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Negotiation Skills
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Definition
the act or practice (between sides) where each side is giving up something in order to reach an agreement
Merriam Webster’s Thesaurus
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Why Negotiation skills?
Its imperative due to the volatile environment
Take control of the relationship you have with your counterpart
Historical Review
We have survived and thrived as a species largely because of the ability to negotiate
Human “negotiative” behaviours, rituals, approaches…
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World War II
The spectre of nuclear war impelled the development of more “scientific” method of negotiations’ management
Negotiation and mediation were re-invented into a more “rational” and acceptable form
Negotiations & Game Theory
The Maximin/MiniMax StrategyPick the strategy where the maximum advantage of your opponent is minimized
The MiniMax Strategy it’s problematic partly because it assumes perfect information
We are rarely limited to 2 strategies
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Strategy 1
Strategy 2
Strategy 1 Strategy 2
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Nash equilibrium
A solution concept of a non-cooperative game involving two or more players in which each player is assumed to know the options (equilibrium strategies) of the other players, and no player has anything to gain by changing only his or her own strategy
You cannot predict the outcome analysing decisions in isolation but you need to take into account the decision making of others
Negotiations can go in any direction
Reducing variables for yourself by minimising your counterparties options is almost always a good idea
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Where to begin from?
What should be my targeted outcome?
What kind of system to use?
What to ask?
How to manage confrontation?
Strategy
Helps you Identify your counterparty
Set your Strategic Range
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Strategic Plan (Internal)
Where am I now?What is my best alternative?
Where would I like to be?What is my ultimate goal?
Tactics
How you will realise your strategy and reach your goals
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Negotiation Style
Negotiation Style will determine business relationship
Why Strategy, Tactics & Style
Don’t allow the counterpart to “call the shots” - Setup the “scene”
You can’t think and talk at the same time
Negotiators dilemma (Partnership or Transaction)
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Step 1 - Make a decision on the context
My story against your storyValue from the transaction (short term benefits)
Value from the relationship
Analyse
Where are we now (is this our best alternative?)
Where do we want to be?
Find the variables that will bridge the gap
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Step 2 - Negotiating Agenda
Even great and nice persons have their own agendas
Find your MoSCoW and prepare for “confrontation”(in the good meaning)
Tactics purpose
Influence your counter party
A means to align the counterparty’s agenda
AgendaList of variables
Process (who, where, when, how)
Relationship
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Step 3 - Relationship
Decide on the negotiation style
CONSIDER COUNTERPARTY'S INTERESTS
CONSIDER OWN INTERESTS ONLY
CONCESSION COLLABORATION COMPETITION
Strategy
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Have a proposition!
STUDY WELL!
Don’t go without a solid proposition
Don’t be influenced by the other side
Be Proactive
Don’t let the counterparty decide:Set the scene
Analyse
Generate Alternatives
Amend as you go (your BATNA)
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Goals
Goals are (should be) the directing force of your negotiation
They will help you organise your mind and help you navigate the complexity of the negotiation*
Goals
Be clear on them AND their tolerances
Be ready deliver a great pitch
Its what will drive the negotiation
Don’t loose sight of them
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Prepare your Negotiations Strategy
Be descriptive and qualitativeUPPER Limit: Business Goals
LOWER Limit: Best Alternative
Objectives/Variables/Deal Points
All together form the Ultimate Goal of your negotiation
Form the scope of the deal
This is where you will base your Question(ing)
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Scope of the Negotiation includes
How big is the deal?
How long will it last?
How close will we be?
These questions will be specified and quantified by your objectives
Objectives/Variables/Deal Points
Make them specific so that you can measure and price them
They will help you build the puzzle while going through the negotiation
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Typical Variables
Generic
Price/cost
Time frames
Quality
Quantity
Skills
Support
Warranty
Internal to Projects
Authorities
Roles and Responsibilities
Skills and Knowledge
Specific suppliers
Prioritise your Variables
Is it cash?
Is it ……
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Reality Check
BATNACalculate it well – Think of what is best for you (your organisation)
NOT your starting point
Prepare an Action Plan
Steps for calculating BATNA
Analysis
Alternative
Amendment
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Tactics
The need of a Negotiating Agenda
It’s the strategic gap between your Ultimate Goal and your BATNA
Quantify the Gap
𝐺𝑜𝑎𝑙𝑠 − 𝐵𝐴𝑇𝑁𝐴 = 𝑁𝑒𝑔𝑜𝑡𝑖𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝐴𝑔𝑒𝑛𝑑𝑎
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Tactics need numbers
PRICE LOCATION FINANCE
DEAL
CONSENT
NO DEAL (BATNA)
As high (demand) as it gets without scaring them away
Benchmark (Usually the one that sets the benchmarks wins the negotiation.
Walk away
Benchmarks (Consent)
Should be self-validating
Most defensible position – your alibiFind an external source
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How to Set up your Agenda?
Pick your objectives/variables
Balance
Prioritise
Integrate
Tailor
Anchor
Pick the right variables
Don’t let your counterparty hijack your agenda
Block variables you don’t want to discuss/provide to your counterparty
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Quantify Objectives/Variables
Quantify the components that you will negotiate upon and prioritise them
Money
Quantity
Timeframes
Payment Terms
After Sales services
…
Balance
One deal point and you are limiting your tactical movements
To many deal points and you might go off track
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Prioritise
What are the hard ones?
What are the softer ones?
Integrate
Don’t present them in a sequence but integrate them
Find connections between them
It will give a better negotiating position
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Tailor
Don’t forgetThe counterparty has variables as well!
If you misidentified one of the counterparties variables your position is debilitated
Think before you speak – buy time –Ask questions about it
Tailor
Its all about matching variables
Tactics are determined by the “walk away” options
LEAST DESIRE = MOST POWER
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Tailor
Analyse the counterparty
What is the driver:Hope of gains or Fear of loss
How To?Try to find out their BATNA
Low BATNA = Fear
High BATNA = Hope
Anchor
Don’t keep your ultimate goal secret
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Identify tacticsHow to…?
Hope for Gain (Relationships)
What does the counterparty sees as a WIN?
Identify your low cost variables and much them to their high value variables
Do you have a low cost offering (for you) that will offer high value to the counterparty?
Collaborative/cooperative
Emphasise on the counterparties WIN (winnings)Reputation
Access to other networks
Repeated business
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Fear of Loss (Be wise)
Look for the counterparties Constraints
Identify those variables on which you can exert power
Tactics: The 2 Extremities
Power Tactics
Influence Tactics
Each of the two parties is inclining to either position (hope or fear)
Identify your own position and decide on the tactics to use
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Plan your tactics
PowerConstraints (of your counterparty)
InfluenceWhen alternatives exist (for your counterparty)
Counter (Redirect) Tactics
Listen Actively
Withdraw Passively
STICK TO YOUR BATNA
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Don’t negotiate underwater
Make a partial deal if necessary(fulfil some of your objectives and may be leave the rest for the future when thins may be more favourable)
Walk away in a professional manner
Over/Under-estimate
Do not overestimate your powerThey don’t have an option
Don’t underestimate your optionsWe want find it elsewhere
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Use numbers to Plan Tactics
BATNA = Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement
ZOPA = Zone of Possible Agreement
MFP = Most Favourable Position
RTP = Realistic Target Position
WAP = Walk Away Price
TRIGGERS:
ZOPA
Sellers BATNA
My BATNA
Desirable outcome for Buyer
Desirable outcome for Seller
ZOPA
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Tools and Techniques
Time TacticsDeadline, now or never, take a break
Value ManipulatorsAnchor
Emotional Trackers
Relationship Tactics
Information Tactics
Counter Tactics
Negotiation Style
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Negotiating style
Determines the future relationship so better first decide on the relationship you wan to have and then choose style
3 major types of relationships
Strategic Relationship
Ad-Hoc (string of transactions)
One-off transaction
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What determines style
Goals
Hope of Gains or Fear of
Loss
Style
The standard Negotiating Styles
Competitive
Collaborative
Accommodating
Avoiding
Compromising
CONSIDER COUNTERPARTY'S INTERESTS
CONSIDER OWN INTERESTS ONLY
CONCESSION COLLABORATION COMPETITION
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Evaluate the relationship
How important are my interests?
How important TO ME are the interests of the counterparty?
Competitive
Win-Loose
High BATNA
Aggressive Tactics
Watch the Relationship
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Accommodate
Win-Loose
Low BATNA
Variable Relationship
Tactics: Influence
Collaborate
Win-Win
High BATNA
Relationship: Growth (maximising relationship)
Tactics: Assume Leadership
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Avoider
Loose-Loose
High BATNA
Relationship: Troubled
Tactics: Avoidance
Compromise
Loose-Loose
Any BATNA type
Relationship: Troubled – ad-Hoc – sting of transactions (rolling wave)
Tactics: Back and forth
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Care for Counterparties Interests
CompetitiveCollaborative
AccommodatingAvoidingLeast
Interested in Deal
How to determine Style?
PRICE LOCATION FINANCE
DEAL 800 K CENTRAL1 YEAR INSTALMENTS
CONSENT 1 M CENTRAL6 MONTHS INSTALMENTS
NO DEAL >1.01 M CENTRAL <4 INSTALMENTS
Competitive
Benchmark/Collaborate or Compromise
Avoid
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The Style Shifting
Styles change the more concessions you make
Plan your Negotiation Style
Opening Style
Terminal style
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Style shift
The Terminal Style should much your Goal
Use an Opening Style that will keep the negotiation open and help you achieve your goal
Concessions you choose should lead from one style to the other
If your starting Competitive…
What happens if you decide to start competitive and as soon as the other side hears your proposition want’s to walk away?
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Books
• Negotiation (Harvard Business Essentials Series), 2003
• Michael Wheeler
• Getting to Yes: William Ury, Roger Fisher, Bruce Patton 2011
• Getting Past No: Negotiating in Difficult Situations: William Ury, 1993
• Beyond Reason: Using Emotions as You Negotiate, Roger Fisher and Daniel Shapiro, 2006
• 3D Negotiations: David A. Lax, James K. Sebenious 1992