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This issue of the Foundations for Laity Renewal quarterly magazine focuses on the theme of Servant Leadership, with articles by Howard Butt and Mark D. Roberts, a photo spread of the Frio Canyon in Fall, and the Laity Lodge summer 2010 schedule.
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PHOTO BY PARISH PHOTOGRAPHY “A true leader is first of all a servant.” WINTER 2009 D uring the American Revolution, a man dressed in civilian clothes rode past a group of soldiers repairing a small stronghold. Their leader, from astride his horse, shouted instructions. The man asked the supervisor why he wasn’t helping. He answered, “Because, sir, I am a corporal!” The stranger apologized, dismounted, and joined the exhausted soldiers at work. When the job was complete, he turned to the corporal and said, “Corporal, next time you need more men for a job, go to your commander-in-chief, and I will help you again.” Too late, an arrogant corporal realized: his new workman was the beloved General George Washington. He also understood why Washington inspired devotion. A true leader is first of all a servant. Instead, we focus on success in our life and leadership. We want to be able to look back on our lives with a sense of accomplishment—and I think that includes a certain sense of spiritual accomplishment as well. We focus on leadership and accomplishments, but we forget about the Trinity that calls us to healthy relationships and service. As a young Baylor student, I certainly had my dreams of success. My father stood before me, a prime example of business success. But I was experiencing a different kind of success through the youth revival movement at Baylor in those years. People were taking note of me. When I entered the Grocery Company after college, I struggled to balance my two callings. Part of me wanted to serve my father in the Grocery Company. Part of me wanted to pursue a different path— preaching and leading youth revivals. This internal division began to manifest itself in external conflicts. I bucked against my father, and I gradually began to be ashamed of the way I treated him. A turning point came in 1969, when I read The Conflict of Generations by Lewis Feuer. That book spoke to me about my relationship with my father, and I real- Triumph in a Most Unexpected Way Continued on page 2 by Howard E. Butt, Jr., President, H. E. Butt Foundation ized how I had unconsciously spent a good deal of time resisting my father’s advice and wishes. I began to learn about authority and submission, and I realized how often I had lived in rebellion against both Dad and God. During the same time, I became aware of a similar situation developing between me and my own children. The very thing I saw in my relationship with Dad, I started seeing in my children and how they responded to me. And they were not unjustified in their rebellion against me. They were not just whistling Dixie. There was a lot in me that needed rebelling against. The very feelings that made me rebellious against Dad made me a tyrant with my children. From these beginnings, the idea of Trinitarian servant leader- ship slowly began to take shape in my thinking. I was not supposed to rebel against my father. I was supposed to serve him. I was not supposed to act like a tyrant with my children. I was supposed to serve them. Autumn in the Canyon. See special feature on pages 6–7. Frio River below dam at Echo Valley © 2009 Vicki Berry A PUBLICATION OF LAITY LODGE PROGRAMS AND THE H. E. BUTT FOUNDATION
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“A true leader is first of all a servant.”

WINTER 2009

During the American Revolution, a

man dressed in civilian clothes rode

past a group of soldiers repairing a small

stronghold. Their leader, from astride his

horse, shouted instructions.

The man asked the supervisor why he

wasn’t helping.

He answered, “Because, sir, I am a

corporal!”

The stranger apologized, dismounted,

and joined the exhausted soldiers at work.

When the job was complete, he turned

to the corporal and said, “Corporal, next

time you need more men for a job, go to

your commander-in-chief, and I will help

you again.”

Too late, an arrogant corporal realized:

his new workman was the beloved General

George Washington. He also understood

why Washington inspired devotion. A true

leader is first of all a servant.

Instead, we focus on success in our

life and leadership. We want to be able

to look back on our lives with a sense

of accomplishment—and I think that

includes a certain sense of spiritual

accomplishment as well. We focus on

leadership and accomplishments, but we

forget about the Trinity that calls us to

healthy relationships and service.

As a young Baylor student, I certainly

had my dreams of success. My father stood

before me, a prime example of business

success. But I was experiencing a different

kind of success through the youth revival

movement at Baylor in those years. People

were taking note of me.

When I entered the Grocery Company

after college, I struggled to balance my

two callings. Part of me wanted to serve

my father in the Grocery Company. Part of

me wanted to pursue a different path—

preaching and leading youth revivals.

This internal division began to manifest

itself in external conflicts.

I bucked against my father, and I

gradually began to be ashamed of the way

I treated him.

A turning point came in 1969, when I

read The Conflict of Generations by Lewis

Feuer. That book spoke to me about my

relationship with my father, and I real-

Triumph in a Most Unexpected Way

Continued on page 2

by Howard E. Butt, Jr., President, H. E. Butt Foundation

ized how I had unconsciously spent a

good deal of time resisting my father’s

advice and wishes. I began to learn about

authority and submission, and I realized

how often I had lived in rebellion against

both Dad and God.

During the same time, I became aware

of a similar situation developing between

me and my own children. The very thing

I saw in my relationship with Dad, I

started seeing in my children and how

they responded to me. And they were not

unjustified in their rebellion against me.

They were not just whistling Dixie. There

was a lot in me that needed rebelling

against. The very feelings that made me

rebellious against Dad made me a tyrant

with my children. From these beginnings,

the idea of Trinitarian servant leader-

ship slowly began to take shape in my

thinking.

I was not supposed to rebel against

my father. I was supposed to serve him.

I was not supposed to act like a tyrant

with my children. I was supposed to serve

them.

Autumn in the Canyon. See special feature on pages 6–7.Frio River below dam at Echo Valley © 2009 Vicki Berry

A PUBLICATION OF LAITY LODGE PROGRAMS AND THE H. E. BUTT FOUNDATION

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more than a new management theory.

It’s priesthood, conferred on us by Christ.

Where does our priesthood come from? It

comes from the Trinitarian God we worship.

Somehow in Jesus Christ, the secret of our

priesthood and the Trinity itself have been

made open. We are beginning to understand

that the God we worship is the Three in One.

God is individual and social and personal and

organizational. God is leadership and rela-

tionship and service.

This is not only good news for us person-

ally. This is good news for society, for

humanity as a whole, for our groupings—

our offices, our corporations, our govern-

ments, our philanthropic enterprises, and

our churches.

Organizations that are built on this prin-

ciple have enormous advantages over orga-

nizations that function on rebellion and

tyranny. We don’t need to spend so much

time fighting each other. In fact, we need

to relax and let God usher in his Kingdom.

He will make a hunger for himself. Repen-

tance can lead to appropriate submission

and service. Faith can lead to confidence in

the authority God has given us.

Consider Jim. He was CEO of a hospital,

but he still served ice cream at the annual

ice cream social. During the day, senior staff

members scooped gallons and gallons of ice

cream for anyone who dropped by—staff,

patients, guests, anyone.

The night shift couldn’t leave their

stations, so Jim loaded everything onto a

cart. He rolled it through three different

wings and up ten floors. He was the CEO, but

he worked all night so that everyone got a

scoop of ice cream.

Jim modeled Trinitarian servant leader-

ship by scooping ice cream, but he didn’t

invent Trinitarian servant leadership. God

did. Jesus is the incarnation of the Trinity.

He showed us how to live when he took on

the attitude of a servant, washing his disci-

ples’ feet and submitting to the cross.

If you want people to see Christ through

your actions, recognize that you are filled

with the Trinity. Be a Trinitarian servant

leader.

“When bosses try to make their employees great, a lot of the fear goes out of the workplace.”

Triumph . . .Continued from page 1

Gradually, I realized that my relationships

with my father and my children were a reflec-

tion of my relationship with God. I realized

that I needed to trust God to run my life.

Now, I didn’t know what that meant

exactly, but I knew that it felt like

weakness.

Trinitarian servant leadership may feel

weak, but it is not!

Jesus had perfect humility, but he was

absolutely bedrock-sure of his leadership.

Jesus exhibited both the spirit of a follower

and the spirit of a leader. Jesus understood

the Trinity—he was the incarnation of it! In

Colossians 2:9, Paul says, “For in him the

whole fullness of deity dwells bodily.”

At Laity Lodge recently, Robert Mulhol-

land connected this idea to Ephesians 3:19,

where Paul prays that “you may be filled will

all the fullness of God.” Jesus was filled with

the whole Trinity, so that we can be filled

with the whole Trinity.

Think about what this means for the way

we approach leadership. Jesus did not come

and die and rise again and pour the spirit

of the full Trinity into us for all of it to go

Pffffft! in the end.

No, this is everlasting power! When

bosses try to make their employees great, a

lot of the fear goes out of the workplace. For

this reason the Kingdom of God will never

be defeated.

The Trinity contains authority, submis-

sion . . . and unbreakable flexibility uniting

the two.

Jesus was the one person who rightfully

had authority and leadership. Yet, he walked

among men as one who served. On their last

night together, he washed the feet of his

followers. The next day, he died on the cross

for us all.

For us, it is the power of repentance and

faith. Repentance means we say we’ve been

wrong. It is an act of submission to God’s

will and God’s way. Faith means we believe

God is working in us. We can be confident,

bold leaders because the Trinity gives us

something better than rebellion and tyranny.

It shapes us all up to be more like Christ—

and more like the Trinity.

The Trinity is three persons in relation-

ship, not one person in relationship with

two others. The Trinity exists in relationship.

Similarly, we find our identities within rela-

tionship. We have no leadership apart from

relationships because we have no identity

without relationships.

When talking about leadership, it is easy

to think we’re talking about other leaders,

bigger leaders, more influential leaders. But

the challenge is not out there. It’s inside us.

To each of us, our Lord entrusts the same

kind of authority he has received. Jesus’ love

for his organization is so great that he iden-

tifies completely with its members. His lead-

ership is not hoarded; he gives it away. He is

not jealous of his prerogatives; he puts the

other person in the spotlight.

So many of us in the church are defeated

when it comes to this issue. So many of us

have a static view of community and leader-

ship. We allow the church to become an end

in itself. But the church exists to serve the

whole world.

We often talk about church in terms of

what happens on Sunday, and we sometimes

let the image of Sunday church control our

vision for the broader Church. The Church is

all of us, all of the time, bringing the fullness

of the Trinity to what we do every day.

Union with Christ is union with the

Trinity: you begin to feel like a leader your-

self. Triune love makes the other person

great. Here, then, is something completely

new in human organization. Management

specialists would describe it as perfect lead-

ership communicated through perfect dele-

gation. It’s the power of perfect unity in the

diversity of perfect specialization.

But Trinitarian servant leadership is much

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“. . . For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

In the New Testament Gospels, Jesus reg-

ularly referred to himself as the Son of

Man. Most Christians are familiar with this

language, though few of us know quite what

to make of it.

Jesus’ own disciples were puzzled by his

use of the title Son of Man. Those who knew

him the best often heard him refer to himself

in this way. But they weren’t quite sure what

Jesus meant. No doubt, the disciples were

familiar with the title Son of Man. But their

expectations, based on the Old Testament

and on Jewish traditions, didn’t prepare

them for Jesus’ startling reinterpretation of

the title, Son of Man.

The BACkgroUnd oF The TiTle “Son oF MAn”

The phrase “son of man” was a Semitic

expression meaning “human being.” When

speakers of Hebrew used the phrase ben-

’adam, or when speakers of Aramaic, like

Jesus, said bar ’enash, they were usually

referring to someone as being human or

mortal.

But in the Old Testament book of Daniel,

the phrase “son of man” took on special

significance: “In my vision at night I looked,

and there before me was one like a son of

man, coming with the clouds of heaven. He

approached the Ancient of Days and was led

into his presence. He was given authority,

glory and sovereign power; all peoples,

nations and men of every language worshiped

him. His dominion is an everlasting dominion

that will not pass away, and his kingdom

is one that will never be destroyed” (Dan.

7:13-14). Here, the one like a son of man

received God’s own authority and kingdom.

Jewish tradition developed this image, so

that by the time of Jesus, many Jews hoped

for the coming of a Son of Man, a super-

naturally empowered being who would bring

God’s kingdom.

JeSUS AS The SUrpriSing Son oF MAnThus, when Jesus spoke of himself as

the Son of Man, his disciples understand-

ably expected him soon to be revealed in

heavenly, sovereign glory. For example, two

of Jesus’ disciples, James and John, once

asked to sit at his right and left in his glory

(Mark 10:37). If Jesus was the Son of Man,

they wanted to share in his spectacular

sovereignty.

Not surprisingly, the other disciples were

miffed by the attempt of James and John

to one-up them. In response, Jesus brought

a word of admonishment to all, focusing on

his crucial role as the Son of Man: “You know

that those who are regarded as rulers of the

Gentiles lord it over them, and their high

officials exercise authority over them. Not so

with you. Instead, whoever wants to become

great among you must be your servant, and

whoever wants to be first must be slave of

all. For even the Son of Man did not come to

be served, but to serve, and to give his life

as a ransom for many” (Mark 10:42-45).

Leadership among the followers of Jesus

will be different from what is common in the

world. In the kingdom of God, leaders are

not to be people of domination and authori-

tarian rule. Rather, they are to be servants,

even slaves. Why? Why such a countercul-

tural and unexpected notion of leadership?

Following the Surprising, Serving Son of Manby Mark D. Roberts, Senior Director and Scholar-in-Residence, Laity Lodge Email: [email protected]

Because Jesus was the utterly unexpected,

shocking, serving Son of Man. Even though

one day Jesus would reign gloriously in this

role, he came as the Son of Man, not “to be

served, but to serve.”

Jesus filled the notion of the Son of Man

with new content drawn from the image of

the Suffering Servant of God in Isaiah. This

Servant “was pierced for our transgressions,

he was crushed for our iniquities; the punish-

ment that brought us peace was upon him,

and by his wounds we are healed” (53:5). He

even “poured out his life unto death” for the

sake of others (53:12). Jesus saw himself as

the Son of Man who was fulfilling the role

of the Suffering Servant. He had come not

just to serve, but even to give his life for the

sake of others.

The CAll To ServAnT leAderShipThus Jesus called his disciples to follow

him, knowing that the path to glory trav-

eled through self-giving sacrifice. Those of

his followers who aspired to greatness would

learn to embrace the humility of Jesus. They

would discover that true leadership involved

servanthood, giving up even one’s life for

the sake of others.

As was true for the first apprentices of

Jesus, so it is true for us today. We are all

called to follow him in the way of servant-

hood. When we confess Jesus as the Son of

Man, we not only look forward to his future

glory, but also remember his self-giving

suffering as God’s Servant. Moreover, we

commit ourselves to imitate Jesus in his

servanthood, discovering a new mode of

living and leading. Because Jesus was the

surprising, serving Son of Man, we who follow

him will be servant leaders as well.

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Daily Reflectionby Mark D. RobertsLaity Lodge Senior Director and Scholar-in-Residence

Growth Comes Bit by Bit

READ Mark 8:1-10His disciples replied, “How are we supposed to findenough food to feed them out here in the wilderness?”[Mark 8:4]

Mark 8 begins with another large crowd gatheredaround Jesus to hear his Teaching. Jesus hadcompassion for the people because they were hungryand lacked food. When he told his disciples of hisconcern, they answered: “How are we supposed to findenough food to feed them out here in the wilderness?”(8:4)

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For more than seven years, TheHighCalling.org, a website of

Foundations for Laity Renewal, has been featuring Daily

Reflections on Scripture. Each day, we focus on a short biblical

passage, offering words of explanation and inspiration, ques-

tions for deeper reflection, and a prayer based on the text for

the day.

For five years, the Daily Reflections were written by Eugene

Peterson, who led us devotionally through various chapters of

the Bible. Beginning in January 2008, the Reflections have

been composed by Mark

Roberts, Senior Director

and Scholar-in-Residence

for Laity Lodge. Mark is

working his way through

the whole Bible, though

at a pace that will take

more than five years.

“It’s a great honor

and privilege to write

the Daily Reflections,”

Mark says. “I love being

able to dig into Scripture, examining its meaning and relevance,

and then sharing what I have uncovered with our readers. Daily

study of and prayerful reflection on God’s Word enable us all to

grow in faith. These Reflections are helping me, and, I hope,

many others, to know God more intimately and to live out our

faith each day.”

We receive regular notes from subscribers to the Daily

Reflections telling us how much this resource means to them.

One woman recently wrote: “I thought I knew how to communi-

cate with God, until reading the Daily Reflections. I’ve learned

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The Daily Reflections appear on TheHighCalling.org website.

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A good Way to Start Your day

new Year WishesBy Verdell Krisher, a Laity Lodge retreatant

Glory be to God who by his mighty power

at work within us is able to do far more

than we would ever dare to ask or even dream of—

infinitely beyond our highest prayers, desires, thoughts, or hopes.

Ephesians 3:20

From the God of new beginnings comes a year

with its pages yet unturned.

I wonder . . .

What joys? What sorrows? What valleys?

What mountaintops? What turning points await us?

What will be written on these pages when we

read them back to ourselves at a time yet to come?

I wonder . . .

Will we meet the days with a sense of aliveness

and anticipation?

Will we allow ourselves tears when we hurt

and celebration when we rejoice?

Will we throw open the doors of our inner beings

and invite God in?

Will we stretch out our arms to embrace those

who need our touch?

Will we accept another’s embrace

when we are in need of comfort?

I wonder . . .

Will we say “Yes!” to life,

and trust God with all our tomorrows?

May the unturned pages of this new year reveal to us all how long,

how wide, how deep, and how high His marvelous love really is.

Autumn at Blue Hole © 2009 Linda Worden

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by Tina Howard

As my family easily drifted off to sleep

after a long, full Saturday, I lay awake

on my bunk considering what I would write

about our experience. What am I taking away

from Laity Lodge Family Camp aside from the

fact—albeit important—that camp was fun?

A particular message? A point John (John

Hill, Family Camp Director) made during the

devotional?

And what came to mind were faces.

The smile on John’s face as he welcomed

us when we pulled into camp for the first

time. The friendliness of Jay (Jay Norris,

IT Technician), who was just there to help

set up, but was happy to greet us, offer

his assistance if we

needed anything, and

tell us what exciting

things to expect from

our weekend. The

delight in each college

student’s eyes as

they played with our

daughter and gave

her giant hugs. And

the joy on her face

each time she saw

one of those students

like Cody (Cody Niles,

college staff) or when

they called out to her

from across the way.

Mary’s (Mary Echols,

Hospitality Director)

warmth as she answered our questions. Clark

(Clark Niles, Program Leader), Emily (Emily

King, college staff), the kitchen staff . . .

each person who served us over the weekend

did so joyfully. Not as though they were

doing a service, but

as though they

truly loved being

available to us. As

if they got just as

much pleasure and

benefit from serving

us as we did from

receiving their care

and thoughtfulness.

They wanted to

be there. They wanted

to serve us.

And I realized that this is why Jesus

talks about serving others and why he says

that our love for

each other is

our testimony to

the world. True

s e r v i c e — t h a t

which comes out

of the overflow

of our love for

Christ and his

pouring into us—

is enjoyable both

to ourselves and

those we serve.

Servant leader-

ship is powerful

and moving. And

contrary to our

natural tendency.

I think of the

number of times I trudge through service

because it’s what I’m “supposed” to do. And

certainly service does often require personal

sacrifice. But it doesn’t have to look and

feel like drudgery. And it becomes a shining

impactThe Foundation receives feedback from many of the people who use our facilities in the Canyon. The writers of these notes,

emails, and letters graciously let us know how much their time in the Canyon meant to them. We even hear about life-changing decisions that are made during their visits. All of us are truly blessed and encouraged every time we read these.

The Impact column was designed as a way for us to share a few of the inspiring stories that come out of the Canyon. If you have a story about your time with us that you feel will benefit others, please contact Keith Mirrer at 830-792-1235 or email him at [email protected]. Let your Impact story encourage others!

A Servant’s heart

testimony when we can find a way to see the

beauty and enjoyment in it. We have to force

ourselves to look beyond the sacrifices we

must make in order to serve (because that’s

not the point anyway). We have the oppor-

tunity to be used by God to love his people.

Imperfect, messy us—he chooses to use us!

As he continues to pour into us, from our full

cups we can easily pour into each other.

I left Family Camp with many thoughts

and reflections, but this vivid picture of

servant leadership is among the most

important. That thought also got me

thinking about how we are all gifted

differently and how awesome it is when we

serve through those gifts . . . but that’s for

another post.

____________________________________

Tina Howard has been a member of

HighCallingBlogs.com for several years now.

This article is reprinted from her blog

spaghettipie.wordpress.com. Tina is a stay-

at-home mom by day, freelance writer and

blogger by night, and nonprofit consultant

and volunteer somewhere in between.

Copyright 10/1/09. Used with permission.

Todd, Tina, and daughter Madison at Roundup

Madison Howard and Cody Niles (college counselor)

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Janel Pahl, Master Photographer and Photographic Craftsman, shared photos of

Laity Lodge scenery with us after her recent fall visit to a retreat. Her professional

work spanning over 25 years to international acclaim and worldwide publication is

available as perfect gifts, professional décor, or home design at janelpahlcafe.com.

Learn more about her at JanelPahl.com.

Foundation staff Vicki Berry and Linda Worden also contributed photos.

The rushing water sounds of this waterfall at Laity Lodge encourage walkers to pause. © 2009 Janel Pahl

The footbridge below the Laity Lodge dam invites retreatants to cross the Frio. © 2009 Janel Pahl

The entrance to Echo Valley in full autumn color © 2009 Vicki Berry

As drivers enter the river, the Cypress trees give welcome. © 2009 Linda Worden

The rocks in the cliffs at Echo Valley call out to the imagination of guests. © 2009 Vicki Berry

The boats waiting at the Laity Lodge Lake can be paddled up the Frio. © 2009 Janel Pahl

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The entrance to Echo Valley in full autumn color © 2009 Vicki Berry

Enjoy coffee at Laity Lodge in cups crafted by Tested By Fire Pottery, owner Rob Grimes.© 2009 Janel Pahl

Pistachio tree near the camp office in full color © 2009 Linda Worden

A perfect place to relax at Echo Valley Lake © 2009 Vicki Berry

Twisted Cypress trunk and driftwood © 2009 Janel Pahl

View of the small waterfall at Laity Lodge through the Cypress foliage© 2009 Janel Pahl

Road to Comanche Outpost and Linnet’s Wings © 2009 Janel Pahl

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Did you know this LLYC couple? The couple is Claire (Temple) and Daniel Makins. Below, Daniel shares their story—how they grew, learned, and felt God’s presence in the Canyon.

I went to LLYC after meeting Frog at a Camp movie night in San Angelo. Claire is a third generation attendee of Laity Lodge programs. Her grandfather was an Episcopal priest who brought his church out to Laity Lodge. Her parents are artists who have worked several retreats over the years. Her mom and stepdad actually married standing in the river below the Lodge dam in 1989. Claire’s family felt strongly that she could benefit from attending Singing Hills and Echo Valley, and she did.

Claire and I were 13 in 1992 when we met at camp. We danced for the first time in the river at a Doug Cooper produced “surprise” dance on the way back from Blue Hole. I believe he was hanging from the rappelling site dressed in his “KISS” costume. We both remember sneaking off from the Sugar Shack, drinking too much root beer, and burping through rodeo dances, and, more importantly, sitting on the docks at Cross Talk truly learning how to be with God and each other at the same time. Our shared desire to grow closer to Christ and each other concurrently is rooted in hearing Frog’s words, “He died with his arms wide open . . .” The feeling we had holding hands for the first time

during Roundup talks still lingers and has been a constant reminder of our story. Swaying back and forth to the same old songs each summer is impor-tant and not a hollow ritual.

Later, as camp counselors, I taught archery. Claire taught clay, hunting sports, beads, and power napping. (Yes, Claire says power napping was a camp activity.)

We live in San Angelo now where I am a professional songwriter and also work part-time for the San Angelo Cultural Affairs Council (arts council). Claire is a literature, history, and Spanish teacher at a local private school but will be “retiring” to be with our growing family. We have one child, Cal, and we’re expecting another little boy in March!

We’ve been to Laity Lodge several times, primarily as a guest artist and for staff retreats. We have also stayed at the Quiet House and highly recom-mend it.

Claire and I loved growing up at LLYC and cannot imagine our lives without the experience and envi-ronment it afforded us. As a writer, the ability to channel such powerful memories, emotions, and sensations is invaluable. Time changes all things, but the hearts of those who work at camp remain fixed on a common point in the cross. We look forward to when our kids are old enough for Camp.

Without the opportunity to stop and center ourselves, we would be lost. Camp, and now Laity Lodge, offer just that. It has been said often that the Canyon is one of the “thin places” where heaven and earth seem less partitioned. Dan Roloff (Communica-tions Publishing Manager) likewise remarked that on his first stay in the Canyon, a retreat leader had discussed “theology of place.” It is very evident, even in the air.

When I go back to the Canyon, I take a deep breath involuntarily. And suddenly I am more “there” than I was just seconds earlier and more contemplative as to how precious our lives and earthly time are. We are all designed with hearts vast enough to accommodate enormous quantities of love . . . which is conveniently abun-dant at Laity. We would like to thank all who have contributed time, vision, and good works.

Please feel free to drop us a line via www.danielmakins.com.

nAMe The CoUple WinnerBrooke (Williams) Howard was the first

to correctly name Claire and Daniel and won a $200 credit toward her choice of a retreat at Laity Lodge, Laity Lodge Youth Camp, or Laity Lodge Family Camp! She will be using her $200 credit towards Family Camp in the spring with other alumni and their families.

llYC Alumniby Sabra Boone, LLYC Alumni Relations Director www.facebook.com/LLYCAlumni

Claire, son Cal, and Daniel Makins at home in San AngeloClaire Temple and Daniel Makins in 1992 at Camp

nAMe The CoUple ConTeST

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Joel and Brooke Howard and daughter Ruth

As a camper at Singing Hills in 1986, on staff as a counselor in 1998, and serving the two following summers as the Assis-tant Girls’ Director at Singing Hills, Brooke reflected on those years, “Even though I don’t have as long a history with Laity Lodge Youth Camp as many alumni, I am so grateful to feel connected and a part of its great legacy of faith. I’ve made countless friends and learned so much about God’s love through my experiences at Laity Lodge Youth Camp.”

Brooke and her husband, Joel, live in Austin and have a two-year-old daughter named Ruth. You may have run into Brooke and Joel at the Laity Lodge Reunion in 2007. They are very involved in All Saints Presbyterian church.

Winner oF drAWing For CoUpleS Who MeT Their SpoUSe AT CAMp

The last Laity Connections asked other couples who met at Camp and later married to contact us with their names and stories. Twenty couples responded, and we’ll be sharing all their names and some of their stories with you in future issues.

The winning couple from our drawing for a Laity Lodge Family Retreat is Kara and Adam Anthony. We hope your time there will be a time to renew friendships, build community, and refresh you as a family together. Congratulations!

If you have ever been to a Creativity

Retreat at Laity Lodge, you are most

likely familiar with the name “David

A. Redding.” Dr. Redding, a nation-

ally recognized Presby-

terian minister,

has been the fea-

tured speaker at

the Creativity and

other retreats at

Laity Lodge since

the early 1970s.

His wit, humor, and

God-given talent for

storytelling have

endeared him to

thousands of people.

Well, good news

for Dr. Redding’s

fans! If you enjoyed listening to and

learning from Dr. Redding at Laity

Lodge, you will love reading his most

personal and meaningful stories in

his new book, The Origin of My Faith.

This book uses Dr. Redding’s stories

to trace the incidents and memories

of his life that gave him the solid

spiritual foundation that guides him

today. Written with his unique poetic

and warm personal style, Dr. Redding

draws you into each story and makes

you a witness for each scene.

According to Dr. Redding, “Trust

in God is not transmitted by genes

or cells, or merely through the holy

words of the Bible, essential as they

are. Faith that flourishes is caught

by a contagion of earthly relation-

ships with those who spark you with

the unexpected intrusion of the Spirit

of God.” In The Origin of My Faith,

Redding tells about how Jesus Christ’s

living presence captured his imagi-

nation and loyalty and inspired him

to share these stories of the “Living

Hope.” Dr. Redding shared these

stories first with his “long-loved”

friends at Laity Lodge.

Donald T. Kauffman, an author and

editor, read the book and commented,

“Fifty years ago, I

thought I knew all about

everything Christian.

Today, I’m still trying

to understand many

things Jesus said—

and I’ve been helped

immeasurably by this

new book from David

A. Redding . . . It

makes me feel as if

I’m standing in the

crowds listening to

Jesus and getting

the message.”

All of the art in the book, including

the cover, is the work of Redding’s

son David M. Redding, whose wild-

life paintings have been on exhibit

in the historic building of Princeton

University and many other galleries

throughout the United States.

Editorials for Life magazine and a

feature he wrote for Reader’s Digest

plunged Dr. Redding into a writing

career that resulted in 25 published

books. He considers the book He Never

Spoke Without a Parable his life’s

work. He has been the minister of the

renowned Flagler Memorial Presbyte-

rian Church in St. Augustine, Florida,

and the celebrated Liberty Presbyte-

rian Church in Delaware, Ohio. He was

married to the former Dorothy Ruth

McCleery, who passed away in April

2008. Dorothy and David have eight

children.

The Origin of My Faith is available

online at http://www.davidredding.

com/books.html and the Laity Lodge

Store at http://www.hebuttfdn.org/

LaityLodgeStore/index.asp.

good news for david A. redding Fans

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For additional information and schedule updates, visit www.laitylodge.org.

laity lodge Summer 2010 retreats

June 3-6 (Thurs-Sun)

laity lodge retreat with dale Bruner and Mark robertsSPEAKERSdale Bruner - Professor Emeritus of Religion, Whitworth College;

Spokane, WA. Now residing in Pasadena, CAMark roberts - Senior Director and Scholar-in-Residence, Laity

Lodge; Boerne, TXMUSICIANSnathan Tasker - Australia’s premier Christian artist gabe Scott - Instrumentalist; Nashville, TNARTISTJim Janknegt - Painting and drawing; Austin, TX

Lodge: $390/Black Bluff: $465

June 10-13 (Thurs-Sun)

laity lodge retreat on the integrated life with Allan Josephson and John MedinaSPEAKERSAllan Josephson - Professor and Associate Chair for Child &

Adolescent Psychiatry, University of Louisville School of Medicine; Louisville, KY

John J. Medina - Research consultant and director of the Brain Center for Applied Learning Research at Seattle Pacific University, author of Brain Rules; Seattle, WA

MUSICIANSStephen Clapp - Dean Emeritus, The Juilliard School, violinist;

New York, NYSean Jackson - Director of Music at St. John’s Episcopal Church,

pianist and organist trained at the Juilliard School; Stamford, CTARTISTAnita horton - Raku ceramic pottery; Addison, TX

Lodge: $390/Black Bluff: $465

June 17-20 (Thurs-Sun)

laity lodge retreat with Buddy greene and rodney reevesSPEAKERSBuddy greene - Singer-songwriter, guitarist, harmonica stylist;

Brentwood, TN rodney reeves - Dean, Courts Redford College of Theology and

Ministry, Professor of Biblical Studies, Southwest Baptist University; Bolivar, MO

MUSICIANSodessa Settles - Vocalist and one of the founding members of

The Princely Players; Nashville, TNBuddy greene - Singer-songwriter, guitarist, harmonica stylist;

Brentwood, TNARTISTSCarolyn (Wink) Winkler and Jill (Tink) Stover - Knitting and

needle felting from Yarns in the Farms; Beverly Farms, MAolga Samples davis - Creative writing; San Antonio, TX

Lodge: $390/Black Bluff: $465

June 22-27 (Tues-Sun)

laity lodge Creativity retreatSPEAKERSTod Bolsinger - Senior Pastor, San Clemente Presbyterian Church;

San Clemente, CAMark roberts - Senior Director and Scholar-in-Residence, Laity

Lodge; Boerne, TXMUSICIANSCharles Webb - Dean Emeritus, Indiana University School of Music,

pianist; Bloomington, INesther kim - Prize winner of several international violin

competitions, currently studying music at Indiana University School of Music; Bloomington, IN

Joseph kaiser - Cellist; Bloomington, INARTISTSCarolyn (Wink) Winkler and Jill (Tink) Stover - Knitting and

needle felting from Yarns in the Farms; Beverly Farms, MAJim Morris - Jewelry-making; Kerrville, TXrobert and Claudia Feuge - Wood working; Fredericksburg, TXolga Samples davis - Creative writing; San Antonio, TXMarcus rogers - Bird carving; San Antonio, TX

Lodge: $650/Black Bluff: $775

July 8-11 (Thurs-Sun)

laity lodge retreat with Timothy george and Chris SeaySPEAKERSTimothy george - Founding Dean of Beeson Divinity School,

Executive Editor for Christianity Today; Birmingham, ALChris Seay - Pastor of Ecclesia, author, founder of the Voice

Project; Houston, TXMUSICIANSAshley Cleveland - Recording artist, winner of three Grammy Awards

including 2008 for Best Rock Gospel Album; Nashville, TNkenny greenberg - Instrumentalist, lyricist, producer; Nashville, TNARTISTSSteve halla, Wood cutting and printmaking; Louisville, KY

Lodge: $390/Black Bluff: $465

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List first and last name(s)

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We are grateful to the M. D. MattheWs founDation for proviDing funDing for neW anD eMerging speakers for laity loDge. M. D. MattheWs founDation-funDeD speakers are inDicateD by

G after the speaker naMe. gifts to the laity loDge speakers funD alloW us to invite

leaDing thinkers anD teachers to our retreats.

July 14-18 (Wed-Sun)

laity lodge retreat with earl palmer and dan BlazerSPEAKERSearl palmer - Author of numerous books, most recently, Trusting God,

Pastor Emeritus, University Presbyterian Church; Seattle, WA dan Blazer - J. P. Gibbons Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral

Sciences and Vice Chair for Education and Academic Affairs, Duke University Medical Center; Durham, NC

MUSICIANSAshley Cleveland - Recording artist, winner of three Grammy Awards

including 2008 for Best Rock Gospel Album; Nashville, TNkenny greenberg - Instrumentalist, lyricist, producer; Nashville, TNARTISTMeg lowry - Painting; Austin, TXMarcus goodyear - Poetry; Kerrville, TX

Lodge: $520/Black Bluff: $620

July 22-25 (Thurs-Sun)

laity lodge retreat with Andy Crouch and Michael lindsaySPEAKERSAndy CrouchG - Senior Editor, Christianity Today International

and author of Culture Making: Recovering Our Creative Calling; Swarthmore, PA

Michael lindsayG - Author of Faith in the Halls of Power, Assistant Professor of Sociology and Associate Director of the Center on Race, Religion and Urban Life, Rice University; Houston, TX

MUSICIANSara groves - Singer-songwriter, winner of Christianity Today Album

of the Year for 2009; Minneapolis, MNARTISTginger geyer - Pottery; Austin, TX

Lodge: $390/Black Bluff: $465

July 29 – August 1 (Thurs-Sun)

laity lodge Women’s retreatSPEAKERlaura robinson harbert - Clinical psychologist and ordained

Presbyterian minister; Pacific Grove, CAMUSICIANSChristine and Scott denté - Out of the Grey recording artists;

Nashville, TNARTISTBea Brock - Fabric artist; Kerrville, TX

Lodge: $390/Black Bluff: $465

September 3-6 (Fri-Mon)

laity lodge labor day retreat with J. i. packer and Mark robertsSPEAKERSJ. i. packer - Professor of Systematic and Historical Theology,

Regent College, author of Knowing God; Vancouver, B.C.Mark roberts - Senior Director and Scholar-in-Residence, Laity

Lodge; Boerne, TXMUSICIANFernando ortega - Singer-songwriter of contemporary Christian

music; Albuquerque, NMLodge: $390/Black Bluff: $465

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Winter 2009

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