Linkage For Life

Linkage For Life

About Jack• Last 11 years in China teaching business, culture &

English in universities & companies & coaching executives: Presenting seminars/courses on self-knowledge (personality models, MBTI, Big 5, etc.), relationship (EQ) & performance skills

• 12 years before this, worked in Australia teaching & consulting: TAFE, aged care, career development, male-female singles introduction agency, Palliative Care (helping the dying), couples & singles relationship counseling & education

• 3 citizenships: American, Canadian & Australian• Before teaching, inventor & entrepreneur, husband &

father, writer of poetry & prose• Long time interest in Religion & Spirituality, Western

& Eastern Mysticism & Culture--China: Daoism, Confucianism, Buddhism, Yi Ching, Poetry – Laozi, Kongzi, Mengzi, Xunzi, Du Fu, Li Bai

Linkage For Life My Goals for this Time Together

I’d like to you to experience:

1. Thinking for yourself2. Caring to Learn3. Learning to Care4. Choosing to Live Responsibly Free

None of the above can be “taught”They can only be “caught”The more important things in life can’t be taughtThey are learned by doing

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The Five Domains to Be Freed From

1. Banksters & New World DisorderMoney and Control2. Wars & GovernmentsConflict and Control3.Schools & GovernmentsMinds and Control4. Psychiatry & the Pharmaceutical IndustryMinds and Money5. Environmentalism & New World DisorderMinds and Control

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Linkage For Life TransParency:

To Grow Up, Out, & Into Mature AdulthoodThrough Your Child, Adolescent, Parent

TransParency, two meanings:1. Becoming CLEAR all the way through your life so you are seen by others as having nothing to hide2. TRANScending Parenthood: KNOWing through & beyond being a Parent that you are a Person first & foremost•Helping your Child to grow along with YOU up & out!•Working yourself out of the job of being a Parent•Before, during & after you’re a Parent you’re a Person first•As your Son/Daughter is a Person first & foremost

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TransParency

• To RAISE your Child, you order the environment NOT your Son or Daughter

• Your Child is already “ordered” and Self-Controlled• OPPORTUNITY: grow yourself UP along with your Child• Grow your Child FREE of YOU to be independent• YOU are probably (for sure?) NOT yet a mature Adult• What is a “Mature Adult”?• Let’s find out

Linkage For Life Choose…YOU!

“You are only as free as you take the responsibility to be while allowing others to do the same.” Jack

“You haven’t met yourself yet. But the advantage to meeting others in the meantime is that one of them may present you to yourself. Examine the nature of everything you observe.” Waking Life, the Movie

Choice Theory, William Glasser“The only person whose behavior we can control is our own. All we can give another person is information. All long lasting psychological problems are relationship problems.”

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Open House…but Not for Sale

• Think of yourself as a “HOME” (Ho, Me!)• You are comfortable with yourself, “at home with yourself”• You place a sign outside yourself saying:

– “Welcome to my Open House!”– And just under this phrase is:– “But I am not For Sale”

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Linkage For Life My Brain Is Full, May I be Excused?

Jack’s Contact Details:Website: www.resourceforyoursource.comEmail: themesofjack@gmail.com QQ: 168 486 4831; Skype: jackinchina2005 Cell phone: (86) 1591 0600 531

Look Up & OutThe Spiral of Growth