OF “I”
THE POWER OF “I STATEMENTS”
ESTABLISHES OWNER OR SOURCE OF IDEAPROVIDES TARGET TO RESPOND TOPREVENTS SPEAKING FOR OTHERSDISCOURAGES BLAMING OTHERS
THE FOUR LEVELS OF COMMUNICATION
SURFACE TALK: MINIMAL LEVEL OF DISCLOSURE
REPORTING FACTS: CONTENT OF MESSAGE CAN BE VERIFIED OR PROVEN
“I HAVE BROWN HAIR.”
GIVING OPINIONS:
“I BELIEVE”“I THINK”
“ PREDICT”
SHARING FEELINGS:
“I FEEL” (“EMBARRASSED”)“I’M PROUD”
“I ENJOY”
SELF DISCLOSURE
VOLUNTEERING INFORMATION ABOUT YOURSELF THAT WOULD OTHERWISE BE
UNOBTAINABLE OR UNKNOWABLE BY OTHERS
SELF DISCLOSURE
JOHARI WINDOW
GUIDELINES FOR SELF DISCLOSURE
DISCLOSE ONLY INFORMATION YOU WANT TO SHARE SELF-DISCLOSURE INVOLVES RISK SELF-DISCLOSURE SHOULD BE RECIPRICAL SELF-DISCLOSURE SHOULD NOT BE COERCED SELF-DISCLOSURE ALWAYS RESULTS IN DEEPER
UNDERSTANDING KEEP SELF-DISCLOSURE CONFIDENTIAL
"SPEECH IS THE MIRROR OF THE SOUL; AS A MAN SPEAKS, SO HE
IS.“-PUBLILIUS SYRUS
THE POWER OF LANGUAGE
BRAIN HEARING WORDS
THE POWER OF LANGUAGE
BRAIN READING WORDS
SUMMARY:
DEFINITION OF VERBAL COMMUNICATION PRINCIPLES OF VERBAL COMMUNICATION
OWNING YOUR LANGUAGE FOUR LEVELS OF COMMUNICATION
SELF DISCLOSURE