THE MARRIAGE WORKSHOPMarriage Bermuda Triangle

THE MARRIAGE BERMUDA TRIANGLE

THE BERMUDA TRIANGLE

THE BERMUDA TRIANGLE IS A PLACE IN THE WESTERN ATLANTIC OCEAN MAKING A TRIANGLE BETWEEN BERMUDA ISLAND, MIAMI AND PUERTO RICO.

SHIPS AND AEROPLANES HAVE LITERALLY VANISHED WITHOUT A TRACE, WITHOUT HUMAN ERROR. AND THIS HAS DEFIED ANY LOGIC.

The Bermuda Triangle in Marriage would signify a place where one or both persons end up losing His/Her Identity, Goals, Passions etc without even noticing when and how it happened.

This is only realised months, and even years later and sometimes cannot be redressed.

This is often followed by resentment and feelings of revenge for the other partner and may lead to irreconcilable marital problems if not approached with care and properly addressed by both partners

HE SAYS:

“She is everything a man would want in a woman. She is Beautiful, Attractive and Kind, But to be honest, She is not as intelligent as she made me to believe she was when we were dating. We are totally incompatible when it comes to being Social, Intelligent and in Solving Problems. I can say that I am married but I am not Complete in my marriage.”

SHE SAYS:

“I have always known and accepted that in marriage the two become

one flesh, but I did not expect that when I got into my own marriage

we were going to be “one” - more to his side than to everyone’s side. I

am not a partner in this marriage, I am a servant, a supporter and a

crutch. I have totally lost my identity, my personality, my own goals and

visions”

“MY MARRIAGE HAS STOLEN MY IDENTITY”

“I NO LONGER KNOW WHO I AM”

“I DIDN'T KNOW IT WAS GOING TO END UP LIKE THIS”

FACT

NO ONE HAS EVER MARRIED AND KEPT HIS/HER IDENTITY INTACT, IT ALWAYS CHANGES

MARRIAGE ALWAYS CHANGES SOMETHING ABOUT YOU THAT YOU WISH YOU COULD

HOLD ON TO

IT’S ALL ABOUT “GIVE AND TAKE”

WHAT IS “GIVE AND TAKE”

IT MEANS TO DO A CERTAIN ACTION THAT YOU MIGHT NOT REALLY LIKE, BUT HELPS OUT OR IS SOMETHING THAT YOUR PARTNER LIKES

(COMPROMISE)

OR PUTTING THE INTERESTS OF YOUR SPOUSE FIRST OR ABOVE YOUR OWN INTERESTS

PART 2

RULES FOR GETTING YOUR FREE BOOK

RULES FOR GETTING YOUR FREE BOOK

I PICK YOUR NAME

I SHOW YOU THE QUESTION

YOU ANSWER IT AND ELABORATE

YOU RESPOND TO A MAXIMUM OF THREE QUESTIONS FROM THE FLOOR

WHEN YOU’RE NOT SURE IF YOU HAVE TO ANSWER THE QUESTION YOU MAY ASK YOUR SPOUSE IF YOU CAN ANSWER

OR YOU CHOOSE TO PASS AND DON’T GET THE PRIZE

THERE ARE 9 BOOKS IN ALL. 3 BOOKS ON SEXUAL INTIMACY FOR CHRISTIAN COUPLES AND 6

SELF HELP BOOKS

CHOOSE WHICH BOOK YOU WANT AND ANSWER A RELATED QUESTION.

CHOOSE A SEXUAL INTIMACY BOOK, ANSWER A SEXUAL RELATED QUESTION.

IF YOU ARE NOT YET MARRIED YOU CANNOT CHOOSE A SEXUAL INTIMACY BOOK BECAUSE QUESTIONS ARE

BASED ON REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE

QUESTION 1.

QUESTION 1

DO YOU EVER ARGUE ABOUT HOW MANY TIMES PER WEEK YOU SHOULD “DO IT”?

WHO WANTS TO DO IT MORE TIMES AND WHICH REASONS DOES HE/SHE CITE?

QUESTION 2

QUESTION 2.

DID ONE OF YOU EVER FART DURING SEX?

HOW DID YOU BOTH RESPOND TO IT?

QUESTION 3

QUESTION 3

DID YOU HAVE SOMEONE WALK IN WHILE YOU WERE HAVING SEX?

QUESTION 4

QUESTION 4

WHAT WAS YOUR MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT IN YOUR MARRIAGE

QUESTION 5

QUESTION 5

BETWEEN THE YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE WHO IS GOOD AT

HANDLING OUTSIDE PRESSURE. EG: FAMILIES, FRIENDS ETC

QUESTION 6

QUESTION 6

DOES YOUR PARTNER ALWAYS TRUST YOUR JUDGEMENT OR DO YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO

INSIST THAT YOUR JUDGEMENT AND OR OPINIONS MATTER?

QUESTION 7

QUESTION 7

HOW AND WHERE DID YOU MEET AND WHO PROPOSED AND WHAT DID HE/

SHE SAY?

QUESTION 8

QUESTION 8

EVERYBODY HAS AN EMBARRASSING HABIT, WHAT IS IT THAT YOU WISH YOUR

SPOUSE DOES NOT DO IN PUBLIC?

QUESTION 9

QUESTION 9

WHO FORGIVES EASILY BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU?

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