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MY CHILD IS MISSING Internet Resources for Washington 1
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MYCHILD

IS MISSING

Internet Resources for Washington

A Guide to Finding Your Missing Child Using the Technology at Your Fingertips

Documented and Prepared by Patty & Bob Begin

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It is important to note, if you are using this as an e-book, all underlined words are links for websites. Emailing and accessing websites is much faster if you are using this booklet on disk or

online. All web & email addresses were valid addresses at time of printing.

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Table of Contents

Foreword pg 4

Acknowledgements pg 5

Introduction pg 6

Causes and Warning Signs pg 7

Prevention pg 8

Before your Child Becomes Missing pg 9

The Goal is to BE PREPARED pg 10

The Situation: Your Child is Missing pg 11

Recommendations for an Area Search pg 22

The Effects pg 23

Police Departments of Washington pg 24

Washington Media pg 42

Shelters for Adolescents in Washington pg 48

Washington Mass Transit Lines pg 51

The Recovery pg 58

The Aftermath pg 59

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Foreword

On January 23, 2003, our daughter (and another female patient) escaped from a locked psychiatric hospital. With help from police, family, friends, media, missing children organizations, and strangers we spent three long weeks distributing more than 15,000 flyers, and promoting media attention to “get their faces out there.” The hard work and dedication of so many brought a happy ending to our ordeal. It is our hope that no family ever needs to live the nightmare we endured. This is not the end however. We are currently living through the aftermath and taking notes as we go. Supports need to be put in place. That’s our next goal. This handbook is for the others that will someday unfortunately be walking the path we just left.

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Acknowledgements

Finding our daughter and creating this booklet would not have been achievable without the help of so many individuals and organizations. We owe a debt of gratitude to so many, it is not possible to include every name. But those who stand out in the crowd are our families, who supported us throughout the ordeal; most especially Nikki and Joe, Chris and Lois, Maureen and Gil who drove hundreds of miles in the search.

Andrea Watson from Parents for Residential Reform, without whose help we would never have been able to generate the media attention, not to mention handling the barrage of media in the aftermath. Cheryl Nardelli logged hundreds of hours on the Internet; what a “surfer.” We thank Trooper Keith Pantazelos of the Massachusetts State Police for his dedication to the case and understanding of family commitment. The hundreds of people who helped distribute flyers.

Our thanks to those who prayed then and still pray today for our family. Our gratitude to the people we met along the way during our search. They showed us that there is so much goodness in people and that they really do care. We give thanks to God for you and for all those who touched our life during this most frightening three weeks.

But most especially we owe our thanks to the alert individual who did exactly what we wanted. She saw the flyer, recognized the missing girls, notified the police, and essentially saved the life of our child.

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Introduction

There are four different situations under which missing children fall. They are lost, abducted, throwaways or have runaway. This book deals with runaways but some of its resources are applicable in all situations. One in seven children runaway; 75% are girls. The average age is 14-18 y/o, some as young as age ten.

The Biggest mistake that we as parents/ guardians can possibly make is to think for one second that, “this won’t happen to my family.” The second biggest mistake is to not be prepared for such a potential tragedy.

Most runaways are from ordinary, average middle class families. However, every family is at risk, no matter what monetary class you may fit into.

Once any child runs away, chances are they WILL fall victim to drug and alcohol abuse and exploitation. They fall victim to these life-threatening situations through the people they meet. Be very aware that there are people out there very willing to exploit and expose ANY child they feel or know is a runaway to drugs, alcohol, and sexual exploitation.

Because runaways need money to support new habits, the exploitation and prostitution option can easily overtake them. If the child is unfortunate enough to be recruited by a pimp it may not be possible for them to escape alive.

Some children will end up coming home on their own, but some do not and remain on the streets. Of these some do survive but tragically some are killed; others die from drugs, or disease. Be very aware there is a market for your child. Yes, it is unpleasant to think about, but there are many people just waiting for your child to “come to market.”

Special Note: Any child with special needs is at an increased risk of falling prey to these people and situations. They may not

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be able to make sound safe choices about the people they meet or to safely control situations to which they are exposed.

Major Causes, Warning Signs

Causes or “Why Would My Child Run?”

• To avoid an emotional situation• To escape from an unpleasant or difficult time• To escape the loss of privileges• To be with people they “think” are supportive• To get away from problems they feel they can’t cope with• Feelings of being a burden on the family• Has peers that have run away• Wants to help a peer who wants to run

Note: This list is not complete. Many more issues from low self-esteem to abuse are some additional causes

Warning Signs

• A word of caution if your child has a network of unsupervised peers with access to drugs or antisocial tendencies. Know your child’s friends.

• Increase in irrational behavior, impulsivity, emotionally abusive, threatens to run.

• Take notice if any of your child’s peers have run away previously

• High sustained anxiety level

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• Watch for radical changes in your child’s attitude, and peer groups• Threatens to runaway; this is no joke, take it very seriously

Prevention

• Never call your child names• Be honest. Do you understand what he/she is feeling? If not,

ask him/her to explain• It is important you understand your child, and okay if you

don’t agree• Keep the lines of communication open• Really listen to what your teen is saying• If you get overwhelmed during an argument tell your teen that

you need time to get yourself together• When your teen isn’t talking, ask him/her, “Do you feel you

need to tell me anything else?”• Even when your teen starts raising his/her voice, don’t raise

yours, and stay calm (This takes lots of practice and patience).• Never interrupt your teen when he/she is talking or trying to

explain his/her feelings (again, easier said than done).• Invest in a computer-monitoring program and tell your teen

he/she will be monitored for their safety.• Know who, what, where, and when. It’s not just for drugs. And

check out all the facts. Be vigilant in attaining this information, check in on them where ever they say they are

• Talk to all your teens peers and their parents• Know your child. Is he/she a leader or a follower

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Before your Child Becomes Missing

Yes. Your Search starts BEFORE your child is missing!

• The following information helped us so much to expedite the creation of flyers in order to get our child’s face “out there.” A few things we had to learn as we went. A major slow up was getting copies of her school picture. Since it is copyrighted, an official camera store would not let us make copies of the picture. This is vital to a case of missing child. We were lucky that a friend worked at a store where they have a Photo Maker. We pled our case and they let us make the copies. We made eight copies, which is plenty. Had we known this would be a problem, we would have already had a scanned picture of her on our computer.• If you don’t have a computer, get one and learn how to use it now. Make sure your computer has Internet capability and make sure you know how to fax and send emails with an attachment.• Own a digital camera with the ability to view and print pictures from your computer. Know how to use it before you ever have an emergency. Take pictures of your child regularly, to have them on hand in the event of an emergency.• A computer scanner is handy, each year after you get your child’s school photo, scan it into your computer, and then delete last year’s picture. This is vital. Missing child organizations say the best photo to use is a school photo.

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• If you already have a computer and your child uses it to access the Internet, a monitoring program is absolutely vital. We use a program called Big Brother; it records ALL activity on your computer. Warn your child that you are monitoring the use of the computer. Print out and save any disturbing actions in a locked file or safe, especially ALL phone numbers and addresses.

The Goal is to BE PREPARED

Have a recent photo of your child (preferably already on your computer) and prepare a missing persons flyer in .pdf format (cannot be altered and e-mail’s faster). Include height, weight, hair and eye color, clothes wearing when last seen, where last seen, any identifying features (glasses, braces, birthmarks, etc.)

Know all your child’s friends’ addresses phone numbers and screen names.

Know who, what, where, when and how. It isn’t only about drugs it’s about YOUR child and their safety.

Who are they with What are they doing exactly Where are they going When will they return home How can you get in touch with them at a moments notice Watch for changes in peer groups Know your child’s tendencies Enroll your child in the CHIP program. To learn more

contact the Safety Officer at your local police department or go to the following website: http://www.mychip.org. This is a program run by the Masons and it is free and helpful. This program is mostly for children who get lost, but it could also aid in identifying your child if the worst situation presented itself.

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The Situation: Your Child is MissingFirst Contacts

State Police Barracks covering the town from where your child is missing

The detective unit of your town police. They can be very helpful. They can help sift through any papers, notes, or phone numbers your child may have left behind.

http://www.missingkids.org National Center for Missing & Exploited Children 1-800-690-FIND

http://www.operationlookout.org Operation Lookout –Missing children organization

The above contacts will instruct you on the next steps they will take. Your next step is to physically get your flyers out as fast as possible. As in advertising, you need to get your child’s face out to the public. The more flyers you distribute, the more your child’s face will be seen. All it takes is one flyer for your child to be spotted. But which flyer is it? Is it the one you haven’t yet printed? We contacted our church and friends and enlisted more than 100 people to flood a target area with the flyers.

Make a flyer in .pdf (cannot be altered) format. Make Your Own Flyer or use the flyer tool at http://www.beyondmissing.com/bm?p=ParentFlyer Your .pdf format flyer should be faxed or emailed to the above and the following organizations found throughout this booklet. Email to your friends and ask them to forward it. Include a cover letter explaining the seriousness of the situation, what you are requesting of them. Make sure you include the police contact person with their phone number. DO NOT put your own phone number on the flyer.

Contact the newspaper and television stations in your area. Enlist them to get your child’s face “out there” as much as possible. Call them every other day to continue their efforts.

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http://search.officer.com/agencysearch/default.htm This is a search site for law enforcement agencies for the United States by state and also worldwide.

Washington - Missing Persons Agencies

Missing ChildrenNational Center for Missing & Exploited Children: Washington

ClearinghousesWashington State PatrolMissing Children ClearinghouseP. O. Box 2347Olympia, WA 98507-2347

(800) 543-5678 (nationwide)FAX: (360) 360-664-2156

Non-profit Missing Children OrganizationsOperation Lookout, National Center for Missing Youth 24 hour Hotline: 1-800-lookout, ext. 1234 (1-800-566-5688, ext. 1234) "our goal is to bring missing children home whether due to stranger or family abductions, runaways, or unexplained disappearance. Our services are worldwide and provided free of charge".

Mass Transit Police, all area bus and train terminals. www.fourthekids.org Help for families of missing children www.kidzidz.com Child safety information Fax/ email all your friends and instruct them to forward it on to

as many people and businesses possible. Many companies will get involved making copies and putting flyers out on their own.

http://map.exxonstations.com/ (Be patient, takes time to load) If you have a friend with computer expertise set him or her to work from this site. With a few keystrokes, one can locate & e-mail Exxon & Mobil gas stations throughout the United States. Most of these gas stations have convenience stores; a prime location to post flyers. Attach a cover letter. Include dates,

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names, and police contacts for verification. Ask the location operator to keep an eye out for your child, post the flyer, or even better, show the flyer to their customers. The cover letter should come from the parents of the missing child with the flyer as an attachment. Do not give out your home number. Stress the gravity of the situation. All missing children cases are serious, whether they ran or were abducted. Once your child is “out there” the probability of abduction is high.

Commissioner of the Department of Education in target state(s). This is vital. They can forward your cover letter & flyer to every school superintendent in your target state. Have them send the letter with the flyer to the school principals to get to the teachers. Situation can be explained to students who may see your child. Kids often meet up with mainstream kids and form friendships.

Washington Department of Education

Office of Superintendent of Public InstructionOffice Hours: 8:00am - 5:00pm

(360) 725-6000TTY (360) 664-3631

HeadquartersOld Capitol Building

600 Washington St. S.E.Olympia, WA 98504-7200

Mailing Address    Mail stop: 47200Old Capitol Building

P.O. Box 47200Olympia, WA 98504-7200

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Target large chain stores & mall security. Call their human resources director for assistance. They will often forward your flyer to all their stores. The following is a list of some of the major malls of California.

Washington MallsABERDEENOlympic Gateway Plaza1165 E. Wishkah St., Aberdeen, WA(360) 532-7424

SouthShore Mall1017 South Boone St., Aberdeen, WA  98520(360) 538-0760www.southshoremall.com

ANACORTESReflections Antique Mall309 Commercial Ave., Anacortes, WA  98221(360) 588-1420

AUBURNSuperMall of the Great Northwest1101 Supermall Way, Suite 1268, Auburn, WA  98001(800) say-valuewww.supermall.com

BAINBRIDGE ISLANDWinslow MallBainbridge Island, WA  98110(206) 780-0817

BELLEVUEBellevue Galleria

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550 106th Ave. NE., Bellevue, WA  98004(425) 452-1934

Bellevue Square1086 Bellevue Square, Bellevue, WA 98004(425) 454-8096www.bellevuesquare.com

Crossroads Shopping Center8 NE 156 NE., Bellevue, WA  98004(425) 644-1111www.crossroadsbellevue.com

Factoria Square Mall3832 - 124th Ave. SE., Bellevue, WA(425) 641-8282www.factoriamall.com

Kimschott Factoria Mall SE4055 Factoria Square Mall SEBellevue, WA 98006(425) 649-0529

BELLINGHAMBellis Fair Mall1 Bellis Fair Parkway, Bellingham, WA  98226(360) 671-5895www.bellisfair.com

Old Town Antique Mall427 W. Holly St., Bellingham, WA  98225(360) 671-3301

BOTHELLTown Hall Antique Mall806 237th St. SE., Bothell, WA  98021(425) 487-8979

BURLINGTONCascade Mall201 Cascade Mall Dr., Burlington, WA  98233(360) 757-2070

Prime Outlets At Burlington448 Fashion Way, Burlington, WA  98233

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(360) 757-3549

CENTRAILIACentrailia Square Antique Mall201 S. Pearl St., Centralia, WA  98531(360) 736-6406

Fairway Center1600 S. Gold St., Centrailia, WA  98531(360) 330-9006

Old Pickett Fence Antique Mall109 N. Tower Ave., Centrailia, WA  98531(360) 807-1244

Pacific Galleries Antique Mall318 N. Tower Ave., Centrailia, WA  98531(360) 736-1282

Star Center Antique Mall201 S. Pearl St., Centrailia, WA  98531(360) 736-8623

CHEHALISLewis County MallChehalis, WA  98532(360) 748-8800

Yardbirds Mall2100 N. National Ave., Chehalis, WA  98532(360) 748-1489

CLARKSTONGateway Mall350 Bridge St., Clarkston, WA  99403(509) 758-9603

Peddlers Palace Antique Mall1438 - 16th,  Clarkston, WA  99403(509) 758-2362

The Hangar Antique Mall935 Port Way, Clarkston, WA  99403(509) 758-0604

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CONNELLSmall Mall230 N. Columbia Ave., Connell, WA(509) 234-2715

COUPEVILLECoupe's Village107 S. Main St., Coupeville, WA  98239(360) 678-7000

ELBEElbe Mall18322 542nd E., Elbe, WA  98330(360) 569-2772

EDMONDSEdmonds Mall208 4th Ave. S., Edmonds, WA  98020(425) 778-5511

Old Milltown Mall201 Fifth Ave. S., Edmonds, WA  98020(425) 771-4515

Waterfront Antique Mall190 Sunset Ave., Edmonds, WA  98020(425) 670-0770

ELLENSBURGMain Street Market Antique Mall103 E. 3rd Ave., Ellensburg, WA  98926(509) 962-9331

Showplace Antique Mall103 E. 3rd Ave., Ellensburg, WA  98926(509) 962-9331

EVERETTBayview Antique Mall1309 Hewitt, Everett, WA  98201(425) 339-8464

Everett Mall1402 SE Everett Mall Way, Everett, WA  98208

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(425) 355-1771www.everettmall.org

Faded Elegance Antique Mall2112 Hewitt Ave., Everett, WA  98201(425) 783-0906

Grand Central Antique Mall2804 Grand Ave., Everett, WA  98201(425) 252-1089

FEDERAL WAYSeatac Mall1928 S. Commons, Federal Way, WA  98003(253) 839-4230

HOQUIAMSilver Pony Antique Mall510 Simpson Ave., Hoquiam, WA  98550(360) 532-0665

KELSOThree Rivers Mall351 Three Rivers Drive, Kelso, WA  98626(360) 577-5218www.threeriversmall.com

KENNEWICKColumbia Center Mall701 Columbia CenterKennewick, WA 99336(509) 783-4549www.simon.com/mall

KENTGreat Wall Shopping Mall18230 East Valley Highway, Kent, WA  98032(425) 251-1600

KIRKLANDKirkland Park Place401 Parkplace Center, Kirkland, WA(425) 827-1778

Toten Lake Mall

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12620 120th Ave. NE., Kirkland, WA(425) 821-9420

LACEYSouth Sound Center711 Sleater Kinney Rd. SE., Lacey, WA(360) 491-6850LAKEWOODLakewood Mall10509 Gravelly Lake Drive SW., Lakewood, WA

Lakewood Townecenter5731 Main St. SW., Lakewood, WA(253) 584-6191

LONGBEACHPacific Coast Antique Mall1206 - 47th Place, Long Beach, WA  98631(360) 642-7199

Triangle Mall620 Triangle Shopping Center, Longview, WA(360) 578-0221

LYNDENFairway Center1750 Front St., Lynden, WA(360) 354-4839

LYNNWOODAlderwood Mall3000 184th St. SW., Lynnwood, WA 98037(425) 771-1211www.alderwoodmall.com

Old Milltown Mall212 St. SW., Lynnwood, WA(425) 771-4515

MAPLE VALLEYFour Corner Square23800 SE Kent Kangley Rd., Maple Valley, WA(425) 432-4534

OAKVILLE

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Thunder City Mall137 Anderson Rd SW., Oakville, WA  98568(360) 888-7424

OLYMPIAWestfield Shoppingtown Capital625 Black Lake Blvd. Ste. 324, Olympia, WA  98502(360) 754-8017

PASCOBroadmoor Park Outlet MallInterstate I-82, Pasco, WA  99301(509) 544-6168

PORT ORCHARDTowne Square1700 SE Mile Hill Dr., Port Orchard, WA(360) 874-1218

PUYALLUPSouth Hill Mall3500 S. Meridian, Puyallup, WA  98373(253) 840-2828www.southhill-mall.com

REDMONDBear Creek Shopping CenterRedmond, WA(425) 883-8899

Cleveland Street Square16541 Redmond Way, Redmond, WA(425) 885-7312

SEATTLENorthgate Shopping CenterI-5 & NE Northgate Way & 1st NE., Seattle, WA

Pacific Place6th Ave. & Pine St., Seattle, WA(206) 405-2655

Pike Place Public Market85 Pike St. #500, Seattle, WA(206) 682-7453

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University Village Shopping2623 NE University Village, Seattle, WA(206) 523-0622

SouthcenterI-5 & 405, Seattle, WA

Westlake Center400 Pine St., Seattle, WA  98101(206) 467-1600www.westlakecenter.com

SHELTONMatlock Country Mall17490 W. Shelton Matlock Rd., Shelton, WA(360) 427-2808

SNOHOMISHStar Center Antique MallSnohomish, WA(360) 736-6406

SILVERDALESilverdale Towne Center9989 Silverdale Way NW., Silverdale, WA(360) 692-3536

SPOKANECrescent Court707 W. Main Ave., Spokane, WA  99201(509) 358-8000

Northtown Mall4750 N. Division, Spokane, WA 99207(509) 482-0178www.northtownmall.com

River Park Square777 W. Spokane Falls Blvd., Spokane, WA(509) 747-8056

Spokane Valley Mall14700 East Indiana Ave., Spokane Valley, WA

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Recommendations for an Area Search• Get a map of the area• Search the area, start at the last known location and post flyers in

stores• Expand your search in ever widening circles• Contact bordering States immediately i.e.… State police, etc.• Identify actions your child may take, such as

- Will they hitch hike - Color their hair- Do they favor certain stores- Anything that distinguishes your child

• Bring your flyer to as many copy stores as possible. Most will make multiple free copies in this instance.

• Malls are a very likely location where your child may be. It’s warm, dry, with lots of other teens. Email your flyer to the security office all malls in your target area• Locate all transportation services in the area to include taxi services, water shuttles, bus lines, train lines, etc Get e-mail address or fax number and send copy of flyer with letter.• Locate and retain all police e-mail addresses and fax numbers. This can be done through a search on computer. Very time consuming, but very important piece. Enlist friends.• Prepare a press release to be e-mailed to all TV networks• Locate all newspaper telephone numbers to their City Desk, or News Desk Depts.• Locate all teen shelters in the area and ask for their fax numbers. Fax your flyer

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• Call all your friends to enlist their help in distributing flyers either by hand, e-mail, or fax

• Keep a pad of paper by every phone and with you at all times

The Effects

The sudden disappearance of any child for any reason is a loss with far ranging effects. It affects the entire family, immediate and extended. No one in the family is spared. But it does not end there. Your child’s peers, their families, teachers, etc. are all affected. The list goes on. The feelings can range from anxiety, fear, sadness, anger, guilt. You need support wherever you can find it; your church, friends, whatever works for you at the time. We can only tell you from our experience that your feelings can overtake you at any time. Sometimes the emotions will be manageable, other times they will be beyond control. Sleepless nights, loss of appetite, and other symptoms will compound the difficulty. You can only try as best you can to stay healthy and focused. Your child will need your support when they are recovered.

This is the hardest part. Not knowing what is happening to your child. There may be times when there are many leads, then periods where there are no leads for days (or even weeks). It is imperative to push the media for continued coverage to keep your child’s face in the public eye. Your child needs you to stay strong and to fight for their return.

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Buckley (253)862-9059

[email protected]

Burlington (360)755-0921

(360) 755-2392

Camas (360)834-4151

[email protected]

Carnation (425)333-4190

425.788.1169

Castle Rock (360)274-4711

(360) 274-4318

Centralia (360)330-7680

360-807-6210

[email protected]

Chehalis* (360)748-8605

(360)748-1513

[email protected]

ChelanCheney* (509)498-

9235(509)498-9228

[email protected]

Chewelah (509)935-6555

[email protected]

Clarkston (509)758-2331

Cle Elum-Roslyn

(509)674-2991

[email protected]

Clyde Hill* (425)454-7187

Colfax (509)397-4616

College Place*

(509)525-7778

(509)529-7926

[email protected]

Colville (509)684-2525

[email protected]

Connell (509)234-4141

Coulee Dam

(509)633-1234

509-633-2227

Coupeville (360)678-

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4461Darrington (360)436-

1186Department of Defense, Bremerton Precinct*

(360)476-8232

(360)476-5979

Des Moines (City of)*

(206)878-3301

[email protected]

DuPont (City of)*

(253)964-7060

(253)964-8491

[email protected]

East Wenatchee

(509)884-9511

(509) 886-6114

[email protected]

Eatonville (360)832-6111

Edmonds* (425)771-0200

425.771.0208

Ellensburg* (509)962-7280

[email protected]

Elma* (360)482-3131

(360)482-3717

[email protected]

Enumclaw* (360)825-3505

(360)825-0184

[email protected]

Ephrata (509)754-2491

Everett (425)257-8400

425-257-6500

[email protected]

Ferndale* (360)384-3390

(360)384-3345

[email protected]

Fife* (253)922-6633

(253)922-1220

Fircrest (253)565-1198

253-564-2538

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Mercer Island (206)236-3500

[email protected]

Mill Creek* (425)745-6175

(425)745-4680

[email protected]

Milton (253)922-8735

[email protected]

Monroe (360)794-6300

(360)794-3129

[email protected]

Montesano (360)249-1031

(360) 249-5492

[email protected]

Morton (360)496-6636

360-496-6272

[email protected]

Moses Lake (509)766-9230

(509) 764-3919

Mossyrock (360)983-8115

360-983-8910

[email protected]  

Mount Vernon (360)336-6271

[email protected]

Mountlake Terrace

(425)670-8260

425-776-5788

[email protected]

Mukilteo* (425)263-8100

(425)348-1275

Newport (509)447-5611

Oak Harbor* (360)279-4600

(360) 279-4609

[email protected]

Oakesdale (509)285-5333

(509) 285-6100

Ocean Shores*

(360)289-3331

360-289-3333

[email protected]

Odessa* (509)982-0141

(509)982-2659

[email protected]

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Olympia (360)753-8300

[email protected]

Omak (509)826-0383

Oroville (509)476-2913

Orting (360)893-3111

(360) 893-3129

Othello* (509)488-3314

(509)488-2385

[email protected]

Pacific (253)833-8486

253-929-1194

Palouse (509)878-1611

[email protected]

Pasco (509)545-3481

(509)545-3423

http://wa-pasco.civicplus.com/forms.aspx?fid=47

Pe Ell* (360)291-2018

(360)291-2017

Pomeroy (509)843-3000

Port Angeles* (360)452-4545

[email protected]

Port of Seattle*

(206)431-3490

[email protected]

Port Orchard (360)876-1700

[email protected]

Port Townsend*

(360)385-2322

(360)379-4438

Poulsbo* (360)779-3113

[email protected]

Prosser* (509)786-1500

509-786-2292

[email protected]

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Tieton (509)673-0200

(509)673-0204

[email protected]

Toledo (360)864-6041

[email protected]

Tonasket (509)486-4677

509.486.1414

[email protected]

Toppenish (509)865-4355

(509) 865-5054

[email protected]

Tukwila* (206)433-1808

206 244-6181

[email protected]

Tumwater (360)754-4200

[email protected]

Union Gap (509)248-0430

(509) 452-5099

Vader* (360)295-3109

(360)295-3208

[email protected]

Vancouver* (360)487-7400

(360)694-9646

[email protected]

Walla Walla (509)527-4434

[email protected]

Wapato* (509)877-4275

(509)877-7363

Warden (509)349-2232

[email protected]

Washington State Parks and Recreation Commission*

(360)902-8606

Washougal (360)835-8701

(360) 835-7559

[email protected]

Wenatchee* (509) 663-9911

West Richland (509)967- (509) 967-2251

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3425Westport (360)268-

9197360-268-1363

[email protected]

White Salmon (509)493-1177

509-493-1007

[email protected]

Wilbur* (509)647-5300

509-647-5308

[email protected]

Winlock (360)785-3891

(360)785-9327

[email protected]

Woodland* (360)225-6965

(360)225-1201

[email protected]

Yakima* (509)575-6200

[email protected]

Yelm (360)458-5701

Zillah (509)829-6100

(509) 829-5605

Washington County Sheriffs

County Phone Fax E-MailAdams Co (509)659-

1122509-659-1724

Asotin Co* (509)243- (509)243-34

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4717 4719Benton Co* (509)735-

6555(509) 783-5852

[email protected]

Chelan Co* (509)667-6851

[email protected]

Clallam Co*

(360)417-2000

(360)417-2498

[email protected]

Clark Co* (360)397-2211

(360)759-5912

[email protected]

Columbia Co

(509)382-2518

[email protected]

Cowlitz Co (360)577-3092

(360) 423-1047

[email protected]

Douglas Co*

(509)884-0941

[email protected]

Ferry Co (509)775-3136

[email protected]

Franklin Co (509)545-3501

Garfield Co (509)843-3494

Grant Co* (509)754-2011

509-754-2058

Grays Harbor Co

(360)249-3711

[email protected]

Island Co* (360)678-4422

(360) 679-7371

[email protected]

Jefferson Co

(360)385-3831

(360) 379-0513

[email protected]

King Co (206)296-4155

[email protected]

Kitsap Co* (360)337- (360)337- [email protected]

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7101 7054Kittitas Co* (509)962-

7525509-962-7599

[email protected]

Klickitat Co

509 - 773 - 4545

509 - 773 - 6575

Lewis Co* (360)748-9286

(360)740-1476

Lincoln Co (509)725-3501

509-725-0575

[email protected];[email protected]

Mason Co* (360)427-9670

[email protected]

Okanogan Co*

(509)422-7200

[email protected]

Pacific Co 360-875-9397

Pend Oreille Co*

(509)447-3151

[email protected]

Pierce Co* (253)798-7530

[email protected]

San Juan Co

(360)378-4151

Skagit Co* (360)336-9450

(360) 336-9455

[email protected]

Skamania Co*

(509)427-9490

509-427-4369

Snohomish Co*

(425)388-3393

Spokane Co*

(509)477-5980

Stevens Co (509)684-5296

Thurston Co*

(360)786- (360)786-36

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Washington State Police

District 1 Office Directory Headquarters & Communications: State of Washington CombinedTransportation Center2502 112th Street East, Tacoma, WA 98445-5104 (253) 538-3240

Detachments: Olympia/Thurston County - 222 Tumwater Boulevard, Building 16, Post Office Box 42640, Tumwater, WA 98504-2640 (360) 586-4443

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District 2 Office Directory Headquarters & Communications:2803 156th Ave SE, Bellevue, WA 98007-6523 (425) 401-7788

Detachments: Enumclaw - 333 Griffin Avenue, Enumclaw, WA 98022 (360) 825-6154Seattle North - 811 E Roanoke, Seattle, WA 98102 (206) 720-3040Seattle South - 15666 International Boulevard, Seattle, WA 98188-6523 (206) 439-3830

District 3 Office Directory Headquarters & Communications:2715 Rudkin Road, Union Gap, WA 98903 - (509) 575-2320

Detachments:Grandview - 173905 West Interstate 82, Grandview, WA 98930Phone: (509) 882-9945 - Fax: (509) 882-9949

Kennewick - 143302 East Law Lane, Kennewick WA 99337-2011

Phone: (509) 734-7029Walla Walla - 406 Wellington, Walla Walla WA 99362Phone: (509) 527-4413

District 4 Office Directory Headquarters & Communications:6403 W Rowand Rd, Spokane, WA 99224-5300 - (509) 227-6566

Detachments:Colfax - 840 W Fairview St, Colfax, WA 99111-9515 (509) 397-3600Colville - 751 S. Main, Colville, WA 99114-2704 (509) 684-7431Ritzville - 1563 E Gun Club Rd, Ritzville, WA 99169-9713 (509) 659-1210

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District 5 Office DirectoryHeadquarters & Communications:11018 NE 51st Circle, Vancouver, WA 98682-6686 - (360) 449-

7999

Detachments:Chehalis - 850 NW Louisiana Ave, Chehalis WA 98532 - (360) 748-2194 Goldendale - PO Box 105, Goldendale WA 98620 - (509) 773-3775Kelso - 1823 Baker Way, Kelso WA 98626 - (360) 578-4147Morton - 342 State Route 7, Morton, WA 98356 - (360) 496-3323

District 6 Office Directory Headquarters & Communications:2822 Euclid Ave, Wenatchee, WA 98801 - (509) 682-8090

Detachments:Cle Elum Scale (CVD) - PO Box 550, Cle Elum, WA 98922 - (509) 674-9704Ellensburg - 291 Thorp Hwy S, Ellensburg, WA 98926 - (509) 925-2698 Moses Lake - 101 Laguna, Moses Lake, WA 98837 - (509) 765-6175Okanogan - PO Box 486, Okanogan, WA 98840-0486 - (509) 826-7400

District 7 Office Directory Headquarters & Communications:2700 - 116th Street NE, Marysville WA 98271-9425 - (360) 654-1204

Detachments: Bellingham - 3860 Airport Way, 98226-8040 - (360) 676-2007Burlington - 10945 Chuckanut Dr., 98233 - (360) 757-7553

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Monroe - 909 W. Main St., Suite 1A, 98272-2031 - (360) 805-1153Oak Harbor - 840 SE 8th Ave., #101, 98227-2996 - (360) 675-0710Silverlake - Interstate 5 - (425) 514-5444

District 8 Office Directory Headquarters & Communications:4811 Werner Road, Bremerton, WA 98312 - (360) 473-0300

Detachments:Bremerton, WA - 4811 Werner Road, Bremerton, WA 98312 - (360) 473-0300Shelton, WA - 629 W Dayton Airport Road, 98584-8945 - (360) 432-7581Hoquiam, WA - 3111 Pacific Ave, 98550-4222 - (360) 533-9332Naselle, WA - 797 State Route 4, 98638 - (360) 484-3130Port Angeles, WA - 62 Old Olympic Highway, 98362 (360) 417-1738

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Washington Media

Washington Television Broadcasting Stations

ABC network:Station Phone Fax E-MailKennewick: KVEW (Ch. 42)

509-735-8369

509-735-1836

[email protected]

Seattle: KOMO (Ch. 4)

(206) 404-4145

(206) 404-4422

[email protected]

Spokane: KXLY (Ch. 4)

(509) 324-4004

[email protected]

Yakima:KAPP (Ch. 35)

509-453-0351

509-735-1836

[email protected]

CBS network:Station Phone Fax E-MailPasco: KEPR (Ch. 19)

(509) 539-KEPR

[email protected]

Seattle: KIRO (Ch. 7)

(206) 728-7777

Websitehttp://www.kirotv.com/staff/news-tips/

Spokane: KREM (Ch. 2)

509-838-7350 509-448-6397

[email protected]

Yakima: KIMA (Ch. 29)

509.575.0029 [email protected]

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Fox network:Station Phone Fax E-MailTacoma: KCPQ (Ch. 13)

206-674-1313 [email protected]

NBC network:Station Phone Fax E-MailSeattle: KING (Ch. 5)

(206) 448-5555 (206) 448-4525 [email protected]

Spokane: KHQ (Ch. 6)

(509) 448-4656 [email protected]

Washington newspapers

Newspapers

Click (A) for Newspaper Address Click (C) for County Results Click (F) for Newspaper Facebook Click (T) for Newspaper Twitter Click (W) for Local Weather & Forecast Click here for Newspaper Archives New Click here for address downloads.

Aberdeen  The Daily World 360-532-4000 - Telephone 360-533-6039 – Fax [email protected]  Anacortes American Goskagit.com P.O. Box 578 Mount Vernon, WA 98273-5624

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360-424-3251 - Telephone 360-424-5300 – [email protected]  ArlingtonTimes.com 1085 Cedar Avenue Marysville, WA 98270 360-659-1300 - Telephone Bainbridge Island  Bainbridge Island Review 206-842-6613 - TelephoneBainbridge Island  The Bainbridge Islander 360-377-3711 - Telephone [email protected]  Ballard News-Tribune 206-457-5400 – [email protected] Ground  The Reflector 360-687-5151 - Telephone 360-687-5162 - Fax [email protected]  The Bellingham Herald 360-676-2660 – TelephoneBlaine  The Northern Light 360-332-1777 - Telephone 360-332-2777 – Fax [email protected] Lake  Bonney Lake Courier-Herald 360-825-2555 - Telephone 253-825-1092 - FaxBremerton  The Sun 360-377-3711 – Telephone [email protected]  Camas-Washougal Post-Record 360-834-2141 – [email protected]  Cashmere Valley Record 509-782-3781 - Telephone 509-782-9074 - Fax [email protected]  The Chronicle 360-736-3311 - Telephone 360-736-4796 – Fax [email protected]  Lake Chelan Mirror 509-682-2213 - Telephone 509-682-4209 - FaxCheney  Cheney Free Press 509-235-6184 - Telephone 509-235-2887 - FaxCle Elum  Northern Kittitas County Tribune 509-674-2511 - Telephone 509-674-5571 - FaxColville  The Statesman-Examiner 509-684-4567 - Telephone 509-684-3849 – Fax [email protected]  Concrete Herald 360-853-8213 – Telephone [email protected]  The Whidbey Examiner 360-678-8060 - Telephone 360-678-6073 – FaxDeer Park  Deer Park Tribune 509-276-5043 - Telephone 509-276-2041 – Fax [email protected]  River Current News 206-795-0989 – TelephoneEastsound  The Islands' Sounder 360-376-4500 – TelephoneEatonville  The Dispatch 360-832-4411 - Telephone 360-832-4972 - FaxEdmonds  Edmonds Beacon 425-347-1711 - Telephone [email protected]

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Ellensburg  Daily Record 509-925-1414 - Telephone 509-925-5696 – Fax [email protected]  Enumclaw Courier-Herald 360-825-2555 - TelephoneEverett  The Herald 425-339-3000 - Telephone 425-339-3435 – Fax [email protected] Way  Federal Way Mirror 253-925-5565 - TelephoneFederal Way  Federal Way News 253-838-7622 – [email protected]  Forks Forum 360-374-3311 - Telephone 360-374-5739 – Fax [email protected] Harbor  Journal San Juan Islands 360-378-5696 - TelephoneFriday Harbor  San Juan Islander 360-378-3748 - Telephone 360-378-9748 – Fax [email protected] Harbor  The Peninusula Gateway 253-358-4141 - Telephone 253-358-4142 – Fax [email protected]  Grandview Herald 509-882-3712 - Telephone 509-882-2833 - FaxIssaquah  Issaquah Press 425-392-6434 - Telephone 425-392-1695 - Fax [email protected]  Tri-City Herald 509-582-1500 - Telephone 509-582-1510 - FaxLake Stevens  Lake Stevens Journal 425-334-9252 - Telephone 425-334-9239 – Fax [email protected]  South Whidbey Record 360-221-5300 - TelephoneLeavenworth  The Leavenworth Echo 360-221-5300 - TelephoneLiberty Lake  Liberty Lake Splash 509-242-7752 - Telephone 509-927-2190 - FaxLong Beach  Chinook Observer 360-642-8181 - Telephone 360-642-8105 - FaxLongview  The Daily News 360-577-2500 - Telephone 360-577-2538 - FaxLynden  Lynden Tribune 360-354-4444 - Telephone 360-354-4445 - Fax Mercer Island  Mercer Island Reporter 206-232-1215 - Telephone Monroe  Monroe Monitor 360-794-7116 - Telephone 360-794-6202 - FaxMonroe  Sky Valley Chronicle 425-791-1471 - TelephoneMontesano  The Vidette 360-249-3311 - Telephone 360-249-5636 - FaxMoses Lake  Columbia Basin Herald 509-765-4561 - TelephoneMount Vernon  Skagit Valley Herald 360-424-3251 - Telephone 360-424-5300 - FaxMukilteo  The Mukilteo Beacon 425-347-5634 - Telephone

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425-347-6077 - FaxNewport  Newport Miner 509-447-2433 - Telephone 509-447-9222 - FaxOak Harbor  Whidbey News-Times 360-675-6611 - Telephone 360-679-2695 - FaxOlympia  The Olympian 360-754-5400 - Telephone 360-357-0202 - FaxOmak  Omak-Okanogan County Chronicle 509-826-1110 - Telephone 509-826-5819 - FaxOroville  Okanogan Valley Gazette-Tribune 509-476-3602 - Telephone 509-476-3054 - FaxOthello  Othello Outlook 509-488-3342 - Telephone 509-488-3345 - FaxPasco  Tri-CityHerald 509-582-1500 - Telephone 509-582-1510 - FaxPort Angeles  Peninsula Daily News 360-452-2345 - Telephone 360-417-3521 - FaxPort Orchard  Port Orchard Independent 360-876-4414 - TelephonePort Townsend  Jefferson County Leader 360-385-2900 - Telephone 360-385-3422 - FaxPoulsbo  North Kitsap Herald 360-779-4464 - Telephone 360-779-8276 - FaxProsser  Prosser Record-Bulletin 509-786-1711 - Telephone 509-786-1779 - FaxPullman  Pullman Daily News 208-882-5561 - Telephone 208-883-8205 - FaxPuyallup  The Puyallup Herald 253-841-2481 - Telephone 253-840-8249 - FaxRaymond  Willapa Harbor Herald 360-942-3466 - Telephone 360-942-3487 - FaxRenton  Renton Reporter 425-255-3484 - TelephoneSeattle  Capitol Hill Times 206-328-0822 - TelephoneSeattle  Daily Journal of Commerce 206-622-8272 - Telephone 206-622-8416 - FaxSeattle  Madison Park Times 206-461-1300 - TelephoneSeattle  Northwest Asian Weekly 206-223-5559 - Telephone 206-223-0626 - FaxSeattle  Pacific Publishing Newspapers 206-461-1300 - Telephone 206-461-1316 - FaxSeattle  Puget Sound Business Journal 206-876-5500 - Telephone 206-447-8510 - FaxSeattle  Queen Anne & Magnolia News 206-461-1300 - TelephoneSeattle  Seattle Post Intelligencer 206-448-8076 - TelephoneSeattle  Seattle Times 206-464-2111 - Telephone 206-464-2261 - Fax

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Seattle  Seattle Weekly 206-623-0500 - Telephone 206-467-4338 - Fax Seattle  The Stranger 206-323-7101 - Telephone 206-323-7203 - FaxSeattle  West Seattle Herald 206-708-1378 - Telephone Sequim  The Sequim Gazette 360-683-3311 - Telephone 360-683-6670 - FaxShoreline  Shoreline/Lake Forest Enterprise 425-339-3000 - Telephone 425-339-3435 - FaxSilverdale  Central Kitsap Reporter 360-308-9161 - TelephoneSnoqualmie  Snoqualmie Valley Record 425-888-2311 - Telephone Spokane  The Spokesman-Review 509-459-5000 - Telephone 509-459-3815 - FaxStanwood  Stanwood/Camano News 360-629-2155 - Telephone 360-629-4211 - FaxSunnyside  Daily Sun News 509-837-4500 - Telephone 509-837-6397 - FaxTacoma  Tacoma Daily Index 253-627-4853 - Telephone 253-627-2253 - FaxTacoma  Tacoma Weekly 253-759-5773 - Telephone 253-759-5780 - FaxTacoma  The Business Examiner 253-404-0891 - Telephone 253-404-0892 - FaxTacoma  The News Tribune 253-597-8742 - TelephoneTacoma  The Weekly Volcano 253-584-1212 - Telephone 253-581-5962 - FaxTwisp  Methow Valley News 509-997-7011 - Telephone 509-997-3277 - FaxVancouver  The Columbian 360-694-3391 - Telephone 360-735-4598 - FaxVashon  Island Beachcomber 206-463-9195 - TelephoneVaughn  Key Peninsula News 253-884-4699 - Telephone 253-884-4053 - Fax Waitsburg  The Waitsburg Times 509-337-6631 - Telephone 509-337-6045 - FaxWalla Walla  Walla Walla Union-Bulletin 509-525-3300 - Telephone 509-525-1232 - FaxWenatchee  Wenatchee World 509-663-5161 - Telephone 509-663-9110 - FaxWhite Salmon  The Enterprise 509-493-2112 - Telephone 509-493-2399 - Fax

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Woodinville  Northwest News 425-483-0606 - Telephone 425-486-7593 - Fax Yakima  Yakima Herald-Republic 509-577-7724 - Telephone 509-577-7766 - FaxYelm  The Nisqually Valley News 360-458-2681 - Telephone 360-458-5741 – Fax

Shelters in WashingtonOvernight Youth Shelters

Program Summary

The Licensed Overnight Youth Shelter grant is a state grant used to assist five licensed overnight youth shelters to meet the minimum licensing requirements under RCW 43.63A.

Statement of Need

The five licensed overnight youth shelters in the state are in Grays Harbor, King, Skagit, Snohomish, and Spokane counties serving children ages 13 through 17 who have run away or are homeless due to family problems or dysfunctions. (In June 2008 a sixth overnight youth shelter was licensed in Clallam County.) According to Senate Bill 6392, the Legislature found that licensed overnight youth shelters provide essential services that protect the health, welfare, and safety of our state’s youth. Due to the cost of meeting the licensing requirements established by the Department of Social and Health Services, the Legislature intended to provide a nominal amount of state financial support in order to assist the shelters in meeting state-established standards and to leverage other local and private funds more effectively.

Grays Harbor Youth CenterAberdeen, WA

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Aberdeen, WA 98520Phone Number: 360-589-3259 Website: www.ccsww.org

Description: Emergency overnight shelter for youth 13 - 17 years old and resource center for referrals.Choose from our list of cities below to find homeless shelters in Washington

Volunteers of America Spokane - Crosswalk Youth ShelterSpokane, WA

Spokane, WA 99201Phone Number: (509)838-6596 Website: www.voaspokane.org/Crosswalk

Description: Emergency Shelter Teens only.Crosswalk restores hope and encourages personal responsibility among homeless youth, including those who eventually return to their families, by providing: * family reconciliation services* clothing, showers and personal hygiene products* employment-readiness program and job-placement assistance* independent living training including life-skills and self-sufficiency classes* attachment and bonding classes for young mother and fathers* onsite Head Start program* medical and mental-health care* school drop-out prevention program * substance-abuse treatment and prevention* tutoring and enrichment activities * college scholarship opportunities (donor funded)* transportation

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* access to our transitional housing programs

Oasis Teen ShelterMount Vernon, WA

Mount Vernon, WA 98273Phone Number: 360-419-9058 Website: www.skagitymca.org/pages/oasis.htm

Description: We are an Emergency overnight shelter servicing teens aged 13-17. The shelter is open daily from 4pm to 8:30 am the following day. The shelter has six beds, and runs on a first come, first serve basis. Teens can stay for up to 21 days.

Cocoon House For TeensEverett, WA

Everett, WA 98201Phone Number: 425.259.3342 Website: www.cocoonhouse.org

Description: Cocoon House provides services to at-risk and homeless teens in Snohomish County, WA. We have two emergency shelters located in Everett and Monroe, WA; a maternity group home in Arlington and transitional living in Everett.

Rod's House - Drop In Youth ShelterYakima, WA

Yakima, WA 98901Phone Number: (509) 895-2665

Description: Homeless or at risk youth ages 14-18A multi-service house open to homeless and underserved youth ages 14-18. Includes drop in center with showers, laundry, meals, school supplies, and clothing. A safe house where youth can

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obtain referrals for case management, medical, dental, mental health, legal, financial, counseling services, career development skills services and assistance with academic needs

Harry's Mother Runaway Youth 738 NE Davis StreetPortland, OR 97232-2931Phone: (503) 233-8111

Washington Mass Transit LinesTravel by bus

Olympic Peninsula

Bus line Phone Fax E-MailClallam Transit System

(360) 452-1315

(360) 452-1316

Grays Harbor Transit

(360) 532-2770

(360) 532-2784

[email protected]

Intercity Transit

360-786-8585

Jefferson Transit

360-385-3020 x 107

[email protected]

Kitsap Transit (360) 479-6962

(360) 377-7086

Mason County Transportation Authority

(360) 426-9434

(360) 426-0899

[email protected]

Southwest

Bus line Phone Fax E-MailC-TRAN (360) 696-

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4494Community Urban Bus Service

(360) 442-5663

Pacific Transit

(360) 942-3193

Raymond- South Bend

area

(360) 875-9418

Peninsula area (360) 642-9418

Naselle area (360) 484-7418

Service to Olympia

(800) 562-9730

Service to Portland

(800) 442-4106

Twin Transit 360 330 2072

[email protected]

Tri-Met 503-962-7505

Intercity Bus

Bus line Phone Fax E-MailGreyhound Lines, Inc.

214-849-8000

Travel Washington Gold Line

1-888-739-5395

Travel Washington Apple Line

800-366-6975

Travel Washington Grape Line

1-877-433-4775

Travel 800-457-52

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Washington Dungeness Line

4492

Western Trailways of Canada

(604) 294-5541

(604) 294-5537

Northwest

Bus line Phone Fax E-MailIsland Transit (800)

240-8747(360) 678-4353

[email protected]

Skagit Transit Toll-free (877) 584-7528

[email protected]

Whatcom Transportation Authority

360-676-RIDE

South Sound

Bus line Phone Fax E-MailCommunity Transit

800/562-1375

[email protected]

Everett Transit

425-257-7777

425-257-7770

[email protected]

Intercity Transit

1-800-287-6348

360-943-8760

[email protected]

King County Metro

206-553-3000

Pierce Transit 1-800-562-8109

Sound Transit 888-889- [email protected]

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6368 org

Eastern/ South Central

Bus line Phone Fax E-MailBen Franklin Transit

509-735-5100

Link Transit 509-662-1155

[email protected]

Pullman Transit

509-332-6535

Spokane Transit

(509) 325-6000

Yakima Transit

(509) 575-6175

(509) 576-6414

[email protected]

Valley Transit 509-525-9140

[email protected]

Grant Transit Authority

1-888-482-2877

Shuttle Service

Bus line Phone Fax E-MailAirporter Shuttle

866-235-5247

360-380-1538

Airporter Shuttle, Central

866-235-5247

360-380-1538

Around the Sound

(800) 600-8043

(253) 858-7044

[email protected]

Capital Aeroporter

1- 800-962-3579

[email protected]

Gray Line of Seattle

1-206-626-5200

[email protected]

Quick Shuttle 604-940-0123

604-940-4429

[email protected]

Rocket 1-877-54

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Transportation 697-6258Shuttle Express

(425)-981-7070

(425)-981-7071

Wenatchee Valley Shuttle

509-293-5773

[email protected]

Wheatland Express

(800) 334-2207

(509) 332-0118

[email protected]

Whidbey»SeaTac Shuttle

877-679-4003

360-323-8894

Travel by Ferry

San Juan & Guemes

Ferry line Phone Fax E-MailGuemes Island Ferry

(360) 336 - 9400

(360) 336 - 9369

[email protected]

Eastern Washington

Ferry line Phone Fax E-MailColumbia Princess

(509) 722-5473

Keller Ferry 1-888-808-7977

[email protected]

Lady of the Lake

(509).682.4584

Canada & Alaska

Ferry line Phone Fax E-MailAlaska Ferries Black Ball Transport

(360) 457-4491

(360) 457-4493

Victoria 206-443-

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Travel by Rail

Service Phone Fax E-MailSound Transit (Central Puget Sound Regional Transit Authority, CPSRTA)

206-398-5000

206-398-5215

SCM (Seattle Center Monorail)

206-905-2601

[email protected]

Seattle Center Monorail

206-905-2600

206-441-2901

[email protected]

Amtrak Amtrak PoliceReport any situations to 1-800-331-0008

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The Recovery

We all hope for a successful recovery. Sometimes this will happen other times sadly it won’t. When you finally recover your child it is so important that you show them love, and concern for their well being, not anger, fear, or hatred. If you show any negative emotions it can cause your child to feel as though they are unwanted, unloved, and worthless.

You will be flooded with a wide range of emotions, but it is essential to remember that your child has been traumatized and needs you to show them love support and compassion.

It is imperative to get your child medical attention as soon as possible after the recovery. Do not wait days take them directly to the hospital for a thorough physical and evaluation.

During the evaluation it is important to bring them a change of clothes. Place the clothes (including under clothes) your child was last wearing in a paper bag (not plastic). The police may need them to recover evidence.

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The Aftermath

The entire family needs to process their experience to start the healing process and rebuild the family. Be prepared for any horrors your child may have been through and be supportive. Therapy; both individual and family, is probably the best advice that we can offer. We can only hope that this will help others heal after their ordeal; maybe not with words of wisdom, but with guidance towards a direction for healing. Therapy is vital for your child to process feelings and experiences that they had during their episode, and to allow them to see the truth about what has taken place.

It’s so important to remember your child may not be forthcoming with information. It may take years of intensive therapy to come to terms with what they went through. The trick, on your part, is patience. You may never know everything that took place.

Personally (Bob speaking), my greatest struggle is the guilt of not being able to prevent this from happening to my daughter and to my family. The visions that followed me every day during our search still creep into my mind. I am told my guilt

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is self-imposed. I still try to heal, and pray that someday my family’s life will return to normal.

Now, as I fight my personal battles to persevere, my duty as a dad is to care for my wife and daughter, and to keep this family together. I have one other duty as a member of the human race — to try to help other families by passing on the lessons we so harshly learned.

Never let a day go by without telling your child what they mean to you.

To My Daughter

You are life’s most precious gift,I see the promises of tomorrow

in the twinkle of your eyes.You are a gift to be loved.

You are the pride of my life,the joy of my heart.

You are my daughter!

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