Kopan Course No. 20 1987
Teachings by Kyabje Lama Zopa Rinpoche
and
Khen Rinpoche Lama Lhundrup
Lama Zopa Rinpoche’s teachings edited by Namdrol Adams, November 2004. Second edit by Sandra Smith, February 2019. Khen Rinpoche Lama Lhundrup’s
teaching edited by Sandra Smith, February 2010.
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CONTENTS
Lecture One: Refuge and Bodhicitta ................................................................................ 1
• Integrating practice
• Refuge
• Bodhicitta motivation
• Highest happiness
• Benefits of reciting Guru Shakyamuni Buddha's name and mantra
Lecture Two: Cherishing Others ...................................................................................... 6
• Seven techniques of Mahayana cause and effect
• Shortcomings of the self-cherishing mind
• Benefits of cherishing others
• Exchanging self for others
• Immeasurable equanimity
• Stop disliking problems
• Motivation for precepts
• The kindness of others
Lecture Three: The Good Heart ..................................................................................... 15
• Practicing and not practicing the good heart
• Benefits of taking vows
• Universal responsibility
• How to regard the enemy
• Karmic appearance
Lecture Four: Labeling the I ............................................................................................ 22
• How to regard the enemy
• Everything comes from the mind
• Compassion for the enemy
• Labeling the "I"
• Labeling "David", "I", "Lama Zopa"
• Ignorance of true existence
• Suffering nature of human, animal bodies
• Meaning of OM MANI PADME HUM
Lecture Five: The Merely Labeled I ............................................................................... 28
• Labeling
• Meditating on the Heart Sutra
• Labeling president, fire
• Labeling on the base
• Merely labeled I
• Real I
• Awareness of emptiness and Dharma in daily life
Lecture Six: Labeling Appearances ............................................................................... 33
• Equalizing the eight worldly dharmas
• Labeling friend and enemy
• A Tibetan monk
• Things in the supermarket, toilet paper
• Mind is creator
• Awareness that everything is merely labeled
Lecture Seven: The Eight Mahayana Precepts ............................................................. 39
• Benefits of the eight Mahayana precepts
• Subduing the mind
Lecture Eight: The Benefits of Precepts ......................................................................... 45
• Benefits of precepts
• Four suffering results
• Perfect human rebirth
• Abandoning desire
Lecture Nine: The Emptiness of the I ............................................................................ 50
• How the I exists
• I is emptiness (shunyata)
• Delusions are dependent arising
• How to control delusions
• Emptiness is “I”
Lecture Ten: Equilibrium Meditation ............................................................................ 56
• Great equanimity – three reasons from side of others; three reasons from side of self
• Kindness of the enemy
• Equanimity
• Vajrapani-Hayagriva-Garuda
Lecture Eleven: Equanimity............................................................................................ 63
• Equanimity
• Nothing is definite in samsara
• Dependent arising of here and there, I and others, friend and enemy
• Trouble in Tibet
• Importance of His Holiness the Dalai Lama
Lecture Twelve: The Cause of Happiness .................................................................... 71
• Free will and karma
• Desire and happiness
• Nature of the mind, of phenomena
• Emptiness of tea
• Lung of Manjushri praise and mantra
• Meditation: how the I exists
• The I is empty; emptiness is the I
• Walking meditation
Lecture Thirteen: The Bodhisattva Vows: Lama Lhundrup ...................................... 80
• The eighteen root Bodhisattva Vows
Lecture Fourteen: Samsara and the Twelve Links ...................................................... 88
• The Eight Verses of Thought Transformation
• The four noble truths
• Enlightenment
• Making the decision
• Twelve links: ignorance, farmer, field, etc.
• Importance of realizing emptiness
Lecture Fifteen: Refuge .................................................................................................... 97
• Refuge
• Reincarnation
• Preparing to meditate on the lam-rim
• Importance of the lam-rim
• Kadampa geshes
• Lamrim prayer
Lecture Sixteen: The Suffering of Samsara ................................................................. 107
• How we enter samsara
• True suffering
• Karma and disturbing thoughts
• Attachment
Lecture Seventeen: The Five Views ............................................................................. 111
• Nature of attachment, anger, ignorance, doubt, pride
• Five views
• Everything comes from the mind
• Lungs: Medicine Buddha, Tara, Samayavajra
Lecture Eighteen: How to Practice Dharma ............................................................... 118
• The Heart Sutra
• Q&A: emptiness, death process, location of emotions, death process
• Causes of delusion: imprint, object, distraction, explanation, habit, inappropriate attention
• Death and dying
• Intermediate state
• Wheel of Life
• Eight Verses of Thought Transformation
• Impermanence-death
• Daily practice
• Dedications
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Lecture One: Refuge and Bodhicitta 7 December 1987
I’m happy to meet all of you and I would like to thank you first for coming here to study the
teaching of the Buddha. By opening your mind, by opening your heart to the teachings, by
analyzing, practicing, you have a great opportunity to experience and develop not only
temporary happiness, but also to achieve ultimate happiness, ultimate peace of mind. So
therefore, I have great rejoicefulness and I think all of you are highly fortunate. The more we
study the teachings of Buddha, the more and more we realize how we are fortunate. The more
you study, the more you understand, the more you practice—the real experience comes from
practice, but in order to practice you need to study.
The real study is not just words, not just collecting intellect, like establishing a library in the
mind, not just collecting intellect but meditating. We need to put together the listening,
reflecting, and meditation practice. This is the only way that we can have the experience and
complete the experience of the path to peerless happiness and the fully awakened mind.
Before the discourse, in order to pacify the outer obstacles, which arise from the inner
obstacles, and the inner obstacles, the disturbing thoughts, and even the subtle obstacles, the
mental stains—all the obstacles that interfere with the realizations of the graduated path to
enlightenment within one’s heart—we recite the Essence of Wisdom, the essential method,
the most powerful purification, the best protection, the inner and outer harm. So, either we
can recite it together—the important thing is to meditate on the meaning of the Essence of
Wisdom, just even the sound, OK?
[Rinpoche recites the Heart Sutra in English, and the Lion-face Dakini prayer]
Before the discourse, just a very brief preliminary—refuge, bodhicitta—so do the most
simple visualization. One can visualize Guru Shakyamuni Buddha, then offering,
accumulating merit, and doing the practice of purification with the seven-limb practice, then
the short mandala, then after that the requesting prayer to the lineage lamas, then Guru
Shakyamuni Buddha’s mantra, then the mandala to receive teachings.
[Refuge, seven-limb prayer, short mandala]
For those who are familiar, those who can do it, nectar rays emit from the merit field, seeing
Guru Shakyamuni Buddha as the embodiment of all gurus, and the Buddha, Dharma, and
Sangha. The nectar beams are emitted, and they purify all the obscurations, particularly the
self-cherishing thought and the ignorance grasping at true existence.
So ordinary conception, appearance, and all the obscurations within one’s own mind are
purified, and all the obscurations in the minds of others are completely purified. Then as a
replica absorbs into oneself, you generate the whole path to enlightenment, the method and
wisdom from sutra, the method and wisdom from tantra—in your mind and in the minds of
all other sentient beings.
[Requesting prayer to lineage lamas]
Now Guru Shakyamuni Buddha descends above one’s own crown, and then visualize the
mantra at the heart with nectars being emitted, purifying oneself and all other sentient beings.
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[Praise to Shakyamuni Buddha, then mantra]
Now Guru Shakyamuni Buddha melts into light and absorbs into one’s own heart, blessing
one’s own mind.
[Long mandala offering and Request to Turn the Dharma Wheel]
By actualizing the Dharma, the actual refuge, the Dharma that actually frees oneself from all
sufferings and the cause of sufferings in order to actualize the actual refuge, Dharma, within
one’s own mind, and for oneself to become the Sangha, and then to become the Buddha, in
order to free all beings from suffering and to lead them to peerless happiness, the fully
enlightened state. It is impossible for this to happen without relying upon the cause of refuge,
the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha—that which is possessed by the outer Buddha, the Sangha,
and that which is possessed by other’s minds, Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha.
Absolute Buddha, the Buddha’s omniscient mind, Buddha’s holy mind, and also the absolute
nature of the omniscient mind—then the relative Buddha or the truth of the all-obscuring
mind, the embodiment of the absolute Buddha, that is the relative Buddha, sambhogakaya
and nirmanakaya.
Then the true path, the wisdom directly perceiving shunyata and the cessation of suffering
that is achieved by developing the true path—this is the absolute Dharma. The relative
Dharma, or the Dharma that is the truth of the all-obscuring mind, that is the teachings of the
three baskets, the essence of the teachings of the graduated path to enlightenment.
The absolute Sangha, who has the absolute Dharma, the actual refuge, the absolute Dharma,
the true path, the true cessation of suffering, those who have this absolute Dharma, they are
the absolute Sangha—lay or ordained people. The relative Sangha means four ordinary—
“ordinary” meaning those who do not have the actual refuge, the Dharma, achieved in their
minds, so they are ordinary, they are not arya beings—so, four ordinary members who are
living purely in full ordination can do the activities of granting the vows. This is the relative
Sangha, from among the two truths, the relative or all-obscuring mind.
However, without having achieved the actual refuge of Dharma in one’s mind, without
oneself becoming Sangha, without becoming Buddha, without achieving the three resultant
refuges, one cannot perfectly lead or guide sentient beings to liberation—which means the
state free from the bondage of karma and disturbing thoughts, which binds oneself to
samsara. For great liberation, one must achieve the resultant refuge, the actual refuge, the
Dharma. For oneself to become Sangha and Buddha, it is only possible by relying upon the
cause of refuge, which exists in the mind of others, the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha.
So, “Until I achieve enlightenment, I go for refuge to the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha. Due
to the merits of my listening to the teachings and the other merits I have accumulated, may I
achieve the fully enlightened state in order to benefit migratory beings.”
You should feel strong compassion as much as possible for all sentient beings equaling
infinite space. On the basis of this then, as you think of migratory beings—“migratory” which
means that the sentient beings are not free but are overwhelmed by karma and disturbing
thoughts and continuously experience the three types of suffering of samsara. Even if they do
not experience the suffering of suffering or the suffering of change, they experience pervasive
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compounding suffering, being under the control of karma and delusions. They are migrating
in samsara through the twelve links—dro wa, migratory beings, migrating in samsara
continuously through the twelve links.
Remembering this meaning, feel great compassion in your heart. If you feel great compassion
toward all other sentient beings, then there is a reason—the great compassion is not only
wishing other sentient beings to be free from suffering and cause, “I want all the sentient
beings to be free from all the sufferings and the cause.” This is great compassion. If you feel
the root, great compassion, in your own heart, that gives the reason for bodhicitta, and causes
you to generate bodhicitta. If there is compassion then there is a reason to achieve the fully
enlightened state, this state that is completely pure, having ceased all the mental stains, all the
obscurations, complete in all the realizations. This is called the fully enlightened state.
Having great compassion in the heart gives you the reason to achieve the fully enlightened
state for the sake of all the migratory beings who are experiencing suffering.
Like this, you feel great compassion, that, “I want to cause all the sentient beings to be free
from all suffering and its cause. At the moment I cannot guide even one sentient being to
enlightenment, to liberation, and maybe not even lead them to the happiness of future lives.
Correctly guiding even one sentient being to temporal happiness in dependence on oneself is
not sure. The one who can perfectly guide sentient beings to temporary happiness, ultimate
happiness, liberation, and the fully enlightened state is only the Omniscient One. Therefore,
there is no other means at all, except myself achieving the omniscient mind, the fully
enlightened state. After achieving the omniscient mind, I will be able to perfectly guide all
sentient beings. Therefore, I must achieve the state of omniscient mind.”
This thought naturally arises day and night, without effort. Even if you see an enemy,
somebody who is harming you, who is badly treating you, criticizing you, even if you see that
person, you feel naturally to achieve enlightenment for that sentient being. Even toward your
friend, or the stranger, you naturally feel this thought, which is the altruistic mind to achieve
enlightenment for the sake of all sentient beings, naturally arising day and night. Like the
mother who has a beloved daughter or son in prison, who feels day and night, all the time, the
thought to liberate her child from prison, to liberate the child from that problem. She feels it
is so unbearable that her child is in prison, and because of that, has the thought to help, to
liberate that child by herself, to release him or her from prison. So day and night, this is
constantly arising, and then she attempts that.
As the mother feels when her most beloved child falls into the fireplace, into the hole where
there is a fire—it is so unbearable, day and night, so unbearable, she can’t stand it without
doing something for her child, to liberate that child, to take that child out of the fire.
Whatever activity she does, even if she talks, even if she eats, she constantly has this thought,
without effort, spontaneously arising, to take her child out of the fire. So if you feel this, if
you have such a thought to achieve enlightenment for the sake of other sentient beings, then
you have the realization of bodhicitta.
However, at least you should generate creative bodhicitta, the thought to achieve
enlightenment in order to benefit all the migratory beings.
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“I go for refuge to Buddha, Dharma, the Supreme Assembly, until I achieve enlightenment.
Due to the merits of listening to the teachings, from your side, and from the Lama’s side, the
merits of explaining, may I achieve enlightenment in order to benefit all migratory beings.”
[Refuge in Tibetan]
Please listen to the teaching, generating at least effortful bodhicitta, thinking, “At any rate I
must achieve the state of omniscient mind for the sake of all mother sentient beings who have
been kind from beginningless time, those mother sentient beings who equal infinite space.
Therefore, I’m going to listen to the teachings of the graduated path to enlightenment.” Also
by clarifying the righteous conduct of listening to the teaching according to the traditional
practice of the lineage lamas.
Within the teachings of the graduated path to enlightenment, the main body is bodhicitta.
Then, having bodhicitta, following the bodhisattva’s conduct, the six paramitas, which ripens
one’s own mind, and practicing the four factors that ripen the minds of other sentient beings.
So, according to Paramitayana, by proceeding on the five paths, the ten bhumis, one achieves
enlightenment. For one who wishes to achieve enlightenment in one lifetime by practicing
tantra, Vajrayana, secret mantra—having actualized the common path, completed the
preliminaries—the mind renouncing all of samsara, bodhicitta, and the wisdom of shunyata—
then if one practices tantra it is possible to achieve enlightenment in one lifetime.
Tantra has four aspects. According to the lower tantras, Kriya and Charya tantra, one seeks to
attain a long life of one thousand years and during that time one practices tantra, and becomes
enlightened. Taking the great initiation from a qualified vajra master, one trains the mind in
the path with signs and the path without signs—creativity or non-creativity.
Then, if one who wishes to achieve enlightenment within a few years, in a short, brief
lifetime of this degenerate time, one takes the great Maha-anuttara Yoga Tantra initiation
from a qualified vajra master. The four initiations of Maha-anuttara Yoga Tantra definitely
plant the seeds of the four kayas in one’s own mental continuum. Receiving these four Maha-
anuttara Yoga Tantra initiations from a qualified vajra master, the mind is ripened. It allows
one to practice the path, the two stages—the generation stage and the completion stage.
Again, these practices are done with bodhicitta—the common, general path of bodhicitta.
One can train the mind in the generation stage and the completion stage, and then one is able
to achieve the unification of no-more-learning, the fully enlightened state in a short life of
degenerate time.
“I want to make my life meaningful. I want to benefit other sentient beings. How should I
benefit other sentient beings?” These questions are common. The happiness that other
sentient beings want is only a question of—for those who don’t talk about the state of
omniscient mind, the fully enlightened state, having ceased all the stains, all the obscurations,
and having all the realizations, peerless happiness, it is only a question that do not know that
such things exist. The reason sentient beings don’t talk about the path to achieve the highest
benefit, or happiness, is not because it doesn’t exist. The reason they don’t talk about is
because they do not know.
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For example, when people go shopping, if they know the best quality, they ask for it—even
food for one meal, for one hour of pleasure—if they know the place where they sell the best
fruit, the best pizza, the best ice cream, that which has most the flavor, the most taste—those
who know that such things exist look for that.
Those who do not know don’t question it. They don’t attempt to look for it. They buy the best
quality food or material that they can understand. That which they think is the best quality,
they buy. Even though there is better than this, which they don’t know about, they don’t buy
it. So like this, in the same way, the reason the majority of the people don’t come to buy the
best quality it is not because it doesn’t exist in the shop. So it is similar.
If sentient beings know the path, if they know the state of omniscient mind, peerless
happiness, if they know, definitely they will seek it. Not seeking that is due to ignorance. So
like this, so many of these new subjects—when we hear Dharma, Buddha’s teachings, there
are many things, so many new phenomena—but it is not so much that it only exists today, as
that it is new to our mind. It is there, it exists, but it is new to our mind.
However, in the mind of the sentient beings, they have the wish to be free from sufferings
and to achieve the highest, longest happiness. As they have a limited understanding of what
suffering means, thinking that suffering means only relationship problems or starving, not
having a job, the husband left the wife, the wife left the husband, or having a disease. The
understanding of suffering is very limited—they do not have the understanding of the whole
entire suffering of samsara, only part of it. Therefore, the liberation that they want is very
limited. So the understanding of suffering is very limited, and therefore the cessation of
suffering that they seek is very limited. What they are seeking is not real, with limited
understanding of true suffering, the true cause of suffering, and the cessation, the liberation
that they seek does not become complete, it does not become ultimate liberation. They make
the mistake in the goal, liberation, that they are seeking.
It’s only that they don’t understand, that they don’t see it—otherwise the wish is to be free
from all the sufferings, and all its cause, and to achieve the highest happiness, that is the fully
enlightened state.
Therefore, for oneself to lead sentient beings to the fully enlightened state, this is the greatest
benefit. But there is no way for oneself to offer this greatest benefit to all sentient beings if
one does not have the realization of bodhicitta, if one does not practice bodhicitta.
Therefore, we need to do listening, reflecting, and meditation practice on the bodhicitta
teachings. Without doing listening, reflecting, and meditation, and the preliminary stages, the
preliminary path, the foundation for bodhicitta, again, one cannot generate bodhicitta.
Bodhicitta does not come by talking, “Bodhicitta, bodhicitta.” One has to establish it within
one’s heart by following step by step.
So I think stop here.
[Dedications in Tibetan]
Maybe I will do the lung of Guru Shakyamuni Buddha’s mantra, OK?
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Please think, “I’m going to take the oral transmission of Guru Shakyamuni Buddha’s mantra,
the founder of this present teachings, in order to achieve enlightenment for the sake of all
mother sentient beings.”
[Oral transmission of Guru Shakyamuni’s name and mantra]
Reciting La ma ton pa chom den de, reciting Guru Shakyamuni Buddha’s holy name once has
the power to purify negative karma. It is said in the teachings that 84,000 eons of negative
karma that have been accumulated get purified. The mantra contains the whole path, the
Lesser Vehicle path of method and wisdom, the Paramitayana path of method and wisdom,
and the result of the path, the three kayas—Buddha’s holy body, holy speech, and holy mind,
which has immeasurable, infinite qualities to benefit sentient beings.
Each time one recites the mantra, it plants a seed in one’s mind, the imprint of the seed is left
on the mental continuum, and then sooner or later one is able to fully understand the
teachings of the path that is revealed by mantra. One fully understands the meaning of the
mantra, which is the whole teaching of Buddha. Then that way, one is able to sooner or later
to have the realizations of the path, and it gradually leads to enlightenment. That’s the very
short benefits of the mantra.
SOHA—to take the root, to protect, to establish the root of the path within one’s heart. OM—
the infinite qualities of Buddha’s holy body, holy speech, and holy mind, the three kayas, and
then by actualizing the path of method and wisdom, relating to the lamrim, the graduated
path, the first MUNÉ—the graduated path of the lower capable being; the second MUNÉ—
the graduated path of the middle capable being; MAHAMUNA-YÉ—the graduated path of
the higher capable being. By actualizing these paths within oneself, within one’s own mind,
there is no teaching of Buddha that is not included in these three mantras—MUNÉ, MUNÉ,
MAHAMUNA-YÉ.
This completely purifies the ordinary impure body, speech, and mind, and transforms it into
the completely pure vajra holy body, holy speech, and holy mind, which is signified by the
OM—A, U, MA—the three syllables compound together and become OM.
So, thank you very much.
[End of discourse]
Lecture Two: Cherishing Others 8 December 1987
[Preliminary prayers in Tibetan]
Please listen to the teaching by generating at least the creative, purest attitude, bodhicitta,
thinking, “At any rate, I must achieve omniscient mind for the sake of all mother sentient
beings, who have been kind from beginningless time. Therefore, I’m going to listen to the
teachings on the graduated path to enlightenment.” And also clarifying the righteous conduct
of listening to the teachings according to the traditional practice of the lineage lamas.
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So, in regards mind training in the bodhicitta, which is the root of the Mahayana path to
achieve enlightenment, there are two techniques, two advices about the mind training in
bodhicitta.
There is mind training in bodhicitta through the seven techniques, the Mahayana cause and
effect, that has been passed from Guru Shakyamuni Buddha through Maitreya Buddha, to
Asanga, and then through the pandits. Then, there is the mind training equalizing oneself and
others, exchanging oneself for others.
In the first one, by meditating, by realizing how every sentient being has been one’s own
mother and has been kind to oneself from beginningless time, generate the thought of loving
kindness toward the mother sentient beings, thinking how they are devoid of happiness. Then
generate great loving kindness, not only wishing that all sentient beings have happiness, but
for oneself to cause this happiness toward all sentient beings, generating the realization of
great loving kindness, OK?
Thinking how the kind mother sentient beings are suffering, we should not only wish them to
be free from suffering, not wishing that somebody else, such as the buddhas, bodhisattvas, or
some other holy beings will help sentient beings be free from suffering—great compassion,
loving kindness, is not that way. You sit comfortably, enjoying, completely relaxed, and then
you wish that they are free from suffering. The mind just wishes them to be free from
suffering. “How wonderful if they had happiness,” then you are completely relaxed, laying
down, sleeping. Not in this way!
In everyday life, the responsibility that one takes through action, in the actual work, is
nothing else than to obtain happiness for self, nothing else than sacrificing the life for and
serving to the selfish mind—nothing else besides that. Day and night, serving oneself, one’s
body, speech, and mind serving oneself, the selfish mind. Nothing else. “If I’m happy, then
it’s OK, it doesn’t matter about others. If I’m suffering, that is very bad. If I have problems,
that is terrible, that’s very bad. If I can be happy, then that’s very good, that is the best thing.”
So instead of thinking that, think that if others have success then this is the best, if others are
happy then this is the best. Instead of thinking that way and working for that, serving that,
then think if I’m happy that’s the best, I will succeed in my wish. If I do not have the
happiness that I am looking for, if it didn’t happen, if I failed, if I’m miserable, that’s the
worst thing.
As long as we have this attitude, if we do not change, as long as we lead life with this
attitude, concerned only with oneself, then there is no happiness, there is no peace of mind,
there is no happiness in our life. If that is the attitude, day and night, if this is the main aim,
others don’t matter—however much they have problems, unsuccess, whether they are happy
or unhappy.
It is said in the teaching, the Guru Puja, the teaching on the guru yoga practice, the guru
offering, “Please grant me blessings to feel happiness when others are happy. By
understanding that there is no difference between myself and others, not desiring even the
slightest discomfort, suffering, and having no satisfaction in happiness, having no satisfaction
at all in happiness.”
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So, what it is saying is that, from beginningless rebirths we have followed the selfish attitude,
“It’s better if I’m happy, rather than others being happy.” So we are constantly only thinking,
only concerned with our own problems, with eliminating our own suffering and obtaining
happiness only for oneself. Therefore, from beginningless rebirths until now, we are still not
free from the problems we have been experiencing over and over, all the samsaric problems,
all the sufferings, over and over, again and again, still they didn’t end, still we didn’t reach
the end, still we did not finish experiencing the problems.
Therefore, now, the main mistake we have been making, the root mistake, is following the
self-cherishing thought, renouncing others and cherishing oneself.
So now we see why we have constant problems in my life, life to life, day to day, month to
month, year to year, life to life. Why? Now we see all this failure, unsuccess, undesirable
things, came from our wrong attitude, from the mistaken thoughts. So therefore, from now
on, if we change our attitude from this minute, if we change our attitude from the self-
cherishing thought that is the root of all unsuccess, failure, undesirable things, depression—
all the bad things—from there to bodhicitta, the thought of cherishing others, which is the
root of all the happiness, all the success, the root from which we receive all benefits. The
other one is the root from which we receive all harms.
So in this way, by changing this attitude, right this minute, we can obtain all the happiness for
every sentient being, fulfilling the wishes of all sentient beings, and lead everyone to the
peerless happiness of enlightenment.
Therefore, from now on we should rejoice if others are successful. Between oneself and
others, if others are successful, we prefer that one. Between oneself and others, others should
be happy, so happy. If others get the profit, we are happier.
Instead of others experiencing the problem, the loss, the undesirable thing—you experience
it, instead of others, you experience it on behalf of them. Between you and others, if there’s a
choice—you experience the problems, the suffering, and dedicate, give the happiness to
others, instead of taking the happiness for oneself and giving the loss, the problems, to others.
So then, request the merit field to bless the mind to be able to do this, to be able to change the
attitude in this way, to be able to act, to be able to live life in this way.
My thoughts are getting a little bit mixed with the other bodhicitta training. But the main
point that I was trying to tell you is not this way. Changing the mind—our stomach fills up
with delicious food and then we lie down on a soft comfortable bed, relaxing, and the mind
wishes for others to be free from suffering, for others to have happiness. This is not what is
called Mahayana great loving kindness, or great compassion. Great compassion is when
oneself is the cause for all the sentient beings to be free from all the sufferings.
Then after that, generate the realization, the special brave attitude—to do the work to free all
sentient beings from all suffering, the whole cause, the obscurations, and to cause all the
happiness, which includes peerless happiness, enlightenment, by oneself alone. Taking the
whole responsibility of the work for other sentient beings, upon oneself alone.
This is what is called the thought seeking the works for other sentient beings. After having
generated this, then comes bodhicitta, the thought seeking enlightenment for sentient beings.
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Then the second mind training in bodhicitta advice—equalizing and exchanging oneself for
others. Here one meditates on the extensive kindness of other sentient beings. By exchanging
oneself, by realizing the shortcomings of self-cherishing thought and the benefits of
cherishing others, this contains the meditation on the extensive kindness of mother sentient
beings. In the other bodhicitta meditation, there is only one part about kindness—sentient
beings are the mother and kind, but here we think about their extensive kindness in this life
and other lives, when sentient beings are not our mothers in that particular life. This includes
generating the realization of loving kindness and great compassion—all are included in this.
This includes repaying the kindness, the realization of great loving kindness, great
compassion, the special brave attitude—all these are contained in the second bodhicitta
technique, exchanging oneself for others by realizing the shortcomings of self-cherishing
thought and the benefits of cherishing others.
Now, before doing the mind training in bodhicitta, exchanging oneself for others, we need to
equalize oneself for others, to lay the foundation. So, now here, the equilibrium meditation
coming before exchanging oneself for others—that is the great equanimity. There is also an
equilibrium meditation before mind training, realizing that sentient beings are our mothers
and kind. So there are differences like this. We wish sentient beings to be free from anger,
attachment, and from discriminating sentient beings far and closer through anger and
attachment.
So, wishing the sentient beings free from anger and attachment, and free from discriminating
far and closer, realize the mistake, how the problem comes to other sentient beings. The
mistake is having anger and attachment, discriminating sentient beings—some sentient
beings as far, some sentient beings closer. The mistake is this—this is why they have
problems in life. The mistake is this. The problems are not only day-to-day life problems, but
life to life—the mistake is this. In other words, they made a mistake in the way of thinking in
everyday life.
This wish is immeasurable equanimity. The equanimity that is the foundation of the seven
techniques of the Mahayana cause and effect, that equanimity is cutting off your own
attachment and anger—your own attachment discriminates some sentient beings as being
close to you, and anger discriminates some sentient beings as being far. So cut off this
discriminating thought of anger and attachment. This equanimity of the advice of mind
training in bodhicitta, the seven techniques of Mahayana cause and effect, is just this. This
equanimity is general equanimity, common equanimity. This is nothing special, this is not a
special particular Mahayana thought transformation, not a special Mahayana practice. This is
practiced also in Theravada—the training in this equanimity is also revealed in the teaching
of the Lesser Vehicle path.
What is the way this equanimity is practiced, the way one cuts off the anger that arises by
reasoning, “This person gives me harm,” and the attachment that arises thinking, “This
person benefits me.”
Now I have one question—the person gives you a present of $1,000 this morning, and this
afternoon he kicks you—he comes along and beats you. How do you regard the person? Do
you regard that person as an enemy or do you regard that person as a friend? What do you
call him?
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[Student’s answer inaudible]
Why?
[Answer inaudible]
Enemy. But why do you care more about what is recent, why do you count as important the
nearest action that he has done to you? Why do you count that as important? Why do you
think in the mind that the nearest thing that he did is important?
[Answer inaudible]
Yes, why?
[Answer inaudible]
What happens if you make what he did in the morning to benefit you stronger? What happens
if, instead of making the present stronger, what he or she did in the present, you make what
he or she did in the morning, the benefit, stronger?
[Answer inaudible]
But why do general people care more about the nearest action, what people do? If the nearest
action is the benefit, he is the friend. If the nearest action is harm, then he is the enemy. Why?
Why don’t we refer back to the past?
[Answer inaudible]
But he might do the same thing again.
Some people might think that way, but it doesn’t mean that person will harm again.
Is that thought beneficial or not? That you only care about the nearest action that the person
does for you, whether that is benefit or harm. You don’t care about what the person did in the
past. Is that a useful thought or not?
[Student’s answer inaudible]
What? Is that thought something we need or don’t need? Is that thought beneficial for the
person’s life?
[Answer inaudible]
Did somebody see it as beneficial? You see? Huh?
[Answer inaudible]
Then do you remember somebody’s faults, or do you receive the fault of attachment?
[Answer inaudible]
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Yes, yes, you’re talking about the technique. Not relying on my question. I think it’s very
useful to analyze like this, just to check. Then you see that this thought is completely useless,
only problem.
[Student’s comment inaudible]
I think it is not so much labeling, I think it is more to do with attachment, anger.
[Comment inaudible]
You can realize all sentient beings are your friend, your own mother, but without clinging,
without grasping mind. That only helps you to have loving kindness, without the grasping
mind. So you mean there is something wrong in thinking that this person is kind?
[Answer inaudible]
So I think the last one.
[Comment inaudible]
Yes, to care about the nearest action, to count that as the most important, rather than
remembering the past ones, rather than thinking the past is most important. Why do the
people in the world care about the nearest action? Is that a useful thought or not? Useful for
himself, for herself, for others’ happiness?
[Answer inaudible]
I think the other one has also the help that was given this morning.
[Answer inaudible]
I think that generally among sentient beings, most cannot remember their past lives and
cannot remember the relationships that have caused harm or benefit in the past. Therefore, if
this present life’s birth is the only life, they consider harm and benefit from those sentient
beings only in terms of this life, because this is only what they can remember. And then
mainly I think, referring to how much they can remember, even in this life, the ones that they
have forgotten, they think about that. So this year, this month, how much they can remember,
they refer to that—the friend, enemy, benefit, harm.
Then, I think one thing, the basic thing, why do we have the discriminating toward friend,
enemy, why? Why do we have basic discrimination in relation to the nearest action? Why?
One thing might be because in general, for ordinary sentient beings, there is much grasping
and care in relation to their happiness—the present happiness, this minute’s happiness,
today—that is so important, the mind grasps on that.
Since this is the attitude and general mistake, if one is able to change, able to establish the
happy life—the general mistake we have now is thinking that if there’s harm, it’s bad—that is
the attitude. If somebody criticizes you, it’s bad. If somebody disturbs you, it’s bad. If there
are miserable conditions, if there are difficulties in life, if there is a miserable situation, it is
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bad. You establish the mind to dislike that. But if we establish the mind that likes the
difficulties, if we establish the mind that likes miserable conditions, if we change the attitude,
then the whole problem is stopped.
[Tape ends]
[Recording very soft and difficult to hear]
…actually doesn’t need so much change outside. Now, how much we need to change outside
depends on how much—there is a simple example—somebody who is so selfish,
unbelievably selfish, with nothing else to think about day and night except, “How can I be
perfect?” Thinking of happiness, every comfort, concerned with every comfort—when you
eat, when you sleep, everything comfort, so much comfort.
Now, for that person with a very selfish mind, no matter how much change is done outside, it
is very difficult to satisfy. No matter how many friends the person has, no matter how many
possessions the person has, no matter how much they try to fix the place, they are very
difficult to satisfy. It is very difficult for things to be perfect for that person. Therefore you
can see it came from the mind.
So, the person thinks, “Still it’s not right, still this is missing, it should be this way and that
way.” There is so much, he is concerned about every tiny bit so much. Therefore, for the life
of that person ever to be perfect is very difficult. That person’s mind is so difficult or so
strongly selfish, such a difficult mind, so life becomes very difficult to satisfy, and it is very
rare for that person to be happy.
So the basic psychological method, the one thing, the one change that makes every outside
thing change without worry or fear—we are unable to do it, unable to get it, so many things
in the life.
So, the one answer to solve all the thousands, the billions of problems in that city, so many
people depressed, the whole day and night there are problems with telephones, the people
going through change, people in nighttime, daytime, talking to people to explain the
problems, what’s that called?
[Answer inaudible]
And there is the person that you can call? One person?
[Answer inaudible]
They sit in the corner of the room, beside the telephone, day and night, one person...
[Answer inaudible]
Isn’t that called psychiatrist?
[Answer inaudible]
You hear their problems in the small radio, the people talking to each other, you hear this
from the small radio, the talkback radio.
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[Comment inaudible]
Talk show, like that.
So basically, not only these people, but if you want the one change that covers all the
problems, stop establishing the mind that dislikes problems, and instead of that establish the
mind that likes problems, that likes difficulties in life. If one is able to do that, by meditating,
by thinking of the everyday life benefits of the problems, how the problems are useful to
develop your mind, to pacify all the disturbing thoughts, the cause of sufferings, the
shortcomings of the luxury life—when there are difficulties, make it worthwhile. When there
are problems, misery in life, make it beneficial. When there is happiness, make it beneficial
for oneself and other sentient beings. So, I am just giving the summary.
This is for the non-religious person—but there is the utmost need, especially for the Dharma
practitioner, because when there is happiness, the mind is excited and cannot do practice. The
mind is in the lifted-up aspect and again cannot do practice. And when the life is in misery,
with difficulties, again one is unable to do practice. It is very difficult to continue the
practice.
Therefore, with this psychological method, the one most important thing is to change all the
undesirable things. Having this one change, establish liking problems, instead of disliking
problems by meditating on, understanding, and always being aware of the benefits of the
problems, thinking it is good. So, this way, instead of not wanting all the problems in life, all
the difficulties, instead we want them. Instead of undesirable, the difficulties in life become
desirable. This is for everything.
Now, the other thing is, if the person thinks more of.... Let’s put it this way—the person may
have stolen one million dollars or one thousand dollars last year. But today you’re starving,
and that person gives you food. Or you are so exhausted, so thirsty, and you are traveling,
you are looking so much for a cup of tea, so the person gives you a cup of tea, and that brings
incredible joyfulness in the mind. So then you see that person as a friend.
The other thing is that because the general basic idea, the concern, is moment-to-moment
happiness, what the person does to you in the present, moment-to-moment, becomes very
important. So that becomes discrimination.
Is that right or not?
[Answer inaudible]
So now you can see that it completely came from your own mind—how you think of that
person. That person could be your friend if you think about this morning’s help, if you
concentrate more on that, if you think how he was very kind this morning, what he did for
you. For example, that person doesn’t think so much of his giving a cup of tea and how this is
joyful, how he gave relief from your exhaustion. But if the person thinks more of the past, the
stolen one thousand dollars, if he concentrates completely on that, then I think it is very
difficult.
So I think stop here.
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Even though their natures are completely impermanent, they appear as permanent, and
completely cling to this as true, however, believing that they were permanent.
So, if we don’t get to practice Dharma, to achieve ultimate happiness, the fully enlightened
state for the sake of other sentient beings, with this body, if we don’t get this done, then
having taken birth, having taken this body, looks simply like suffering longer. The purpose of
taking birth is continuously to suffer, nothing more than that. We have taken this birth, this
body, just to continuously suffer longer—as I just described the suffering of changes, and
those other sufferings, other problems, and simply to make the place dirty.
Until we get liberated from samsara we have to continuously experience suffering. So
therefore, due to this, being under control of these wrong conceptions, if you think of yourself
and other sentient beings, we have been suffering in samsara without beginning. If you think
of beginningless suffering, it is something that cracks the heart—if you look back, the
beginningless suffering of samsara. If you think it is endless, the continual suffering of
samsara, if we do not abandon these four wrong conceptions, then it is all heavy, unbearable
and endless, such a long time that one has to experience all this suffering of samsara again. If
we think of the future, even if one eats food, it makes us vomit, unable to sleep. It is like this.
So it is not sufficient for oneself alone to achieve liberation from samsara. This attitude,
seeking liberation for oneself, is no different from that of a dumb, mute animal. Tiny
creatures—ants, worms—whatever they eat or drink, whatever they do in their life, they have
this attitude to use all this for themselves alone, for their own happiness.
Mother sentient beings are the originators of all my past, present, and future happiness. Even
day-to-day life, our enjoyments, this happiness, is completely dependent on, completely came
from, and completely given by sentient beings. Even without the long run, just checking the
day-to-day enjoyments and happiness, one can see that it very clearly and completely came
from sentient beings, from their kindness.
The comfort of the place, having protection in life, not having harm to the body, having this
enjoyment, comfort, by living in the house—this is received from so many sentient beings
being killed. They had to die, had to suffer, when the house was built. So many other sentient
beings created negative karma killing these other sentient beings. Without all these sentient
beings creating negative karma, without others suffering, there is no way that we can receive
these enjoyments and comforts in day-to-day life—the protection of life—there is no way to
receive these enjoyments at all. This enjoyment, this comfort is completely received by the
kindness of sentient beings.
Same thing—the clothes that we wear to protect us—wearing them, we have enjoyment,
comfort. Again same thing—we received these by so many sentient beings creating negative
karma, harming others—human beings, creatures—and then so many others get killed, had to
suffer. These enjoyments completely came from the kindness of mother sentient beings.
Now, the comfort and enjoyment that arises from drinking one cup of tea—again the same
thing. Without so many of these creatures, so many of the tiny creatures living in the water,
suffering, dying—also when we put medicine we kill many creatures in the water, for
people’s health. This is all received from so many sentient beings’ suffering, from harming
other sentient beings. All this comfort and enjoyment of drinking is given by them.
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It is the same thing with eating one tiny, single grain of rice. In order to plant this, to grow
this, the field is made, the land is fertilized. However, uncountable numbers of creatures were
killed, sentient beings were killed, and many other sentient beings created negative karma
harming others, and so many others suffered. So this single grain of rice came from other
rice. Again, so many sentient beings suffered for that. So like this, it is inconceivable—we
can’t believe, it is unbearable, if we look the whole way through. For this one single grain,
how uncountable numbers of sentient beings suffered. Therefore, all this comfort and
enjoyment is completely given to oneself—the enjoyment of eating food given by the sentient
beings. So like this, day-to-day life’s enjoyment and happiness is completely received from
sentient beings.
Therefore, it is impossible to live life with the selfish attitude. To use all the sentient beings’
enjoyments, to take all the sentient beings’ enjoyments, so many sentient beings suffer and
we use all the enjoyments received from them only for our own happiness. So it is unbearable
to live the life for self even for one minute, to live the life for one’s own happiness. It is
impossible—it is so unbearable to not live life for others, without having the thought to
eliminate suffering, to obtain happiness for other sentient beings. To live life with the selfish
attitude even for one minute is impossible, it is so unbearable!
Mother sentient beings have the utmost need, and beginning Dharma practice is dependent on
them and continuing Dharma practice is dependent on their kindness. Even achieving
enlightenment depends on the kindness of mother sentient beings. Therefore, mother sentient
beings are extremely kind, unbelievably kind. What they want is happiness, what they do not
want is suffering. Therefore, to eliminate all suffering, which they do not want, and to obtain
all the happiness that they want, the highest enlightenment, is my responsibility. This is
completely my responsibility. I need to accomplish this work for all sentient beings, so I must
achieve enlightenment.
If one does not subdue one’s own mind, speech, and body, one cannot achieve the realization
of the path to enlightenment. Only by subduing this, by living in virtue, can one achieve
realizations, the path to enlightenment. So therefore this is the foundation.
Therefore, I’m going to take the eight Mahayana precepts.
Now, please make three prostrations. Think of the lama who grants the ordination as the
essence and aspect of Guru Shakyamuni Buddha, OK? Then make three prostrations.
Now, please kneel down, those who can, if you don’t have a disease or something. Put your
palms together like this in the mudra of prostration, holding your palms…
Lecture Three: The Good Heart 9 December 1987
Please listen to the teaching well by generating at least the creative bodhicitta, thinking, “At
any rate I must achieve the state of omniscient mind for the sake of all the sentient beings
who equal infinite space and who have been my mothers and kind. Therefore, I’m going to
listen to the teaching of the graduated path to enlightenment.” Also clarifying the righteous
conduct of listening to the teaching according to the traditional practice of the lineage lamas.
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As I mentioned yesterday, how much happiness and peace and how many difficulties and
problems one has in life is completely dependent on the doer, the one who experiences, one’s
own mind.
Generally speaking, a person whose mind is less selfish has more thoughts cherishing others,
more concern for others. Naturally by that attitude there are so many less problems,
especially with other sentient beings in day-to-day life. That person has less bother, that
person takes it easy because of the good heart—as the person has that much good heart, they
are happy to take on trouble for others, to experience the difficulties for others.
The one who has the more selfish mind, more concern for oneself than others, more thought
cherishing oneself than others, that person has greater problems, that person has more
enemies. Wherever they go, wherever they live, whomever they accompany—there is more
bother, more distraction to that person. This is the common experience.
Also, you can tell by your own experience. For example, for somebody who is practicing,
some years have been good practice; some years have been bad practice; some years you did
strong practice of bodhicitta, with more effort in the thought of cherishing others, and then at
other times it degenerated or didn’t get done—you didn’t get to continue the practice.
Somebody who has been trying to practice can tell from their own experiences.
Just by looking back, the years that you have practiced well, with bodhicitta, taking others’
sufferings, dedicating your own happiness, body, possessions, and merits to other sentient
beings, exchanging oneself for others—in those years you had easy times. In those days it
was very easy to get along with people. It was very easy even if other people stole your
things, even if other people criticized you—it was very easy to handle, nothing bothered you,
nothing was important, or you found what they did to be extremely beneficial. You found the
harm beneficial for your own practice, the development of your own mind. There was much
happiness and peace, continuously day and night, because the condition of your happiness is
not outside. The condition of your happiness is within your mind. The condition of your
happiness, the cause and the conditions are within you.
When you take care of your own mind in the good heart, then whatever the people around
you do, harm or benefit, whatever, because you’re practicing, you are controlling your mind,
the disturbing thoughts, they don’t disturb your mind. The changes of the people around you
and their actions, whether harming or helping, do not upset you. They don’t bring you up and
down, these emotions. As you are able to practice that much good heart, bodhicitta, there is
that much tranquility or peace, day and night, in life.
When you don’t continue the practice, life becomes like a water bubble—the mind becomes
like water bubble, like boiling hot water. Life becomes like that because the mind is like that,
so there is no peace. Every single thing that other people do affects you a lot because you do
not practice. A slight, small behavior, a slight movement or action, whatever the surrounding
people do to you—even how the skin of the face appears to you, what it shows, tight and
dark, upsetness. If the face has some wrinkles, narrow eyes, fine eyes, the mind is very
happy. This face becomes so important for your mind. When you don’t practice and take care
of your mind, when you don’t control your mind, the mind is completely dependent on
external things. So it changes—ups and downs, upset, happiness, all the emotional life
changes, because it is so much relying upon the outside, external expectations. When you
don’t practice, when you don’t look after your own mind, when there is no practice, no
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controlling, no guiding, when you don’t take care of your own mind, your own life, then it’s
like that, then that is the problem.
In one way, it seems very silly, completely silly, because it is completely dependent on this
size of face, whether it smiles at you, whether it’s tight. Your life is completely dependent on
that—happy or unhappy, the surrounding people, the face.
The basic problem is following the selfish mind. The selfish mind expects all good things to
happen for you, and you become a friend of the selfish mind, you follow the selfish mind, and
when what it expects does not happen, you collapse. When the selfish mind does not succeed,
you collapse. Again, you see the very silly thing there.
You can see how everything—all happiness, problems, everything—came from this way of
thinking. And through a skillful way of thinking, everything becomes happiness, the whole
life becomes happy. With the unskillful way of thinking, you don’t see happiness, and the
conditions of life become miserable.
For example, when you find somebody is angry with you. Let’s put it this way—as long as
there’s anger in your mind, there’s the possibility for anger to arise. As there is the possibility
for anger to arise, there’s the possibility to find the enemy outside. If there is no possibility
for anger to arise in your heart, there is no possibility to find the enemy outside. So whether
you have an enemy or not is up to whether you have anger or not.
It is very clear from this that even if every person on earth, every dog, every bird, was angry
at you, even if all the dogs were biting you, if there is no anger in your mind, you will not
find even one enemy on this earth, among them all. Besides people I just added some more.
If your mind is rich in compassion, loving kindness, if your heart is filled with compassion
toward other sentient beings, then even if all people and all animals are angry and harm you,
from your side you see everyone as your friend or relative. If your mind has compassion, then
all the sentient beings are your friend. You feel that everyone is close in the heart.
Therefore you can see the good heart, loving kindness, compassion, and bodhicitta are
unbelievably precious, incredibly precious—and how unbelievably important it is to practice
them. In your life, in every hour, you need to pay attention, and always to put every single
effort into having a good heart. With this good heart, you see all the other sentient beings’
harms as benefiting you, purifying you, finishing your own negative karma. You see so many
ways that sentient beings’ harming you actually benefits you.
As a mother who has one beloved child sees that one most beloved child, if your mind has
compassion toward all other beings, loving kindness, and bodhicitta, then you see all
beings—those who help you, and even those who harm—whatever they do, you see it all in
beauty, like the mother sees her one most beloved child.
But if this mind is empty of loving kindness, compassion, bodhicitta, and the good heart, then
no matter how much wealth you have, no matter how much education you have, no matter
how much reputation you have, no matter how many things you have—there are continual
problems, even more problems, and there is no peace in the life.
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Therefore, even if you don’t have even one dollar, even if you are homeless, living life by
begging for each meal, if the heart is filled with compassion and loving kindness toward
others, there is incredible joyfulness, unbelievable happiness, and peace of mind. Even if
there is no reputation, no wealth, no education, you see everyone as a friend—you feel it in
the heart—there is no thought to give harm, only benefit. Your life is full of joy. Every hour
life becomes highly meaningful, beneficial.
Therefore, if you think carefully, if you examine well, transforming your own mind into the
good heart, into the loving, compassionate thought of bodhicitta—this is the source of all
happiness. When you understand the benefits of bodhicitta, loving kindness, compassion, and
bodhicitta, both temporary and ultimate, and then you practice this, you will receive these
benefits, seeing the teaching of the Buddha, whose emphasis is to not harm all sentient
beings, to have compassion toward all sentient beings. On top of that, to benefit all sentient
beings. You see the teaching of the Buddha as so precious, and in this way you receive
benefit by practicing, by understanding the teaching, and you feel the kindness of
Shakyamuni Buddha, and how compassionate he is. You feel near Buddha, you feel that you
are protected, you feel that you are guided by Shakyamuni Buddha out of his compassion.
When you practice, you have the experience of how unbelievably kind Shakyamuni Buddha
is.
I lost my thought, I don’t remember.
Because of this teaching, do not harm other sentient beings; benefit other sentient beings and
have compassion for all other sentient beings. This is what every sentient being needs.
Buddha is not telling us that they don’t need it. This is what every sentient being needs from
you. What every sentient being needs from you is to not give harm, to have compassion
toward them and to benefit them. So Buddha is telling you what they need from you.
Practicing this, you will be protected. You will not create negative karma. By stopping giving
harm to others, you don’t create negative karma. Instead of that you create merit, good
karma.
Like today, we abandoned eight harms, eight things that harm others directly or indirectly.
Some indirectly because there are some things that stop you from developing your mind,
causing others to build attachment, which obscures your mind and stops realizations. As it
stops realizations, these disturbing thoughts disturb the development of your capacity—it
makes you create negative karma, obscures the mind, and in this way makes it difficult to
have realizations. So then, you cannot develop your capacity—the ability or power to help
others, to benefit other sentient beings.
When you stop, when you prevent the development of your own capacity to help others with
wisdom, with method, when you interfere with that, it is like indirectly harming others. Like
killing, stealing and so forth, which are directly harming. And some of the branches, not
wearing ornaments and so forth, abandoning doing these things out of attachment. Today we
abandoned eight things that harm other sentient beings directly and some indirectly. We took
the vow to not do these things, so we are creating good karma.
By practicing the Buddha’s teachings, we stop creating the negative karma that makes us
suffer, that makes us experience the problems of samsara again and again.
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This is talking about protection—by practicing the teachings, you are protecting yourself
from creating the cause and the result of problems in the future. This is only talking about one
person, you. The main attitude you should have—seeing the shortcomings and problems of
killing, living in the vow abandoning the negative karma of killing. As long as you live in
even just one vow, abandoning killing, this is a method of guiding sentient beings.
When you take the vow to not kill any sentient being, it is not a vow to not kill the friend but
to kill the enemy. It is not a vow to not kill the good ones but to kill the bad ones, to not kill
the ones you like but to kill the ones you don’t like. It is a vow to not kill any sentient being.
So now, all the rest of the sentient beings. When you take this vow, as Buddha has shown the
method, for example, the eight Mahayana precepts, the particular one-day ordination, all the
rest of the sentient beings do not receive harm and during those times that you have taken the
vow, for one day, or for the lifetime until death, however many times you have taken the
vow, living in this vow, the harm sentient beings receive from you becomes less. The longer
you take the vow, the longer numberless sentient beings don’t receive the harm of being
killed by you. So the vow is unbelievable protection.
Just think of one precept that you practice. It’s unbelievable protection, and an inconceivable
number of sentient beings receive protection from you. They don’t receive the harm of being
killed by you.
So, as I mentioned this point, as the subject came to this point, now you can see how
unbelievably important, how incredibly important—how living in one vow is unbelievable
protection for the rest of beings. Then if you live in two precepts, adding not stealing, then
again the harm that the rest of the sentient beings receive from you becomes so much less. On
top of that, telling lies. The more you take vows, the less harm the rest of the numberless
sentient beings receive from you—unbelievable protection.
Without thinking of your own benefit, your own suffering, your own problem, “I don’t want
problems in future lives, I want happiness and therefore I want to live in the precepts,
therefore I want to take the vow.” That is nothing. If you think of all the benefit for sentient
beings, so much harm becomes less and there is unbelievable benefit. As many vows as you
take to not kill, to not create negative karma, to not harm. When you think this way, there is
unbelievable benefit—you can see now that all the rest of the sentient beings completely
depend on you. Their happiness, their suffering, depends on you.
If you think this way, you can see very clearly how all other sentient beings’ happiness and
suffering depends on you. So the more precepts, the more morality you practice, uncountable
numbers of other sentient beings receive so much less harm and so much greater happiness
from you.
You can see how, even simply from this, each of us are completely responsible for all the rest
of sentient beings’ happiness—not only starting from the family with whom you associate,
eat and drink together, but all the rest of sentient beings—their happiness and suffering is
completely dependent on you. It is dependent on each of us.
So now we can think this way. The person sitting next to you, in front, at the back, or on the
right or left side, starting from there, the happiness and suffering of all the rest of the sentient
beings is dependent on you. How much happiness and suffering they have becomes less
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depending on you. So you see, each one of us completely responsible. So now you can see
how incredibly important it is to protect karma, to abandon negative karma and practice good
karma. How unbelievably important living in morality is.
If you do not change your own attitude, living life with a good heart, loving kindness,
compassion, bodhicitta, cherishing others—one thing, patience. If there is patience in your
mind, the harmful actions toward others get stopped. The harmful actions of body, speech,
and mind get stopped. So you can see all other sentient beings have happiness. By stopping
harm, they have happiness. So completely like this.
If you practice patience, so many other sentient beings receive happiness and don’t receive
harm from you. If you don’t practice patience and you continuously follow anger, they
continuously receive harm. Therefore, all the rest of sentient beings’ happiness is completely
in your hands. Suffering, not receiving harm from you, is completely in your hands,
depending on you.
Now, to finish up—you can see today that by living in the eight precepts, other sentient
beings, all the rest, are receiving protection. They do not receive harm, but happiness from
you. All this is by the kindness of Guru Shakyamuni Buddha’s teachings—Buddha’s holy
words, to have compassion toward all beings. This depends on which way you train the mind.
If you get more habituated to being selfish, then you dislike problems. When the mind is
more habituated in this way then whatever appears to the six senses, everything, gets turned
into the enemy. Everything appears as the enemy, disturbing. Then it is so difficult to find
happiness, even temporary happiness is so difficult. If the mind is more trained in cherishing
others, it likes the problems. By realizing the benefits of the problems, the mind gets
habituated and trained in that way. When the mind is trained in this way, then even the
biggest problem becomes like cotton. The way the person sees it and finds it pleasant is as
light as cotton.
The conclusion is that if there’s a good heart, there is so much happiness in life, without need
to seek happiness from outside.
However, as soon as you are not aware, as soon as you don’t attempt to find happiness from
your own mind, only seeking happiness from outside, there are always problems. Even if you
do find that sense object, you experience problems with that object. So not seeking happiness
from your own mind, but seeking happiness from outside, that itself becomes an obstacle for
peace of mind. In short, all the causes and conditions for suffering are there within your own
mind. Same thing, all the causes and conditions to establish happiness are within your own
mind.
Shantideva said in the Bodhicaryavatara, “There is no phenomenon that does not become
easier by training.” If you let the mind get addicted or habituated to the nonvirtuous thought,
the selfish mind, dislike of problems, it becomes more that way, it develops. The mind
becomes more and more difficult, and life gets more and more difficult. But if the mind gets
more habituated with bodhicitta, instead of dislike, then there are less problems and more
happiness, more temporal happiness, more success.
One thing that I left out to finish. When somebody is angry with you, beating you, criticizing
you, whatever happens, the harm is completely coming from them, the problems are coming
from them. When you think psychologically, “This problem came from them,” when you put
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the whole blame on them, your anger arises. You see the enemy there, you discriminate this
enemy. So there’s an enemy for this hallucinated mind, anger. In that angry mind there’s an
enemy. In the view of the angry mind, there’s an enemy whose label is given by anger. Now
in this way of thinking, you stop that part of the creation, your own mind and projection. If
you think in the correct way, in the positive way, relating to karma, “If I didn’t harm him, if I
didn’t create harm, give harm…”
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There are verses, but I don’t remember, they are from Bodhicaryavatara, I’ve forgotten. “In
the past I created negative karma, harmed this sentient being, so therefore I’m experiencing
the result, receiving harm from him.” In other words, if I didn’t create the negative karma of
harming them, there’s no reason at all for them to harm me, to disturb me. So therefore,
there’s no one to blame except myself.
Putting it another way, a clear way, “If I did not create negative karma, harming others, I
wouldn’t have this karmic appearance.” What you see is a person, a male or female harming
you—you have the appearance, like a dream, somebody harming you.
If you don’t have mind, you don’t have this appearance. You understand? To have
appearance you have to have mind. So the kind of appearance, pleasant or unpleasant,
depends on the mind. The appearance comes from the mind. We have the appearance of the
table, but the table itself does not have the appearance of us, the table itself doesn’t have the
appearance of table. You understand?
This appearance is like a dream, whether it is pleasant or unpleasant is completely due to the
mind. The karma created in the past left an imprint on your mental continuum. So this time,
because it is not purified, this imprint is actualized, and you see somebody harming you.
Even if that person becomes enlightened, free from anger, free from all the disturbing
thoughts, since your karma is not purified you have the appearance. When the imprint of the
mental continuum is ready to experience harm, you will have problems with that appearance.
So now, even this becomes more clear.
However, it is said in the Bodhicaryavatara, by Shantideva, “My karma persuaded, I received
this harm. Therefore sentient beings harming me is deserved. I’m worthy to receive the harm
from sentient beings.”
You can harm others but you don’t want to experience it. That is completely selfish. What’s
the word? Huh? Dictator. You become a dictator.
The other thing, just one thing is that this enemy is like the stick beating the body, making
harm, injury. There is nothing to blame in the stick because the stick is under the control of
the person. This is similar to the person—blaming the stick, being angry at the stick is
complete nonsense. Similarly, the person is completely overwhelmed by the anger,
completely occupied by the anger. They have no freedom at all. The person is completely
overwhelmed, completely invaded by the anger. So there is nothing to blame on that person,
they are only an object of compassion. They are completely used by anger, they are a slave.
By thinking this way, that there is no choice, strong unbearable compassion has to arise when
you see that the person has no freedom at all and is completely controlled by anger.
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I’ll stop here.
[Dedication prayers in Tibetan]
Lecture Four: Labeling the I 10 December 1987
Please listen to the teaching well, generating at least the creative bodhicitta thinking, “At any
rate I must achieve the omniscient mind for the sake of mother sentient beings who equal
space, who have been kind from beginningless time, from beginningless rebirths. Therefore,
I’m going to listen to the teachings of the graduated path to enlightenment. Also clarifying
the righteous conduct of listening to the teaching according to the traditional practice of the
lineage lamas.”
I didn’t make the conclusion last night, in the evening time, I didn’t make the conclusion of
my talk. As I mentioned, one way of thinking is a problem, and with one way of thinking
there is no problem during life. I gave several examples, particularly—if you follow anger,
then he or she harms you. In the view of the anger there is an enemy. In that way of thinking
there is an enemy, you have trouble, you’re receiving trouble and harm.
Now the other way—you stop thinking that way, and instead of spending time, instead of
spending life in a negative way, instead of putting your life in pain, pain for yourself, pain for
another person, creating pain by following anger, creating pain within your heart and pain in
the mind of the other person, instead of this, thinking that this harm is of no use, use the
situation that you are experiencing, the other sentient being harming you, to develop
compassion to the person who has anger toward you.
Using the example of the stick—in the stick itself there is nothing—it is completely silly to
be angry at the stick and blame the stick, because it is in the hand of the other person, no
matter how much the stick injures you. The same thing—the person’s body, speech, and
mind, the person is completely under the control of the anger, completely overwhelmed by
anger. So the person has not the slightest freedom. So pitiful. Like the person riding the
horse. It is not up to the horse, it is up to the person’s mind how the horse is used and led. If
the person is completely used by the anger, they become a slave to anger. The person is
completely lost to the anger.
When you look at it in this way, rather than thinking of yourself, my happiness, my problem,
think of the other person’s suffering. Thinking in this way, there is no choice—unbearable
compassion has to rise in your heart. You see the person as so pitiful, with so much suffering.
This is one example related to the person who has great anger toward you, but later this same
thing, this one example, you can use for many other problems.
If there is someone who is jealous of you, and always harms, always disturbs you to succeed
in their own wishes, same thing. Again, meditate that they have no freedom at all, and are
completely overwhelmed by the negative mind of jealousy. When you think this, suddenly
your mind becomes pure. The anger and all the other bad thoughts stop. Suddenly there’s
compassion, your heart feels compassion toward that person.
It is the same thing with the person who is completely overwhelmed by the dissatisfied mind,
great attachment. You don’t need to use these conditions to be angry; you don’t need to use
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these conditions to make yourself unhappy. You can make use these conditions to get
satisfaction, to have real peace of mind in your heart.
It is the same thing with the person whose mind is filled with wrong views, heresy, and
doubts, or the person who is filled with ignorance, harming you and others because of
ignorance, because of not knowing. There is nothing to be angry with at that person—the
person is doing these things, these harms, due to ignorance and not knowing. The person is
completely overwhelmed by ignorance. It is the same situation.
Actually, if there’s compassion, wherever you will look, any sentient being that you look at,
the friend, enemy or stranger, since it is a sentient being, just seeing the sentient being is the
cause of compassion, the cause for compassion to arise in you, without clinging, without
believing that that is true, without letting yourself be cheated by your own hallucination,
which is the projection of the wrong conception.
In other words, as I explained in the morning during the motivation of the Mahayana
ordination, while it is clear, while it is true, while it is one hundred percent—in reality, all the
time, day and night, what we talk about is, “I’m happy, I don’t want this, I want that,” even
though it is so clear, in reality, what this “I” that we talk about is—that which is merely
imputed on these aggregates. The actions of the I are merely imputed according to the
aggregates, this body and mind, and whatever action it does, the actions of the I are merely
imputed according to what the body and the mind does.
This merely imputed I is the one that experiences happiness, experiences suffering, stops the
suffering, and obtains the happiness. This merely imputed I, by generating renunciation of
samsara and entering the path is able to liberate from samsara, and able to achieve
liberation—by generating bodhicitta, it is able to achieve enlightenment.
The I and the phenomena, the I, you, other phenomena—what exists is only what is merely
imputed on the base and nothing even the slightest bit more than this. Something extra than
this, other than that—you, I, others, and the rest of phenomena—does not exist at all. There is
no way to find more than this you, I, or other phenomena that is merely imputed on the base
by the thought, no matter how much you analyze. No matter how much you search, there is
no way to find that these things exist as something more than that—nowhere, it is a complete
hallucination because if you search, you cannot find it, even though it appears, even though
you grasp it.
So the unlabeled I, the independent I, that which appears to us, to our thoughts, is completely
empty.
Even intellectually, when you analyze, when you check how the I exists as mere name, being
merely imputed on the base by the thought, you get the idea that the I and phenomena are
under the control of name or under the control of mind, that they came from the mind.
Things exist, the I and phenomena, from the side of the mind—they did not come from there
but they came from the mind. Nothing of this exists in the slightest from their own side.
Anyway, this might help you to get an idea. Before the parents met the child, before the
consciousness took place on the fertilized egg, even if the parents had the thought to label
“David,” there is no base—the association of body and mind.
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...they had the thought and labeled, “David.” Before they made the child, they discussed the
name to give. They agreed to label it “David.” But at that time David doesn’t exist.
Now, another one—they made the child, the consciousness took place on the fertilized egg,
they had the child, but they don’t have the thought yet to give the name “David.” They had
the child but they don’t yet have the thought to give the label “David.” Also, at this time
David doesn’t exist.
There is this child, there is this association of body and mind, and then when the parents, or
whoever, label “David,” whenever that person’s mind merely imputes “David” on that base,
then David exists.
If you just meditate well, if you just think carefully, if you simply meditate on the meaning of
dependent arising, how David exists—especially the subtle dependent arising, according to
the Madhyamaka Prasangika school. There are four schools, and the fourth one is the
Madhyamaka school. Within that, there are two sections, and the second one is the
Prasangika school. According to the Madhyamaka Prasangika school, this is subtle dependent
arising. That David exists on the base by the thought merely imputing. That is the way David
came into existence, how he came to exist, how David came to exist. That’s the explanation.
So, on the base David exists as being merely imputed by thought. It is very clear. To meditate
on the shunyata, on the emptiness, of David, this is enough. On the base David exists by
being merely imputed by thought. So when you think, think that the David that exists on the
base is what is merely imputed by