Love'sA N I N S I D E J O B

M I R I A M R E I L L Y

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So many of us invest a fortune making ourselves look good to the world, yet inside we are falling apart. It ’s time to invest on the inside.

We put so much effort into looking good on the outside.

Eating the latest 'superfoods' and drinking green

smoothies. Watching our sugar intake as it wreaks havoc

on our waistlines and ages our skin. Keeping in shape

with barre classes and hot yoga. We want to look our

best, especially if we're getting ready for a hot date with

a guy we've fancied forever. Looking good helps us feel

better and is part of self-care. But attracting love into our

lives - and sustaining it over time - requires something

more. You may appear confident on the outside, but if

you believe you're not enough, you won't attract a

loving relationship.

~ IYANLA VANZANT

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Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself . We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.

Whatever it is that you

believe about yourself is

what your relationships will

mirror back to you.

~ IYANLA VANZANT

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STOP TRYING TO MAKE

SOMEBODY FALL IN LOVE WITH

YOU . INSTEAD , FALL IN LOVE WITH

YOURSELF .

What you believe to be true about yourself is so

important. If you want to change the pattern of your

relationships you've got to look at your inner beliefs.

You must transform limiting beliefs you have about

yourself into positive beliefs. This takes work, as you've

been operating from these false beliefs since childhood.

But unless you change the way you see yourself, nothing

in your life will change. And that includes the type of

men you attract. If you hold on to the belief that you're

unlovable and unworthy, you'll continue to draw in men

who are:

emotionally unavailable

destructive

unreliable

disrespectful

needy

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THE BOTTOM LINE IS IF YOU WANT

A LOVING RELATIONSHIP THAT

LASTS , YOU 'VE GOTTA DO THE

INNER WORK FIRST . SELF-LOVE

MUST REPLACE SELF-LOATHING .

You need to remove self-doubt and cultivate self-belief.

And that harsh inner voice that puts you down at every

turn, that's so critical and mean, needs to be go. It's

destroying your chances of attracting a loving partner.

You need to speak to yourself with compassion like you

would to your best friend. Actually, you need to become

your own best friend if you want to build unstoppable

self-confidence.

WHEN YOU ’VE TRUE INNER

CONFIDENCE AND SELF-WORTH ,

IT RADIATES OUTWARDS . PEOPLE

PICK UP ON IT . IT FEELS GOOD TO

BE AROUND YOU . YOU ’RE

MAGNETIC .

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The only thing you need to do to attract love is to know you're lovable. To have the unshakeable belief "I 'm lovable".

We try so hard to make other people like us. We

hide the parts of ourselves we don’t like to

appear more lovable. The reality is that another

person cannot love us to a greater degree than

we love ourselves. You must love yourself first if

you want to have a deep loving connection with

another person. 

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No buts or prerequisites . When we

were babies we believed we were

adorable and worthy of love . Over

time , we absorbed the negative

comments and attitudes of others

around us . We began to doubt our

worthiness . We began to feel

shame .

IF YOU’RE LOOKING TO RECLAIM YOUR

SENSE OF WORTHINESS, TAKE THESE

TWO STEPS:

Drop the harsh 

self-judgement and

self-loathing.

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Speak to yourself in a

kind voice. Praise

yourself when you do

something well.

Install the good and

over time negative

beliefs will lose their

power and healthy

beliefs will take hold.

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If you're ready to

stop wasting

time on

emotionally

unavailable men,

it's time to fall in

love with

yourself.

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The greatest discovery of all time is that a person can change his future by merely changing his attitude.~ OPRAH WINFREY

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Miriam Reilly writes and teaches about showing up as

our authentic selves, particularly in our relationships

which are one of the key determinants of our happiness

in life. Shunning the Hollywood portrayal of love and

romance as false and unrealistic, she advocates for love

that is rooted in being real, genuine and imperfect,

reflecting the Japanese wabi-sabi view of finding beauty

in the ordinary. Her personal philosophy is “refuse to be

fake, to be somebody you’re not”. She’s the founder of

Authentic Love Academy, an online school for spiritually-

minded women seeking more meaningful relationships.

Check out her blog at www.miriamreilly.com

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