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JulyAugust bull 2014
David Corbin
Active Living
Donrsquot Get AroundMuch Anymore
Big Band Night at the Ozone Lounge
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
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Donrsquot get Around Much Anymore
Big Band Night at
the Ozone Lounge ___________ S4
Keeping the Pace David Corbin ____ S6
Estate Planning
Married with Children _______ S8
Polio Panic of 1952 Do you remember
Dr Byron Oberst does ______ S12
Humor
You Know Yoursquore 60-Plus When __S14
Beat the Heat
And do it with style _________S16
The Grandpa Chronicles ________ S18
CONTENTS volume 2 bull issue 4
Gwen LemkeContributing Editor
60PLUS In Omaha
It Takes Two to Tango
T HE STORY ON DANCING and big band music in this issue brings back a flood of memories
I met my late husband Raymond on a dance floor A friend of mine at Mutual of Omaha took me to a ballroom dance class that happened to be led by a handsome young man named Raymond I think I paid for hellipoh maybe three classes
I learned enough that I was soon helping him teach others I loved dancing and I liked the handsome young man
After we were married we held classes in cou-plesrsquo homes with as many as 12 couples in a session We also had large classes at Offutt Air Force Base Raymond would stand in the middle of a very large circle with a microphone for the Base classeshellipand I would dance with all of the good-looking airmen mdashup to 50 in a class
Itrsquos amazing how many people I run into decades later that will mention that they took dance lessons from us
These were the big band days and we spent many nights dancing at Peony Park and The Music Box I treasure the many photographs of us in formal dress posing with all the big-name bandleaders whose tours included a stop in Omaha
We taught the tango cha cha rhumba fox trot waltz swinghellipeven the accordion-fueled polka
Itrsquos great to see that Arlene and Dave Beber on the dance floor at the Ozone Lounge (see story on Page 4) all dressed upmdashwith someplace to go
Keep on dancing Arlene and Dave Keep on dancing
Gwen
P EONY PARK CLOSED 20 years ago A wrecking ball followed shortly after to make way for a
Hy-Vee grocery storeArlene and Dave Beber donrsquot miss the roller
coaster And they donrsquot much think about the cotton candy arcades and corn dogs They do however long for the days of dancing under the stars at the parkrsquos alfresco band shell The Royal Grove
But it doesnrsquot mean that the couple who have been married for 62 years have given up on cutting a rug The pair dubbed ldquoFred and Gingerrdquo for their dancing prowess can be spotted most every Monday night at the Ozone Lounge at Anthonyrsquos Steakhouse Thatrsquos when Mike Gurciullo and His Las Vegas Big Band hit the stage
A recent visit to the Ozone found Dave and Arlene at their table the one
closest to stage right ldquoLife is too short and too many people take
it too seriouslyrdquo Dave says ldquoDancing is a great way to lighten up feel young and have funrdquo
ldquoWersquore here to dancerdquo adds Arlene ldquobut therersquos more to it than that Everybody here including the staff is like family to us The people are warm and welcomingrdquo
Bandleader Mike Gurciullo is a virtuoso trumpet man who goes by the handle of Gooch Hersquos toured extensively including as his bandrsquos name suggests gigs in Las Vegas Gooch was also featured earlier this year in accompanying Kathy Tyree in her title role of Ella at the Omaha Community Playhouse
ldquoItrsquos great to see the same faces every weekrdquo Gooch says ldquoItrsquos an honor to play for them Itrsquos almost a spiritual experience to be able to play hererdquo he adds before also compli-menting the staff of the club ldquoEverybody
Donrsquot Get Around Much Anymore Big Band Night at the Ozone Lounge
S4 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS featureby david williams bull photography by sarah lemke
knows everybody And Dave and Arlene are crowd favorites They are an elegant couple and beautiful dancersrdquo
Gooch who announces every song title played by his 16-piece band engages the audience with more than just his tunes A night at the Ozone is chock full of friendly banter from the stage He addresses most of the dancers by name in his little asides and even included a shout-out that night to the table known affectionately as ldquoThe Wine Ladiesrdquo
While most of the crowd is middle-aged or well beyondmdashthe Bebers politely demurred when asked how old they weremdashyouth is also served on big band night
Eric and Diana Powell now of Lisle Illinois are 25-year-old Omaha natives who are self-described ldquoband nerdsrdquo They met in jazz band while at Millard West High School
ldquoI played keyboardsrdquo Eric says ldquoand Diana played the trumpetrdquo just like Gooch
ldquoWe love this musicrdquo Diana adds ldquoWersquod be here every Monday night if we couldrdquo
The Bebers say they love all kinds of music ldquoEven Hip Hoprdquo says Dave before Arlene jumps in with ldquoPolka Not so much anymorerdquo And the Beberrsquos favorite dance number ldquoOh too many to mentionrdquo Arlene says as Dave puts his two cents in by crooning the lyrics of Nat King Colersquos ldquoUnforgettablerdquo Arlene nods in agreement ldquoAt Lastrdquo [Etta James] is another onerdquo Arlene continues ldquoWe have so many favorites And we had so many favor-ite places to dance Do you remember the Red Lion Or the Leopard Lounge And the Music Boxrdquo
The lifelong Omahans who worked together in operating their own medical bill-ing company while raising six boys were the
first on the dance floor that recent Monday night as Gooch and his boys opened their first set with Duke Ellingtonrsquos ldquoDonrsquot Get Around Much Anymorerdquo
But the irony of it all is that the Bebers still do get around Quite a lot as a matter of fact The hopelessly romantic couple even return on occasion to the Royal Grove or at least to the slab of parking lot concrete on the site where they danced so many nights away over the decades
ldquoWersquoll park the car roll down the windows and turn up the radiordquo Dave explains
ldquoAnd then we dancerdquo Arlene adds ldquoWe donrsquot care who sees us or what they think We get out of the car and dance right there in the parking lotrdquo
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S5
Keeping the Pace
David Corbin has no plans to slow down
S6 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by jillian humphries bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS active living
W HEN NOT CHASING AFTER his 6-year-old pup named Lily retired
University of Nebraska-Omaha professor David Corbin is keeping things interesting
Following his 31 years teaching health edu-cation Corbin has continued to maintain an active lifestyle both mentally and physi-cally He serves on several boards including the Health Association of Nebraska and is involved in Project Extra Mile He also recently co-authored the textbook Health for Life which will be used in high schools
At the end of a long week breaking a mental sweat Corbin leads an exercise class for older adults at deFreese Manor He started the class in 1983 after giving a presentation about exercise and older adults A partici-pant asked him if he would be interested in leading such a class and he has been there every Friday since
The class ranges from 80 to 90 in age His oldest participant lived to be 105 only quit-ting at 100 Now as Corbin approaches the age of his attendees he has come to appreciate the class even more
ldquoI benefit from the range of motion and resistance exercisesrdquo says Corbin ldquoThey help me and the participants stay more fit by emphasizing the types of exercises that can help to live independentlyrdquo
The class includes many exercises that can be done while seated Many incorporate homemade stretch bands created from old tire inner tubes scarves for juggling and rubber balls
Tai chi and dance are also a part of the mix and Corbin is no newbie to the dance scene
He met his wife Josie at a dance class Shersquos the director of The Moving Company the University of Nebraska-Omaha troupe that is one of the oldest college-based modern dance companies in the country Corbin joined the company one that boasts an all-ages intergenerational roster of talent
At the age of 68 Corbin doesnrsquot plan on slowing down anytime soon
ldquoItrsquos true what people sayrdquo he says ldquoUse it or lose it Learning new things is probably the best thing you can do for healthy agingrdquo
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S7
R EMARRIED CLIENTS WITH CHILDREN present some of the most interesting and some-
times challenging estate planning situations Generally there are three common scenarios one or both have young children from a prior marriage and more are possible one or both have teenage children and more children are unlikely and one or both have adult children and possibly grandchildren
The first question I must always address with prospective clients is ldquoCan I represent both of you or do you need to have separate attorneysrdquo If there are competing distribu-tion interests I cannot represent both This can also happen if there is a big disparity in ages andor wealth
Assuming that joint representation is pos-sible and agreed to we discuss and address what will happen without planning what does the couple want to achieve and how can that best be accomplished We start with
what happens if there are no wills If a spouse dies leaving children of a prior marriage the decedentrsquos estate will be split 5050 between the surviving spouse and the children of the earlier marriage This may produce particu-larly bad results of co-ownership between the decedentrsquos children and their step-parent We also talk about the right of a surviving spouse to elect to receive up to 50 of the couplersquos estate even if there is a will that would leave less to the survivor This may lead to dis-cussions about a will contract the use of a Qualified Terminable Interest Trust (QTIP) that provides income to the survivor for life with trust assets going to the first spousersquos beneficiaries after the second spousersquos death and the need to update retirement plan IRA and life insurance beneficiary designations
Since one or both of the couple has been through a divorce we also naturally talk about how estate planning and ownership of assets acquired both before and during the
Estate Planning
Married with Children
S8 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by margaret a badura
60PLUS money
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marriage (including increases in value) may affect a future division of marital property if this marriage were to fail
Having gotten those ldquopleasantriesrdquo out of the way we can now start getting to the couplersquos objectives and planning A common issue relates to the couplersquos home Letrsquos look at my experience with Susan (age 58) and Bob (age 62) who were planning what would be second marriages for both Susan had two adult children and Bob had one They were going to buy a home after the wedding and both were going to contribute equally to the $100000 down payment on a $200000 15-year first mortgage They said they planned to own it as joint tenants
But their proposed ownership of the house presented some problems Both wanted the survivor of them to be able to live in the house for the rest of their life and they wanted own-ership interests to go to their children Joint tenancy would be okay if there were a future divorce but at death it presented problems because the survivor would own 100 of the house We talked about being tenants in common with both owning 50 of the property That way both Susan and Bob could give their half to their children by will subject to a life estate in the survivor That might be okay if they were paying cash for the house but if one of them died before the mortgage was paid off the survivor would have paid more than the other for the house causing a windfall for the first decedentrsquos child(ren)
Susan and Bob decided on using a joint revocable trust to own the house with the ultimate beneficial interests being divided based on their respective contributions to the purchase
The trust dealt with the survivorrsquos occu-pancy free of rent and responsibility for mort-gage payments taxes repairs and utilities as well as possible sale and replacement prop-erty This approach allowed Susan and Bob to retain maximum flexibility while both were alive provide for the surviving spouse and equitably distribute their respective interests in their new house to their children based on their contributions to the purchase price
I am happy to report that Susan and Bob are happily married to this day
Guest contributor Margaret A Badura is an elder law and estate planning attorney
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S9
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M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
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W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
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Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
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Donrsquot get Around Much Anymore
Big Band Night at
the Ozone Lounge ___________ S4
Keeping the Pace David Corbin ____ S6
Estate Planning
Married with Children _______ S8
Polio Panic of 1952 Do you remember
Dr Byron Oberst does ______ S12
Humor
You Know Yoursquore 60-Plus When __S14
Beat the Heat
And do it with style _________S16
The Grandpa Chronicles ________ S18
CONTENTS volume 2 bull issue 4
Gwen LemkeContributing Editor
60PLUS In Omaha
It Takes Two to Tango
T HE STORY ON DANCING and big band music in this issue brings back a flood of memories
I met my late husband Raymond on a dance floor A friend of mine at Mutual of Omaha took me to a ballroom dance class that happened to be led by a handsome young man named Raymond I think I paid for hellipoh maybe three classes
I learned enough that I was soon helping him teach others I loved dancing and I liked the handsome young man
After we were married we held classes in cou-plesrsquo homes with as many as 12 couples in a session We also had large classes at Offutt Air Force Base Raymond would stand in the middle of a very large circle with a microphone for the Base classeshellipand I would dance with all of the good-looking airmen mdashup to 50 in a class
Itrsquos amazing how many people I run into decades later that will mention that they took dance lessons from us
These were the big band days and we spent many nights dancing at Peony Park and The Music Box I treasure the many photographs of us in formal dress posing with all the big-name bandleaders whose tours included a stop in Omaha
We taught the tango cha cha rhumba fox trot waltz swinghellipeven the accordion-fueled polka
Itrsquos great to see that Arlene and Dave Beber on the dance floor at the Ozone Lounge (see story on Page 4) all dressed upmdashwith someplace to go
Keep on dancing Arlene and Dave Keep on dancing
Gwen
P EONY PARK CLOSED 20 years ago A wrecking ball followed shortly after to make way for a
Hy-Vee grocery storeArlene and Dave Beber donrsquot miss the roller
coaster And they donrsquot much think about the cotton candy arcades and corn dogs They do however long for the days of dancing under the stars at the parkrsquos alfresco band shell The Royal Grove
But it doesnrsquot mean that the couple who have been married for 62 years have given up on cutting a rug The pair dubbed ldquoFred and Gingerrdquo for their dancing prowess can be spotted most every Monday night at the Ozone Lounge at Anthonyrsquos Steakhouse Thatrsquos when Mike Gurciullo and His Las Vegas Big Band hit the stage
A recent visit to the Ozone found Dave and Arlene at their table the one
closest to stage right ldquoLife is too short and too many people take
it too seriouslyrdquo Dave says ldquoDancing is a great way to lighten up feel young and have funrdquo
ldquoWersquore here to dancerdquo adds Arlene ldquobut therersquos more to it than that Everybody here including the staff is like family to us The people are warm and welcomingrdquo
Bandleader Mike Gurciullo is a virtuoso trumpet man who goes by the handle of Gooch Hersquos toured extensively including as his bandrsquos name suggests gigs in Las Vegas Gooch was also featured earlier this year in accompanying Kathy Tyree in her title role of Ella at the Omaha Community Playhouse
ldquoItrsquos great to see the same faces every weekrdquo Gooch says ldquoItrsquos an honor to play for them Itrsquos almost a spiritual experience to be able to play hererdquo he adds before also compli-menting the staff of the club ldquoEverybody
Donrsquot Get Around Much Anymore Big Band Night at the Ozone Lounge
S4 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS featureby david williams bull photography by sarah lemke
knows everybody And Dave and Arlene are crowd favorites They are an elegant couple and beautiful dancersrdquo
Gooch who announces every song title played by his 16-piece band engages the audience with more than just his tunes A night at the Ozone is chock full of friendly banter from the stage He addresses most of the dancers by name in his little asides and even included a shout-out that night to the table known affectionately as ldquoThe Wine Ladiesrdquo
While most of the crowd is middle-aged or well beyondmdashthe Bebers politely demurred when asked how old they weremdashyouth is also served on big band night
Eric and Diana Powell now of Lisle Illinois are 25-year-old Omaha natives who are self-described ldquoband nerdsrdquo They met in jazz band while at Millard West High School
ldquoI played keyboardsrdquo Eric says ldquoand Diana played the trumpetrdquo just like Gooch
ldquoWe love this musicrdquo Diana adds ldquoWersquod be here every Monday night if we couldrdquo
The Bebers say they love all kinds of music ldquoEven Hip Hoprdquo says Dave before Arlene jumps in with ldquoPolka Not so much anymorerdquo And the Beberrsquos favorite dance number ldquoOh too many to mentionrdquo Arlene says as Dave puts his two cents in by crooning the lyrics of Nat King Colersquos ldquoUnforgettablerdquo Arlene nods in agreement ldquoAt Lastrdquo [Etta James] is another onerdquo Arlene continues ldquoWe have so many favorites And we had so many favor-ite places to dance Do you remember the Red Lion Or the Leopard Lounge And the Music Boxrdquo
The lifelong Omahans who worked together in operating their own medical bill-ing company while raising six boys were the
first on the dance floor that recent Monday night as Gooch and his boys opened their first set with Duke Ellingtonrsquos ldquoDonrsquot Get Around Much Anymorerdquo
But the irony of it all is that the Bebers still do get around Quite a lot as a matter of fact The hopelessly romantic couple even return on occasion to the Royal Grove or at least to the slab of parking lot concrete on the site where they danced so many nights away over the decades
ldquoWersquoll park the car roll down the windows and turn up the radiordquo Dave explains
ldquoAnd then we dancerdquo Arlene adds ldquoWe donrsquot care who sees us or what they think We get out of the car and dance right there in the parking lotrdquo
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S5
Keeping the Pace
David Corbin has no plans to slow down
S6 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by jillian humphries bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS active living
W HEN NOT CHASING AFTER his 6-year-old pup named Lily retired
University of Nebraska-Omaha professor David Corbin is keeping things interesting
Following his 31 years teaching health edu-cation Corbin has continued to maintain an active lifestyle both mentally and physi-cally He serves on several boards including the Health Association of Nebraska and is involved in Project Extra Mile He also recently co-authored the textbook Health for Life which will be used in high schools
At the end of a long week breaking a mental sweat Corbin leads an exercise class for older adults at deFreese Manor He started the class in 1983 after giving a presentation about exercise and older adults A partici-pant asked him if he would be interested in leading such a class and he has been there every Friday since
The class ranges from 80 to 90 in age His oldest participant lived to be 105 only quit-ting at 100 Now as Corbin approaches the age of his attendees he has come to appreciate the class even more
ldquoI benefit from the range of motion and resistance exercisesrdquo says Corbin ldquoThey help me and the participants stay more fit by emphasizing the types of exercises that can help to live independentlyrdquo
The class includes many exercises that can be done while seated Many incorporate homemade stretch bands created from old tire inner tubes scarves for juggling and rubber balls
Tai chi and dance are also a part of the mix and Corbin is no newbie to the dance scene
He met his wife Josie at a dance class Shersquos the director of The Moving Company the University of Nebraska-Omaha troupe that is one of the oldest college-based modern dance companies in the country Corbin joined the company one that boasts an all-ages intergenerational roster of talent
At the age of 68 Corbin doesnrsquot plan on slowing down anytime soon
ldquoItrsquos true what people sayrdquo he says ldquoUse it or lose it Learning new things is probably the best thing you can do for healthy agingrdquo
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S7
R EMARRIED CLIENTS WITH CHILDREN present some of the most interesting and some-
times challenging estate planning situations Generally there are three common scenarios one or both have young children from a prior marriage and more are possible one or both have teenage children and more children are unlikely and one or both have adult children and possibly grandchildren
The first question I must always address with prospective clients is ldquoCan I represent both of you or do you need to have separate attorneysrdquo If there are competing distribu-tion interests I cannot represent both This can also happen if there is a big disparity in ages andor wealth
Assuming that joint representation is pos-sible and agreed to we discuss and address what will happen without planning what does the couple want to achieve and how can that best be accomplished We start with
what happens if there are no wills If a spouse dies leaving children of a prior marriage the decedentrsquos estate will be split 5050 between the surviving spouse and the children of the earlier marriage This may produce particu-larly bad results of co-ownership between the decedentrsquos children and their step-parent We also talk about the right of a surviving spouse to elect to receive up to 50 of the couplersquos estate even if there is a will that would leave less to the survivor This may lead to dis-cussions about a will contract the use of a Qualified Terminable Interest Trust (QTIP) that provides income to the survivor for life with trust assets going to the first spousersquos beneficiaries after the second spousersquos death and the need to update retirement plan IRA and life insurance beneficiary designations
Since one or both of the couple has been through a divorce we also naturally talk about how estate planning and ownership of assets acquired both before and during the
Estate Planning
Married with Children
S8 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by margaret a badura
60PLUS money
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marriage (including increases in value) may affect a future division of marital property if this marriage were to fail
Having gotten those ldquopleasantriesrdquo out of the way we can now start getting to the couplersquos objectives and planning A common issue relates to the couplersquos home Letrsquos look at my experience with Susan (age 58) and Bob (age 62) who were planning what would be second marriages for both Susan had two adult children and Bob had one They were going to buy a home after the wedding and both were going to contribute equally to the $100000 down payment on a $200000 15-year first mortgage They said they planned to own it as joint tenants
But their proposed ownership of the house presented some problems Both wanted the survivor of them to be able to live in the house for the rest of their life and they wanted own-ership interests to go to their children Joint tenancy would be okay if there were a future divorce but at death it presented problems because the survivor would own 100 of the house We talked about being tenants in common with both owning 50 of the property That way both Susan and Bob could give their half to their children by will subject to a life estate in the survivor That might be okay if they were paying cash for the house but if one of them died before the mortgage was paid off the survivor would have paid more than the other for the house causing a windfall for the first decedentrsquos child(ren)
Susan and Bob decided on using a joint revocable trust to own the house with the ultimate beneficial interests being divided based on their respective contributions to the purchase
The trust dealt with the survivorrsquos occu-pancy free of rent and responsibility for mort-gage payments taxes repairs and utilities as well as possible sale and replacement prop-erty This approach allowed Susan and Bob to retain maximum flexibility while both were alive provide for the surviving spouse and equitably distribute their respective interests in their new house to their children based on their contributions to the purchase price
I am happy to report that Susan and Bob are happily married to this day
Guest contributor Margaret A Badura is an elder law and estate planning attorney
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S9
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M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
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W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
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Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
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Donrsquot get Around Much Anymore
Big Band Night at
the Ozone Lounge ___________ S4
Keeping the Pace David Corbin ____ S6
Estate Planning
Married with Children _______ S8
Polio Panic of 1952 Do you remember
Dr Byron Oberst does ______ S12
Humor
You Know Yoursquore 60-Plus When __S14
Beat the Heat
And do it with style _________S16
The Grandpa Chronicles ________ S18
CONTENTS volume 2 bull issue 4
Gwen LemkeContributing Editor
60PLUS In Omaha
It Takes Two to Tango
T HE STORY ON DANCING and big band music in this issue brings back a flood of memories
I met my late husband Raymond on a dance floor A friend of mine at Mutual of Omaha took me to a ballroom dance class that happened to be led by a handsome young man named Raymond I think I paid for hellipoh maybe three classes
I learned enough that I was soon helping him teach others I loved dancing and I liked the handsome young man
After we were married we held classes in cou-plesrsquo homes with as many as 12 couples in a session We also had large classes at Offutt Air Force Base Raymond would stand in the middle of a very large circle with a microphone for the Base classeshellipand I would dance with all of the good-looking airmen mdashup to 50 in a class
Itrsquos amazing how many people I run into decades later that will mention that they took dance lessons from us
These were the big band days and we spent many nights dancing at Peony Park and The Music Box I treasure the many photographs of us in formal dress posing with all the big-name bandleaders whose tours included a stop in Omaha
We taught the tango cha cha rhumba fox trot waltz swinghellipeven the accordion-fueled polka
Itrsquos great to see that Arlene and Dave Beber on the dance floor at the Ozone Lounge (see story on Page 4) all dressed upmdashwith someplace to go
Keep on dancing Arlene and Dave Keep on dancing
Gwen
P EONY PARK CLOSED 20 years ago A wrecking ball followed shortly after to make way for a
Hy-Vee grocery storeArlene and Dave Beber donrsquot miss the roller
coaster And they donrsquot much think about the cotton candy arcades and corn dogs They do however long for the days of dancing under the stars at the parkrsquos alfresco band shell The Royal Grove
But it doesnrsquot mean that the couple who have been married for 62 years have given up on cutting a rug The pair dubbed ldquoFred and Gingerrdquo for their dancing prowess can be spotted most every Monday night at the Ozone Lounge at Anthonyrsquos Steakhouse Thatrsquos when Mike Gurciullo and His Las Vegas Big Band hit the stage
A recent visit to the Ozone found Dave and Arlene at their table the one
closest to stage right ldquoLife is too short and too many people take
it too seriouslyrdquo Dave says ldquoDancing is a great way to lighten up feel young and have funrdquo
ldquoWersquore here to dancerdquo adds Arlene ldquobut therersquos more to it than that Everybody here including the staff is like family to us The people are warm and welcomingrdquo
Bandleader Mike Gurciullo is a virtuoso trumpet man who goes by the handle of Gooch Hersquos toured extensively including as his bandrsquos name suggests gigs in Las Vegas Gooch was also featured earlier this year in accompanying Kathy Tyree in her title role of Ella at the Omaha Community Playhouse
ldquoItrsquos great to see the same faces every weekrdquo Gooch says ldquoItrsquos an honor to play for them Itrsquos almost a spiritual experience to be able to play hererdquo he adds before also compli-menting the staff of the club ldquoEverybody
Donrsquot Get Around Much Anymore Big Band Night at the Ozone Lounge
S4 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS featureby david williams bull photography by sarah lemke
knows everybody And Dave and Arlene are crowd favorites They are an elegant couple and beautiful dancersrdquo
Gooch who announces every song title played by his 16-piece band engages the audience with more than just his tunes A night at the Ozone is chock full of friendly banter from the stage He addresses most of the dancers by name in his little asides and even included a shout-out that night to the table known affectionately as ldquoThe Wine Ladiesrdquo
While most of the crowd is middle-aged or well beyondmdashthe Bebers politely demurred when asked how old they weremdashyouth is also served on big band night
Eric and Diana Powell now of Lisle Illinois are 25-year-old Omaha natives who are self-described ldquoband nerdsrdquo They met in jazz band while at Millard West High School
ldquoI played keyboardsrdquo Eric says ldquoand Diana played the trumpetrdquo just like Gooch
ldquoWe love this musicrdquo Diana adds ldquoWersquod be here every Monday night if we couldrdquo
The Bebers say they love all kinds of music ldquoEven Hip Hoprdquo says Dave before Arlene jumps in with ldquoPolka Not so much anymorerdquo And the Beberrsquos favorite dance number ldquoOh too many to mentionrdquo Arlene says as Dave puts his two cents in by crooning the lyrics of Nat King Colersquos ldquoUnforgettablerdquo Arlene nods in agreement ldquoAt Lastrdquo [Etta James] is another onerdquo Arlene continues ldquoWe have so many favorites And we had so many favor-ite places to dance Do you remember the Red Lion Or the Leopard Lounge And the Music Boxrdquo
The lifelong Omahans who worked together in operating their own medical bill-ing company while raising six boys were the
first on the dance floor that recent Monday night as Gooch and his boys opened their first set with Duke Ellingtonrsquos ldquoDonrsquot Get Around Much Anymorerdquo
But the irony of it all is that the Bebers still do get around Quite a lot as a matter of fact The hopelessly romantic couple even return on occasion to the Royal Grove or at least to the slab of parking lot concrete on the site where they danced so many nights away over the decades
ldquoWersquoll park the car roll down the windows and turn up the radiordquo Dave explains
ldquoAnd then we dancerdquo Arlene adds ldquoWe donrsquot care who sees us or what they think We get out of the car and dance right there in the parking lotrdquo
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S5
Keeping the Pace
David Corbin has no plans to slow down
S6 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by jillian humphries bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS active living
W HEN NOT CHASING AFTER his 6-year-old pup named Lily retired
University of Nebraska-Omaha professor David Corbin is keeping things interesting
Following his 31 years teaching health edu-cation Corbin has continued to maintain an active lifestyle both mentally and physi-cally He serves on several boards including the Health Association of Nebraska and is involved in Project Extra Mile He also recently co-authored the textbook Health for Life which will be used in high schools
At the end of a long week breaking a mental sweat Corbin leads an exercise class for older adults at deFreese Manor He started the class in 1983 after giving a presentation about exercise and older adults A partici-pant asked him if he would be interested in leading such a class and he has been there every Friday since
The class ranges from 80 to 90 in age His oldest participant lived to be 105 only quit-ting at 100 Now as Corbin approaches the age of his attendees he has come to appreciate the class even more
ldquoI benefit from the range of motion and resistance exercisesrdquo says Corbin ldquoThey help me and the participants stay more fit by emphasizing the types of exercises that can help to live independentlyrdquo
The class includes many exercises that can be done while seated Many incorporate homemade stretch bands created from old tire inner tubes scarves for juggling and rubber balls
Tai chi and dance are also a part of the mix and Corbin is no newbie to the dance scene
He met his wife Josie at a dance class Shersquos the director of The Moving Company the University of Nebraska-Omaha troupe that is one of the oldest college-based modern dance companies in the country Corbin joined the company one that boasts an all-ages intergenerational roster of talent
At the age of 68 Corbin doesnrsquot plan on slowing down anytime soon
ldquoItrsquos true what people sayrdquo he says ldquoUse it or lose it Learning new things is probably the best thing you can do for healthy agingrdquo
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S7
R EMARRIED CLIENTS WITH CHILDREN present some of the most interesting and some-
times challenging estate planning situations Generally there are three common scenarios one or both have young children from a prior marriage and more are possible one or both have teenage children and more children are unlikely and one or both have adult children and possibly grandchildren
The first question I must always address with prospective clients is ldquoCan I represent both of you or do you need to have separate attorneysrdquo If there are competing distribu-tion interests I cannot represent both This can also happen if there is a big disparity in ages andor wealth
Assuming that joint representation is pos-sible and agreed to we discuss and address what will happen without planning what does the couple want to achieve and how can that best be accomplished We start with
what happens if there are no wills If a spouse dies leaving children of a prior marriage the decedentrsquos estate will be split 5050 between the surviving spouse and the children of the earlier marriage This may produce particu-larly bad results of co-ownership between the decedentrsquos children and their step-parent We also talk about the right of a surviving spouse to elect to receive up to 50 of the couplersquos estate even if there is a will that would leave less to the survivor This may lead to dis-cussions about a will contract the use of a Qualified Terminable Interest Trust (QTIP) that provides income to the survivor for life with trust assets going to the first spousersquos beneficiaries after the second spousersquos death and the need to update retirement plan IRA and life insurance beneficiary designations
Since one or both of the couple has been through a divorce we also naturally talk about how estate planning and ownership of assets acquired both before and during the
Estate Planning
Married with Children
S8 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by margaret a badura
60PLUS money
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marriage (including increases in value) may affect a future division of marital property if this marriage were to fail
Having gotten those ldquopleasantriesrdquo out of the way we can now start getting to the couplersquos objectives and planning A common issue relates to the couplersquos home Letrsquos look at my experience with Susan (age 58) and Bob (age 62) who were planning what would be second marriages for both Susan had two adult children and Bob had one They were going to buy a home after the wedding and both were going to contribute equally to the $100000 down payment on a $200000 15-year first mortgage They said they planned to own it as joint tenants
But their proposed ownership of the house presented some problems Both wanted the survivor of them to be able to live in the house for the rest of their life and they wanted own-ership interests to go to their children Joint tenancy would be okay if there were a future divorce but at death it presented problems because the survivor would own 100 of the house We talked about being tenants in common with both owning 50 of the property That way both Susan and Bob could give their half to their children by will subject to a life estate in the survivor That might be okay if they were paying cash for the house but if one of them died before the mortgage was paid off the survivor would have paid more than the other for the house causing a windfall for the first decedentrsquos child(ren)
Susan and Bob decided on using a joint revocable trust to own the house with the ultimate beneficial interests being divided based on their respective contributions to the purchase
The trust dealt with the survivorrsquos occu-pancy free of rent and responsibility for mort-gage payments taxes repairs and utilities as well as possible sale and replacement prop-erty This approach allowed Susan and Bob to retain maximum flexibility while both were alive provide for the surviving spouse and equitably distribute their respective interests in their new house to their children based on their contributions to the purchase price
I am happy to report that Susan and Bob are happily married to this day
Guest contributor Margaret A Badura is an elder law and estate planning attorney
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S9
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M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
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W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
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Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
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julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
P EONY PARK CLOSED 20 years ago A wrecking ball followed shortly after to make way for a
Hy-Vee grocery storeArlene and Dave Beber donrsquot miss the roller
coaster And they donrsquot much think about the cotton candy arcades and corn dogs They do however long for the days of dancing under the stars at the parkrsquos alfresco band shell The Royal Grove
But it doesnrsquot mean that the couple who have been married for 62 years have given up on cutting a rug The pair dubbed ldquoFred and Gingerrdquo for their dancing prowess can be spotted most every Monday night at the Ozone Lounge at Anthonyrsquos Steakhouse Thatrsquos when Mike Gurciullo and His Las Vegas Big Band hit the stage
A recent visit to the Ozone found Dave and Arlene at their table the one
closest to stage right ldquoLife is too short and too many people take
it too seriouslyrdquo Dave says ldquoDancing is a great way to lighten up feel young and have funrdquo
ldquoWersquore here to dancerdquo adds Arlene ldquobut therersquos more to it than that Everybody here including the staff is like family to us The people are warm and welcomingrdquo
Bandleader Mike Gurciullo is a virtuoso trumpet man who goes by the handle of Gooch Hersquos toured extensively including as his bandrsquos name suggests gigs in Las Vegas Gooch was also featured earlier this year in accompanying Kathy Tyree in her title role of Ella at the Omaha Community Playhouse
ldquoItrsquos great to see the same faces every weekrdquo Gooch says ldquoItrsquos an honor to play for them Itrsquos almost a spiritual experience to be able to play hererdquo he adds before also compli-menting the staff of the club ldquoEverybody
Donrsquot Get Around Much Anymore Big Band Night at the Ozone Lounge
S4 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS featureby david williams bull photography by sarah lemke
knows everybody And Dave and Arlene are crowd favorites They are an elegant couple and beautiful dancersrdquo
Gooch who announces every song title played by his 16-piece band engages the audience with more than just his tunes A night at the Ozone is chock full of friendly banter from the stage He addresses most of the dancers by name in his little asides and even included a shout-out that night to the table known affectionately as ldquoThe Wine Ladiesrdquo
While most of the crowd is middle-aged or well beyondmdashthe Bebers politely demurred when asked how old they weremdashyouth is also served on big band night
Eric and Diana Powell now of Lisle Illinois are 25-year-old Omaha natives who are self-described ldquoband nerdsrdquo They met in jazz band while at Millard West High School
ldquoI played keyboardsrdquo Eric says ldquoand Diana played the trumpetrdquo just like Gooch
ldquoWe love this musicrdquo Diana adds ldquoWersquod be here every Monday night if we couldrdquo
The Bebers say they love all kinds of music ldquoEven Hip Hoprdquo says Dave before Arlene jumps in with ldquoPolka Not so much anymorerdquo And the Beberrsquos favorite dance number ldquoOh too many to mentionrdquo Arlene says as Dave puts his two cents in by crooning the lyrics of Nat King Colersquos ldquoUnforgettablerdquo Arlene nods in agreement ldquoAt Lastrdquo [Etta James] is another onerdquo Arlene continues ldquoWe have so many favorites And we had so many favor-ite places to dance Do you remember the Red Lion Or the Leopard Lounge And the Music Boxrdquo
The lifelong Omahans who worked together in operating their own medical bill-ing company while raising six boys were the
first on the dance floor that recent Monday night as Gooch and his boys opened their first set with Duke Ellingtonrsquos ldquoDonrsquot Get Around Much Anymorerdquo
But the irony of it all is that the Bebers still do get around Quite a lot as a matter of fact The hopelessly romantic couple even return on occasion to the Royal Grove or at least to the slab of parking lot concrete on the site where they danced so many nights away over the decades
ldquoWersquoll park the car roll down the windows and turn up the radiordquo Dave explains
ldquoAnd then we dancerdquo Arlene adds ldquoWe donrsquot care who sees us or what they think We get out of the car and dance right there in the parking lotrdquo
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S5
Keeping the Pace
David Corbin has no plans to slow down
S6 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by jillian humphries bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS active living
W HEN NOT CHASING AFTER his 6-year-old pup named Lily retired
University of Nebraska-Omaha professor David Corbin is keeping things interesting
Following his 31 years teaching health edu-cation Corbin has continued to maintain an active lifestyle both mentally and physi-cally He serves on several boards including the Health Association of Nebraska and is involved in Project Extra Mile He also recently co-authored the textbook Health for Life which will be used in high schools
At the end of a long week breaking a mental sweat Corbin leads an exercise class for older adults at deFreese Manor He started the class in 1983 after giving a presentation about exercise and older adults A partici-pant asked him if he would be interested in leading such a class and he has been there every Friday since
The class ranges from 80 to 90 in age His oldest participant lived to be 105 only quit-ting at 100 Now as Corbin approaches the age of his attendees he has come to appreciate the class even more
ldquoI benefit from the range of motion and resistance exercisesrdquo says Corbin ldquoThey help me and the participants stay more fit by emphasizing the types of exercises that can help to live independentlyrdquo
The class includes many exercises that can be done while seated Many incorporate homemade stretch bands created from old tire inner tubes scarves for juggling and rubber balls
Tai chi and dance are also a part of the mix and Corbin is no newbie to the dance scene
He met his wife Josie at a dance class Shersquos the director of The Moving Company the University of Nebraska-Omaha troupe that is one of the oldest college-based modern dance companies in the country Corbin joined the company one that boasts an all-ages intergenerational roster of talent
At the age of 68 Corbin doesnrsquot plan on slowing down anytime soon
ldquoItrsquos true what people sayrdquo he says ldquoUse it or lose it Learning new things is probably the best thing you can do for healthy agingrdquo
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S7
R EMARRIED CLIENTS WITH CHILDREN present some of the most interesting and some-
times challenging estate planning situations Generally there are three common scenarios one or both have young children from a prior marriage and more are possible one or both have teenage children and more children are unlikely and one or both have adult children and possibly grandchildren
The first question I must always address with prospective clients is ldquoCan I represent both of you or do you need to have separate attorneysrdquo If there are competing distribu-tion interests I cannot represent both This can also happen if there is a big disparity in ages andor wealth
Assuming that joint representation is pos-sible and agreed to we discuss and address what will happen without planning what does the couple want to achieve and how can that best be accomplished We start with
what happens if there are no wills If a spouse dies leaving children of a prior marriage the decedentrsquos estate will be split 5050 between the surviving spouse and the children of the earlier marriage This may produce particu-larly bad results of co-ownership between the decedentrsquos children and their step-parent We also talk about the right of a surviving spouse to elect to receive up to 50 of the couplersquos estate even if there is a will that would leave less to the survivor This may lead to dis-cussions about a will contract the use of a Qualified Terminable Interest Trust (QTIP) that provides income to the survivor for life with trust assets going to the first spousersquos beneficiaries after the second spousersquos death and the need to update retirement plan IRA and life insurance beneficiary designations
Since one or both of the couple has been through a divorce we also naturally talk about how estate planning and ownership of assets acquired both before and during the
Estate Planning
Married with Children
S8 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by margaret a badura
60PLUS money
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Helping Seniors Adapt to Technology
marriage (including increases in value) may affect a future division of marital property if this marriage were to fail
Having gotten those ldquopleasantriesrdquo out of the way we can now start getting to the couplersquos objectives and planning A common issue relates to the couplersquos home Letrsquos look at my experience with Susan (age 58) and Bob (age 62) who were planning what would be second marriages for both Susan had two adult children and Bob had one They were going to buy a home after the wedding and both were going to contribute equally to the $100000 down payment on a $200000 15-year first mortgage They said they planned to own it as joint tenants
But their proposed ownership of the house presented some problems Both wanted the survivor of them to be able to live in the house for the rest of their life and they wanted own-ership interests to go to their children Joint tenancy would be okay if there were a future divorce but at death it presented problems because the survivor would own 100 of the house We talked about being tenants in common with both owning 50 of the property That way both Susan and Bob could give their half to their children by will subject to a life estate in the survivor That might be okay if they were paying cash for the house but if one of them died before the mortgage was paid off the survivor would have paid more than the other for the house causing a windfall for the first decedentrsquos child(ren)
Susan and Bob decided on using a joint revocable trust to own the house with the ultimate beneficial interests being divided based on their respective contributions to the purchase
The trust dealt with the survivorrsquos occu-pancy free of rent and responsibility for mort-gage payments taxes repairs and utilities as well as possible sale and replacement prop-erty This approach allowed Susan and Bob to retain maximum flexibility while both were alive provide for the surviving spouse and equitably distribute their respective interests in their new house to their children based on their contributions to the purchase price
I am happy to report that Susan and Bob are happily married to this day
Guest contributor Margaret A Badura is an elder law and estate planning attorney
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S9
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S12 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
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W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
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Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
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Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
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julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
knows everybody And Dave and Arlene are crowd favorites They are an elegant couple and beautiful dancersrdquo
Gooch who announces every song title played by his 16-piece band engages the audience with more than just his tunes A night at the Ozone is chock full of friendly banter from the stage He addresses most of the dancers by name in his little asides and even included a shout-out that night to the table known affectionately as ldquoThe Wine Ladiesrdquo
While most of the crowd is middle-aged or well beyondmdashthe Bebers politely demurred when asked how old they weremdashyouth is also served on big band night
Eric and Diana Powell now of Lisle Illinois are 25-year-old Omaha natives who are self-described ldquoband nerdsrdquo They met in jazz band while at Millard West High School
ldquoI played keyboardsrdquo Eric says ldquoand Diana played the trumpetrdquo just like Gooch
ldquoWe love this musicrdquo Diana adds ldquoWersquod be here every Monday night if we couldrdquo
The Bebers say they love all kinds of music ldquoEven Hip Hoprdquo says Dave before Arlene jumps in with ldquoPolka Not so much anymorerdquo And the Beberrsquos favorite dance number ldquoOh too many to mentionrdquo Arlene says as Dave puts his two cents in by crooning the lyrics of Nat King Colersquos ldquoUnforgettablerdquo Arlene nods in agreement ldquoAt Lastrdquo [Etta James] is another onerdquo Arlene continues ldquoWe have so many favorites And we had so many favor-ite places to dance Do you remember the Red Lion Or the Leopard Lounge And the Music Boxrdquo
The lifelong Omahans who worked together in operating their own medical bill-ing company while raising six boys were the
first on the dance floor that recent Monday night as Gooch and his boys opened their first set with Duke Ellingtonrsquos ldquoDonrsquot Get Around Much Anymorerdquo
But the irony of it all is that the Bebers still do get around Quite a lot as a matter of fact The hopelessly romantic couple even return on occasion to the Royal Grove or at least to the slab of parking lot concrete on the site where they danced so many nights away over the decades
ldquoWersquoll park the car roll down the windows and turn up the radiordquo Dave explains
ldquoAnd then we dancerdquo Arlene adds ldquoWe donrsquot care who sees us or what they think We get out of the car and dance right there in the parking lotrdquo
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S5
Keeping the Pace
David Corbin has no plans to slow down
S6 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by jillian humphries bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS active living
W HEN NOT CHASING AFTER his 6-year-old pup named Lily retired
University of Nebraska-Omaha professor David Corbin is keeping things interesting
Following his 31 years teaching health edu-cation Corbin has continued to maintain an active lifestyle both mentally and physi-cally He serves on several boards including the Health Association of Nebraska and is involved in Project Extra Mile He also recently co-authored the textbook Health for Life which will be used in high schools
At the end of a long week breaking a mental sweat Corbin leads an exercise class for older adults at deFreese Manor He started the class in 1983 after giving a presentation about exercise and older adults A partici-pant asked him if he would be interested in leading such a class and he has been there every Friday since
The class ranges from 80 to 90 in age His oldest participant lived to be 105 only quit-ting at 100 Now as Corbin approaches the age of his attendees he has come to appreciate the class even more
ldquoI benefit from the range of motion and resistance exercisesrdquo says Corbin ldquoThey help me and the participants stay more fit by emphasizing the types of exercises that can help to live independentlyrdquo
The class includes many exercises that can be done while seated Many incorporate homemade stretch bands created from old tire inner tubes scarves for juggling and rubber balls
Tai chi and dance are also a part of the mix and Corbin is no newbie to the dance scene
He met his wife Josie at a dance class Shersquos the director of The Moving Company the University of Nebraska-Omaha troupe that is one of the oldest college-based modern dance companies in the country Corbin joined the company one that boasts an all-ages intergenerational roster of talent
At the age of 68 Corbin doesnrsquot plan on slowing down anytime soon
ldquoItrsquos true what people sayrdquo he says ldquoUse it or lose it Learning new things is probably the best thing you can do for healthy agingrdquo
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S7
R EMARRIED CLIENTS WITH CHILDREN present some of the most interesting and some-
times challenging estate planning situations Generally there are three common scenarios one or both have young children from a prior marriage and more are possible one or both have teenage children and more children are unlikely and one or both have adult children and possibly grandchildren
The first question I must always address with prospective clients is ldquoCan I represent both of you or do you need to have separate attorneysrdquo If there are competing distribu-tion interests I cannot represent both This can also happen if there is a big disparity in ages andor wealth
Assuming that joint representation is pos-sible and agreed to we discuss and address what will happen without planning what does the couple want to achieve and how can that best be accomplished We start with
what happens if there are no wills If a spouse dies leaving children of a prior marriage the decedentrsquos estate will be split 5050 between the surviving spouse and the children of the earlier marriage This may produce particu-larly bad results of co-ownership between the decedentrsquos children and their step-parent We also talk about the right of a surviving spouse to elect to receive up to 50 of the couplersquos estate even if there is a will that would leave less to the survivor This may lead to dis-cussions about a will contract the use of a Qualified Terminable Interest Trust (QTIP) that provides income to the survivor for life with trust assets going to the first spousersquos beneficiaries after the second spousersquos death and the need to update retirement plan IRA and life insurance beneficiary designations
Since one or both of the couple has been through a divorce we also naturally talk about how estate planning and ownership of assets acquired both before and during the
Estate Planning
Married with Children
S8 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by margaret a badura
60PLUS money
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Nebraska Low Vision402-905-2794
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marriage (including increases in value) may affect a future division of marital property if this marriage were to fail
Having gotten those ldquopleasantriesrdquo out of the way we can now start getting to the couplersquos objectives and planning A common issue relates to the couplersquos home Letrsquos look at my experience with Susan (age 58) and Bob (age 62) who were planning what would be second marriages for both Susan had two adult children and Bob had one They were going to buy a home after the wedding and both were going to contribute equally to the $100000 down payment on a $200000 15-year first mortgage They said they planned to own it as joint tenants
But their proposed ownership of the house presented some problems Both wanted the survivor of them to be able to live in the house for the rest of their life and they wanted own-ership interests to go to their children Joint tenancy would be okay if there were a future divorce but at death it presented problems because the survivor would own 100 of the house We talked about being tenants in common with both owning 50 of the property That way both Susan and Bob could give their half to their children by will subject to a life estate in the survivor That might be okay if they were paying cash for the house but if one of them died before the mortgage was paid off the survivor would have paid more than the other for the house causing a windfall for the first decedentrsquos child(ren)
Susan and Bob decided on using a joint revocable trust to own the house with the ultimate beneficial interests being divided based on their respective contributions to the purchase
The trust dealt with the survivorrsquos occu-pancy free of rent and responsibility for mort-gage payments taxes repairs and utilities as well as possible sale and replacement prop-erty This approach allowed Susan and Bob to retain maximum flexibility while both were alive provide for the surviving spouse and equitably distribute their respective interests in their new house to their children based on their contributions to the purchase price
I am happy to report that Susan and Bob are happily married to this day
Guest contributor Margaret A Badura is an elder law and estate planning attorney
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S9
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S12 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
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W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
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Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
Keeping the Pace
David Corbin has no plans to slow down
S6 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by jillian humphries bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS active living
W HEN NOT CHASING AFTER his 6-year-old pup named Lily retired
University of Nebraska-Omaha professor David Corbin is keeping things interesting
Following his 31 years teaching health edu-cation Corbin has continued to maintain an active lifestyle both mentally and physi-cally He serves on several boards including the Health Association of Nebraska and is involved in Project Extra Mile He also recently co-authored the textbook Health for Life which will be used in high schools
At the end of a long week breaking a mental sweat Corbin leads an exercise class for older adults at deFreese Manor He started the class in 1983 after giving a presentation about exercise and older adults A partici-pant asked him if he would be interested in leading such a class and he has been there every Friday since
The class ranges from 80 to 90 in age His oldest participant lived to be 105 only quit-ting at 100 Now as Corbin approaches the age of his attendees he has come to appreciate the class even more
ldquoI benefit from the range of motion and resistance exercisesrdquo says Corbin ldquoThey help me and the participants stay more fit by emphasizing the types of exercises that can help to live independentlyrdquo
The class includes many exercises that can be done while seated Many incorporate homemade stretch bands created from old tire inner tubes scarves for juggling and rubber balls
Tai chi and dance are also a part of the mix and Corbin is no newbie to the dance scene
He met his wife Josie at a dance class Shersquos the director of The Moving Company the University of Nebraska-Omaha troupe that is one of the oldest college-based modern dance companies in the country Corbin joined the company one that boasts an all-ages intergenerational roster of talent
At the age of 68 Corbin doesnrsquot plan on slowing down anytime soon
ldquoItrsquos true what people sayrdquo he says ldquoUse it or lose it Learning new things is probably the best thing you can do for healthy agingrdquo
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S7
R EMARRIED CLIENTS WITH CHILDREN present some of the most interesting and some-
times challenging estate planning situations Generally there are three common scenarios one or both have young children from a prior marriage and more are possible one or both have teenage children and more children are unlikely and one or both have adult children and possibly grandchildren
The first question I must always address with prospective clients is ldquoCan I represent both of you or do you need to have separate attorneysrdquo If there are competing distribu-tion interests I cannot represent both This can also happen if there is a big disparity in ages andor wealth
Assuming that joint representation is pos-sible and agreed to we discuss and address what will happen without planning what does the couple want to achieve and how can that best be accomplished We start with
what happens if there are no wills If a spouse dies leaving children of a prior marriage the decedentrsquos estate will be split 5050 between the surviving spouse and the children of the earlier marriage This may produce particu-larly bad results of co-ownership between the decedentrsquos children and their step-parent We also talk about the right of a surviving spouse to elect to receive up to 50 of the couplersquos estate even if there is a will that would leave less to the survivor This may lead to dis-cussions about a will contract the use of a Qualified Terminable Interest Trust (QTIP) that provides income to the survivor for life with trust assets going to the first spousersquos beneficiaries after the second spousersquos death and the need to update retirement plan IRA and life insurance beneficiary designations
Since one or both of the couple has been through a divorce we also naturally talk about how estate planning and ownership of assets acquired both before and during the
Estate Planning
Married with Children
S8 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by margaret a badura
60PLUS money
wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Nebraska Low Vision402-905-2794
Helping Seniors Adapt to Technology
marriage (including increases in value) may affect a future division of marital property if this marriage were to fail
Having gotten those ldquopleasantriesrdquo out of the way we can now start getting to the couplersquos objectives and planning A common issue relates to the couplersquos home Letrsquos look at my experience with Susan (age 58) and Bob (age 62) who were planning what would be second marriages for both Susan had two adult children and Bob had one They were going to buy a home after the wedding and both were going to contribute equally to the $100000 down payment on a $200000 15-year first mortgage They said they planned to own it as joint tenants
But their proposed ownership of the house presented some problems Both wanted the survivor of them to be able to live in the house for the rest of their life and they wanted own-ership interests to go to their children Joint tenancy would be okay if there were a future divorce but at death it presented problems because the survivor would own 100 of the house We talked about being tenants in common with both owning 50 of the property That way both Susan and Bob could give their half to their children by will subject to a life estate in the survivor That might be okay if they were paying cash for the house but if one of them died before the mortgage was paid off the survivor would have paid more than the other for the house causing a windfall for the first decedentrsquos child(ren)
Susan and Bob decided on using a joint revocable trust to own the house with the ultimate beneficial interests being divided based on their respective contributions to the purchase
The trust dealt with the survivorrsquos occu-pancy free of rent and responsibility for mort-gage payments taxes repairs and utilities as well as possible sale and replacement prop-erty This approach allowed Susan and Bob to retain maximum flexibility while both were alive provide for the surviving spouse and equitably distribute their respective interests in their new house to their children based on their contributions to the purchase price
I am happy to report that Susan and Bob are happily married to this day
Guest contributor Margaret A Badura is an elder law and estate planning attorney
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S9
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Montage Deer Valley Paris ndash Avalon Waterways
Close To HomePark City UtahPark City Utah is the perfect place for exploring nature lazing in a rustic cabin or indulging in countless cultural events and a myriad of eateries ndash all within walking distance of each other Lounge in the warm comfort of the Montage Deer Valley Resort one of the most luxurious mountain lodges in America Ski golf and snowboard on an Olympic-level terrain at the Waldorf Astoria Park City And if you are a looking for some thrilling hikes and natural beauty bring your whole family for an exciting adventure in a charming highland community setting at The Lodge at Mountain Village
Our RecommendationsMontage Deer ValleyWaldorf Astoria Park City The Lodge at the Mountain Village
Food amp Wine AdventureRiver Cruising River cruising is one of the fastest growing trends in leisure travel and for good reason A leisurely float down a scenic river route is both relaxing and invigorating Partaking in a river cruise offers the benefits of seeing many different highlights on one expedition without the hassle of transportation between them to worry about Sit back relax and let the experience come to you as you voyage through some of Europersquos many waterways All from the comfort of a luxurious liner boasting private chefs and world-class cuisines paired with handpicked wines onboard to delight any culinary sensibility
Our Recommendations8 Day Viking River Cruise ndash Chateaux Rivers amp Wine (BordeauxBordeaux)10 Day Avalon Waterways ndash Canals Vineyards amp Paris (ParisAmsterdam)15 Day AMA Waterways ndash Port Wine amp Flamenco (MadridLondon)
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Our Recommendations9 Day African Travel ndash Namibia Dunes amp Wildlife13 Day Tauck Tour ndash Kenya amp Tanzania Classic Safari15 Day Micato Safari ndash Grand Safari
S12 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
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W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
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Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
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ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
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julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
W HEN NOT CHASING AFTER his 6-year-old pup named Lily retired
University of Nebraska-Omaha professor David Corbin is keeping things interesting
Following his 31 years teaching health edu-cation Corbin has continued to maintain an active lifestyle both mentally and physi-cally He serves on several boards including the Health Association of Nebraska and is involved in Project Extra Mile He also recently co-authored the textbook Health for Life which will be used in high schools
At the end of a long week breaking a mental sweat Corbin leads an exercise class for older adults at deFreese Manor He started the class in 1983 after giving a presentation about exercise and older adults A partici-pant asked him if he would be interested in leading such a class and he has been there every Friday since
The class ranges from 80 to 90 in age His oldest participant lived to be 105 only quit-ting at 100 Now as Corbin approaches the age of his attendees he has come to appreciate the class even more
ldquoI benefit from the range of motion and resistance exercisesrdquo says Corbin ldquoThey help me and the participants stay more fit by emphasizing the types of exercises that can help to live independentlyrdquo
The class includes many exercises that can be done while seated Many incorporate homemade stretch bands created from old tire inner tubes scarves for juggling and rubber balls
Tai chi and dance are also a part of the mix and Corbin is no newbie to the dance scene
He met his wife Josie at a dance class Shersquos the director of The Moving Company the University of Nebraska-Omaha troupe that is one of the oldest college-based modern dance companies in the country Corbin joined the company one that boasts an all-ages intergenerational roster of talent
At the age of 68 Corbin doesnrsquot plan on slowing down anytime soon
ldquoItrsquos true what people sayrdquo he says ldquoUse it or lose it Learning new things is probably the best thing you can do for healthy agingrdquo
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S7
R EMARRIED CLIENTS WITH CHILDREN present some of the most interesting and some-
times challenging estate planning situations Generally there are three common scenarios one or both have young children from a prior marriage and more are possible one or both have teenage children and more children are unlikely and one or both have adult children and possibly grandchildren
The first question I must always address with prospective clients is ldquoCan I represent both of you or do you need to have separate attorneysrdquo If there are competing distribu-tion interests I cannot represent both This can also happen if there is a big disparity in ages andor wealth
Assuming that joint representation is pos-sible and agreed to we discuss and address what will happen without planning what does the couple want to achieve and how can that best be accomplished We start with
what happens if there are no wills If a spouse dies leaving children of a prior marriage the decedentrsquos estate will be split 5050 between the surviving spouse and the children of the earlier marriage This may produce particu-larly bad results of co-ownership between the decedentrsquos children and their step-parent We also talk about the right of a surviving spouse to elect to receive up to 50 of the couplersquos estate even if there is a will that would leave less to the survivor This may lead to dis-cussions about a will contract the use of a Qualified Terminable Interest Trust (QTIP) that provides income to the survivor for life with trust assets going to the first spousersquos beneficiaries after the second spousersquos death and the need to update retirement plan IRA and life insurance beneficiary designations
Since one or both of the couple has been through a divorce we also naturally talk about how estate planning and ownership of assets acquired both before and during the
Estate Planning
Married with Children
S8 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by margaret a badura
60PLUS money
wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Nebraska Low Vision402-905-2794
Helping Seniors Adapt to Technology
marriage (including increases in value) may affect a future division of marital property if this marriage were to fail
Having gotten those ldquopleasantriesrdquo out of the way we can now start getting to the couplersquos objectives and planning A common issue relates to the couplersquos home Letrsquos look at my experience with Susan (age 58) and Bob (age 62) who were planning what would be second marriages for both Susan had two adult children and Bob had one They were going to buy a home after the wedding and both were going to contribute equally to the $100000 down payment on a $200000 15-year first mortgage They said they planned to own it as joint tenants
But their proposed ownership of the house presented some problems Both wanted the survivor of them to be able to live in the house for the rest of their life and they wanted own-ership interests to go to their children Joint tenancy would be okay if there were a future divorce but at death it presented problems because the survivor would own 100 of the house We talked about being tenants in common with both owning 50 of the property That way both Susan and Bob could give their half to their children by will subject to a life estate in the survivor That might be okay if they were paying cash for the house but if one of them died before the mortgage was paid off the survivor would have paid more than the other for the house causing a windfall for the first decedentrsquos child(ren)
Susan and Bob decided on using a joint revocable trust to own the house with the ultimate beneficial interests being divided based on their respective contributions to the purchase
The trust dealt with the survivorrsquos occu-pancy free of rent and responsibility for mort-gage payments taxes repairs and utilities as well as possible sale and replacement prop-erty This approach allowed Susan and Bob to retain maximum flexibility while both were alive provide for the surviving spouse and equitably distribute their respective interests in their new house to their children based on their contributions to the purchase price
I am happy to report that Susan and Bob are happily married to this day
Guest contributor Margaret A Badura is an elder law and estate planning attorney
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S9
with Travel and Transport
travelandtransportcom Located at 72nd amp Mercy | 4023994555 CORPORATE TRAVEL | EVENTS | LOYALTY | VACATIONS
For over 67 years Travel and Transport has made vacation dreams a reality In total our knowledgeable and seasoned travel specialists have visited over 50 countries on all seven continents and have sailed on over 50 cruises We provide our clients with the most advantageous pricing upgrades with leading hotels resorts spas cruise lines tour companies rail lines airlines and ground operators And through our partnership with Virtuoso we are able to offer exclusive amenities experiences and privileged access not available to the general public
Montage Deer Valley Paris ndash Avalon Waterways
Close To HomePark City UtahPark City Utah is the perfect place for exploring nature lazing in a rustic cabin or indulging in countless cultural events and a myriad of eateries ndash all within walking distance of each other Lounge in the warm comfort of the Montage Deer Valley Resort one of the most luxurious mountain lodges in America Ski golf and snowboard on an Olympic-level terrain at the Waldorf Astoria Park City And if you are a looking for some thrilling hikes and natural beauty bring your whole family for an exciting adventure in a charming highland community setting at The Lodge at Mountain Village
Our RecommendationsMontage Deer ValleyWaldorf Astoria Park City The Lodge at the Mountain Village
Food amp Wine AdventureRiver Cruising River cruising is one of the fastest growing trends in leisure travel and for good reason A leisurely float down a scenic river route is both relaxing and invigorating Partaking in a river cruise offers the benefits of seeing many different highlights on one expedition without the hassle of transportation between them to worry about Sit back relax and let the experience come to you as you voyage through some of Europersquos many waterways All from the comfort of a luxurious liner boasting private chefs and world-class cuisines paired with handpicked wines onboard to delight any culinary sensibility
Our Recommendations8 Day Viking River Cruise ndash Chateaux Rivers amp Wine (BordeauxBordeaux)10 Day Avalon Waterways ndash Canals Vineyards amp Paris (ParisAmsterdam)15 Day AMA Waterways ndash Port Wine amp Flamenco (MadridLondon)
travelandtransportcom Located at 72nd amp Mercy | 4023994555 CORPORATE TRAVEL | EVENTS | LOYALTY | VACATIONS
Call today to book your getaway4023994555omahavacationstravelandtransportcom
Ultimate ExperienceAfrican SafariA true ldquobucket listrdquo experience awaits you with an African safari adventure Pack your camera and your binoculars so you donrsquot miss any of the amazing sights that await you in the deserts and valleys of this beautiful continent Witness lions stretch in the warm sands of the Namibian desert encounter elephants as they march alongside your buggy trail through the Kenyan bush or watch the rich colors of the African sunset over Mount Kilimanjaro in Tanzania With so many life-changing experiences to encounter an African safari is truly any travelerrsquos ultimate experience
Our Recommendations9 Day African Travel ndash Namibia Dunes amp Wildlife13 Day Tauck Tour ndash Kenya amp Tanzania Classic Safari15 Day Micato Safari ndash Grand Safari
S12 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
WhenExperience Counts
Experience our State-of-the-Art Facilities
600 Brookestone Meadows PlazaElkhorn NE 68022 | (402) 289-2696wwBrookestoneMeadowscom
QUALITY LIFE | QUALITY CARE | EXCELLENT TEAMS | QUALITY REPUTATION | STEWARDSHIP
4330 South 144th StreetOmaha NE 68137
(402) 614-4000wwBrookestoneVillagecom
Proud Members of the Vetter Health Services Family
PhysicalOccupationalandSpeechTherapy Careaftertotaljointreplacement Strokerecovery Strengtheningaftercancertreatment Careaftersurgery Recoveryfromafallorextendedillness
Visit ourwebsite
to find outmore about us
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omamagcomsaveanother Omaha Magazine exclusive
The Best of Omahatrade series continues in SeptemberOctober with
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W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
DIRECTORY
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S17
Elk Ridge Village on the Lake Retirement CommunityElk Ridge Village provides Independent and Assisted Living and Alzheimerrsquos Care and is committed to providing services of the highest quality
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wwwBrookestoneVillagecom402-614-4000 bull OmahawwwBrookestoneMeadowscom402-280-2696 bull Elkhorn
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Our services are distinguished by the caliber of our caregivers the respon-siveness of our staff and our expertise in Live-In care We embrace a positive balanced approach to aging centered on the evolving needs of older adults
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Wealth and Estate Planning Risk-Management Executive Services Foundations amp Endowments
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Rooted in Christian Love and Guided by the Holy Spirit our Radical Loving Care brings healing to those when their hope has changed from a cure to comfort
10506 Burt Circle402-609-4818saintjudehospiceorg
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Dr Wegner has 35 years of clinical experi-ence and thousands of hours of continuing education He knows how to help seniors and all ages to achieve and keep a healthy smile
11840 Nicholas StSuite 210Omaha NE 68154402-498-0400
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5 Convenient LocationsFor address and phone infovisit our websitenebraskacancercom
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8 locations amp free delivery Providing retail amp compounded prescriptions all medical equipment amp supplies
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Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
R EMARRIED CLIENTS WITH CHILDREN present some of the most interesting and some-
times challenging estate planning situations Generally there are three common scenarios one or both have young children from a prior marriage and more are possible one or both have teenage children and more children are unlikely and one or both have adult children and possibly grandchildren
The first question I must always address with prospective clients is ldquoCan I represent both of you or do you need to have separate attorneysrdquo If there are competing distribu-tion interests I cannot represent both This can also happen if there is a big disparity in ages andor wealth
Assuming that joint representation is pos-sible and agreed to we discuss and address what will happen without planning what does the couple want to achieve and how can that best be accomplished We start with
what happens if there are no wills If a spouse dies leaving children of a prior marriage the decedentrsquos estate will be split 5050 between the surviving spouse and the children of the earlier marriage This may produce particu-larly bad results of co-ownership between the decedentrsquos children and their step-parent We also talk about the right of a surviving spouse to elect to receive up to 50 of the couplersquos estate even if there is a will that would leave less to the survivor This may lead to dis-cussions about a will contract the use of a Qualified Terminable Interest Trust (QTIP) that provides income to the survivor for life with trust assets going to the first spousersquos beneficiaries after the second spousersquos death and the need to update retirement plan IRA and life insurance beneficiary designations
Since one or both of the couple has been through a divorce we also naturally talk about how estate planning and ownership of assets acquired both before and during the
Estate Planning
Married with Children
S8 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by margaret a badura
60PLUS money
wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Nebraska Low Vision402-905-2794
Helping Seniors Adapt to Technology
marriage (including increases in value) may affect a future division of marital property if this marriage were to fail
Having gotten those ldquopleasantriesrdquo out of the way we can now start getting to the couplersquos objectives and planning A common issue relates to the couplersquos home Letrsquos look at my experience with Susan (age 58) and Bob (age 62) who were planning what would be second marriages for both Susan had two adult children and Bob had one They were going to buy a home after the wedding and both were going to contribute equally to the $100000 down payment on a $200000 15-year first mortgage They said they planned to own it as joint tenants
But their proposed ownership of the house presented some problems Both wanted the survivor of them to be able to live in the house for the rest of their life and they wanted own-ership interests to go to their children Joint tenancy would be okay if there were a future divorce but at death it presented problems because the survivor would own 100 of the house We talked about being tenants in common with both owning 50 of the property That way both Susan and Bob could give their half to their children by will subject to a life estate in the survivor That might be okay if they were paying cash for the house but if one of them died before the mortgage was paid off the survivor would have paid more than the other for the house causing a windfall for the first decedentrsquos child(ren)
Susan and Bob decided on using a joint revocable trust to own the house with the ultimate beneficial interests being divided based on their respective contributions to the purchase
The trust dealt with the survivorrsquos occu-pancy free of rent and responsibility for mort-gage payments taxes repairs and utilities as well as possible sale and replacement prop-erty This approach allowed Susan and Bob to retain maximum flexibility while both were alive provide for the surviving spouse and equitably distribute their respective interests in their new house to their children based on their contributions to the purchase price
I am happy to report that Susan and Bob are happily married to this day
Guest contributor Margaret A Badura is an elder law and estate planning attorney
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S9
with Travel and Transport
travelandtransportcom Located at 72nd amp Mercy | 4023994555 CORPORATE TRAVEL | EVENTS | LOYALTY | VACATIONS
For over 67 years Travel and Transport has made vacation dreams a reality In total our knowledgeable and seasoned travel specialists have visited over 50 countries on all seven continents and have sailed on over 50 cruises We provide our clients with the most advantageous pricing upgrades with leading hotels resorts spas cruise lines tour companies rail lines airlines and ground operators And through our partnership with Virtuoso we are able to offer exclusive amenities experiences and privileged access not available to the general public
Montage Deer Valley Paris ndash Avalon Waterways
Close To HomePark City UtahPark City Utah is the perfect place for exploring nature lazing in a rustic cabin or indulging in countless cultural events and a myriad of eateries ndash all within walking distance of each other Lounge in the warm comfort of the Montage Deer Valley Resort one of the most luxurious mountain lodges in America Ski golf and snowboard on an Olympic-level terrain at the Waldorf Astoria Park City And if you are a looking for some thrilling hikes and natural beauty bring your whole family for an exciting adventure in a charming highland community setting at The Lodge at Mountain Village
Our RecommendationsMontage Deer ValleyWaldorf Astoria Park City The Lodge at the Mountain Village
Food amp Wine AdventureRiver Cruising River cruising is one of the fastest growing trends in leisure travel and for good reason A leisurely float down a scenic river route is both relaxing and invigorating Partaking in a river cruise offers the benefits of seeing many different highlights on one expedition without the hassle of transportation between them to worry about Sit back relax and let the experience come to you as you voyage through some of Europersquos many waterways All from the comfort of a luxurious liner boasting private chefs and world-class cuisines paired with handpicked wines onboard to delight any culinary sensibility
Our Recommendations8 Day Viking River Cruise ndash Chateaux Rivers amp Wine (BordeauxBordeaux)10 Day Avalon Waterways ndash Canals Vineyards amp Paris (ParisAmsterdam)15 Day AMA Waterways ndash Port Wine amp Flamenco (MadridLondon)
travelandtransportcom Located at 72nd amp Mercy | 4023994555 CORPORATE TRAVEL | EVENTS | LOYALTY | VACATIONS
Call today to book your getaway4023994555omahavacationstravelandtransportcom
Ultimate ExperienceAfrican SafariA true ldquobucket listrdquo experience awaits you with an African safari adventure Pack your camera and your binoculars so you donrsquot miss any of the amazing sights that await you in the deserts and valleys of this beautiful continent Witness lions stretch in the warm sands of the Namibian desert encounter elephants as they march alongside your buggy trail through the Kenyan bush or watch the rich colors of the African sunset over Mount Kilimanjaro in Tanzania With so many life-changing experiences to encounter an African safari is truly any travelerrsquos ultimate experience
Our Recommendations9 Day African Travel ndash Namibia Dunes amp Wildlife13 Day Tauck Tour ndash Kenya amp Tanzania Classic Safari15 Day Micato Safari ndash Grand Safari
S12 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
WhenExperience Counts
Experience our State-of-the-Art Facilities
600 Brookestone Meadows PlazaElkhorn NE 68022 | (402) 289-2696wwBrookestoneMeadowscom
QUALITY LIFE | QUALITY CARE | EXCELLENT TEAMS | QUALITY REPUTATION | STEWARDSHIP
4330 South 144th StreetOmaha NE 68137
(402) 614-4000wwBrookestoneVillagecom
Proud Members of the Vetter Health Services Family
PhysicalOccupationalandSpeechTherapy Careaftertotaljointreplacement Strokerecovery Strengtheningaftercancertreatment Careaftersurgery Recoveryfromafallorextendedillness
Visit ourwebsite
to find outmore about us
OmahaBVampElkhornBM_Ad - Omaha 60+ Mag_111612_60+ Omaha Magazine Ad - BSV amp BSM 3112014 354 PM Page 1
Protecting your dreamsLegal solutions for trusts and estatesEarning your trustfor another 100 years
Omaha 4029344568 One Pacific Place Lincoln 4024751075 Wells Fargo Center wwwBaylorEvnencom
Donrsquot miss a single issueSubscribe today two years for $1177 off the newsstand price of $4750
omamagcomsaveanother Omaha Magazine exclusive
The Best of Omahatrade series continues in SeptemberOctober with
Omaharsquos Best Doctorsreg
W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
DIRECTORY
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S17
Elk Ridge Village on the Lake Retirement CommunityElk Ridge Village provides Independent and Assisted Living and Alzheimerrsquos Care and is committed to providing services of the highest quality
19303 Seward Plaza402-312-1198402-216-8835wwwelkridgeseniorlivingcom
Brookestone MeadowsBrookestone VillageSkilled nursing communities provid-ing short-term rehabilitation including physical occupational and speech ther-apy as well as long-term nursing care
wwwBrookestoneVillagecom402-614-4000 bull OmahawwwBrookestoneMeadowscom402-280-2696 bull Elkhorn
Home Care Assistance
Our services are distinguished by the caliber of our caregivers the respon-siveness of our staff and our expertise in Live-In care We embrace a positive balanced approach to aging centered on the evolving needs of older adults
402-763-9140homecareassistanceomahacom
EJ Militti JrFinancial AdvisorThe Militti Group at Morgan Stanley
Wealth and Estate Planning Risk-Management Executive Services Foundations amp Endowments
(402) 399-1513wwwmorganstanleyfacommilittigroup
Saint Jude Hospice
Rooted in Christian Love and Guided by the Holy Spirit our Radical Loving Care brings healing to those when their hope has changed from a cure to comfort
10506 Burt Circle402-609-4818saintjudehospiceorg
Steven D Wegner DDS
Dr Wegner has 35 years of clinical experi-ence and thousands of hours of continuing education He knows how to help seniors and all ages to achieve and keep a healthy smile
11840 Nicholas StSuite 210Omaha NE 68154402-498-0400
Travel and Transport
Travel and Transport is proud to be the 5th largest travel agency in the US servicing clients throughout the country as well as globally
travelandtransportcom 402-399-4500
Nebraska Cancer SpecialistsNebraska Cancer Specialists is dedicated to providing complete cancer treatment for patients medical oncology radiation oncology surgical specialists and diagnostic services
5 Convenient LocationsFor address and phone infovisit our websitenebraskacancercom
Kohllrsquos Pharmacy amp Homecare
8 locations amp free delivery Providing retail amp compounded prescriptions all medical equipment amp supplies
402-408-1990 wwwkohllscom
Home Instead Senior Care
If yoursquore looking for someone to help you or a loved one a few hours a week or need more comprehensive assistance Home Instead Senior Care can help
Metro 4024983444West 4029324555
Nebraska Low Vision
Where would I be without Nebraska Low vision Their solutions help me read every day
In Home Demo Call 402-905-2794wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Nebraska Low Vision402-905-2794
Helping Seniors Adapt to Technology
marriage (including increases in value) may affect a future division of marital property if this marriage were to fail
Having gotten those ldquopleasantriesrdquo out of the way we can now start getting to the couplersquos objectives and planning A common issue relates to the couplersquos home Letrsquos look at my experience with Susan (age 58) and Bob (age 62) who were planning what would be second marriages for both Susan had two adult children and Bob had one They were going to buy a home after the wedding and both were going to contribute equally to the $100000 down payment on a $200000 15-year first mortgage They said they planned to own it as joint tenants
But their proposed ownership of the house presented some problems Both wanted the survivor of them to be able to live in the house for the rest of their life and they wanted own-ership interests to go to their children Joint tenancy would be okay if there were a future divorce but at death it presented problems because the survivor would own 100 of the house We talked about being tenants in common with both owning 50 of the property That way both Susan and Bob could give their half to their children by will subject to a life estate in the survivor That might be okay if they were paying cash for the house but if one of them died before the mortgage was paid off the survivor would have paid more than the other for the house causing a windfall for the first decedentrsquos child(ren)
Susan and Bob decided on using a joint revocable trust to own the house with the ultimate beneficial interests being divided based on their respective contributions to the purchase
The trust dealt with the survivorrsquos occu-pancy free of rent and responsibility for mort-gage payments taxes repairs and utilities as well as possible sale and replacement prop-erty This approach allowed Susan and Bob to retain maximum flexibility while both were alive provide for the surviving spouse and equitably distribute their respective interests in their new house to their children based on their contributions to the purchase price
I am happy to report that Susan and Bob are happily married to this day
Guest contributor Margaret A Badura is an elder law and estate planning attorney
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S9
with Travel and Transport
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Our Recommendations8 Day Viking River Cruise ndash Chateaux Rivers amp Wine (BordeauxBordeaux)10 Day Avalon Waterways ndash Canals Vineyards amp Paris (ParisAmsterdam)15 Day AMA Waterways ndash Port Wine amp Flamenco (MadridLondon)
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Call today to book your getaway4023994555omahavacationstravelandtransportcom
Ultimate ExperienceAfrican SafariA true ldquobucket listrdquo experience awaits you with an African safari adventure Pack your camera and your binoculars so you donrsquot miss any of the amazing sights that await you in the deserts and valleys of this beautiful continent Witness lions stretch in the warm sands of the Namibian desert encounter elephants as they march alongside your buggy trail through the Kenyan bush or watch the rich colors of the African sunset over Mount Kilimanjaro in Tanzania With so many life-changing experiences to encounter an African safari is truly any travelerrsquos ultimate experience
Our Recommendations9 Day African Travel ndash Namibia Dunes amp Wildlife13 Day Tauck Tour ndash Kenya amp Tanzania Classic Safari15 Day Micato Safari ndash Grand Safari
S12 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
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Omaharsquos Best Doctorsreg
W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
DIRECTORY
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S17
Elk Ridge Village on the Lake Retirement CommunityElk Ridge Village provides Independent and Assisted Living and Alzheimerrsquos Care and is committed to providing services of the highest quality
19303 Seward Plaza402-312-1198402-216-8835wwwelkridgeseniorlivingcom
Brookestone MeadowsBrookestone VillageSkilled nursing communities provid-ing short-term rehabilitation including physical occupational and speech ther-apy as well as long-term nursing care
wwwBrookestoneVillagecom402-614-4000 bull OmahawwwBrookestoneMeadowscom402-280-2696 bull Elkhorn
Home Care Assistance
Our services are distinguished by the caliber of our caregivers the respon-siveness of our staff and our expertise in Live-In care We embrace a positive balanced approach to aging centered on the evolving needs of older adults
402-763-9140homecareassistanceomahacom
EJ Militti JrFinancial AdvisorThe Militti Group at Morgan Stanley
Wealth and Estate Planning Risk-Management Executive Services Foundations amp Endowments
(402) 399-1513wwwmorganstanleyfacommilittigroup
Saint Jude Hospice
Rooted in Christian Love and Guided by the Holy Spirit our Radical Loving Care brings healing to those when their hope has changed from a cure to comfort
10506 Burt Circle402-609-4818saintjudehospiceorg
Steven D Wegner DDS
Dr Wegner has 35 years of clinical experi-ence and thousands of hours of continuing education He knows how to help seniors and all ages to achieve and keep a healthy smile
11840 Nicholas StSuite 210Omaha NE 68154402-498-0400
Travel and Transport
Travel and Transport is proud to be the 5th largest travel agency in the US servicing clients throughout the country as well as globally
travelandtransportcom 402-399-4500
Nebraska Cancer SpecialistsNebraska Cancer Specialists is dedicated to providing complete cancer treatment for patients medical oncology radiation oncology surgical specialists and diagnostic services
5 Convenient LocationsFor address and phone infovisit our websitenebraskacancercom
Kohllrsquos Pharmacy amp Homecare
8 locations amp free delivery Providing retail amp compounded prescriptions all medical equipment amp supplies
402-408-1990 wwwkohllscom
Home Instead Senior Care
If yoursquore looking for someone to help you or a loved one a few hours a week or need more comprehensive assistance Home Instead Senior Care can help
Metro 4024983444West 4029324555
Nebraska Low Vision
Where would I be without Nebraska Low vision Their solutions help me read every day
In Home Demo Call 402-905-2794wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
with Travel and Transport
travelandtransportcom Located at 72nd amp Mercy | 4023994555 CORPORATE TRAVEL | EVENTS | LOYALTY | VACATIONS
For over 67 years Travel and Transport has made vacation dreams a reality In total our knowledgeable and seasoned travel specialists have visited over 50 countries on all seven continents and have sailed on over 50 cruises We provide our clients with the most advantageous pricing upgrades with leading hotels resorts spas cruise lines tour companies rail lines airlines and ground operators And through our partnership with Virtuoso we are able to offer exclusive amenities experiences and privileged access not available to the general public
Montage Deer Valley Paris ndash Avalon Waterways
Close To HomePark City UtahPark City Utah is the perfect place for exploring nature lazing in a rustic cabin or indulging in countless cultural events and a myriad of eateries ndash all within walking distance of each other Lounge in the warm comfort of the Montage Deer Valley Resort one of the most luxurious mountain lodges in America Ski golf and snowboard on an Olympic-level terrain at the Waldorf Astoria Park City And if you are a looking for some thrilling hikes and natural beauty bring your whole family for an exciting adventure in a charming highland community setting at The Lodge at Mountain Village
Our RecommendationsMontage Deer ValleyWaldorf Astoria Park City The Lodge at the Mountain Village
Food amp Wine AdventureRiver Cruising River cruising is one of the fastest growing trends in leisure travel and for good reason A leisurely float down a scenic river route is both relaxing and invigorating Partaking in a river cruise offers the benefits of seeing many different highlights on one expedition without the hassle of transportation between them to worry about Sit back relax and let the experience come to you as you voyage through some of Europersquos many waterways All from the comfort of a luxurious liner boasting private chefs and world-class cuisines paired with handpicked wines onboard to delight any culinary sensibility
Our Recommendations8 Day Viking River Cruise ndash Chateaux Rivers amp Wine (BordeauxBordeaux)10 Day Avalon Waterways ndash Canals Vineyards amp Paris (ParisAmsterdam)15 Day AMA Waterways ndash Port Wine amp Flamenco (MadridLondon)
travelandtransportcom Located at 72nd amp Mercy | 4023994555 CORPORATE TRAVEL | EVENTS | LOYALTY | VACATIONS
Call today to book your getaway4023994555omahavacationstravelandtransportcom
Ultimate ExperienceAfrican SafariA true ldquobucket listrdquo experience awaits you with an African safari adventure Pack your camera and your binoculars so you donrsquot miss any of the amazing sights that await you in the deserts and valleys of this beautiful continent Witness lions stretch in the warm sands of the Namibian desert encounter elephants as they march alongside your buggy trail through the Kenyan bush or watch the rich colors of the African sunset over Mount Kilimanjaro in Tanzania With so many life-changing experiences to encounter an African safari is truly any travelerrsquos ultimate experience
Our Recommendations9 Day African Travel ndash Namibia Dunes amp Wildlife13 Day Tauck Tour ndash Kenya amp Tanzania Classic Safari15 Day Micato Safari ndash Grand Safari
S12 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
WhenExperience Counts
Experience our State-of-the-Art Facilities
600 Brookestone Meadows PlazaElkhorn NE 68022 | (402) 289-2696wwBrookestoneMeadowscom
QUALITY LIFE | QUALITY CARE | EXCELLENT TEAMS | QUALITY REPUTATION | STEWARDSHIP
4330 South 144th StreetOmaha NE 68137
(402) 614-4000wwBrookestoneVillagecom
Proud Members of the Vetter Health Services Family
PhysicalOccupationalandSpeechTherapy Careaftertotaljointreplacement Strokerecovery Strengtheningaftercancertreatment Careaftersurgery Recoveryfromafallorextendedillness
Visit ourwebsite
to find outmore about us
OmahaBVampElkhornBM_Ad - Omaha 60+ Mag_111612_60+ Omaha Magazine Ad - BSV amp BSM 3112014 354 PM Page 1
Protecting your dreamsLegal solutions for trusts and estatesEarning your trustfor another 100 years
Omaha 4029344568 One Pacific Place Lincoln 4024751075 Wells Fargo Center wwwBaylorEvnencom
Donrsquot miss a single issueSubscribe today two years for $1177 off the newsstand price of $4750
omamagcomsaveanother Omaha Magazine exclusive
The Best of Omahatrade series continues in SeptemberOctober with
Omaharsquos Best Doctorsreg
W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
DIRECTORY
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S17
Elk Ridge Village on the Lake Retirement CommunityElk Ridge Village provides Independent and Assisted Living and Alzheimerrsquos Care and is committed to providing services of the highest quality
19303 Seward Plaza402-312-1198402-216-8835wwwelkridgeseniorlivingcom
Brookestone MeadowsBrookestone VillageSkilled nursing communities provid-ing short-term rehabilitation including physical occupational and speech ther-apy as well as long-term nursing care
wwwBrookestoneVillagecom402-614-4000 bull OmahawwwBrookestoneMeadowscom402-280-2696 bull Elkhorn
Home Care Assistance
Our services are distinguished by the caliber of our caregivers the respon-siveness of our staff and our expertise in Live-In care We embrace a positive balanced approach to aging centered on the evolving needs of older adults
402-763-9140homecareassistanceomahacom
EJ Militti JrFinancial AdvisorThe Militti Group at Morgan Stanley
Wealth and Estate Planning Risk-Management Executive Services Foundations amp Endowments
(402) 399-1513wwwmorganstanleyfacommilittigroup
Saint Jude Hospice
Rooted in Christian Love and Guided by the Holy Spirit our Radical Loving Care brings healing to those when their hope has changed from a cure to comfort
10506 Burt Circle402-609-4818saintjudehospiceorg
Steven D Wegner DDS
Dr Wegner has 35 years of clinical experi-ence and thousands of hours of continuing education He knows how to help seniors and all ages to achieve and keep a healthy smile
11840 Nicholas StSuite 210Omaha NE 68154402-498-0400
Travel and Transport
Travel and Transport is proud to be the 5th largest travel agency in the US servicing clients throughout the country as well as globally
travelandtransportcom 402-399-4500
Nebraska Cancer SpecialistsNebraska Cancer Specialists is dedicated to providing complete cancer treatment for patients medical oncology radiation oncology surgical specialists and diagnostic services
5 Convenient LocationsFor address and phone infovisit our websitenebraskacancercom
Kohllrsquos Pharmacy amp Homecare
8 locations amp free delivery Providing retail amp compounded prescriptions all medical equipment amp supplies
402-408-1990 wwwkohllscom
Home Instead Senior Care
If yoursquore looking for someone to help you or a loved one a few hours a week or need more comprehensive assistance Home Instead Senior Care can help
Metro 4024983444West 4029324555
Nebraska Low Vision
Where would I be without Nebraska Low vision Their solutions help me read every day
In Home Demo Call 402-905-2794wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
travelandtransportcom Located at 72nd amp Mercy | 4023994555 CORPORATE TRAVEL | EVENTS | LOYALTY | VACATIONS
Call today to book your getaway4023994555omahavacationstravelandtransportcom
Ultimate ExperienceAfrican SafariA true ldquobucket listrdquo experience awaits you with an African safari adventure Pack your camera and your binoculars so you donrsquot miss any of the amazing sights that await you in the deserts and valleys of this beautiful continent Witness lions stretch in the warm sands of the Namibian desert encounter elephants as they march alongside your buggy trail through the Kenyan bush or watch the rich colors of the African sunset over Mount Kilimanjaro in Tanzania With so many life-changing experiences to encounter an African safari is truly any travelerrsquos ultimate experience
Our Recommendations9 Day African Travel ndash Namibia Dunes amp Wildlife13 Day Tauck Tour ndash Kenya amp Tanzania Classic Safari15 Day Micato Safari ndash Grand Safari
S12 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
WhenExperience Counts
Experience our State-of-the-Art Facilities
600 Brookestone Meadows PlazaElkhorn NE 68022 | (402) 289-2696wwBrookestoneMeadowscom
QUALITY LIFE | QUALITY CARE | EXCELLENT TEAMS | QUALITY REPUTATION | STEWARDSHIP
4330 South 144th StreetOmaha NE 68137
(402) 614-4000wwBrookestoneVillagecom
Proud Members of the Vetter Health Services Family
PhysicalOccupationalandSpeechTherapy Careaftertotaljointreplacement Strokerecovery Strengtheningaftercancertreatment Careaftersurgery Recoveryfromafallorextendedillness
Visit ourwebsite
to find outmore about us
OmahaBVampElkhornBM_Ad - Omaha 60+ Mag_111612_60+ Omaha Magazine Ad - BSV amp BSM 3112014 354 PM Page 1
Protecting your dreamsLegal solutions for trusts and estatesEarning your trustfor another 100 years
Omaha 4029344568 One Pacific Place Lincoln 4024751075 Wells Fargo Center wwwBaylorEvnencom
Donrsquot miss a single issueSubscribe today two years for $1177 off the newsstand price of $4750
omamagcomsaveanother Omaha Magazine exclusive
The Best of Omahatrade series continues in SeptemberOctober with
Omaharsquos Best Doctorsreg
W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
DIRECTORY
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S17
Elk Ridge Village on the Lake Retirement CommunityElk Ridge Village provides Independent and Assisted Living and Alzheimerrsquos Care and is committed to providing services of the highest quality
19303 Seward Plaza402-312-1198402-216-8835wwwelkridgeseniorlivingcom
Brookestone MeadowsBrookestone VillageSkilled nursing communities provid-ing short-term rehabilitation including physical occupational and speech ther-apy as well as long-term nursing care
wwwBrookestoneVillagecom402-614-4000 bull OmahawwwBrookestoneMeadowscom402-280-2696 bull Elkhorn
Home Care Assistance
Our services are distinguished by the caliber of our caregivers the respon-siveness of our staff and our expertise in Live-In care We embrace a positive balanced approach to aging centered on the evolving needs of older adults
402-763-9140homecareassistanceomahacom
EJ Militti JrFinancial AdvisorThe Militti Group at Morgan Stanley
Wealth and Estate Planning Risk-Management Executive Services Foundations amp Endowments
(402) 399-1513wwwmorganstanleyfacommilittigroup
Saint Jude Hospice
Rooted in Christian Love and Guided by the Holy Spirit our Radical Loving Care brings healing to those when their hope has changed from a cure to comfort
10506 Burt Circle402-609-4818saintjudehospiceorg
Steven D Wegner DDS
Dr Wegner has 35 years of clinical experi-ence and thousands of hours of continuing education He knows how to help seniors and all ages to achieve and keep a healthy smile
11840 Nicholas StSuite 210Omaha NE 68154402-498-0400
Travel and Transport
Travel and Transport is proud to be the 5th largest travel agency in the US servicing clients throughout the country as well as globally
travelandtransportcom 402-399-4500
Nebraska Cancer SpecialistsNebraska Cancer Specialists is dedicated to providing complete cancer treatment for patients medical oncology radiation oncology surgical specialists and diagnostic services
5 Convenient LocationsFor address and phone infovisit our websitenebraskacancercom
Kohllrsquos Pharmacy amp Homecare
8 locations amp free delivery Providing retail amp compounded prescriptions all medical equipment amp supplies
402-408-1990 wwwkohllscom
Home Instead Senior Care
If yoursquore looking for someone to help you or a loved one a few hours a week or need more comprehensive assistance Home Instead Senior Care can help
Metro 4024983444West 4029324555
Nebraska Low Vision
Where would I be without Nebraska Low vision Their solutions help me read every day
In Home Demo Call 402-905-2794wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
S12 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
WhenExperience Counts
Experience our State-of-the-Art Facilities
600 Brookestone Meadows PlazaElkhorn NE 68022 | (402) 289-2696wwBrookestoneMeadowscom
QUALITY LIFE | QUALITY CARE | EXCELLENT TEAMS | QUALITY REPUTATION | STEWARDSHIP
4330 South 144th StreetOmaha NE 68137
(402) 614-4000wwBrookestoneVillagecom
Proud Members of the Vetter Health Services Family
PhysicalOccupationalandSpeechTherapy Careaftertotaljointreplacement Strokerecovery Strengtheningaftercancertreatment Careaftersurgery Recoveryfromafallorextendedillness
Visit ourwebsite
to find outmore about us
OmahaBVampElkhornBM_Ad - Omaha 60+ Mag_111612_60+ Omaha Magazine Ad - BSV amp BSM 3112014 354 PM Page 1
Protecting your dreamsLegal solutions for trusts and estatesEarning your trustfor another 100 years
Omaha 4029344568 One Pacific Place Lincoln 4024751075 Wells Fargo Center wwwBaylorEvnencom
Donrsquot miss a single issueSubscribe today two years for $1177 off the newsstand price of $4750
omamagcomsaveanother Omaha Magazine exclusive
The Best of Omahatrade series continues in SeptemberOctober with
Omaharsquos Best Doctorsreg
W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
DIRECTORY
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S17
Elk Ridge Village on the Lake Retirement CommunityElk Ridge Village provides Independent and Assisted Living and Alzheimerrsquos Care and is committed to providing services of the highest quality
19303 Seward Plaza402-312-1198402-216-8835wwwelkridgeseniorlivingcom
Brookestone MeadowsBrookestone VillageSkilled nursing communities provid-ing short-term rehabilitation including physical occupational and speech ther-apy as well as long-term nursing care
wwwBrookestoneVillagecom402-614-4000 bull OmahawwwBrookestoneMeadowscom402-280-2696 bull Elkhorn
Home Care Assistance
Our services are distinguished by the caliber of our caregivers the respon-siveness of our staff and our expertise in Live-In care We embrace a positive balanced approach to aging centered on the evolving needs of older adults
402-763-9140homecareassistanceomahacom
EJ Militti JrFinancial AdvisorThe Militti Group at Morgan Stanley
Wealth and Estate Planning Risk-Management Executive Services Foundations amp Endowments
(402) 399-1513wwwmorganstanleyfacommilittigroup
Saint Jude Hospice
Rooted in Christian Love and Guided by the Holy Spirit our Radical Loving Care brings healing to those when their hope has changed from a cure to comfort
10506 Burt Circle402-609-4818saintjudehospiceorg
Steven D Wegner DDS
Dr Wegner has 35 years of clinical experi-ence and thousands of hours of continuing education He knows how to help seniors and all ages to achieve and keep a healthy smile
11840 Nicholas StSuite 210Omaha NE 68154402-498-0400
Travel and Transport
Travel and Transport is proud to be the 5th largest travel agency in the US servicing clients throughout the country as well as globally
travelandtransportcom 402-399-4500
Nebraska Cancer SpecialistsNebraska Cancer Specialists is dedicated to providing complete cancer treatment for patients medical oncology radiation oncology surgical specialists and diagnostic services
5 Convenient LocationsFor address and phone infovisit our websitenebraskacancercom
Kohllrsquos Pharmacy amp Homecare
8 locations amp free delivery Providing retail amp compounded prescriptions all medical equipment amp supplies
402-408-1990 wwwkohllscom
Home Instead Senior Care
If yoursquore looking for someone to help you or a loved one a few hours a week or need more comprehensive assistance Home Instead Senior Care can help
Metro 4024983444West 4029324555
Nebraska Low Vision
Where would I be without Nebraska Low vision Their solutions help me read every day
In Home Demo Call 402-905-2794wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
M EMORIES OF THE MORE than 360 children treated at Omaharsquos Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital in
summer 1952 flooded back At least 14 were in iron lungs Thirteen died that summer
It was the worst outbreak in Nebraska history The diseasersquos original name was Infantile Paralysis because it seemed to primarily target young children But some victims were adults
Unlike many of the other younger doctors at Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital at the time Oberst had experienced treating polio while serving in Japan in the US Army Medical Corps When he joined Omaha Childrenrsquos Clinic in 1951 he and some of the older pediatricians were the only doctors who had seen a case of polio in their lifetime
In 1947 Oberst became the first and only resident at the University of Nebraska College of Medicine now UNMC In March 1948 Childrenrsquos Memorial Hospital opened on what is now the UNMC campus at 42nd and Dewey streets
The sighs of relief heard from pediatricians after their patients survived with few problems stopped in the early 1980s when post polio syndrome gradu-ally emerged Many of the polio survivors who had gone on to normal lives suddenly found their muscles were weak
Darrel Sudduth of Plattsmouth is just starting to notice signs of post-polio syndrome more than 60 years after his recovery He was 12 years old when diagnosed with polio during the 1952 epidemic
ldquoI donrsquot think my parents had ever heard of the dis-easerdquo says Sudduth who is a member of the Nebraska Polio Survivors Association
During two weeks of isolation in Childrenrsquos Hospital his parents were not allowed to see Sudduth Until now the only residual effects had been a bad back and one leg shorter than the other
Oberst 91 is known for several ldquofirstsrdquo in pediatric medicine during his long career
bull Doctors from around the nation referred patients with Attention Deficit Disorder With or Without Hyperactivity to Oberst who was a pioneer in treating the condition then referred to as Minimal Cerebral Dysfunction ldquoBut that name scared parents to deathrdquo he remembers He treated 3000 children with ADHD
bull Oberst developed The Omaha STAAR Project to help parents doctors and teachers under-stand children with learning disabilities
bull While a resident he pioneered the use of exchange transfusion for Rh-positive babies and their Rh-negative mothers The transfu-sion was necessary to keep babies from being vulnerable to brain damage deafness or yellow jaundice
With all of his accomplishments Oberst not sur-prisingly believes that pediatrics is the most satisfying of all specialties However the three sons and three grandsons of Oberst and his wife Mary who died in 2011 chose careers outside medicine The family includes his famous grandson singer-songwriter Conor Oberst of Bright Eyes
Dr Oberst has written seven books some are medi-cal books The American Academy of Pediatrics pres-ents an award in his name each year
During his 40 years as a pediatrician he treated thousands of children But no memory is as heart-wrenching as the 1952 polio epidemic
After the Salk vaccine was introduced in 1954 there were fewer cases By 1979 there were no more cases in the United States Polio appeared to be eradicated But in some foreign countries where children are not vaccinated it is resurging
ldquoSome stupid people say their child shouldnrsquot be vaccinatedrdquo he says ldquoThey put that child at riskrdquo
Polio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst doesPolio Panic of 1952Do you remember Dr Byron Oberst does
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S13
by judy horan bull photography by bill sitzmann
60PLUS feature
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
WhenExperience Counts
Experience our State-of-the-Art Facilities
600 Brookestone Meadows PlazaElkhorn NE 68022 | (402) 289-2696wwBrookestoneMeadowscom
QUALITY LIFE | QUALITY CARE | EXCELLENT TEAMS | QUALITY REPUTATION | STEWARDSHIP
4330 South 144th StreetOmaha NE 68137
(402) 614-4000wwBrookestoneVillagecom
Proud Members of the Vetter Health Services Family
PhysicalOccupationalandSpeechTherapy Careaftertotaljointreplacement Strokerecovery Strengtheningaftercancertreatment Careaftersurgery Recoveryfromafallorextendedillness
Visit ourwebsite
to find outmore about us
OmahaBVampElkhornBM_Ad - Omaha 60+ Mag_111612_60+ Omaha Magazine Ad - BSV amp BSM 3112014 354 PM Page 1
Protecting your dreamsLegal solutions for trusts and estatesEarning your trustfor another 100 years
Omaha 4029344568 One Pacific Place Lincoln 4024751075 Wells Fargo Center wwwBaylorEvnencom
Donrsquot miss a single issueSubscribe today two years for $1177 off the newsstand price of $4750
omamagcomsaveanother Omaha Magazine exclusive
The Best of Omahatrade series continues in SeptemberOctober with
Omaharsquos Best Doctorsreg
W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
DIRECTORY
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S17
Elk Ridge Village on the Lake Retirement CommunityElk Ridge Village provides Independent and Assisted Living and Alzheimerrsquos Care and is committed to providing services of the highest quality
19303 Seward Plaza402-312-1198402-216-8835wwwelkridgeseniorlivingcom
Brookestone MeadowsBrookestone VillageSkilled nursing communities provid-ing short-term rehabilitation including physical occupational and speech ther-apy as well as long-term nursing care
wwwBrookestoneVillagecom402-614-4000 bull OmahawwwBrookestoneMeadowscom402-280-2696 bull Elkhorn
Home Care Assistance
Our services are distinguished by the caliber of our caregivers the respon-siveness of our staff and our expertise in Live-In care We embrace a positive balanced approach to aging centered on the evolving needs of older adults
402-763-9140homecareassistanceomahacom
EJ Militti JrFinancial AdvisorThe Militti Group at Morgan Stanley
Wealth and Estate Planning Risk-Management Executive Services Foundations amp Endowments
(402) 399-1513wwwmorganstanleyfacommilittigroup
Saint Jude Hospice
Rooted in Christian Love and Guided by the Holy Spirit our Radical Loving Care brings healing to those when their hope has changed from a cure to comfort
10506 Burt Circle402-609-4818saintjudehospiceorg
Steven D Wegner DDS
Dr Wegner has 35 years of clinical experi-ence and thousands of hours of continuing education He knows how to help seniors and all ages to achieve and keep a healthy smile
11840 Nicholas StSuite 210Omaha NE 68154402-498-0400
Travel and Transport
Travel and Transport is proud to be the 5th largest travel agency in the US servicing clients throughout the country as well as globally
travelandtransportcom 402-399-4500
Nebraska Cancer SpecialistsNebraska Cancer Specialists is dedicated to providing complete cancer treatment for patients medical oncology radiation oncology surgical specialists and diagnostic services
5 Convenient LocationsFor address and phone infovisit our websitenebraskacancercom
Kohllrsquos Pharmacy amp Homecare
8 locations amp free delivery Providing retail amp compounded prescriptions all medical equipment amp supplies
402-408-1990 wwwkohllscom
Home Instead Senior Care
If yoursquore looking for someone to help you or a loved one a few hours a week or need more comprehensive assistance Home Instead Senior Care can help
Metro 4024983444West 4029324555
Nebraska Low Vision
Where would I be without Nebraska Low vision Their solutions help me read every day
In Home Demo Call 402-905-2794wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
Y OU MAY HAVE ALREADY sur-mised that you are in fact get-ting older Some of the indicators
can be obvious It takes you two or six tries to get up from the couch parts of your body seem to be sloughing off like waterlogged loess In broad terms Yoursquove noticed that gravity has become your enemy
But some signs can be quite subtle So to help things out wersquove pieced together a pro-foundly serious checklist to help you gauge whether you are in fact just maybe begin-ning to age a bit
bull Yoursquove actually driven to Hebron to see the Worldrsquos Largest Porch Swing
bull ldquoHappy Hourrdquo is a napbull You expect to see farm
fields when you drive west of 72nd Street
bull You wake up looking like your driverrsquos license picture
bull Your address book has mostly names that start with ldquoDrrdquo
bull You remember when the College World Series was held somewhere other than Omaha
bull And you enjoy saying things
like ldquoI remember when the College World Series was held somewhere elserdquo
bull You send money to PBS after watching ldquoAntiques Roadshowrdquo
bull You have a party and the neighbors donrsquot even realize it
bull You still have a rotary dial landline telephone
bull You buy a compass for the dash of your car
bull You still write letters to the editor of the local newspaper
bull You remember who Zorinsky Lake is named after
bull You turn out the lights for economic rather than romantic reasons
bull You enjoy hearing about other peoplersquos surgical operations
bull You coached anyone who is now in a hall of fame
bull You have a ticket stub from a concert at Peony Park
bull You know what an IBM Selectric is
bull Neighbors borrow your toolsbull You miss the chicken at Rose
Lodge brunch at the Golden Apple and hanging out at Tinerrsquos Drive-In on Dodge
Feeling Gravityrsquos PullItrsquos not too late in life to figure out if yoursquore aging
YOU KNOW YOUrsquoRE 60 PLUS WHEN
S14 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
Story by Robert Nelson bull Photography by Bill Sitzmann
60PLUS humor
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
WhenExperience Counts
Experience our State-of-the-Art Facilities
600 Brookestone Meadows PlazaElkhorn NE 68022 | (402) 289-2696wwBrookestoneMeadowscom
QUALITY LIFE | QUALITY CARE | EXCELLENT TEAMS | QUALITY REPUTATION | STEWARDSHIP
4330 South 144th StreetOmaha NE 68137
(402) 614-4000wwBrookestoneVillagecom
Proud Members of the Vetter Health Services Family
PhysicalOccupationalandSpeechTherapy Careaftertotaljointreplacement Strokerecovery Strengtheningaftercancertreatment Careaftersurgery Recoveryfromafallorextendedillness
Visit ourwebsite
to find outmore about us
OmahaBVampElkhornBM_Ad - Omaha 60+ Mag_111612_60+ Omaha Magazine Ad - BSV amp BSM 3112014 354 PM Page 1
Protecting your dreamsLegal solutions for trusts and estatesEarning your trustfor another 100 years
Omaha 4029344568 One Pacific Place Lincoln 4024751075 Wells Fargo Center wwwBaylorEvnencom
Donrsquot miss a single issueSubscribe today two years for $1177 off the newsstand price of $4750
omamagcomsaveanother Omaha Magazine exclusive
The Best of Omahatrade series continues in SeptemberOctober with
Omaharsquos Best Doctorsreg
W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
DIRECTORY
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S17
Elk Ridge Village on the Lake Retirement CommunityElk Ridge Village provides Independent and Assisted Living and Alzheimerrsquos Care and is committed to providing services of the highest quality
19303 Seward Plaza402-312-1198402-216-8835wwwelkridgeseniorlivingcom
Brookestone MeadowsBrookestone VillageSkilled nursing communities provid-ing short-term rehabilitation including physical occupational and speech ther-apy as well as long-term nursing care
wwwBrookestoneVillagecom402-614-4000 bull OmahawwwBrookestoneMeadowscom402-280-2696 bull Elkhorn
Home Care Assistance
Our services are distinguished by the caliber of our caregivers the respon-siveness of our staff and our expertise in Live-In care We embrace a positive balanced approach to aging centered on the evolving needs of older adults
402-763-9140homecareassistanceomahacom
EJ Militti JrFinancial AdvisorThe Militti Group at Morgan Stanley
Wealth and Estate Planning Risk-Management Executive Services Foundations amp Endowments
(402) 399-1513wwwmorganstanleyfacommilittigroup
Saint Jude Hospice
Rooted in Christian Love and Guided by the Holy Spirit our Radical Loving Care brings healing to those when their hope has changed from a cure to comfort
10506 Burt Circle402-609-4818saintjudehospiceorg
Steven D Wegner DDS
Dr Wegner has 35 years of clinical experi-ence and thousands of hours of continuing education He knows how to help seniors and all ages to achieve and keep a healthy smile
11840 Nicholas StSuite 210Omaha NE 68154402-498-0400
Travel and Transport
Travel and Transport is proud to be the 5th largest travel agency in the US servicing clients throughout the country as well as globally
travelandtransportcom 402-399-4500
Nebraska Cancer SpecialistsNebraska Cancer Specialists is dedicated to providing complete cancer treatment for patients medical oncology radiation oncology surgical specialists and diagnostic services
5 Convenient LocationsFor address and phone infovisit our websitenebraskacancercom
Kohllrsquos Pharmacy amp Homecare
8 locations amp free delivery Providing retail amp compounded prescriptions all medical equipment amp supplies
402-408-1990 wwwkohllscom
Home Instead Senior Care
If yoursquore looking for someone to help you or a loved one a few hours a week or need more comprehensive assistance Home Instead Senior Care can help
Metro 4024983444West 4029324555
Nebraska Low Vision
Where would I be without Nebraska Low vision Their solutions help me read every day
In Home Demo Call 402-905-2794wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
bull You consider a stroll through Memorial Park to be a day hike
bull Yoursquove actually ridden on a real streetcar in Omaha
bull People no longer view you as a hypochondriac
bull Yoursquore proud of your lawn mower
bull You remember when Saturday afternoon shopping at Brandeis was a dress-up affair
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S15
WhenExperience Counts
Experience our State-of-the-Art Facilities
600 Brookestone Meadows PlazaElkhorn NE 68022 | (402) 289-2696wwBrookestoneMeadowscom
QUALITY LIFE | QUALITY CARE | EXCELLENT TEAMS | QUALITY REPUTATION | STEWARDSHIP
4330 South 144th StreetOmaha NE 68137
(402) 614-4000wwBrookestoneVillagecom
Proud Members of the Vetter Health Services Family
PhysicalOccupationalandSpeechTherapy Careaftertotaljointreplacement Strokerecovery Strengtheningaftercancertreatment Careaftersurgery Recoveryfromafallorextendedillness
Visit ourwebsite
to find outmore about us
OmahaBVampElkhornBM_Ad - Omaha 60+ Mag_111612_60+ Omaha Magazine Ad - BSV amp BSM 3112014 354 PM Page 1
Protecting your dreamsLegal solutions for trusts and estatesEarning your trustfor another 100 years
Omaha 4029344568 One Pacific Place Lincoln 4024751075 Wells Fargo Center wwwBaylorEvnencom
Donrsquot miss a single issueSubscribe today two years for $1177 off the newsstand price of $4750
omamagcomsaveanother Omaha Magazine exclusive
The Best of Omahatrade series continues in SeptemberOctober with
Omaharsquos Best Doctorsreg
W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
DIRECTORY
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S17
Elk Ridge Village on the Lake Retirement CommunityElk Ridge Village provides Independent and Assisted Living and Alzheimerrsquos Care and is committed to providing services of the highest quality
19303 Seward Plaza402-312-1198402-216-8835wwwelkridgeseniorlivingcom
Brookestone MeadowsBrookestone VillageSkilled nursing communities provid-ing short-term rehabilitation including physical occupational and speech ther-apy as well as long-term nursing care
wwwBrookestoneVillagecom402-614-4000 bull OmahawwwBrookestoneMeadowscom402-280-2696 bull Elkhorn
Home Care Assistance
Our services are distinguished by the caliber of our caregivers the respon-siveness of our staff and our expertise in Live-In care We embrace a positive balanced approach to aging centered on the evolving needs of older adults
402-763-9140homecareassistanceomahacom
EJ Militti JrFinancial AdvisorThe Militti Group at Morgan Stanley
Wealth and Estate Planning Risk-Management Executive Services Foundations amp Endowments
(402) 399-1513wwwmorganstanleyfacommilittigroup
Saint Jude Hospice
Rooted in Christian Love and Guided by the Holy Spirit our Radical Loving Care brings healing to those when their hope has changed from a cure to comfort
10506 Burt Circle402-609-4818saintjudehospiceorg
Steven D Wegner DDS
Dr Wegner has 35 years of clinical experi-ence and thousands of hours of continuing education He knows how to help seniors and all ages to achieve and keep a healthy smile
11840 Nicholas StSuite 210Omaha NE 68154402-498-0400
Travel and Transport
Travel and Transport is proud to be the 5th largest travel agency in the US servicing clients throughout the country as well as globally
travelandtransportcom 402-399-4500
Nebraska Cancer SpecialistsNebraska Cancer Specialists is dedicated to providing complete cancer treatment for patients medical oncology radiation oncology surgical specialists and diagnostic services
5 Convenient LocationsFor address and phone infovisit our websitenebraskacancercom
Kohllrsquos Pharmacy amp Homecare
8 locations amp free delivery Providing retail amp compounded prescriptions all medical equipment amp supplies
402-408-1990 wwwkohllscom
Home Instead Senior Care
If yoursquore looking for someone to help you or a loved one a few hours a week or need more comprehensive assistance Home Instead Senior Care can help
Metro 4024983444West 4029324555
Nebraska Low Vision
Where would I be without Nebraska Low vision Their solutions help me read every day
In Home Demo Call 402-905-2794wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
W ELL GIRLS IF YOUrsquoRE 60-plus therersquos a lot you all have in common
Regardless of shape and size whether yoursquore short tall curvy or thin there are certain places you prefer to keep covered because they show your age In winter turtlenecks and scarves cover up wrinkled necks Flabby arms can hide under long-sleeved blouses sweaters and jackets Nobody cam see spider veins through your slacks jeans and boots
Summer is a time when many women wonder how to keep cool when temperatures rise while still being comfortable baring parts kept under cover all winter long Once itrsquos time to ldquoundressrdquo for the heat the challenge to do so with style can be overwhelming
So now that the heat is on here is my head-to-toe advice for looking your best while keep-ing your cool
HAIR The easiest breeziest styles are those that are either very short or long enough to pony-up
FACE Light make-uphellipwith sunscreenSKIN Moisturizing sunscreen everywhereNECK Open necklines will keep you cooler
and take the focus away from the lines in your neck Summer scarves are great when itrsquos moderately warm but when itrsquos hot let go of hang ups about your neck
Beat the HeatAnd do it with style
Mary Anne Vaccaro is a clothing and product designer and an image consultant to businesses and individuals She is also a sales consultant for Carlisle and PerSe New Yorkmaryannevaccarocom carlislecollectioncom
UPPER ARMS Wersquore all too concerned with keeping them covered unless they look fabulous I say wear sleeveless anyway You limit your wardrobe too much if you wonrsquot wear sleeveless dresses and tops If covering arms up is a must for you donrsquot exhaust your-self shopping for tops and dresses with sleeves Buy sleevleless ones and wear light weight loose-fitting natural fiber shirts and unlined jackets loosely over them Sweatershellipeven cotton ones will be hot in hot weather Theyrsquore for cool evenings and air-conditioned places Scarves and stoles can cover arms nicely but you usually have work at keeping them in place
WAIST Tight heavy belts will make you feel hotter
PANTS Lightweight cottons and natural fiber blends will be most comfortable Jeans and most dark denims over-heat in summer Ankle and capri pants are great
SHORTS Taboo unless they are knee length
SKIRTS Cool and comfy alternative to pants and shorts Many fun styles and lengths
to choose from but remember your knees are your length guide You can expose them but nothing above them
DRESSES Your best wardrobe friends all summer If you remember the 60s you should remember shifts Straight dresses to throw on and go everywhere in Theyrsquove made a comeback and theyrsquore easy cool and fun to accessorize with jewelry scarves
FEET Take care of your feet They take you everywhere Keep them clean buffed moisturized and pretty
SHOES AND SANDALS Fashionable and must be comfortable Comfort shoes have come a long way in looks recently No need to wear tennis shoes outside of the gym and donrsquot wear shoes too tall to walk gracefully in A woman should walk and carry herself gracefully at every age
Finally black is your ldquoBest Friendrdquo color in every season but summer It really does absorb heat so wear white and lighter colors to keep your cool
S16 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
60PLUS styleby Mary Anne Vaccaro bull photography provided by Carlisle
DIRECTORY
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S17
Elk Ridge Village on the Lake Retirement CommunityElk Ridge Village provides Independent and Assisted Living and Alzheimerrsquos Care and is committed to providing services of the highest quality
19303 Seward Plaza402-312-1198402-216-8835wwwelkridgeseniorlivingcom
Brookestone MeadowsBrookestone VillageSkilled nursing communities provid-ing short-term rehabilitation including physical occupational and speech ther-apy as well as long-term nursing care
wwwBrookestoneVillagecom402-614-4000 bull OmahawwwBrookestoneMeadowscom402-280-2696 bull Elkhorn
Home Care Assistance
Our services are distinguished by the caliber of our caregivers the respon-siveness of our staff and our expertise in Live-In care We embrace a positive balanced approach to aging centered on the evolving needs of older adults
402-763-9140homecareassistanceomahacom
EJ Militti JrFinancial AdvisorThe Militti Group at Morgan Stanley
Wealth and Estate Planning Risk-Management Executive Services Foundations amp Endowments
(402) 399-1513wwwmorganstanleyfacommilittigroup
Saint Jude Hospice
Rooted in Christian Love and Guided by the Holy Spirit our Radical Loving Care brings healing to those when their hope has changed from a cure to comfort
10506 Burt Circle402-609-4818saintjudehospiceorg
Steven D Wegner DDS
Dr Wegner has 35 years of clinical experi-ence and thousands of hours of continuing education He knows how to help seniors and all ages to achieve and keep a healthy smile
11840 Nicholas StSuite 210Omaha NE 68154402-498-0400
Travel and Transport
Travel and Transport is proud to be the 5th largest travel agency in the US servicing clients throughout the country as well as globally
travelandtransportcom 402-399-4500
Nebraska Cancer SpecialistsNebraska Cancer Specialists is dedicated to providing complete cancer treatment for patients medical oncology radiation oncology surgical specialists and diagnostic services
5 Convenient LocationsFor address and phone infovisit our websitenebraskacancercom
Kohllrsquos Pharmacy amp Homecare
8 locations amp free delivery Providing retail amp compounded prescriptions all medical equipment amp supplies
402-408-1990 wwwkohllscom
Home Instead Senior Care
If yoursquore looking for someone to help you or a loved one a few hours a week or need more comprehensive assistance Home Instead Senior Care can help
Metro 4024983444West 4029324555
Nebraska Low Vision
Where would I be without Nebraska Low vision Their solutions help me read every day
In Home Demo Call 402-905-2794wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
DIRECTORY
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S17
Elk Ridge Village on the Lake Retirement CommunityElk Ridge Village provides Independent and Assisted Living and Alzheimerrsquos Care and is committed to providing services of the highest quality
19303 Seward Plaza402-312-1198402-216-8835wwwelkridgeseniorlivingcom
Brookestone MeadowsBrookestone VillageSkilled nursing communities provid-ing short-term rehabilitation including physical occupational and speech ther-apy as well as long-term nursing care
wwwBrookestoneVillagecom402-614-4000 bull OmahawwwBrookestoneMeadowscom402-280-2696 bull Elkhorn
Home Care Assistance
Our services are distinguished by the caliber of our caregivers the respon-siveness of our staff and our expertise in Live-In care We embrace a positive balanced approach to aging centered on the evolving needs of older adults
402-763-9140homecareassistanceomahacom
EJ Militti JrFinancial AdvisorThe Militti Group at Morgan Stanley
Wealth and Estate Planning Risk-Management Executive Services Foundations amp Endowments
(402) 399-1513wwwmorganstanleyfacommilittigroup
Saint Jude Hospice
Rooted in Christian Love and Guided by the Holy Spirit our Radical Loving Care brings healing to those when their hope has changed from a cure to comfort
10506 Burt Circle402-609-4818saintjudehospiceorg
Steven D Wegner DDS
Dr Wegner has 35 years of clinical experi-ence and thousands of hours of continuing education He knows how to help seniors and all ages to achieve and keep a healthy smile
11840 Nicholas StSuite 210Omaha NE 68154402-498-0400
Travel and Transport
Travel and Transport is proud to be the 5th largest travel agency in the US servicing clients throughout the country as well as globally
travelandtransportcom 402-399-4500
Nebraska Cancer SpecialistsNebraska Cancer Specialists is dedicated to providing complete cancer treatment for patients medical oncology radiation oncology surgical specialists and diagnostic services
5 Convenient LocationsFor address and phone infovisit our websitenebraskacancercom
Kohllrsquos Pharmacy amp Homecare
8 locations amp free delivery Providing retail amp compounded prescriptions all medical equipment amp supplies
402-408-1990 wwwkohllscom
Home Instead Senior Care
If yoursquore looking for someone to help you or a loved one a few hours a week or need more comprehensive assistance Home Instead Senior Care can help
Metro 4024983444West 4029324555
Nebraska Low Vision
Where would I be without Nebraska Low vision Their solutions help me read every day
In Home Demo Call 402-905-2794wwwNebraskaLowVisioncom
Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
Pumpkinpalooza in MayEastonrsquos father Eric first braved the elements of a now distant earlier millennia
We were well-stocked in the read-ing department with Easton choosing a couple of favoritesmdashThe Cat in the Hat and Caps for Salemdashas the stories that would usher him into the land of nod
So far so good The rest of the evening unfolded as follows 900 PM SHARPEastonrsquos out like a light
906 PMBug and Guy follow suit
920 PMThe party on a neighboring deck is in full (and loud) swing
MIDNIGHTStill awake as the beer flows freely next door Worse yet Country music
1233 AMA staccato series of explosions off in the distance (Fireworks Gunfire) is followed by a symphony of sirens (definitely gun-fire) and is later accompanied by a police helicopter strafing the lsquohood in pursuit of some midnight malcontents
R EALITY TV IS INCREASINGLY crowded with all manner of woodsy survivalist fare Most pro-
grams focus on the notion of ldquoextremerdquo something-or-other with life-or-death cliffhangers leading up to every comm- ercial break So I thought Irsquod take my elder grandson 4-year-old Easton into the wilds (of my back yard) to test our mettle against the forces of nature
Turns out that nature had nothing to do with our survivability quotient and rough-ing it was the least of our challenges The
entire adventure ended up being an object lesson in the foibles of urban
camping in my Country Club-area neighborhood
The dreamy awestruck look on Eastonrsquos face as the four of
us trekked from the deck to our campground was one I had seen only on the rarest of occasions
situations that usually involved Santa Star Wars or sugar
The four of us Oh I neglected to mention Eastonrsquos constant pillow- time companions a pair
of plush toys named Bug (a lady bug) and Guy (a
wiener dog) Our bare-bones shelter was a 30-some-year-
old pup tent purchased from Sears that is now held together
by a patchwork of duct tape and jagged stitches hastily sewn
around a campfire over the decades It was the same tent and same back yard in which
Roughing It Camping with Easton Bug and Guy
110 AMThe party over the fence mercifully fizzles out but I am to the point where now totally wired and checking my watch every ten seconds all I can do is to think about how to think about getting to sleep
200 AMSurrender I make if halfway to the house through the dewy toe-tickling lawn carrying the dead weight of a sleeping child before a tiny voice murmuring the words ldquoBughellipGuyrdquo causes me to reverse course
202 AMEaston is nestled in a warm bed with his bud-dies and again completely comatose
ldquoDid you get tired of camping Po-Pordquo Easton asks the following morning using my nonsensical nickname one of mysterious unknowable etymology
Yeah I guess I kinda did I had become tired of camping The city had done what nature could not in terms of derailing our wilderness outing Only Easton Bug and Guy came through the experience showing the resiliency of true outdoorsmen
Po-Po Not so much
S18 60PLUS julyaugust bull 2014
by david williams
60PLUS the grandpa chroniclesthe grandpa chronicles
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19
omaha magazine bull julyaugust 2014 171
Home Care Assistance a premier provider of in-home care has a new larger office to better serve clients in the Omaha area
Wersquore conveniently located at 13057 W Center Rd Ste 10 Omaha NE 68144(On the professionalsouth side of Montclair Center)
HOME CARE ASSISTANCE announces the GRAND OPENING of our OMAHA OFFICE
Read what your neighbors have been saying about our exceptional home care services
ldquoShortly after her diagnosis of a brain tumor my brothers and I realized we could not take care of mom by ourselves Home Care Assistance was there the next day to set things up They allowed us to spend quality time with our mom rather thanspend all our time taking care of her We never could have made it through thoselast months without their helprdquo mdash Kevin Mark and Chip F
ldquoYour direct help to get Mother home and comfortable was perfect You listened toMother and encouraged her in just the right way Your knowledge of working withthe nurses was also top-notch It is a lot of work but you make it look easyrdquo mdash Kit S
Meet Claire Claire Shannon MEd an Omaha Care Manager develops a unique plan of care for each client She trains and supervises the clientrsquos assigned care team and ensures proper careand client satisfaction Call Claire today for your free consultation
402-763-9140 bull HomeCareAssistanceOmahacom
julyaugust bull 2014 60PLUS S19