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FEATURES38 | everything’s Coming Up rosieHow “Pregnant in Heels” Star Rosie Pope Became The Mommy Maven Of The Moment
v BaCk to sChool43 Private vs. PublicTwo Perspectives On The Quality Of Education, The Money And Everything In Between
46 the Joy of shoPPingSchool Tools: From Locker Organizers To Lunch Sacks, Key Gear To Stock Up On Before The First Bell Rings
48 new school on the blockOne Of The Nation’s Most Successful Nursery School Franchises, The Goddard School, Takes On Manhattan
50 click and learn15 Smart Apps For Smart Kids
v sUmmer’s end54 better beach booksFrom The Quirky To The Provocative To The Hilarious, We’ve Got Your Genre Covered
56 grill MarksFeed Your Face (And The Family) With These Recipes From Our Yummy Delicious Blog
60 coMe one, coMe all Road Trip-Worthy Family Fests
64 the fit faMilyKeeping Your Clan On The Health & Wellness Track
colUmnS14 | editor’s note The Most Relaxing Time
20 | it’s my party Birthday Celebrations At The Plaza Hotel, Dave & Buster’s, and The New York City Fire Museum
22 | a good ideaWhen Kids Care: How To Foster Volunteerism And A Passion For Service From An Early Age
26 | a speCial plaCeCAUTION: Kids At Work! A Chelsea Studio For Arts And Music Hones In On The Importance Of Creative Exploration In Little Ones
28 | aCtivity of the monthWhy Chess?: How The Classic Board Game Is Enjoying A New Renaissance With Young Minds
32 | starting oUtManaging Milestones: 10 Tips From The Authors Of The Essential Guide to Baby’s First Year
34 | new parent mUst-havesOur Favorite Things: A Preview Of Noteworthy Products From New York Family’s Upcoming New Parents Expo
74 | the last wordIn Search Of A Helping Hand: A Psychologist Talks Through Her Unexpected Parenting Dilemma
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editor’s N O T E
I proudly admit to having a hand in the
first question our writer Megan Maxson
put to Rosie Pope in this month’s cover
interview on page 38: “You’ve been a bal-
lerina, model, private detective, a neurosci-
ence student at Columbia, and you’re now
a mommy concierge and maternity store
owner turned reality show personality.
How did you end up taking this journey?”
When I originally met Rosie a few years
ago, she had already checked off all of those
boxes except for her big new gig as the mom
concierge at the center of Bravo’s “Pregnant
in Heels.” Put when I first heard the news
about the show earlier this year, I wasn’t
surprised. Rosie is a fun, adventurous spirit
who is also smart, kind and trustworthy—
and you need all of that if you’re going to
advise anxious and vulnerable expectant
moms. . .while the cameras are rolling.
One of my favorite moments in our
interview is when Rosie talks about calm-
ing her own anxieties. “I was teasing my
husband because he keeps telling me to
do yoga, but having all that quiet [left me]
much more anxious,” she says. “The most
relaxing time is being with my kids.”
At the end of August, I’m going on a
long-awaited and much-needed family va-
cation with my wife and two children (ages
7 and 11), which will involve a considerable
amount of road-tripping through some
beauteous parts of Utah and Colorado. I
plan to remember Rosie’s quote.
What are you doing this month? What-
ever your answer, our August issue is here
for you with terrific round-ups of grilling
recipes (page 56) and beach reads (page
54)—and a guide to crazy-fun summer fes-
tivals scattered about the North East (page
60) for those of you ready for a family road
trip of your own.
And as much as we’d like to hold the
fall in abeyance forever, we gently ease
into it with education-related stories on
apps for learners (page 50), the appeal of
chess (page 28), and the character-building
wonders of making volunteerism a part of
childhood (page 22).
Finally, I offer a special shout-out to
Julie Averill, of the Chelsea-based Kids At
Work (page 26), one of our favorite early-
childhood educators now about to have a
child of her own.
A very happy August to all,
Eric [email protected]
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WIN TICKETS TO ARTHUR ASHE KIDS’ DAY!Any budding athlete will jump at the chance to play games and watch pros at Arthur Ashe Kids’ Day on August 27. Events include obstacle courses, a juggling workshop and, of course, tennis clinics and racquet-related games. You can even watch the pros practice for the US Open and snag their auto-graphs. The day caps off with a live performance at Ashe Stadium from a big name star – past performers include Justin Bieber, The Jonas Brothers and Rihanna. The activities on the grounds are free, but the concert is a ticketed event. And New York Family is giving away four passes to the performance! To enter to win, write to us at [email protected] and put “Arthur Ashe” in the subject line and include your contact information. Deadline to enter is Friday, August 19.
Our online classes guide is a hotspot for all the best in programs including art, cooking, sports, language, mommy & me classes, mu-sic, cultural enrichment…and the list goes on! From day classes to after-school offerings, we have something for everyone, from tod-dlers to teens. To make your web-surfi ng and classes-cruising a bit easier, the editors at New York Family have redesigned the page’s search engine to optimize your time online. Now you can easily hunt by class category or neighborhood. And with hundreds of listings, from martial arts to social skills, you’re bound to fi nd something special for your little one, or yourself! Have a wonderful idea or suggestion for our classes guide? Please write to us at [email protected].
CARNIVAL FOR A CAUSERally up the fam and head to the Max Cure Foundation’s 3rd Annual Roar for a Cure Carnival on Saturday, August 20 to play carnival games, catch musical performances, chow down on snacks and spot celebs, all while raising money for pediatric cancer research. The Max Cure Foundation hopes to surpass last year’s total carnival fundraising: $400,000! This year’s event will be “A Roar for Katy” in memory of a Sag Harbor 12-year-old girl who passed away from cancer in December. Teach the tots about the value of supporting a great cause while having a day of fun in the Hamptons. For more information, visit maxcurefoundation.org.
Attention new and expectant parents from the tri-state area! We look forward to see-ing you at the New Parents Expo this fall on October 15 and 16 at Pier 92 in Manhat-tan. Featuring such renowned speakers as Vicki Iovine (author of The Girlfriends’ Guide to Pregnancy), Liz Lange (of Liz Lange Maternity), Rosie Pope (star of “Pregnant in Heels”), and Dr. Bob Sears (co-author of The Baby Book), the Expo will help parents make the most of an exciting new stage in life. Helping new moms and dads discover many of the best products in maternity, baby and toddler from national and local companies, the Expo will offer an inspiring menu of lectures, seminars and demonstrations from experts in the world of fam-ily and parenting. To learn more and to purchase tickets, visit newparentsexpo.com. (For more details, see page 34.)
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i n w i t h t h e o l d Summertime unearths the question: what to do with all the clothes your youngster has outgrown? Forget casting away such sentimental values to storage; remember them always with The Great Remember, the creative brainchild of Brooklyn artist Lisa Waltuch. Wistful parents simply choose a design-appliqué, mosaic or locket, send in their child’s no longer needed wears, and wait as it re-turns as modern art. Nostalgia never looked so good! With these personalized unique pieces, busy parents can easily transform their home décor into a stroll down memory lane. For more informa-tion, visit thegreatremember.com.
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P r i vat e S C h o o l C o n f i d e n t i a lFinding the right New York City private school for your child can be daunting. These academic outlets are notori-ous for being some of the most competitive in the nation; and trying to comprehend their admissions process can cause serious stress. Fear not! Help is on the way. The NYC Private School Admissions Handbook: An Insiders’ Guide to the NYC Admissions Process From Nursery Through On-Going Schools by Jennifer Brozost, M.A. and Vimmi Shroff, M.A. is an easy-to-read manual that demystifies the city’s private schools. These former Admissions Officers (and NYC mothers), explain how to prep for the dreaded parent & child interviews, write clear application essays and navigate school tours. With chapters like “Is Your Relationship With Your Nursery School Director Just As Important As The One With Your In-Laws?,” “How NOT to Get Your Child Into a School,” and “Top Tier Schools—A Myth?,” this book is a light-hearted but informative approach to our city’s complex, private school system. For more information, visit nypeas.com.
k i dt u b eEver wish there was a safer version of YouTube just for kids? KidzVuz.com, the only online destination of its kind, allows underagers to safely post user-generated reviews of anything under the sun. Think of it as an outlet for youth and by youth (ages 7-12) to express their ideas
and opinions about whatever is on their mind. Kids can sign up, post a review and comment on other members’ videos. Categories include: Tech, Toys
& Games, Movies & TV, Books & Magazines and Obsessions. Posting content and rat-ing reviews or products encourages children by helping them earn points towards collectable badges. And rest assured: KidzVuz is entirely safe and does not ask for any personal information. Videos are only posted after being reviewed by web monitors. And later this month, KidzVuz will be sharing film instruction to teach tweens all about camera work and directing, in addition to launching school programs that will integrate KidzVuz into the classroom. Stay tuned! For more information, visit kidzvuz.com.
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miguel Reich celebrates his 4th birthday at the New york City Fire museum.1: A gaggle of giggling guests delight in a magic show. 2: The party’s #1 fire chief embarks on a scavenger hunt. 3: Miguel, here with Mom and Dad, makes blowing out the candles a family affair. 4: The perfect FDNY-themed confection, fit for a four-year-old.Photos by Heidi Green (heidigreen.com)
sophia Kasirer celebrates her 4th birthday in the Eloise suite at the Plaza Hotel.1: Party guests primp with Eloise-approved dress-up attire. 2: The birthday girl readies to blow out her perfectly pink cupcake tower.3: A palette of personalized treats complement the ultra-sweet birthday theme.Photos by Jordan Elyse (jordanelyse.com)
Jared Klein celebrates his 8th birthday at Dave & Buster’s.1: The birthday boy basks in the glory of his baseball-shaped cake. 2: Jared takes a break to flash a smile with sister, Rachel.3: Party-goers wait patiently for an arcade game to reward them with tickets. 4: Aunt Jen, Uncle Rich, and cousins Brooke and Jake pile up the most tickets.Photos by Jennifer Lee (jenniferleephotography.com)
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B Y N A N c Y R Y e R s o NMath tutoring helps students master algebraic equations. Vio-
lin lessons can make you a virtuoso. Little League practice bolsters teamwork. But what can a kid do to acquire a more basic, but less tangible skill—becoming a productive and compassionate member of society? Volunteer!
Volunteering is one of the best ways for young people to connect with their community. Whether kids and teens volunteer with peers at school, start their own project, or follow in mom and dad’s charitable footsteps—it’s never too early to start fostering a do-good spirit.
“Volunteer work exercises kids’ empathy muscles,” says Christopher Caruso, Executive Director of generationOn, a na-tional volunteer organization with a youthful slant. What originally began in New York City as the non-profit Children for Children, generationOn was created to give younger kids the opportunity to give back to their communities. Now part of the hefty Points of Light Institute volunteer network, generationOn works with schools, businesses and community organizations to form kid-oriented volunteer clubs as well as offer hands-on opportunities.
Where to start? It’s all about your child’s individual interests. “A kid is more likely to be inspired if it’s an issue they care about, or that fits in with their world,” Caruso explains. “Start with, what is that child passionate about? Let’s say it’s poetry or music. How do you share your love of music or your gift and passion with others?”
With projects that involve collecting or donating possessions like toys, even little ones can get into the giving spirit. “If you think about birthdays and receiving presents and going to the library to get books, then you can think about kids who don’t have access to those things and how you can help,” Caruso suggests, put-ting things into perspective.
Caruso also says that younger people respond well to projects that involve animals. Ollie’s Place, a cat adoption center in the East Village, normally accepts volunteers 15 years and older. But through August 30, Ol-
lie’s is offering a special “Kitty Kamp” for whisker lovers ages 6–10 years who are interested in learning more about shelter cats. The American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA) and Bideawee also accept volunteers 16 and older. If your tot is too young to clean a cage or take a mutt for a stroll, she can still collect pet supplies and donate them to local shelters.
For older kids, deeper engagement with a project helps to grow interest and further dedication. “Operation Chicken Soup,” a program that teaches tweens and teens about hunger-related issues in NYC and beyond, takes place at The Jewish Community Center (JCC) in Manhattan. With a cheery demographic of 20 to 30 tweens and up to 60 high-schoolers, both crews cook meals for the West End Intergenerational Residence, the Council of Senior Centers and the B’nai Jeshurun Homeless Shelter.
“I think it’s really important when you’re doing a program like this to get the message across as to why you’re doing it,” says Yael Gavronsky, Director of Teen & Tween Programs at The JCC. “We have them reflect on the issues, and ask if they have any family members who have ever been homeless or in need.”
Plus, the participants love to cook. With the help of a certified chef, they whip up everything from pizza bagels to Mediterranean meals. Teens sometimes even help the tween group with cutting vegetables or supervision, and great bonds have been born over soups and salads. “Some of the kids meet their best friends in these programs,” says Gavronsky.
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School student Harley Sherwood, 15, started collecting prom dresses for Memorial Sloan-Kettering’s Pediatric Prom for chil-dren with cancer, she was only 10.
After her grandmother died of breast cancer, Sherwood was in-spired to get involved with a cause. And although you must be 18 to volunteer at the prom itself, she has collected glamorous frocks from friends and peers, and hopes to expand her project to other private and public schools. So far, she’s collected 425 dresses.
“The connection I felt symbolized something bigger than a simple donation of money,” says Sherwood. “The project’s goal is to give [the cancer patients] hope as well as a sense of normalcy for one night.”
Sherwood is just one example of how a young person can be proactive about volunteerism—transforming the notion of philan-thropy from an obligatory duty into a real passion. “Sometimes even the word ‘volunteering’ can have negative connotations if it’s school mandated, for example, and not self-driven,” says Caruso.
But that doesn’t mean parents can’t lend an invisible hand. Keeping up a grateful spirit around the house can be enough to subtly inspire children to help out. One family-oriented community service organization is The Fresh Air Fund, which sends inner-city kids to families with country homes for a week-long summer break.
“My wife and I both come from families where volunteerism and some self-sacrifice was a part of our upbringing,” says real estate developer Brian Edwards of the Upper East Side. He and his family have hosted a boy from the Bronx for five years and a boy from Brownsville, Brooklyn at their Hamptons home for two years now as part of The Fresh Air Fund’s programming. “It may be a lot easier to write a check, but the returns on a real sacrifice of personal time are far more satisfying to us.”
Edwards’ son, Quinn, is 10—the same age as the two boys they host. Together, the trio spends a week swimming, playing board games, riding bikes, collecting berries and crabbing. Elec-tronics and TV are off limits, but Edwards says the kids somehow manage to stay busy and have a great time. “We’re not hosting to entertain the children but rather to give them some simple plea-sures that many kids aren’t able to enjoy,” says Edwards.
Edwards adds that when they first started hosting the boys, Quinn, who grew up essentially as an only child because his sib-lings are much older, had to learn how to share his toys. But now, he runs and plays with the boys like best friends.
“The best part has been the company of having other kids to play with,” says Quinn. A Boy Scout, he has also helped package food for the homeless with the Brick Presbyterian Church on the Upper East Side.
Even around the house, Edwards says he keeps up a spirit of pitching in without being heavy-handed. His family’s most popu-lar phrase? What can I do to help? “We’ve taught Quinn that he should look to volunteerism as an easy way to help others,” says Edwards. “In most cases it simply involves showing up.”
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B y G a v r i e l l a M a h p o u r
This is the story of a large, airy studio nestled in a quiet corner of Chelsea. Shelves, boasting art supplies and musical instruments, line the perimeter. Large, boldly colored butterflies (painted by tiny fingers, of course) perk up the patrons passing through.
Welcome to Kids at Work. A vibrant, caring and structured environment in which kids up to four years in age can experience music and art at their own pace.
Founder, Owner, and Head Instructor Ju-lie Averill—an accomplished musician who has performed with members of the New York Philharmonic Orchestra—conceptual-ized Kids at Work while working as a pre-school teacher for various play-based centers. “I felt like I could create something on my own that really focused on the children and the teachers,” Averill explains. “Not so much on the growth of the business or marketing.”
What began in 2007 as a once-a-week art class is now a thriving program with an eclectic array of offerings including the ever-popular “Sun Sessions,” a summer music class in Washington Square Park.
This past spring, Kids at Work moved to their new location in Chelsea in order to accommodate their burgeoning success. For Averill, designing the space was a labor of love. “My father-in-law did every-thing. My whole family came together and the only real professionals we had were the people who painted. Everything else was just sweat and tears,” she gushes.
Averill purposely created an unclut-tered, zen-inspired zone so as not to over-stimulate youngsters. “When toddlers come in and it’s quiet, I feel like they can be more decisive and just start working. It’s not sensory overload,” she explains.
Fine arts organizations such as Kids at Work are highly imperative to the creative development of young minds. “Music,
especially for very young children and babies, is really the first thing that you can evaluate a baby’s response to,” say Averill. She feels strongly that children have an outlet for self-expression. “Even if parents aren’t going to send their kids to a program like mine, I think it’s important that they put the tarp on the kitchen floor and put out the finger paints. I remember my aunt doing that for me when I was a toddler. It’s a huge memory of mine.”
One of the ways in which Kids at Work stands out from the herd is with their flex-ible drop-in policy: once a parent registers their child for a package of classes they can come to those classes at any time during the semester. Averill chimes in, “I decided to try [the flexible drop-in policy] and see if I could make it work. I knew that nobody else did it. People have been really happy and I think they appreciate it.”
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ABC Gym Kids for an open play program at their facility in the winter and a camp at Kids at Work during the summer. They also work with Taste Buds, a cooking school for little tykes.
In addition to its arts and music pro-gramming, the studio hosts birthday parties for toddlers. Parents can choose either a crafty or musical expe-rience, or a combina-tion of the two, and the rest is taken care
of. Kids at Work provides the children with all the ingredients nec-essary for party pizzazz, including food, balloons and goodie bags.
Having mastered the fundamentals of kid-friendly arts & crafts and tunes, what does the future hold for Averill and her team? Coming fall, Kids at Work hopes to offer evening prenatal
classes for expectant parents in Manhattan. “I think there’s a huge hole in New York City for prenatal programs that are not sponsored by doctors or hospitals,” Averill observes. They also plan to add more Resources for Infant Educarers (RIE) classes, a parenting program that teaches adults how to develop autonomy and independence in children under two years of age. Currently, Kids at Work is one of just two places in NYC that offer this west coast-based vision.
During “Jam Sessions Babies,” a Tuesday afternoon class, nine-month-old Ruby sits on the soft blue rug clutching green and red shaker eggs. She concentrates intently on Averill’s grinning face as she shakes the sand-filled plastic ovals. Ruby wiggles to the sounds of a strumming guitar. And for a moment, it’s as if the well-lit room radiates back with a charm that’s almost tangible. Averill seamlessly feeds off of Ruby’s delight—for her, it’s all in a day’s work.
For more information on Kids at Work, visit kidsatworknyc.com.
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O F T H E M O N T HActivity
B y E l o r a T o c c i
When Spencer Ha fi rst began talking, he spoke with a speech
impediment. Now, at 10 years old, Spencer describes himself in his
school yearbook as “very talkative.” He attributes this transforma-
tion not to a dedicated speech therapist or years of verbal exercises,
but to a game that, at fi rst glance, seems completely unrelated to
chatter: chess.
Spencer began playing chess fi ve years ago when instructors
from NYChessKids began teaching programs at P.S. 77 Lower Lab,
where he attended elementary school. He liked playing so much,
that he continued taking lessons and practicing regularly. Three
years later, he was competing in tournaments.
“When I fi rst started, I just played for fi ve minutes a day,”
Spencer says. “But then I got more serious and now chess is a really
important part of my life.”
The proof is in the pudding. Chess encourages kids to think
critically and strategically. It can help developing minds put on
their metaphorical thinking caps and get their brains ready to
analyze. NYChessKids offers lessons in the morning before classes
start so that kids can “warm up” their brains for the academic day
ahead. Playing chess in the morning is like going for a run at sun-
rise – it leaves you energized and ready to work. It also boosts test
performance; chess players are more likely to think through their
responses and read questions critically.
“Chess really trains a student’s mind to be an independent thinker
and doer,” says Saudin Robovic, Founder and Owner of NYChessKids.
“It provides focus, strategic thinking…and good sportsmanship. All
these qualities can help our students address problems in life.”
Spencer agrees: “Basically, you use your mind more in chess,
and it helped me get better grades.”
But Spencer Ha isn’t the only kid bitten by the chess bug.
Teachers can actually see differences in their students who play the
game. Chess is becoming increasingly popular in schools around
the city, and parents and educators are raving about its education-
al, social and emotional benefi ts.
Chess-in-the-Schools, a nonprofi t for lower-income students that
sends instructors into New York City public schools to teach chess as
part of the curriculum, taught in 50 venues this past year and has an
enormous waiting list of schools hoping to get in on the action.
In response to the demand, which Marley Kaplan, President
and CEO of the organization, says has swelled signifi cantly in
the last 10 to 15 years, Chess-in-the-Schools spearheaded Project
Chess. The program trains teachers in chess instruction to embed
in their lesson plans and pass along to their students.
“A lot of [the kids] have home lives that are really challenging, and
then they fi nd chess and it really just opens up an avenue for them,”
Kaplan says. “It gives them the confi dence to look at life differently.”
There are other pastimes, of course, that train the brain. But
while classic games like Scrabble and checkers are not to be dis-
credited, Kaplan says that the possibilities with chess are endless.
Learning how the game works is just the beginning.
“After you learn how to play…you just keep developing your
mind and skills,” she says. “In other games you reach a limit, but in
chess you can always do more.”
Although kids who play chess used to be thought of as stereo-
typical brainiacs, the class valedictorians and science fair winners,
it’s no longer the case. Kaplan stresses that the game is an enrich-
ment vehicle for all youth. Regardless of school performance or
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academic ability, it’s a fair playing field on the chess board. In
fact, 20 percent of the kids who participate in Chess-in-the-
Schools are special education students.
“Chess is a universal language,” Kaplan says. “It’s a game
that anyone, from the time you’re 5 to 105, can play.”
Besides the thinking skills that the game develops, chess can
do wonders for a child’s self-esteem. Although a novice may
lose more often than win at first, they feel validated knowing
they outwitted their opponent when they get to declare “Check
mate!” And those positive feelings translate to the classroom.
Although the game is non-competitive when kids are first
getting acquainted with the pieces, it can become extremely
challenging as things progress. Tournaments are the Olympics
of the chess world – once a kid learns how to play the game,
competitions show him just how good he really is.
But it can become intense, as tears and frustration start to
creep in.
“That’s when you have to just stop and remind kids that
it’s a game,” Kaplan says. “In chess, losing can actually be much
more valuable than winning. Once you make a mistake in
chess, you rarely make that same mistake again.”
In many instances, a mistake becomes apparent as soon as
your opponent makes her next move. But although chess play-
ers play to win, there’s a strong sense of camaraderie. Students
often play on behalf of their school, and they root for each
other. It gives them a sense that they’re part of something big.
Chess is also more of a spectator sport than you might think –
kids watch each other’s games and give pointers. They also dole
out compliments when their friends do well, and are there for
support if they don’t.
“I’ve met so many people through chess,” Spencer says. “I
make friends at tournaments and even if someone beats some-
one else, no one really gets mad.”
Sounds like a win-win.
Where To PlayAfter-School Programs (open to the public)P.S. 116P.S. 163SMS (Special Music School)Solomon Schechter For more information, visit nychesskids.com.
Fall Programs With Open EnrollmentVillage Chess ShopP.S. 151 Y.C.S.P.S. 59Manhattan Youth DowntownP.S. 183For more information,visit chessnyc.com/chess-academy.
Other ResourcesMarshall Chess Club, marshallchessclub.orgBrooklyn Chess Club, brooklynchessclub.comChess for Children, chessforchildren.com/lessonsNew York Chess & Game Shop,newyorkchessandgameshop.comChess-in-the-Schools, chessintheschools.org
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o u tStarting
B y E r i k a L a n d a u M D a n dA b i g a i l B r e n n e r M D
In ancient times, stones (aptly known as milestones) were
placed alongside roads at specific intervals to help travelers mea-
sure distances and, therefore, their progress. In terms of human
development, a milestone (from the Latin word “milarium”) is a
complex set of skills and tasks that most children can achieve at a
certain age. So what does this mean with regard to parenting?
As a parent, it’s natural to worry about your baby reaching
age-specific milestones. To give you a bit of a head start and to ease
some of your fears, here’s a summary of what to expect within the
first year, with important tips on how to keep your growing boy or
girl on track.
1. Babies are unique individuals. They develop at their own
pace. Constantly comparing your child to other babies of the same
age or stage, or even to your other children, will only create un-
necessary anxiety.
2. Be wary of “the window.” Babies are given a time frame in
which to reach their milestones and after that window of op-
portunity has passed, you need to consult with your pediatrician.
Your doctor will direct you to the appropriate specialists, or will
tell you to wait before intervention. In some cases, short term
speech, physical or occupational therapy will be effective. In other
instances, one may need to work with a team of specialists. The
sooner a problem is detected, the better the outcome will be.
3. The Milestones To Watch At Any Age.GroSS And FIne MoTor: the ability to move and control the
muscles in the body
LAnGuAGe SkILLS: the ability to use sounds and, eventually,
words to communicate
CoGnITIve deveLopMenT: the process involved in learning
and understanding
SoCIAL SkILLS: the ability to interact with family, peers and strangers
4. Age-Specific Milestones: Newborn
GroSS MoTor: The baby lies on the back with curled legs and
closed fists and can lift the head when lying on the stomach.
FIne MoTor: The baby grasps objects when placed in the palm.
They have specific reflexes including the Moro (startling reflex),
grasping, rooting and stepping reflexes.
LAnGuAGe: The baby makes some sounds, sometimes during sleep.
CoGnITIve: The baby looks at light, can see about 10-12 inches
from their face, and can track an object about 30 degrees. They
hear noises and react to them.
Two MonthsGroSS MoTor: The baby’s legs are straighter and less curled.
When placed on the stomach, the baby will lift the head and chest.
FIne MoTor: The baby is able to hold an object for a short pe-
riod of time. All of the other reflexes are still present.
LAnGuAGe: Cooing begins.
CoGnITIve: The baby can follow objects past midline (at 180 degrees).
SoCIAL: Your baby will smile in response to stimuli.
Three MonthsGroSS MoTor: Your baby is moving more than before. Some
babies start turning.
FIne MoTor: The baby will attempt to reach and grab a toy but
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will miss it. The Moro reflex disappears at this age.
Language: new sounds emerge such as aaah and gaaah.
CogniTive: Your baby smiles for a longer period of time.
Four Monthsgross MoTor: Your baby is able to lift the head and the chest
when lying on the back.
Fine MoTor: The baby reaches and holds onto objects, can bring
the hands to the middle of the body, and pushes with the feet when
held up.
Language: The baby laughs and shows emotion.
CogniTive: Your baby likes music and starts recognizing familiar faces.
Five-Six Monthsgross MoTor: The baby can roll over, back to stomach, and is
able to sit with support. The head does not lag as before.
Fine MoTor: Your baby can hold a bottle.
Language: Babbling begins.
CogniTive: The baby knows that an object is hidden, tries to
find it, but doesn’t get it yet.
soCiaL: The emotions are stronger now. The baby can respond to
sadness and happiness.
Seven Monthsgross MoTor: Your baby can put weight on the feet when
placed in a standing position. sitting is more stable.
Fine MoTor: The baby will reach and hold larger objects, starts
transferring from one hand to the other, and can hold smaller
objects with the palm.
Language: vowels are starting to be used.
CogniTive: The baby explores everything by putting objects in
the mouth.
soCiaL: The baby does not like to be left alone and prefers parents
and caregivers over strangers.
Eight Monthsgross MoTor: Your baby sits well without support and takes
steps while holding on to furniture (cruising). There are many
forms of crawling including: on all fours, “commando,” backwards
and sitting and moving very fast from one side to the other. some
babies don’t crawl at all. They just stand up, and that’s perfectly fine.
Fine MoTor: They hold objects with the fine pincer grasp—be-
tween the thumb and index finger. Babies like feeding themselves.
Language: Your baby responds to “no”, shakes the head and
imitates sounds.
CogniTive: Your baby can find hidden objects.
soCiaL: stranger anxiety begins.
Nine-Ten Monthsgross MoTor: The baby crawls and/or cruises well.
Fine MoTor: The fine pincer grasp is completely mastered.
Language: Your baby is louder and more vocal, using many syl-
lables while babbling.
CogniTive: He/she points at things with the finger, can follow
one command and loves banging toys together.
soCiaL: The baby will stop when told “no”. He/she likes looking at
pictures, starts feeling different textures and loves the mirror.
Eleven Monthsgross MoTor: He/she may start walking with both hands held.
Fine MoTor: They start to find a dropped object.
Language: Your baby may start to say mama or dada.
soCiaL: Peek-a-boo is a favorite.
Twelve Monthsgross MoTor: The baby starts walking with one hand held.
Fine MoTor: He/she picks up and finds objects when dropped.
CogniTive: Your baby can imitate adults.
soCiaL: The child follows commands and can play simple games.
5. Be on the look out for something wrong. at all ages, it’s es-
sential to assess the baby’s muscle tone, if there is a significant delay
in more than one developmental skill, and if the baby doesn’t react
or communicate.
6. Adjust the timeline for premature babies. if, for example,
the baby was born one month prematurely, calculate the baby’s
developmental age by subtracting the number of weeks from the
actual due date. at four months, the baby will have the milestones
of a three-month-old. eventually, the premature baby will catch up.
7. Introduce your child to others of the same age. even if they
don’t play together, babies will be interested to explore the sights
and sounds of another.
8. Interact with your child. Talking and singing will help your
little one develop their own verbal and comprehension skills, and
soon enough, your baby will understand you. read to your child.
Hold them while you walk around or do things in the house—explain
what you’re doing and seeing. give them age-appropriate toys, but
remember that your presence and interaction can never be matched.
9. Your worries are not unfounded. if you’re worried about
anything, talk to your pediatrician. ask questions, learn what kind
of help is needed, and make sure that the lines of communication
are open between everyone. Feel free to ask for a second opinion.
after all, you are the parents, you spend the most time with your
children and you are, in many instances, the first to know if some-
thing may be wrong.
10. Take good care of yourselves. ask for help if you feel tired
and overwhelmed. enjoy your baby’s first year! k
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the nation’s biggest event for new parents this year register at newparentsexpo.com Calling all new and expectant parents! Coming this fall to Pier 92 in Manhattan, our New Parents Expo is expected to be the single biggest event for parents in the nation this year! This mega-show will enable parents to discover the best maternity, baby and toddler products from national and local companies, and will offer an inspiring menu of lectures, seminars and demonstrations from experts in the world of family and parenting. You’ll get the lowdown on strollers, car seats, nursery furnishings, safety products, early enrichment programs, infant and toddler toys, high chairs, baby bottles, lactation consultants, child CPR, family apps and countless other new parent essentials and resources. Highlights of the expo will include:
a speaker series with informational seminars featuring…
vicki iovine, author of the girlfriends’ guide to pregnancy
liz lange, founder of liz lange maternity
rosie pope, star of bravo’s “pregnant in heels”
dr. bob sears, co-author of the baby book
a stroller test drive track
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o io iiEVERYTHING’SCOMING UP
HOW "PREGNANT IN HEELS" STAR ROSIE POPEBECAME THE MOMMY MAVEN OF THE MOMENTBY MEGAN MAXSON PHOTOS BY THADDEUS HARDEN
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I t’s easy to see why the producer
of Bravo’s “Pregnant in Heels”
was drawn to Rosie Pope when he
first saw her—pregnant and screaming at
construction workers—at the site of her ma-
ternity store on Madison Avenue. Pope is a
tough cookie when she needs to be. But she’s
also effortlessly charming (hello, that smile!)
and exudes three-scoops-please delight
when talking about what drives her most—
being a mother, and helping others enjoy the
experience of becoming a parent, too.
At first glance, Pope seems to be the
quintessential New York mommy–she’s
got a fabulous career, a former Wall Street
hubby-turned business partner, two super
cute sons (James and Wellington), and
a place on the Upper East Side. So who
would have guessed that she wants her
story to end with a house and a big family
in Charleston, South Carolina? With a pied-
à-terre in the city, of course.
So, you’ve been a ballerina, model, private detective, a neuroscience student at Columbia, and you’re now a mommy concierge and maternity store owner turned reality show personality. How did you end up taking this journey?
I grew up in a household where it
didn’t seem abnormal to have really big
career swings if that’s what interested you.
My mother was a doctor and a genetic
researcher, and my father was a geophysicist
and then in the 80s he became a very suc-
cessful ballet dancer. When I was eighteen,
they let me come to New York to dance and
I think that’s when I started to grow up for
the first time. I spent my whole life trying
to get straight A’s and trying to be [the] best
ballet dancer and not thinking about what I
wanted to do. When I came to New York, it
was a city full of so many interesting people
and opportunities—that’s when I started to
try to find myself and it led me to all these
interesting things.
What inspires you to take on new challenges?For me it’s really important to be
happy. I think it makes you a better person,
makes a marriage better and it definitely
makes you a better parent. It’s really hard if
you get into a rut of responsibility and be-
fore you know it, life’s going to pass you by.
You just finished the first season of “Preg-nant in Heels.” How would you describe
your show to someone who hasn’t seen it?It’s a show that that tracks me and my
more outlandish clients in New York City
and their requests on the way to giving
birth. Although at face value, all of their
requests seem kind of insane, underneath it
all, they have the same insecurities that ev-
erybody has about being a parent and they
just want to celebrate [the experience of new
parenthood] and want to be well-prepared.
How do you explain the show's appeal?Even though on the outside it’s about
pregnancy, it really touches on human
emotions—fear, responsibility, love—all
the things we go through. When you first
try to get pregnant or you know someone
getting pregnant, you don’t really know
much about it. Then all of a sudden, the
floodgates open and everyone tells you
these stories. It’s one of those subjects that
seems kind of secretive until you’re in it. I
think people want to know more.
You’ve done a lot for your clients—help pick out baby names, help find nannies. What has been your most challenging request so far?
On the show, one of the ladies wanted
to be painted naked on a horse. But for
me, it wasn’t so much the request that was
challenging. The underlying issue was that
her mother had died when she was very
young and she was terrified that in some
way she would leave her baby, too. She
worked at a zoo and was really good with
animals. So my point was that those are
going to be the same instincts that you’re
going to use to take care of the child, only
stronger. And for her, having a painting
of her on a horse with her baby [was]
what she needed to look at every morn-
ing to remind herself that she could do it.
It sounds like such a crazy request, and it
was, but underneath it was one of the most
touching stories.
How has the show changed your life?I get nervous if my children cry on the
street. People look at me weird. People expect
me to be like the Baby Whisperer and then
my kids are crying. But honestly, it’s changed
my life for the better. I am really touched
[when] traveling outside New York City [by]
how many people are inspired by the show—
especially the fertility story. It’s really made
me feel a lot closer to all of our fans and it
makes me want to do it more and more.
What made you decide to share your story about trying to get pregnant with your audience?
I felt that if I didn’t tell the story of my
pregnancy, I wasn’t being honest about
what we’d been through. I’ve known so
many people who have had difficulties with
fertility and I thought that there were very
few people in the media openly talking
about it. Ever since it happened, I’ve been
so glad that we did it. Many people have
come up to me and thanked me for putting
it out there because they felt so alone with
the struggles they were having.
Can you tell me about your store, Rosie Pope Maternity?
We have a motto—“every day is a baby
shower.” When you come into the store,
it’s very celebratory. We have chandeliers,
mocktails, candy and cupcakes, and a lot of
really fun music. It’s an experience, not just
shopping. We have everything from diaper
bags to dresses to t-shirts and nursing bras.
What makes the clothes in your store so unique?
I really try to design them so they also
work after you’ve had the baby. We work
a lot on fit and cut, and we don’t just rely
on stretch fabric with spandex to make
things work. I spend a lot more time on the
tailoring to make it a great piece for your
wardrobe in general.
Where did you learn to design clothes?I don’t have a traditional design back-
ground. I didn’t have any money in college,
so I made all my own clothes. And I think
my science background lent to the fit aspect.
You’ve partnered with Citibabes with re-gard to your MomPrep courses. How do you decide what classes to offer in MomPrep?
The thing about the New York moms is
“I get nervous if my children cry on the street…People expect me to be like the Baby Whisperer and then my kids are crying.”
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that you don’t have a lot of time. You want
things that are convenient—so we have a
studio Uptown on Madison Avenue and
we also wanted to have classes Downtown
[where Citibabes is located] so people
didn’t have to travel. I think that taking
the core curriculum classes gives you the
confidence to enjoy your baby more. They
include: A-Z of Childbirth & Newborn
Care, Infant CPR & First Aid and Prenatal
Breastfeeding. Then we have a lot more
classes that come [from working] with
clients privately. Whether it’s decorating
the nursery or baby showers, I like to turn
those [experiences] into an affordable class
for everyone.
How do you manage it all—your own show, designing, having a store and being a mom?
I gave up sleep the last few years. But
I’m really lucky because I work with my
husband who left his job on Wall Street
last summer. We run the business together
and have an amazing team. We are able to
control our schedule, to some extent, which
allows us to tag team with the kids and it
gives us a lot more flexibility than if we
were in a more corporate environment.
Speaking of your husband, tell me how you met.
We got into the elevator together [at
the Gansevoort Hotel] and one of the other
men was trying to hit on me. And Daron,
who’s a southern gentleman, stepped in
and sort of saved the day. And that guy, by
the way, ended up being a guest of honor at
our wedding. So I always tell people to look
around when you’re in an elevator—you
never know.
Tell me about your children. My oldest son, James, is almost
three and is very energetic. I think he’s a
genius, but I know probably every parent
[says that]. He’s very into role play, but
apparently I suck. I take everything a
little too literally. And my youngest son,
Wellington, is five months and is the
complete opposite. He’s very calm and
relaxed, and likes to hang out and watch
what’s going on. I appreciate every single
second I have with them—it’s the high-
light of every day for me.
How has your view of the city changed since becoming a parent?
I thought that once I became a parent, I
would want to leave instantly. But the com-
plete opposite happened. I think especially
for young children, it’s brilliant. The space
is a little bit limited, but that’s why we have
places like Kidville and Citibabes.
As a mom, why do you like living on the Upper East Side?
It’s very family-oriented and there are
lots of little shops, coffee stores and baker-
ies, so it feels very community-driven and
it’s away from the madness a little bit. We
love getting cookies at Sarabeth’s!
If you get a chance, what’s your favorite way to pamper yourself?
Honestly, I’m not good with that at
all—I just end up stressing out. I was teas-
ing my husband because he keeps telling
me to do yoga, but having all that quiet
[left me] much more anxious. The most
relaxing time is being with my kids.
What do you see in your future?I would really like to start expanding
our store into different cities. But I’m also
interested in working on product lines that
are more affordable so that we really reach
a lot of our fans.
If you could give one piece of advice to all pregnant women, what would it be?
Take the time to enjoy yourself. I think
the more education you’ve had and the more
things you’ve read and the more people you
talk to—it will just give you the confidence
and the tools so that when your baby comes,
you can relax and enjoy them and [actually]
have the time to get to know who they are.
Adore Rosie? Us too! You can catch her at our New Parents Expo on October 15 and 16 at Pier 92, where this supermom and super-entrepreneur will be a special Keynote Speaker. For tickets, visit newparentsexpo.com.See page 34 for more info.
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Two PersPecTives on The QualiTy of educaTion, The Money and everyThing in BeTween
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Private SchooLvictoria Goldman outlines Why Private School education is “the Best Money can Buy”
B Y M A r l A W A s s e r M A NVictoria Goldman has written two well-
regarded guides to New York City private
schools: The Manhattan Directory of Private
Nursery Schools, which will come out
with its 7th Edition in June 2012, and The
Manhattan Family Guide to Private Schools
and Selective Public Schools. She also served
on the Board of Trustees of the Riverdale
Country School, from which her two chil-
dren graduated, for eight years.
What are some of the biggest consider-ations for a family debating private school education for their child? The biggest
factor is student-teacher ratio. You will get
smaller classes almost overall at a private
school. That doesn’t just apply to New York
City; it is a national issue. What also stands
out most about private schools is that they
have better facilities and better specials. For
example, the art programs, athletics, science
labs…The facilities can dovetail with the
program. Private schools might
even have a wider range of
curriculum. But there are no
absolutes when you compare.
It is apples and pomegranates.
It is just very, very different
and though both are fruit and
you will get educated, there are
huge differences.
If a family is fortunate enough to be accepted to a special public program, such as Hunter or Anderson, do the considerations for private schools change? Not really. The
facilities are still lacking. And when you get
all the way down to the end of the road,
the college offices give more individualized
attention at a private school. When we say
private schools are supportive, we mean it in
such an overarching way. The price is high,
averaging about $40,000 a year, but it is the
best education money can buy.
For a family who is struggling with the financial decision of whether to send a child to private school, does it make sense to choose public school for the early
years? Obviously, it depends on the family.
It also depends on the quality of the local
public school. You need to consider the
competitiveness of your local public school
and the teacher-student ratio, along with
your finances. And, finally you also have
to consider proximity to home and social
benefits. When I say social benefits, I mean,
what can your kid get programmatically
out of that public school? Does the school
have a sports team that your kid would be
interested in, or does it have a good drama
teacher for your kid who is interested in
theater? And, if the child plans to move to
private school later, is it competitive enough
Daniel Burnstein, Poly Prep
PuBLic SchooLclara hemphill Discusses Why Public School is the Best choice For Many Families
B Y s A r A h s e l t z e rClara Hemphill has written compre-
hensive guides to New York City public
elementary schools, middle schools and
high schools and is also the Founder of
insideschools.org, which offers well-report-
ed and flavorful descriptions of the city’s
public schools. She has two children, ages
15 and 18, who have both been educated in
the public school system.
How should parents who want to become fully educated about their public school begin their search? Your first option
is, of course, your neighborhood school,
which you can locate by calling 311 or
searching the Department of Education’s
website at schools.nyc.gov. In large parts of
Manhattan, the neighborhood schools are
not just fine but really excellent, particular-
ly in District 2, which is the East Side south
of 96th Street (but not the Lower East Side)
and the West Side south of 59th. If you live
in another area, you should still check out
your neighborhood schools. Some of them
are good, and some of are great.
What if the local school ends up being not-so-great? Your next option would be
schools that either accept kids outside of
your attendant zone or schools that are un-
zoned. On the Lower East Side, for example,
there are a bunch of progressive schools
with which a lot of parents are really happy.
And on the Upper West Side, there are a
number of schools that take kids from out-
side their attendant zone based on a lottery.
Your third option is a gifted and talented
[G&T] program. A final option is a charter
school, which accepts children in a lottery.
What should parents consider when deciding whether a given elementary school is a good choice for their child?
If possible, I think it’s really important to
visit schools when class is in session. The
most important thing I look for is the level
of engagement of kids. Bad signs include
if the kids are bored out of their minds
or if they are goofy and all over the place.
I look for rich classroom libraries, lots of
fun-to-read books, picture books, atlases
and fiction. I don’t like schools that rely too
heavily on textbooks. Another thing I look
for is the quality of children’s work on the
walls. I like to see a variety of work that’s
initiated by the kids, not just posters put
out by textbook companies.
What are some questions parents can ask when they visit schools? One of the
key questions parents can ask is how the
school handles different levels of ability
within the same class. Some parents jump
to put kids in a G&T program because
they’re afraid they won’t be challenged in
a regular classroom, but what’s important
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that the kid will be able to stand up?
So if you don’t plan to send your child to private school for grades K – 12, are the early years or the later years more important? It is
so individual. It depends on your family; it
depends on your child. Let’s say, you went
to a great private school for grades K–8, and
then went to Stuyvesant High…That might
work out great. Or, you can go to a great
public school, like P.S. 6, for K–5 then apply
to private school and wind up at any one of a
number of fabulous private middle and high
schools like Riverdale, Dalton and Trinity.
There’s a lot of switching in both directions.
Does being at a private school allow parents greater input regarding who teaches their children? There is a great deal
of integrity in private schools; it isn’t a case
of the tail wagging the dog. Parents can-
not have teachers fired, but they can have
conversations with administrators about
individual learning styles and making good
matches in terms of teachers and coaches.
Do private schools attract better teachers? In a lot of cases, public schools
have the more credentialed teachers. Pri-
vate schools, however, have more latitude
to hire non-credentialed teachers who
may be experts in their field; for example,
a historian teaching history or a drama
department head who is a playwright
and director when he is not teaching. It
would be an over-generalization to say
that you get better teachers at private
schools. What you get is better instruc-
tion, because it is more individualized
attention. But even at this astronomical
price of $40,000 a year, your kid can get a
bad teacher and have a bad year.
If you place a high value on diversity, will you be disappointed at a Manhattan private school? You are not going to find
much diversity. The schools are between 10
and 20 percent financial aid, and there are
very few full rides, whereas a normal public
school represents the community.
When a child leaves a private school, what has all that money bought besides a solid education? These private schools
have such wonderful values and traditions.
There is a polish the kids receive. The tradi-
tions at private schools give the students an
identity, a connectedness to their school.
When a kid leaves P.S. 6, he is not bleed-
ing P.S. 6 colors. When a kid leaves Horace
Mann, she bleeds crimson. There is a
community that you are buying into that
extends beyond the academics.
If you had an overall message for par-ents struggling with the decision about private school, what would you say? In
New York City, there is so much choice that
it is a luxury to go to school. There are so
many different public options and so many
different private options, and everyone finds
his or her place somewhere and usually, but
not always, is happy, gets a great educa-
tion and goes on to higher education fully
prepared. The case for private school is very
strong. But it is exorbitant…it costs about
$520,000 to go K–12 once you throw in
the contribution to the headmaster’s fund.
If you don’t have that kind of money, it is
fine and understandable. More importantly
than all of this is the case for good parent-
ing. Support your child, be a member of the
school’s community and transcend any and
all cliques as you would advise your child.d
in any classroom is the teacher’s ability to
find work that’s appropriate for everyone.
One of the ways you can identify that in a
classroom is if one child is reading Frog and
Toad and another is reading Charlotte’s Web.
What do you tell parents who are con-cerned with the cost of private school but fear that public schools will not give their kids the same kind of personal attention?
The public schools have large class sizes and
facilities that are often somewhat run down.
But what I think is really important is the
quality of interaction between the teacher
and the kids. Sometimes you get larger classes
in neighborhoods like Tribeca or the Upper
East Side where the teaching is so good that
parents will do what they can to get their
kids in that school. The contractual limit for
kindergarten is 25 kids per class. It’s 28 for
grades 1 to 3, and 32 for grades 4 to 6. And
ultimately, the issue of where to send your
child can really depend on your child: do
you have a robust child who can thrive in a
rough-and-tumble atmosphere or a delicate
child who might not be able to? In general,
my advice is save your money for college.
Besides the lack of tuition, what are some
advantages of a public school education?
A lot of parents are concerned by rampant
materialism and consumerism in our cul-
ture, and while there’s some of that in the
public schools there’s probably less [than in
private schools]. People talk a lot about hav-
ing friends of all races and social classes. In
elementary school, my daughter had friends
who lived in brownstones and friends who
were the children of superintendents living
in basement apartments. It exposes them to
a wide range of human experience.
It seems that public elementary schools in parts of New York are excellent. How do middle schools compare? I had two chil-
dren in District 2 middle schools. I was very
happy with the quality of their education.
There are some excellent middle schools,
but there are very few ordinary neighbor-
hood-zoned middle schools in which you
can enroll your child. Middle schools have
traditionally been the weak link in the city
public school system. Visit the schools.
What you look for is very similar actually to
what you look for in elementary schools.
How have public high schools been evolving? There are eight specialized schools,
nine including LaGuardia Arts—which
requires an entrance audition. This [city]
administration has focused really strongly
on creating new small schools. In Manhattan
there really are no more neighborhood high
schools. Everybody has to go through this
process of school choice. The good news is
that there are a lot of good schools out there;
the bad news is it’s an agonizing process.
Wait lists have become a greater issue.
What would you do to change things in the system if you could? Strengthen the
neighborhood schools. School choice only
works up to a point. There hasn’t been as
much attention paid to the average stu-
dents, particularly on the West Side. There
are spots for superstars and spots for reme-
dial education, but there isn’t much for kids
in the middle outside of District 2. School
choice helps some kids get better options
than they would otherwise, but it doesn’t
solve the problem, which is the shortage of
adequate schools. d
Editor’s Note: This piece originally ran in the
July 2007 issue of New York Family. It has since
been updated to reflect the experts’ current opinions.
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B Y M A r i A r i l e Y
Next up in our series of new city schools is The Goddard School®
on the Upper West Side. This September, Bill Swan and Maria Conti,
Manhattan parents who have endured the preschool admissions
process, are opening their doors. Swan, along with Goddard Systems
CEO Joseph Schumacher, recently chatted with New York Family and
shared insights into what sets these schools apart from the rest.
Why Goddard?Bill Swan: One of the aspects of the Goddard model that attracted
us was the involvement of the owner. The Goddard model is that
the owners are present on a daily basis. The Education Director
is therefore freed up to be in the classroom with the teachers,
monitoring, coaching, making sure the model is followed
and dealing with special issues with children. Her devotion
is specifically and 100% to the educational aspect of the
program, and not caught in the administration aspects. That’s
unique to The Goddard School.
Joseph Schumacher: We want to present a high-quality child-
care alternative owned by members of the community.
We think that gives us the benefit of having a
locally-owned school operated by a member
of the community but with all the advan-
tages of a large corporation.
Curriculum VitaeBill Swan: I’m a clinical psychologist, Ph.D. I did
work as an Associate Dean, but the most im-
mediate, direct relevant experience is that I
ran my own consulting business for over 20
years. I have the entrepreneurial background,
business management background and aware-
ness of the educational world.
Maria [Conti] has an MBA and a Masters in
Counseling. We each had been moving in separate spheres, but
this enterprise is going to bring us together. We both love children;
we have our own child, a seven-year-old daughter. We both went
through the preschool process ourselves not long ago.
New School In The CityBill Swan: The impetus for opening up a preschool started with
touring our child through a number of them in Manhattan. There
is a relentlessness of that process. As we went through the process
there are a number of fine, wonderful, strong schools out there,
but I did notice that some didn’t seem to care that much about the
parents’ schedule or special circumstances or even bother to have
the basic customer service skills that you would think would be
present in a business.
Joseph Schumacher: Our quality assurance is the foundation
of what we do—health, safety and security. Once we have those
standards, there is great opportunity for creativity and flexibility
by the individual franchisee. Things like…what we call enrichment
programs, which are programs in addition to the standard curricu-
lum—yoga, sign language, second language and fitness, and things
of that nature.
Bill Swan: The four and five-year-olds have smart boards, reminis-
cent of CSI, where they move things around on the glass in front
of them. The children can draw on them, touch what they drew,
move it to another part of the screen, and combine it with what
another child did. It’s a fabulous opportunity to engage children in
something interesting and have them work together on a project.
School PhilosophyJoseph Schumacher: Our program is based on [Jean] Piaget and
its contextual learning, playful learning. Our students are so very
different, and we really embrace all the differences. A typical God-
dard student is a child that’s interested in learning and having fun.
The Goddard teacher has a base education, a love of teaching and
real intellectual curiosity. All the lesson plans are teacher-prepared
and that provides a lot of flexibility in the event, for instance,
you’re doing a lesson plan about spiders and there’s a thun-
derstorm outside that catches the kids’ attention. You’re
not locked in to staying with spiders. Kids learn
best in what their most interested in at the time.
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B y G a v r i e l l a M a h p o u r
In today’s fast-paced, tech-driven world,
savvy parents have turned to mobile apps
to entertain (read: occupy and distract)
children. However, apps can also serve as
learning tools. In the spirit of on-the-go
enrichment, we’ve come up with our top 15
educational apps for children.
General AppSesame Street’s The Playground: Can you tell
me how to get to Sesame
Street? Now everyone’s fa-
vorite place is easily acces-
sible via this kid-friendly app. Elmo must
catch a lost puppy in this fully illustrated
original Sesame Street story. The app in-
cludes a coloring book, Elmo’s Everyday
Words and Big Bird’s Big Ideas, which
teaches your little one new vocabulary.
Ages: 4 and up
Spelling AppsAlphabet Animals: This fully
animated,
interactive
app is perfect for toddlers who are just
beginning to learn their ABCs. Each letter
of the alphabet features a colorful animal
flashcard that moves and makes sounds.
Alphabet Animals is an easy way to teach
tots their letters, while monkey-ing around.
Ages: 3 and up
WordGirl Word Hunt: By
Scholastic Inc., this hunt
builds children’s vocabulary
skills in a new and exciting
way. In this creative app, evil villains have
taken over the city and your child must
save the day by collecting the correct words.
With 20 WordGirl stories and over 100
definitions to learn, this vocab tester is sure
to challenge. Ages: 4-8
Math AppsTally Tots: Teaches toddlers
how to count to 20 in an
easy-to-use format. Each
number is explained using
sound and animation. The number 7 is
introduced with a seven-layered sandwich,
the number 2, by two racecars speeding on
a racetrack. Guaranteed to keep little ones
occupied for hours! Ages: 3-6
Park Math: Teaches
pre-school through
first grade children
basic arithmetic skills,
like sequencing and
addition, via seven entertaining animal-
based games in the great outdoors. This
app features two stages of difficulty
(three for iPad users) so kids can play at
their own skill level. It also includes the
music of popular nursery rhymes like
“This Old Man” and “Here We Go Round
the Mulberry Bush.” Ages: 3-7
Writing AppsSuper Why!: Based on the
hit PBS kids show, this
versatile app includes a
variety of literacy games.
Kids can choose from
selections such as Wonder
Red’s Rhyming Time, in which Wonder
Red must find the missing rhyming words
from her basket, and Super Why’s Story
Saver, where children can help Super Why
select words that complete the sentences in
the story. Players are rewarded with virtual
stickers that can be collected in their very
own “sticker book.” Ages: 3-6
iWriteWords: Kids can
improve their handwrit-
ing with this unique
game. Using their finger
to trace the dotted lines
of 70 words and 20
numbers, iWriteWords enhances writing
skills and coordination. For added interac-
tive fun, turn your iOS device and watch
as the current word slides off the screen to
reveal the next one. Ages: 4 and up
Science Apps8 Planets Pro: Outer Space
never looked so good. 8
Planets Pro lets little scientists
explore space without leaving
the couch. They can choose
from an array of activities like
placing the planets in their
correct order and filling in the
missing letters in each planet’s name. Par-
ents can also view a report card detailing
their child’s “out of this world” progress.
Ages: 5 and up
National Geographic Kids: Introduce
your kids to the
worlds of natu-
ral science and
world culture.
Purchasing this app gains access to National
Geographic Kids magazine and its fascinat-
ing articles. But the fun doesn’t stop there!
Additionally, there are “weird-but-true
facts,” games, puzzles, jokes and quizzes for
the whole family. Ages: 6 and up
CliCk And leArn15 educational Apps That inspire
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History AppsAmerican Museum of Natural History’s Dinosaurs: Watch
dinosaurs come to life! In the
app’s Dinosaurs Mosaic sec-
tion, children can view more
than 800 images from the Mu-
seum’s extensive fossil archive.
Each photo includes informa-
tion about the paleontologist
who unearthed the fossil, as
well as facts about individual dinosaurs. In
the Stories section, kids can listen to tales
detailing even more dino-ventures. Ages:
8 and up
Revolutionary War: Com-
bining historic paintings,
multimedia presentations,
and first-hand accounts, this app takes kids
back in time to the days of the American
Revolution. A “revolutionary” new app
with sections like Causes of the War, Major
Battles and Events, and Myths and Stories,
there are also 200 biographies of the key
players. Plus, you and the kids won’t want
to miss your peek at the past reading letters
between John and Abigail Adams.
Ages: 12 and up
Foreign Language AppsGlobal RoosElementaryTranslation: A great
learning tool for children
who are becoming fa-
miliar with a second lan-
guage. The app features
10 fundamental phrases in 8 languages
including: French, German, Korean and
Sign Language. Budding linguists will be
able to learn key words like “hello,” “good-
bye,” “thank you,” and “friend.”
Ages: 4 and up
Immersive Spanish: This
app will have your child
speaking español in no
time. Advanced phonetic
spelling technology allows
students to learn the
proper pronunciation of
words and sentences. Im-
mersive Spanish is made up of progressive
units so kids advance at their own pace.
¡Perfecto! Ages: 5 and up
Five Websites For Worldly WisdomNick Jr. Boost: A new website from Nickelodeon where, for a small monthly member-ship fee, children can play fun, educational games. Featuring kids’ favorite Nick Jr. characters such as Dora and the Backyardigans, the games engage math, literacy, sci-ence, computer skills and more. Plus, there is a Parent Center where adults can check on (and encourage!) their children’s progress in each category. Ages: 3-6
TIME for Kids: The magazine’s website specifically designed for intellectually curious juniors. It features games and articles on national news and entertainment stories. There’s even a Homework Helper that provides educational links for children in subjects like sci-ence, math, social studies and language arts. Also, kids should check out the Writing Help section for tips on how to write top-notch papers. Ages: 7 and up
Wonderopolis: Children with curious minds will love Wonderopolis, a website founded by the National Center for Family Literacy, that answers head scratchers like, “How Do Dinosaurs Get Their Names?” and “How Can You Talk Without Speak-ing?” Every day features a new “wonder,” a short article on anything from history to government, from food to the weather. Ages: 7 and up
DOGO News: This website offers kid-friendly news articles on various topics like sports, the environment and international affairs. DOGO (meaning “young” in Swahili) provides an enrich-
ing platform for children to stay informed on the latest of the web in a safe, friendly environment. They can even post comments on the site’s monitored message board. Ages: 8 and up
Kids Post: Kids Post is The Washington Post’s youth news website where children can read up-to-date articles, play games, complete jigsaw puzzles and vote on polls. It is a terrific tool for school or a way for idle minds to pass some time with web enrichment. Ages: 8 and up
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Music & Music Theory Apps
Drum Circle Kids: A percussion game that allows youngsters to
bang on five instruments including the conga, Chinese drum and
Caribbean steel pan. Little ones can simply jam out to dozens of
sound combinations or touch each instrument to learn about
its history. They can also uncover ambient sounds hidden in the
scenery. Ages: 3 and up
Pianist: Your little one will thoroughly enjoy this music app that trans-
forms your iPhone into a full-size keyboard. Pianist features lifelike
graphics including keys that de-
press at the touch of a hand and
a metronome to keep track of the
rhythm. The best part? Kids can
record their own compositions
and play them back for all to hear.
Ages: 3 and up
BONUS APPS FOR PARENTSiKidNY: Parents can access tons of per-
tinent NYC info using this handy app.
Created by a New York City mother,
iKidNY offers directions and infor-
mation on indoor activities, outdoor
adventures, subway elevators and family
restaurants. Perfect for moms and dads
on-the-go!
MyCityWay: Designed to
make life a little easier by help-
ing parents locate the nearest
wireless hotspot areas, pur-
chase movie tickets and check
live traffic cams to ensure fast
traveling. With apps for cities
like New York, London and
Paris, this is a must-have guide
for busy urban families.
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Summers E N D
B y M a r i a R i l e y
No summer vacation feels complete with-
out a few great beach reads tucked in your
tote. Here’s our must-read short list with
something for parents, the little ones and
bookworms of any age.
QUIRKY. S’Mother: The Story of a Man, His Mom, and the Thousands of Alto-gether Insane Letters She’s Mailed Him
by Adam Chester takes a hilarious look at
a helicopter mom to the extreme. Ches-
ter welcomes readers into his world of
s’mothering by sharing handwritten notes
from his overeager mama and retelling
stories of teenage embarrassment.
HILARIOUS. A bedtime story exclusively
for grownups, Go the F--- To Sleep by
Adam Mansbach, challenges sleep-deprived
parents everywhere to lighten up and laugh
at themselves. Mansbach weaves tradi-
tional storytime illustrations with real-life
bedtime scenarios—kids fighting sleep and
parents fighting the urge to yell expletives
until they finally doze off.
INSPIRING. The Rhythm of Family: Discovering a Sense of Wonder Through the Seasons is the ultimate guide to liv-
ing a quieter lifestyle centered around
nature. Authors Amanda Blake Soule, the
SouleMama blogger, and Stephen Soule
explore a simpler way to raise a family and
embrace the natural world. Available in
bookstores this month!
PROVOCATIVE. Carolyn Evans shares
her relationship-salvaging techniques in
Forty Beads: The Simple, Sexy Secret for Transforming Your Marriage. This humor-
ous (albeit in-your-face) “manual” derives
from Evans’s first-hand experiences with
her own struggling mar-
riage. With chapters like,
“Sex or a Dark Chocolate
Dove Bar?” and “Hitting
the Reset Button” reading
Forty Beads feels more like
indulgence therapy.
CREEPY. Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children by Ransom Riggs just
hit the shelves earlier this summer. An
overnight success, this intriguing young
adult novel was named best book of the
month by Amazon. Sixteen-year-old Jacob
travels to a mysterious island off the coast
of Wales, uncovering frightening details
about children who occupied “the Home”
years before, including his own grand-
father. Vintage photography escalates its
haunting charm.
PASSIONATE. For all of you hopeless
romantics out there, The New York Times
bestselling author Jane Feather delivers
with her latest historical romance novel,
A Wedding Wager. 18th-Century London
creates the perfect backdrop for lovers in
turmoil, inheritance woes and family tur-
bulence. Readers are sure to devour every
bloody word.
GRIPPING. The Man in the Rockefeller Suit by Mark Seal, a Contributing Editor
for Vanity Fair, is a true-to-life page-turner.
This is the unbelievable story of a man
obsessed with having it all, madly craving
the American Dream to the tipping point
of obsession. As one review aptly describes
it, Seal captures the idiosyncrasies of “a
real-life Talented Mr. Ripley.”
TOUCHING. Award-winning journalist
Melissa Fay Greene opens her home and
candidly shares her story of raising a family
of nine children—five adopted from Bul-
garia and Ethiopia. No Biking in the House Without A Helmet is a light-hearted and
honest look at adoption, raising children
and defining family.
INTELLECTUAL. If you’re into pondering
the great mysteries of the mind, then you’ll
want to check out neuroscientist David
Eagleman’s Incognito: The Secret Lives of the Brain. Exploring the deep crevices of
brain function and subconscious thought,
Eagleman examines scientific research,
breaking down concepts in a way that every
reader can comprehend.
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Honey-Hoisin Marinated Skirt SteakSkirt steak is my favorite cut of beef – brawny, tender and relatively inexpensive. If you’re feeling ambitious, throw some chopped scallions and/or minced garlic into the marinade.
INGREDIENTS (Serves 3-5)1/3 cup Hoisin sauce2 TB soy sauce1 TB honey1/4 cup canola oilFreshly ground pepper to taste1 – 1.5 lbs. skirt steak, cut cross-wise into two or three piecesIn a glass baking dish, whisk together the Hoisin, soy sauce, honey, canola oil and freshly ground pepper. Place the steak in the marinade and turn to coat. Cover the dish with plastic wrap and refrigerate for up to 8 hours. If you get the chance during the day, turn over the steak pieces occasionally.An hour before grilling, remove the dish with the steak from the refrigerator.Preheat the grill or a stove-top grill pan. When the grill is hot, grill the steaks until medium-rare, about four minutes per side, depending on the steaks’ thickness. Transfer the steak to a cutting board and let it rest for 10 minutes loosely covered with foil. Slice and serve.
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Grilled Pork Tenderloin
For our first suburban sum-mer, the grilling aspirations were high. But by mid-June, my waistline started to resemble a hot dog. Enter pork tenderloin—healthy,affordable and fabulous.
INGREDIENTS (Serves 4)1 whole pork tenderloin, approximately 1 lb1 tsp dried thyme1 tsp dried rosemarySalt to tasteFreshly ground pepper to taste2 garlic cloves, mincedOlive oil
Season pork tenderloin liberally with thyme, rosemary, salt and pepper.
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Sweet & Spicy Mango Grilled ChickenThis sweet and spicy sauce came together in a snap during naptime and I let the chicken marinate in it all afternoon. I used fresh mangos from home and added some extra heat with chili powder and spicy ketchup.
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2 medium mangos, peeled and cubed4 garlic cloves, peeled1 tsp chili powder1/2 cup spicy ketchup1 pinch crushed red pepper flakes, if using non-spicy ketchup1 tsp kosher salt
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Grilled Zucchini Topping3 zucchinis1 1/2 cup firm mozzarella2 TB olive oil1 pinch salt1 pinch pepper1/2 red onion or shallot, thinly sliced2 TB parmesan, gratedDough
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B y M e l a n i e D o s t i sReady for one last hurrah before the summer season dwindles? The
Northeast is awash with fabulous end-of-summer events! From
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Maine Lobster Festival (August 3-7)This annual five-day claw fest boasts lobster eating contests, a little
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the coronation of the 2011 Sea Goddess and watch as her and King
Neptune, floats, drills and more march their way down Main Street
in the big parade. Rockland, ME, mainelobsterfestival.com.
Musikfest (August 5-14)As their website slings: “Musik + fest = awesome.” How can it not
be? It’s a 10-day music palooza! The historic Bethlehem district
will feature delicious eats, family fun and of course loads of ear
candy—most of which is free. This year’s spectacular line-up in-
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Also performing: Maroon 5, Train with Gavin DeGraw, and over 50
others! Bethlehem, PA, musikfest.org.
Curious George Cottage Family Festival (August 13-14)
Everyone’s favorite primate is ready to meet his doting fans. Delight
over storytime, explore nature trails, get crafty and munch on yum-
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your side! Little ones can also sing and dance to the Mango Groove
Steel Band and Vanessa Trien and the Jumping Monkeys. Other
event highlights include planetarium shows, rocket launching, a
mad science show plus a traveling barnyard. Don’t forget to visit the
Man with the Yellow Hat! Waterville Valley, NH, thereycenter.org.
Hong Kong Dragon Boat Festival In New York (August 13-14)Over 1,000 participants will row-row-row their (dragon) boats
at this annual festival. Win “oar” lose, this cultural and sporting
celebration guarantees fun with live performances and ethnic food
galore. Come rain or shine! Flushing, NY, hkdbf-ny.org.
Atlantic City Air Show (August 17)
For thrills at Atlantic City just look up as military and civilian pi-
lots perform heart-stopping maneuvers, formation flying and solo
routines. Catch performances and demonstrations by the U.S. Air
Force Thunderbirds, the U.S. Army Golden Knights, Super Hornet
and many more gravity-defying acts that will keep the whole family
mesmerized. Atlantic City, NJ, atlanticcitynj.com.
Pittston Tomato Festival (August 18-21)
Take a bite out of summer! Lap up all the delicious food, games
(bingo, anyone?) and rides, as well as live entertainment. Don pro-
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as you’d like or watch as little Mr. and Miss Tomato are crowned
for the parade. On an even juicier note, proceeds benefit local
charities. Pittston, PA, pittstontomatofestival.com.
Dutchess County Fair (August 23-28)During this jam-packed six-day fest, take a leisurely stroll through-
out the 162-acre fairgrounds. Complete with a craft tent, wildlife
exhibition and carnival, the whole family can catch performances
by country stars Kellie Pickler, Travis Tritt and legendary rockers
REO Speedwagon. Rhinebeck, NY, dutchessfair.com.
The Great New York State Fair (August 25-September 5)
For a final taste of summer, the mother of all fairs supplies every-
thing from a puppet parade to a petting zoo. Families can compete
in a talent showcase or even a flower show. For musical musings,
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Journey and Lady Antebellum. Syracuse, NY, nysfair.org.
American Folk Festival (August 26-28)
With four unique stages, this festival brings music, song, and
dance from all around the globe to Bangor. Purchase original
handcrafted items and savor dozens of ethnic foods (like alligator
bites and spanakopita). After getting your fill, stop by The Chil-
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Bangor, ME, americanfolkfestival.com.
Downtown Plymouth Waterfront Festival (August 27)
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For Moms (With The Kids)If little ones are in tow, look into a local branch of Stroller Strides—a
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For Moms (Without The Kids)Going solo? Give yourself a break Wednesday evenings (through
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For DadsGolf in the city is easier to find than you might have imagined.
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1. Looking and feeling great are the ultimate goals most want to achieve through exercise. Following those, you’ll find that setting a good example for kids is another reason to get in shape. Whatever the reason, a certified personal trainer can help you jumpstart the process.
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5. When planning your family budget, consider setting aside some of the “recreational” funds for a fitness stint. For the same price as your child’s semester of gymnastics, you can schedule some sessions with a trainer. Aim to have her create a custom-ized workout plan that she can teach you to perform on your own.
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For The Whole Family (With Young Children) Plan a weekly family outing to one of the city’s 54 public pools and
organize competitive races for your water babies. Or head out to
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August 20LET’S GO FLY A KITE[All Ages]Whether you’re stressed, bored, happy or just searching for some family fun, the solution is simple: Go fl y a kite! From 11am to 4pm, join NYC Parks for a day of soaring heights. The FlyNYC Festival will include workshops on the art of kite-making and the proper way to fl y those pa-per diamonds high. It will also feature live entertainment and activities to set the tone for a light-hearted, breezy afternoon. (Riverside Park South, Pier I at 70th Street, 212-360-1319, nycgovparks.org)
August 6SAND WARS[Ages 6+]Head on down to Coney Island to witness a scintillating sculpture show-down. The Sand Sculpting Contest, one of the highlights of the famed Brooklyn amusement park, returns to celebrate 21 years. The sandy beach will swell with pros and pails (plus amateurs) who will compete to create soaring edifi ces and characters. At the end of the day, see who walks away with the grand cash prize. Beyond sandy fun, this day boasts rocking live music and kiddie entertainers. There’s also loads of goofy people-watching to be had as participants dressed as mermaids and cartoon favorites parade about. The event runs from 12-5pm, con-test registration begins at 11am. (Coney Island Boardwalk and Beach, 718-266-4653, astelladevelopment.org)
August 6, 13, 20 DANCING IN THE STREETS[All Ages]Put on your fi tness face and get ready to make the most of those hum-drum August Saturdays. Experience the city like you never have before—sans traffi c! From 7am-1pm you can walk, bike, run, party and laugh along the Summer Streets route, which spans from the Brooklyn Bridge to the tip-top of Central Park. The route also includes the option to use a low-traffi c street to scoot over to the Hudson River Greenway, Harlem or Governors Island, so you can plan the length of your family’s open-air time as you wish. Get acquainted with green methods of city transporta-tion (a la biking) or just work your muscles and enjoy sunny summer mornings. (Foley Square Rest Stop, Chambers and Centre Street, 212-504-4115, nycgovparks.org)
August 11ALFRESCO BROADWAY[All Ages]The best part of Broadway musicals are, well, the musical bits! From 12:30 to 1:30pm, catch the on-pitch stylings from Mamma Mia!, Mary Poppins, Avenue Q, and Priscilla Queen of the Desert. Perfect for children (or adults) who may not have the attention span to sit through an entire performance, or for families who just want to get out and enjoy some (free) tunes in the fresh air. (Bryant Park, 212-768-4242, bryantpark.org)
August 11A CHORE THING[All Ages]Ever feel like you were born in the wrong era? Get a taste of the early 1800s at the Mount Vernon Hotel Museum. Learn how hotels operated some 200 years ago by completing chores the hotel staff had to do back in the day with the museum’s “touch collection.” If your kids tear past the domesticity without giving it a second thought, remind them that some youth had to do 19th Century-style cooking, cleaning and laundry every day! This family program is free for museum members. For non-museum members, it is $10 for adults and $2 for children under 12. (Mount Vernon Hotel Museum & Garden, 421 East 61st Street, 212-838-6878, mvhm.org)
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August 13 and 14LET’S BE CIVIL[Ages 5+]This year marks the 150th anniversary of the Civil War—so what better time than the present to refresh your noggin about the War Between the States? The National Park Service, in conjunction with living historians, will bring the past to living color for families at Gov-ernors Island. Don’t miss historical weapon demos, music and other family-friendly activities. Use the weekend to get better acquainted with the men and women of Governors Island and the members of the Confederate Army who were imprisoned there. (Governors Island, 212-825-3045, govisland.com)
Through August 19 MOVE OVER, DOROTHY [Ages 7+] TheaterWorksUSA presents The Wizard of Oz like you’ve never seen it before. “The Yellow Brick Road” is a salsa and meringue-infused
musical that tells the story of a modern Latin American teenager, Dora. Hedging away from her roots, Dora prefers to hang at the mall (oh, teens!) rather than respect her culture’s traditions. Showing that there’s “no place like home,” this magical journey sweeps Dora from her Quinceañera party to a strange new land where she and her new amigos must find La Maga while avoiding La Bruja’s devilish tricks. In order to return home, she must learn to embrace both sides of her cul-tural identity. Free tickets are available at the theater on a first come, first serve basis beginning one hour before the day’s first performance. (Lucile Lortel Theatre, 121 Christopher Street, 800-497-5007, theatreworksusa.org)
August 20-21HOLLER AT HARLEM[All Ages]On Saturday, August 20, as part of Harlem Week, the Greater Harlem Chamber of Commerce will host Summer in the City—an all-day fair celebrating the community. Throughout the day there will be dancing, live music, food, games and arts & crafts. There will also be youth swimming demonstrations, a Black College Expo, and vendors selling jewelry, clothing and sculptures. The day concludes with an Outdoor Film Showcase at St. Nicholas Park. The following day (Sunday, August 21), the festivities continue with Harlem Day. Catch an inter-national music concert, an adult fashion show and a film tribute to the late-great screen icon, Lena Horne. (Various locations throughout Harlem, 212-862-8477, harlemweek.com)
August 27AN OVERHEAD SMASH[All Ages]Start off the biggest tennis tournament of the year with the pros at Arthur Ashe Kids’ Day! From 9:30am-12:30pm there will be free tennis matches, live music and attractions throughout the grounds. In the afternoon, Arthur Ashe Stadium will come alive with just-for-fun exhibition matches and skills competitions with Andy Roddick, Kim Clijsters, Novak Djokovik and other tennis stars and celebrities. All ages and skill levels will be accommodated—The Hess Express Obsta-cle Course will challenge kids to test their agility, balance, running and tennis skills, while USTA Serves Tennis Skills is designed especially for very young children or those with disabilities. And if you get all tennis-ed out, take a break with face painting, hair braiding, juggling and plate spinning, player meet-and-greets and balloon artists. (USTA Bil-lie Jean King National Tennis Center, Flushing Meadows Corona Park near 111th Street and 49th Avenue, 718-595-2420, usopen.org)
Through End of SeptemberBUILD A GORILLA[All Ages]LEGOs have taken over the Bronx Zoo! The Wildlife Conservation Soci-ety and LEGO have teamed up to create The Great Summer Zoofari: A LEGO Wildlife Expedition, an initiative designed to connect visitors to endangered wildlife in a fun and creative way. The Zoo is cur-rently exhibiting life-sized animal replicas made out of LEGOs. These sculptures are displayed alongside their real-life counterparts; pink
flamingos by the Pheasant Aviary (standing in water!), a giant, sculpted gorilla next to the Congo Gorilla For-est. The Zoo will provide a “Passport” to Zoofari par-ticipants, which will guide them through the exhibit. Children can also help LEGO Master Builders construct a huge Mystery Mural in the Dancing Crane Pavilion. (Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Boulevard, Bronx,718-367-1010, bronxzoo.com)
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TheaTers andPerformancescobble hill cinemas Beginning August 12, catch Sarah’s Key, about a journalist (Kristin Scott Thomas) who uncovers the shocking story of a Jewish family during the Holocaust. The film may not be appropriate for younger kids, but the older set and parents can appreciate the historical aspect. 265 Court Street, Brooklyn, 718-596-9113, cobblehilltheatre.com.
lincoln cenTerOn August 6, families can jam to the urban folk music of Tres Leches. The creative trio appeals to all ages. The David Rubenstein Atrium, Broadway at 62nd Street, 212-875-5456, lincolncenter.org.
PuPPeTworks The classic tale of “Little Red Riding Hood” will steal the stage on August 6, 7, 27 and 28. The show is appropriate for ages 3 & up. 338 Sixth Av-enue, Brooklyn, 718-965-3391, puppetworks.org.
skirball cenTer forThe Performing arTsThis NYU-based cultural center will shake and shimmy on August 13 with Blaze the Stage. The show will spotlight hip-hop and R&B acts of BET/106 & Park fame, and will include special appearances from Blind Fury and Travis Porter. 566 LaGuardia Place, 212-352-3101, skirballcenter.nyu.edu.
symPhony sPaceOn August 6 and 28, Symphony Space will present The Kid/A Dog’s Life in high-definition. See just how fun and timeless Charlie Chaplin slapstick is with newfound picture clarity. Peter Jay Sharpe Theatre, 2537 Broadway at 95th Street, 212-864-5400, symphonyspace.org.
ViTal TheaTre comPanyPinkalicious can’t control the urge to eat pink cupcakes, and her indulgence lands her at the
doctor’s office. Weekends through August 28, families can laugh (and wince) with Pinkalicious as she struggles to fight pink fever. The Union Square Theatre, 100 East 17th Street,pinkaliciousthemusical.com.
showsToPPersfor kidsfor all agesgazillion bubble showThis high-impact show features light effects, lasers and, of course, millions of bubbles, large and small, to create a dazzling production. For tickets, call 212-239-6200. New World Stages, 340 West 50th Street.
John TarTaglia’s imaginoceanA live black-light puppet show chronicles the undersea adventures of aquatic friends Tank, Bubbles and Dorsel. For tickets, call 212-239-6200 or visit telecharge.com. New World Stages, 340 West 50th Street.
mary PoPPinsThe Supernanny takes to the stage in this hit musical by Disney. For tickets, call 212-307-4747 or visit ticketmaster.com. New Amster-dam Theatre, 214 West 42nd Street.
The lion kingDisney’s blockbuster movie on Broadway is a combination of puppetry, actors and special effects–a truly magical experience. For tickets, call 212-307-4747 or visit ticketmaster.com. Minskoff Theatre, 200 West 45th Street.
for ages 8 and uPcaTch me if you canFollow con artist Frank Abagnale as he passes for an airline pilot, a doctor and a lawyer, but is hunted by an FBI agent. For tickets, call 212- 757-8646 or visit ticketmaster.com. Neil Simon
Theatre, 250 West 52nd Street.
mamma mia!There’s not much to the simple plot about a woman finding her real father as she prepares to wed, but ABBA’s tunes keep the feet tap-ping. For tickets, call 212-239-6200 or visit telecharge.com. Winter Garden Theatre, 1634 Broadway.
sisTer acTYou’ll laugh and cheer as Disco queen Deloris transforms a convent’s drab choir into a glamorous singing sensation. For tickets, call 212-239-6200 or visit telecharge.com. The Broadway Theatre, 1681 Broadway.
The addams familyWatch and laugh as this kooky, beloved clan sings and dances its way around confusion. For tickets, call 212-575-9200 or visit ticketmaster.com. Lunt-Fontanne Theatre, 205 West 46th Street.
wickedThe Wicked Witch of the West finally commands the spotlight. For tickets, call 212-307-4100 or visit ticketmaster.com. Gershwin Theatre, 222 West 51st Street.
for Tweensbilly ellioTA funny and heartwarming musical about a boy with a dream and a talent for dance, with a musical score written by Elton John. For tickets, call 212-239-6200, or visit telecharge.com. Imperial Theatre, 249 West 45th Street.
The book of mormonFrom the creators of “South Park,” this religious musical satire tells the story of two young Mor-mons who travel to Northern Uganda to spread the gospel. For tickets, call 212-239-6200 or visit telecharge.com. Eugene O’Neill Theatre, 230 West 49th Street.
The PhanTom of The oPeraThe longest-running show in Broadway history delivers mystery, love and heartbreak. For tick-ets, call 212-239-6200 or visit telecharge.com. Majestic Theatre, 247 West 44th Street.
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museums andattractions american museumof natural HistoryMore than 200 live frogs, from the tiny golden Mantella frog to the enormous African bullfrog, are featured in “Frogs: A Chorus of Colors.” Central Park West and 79th Street, 212-769-5100, amnh.org.
Bronx ZooKids will go wild for “Madagascar!” Visit wild-life—lemurs, cockroaches and crocs—from the world’s 4th largest island. 2300 Southern Bou-levard, Bronx, 718-220-5100, bronxzoo.com.
Brooklyn cHildren’s museumOn August 12, enjoy “Flamenco Vivo” with Car-lota Santana, a performance that upholds the purity and traditions of classical Spanish dance while pushing the art form’s boundaries. 145 Brooklyn Avenue, Brooklyn, 718-735-4402, brooklynkids.org.
cHildren’s museumof tHe artsFor the rest of the summer, check out CMA’s Free Art Island Outpost on Governors Island ev-ery Friday-Sunday. Don’t miss the animation & film lab in the Our Lady of the Sea Chapel. 182 Lafayette Street, 212-274-0986, cmany.org.
cHildren’s museumof manHattanOn August 27, meet costumed character Curi-ous George at 11am, 2pm or 3:30pm. 212 West 83rd Street, 212-721-1234, cmom.org.
el museo del Barrio El Barrio Today Arts Cluster invites you to come explore their eclectic neighborhood. Highlights include the Graffiti Wall of Fame, Julia de Burgos Boulevard and local murals. Saturdays from 11:30am-1:00pm. 1230 Fifth Avenue, 212-831-7272, elmuseo.org.
GuGGenHeim museumOn August 14, join the Guggenheim for “Flat and Fat.” Age-appropriate discussion will ac-company perusing flat (2-D) and fat (3-D) works around the museum. 1071 Fifth Avenue, 212-423-3500, guggenheim.org.
intrepid sea, air& space museum August 7 is Coast Guard Appreciation Day; get hands-on Search and Rescue demonstrations. On August 20 and 21, come for Police Appre-ciation Day. Meet members of the department, including the Scuba team and Canine unit. Pier 86, 12th Avenue and 46th Street, 877-957-SHIP, intrepidmuseum.org.
liBerty science centerOn Sundays in August, visit the “One World,
One Sky: Big Bird’s Adventure” and take an imaginary trip to the moon with Big Bird, Elmo, and Elmo’s friend from China, Hu Hu Zhu. Liberty State Park, 222 Jersey City Boulevard, Jersey City, 201-200-1000, lsc.org.
tHe metropolitanmuseum of artBeginning August 30, The Met will debut the “9/11 Peace Story Quilt” Exhibit. In collaboration with New York City students, the quilt poignantly conveys the importance of cross-cultural and religious communication to achieve peace. 1000 Fifth Avenue, 212-535-7710, metmuseum.org.
tHe morGan liBraryand museumEvery Saturday in August from 2-4pm, the drop-in program “Colors a la Cart” invites families to explore a collection of natural dye sources as well as centuries-old dyeing recipes. 225 Madi-son Avenue, 212-685-0008, themorgan.org.
museum of tHecity of new yorkOn August 13 at 2pm, families can design their own building, inspired by the architecture of America’s past at the “American Style: Family Workshop.” 1220 Fifth Avenue at 103rd Street, 212-534-1672, mcny.org.
new york aquariumVisit the Touch Pool where children can touch sea stars and horseshoe crabs while talking with volunteers about sea life. 602 Surf Avenue, Brooklyn, 718-265-34l74, nyaquarium.com.
new york Botanical GardenKids can learn how flowers become fruits in
the Everett Children’s Adventure Garden. Cre-ate a pollinator puppet and pot a plant! 2900 Southern Boulevard, Bronx, 718-817-8700, nybg.org.
new york Hall of scienceForge family fun through do-it-yourself projects and design-based challenges featured at the Maker Days on August 6-7 and August 20-21. 47-01 111th Street, Queens, 718-699-0005, nyscience.org.
new york police museum Celebrate the 100th Anniversary of the Mo-torcycle Squad! The NYPD exhibit will feature vintage department-used motorcycles, including a late 1940s-model classic Red Indian Motor-cycle. 100 Old Slip between Walter Street and South Street, 212-480-3100, nycpm.org.
ripley’s Believe it or not!Watch out for a Transformer invasion! Ripley’s Times Square is receiving a new Transformer ex-hibit—statues made from recycled car and truck parts. 234 West 42nd Street, 212-398-3133, ripleysnewyork.com.
ruBin museum of artExplore Chinese culture at “Quentin Roosevelt’s China: Ancestral Realms of the Naxi.” Features 40-foot long painted scrolls, pictograph-filled manuscript pages and interactive stations where kids can follow the path a young Quentin Roo-sevelt took when he journeyed to Lijiang, China in 1939. Kids can create their own messages using the Naxi pictographic script. 150 West 17th Street, 212-620-5000, rmanyc.org.
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T H E W O R DastL
B Y D A R C Y L O C K M A NNot so long ago, when my daughter was 16 months old, she
began swinging her hand at my face as I nursed her. Purposefully, I
thought. Pointedly. She smacked me once, and then again, turning
her eyes up toward mine and grinning in that devilish way she did
when she cruised over to the TV and held out her hand as if to touch
its fl at screen. Her father and I had been encouraging her to keep her
hands off. “No touching the TV, Liv,” we’d say sternly. “Do you want
a time out?” She’d giggle and say “No,” shaking her head so emphati-
cally that her curls bobbed. But she usually touched the set anyway.
A “time out” meant sixty seconds on the couch. We weren’t
sure she was able to make sense of the concept yet, though it felt
like something we should’ve known, given that we are both psy-
chologists. In grad school, where we met, we studied psychoanalyt-
ic theory, which has a lot to say about the emotional development
of children, but less about learning theory tactics like negative pun-
ishment. I Googled “time out” but the results were mixed. What I
couldn’t look up was how to resolve the inner confl ict about my
baby hitting me: I didn’t like being struck, but if I stopped her was
I communicating that it wasn’t okay to express her ambivalent feel-
ings toward me?
I presented my dilemma to my friend, Megan, who is not a psy-
chologist and doesn’t have children. “Well you don’t want her hitting
other kids, right? She’s got to learn.” Megan was always so reasonable.
I nodded, but secretly wasn’t sure that even the gentle blows deliv-
ered to her pre-school classmates were problematic, at least until she
had the vocabulary to put the feelings behind hitting into words.
I ran my ideas by a supervisor I sometimes work with—more
than a little abashed to be bringing up my personal concerns—but
I thought another psychologist would understand. “Try telling her
‘that hurts Mommy,’” he suggested. Empathy? His kids were older.
That probably worked with them.
Some time went by and my daughter started physical therapy;
at 18 months she still wasn’t walking independently. She’d stroll
long distances but slowly, and always holding my fi nger. “I think
she’s just scared,” her therapist told me. “Start pulling your hand
away.” She might as well have told me to throw my baby girl into a
swimming pool, or to pretend to abandon her on the subway. My
hand, I thought, if whisked away without warning, might impede
her ability to trust. How could I do that to my child, who I loved to
the moon and back?
“It’s just the fi rst of a series of things you’ll have to do that will
seem mean but are for her own good,” my mother said to me in a
singsong voice on the phone. I held back the fi rst thing that came
to mind, which was biting and had to do with her apparent wish to
justify all the not-nice things she’d done to me as a child. They were
only to promote your growth. I’d learned long ago, and many times
over, that my mother was not comfortable with my ambivalence.
Talking about my daughter with her often felt loaded.
My therapist and I shared a laugh about my mom’s comment.
Her offi ce was the place I needed to be airing my idiosyncratic
parenting concerns. I thought they were the worries of one who
is (perhaps overly) informed, when really they were rooted in my
own experiences of being mothered, by someone who wasn’t as
thoughtful about her parenting as I would’ve liked.
In the end, I decided to stop my daughter from swinging her
little hand at me. “No hitting,” I’d say. She kept trying anyway.
Darcy Lockman is a clinical psychologist in practice in New York
City. Her memoir about training to be a therapist will be published by
Doubleday in 2012.
A Psychologist Talks ThroughHer Unexpected Parenting Dilemma
H HIN SEARCH OF A
My hand…if whisked awaywithout warning, mightimpede her ability to trust.
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