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Life Designer, April 2015 1
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ASK-Believe-Receive
The first step in asking is to know what you
want. Have a definite goal in mind. If you
keep changing the goal your subconscious
mind gets confused and does not respond to
your command and you end up with nothing.
There is a method by which you make your
goal known to your subconscious mind in
order for it to respond, by bringing
what you desire into reality.
AFFIRMATIONS.
Always speak in the present
tense to yourself, as if you
have what you want already.
For example, If you wish to give
up smoking, you may say
to yourself ‘I am smoke free’ or ‘Being smoke free is good for me.’ If you wish to lose weight,
say to yourself , ’I am
getting lighter everyday, I am
looking slimmer and fitter.’ If you want
more money, say to
yourself, ‘All my needs
are being met.’
When the subconscious is
directed to produce success
in a positive way, it does so
without doubt, by supplying the
power, the capacity and the understanding to
achieve anything that is desired. Having
understood this, it then follows that when the
subconscious mind provides all the necessary
elements for success, the conscious mind must
use the same to achieve success. Nothing
comes ready - made from the subconscious,
but it can give us the material from which we
can make anything.
BELIEVE.
The proper conditions for recording an
impression upon the subconscious are deep
feeling, strong desires, conscious interest and
a LIVING FAITH. When all these are blended
together in harmony, it is virtually impossible
to fail in getting the desired results. Believe in
the thing you desire so deeply, that you do not
entertain any doubt that it can be achieved by
you. Have an Absolute Faith that you are
receiving IT now. Build into your thinking a
happy expectancy of seeing it manifest itself
Now and you WILL have it. Do not allow
people to discourage you from
believing in your dreams, they are
your dreams and they are true, just
believe in their fruition, hold the
faith that they are happening for you
and they will actualize
themselves. Take your faith
one step further and actually visualize your
desire coming true. See yourself after it is
attained, where are you? Who is with you?
Note your surroundings, look at yourself
being happy, feel what you
would feel once you have
achieved your desire.
Dream in technicolor, smell it and feel it. The
new car of your dreams, the beautiful home
you have always wanted, the dream job, the
perfect partner, whatever you wish. The more
you practice making your picture complete,
the more you will build the
faith needed to impress
your subconscious mind that
it must provide you with the thing you
desire.
RECEIVE.
When you receive what you desire, be filled
with joy and give thanks for it. The
`subconscious mind has a curious law. It
responds by giving you more and more of
what you feel deeply about. If you are joyful
and grateful for what you have, then your
subconscious will give you more of the same,
and you will naturally remain a healthy, happy
person. It is truly a blessing to be around a
person who has the infinite knowledge that the
power to create lies within ourselves and is
never limited by caste, creed or education, but
is enhanced by the practice of Faith.
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How Thinking The Thoughts You
Think Can Change Your Life
2
Continued from last issue...
Desire is different
from Wanting or Needing.
Desire is that level of
emotion that makes you
want to die if you don’t achieve the thing desired.
Desire is an All
consuming Thought
backed by a resolute
Belief that you can Have
the thing. It is The single
tool that will cause you to
Accept in your mind that
you are already in
possession of it if you
keep suggesting so to
yourself. It is the
motivation needed by the
subconscious mind to find
expression in opening all
roads, smoothing all
obstacles, making
anything you desire a
reality in your life.
Therefore it is imperative
to desire the thing with a
white hot focus to make it
manifest in your
experience. Thinking
about what you desire
once in a while will
remain only a wish.
The subconscious mind is
a rich open field that
grows any thought that is
emotionalised and truly
desired into reality.
Therefore all you need to
do is to focus on what you
desire with feeling and
you will see the results
manifest. Having said
that, it is to be understood
that the subconscious is
not magic, but a process in
which you train your mind
to Think of what you
desire and by doing so
start an automatic chain of
attraction made up of all
things to make your desire
a reality. Think up a storm
in desire, hold the thought
long enough for it to start
feeling real, release it and
go about your business
and then watch how you
attract the desired results
into your life.
Suggestion.
You need to do a lot of
self talk in the right way
for your subconscious
mind to manifest all that
you desire. For example if
you think of yourself in
Want or in Need of a
particular thing, you are
conveying to your
subconscious through the
vibration of want or need
and the subconscious will
give you More want or
Need. If you speak to it in
the present tense, it will
surely find all the ways to
make what you believe
become a reality in your
experience called life.
Personal power, physical
health, mental brilliancy,
wealth are all attainments
that the subconscious can
readily produce when
properly directed and
impressed.
The greater the faith in the
process of attainment
through the subconscious
mind, the greater and
faster the ensuing results
can be seen. The
subconscious mind should
never be approached with
an attitude of command or
demand, but always with
the attitude of faith and
desire. Desire with a deep,
strong desire, that the
subconscious do what you
desire to be done, and
animate the desire with
faith that IT IS done, will
secure the ultimate
success in manifestation
for you. The more you
suggest to yourself that all
you desire is Here and
Now with you, you bring
all wishes within the
ambit of Possibility,
which in turn will make
you believe that you Can
have it all. The
subconscious then goes on
to open all paths to your
getting what you desire.
You will find Success at
every turn and find Failure
impossible.
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E
THOUGHTS ARE THINGS
First comes thought; then organization of that thought, into ideas and
plans; then transformation of those plans into reality.
The beginning, as you will observe, is in your imagination.
ssentially everything and anything
you could possibly want has to do
with your thoughts on the things
desired. Therefore the intensity of thoughts
being vibrated is the meter by which you
receive in terms of How Much and How
Soon the manifestations of your desires are
realized.
Our thoughts create both our inward
character and our outward personality. We
create both by the thoughts we originate,
harbour, entertain or accept from others.
We are, each of us, the result of what we
have thought in the past, and we will be the
result of what we are thinking now.
Manifestation is the natural result of our
thought pattern, whether good or bad. The
ideal becomes real. Our dreams come true
because we have thought about what we
want.
Thinking a thought is not a process in
Luck, it is a systematic, constant download
of a desire into the subconscious mind, like
a seed planted in the ground. Lovingly
watered daily with emotion and
expectancy. Nourished with Belief and
knowing that the seed must, according to
the Law of Nature produce After its own
kind, wait for the manifestation of the
desire. Manifestation is the direct
materialization of our desires which we
think about. It is the drawing or attracting
to ourselves the persons, things, and
environments that are conducive to the
character of our desires.
Each thought seeks its own kind, like an
atom attracts to it another atom which is in
harmony with it. Vibrations caused by our
thoughts radiate far and wide and attract
like vibrations till they all fuse together in
creating the complete picture of your
desire. This is very similar to an architect
with a picture of a building in his head. It
starts with a thought, then the more he
thinks about it, the fonder of it he becomes.
He draws it on paper, giving it a definite
shape, and while he contemplates the
blueprint, he starts thinking of all the
artisans, the money, the building materials
that he needs to make his dream come true.
He then sets to work on his blueprint along
with all the cooperative components and
before long he actualizes his desire.
So it is with any desire. It is necessary to
have a clear picture in your mind about
what you want, think about it everyday and
add every detail to that picture that you
can.
See yourself already in possession of the
thing desired, touch it, feel it, taste it.
Hold the picture till you come to believe it
is true in every sense of the word.
Expect it to manifest itself for you.
Work all ideas, people, conditions,
opportunities that present themselves to
you for the attainment of your desire,
because they have been provided for you
for just that reason.
Take Action on your plan whether you
think you are ready or not. There is no
better moment to put a plan into action
than NOW.
Believe that you can have everything you
want and You Shall.
- Napoleon Hill
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Stuffed Green Pumpkin
(Ghiya) Preparation of this dish is easy and
efficient, because the beans cook on
the stove top while the ghiya steams
in the microwave.
ACTIVE TIME: 30 MINUTES · TOTAL
TIME: 35 MINUTES
MAKES: 4 MAIN-DISH SERVINGS
1 TABLESPOON OLIVE OIL
1 JUMBO ONION (1 POUND), CUT INTO
¼ -INCH DICE
1 MEDIUM CARROT, PEELED AND CUT INTO
¼ -INCH DICE
2 GARLIC CLOVES, CRUSHED WITH GARLIC
PRESS
1 ½ CUP RAJMA
¼ TEASPOON SALT
¼ TEASPOON COARSELY GROUND BLACK
PEPPER
1 TABLESPOON CHOPPED FRESH BASIL
2 SMALL GHIYA
1 RIPE MEDIUM TOMATO, CUT INTO ¼-INCH
DICE
FRESHLY GRATED CHEESE (OPTIONAL)
1. In nonstick 12-inch skillet, heat oil over
medium-high heat until hot. Add onion,
carrot, and garlic, and cook until
vegetables are tender and golden, about 15
minutes, stirring occasionally. Add rajma,
salt and pepper heat to boiling. Cover
skillet and keep warm.
2. Meanwhile, cut each ghiya lengthwise in
half. Ghiya halves in 3-quart microwave-
safe baking dish. Cover and cook in
microwave oven on High for 6 to 8
minutes, until ghiya is fork-tender.
3. Place ghiya halves, cut sides up, on
platter. Fill each half with one-fourth of
warm rajma mixture; sprinkle with tomato.
Serve with Cheese, if you like. PER SERVING. (250 Calories) | 9G PROTEIN | 47G
CARBOHYDRATE | 5G TOTAL FAT (1G
SATURATED) 11G FIBER | 0MG CHOLESTEROL
|520MG SODIUM .
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Sweet Fruity frozen yogurt (Dahi)
Served as a fruity dessert or snack, our
creamy Sweet Fruit Of the Season
Frozen Yogurt (Dahi) delivers a
double dose of fruity flavor and only 1
gram of fat per serving. This
formula works with other frozen fruit
and fruit yogurt (Dahi) combos too —
try cherry, raspberry, or strawberry.
TOTAL TIME: 5 MINUTES
MAKES: 2½ CUPS OR 4 SERVINGS
In food processor with knife blade
attached, process Fruit of the season (10
to 12 ounces) until finely shaved. Add 2
containers (6 ounces each) low-fat
yogurt (Dahi) and 1 tablespoon sugar.
Process just until smooth. Serve
immediately or, if not serving right away,
pour into 9-inch square baking pan; cover
and freeze no longer than 1 hour for best
texture.
PER SERVING.(130 calories) |4G PROTEIN | 28G
CARBOHYDRATE | 1G TOTAL FAT (1G
SATURATED) 2G FIBER |
6MG CHOLESTEROL | 50MG SODIUM
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Shukto Ingredients: 1 cup Green Papaya (sliced)
1 cup Drumstick (peeled and cut into small
pieces )
¼ cup Bitter gourd (finely cut)
Green banana ( cut into small pieces )
Brinjal (cut into small pieces )
1 cup French beans (cut into small pieces)
Potato (cut into small pieces)
Reddish (cut into small pieces)
Bori ( made from Dal-paste )
Masala paste (a) : a thick paste of 2 tsp.
poppy seeds, 2 tsp. mustard seeds and 2
inches ginger.
A paste of wheat flour (1 tsp) and milk
(2 tbsp.) mixed together.
Masala paste (b) : Dry fried celery seeds,
mustard seeds, sauf and bay leaf
Salt and sugar
Oil : 2 tsp.
Method: 1. Heat oil in a pan.
2. Fry the bitter gourd(Karela) till brown.
3. Stir fry all the other vegetables. Deep fry the
BORI.
4. Keep aside the bitter gourd. Add salt and boil
all the other vegetables along with the BORI.
5. Now add the sugar, the masala paste (a) and the
paste of wheat flour and milk.
6. Boil till a medium consistency is obtained.
Sprinkle fried bitter gourd on top.
7. Fry the masala seed and grind into a powder.
8. Garnish shukto with masala seed powder.
********** Serve with rice as a starter ***********.
Aloo Potoler Dalna Ingredients :
2 potatoes.
500 grams gourd (potol or in Hindi-‘ parval’)
4 tablespoon cooking oil .
Salt to taste.
½ teaspoon turmeric powder.
1 tomato.
1 tablespoon cumin paste.
½ teaspoon garam masala
¼ teaspoon cumin seeds
2 bay leaves.
1 cup of water
4 tablespoon oil
Method: 1. Peel the Potol (Gourd, Parval), cut each in
two pieces. Cut Potatoes in small cubes.
2. Mix Parval ,Potato, salt and turmeric
powder separately. Heat oil in a deep pan
or Wok.
3. Put 2 tbs oil in the pan and fry the cut
potatoes for 3 - 4 minutes and keep aside.
4. Then fry the Gourd (Potol or Parval)
separately.
5. Put another 2 tbs oil and once hot, add bay
leaves and cumin seed. Then the cut
tomatoes, ginger-red chili paste, cumin
powder, salt and turmeric powder. Fry the
mixture for 4-5 minutes.
6. Add 1/2 cup water and mix it well. Let it
fry for another 3 - 4 minutes on high heat.
7. Add the fried gourd(parval or potol) and
potato and mix by stirring the whole. Add
1/2 cup water and allow to boil on low
flame and cover the pan, cook for 6-7
minutes till potato is cooked.
8. Add Garam masala and Ghee on top of it.
****Serve it with hot Rice, Luchi and Roti ****
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Macher Kalia
Ingredients
Rohu fish -500 grams
Mustard oil -4 tablespoons
Onions grated -2 medium
Salt -to taste
Turmeric powder -1/2 teaspoon
Cloves -3-4
Ginger chopped -1 teaspoon
Garlic chopped -1 teaspoon
Green chilies chopped -2
Red chili powder -1/2 teaspoon
Tomato puree -2 tablespoons
Cumin powder -1 teaspoon
Fresh coriander leaves chopped -2
tablespoons
Method:
1. Heat mustard oil in a nonstick pan till it
smokes.Squeeze the onions and discard
excess water.
2. Add salt and turmeric powder to the fish
pieces and mix well.
3. Cool the oil slightly, add the fish pieces
and shallow fry on high heat, turning sides
,till well cooked. Drain and place in a plate .
4. Add cloves and onions to the oil remaining
in the pan and stir till browne .Add ginger
and garlic and continue to stir till aroma
comes out.
5. Add green chilies remaining turmeric
powder and red chili powder and mix .Add
tomato puree and saute till oil begins to
separate.
6. Add 1 and ½ cups water and cumin
powder and mix well. Add salt and mix .Add
fried fish and coriander leaves and cook on
low flame for 2-3 minutes .
*********Serve hot with steamed rice*********
Chingri Macher Malai Curry (Bengali Prawn Curry with Coconut)
Ingredients
Prawns: 1 kg
White oil: 150 gm
Onion: 4
Cinnamon stick: 2
Cloves: 4
Cardamom: 6
Whole cumin: 12 tbsp.
Ginger paste: 2 tbsp.
Cumin paste: 2 tbsp.
Cumin powder: 2 tsps.
Chili powder: 1 tsps.
Turmeric powder: 12 tsps.
Sugar: 1 tsps.
Garam masala: 1 tsps.
Coconut milk: 2 cups
Ghee: 2 tsps.
Coriander leaves (for garnishing): 5-6
Salt to taste
Method: 1. Clean the prawns with warm salted water.
2. Marinate with 14 teaspoons of turmeric
powder and 14 teaspoons of salt along with a
pinch of onion, ginger and cumin seeds.
3. Prepare a paste of onion and ginger in a
mixer. Heat ghee in a kadai or pan and fry the
prawns till they turn golden brown.
4. Keep them aside in a bowl. Add cinnamon,
cardamom, cloves and bay leaves to the oil.
5. Add the paste of onion and ginger and fry
it on medium flame for 4-5 minutes.
6. Add remaining turmeric powder, chili
powder, salt and garam masala.
7. Add coconut milk and 12 cup of water and
bring it to boil. slit the green chilies and add
them to the gravy along with the fried
prawns.
8. Allow it to cook for 5-6 minutes.
9. You can garnish it with coriander leaves
and add some decicated coconut.
*********Served it with hot rice.*********
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Patishapta
Ingredients:
For the filling- Grated Coconut (Narkel Kora): 3cups
Jaggery (Gur): 1cup
Cardamom powder (Elaich): 1/4
teaspoon
For the crepes-
Wheat flour (Maida): 1cup
Seomlina (Suji): 1/2 cup
Rice flour (Chal guro): 1/2cup
Milk (Dudh): 1cup
Oil for frying
Method:
For the filling- In a wok heat the jaggery, as it start melting
add the coconut.
Put in the cardamom powder and stir till the
coconut mixes well with the jaggery.
Cook till the coconut feels sticky.
Take off flame and keep aside.
For the crepes-
Add all dry ingredients together and mix well
Pour the milk with stirring constantly to
avoid lumps, the batter should be smooth and
flowing (add milk if required)
Heat a frying pan (preferably non-stick) coat
with 1 tablespoon of oil.
Take a small bowl of batter and spread it
evenly on the pan to make a round shape.
Place the filling lengthwise at the center of
the crepe.
Fold the crepe from both sides and wait till it
turns light brown.
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KEEP FIT Keep fit using your own bodyweight
exercise. You don’t need expensive gym equipment or a gym membership. Learn to
use your own bodyweight to Keep fit in
only 20 min daily.
The workout starts with a warm-up jog and
then has 8 bodyweight exercises designed
to help tone and burn fat.
All the exercises are traditional old school
fitness exercises that are performed in
martial arts clubs, aerobics classes and
gyms the world over.
This quick home workout routine is
designed to improve both cardiovascular
fitness and muscular endurance. It is also
great for toning the body.
Perform each exercise as intensively as
possible and then rest for up to 30 seconds
before moving on to the next one. Always
ensure that you perform the exercises
correctly, holding proper form, especially
in the hip bridges and squat thrusts. Breath
deeply and naturally throughout.
This workout targets the whole body,
improves cardiovascular efficiency and
tones and strengthens the body. This
workout is a great way to prepare for a
more serious circuit training workout.
1. Jog in one place for 3 minutes
Simple light jogging on
the spot. This does not
have to be intensive, so
no high knees or jumping
around, it is just to gently
warm you up for a few
minutes before the main exercises.
2. Jumping jacks: 50 repeats
The classic old school cardio burner. Also
known as the star jump, start by standing
up straight with your feet together, then
simply jump the feet out to the sides, just
wider than shoulder width apart while
lifting you hands upwards.
Return to normal standing position. When
landing, bend your knees slightly to reduce
the impact on knee joints.
3. Crunches: 15 repeats
Lie flat on your back with your knees
bent. Place your hands at the sides of your
head with your fingers lightly touching
your temples, with elbows pointing
outwards.
Try to keep your neck in a straight line
with your spine, fixing a point on the
ceiling above you is a good idea. Flex your
waist to raise the upper torso from the floor
so that you are “crunching” your abdominals.
Ensure that your abs are engaged
(contracted) throughout the movement,
hold for a second. Then lower yourself
until the back of your shoulders touches
the mat before repeating. Muscles worked:
Abdominals
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4. Hip Bridges: 10 repeats
Lie on your back with your arms straight
and out by your side and palms facing
upwards. With only the heels of your feet
touching the floor lift your hips up to form
a straight line from the shoulders to the
knee.
Your legs should be almost vertical from
the foot to the knee. Hold this position for
10 seconds. Squeeze your glutes (butt
muscles) and then lower yourself. Muscle
worked: Lower back, hamstrings and
glutes.
5. Step ups: 1 minute
You will need a stepper
for this. If you do not
own a stepper then you
can use the bottom step
on a flight of stairs or a
sturdy stool. Simply
stand in front of the
step and step up onto it.
Alternate your leading
leg on each step, so left
then right up onto the step, return with left
first then right. Then on the next step lead
with the right then left leg, return with
right first. Repeat. Muscle worked:
hamstrings, gluteus, quads.
6. Reverse crunches: 15 repeats
Lie on your back with your hands on your
sides. Keep you knees bent. Bring your
knees towards your head, till your hips
come slightly off the floor. Hold this
position for a second, and then lower your
knees. Muscle worked: lower abs and
obliques.
7. Mountain climbers: 1 minute
Get down on your hands and knees and
raise your knees like a starting block
sprinter.
Run in that position, supporting your upper
body with the palms of your hands. Keep
your back straight. Muscles worked:
triceps, deltoid muscle, gluteus, quads,
hamstrings, calves.
8. Push–ups: 15 repeats
The classic push, in the plank position with
palms flat on the floor, point forward,
about shoulder width apart. Muscles
worked: triceps, deltoids, pectorals.
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Job Interview Protocols Tell me about yourself.
Why should I hire you?
What are your strengths and weaknesses?
Why do you want to work for our
company?
What is the difference between confidence and over confidence?
What is the difference between hard work and smart work?
How do you feel about working nights and weekends?
Can you work under pressure?
Are you willing to relocate or travel?
What are your goals?
What motivates you to do good job?
What makes you angry?
Give me an example of your creativity.
How long would you expect to work for us if hired?
Are not you overqualified for this position?
Describe your ideal company, location and job.
What are your career options right now?
Explain how would be an asset to this organization?
What are your outside interests?
Would you lie for the company?
Who has inspired you in your life and why?
What was the toughest decision you ever had to make?
Have you considered starting your own business?
How do
you define success and how do you measure up to your own definition?
If you won $10 million lottery, would you still work?
Tell me something
about our company.
How much salary do you expect?
Where do you see yourself five years from now?
Do you have any questions for me?
Suggestion on how to answer question no. 1. A]Name. B]Age. Not the year, just how old you are. C]Last qualification completed, and from where. D]Immediate family details. E]Short term goals.[1-3 years] F]Long term goals.[3-10 years] G]Hobbies.
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DESIGNER’S CHOICE !
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SARTORIAL ELEGANCE DESIGNED FOR ALL OCCASIONS
BLACK TIE means formal. Women wear long
evening or cocktail dresses or dressy evening
separates. Men wear traditional tuxedoes with
formal white shirt, black bow tie, and black
cummerbund. Men may also choose to add their
own flair to their tux by wearing a traditional style
tie (silver or gold) or colored bow ties and
cummerbunds.
CASUAL means anything goes, but please be
tasteful, no holes, tears or paint spots.
COCKTAIL ATTIRE simply means short,
elegant dresses or
dressy pantsuits for her
and dark suits for him.
WHITE ATTIRE
simply means wear all
white; such as white
dress or pantsuit for her
or white shirt and
slacks for him, however remember depending on
the time of event will determine how dressy the
occasion.
DRESSY CASUAL usually means no jeans or
shorts. A cocktail-length dress for the ladies and
your standard khakis with a button-down shirt and
tie for the guys... no jacket required. This attire is
similar to business casual, but a bit dressier.
FORMAL usually means the same as Black Tie.
If your host is especially trendy, men may wear a
black shirt, no tie with a tuxedo. Tradition,
however, requires that men wear the standard
tuxedo and women wear long cocktail dresses or
dressy evening separates.
INFORMAL can mean the same as casual,
however, when the event is associated with a
wedding or another special occasion, some form
of decorum and respect should prevail. A dress for
her or a nice pair of slacks and a shirt for him are
informal, but respectful of the event.
FORMAL OR INFORMAL are two terms
usually found with weddings. The time of day
determines the dress.
. . . IF the event or wedding is held before 6 pm,
women may wear a tailored suit or pretty daytime
dress (avoid black before 6
pm). If it’s a religious wedding, bring a wrap to
cover bare shoulders. Men
may wear a traditional
business suit, shirt and tie
(dark colored for winter,
lighter colors for summer)
or a blazer, dress slacks,
and tie. One never wears
formal attire before 6pm,
except for the members of the wedding party.
. . . FOR an event after 6pm, men wear dark suits
or dinner jackets, women should wear a cocktail
dress, dressy evening separates, or dinner suit.
Black is fine to wear after 6 pm.
. . . FOR an event labeled “Informal”, even if it’s after 6pm, you may dress as though it’s a before 6pm event.
. . . IF the invitation requests Black of White tie,
men and women should follow the guidelines
listed for those terms.
nightclub chic suggests nothing other than black
and sleek.
SEMI-FORMAL is the trickiest of all dress
codes. Typically it means that tuxedos are not
required, nor are long dresses. An evening event
(after 6:00 pm) would still require a dark suit for
men and a cocktail dress for women. Daytime
semi formal events mean a suit for him and an
appropriate short dress or dressy suit for her.
SOPHISTICATED RESORTWEAR means
upscale sundress for her and subtly colored linen
trousers for him.
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HOME DECOR
Color Design to Dress Your Home For Summer
Living Room
Master Bedroom
Dinning Room
The Little Miss
The Little Master
MARY MARY QUITE CONTRARY,
HOW DOES YOUR GARDEN GROW?... Life Designer, April 2015
Design your happiness ...
FRANGIPANI Frangipani is one of the easiest trees to propagate,and a great way to increase decorative foliage and fragrance in your garden or courtyard. Steps to propagate a new batch of frangipani trees in your garden. 1. Remove old wood Choose a firm stem. Using sharp secateurs, make a cutting about 30–50cm long. The base of the cutting should be of old wood, which is grey. 2. Rest wounds Remove the leaves and place cuttings somewhere dry, well ventilated and in full sun. Allow the wounds to heal. This takes a few weeks.
3. Plant When the area behind the wound swells insert cuttings, one per pot, into a fast-draining propagating mix. Water sparingly as the cuttings begin to take root. HYDRANGEA
The old fashioned hydrangea has a place in the modern girl’s heart with its cluster of flat petaled blooms creating one large bulbous flower head. Don’t be discouraged by its size, they can be thread through, or
individual florets may be wired to create more petite clusters. One of the few “blue” blooms available, the chameleon of the flower world also offers seasonal shades from pure white to
blushed green, shades of pink, purple, and antique wine tones. SWEET PEA
With an intoxicating scent, the ruffled paper petaled Sweet Pea is pure delight and translates to blissful pleasure in the language of flowers. Often used as a term of endearment, its delicate perfume made it the floral sensation of the Victorian era and a popular choice for bridal bouquets of the 1800’s. Available in a candy store of colours, the sweet pea is a timeless classic.
ANEMONE
Comprising a single row of petals surrounding a black,velvet textured center on colours ranging from purple, red, cerise, white and the delightful two toned white with paint like brushstrokes in a blush. Beautiful on their own, especially the white with its contrasting black center, and equally delightful mixed with sweet peas and hyacinths.
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ABOUT DREAMS,
BELI EFS, ATTI TUDES
INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES FOR TEENS.
"Life is nothing... just a dream and you have to become an artist and
design your life to the best of your ability."
"If you want to become a better you, get into the
positive mind frame! Start turning setbacks into
comebacks!"
"Doing things that have not been done yet is called aspiration and fulfilling
them is success."
"Sometimes how much you live is more important than
how much you earn. Always do the things that you like the most. It may not give
you more money but
"There will always be someone to find out your disabilities but in case of
your abilities, you will have to find them out yourselves;
just do it because if the cause of your failure is you then the only cause of your success is
YOU."
"As long as you have your heart in the right place, you need not be afraid of what
people say. Just follow your heart. You need to live up to your own expectations, not
others' expectations."
“Life ia an Echo, What You Send out, Comes back,
What you sow,you reap. What you give, you get. What you see in others,
Exists in you.”
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MOTIVATIONAL STORIES... BUILDING BRIDGES
Once upon a time two brothers who lived on adjoining
farms fell into conflict. It was the first serious rift in 40
years of farming side by side, sharing machinery, and
trading labor and goods as needed without a hitch.
Then the long collaboration fell apart. It began with a small
misunderstanding and it grew into a major difference, and
finally it exploded into an exchange of bitter words
followed by weeks of silence.
One morning there was a knock on John's door. He opened
it to find a man with a carpenter's toolbox. "I'm looking for
a few days work," he said.
"Perhaps you would have a few small jobs here and there.
Could I help you?"
"Yes," said the older brother. "I do have a job for you. Look
across the creek at that farm. That's my neighbor, in fact,
it's my younger brother. Last week there was a meadow
between us and he took his bulldozer to the river levee and
now there is a creek between us. Well, he may have done
this to spite me, but I'll go him one better. See that pile of
lumber curing by the barn? I want you to build me a fence -
an 8-foot fence - so I won't need to see his place anymore.
Cool him down, anyhow."
The carpenter said, "I think I understand the situation.
Show me the nails and the post-hole digger and I'll be able
to do a job that pleases you."
The older brother had to go to town for supplies, so he
helped the carpenter get the materials ready and then he
was off for the day.
The carpenter worked hard all that day measuring, sawing,
nailing.
About sunset when the
farmer returned, the
carpenter had just finished
his job. The farmer's eyes
opened wide, his jaw dropped.
There was no fence there at all. It
was a bridge... a bridge stretching
from one side of the creek to the
other! A fine piece of work
handrails and all - and the
neighbor, his younger
brother, was coming across, his hand outstretched.
"You are quite a fellow to build this bridge after all I've said
and done."
The two brothers stood at each end of the bridge, and then
they met in the middle, taking each other's hand. They
turned to see the carpenter hoist his toolbox on his
shoulder. "No, wait! Stay a few days. I've a lot of other
projects for you," said the older brother.
"I'd love to stay on," the carpenter said, "but, I have many
more bridges to build."
THE BUMBLEBEE
According to scientists, the bumblebee's body is too heavy
and its wing span too small. Aerodynamically, the
bumblebee cannot fly. But the bumblebee doesn't know
that and it keeps flying.
When you don't know
your limitations, you go
out and surprise yourself.
In hindsight, you wonder
if you had any limitations.
The only limitations a
person has are those that
are self-imposed. Don't
let education put
limitations on you.
MEANINGLESS GOALS
A farmer had a dog who used to sit by the roadside waiting
for vehicles to come around. As soon as one came he would
run down the road, barking and trying to overtake it. One
day a neighbor asked the farmer "Do you think your dog is
ever going to catch a car?" The farmer replied, "That is not
what bothers me. What bothers me is what he would do if
he ever caught one." Many people in life behave like that
dog who is pursuing meaningless goals.
Life is hard by the yard,
but by the inch,
it's a cinch.
--Gean Gordon
A POUND OF BUTTER
There was a farmer who sold a pound of butter to the
baker. One day the baker decided to weigh the butter to
see if he was getting a pound and he found that he was not.
This angered him and he took the farmer to court. The
judge asked the farmer if he was using any measure. The
farmer replied, amour Honor, I am primitive. I don't have a
proper measure, but I do have a scale." The judge asked,
"Then how do you weigh the butter?" The farmer replied
"Your Honor, long before the baker started buying butter
from me, I have been buying a pound loaf of bread from
him. Every day when the baker brings the bread, I put it on
the scale and give him the same weight in butter. If anyone
is to be blamed, it is the baker."
What is the moral of the story? We get back in life what we
give to others. Whenever you take an action, ask yourself
this question: Am I giving fair value for the wages or money
I hope to make? Honesty and dishonesty become a habit.
Some people practice dishonesty and can lie with a straight
face. Others lie so much that they don't even know what
the truth is anymore. But who are they deceiving?
Themselves
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LIFE SAVER FOR YOUR ANDROID.
No need to always be connected to all services.
Turn off GPS, Bluetooth, NFC, Wi-Fi and mobile
data whenever you don't need them. Turning off
location data, or setting it to use Wi-Fi or 3G data
rather than GPS works perfectly well. Only turn
on Bluetooth and NFC as long as you need them
(even though these consume very little power),
and there's no need to have both Wi-Fi and mobile
data turned on at all times.
If you use Wi-Fi a lot though, say at home and at
work, then it makes sense to keep set your Wi-Fi
to ''Always on during sleep'' as this uses less
power than to have your Wi-Fi reconnecting every
time you wake your phone.
Use dark screen closed background.
If your phone has an AMOLED screen (like most
Samsungs), use a dark colored background,
because AMOLED screens only illuminate the
colored pixels. Black pixels are unlit, so the more
black pixels you have, or the more darker pixels,
the less battery you need to light them up.
Don’t use auto screen brightness.
Don't use display auto-brightness. It may sound
good, but auto-brightness is usually way brighter
than you really need. It's much better to manually
set a super low brightness level that is still
comfortable, and then just bump it up when
necessary. This is one of the main ways to
improve your battery life as the screen is one of
the biggest battery suckers.
Nice bright wallpapers may look lovely on AMOLED screens, but they drain
power
Switch off vibration mode.
Switch off vibrate. Unless you really need that
added awareness, turn off vibration. It actually
takes more power to vibrate your phone than it
does to ring it. Turn off haptic feedback too. Sure
it feels cool, but it doesn't really add anything to
your experience, and it's another battery drainer.
Take least time out for screen.
Set your display's screen timeout to as short a time
as is practical for you. Just think, if your screen
timeout is set to a minute, it'll use four times the
amount of power to have it on, every time you
switch your screen on, than if your timeout is set
to 15 seconds.
Studies report the average smartphone user turns
their smartphone on 150 times a day, so anything
you can do to limit that frequency (through self-
control or other methods listed below) will help
keep your battery running for longer.
Blocking mode (disable or schedule time for
notification).
Most ROMs have battery saving features or a power saving mode, you just
have to find them. Set ''sleep times'' or ''blocking mode'' to switch off
Wi-Fi and mobile data when you don't need them.
If your phone is basically off limits at work, set
your device to not ring, vibrate or connect to the
internet while you're at work.
Likewise, you can set your phone to airplane
mode when you're asleep or use sleep or blocking
modes to set up limits for what your phone does
during certain times of the day, whether that's
while you're asleep, at work or in a meeting.
Get to know the specific settings your ROM
offers. Not only will you have to fiddle with your
phone less throughout the day (or night), but
you'll be saving on battery life too.
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Make your location services more battery-
friendly too! Turning off location services isn't just a fantastic
way to save on your battery, it saves on your data
plan too! Go into your settings and you will find
"location" under the "personal" heading - tap on it.
At the top of the next page it you will see "mode"
in this menu you will be able to set the options for
how your smartphone determines your location.
Select "battery saving" on the same page.
Make your phone snappy with faster
animations
One of the most common complaints about
Android is “lagginess.” For whatever reason
Google has never been able to get Android on the
same buttery smooth level as iOS or even
Windows Phone. In the last few versions they
have made some serious improvements, but if you
still feel like your phone is a little laggy there is a
trick for speeding things up. Google has hidden
some secret developer options inside the
Settings. Inside the secret developer options is
settings for animation and transition speed. Here’s how to speed things up.
1. Open Settings > About phone
2. Scroll down and tap on “Build number” 7 times
3. Now go back to Settings and you should
see new “Developer options”
4. Adjust the window and transition
animation scales to .5x or turn them off
completely
You can activate the Developer options by tapping on the build
number several times. Once it has given you a pop up message
that it's activated, you can reduce the animation scales to zero
Turn off Google hotwords
Stop your phone from always listening. Google's
"Ok Google" voice searching is a fantastic and
often very functional feature. The problem is that
it can play havoc with your battery.
Go to Apps > Settings > Accounts.
Select your Google Account and go to
the Search section:
In the Privacy section, tap on Voice:
Tap on OK Google hotword detection
Turn off this feature.