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NORTH FLORIDA AREA AL-ANON / ALATEEN NEWSLETTER PANEL 52 The Legacy North Florida Area Website: www.northfloridaal-anon.org Chairperson: Wendy R. SERVICE UNITY RECOVERY Nov-Dec 2012 Volume-49/ Issue 4 TREASURER: CINDY J. Dear Family, Thank you to all who attended this past Assembly! We so appreciate your service to Al-Anon and the North Florida Area. Exciting things are happening! We have a new District 13, Venice to Punta Gorda, Sarasota County. They will now join North Florida Area #9. We will welcome them at AWSC and Assembly 2013. Our task and thought forces continue to work on Alateen, Position and Event Guidelines, AWSC Inventory and other issues that involve our Area and membership. We handed out the Area inventory at our past Assembly and our Inventory task force will compile the responses to share at Spring 2013 Assembly. Your opinions and ideas are im- portant to us, and we are always looking for ways to improve and to make the Assembly experience (business of Al-Anon) as well commu- nicated, rewarding and interesting as possible (attraction not promotion!) As always I am humbled to be a trusted servant participating in a “group conscience” that is always seeking the best for our fellowship. My personal growth is always en- hanced when I take an active part in the growth of Al-Anon. Love in Service, Wendy R. North Florida Chairperson AFG Panel 52 "Communicate Recovery!" Thank you all for a wonderful Fall Assembly. I really appreciate your attention, your questions and your support! As we go back to our Districts and our Groups, with a Budget approved for 2013 here are some questions to pon- der. As you come up with answers, please share them with me! What can I do to help illumi- nate the service structure and show how these voluntary contri- butions are necessary to the future of Al-Anon as a whole? Do I need more information about how any particular part of the Budget works? What are my Group’s biggest concerns about money? Are there misunderstandings at the personal, Group and Dis- trict Level that the Area Treasurer can help untangle? FINANICAL PERSPECTIVE: LOOKING AHEAD Some of the budget items we will be discussing and working with at the upcoming AWSC and beyond include: NFA Guidelines for Reim- bursements NFA organization of Hospi- tality at AWSC and Assembly Generating interest and en- thusiasm for SPOP (Special Public Outreach Projects) Making time and procedures to deal with the business side of North Florida Area. MY PERSPECTIVE: REACHING IN AND REACHING OUT Reaching in – to me this is about con- necting with individual members, Groups and Districts so that people feel connected to the Area and sup- ported by the Area. Are the reports getting back? Is the free literature get- ting distributed? Do Groups know about the various projects and re- sources that are available? How can we make this reaching in process more meaningful and worthwhile to our members? Reaching out – this is where we prac- tice Step 12 and Tradition 5 by taking our recovery and our program to those who are not members but who suffer the effects of someone else’s drinking. How can we support the efforts of individuals, Groups and Dis- tricts as they reach out in their geo- graphic locations? How can we make our Area meetings more accessible? Are there new ways of doing things that are in harmony with our Lega- cies? Do I carry the message by feel- ing the support and connection to Area (and through Area to WSO)? People are the point. Whether the people are our members, or whether they are people who still suffer with- out recovery. Our financial resources are really here to support the connec- tive process of Step 12 and Tradition 5 … where we try to carry the message to others, and practice these princi- ples in all our affairs. Call me, email me, text me. I want to hear from you. I want to help! Cindy J. NFA Panel 52, Area Treasurer 1700 N. Monroe Street, Suite 11-120 Tallahassee, FL 3303 NFAtreasurer @ live.com
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NORTH FLORIDA AREA AL-ANON / ALATEEN NEWSLETTER PANEL 52

The Legacy

North Florida Area Website: www.northfloridaal-anon.org

Chairperson:

Wendy R.

SERVICE

UNITY

RECOVERY

Nov-Dec 2012

Volume-49/ Issue 4

TREASURER: CINDY J.

Dear Family,

Thank you to all who attended this

past Assembly! We so appreciate your

service to Al-Anon and the North

Florida Area.

Exciting things are happening! We

have a new District 13, Venice to

Punta Gorda, Sarasota County. They

will now join North Florida Area #9.

We will welcome them at AWSC and

Assembly 2013.

Our task and thought forces continue

to work on Alateen, Position and

Event Guidelines, AWSC Inventory

and other issues that involve our

Area and membership.

We handed out the Area inventory at

our past Assembly and our Inventory

task force will compile the responses

to share at Spring 2013 Assembly.

Your opinions and ideas are im-

portant to us, and we are always

looking for ways to improve and to

make the Assembly experience

(business of Al-Anon) as well commu-

nicated, rewarding and interesting as

possible (attraction not promotion!)

As always I am humbled to be a

trusted servant participating in a

“group conscience” that is always

seeking the best for our fellowship.

My personal growth is always en-

hanced when I take an active part in

the growth of Al-Anon.

Love in Service,

Wendy R. North Florida Chairperson AFG Panel 52 "Communicate Recovery!"

Thank you all for a wonderful Fall Assembly. I really appreciate your attention, your questions and your support!

As we go back to our Districts and our Groups, with a Budget approved for 2013 here are some questions to pon-der. As you come up with answers, please share them with me!

What can I do to help illumi-nate the service structure and show how these voluntary contri-butions are necessary to the future of Al-Anon as a whole?

Do I need more information about how any particular part of the Budget works?

What are my Group’s biggest concerns about money?

Are there misunderstandings at the personal, Group and Dis-trict Level that the Area Treasurer can help untangle?

FINANICAL PERSPECTIVE: LOOKING AHEAD Some of the budget items we will be discussing and working with at the upcoming AWSC and beyond include:

NFA Guidelines for Reim-bursements

NFA organization of Hospi-tality at AWSC and Assembly

Generating interest and en-thusiasm for SPOP (Special Public Outreach Projects)

Making time and procedures to deal with the business side of North Florida Area.

MY PERSPECTIVE: REACHING IN AND REACHING OUT Reaching in – to me this is about con-

necting with individual members, Groups and Districts so that people feel connected to the Area and sup-ported by the Area. Are the reports getting back? Is the free literature get-ting distributed? Do Groups know about the various projects and re-sources that are available? How can we make this reaching in process more meaningful and worthwhile to our members?

Reaching out – this is where we prac-tice Step 12 and Tradition 5 by taking our recovery and our program to those who are not members but who suffer the effects of someone else’s drinking. How can we support the efforts of individuals, Groups and Dis-tricts as they reach out in their geo-graphic locations? How can we make our Area meetings more accessible?

Are there new ways of doing things that are in harmony with our Lega-cies? Do I carry the message by feel-ing the support and connection to Area (and through Area to WSO)? People are the point. Whether the people are our members, or whether they are people who still suffer with-out recovery. Our financial resources are really here to support the connec-

tive process of Step 12 and Tradition 5 … where we try to carry the message to others, and practice these princi-ples in all our affairs. Call me, email me, text me. I want to hear from you. I want to help! Cindy J. NFA Panel 52, Area Treasurer 1700 N. Monroe Street, Suite 11-120 Tallahassee, FL 3303 NFAtreasurer @ live.com

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P A G E 2 T H E L E G A C Y

delegate:

Terry K.

When I was first in Al-Anon I’d occa-sionally hear the Group Representa-tive talk about something called Conference. I didn’t pay much atten-tion then, but now that I’m your

trusted servant at the World Service Conference, I have a slightly different view! Here’s how it came about and how it works. As Dr. Bob fell ill, Bill began to worry about the future of the AA fellowship. He feared that newer members might dilute the program that had been so

successful. At the time AA was guided by a General Service Board. Bill worried that the board might become disconnected from the groups. Bill’s answer was a General Service Conference. As Al-Anon grew, we faced the same problems. By this time the Clearing-house had become the World Service

Office. Lois suggested a Conference for us. Up until that time, anything that needed deciding was either left to the World Service Office, or was forwarded to all the groups to decide. This had worked when there were fewer groups, but we’d long out-grown the process. In 1960, 400 Al-Anon members, attending the AA convention in Long Beach Califor-nia approved plans for a conference

fashioned after AA’s General Service Conference. It was to be made up of Delegates from the areas, the Board of Directors, Advisory Board and members of the WSO staff. There is always a ratio of 2/3 +1 delegates to all other members of the conference. The first World Service Conference was held in 1961. One-third of the Areas sent Delegates. A second Third

was added the next year and the last group was added in 1963. Each “Panel” would last for three years, so there’d be some “long timers” around to help the newcomers. Florida was admitted to the confer-ence as one Area. Well not really one geographical area, because the

western part of the panhandle, which was in the central time zone, had been made part of Alabama, when AA set up their areas. So of course we followed AA’s lead.

I always say that the service structure of Al-Anon is an upside down pyra-mid. Everything else is there to sup-port the groups.

Groups were to be the basic building block on top - “the Boss” of Al-Anon.

The groups made their wishes known through area Assemblies.

Once a year a World Service Conference would meet to discuss ideas and problems and bring forward questions by the groups at Assemblies.

In between Assemblies, Dis-trict meetings would allow the groups to handle local situations.

And here’s the real key: each level is a group conscious, where the ultimate authority is a Loving

God. The World Service Conference is the largest group conscious but it’s done in the same spirit as the group con-scious you have in your home group. Terry K. Panel 52

ALT. Delegate:

Shelley C.

Hello North Florida!

As your Forum Coordinator, I am ask-ing for your help. Group Representa-tives (GRs), how have you, as the

Forum Representative for your group, encouraged readership and subscrip-tions? In Al-Anon our strength has always been to reason things out and share our experience. I am sure there are groups and GRs in North Florida who have been very successful with this challenge. Those who still strug-gle would like to hear your strength

and hope. Please send me your ideas so I can share them with the rest! As of April 2012 there were 1.6 subscrip-tions per group in the state of Florida. That means for every two groups, on-

ly three members subscribe. How can we work together to help the Forum continue to be the voice of the fellow-ship? Here are a few ideas that I found on the Forum Coordinator’s e-community:

Base a meeting each week on a

sharing from The Forum.

Pass a basket around for dona-

tions. When you have $11, draw a name and give that person a subscrip-tion.

Collect or purchase old Forums

and include them in newcomer packets.

Invite the Alternate Delegate, me!,

to conduct a Forum writing work-shop.

Buy extra Forums and sell them to

members in the group. After the above request for ideas in my original report for Assembly, I was soooo excited to receive more great ideas from YOU! I will still report on any additional ideas I receive from our strong membership, so please con-tinue to send them in. Here are more

ways you can encourage readership and writings to the Forum magazine in your groups and districts:

The Forum is placed on the

monthly District meeting agenda. The Alternate District Representative gives a plug for the Forum at the beginning

of very District meeting. The District Representative brings a copy of the most recent Forum to the District meeting and members read various Forum articles, especially the articles written on the Tradition and Concept of the month.

Place paid membership subscrip-

tions in raffle baskets for special events in the District such as Gratitude Dinner, Day of Workshops, etc.

Hold a group conscience to

approve a drawing for a free subscrip-tion quarterly.

A member shares: “I chaired a

meeting from an article in the January

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2010 Forum titled "Lessons to learn from a penny - my Al-Anon token", page 6. I let everyone pick a penny out of the container (I had carefully picked pennies dated over many

years). It was amazing how our "Higher Power" selected just the right penny for each one. I read the article and then asked each member to reflect on the date on the penny regarding their life and then to share how the program had helped them in their recovery. The last paragraph in the article stated, "Now, whenever I see a penny and pick it up, I get more than a day's luck. I put a little bit of

program into my pocket."

Bring the latest Forum to the

group and mention the subscription form in the back. Provide extra copies of the subscription form on the litera-ture table.

At group meetings pass around a

copy of the Forum Sharing Sheet to encourage members to share in writ-ing, by e-mail, or on-line

At a District meeting the Al-Anon

Information Service Liaison (AISL) read an article from the October 2012 issue of The Forum, page 27, "Congratulations to all the groups!" by the WSO Group Records Coordinator. She thanked the Group Records Chair-person for an excellent job in keeping records up-to-date and shared that

the magazine is full of articles relating to service in the program since the Conference Theme is "Our Spiritual Journey - We Get As We Give."

I encourage you to choose just one of

these ideas to implement in your

group or district. Then let me know

how it goes!

Love in Service, Shelley C. Alternate Delegate Panel 52 N FL Communicate Recovery

Alateen:

Bobbi M.

Hope all of you enjoyed our Fall Assembly as much as I did. It’s always good for me to see familiar faces, and

great to see new ones too! Did everyone get a notice that there were Alateen members in attendance? Thank you for coming “teens,” and thank you to those that brought them

~ Keep Coming Back!

Communication is surely a good mot-to for our Panel 52. After Assembly’s acceptance of District “130” of South Florida Area to join North Florida Area

on a trial basis the phone calls and emails are on going. World Service Office has been contacted for guid-ance with regard to record pro-cessing. District “130” has shared that it is their choice to be District 13 in name. Contact has been made with “District 13’s” District Representative and Alateen Chair; we are in the plan-ning of a schedule for record ex-change. Thank you to neighboring

Districts who have volunteered to schedule training/orientation sessions for “District 13” members to attend. More on this venture as it comes about, and welcome to our new

District!

Saying this again, I continue to be educated by E-communities, the World Service Office site for Area Officers, Coordinators, and District Officers. Recently E-community opened up a site which allows our District Representatives to view their District only Al-Anon Member In-volved in Alateen (AMIAS) members as well as any registered Alateen

groups in their own Districts. The Ar-ea Delegate, Area Alateen Process Person (AAPP), and Area Alateen Coordinator will be able to view all Districts information ~ How exciting is this!! The site is still under construc-

tion, and is a “read only” site.

If you haven’t visited our North Flori-da Area web site please consider do-ing so. Districts, who have plans of training/orientation sessions, please post your news; please no “personal” information such as phone number, or home addresses. Plans are under-way to post questions of what “your” District does and is doing to “communicate” the program of

Alateen to your community, and with-

in your Districts.

The Alateen TASK Force continues it assigned project of background checking for our Al-Anon Member Involved in Alateen Service (AMIAS) members. Thank you to this commit-

tee for your willingness to share your information and knowledge. Let it be known, any District who wants fur-ther information on this, please con-

tact me.

Thank you all for allowing me to serve you, your District, and most of all, thank you Alateen for being here for

me as I am for you.

Love in Service,

Bobbi M. Panel 52

NFA09 Area Alateen Coordinator

Newsletter

“The Legacy”:

Janet o.

Hello North Florida,

I thoroughly enjoyed the Fall

Assembly and look forward to wel-

coming our new District 13 at AWSC

next year. Area business was com-

pleted in a timely manner, as well as,

efficiently. However, I’m still asking

the same question: Are your groups

getting and reading “The Legacy” newsletter? Your groups need the

information coming from our current

Area Panel 52, as well as, information

that is reported from our Delegate to

the World Service Office. Ask your

Group Representative to get a copy

from your District Representative.

Members. Group Representatives

can also download and print “The Legacy” off the North Florida Area

webs i te ( www.northf lo r idaal -

anon.org) under the Legacy heading.

Your trusted servant,

Janet O.

Newsletter Coordinator

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P A G E 4 T H E L E G A C Y

Public

Outreach:

Ann Q.

Let’s fill that empty chair! Recently I visited a Trauma hospital with a friend who had an accident. Alcoholism was very apparent in

some of those who were suffering in the facility. Wow! What a great place to leave our literature. Yes, the people in the Emergency room and Intensive Care staff loved the literature, and the nursing staff on the floors enjoyed the Referral pads too. Keep sharing Al-Anon wherever HP sends you. When they do arrive, do we welcome newcomers?

1. Have a regular greeter in the

group. 2. Set aside a Welcome Home Chair

for them.

A pillowcase fits over the back of a chair. Be colorful. Create an exciting welcome message. Decorate your chair with signs, slo-gans, steps, etc. 3. Most groups give Beginners pack-

ets. 4. Some groups even give them a

book. How does your group say Welcome Home?

What do alcohol, suicide, substance abuse, and bullying have in common? Go to www.samhsa.gov then click to the home page and treatment loca-tors. To my surprise within 10 miles of my house there are 20 facilities and

within 25 miles there are 45 treatment centers. November is the month to focus on National Strategies for Sui-cide Prevention, health reform etc. December is one of the hardest months for Alcoholic families. ACOA’s

will tell you stories of their holidays, just ask them. Be courageous—leave literature @ Hospitals, doctors offices, counselor’s

offices, newspapers and your libraries. These places are fertile ground for Public Outreach activities. What’s your district’s Public Outreach Project? Tell me, I love to brag so keep me updated. As I read the reports from each District, I realized a small summation might reinforce us and give us ideas as we share our achieve-ments. Al-Anons visit libraries, schools,

health fairs, churches, jails, newspaper offices, YMCAs, treatment centers, AA meetings, bus stops, etc. with enthusi-asm and literature. How about you? Our Thought Force for Public Out-reach appreciates your other PO ideas! If you have any ideas that are different—and you are able to “ think outside the box” let us know your ide-

as. Ideas that were generated and are being investigated – literature for Bike week, focusing on getting referral pads to counselors in the VA hospi-tals, ads on billboards, ads on bus stops, educating teachers just to name a few of the 15+ ideas. PO Thought Force--Ann Q (7), Cham B (6 )., Sue M ( 11 ), Rod C (1), Michel S ( 10), Freddi T (GIP 6) & Nancy G FROG--- Fully Relying On God,

Ann Q., Your NFA P.O.

Welcome- we have been saving chair for you.

WebSITE:

Shelly F.

In recent years the internet has

changed the way we do a lot of

things. It has become natural for peo-

ple to search for goods and services

online. Maintaining our website’s visi-

bility high in the top 3-5 search results

ensures that people will find us easily.

The next time you are on the internet,

just for fun, type your city and “Al-

Anon” into the address bar and see

what the new person at your meeting

would find. It never hurts to put your-

self in the newcomer’s shoes every

once in a while to see where you

stand. People come to our district and area

websites for many different reasons,

and they arrive from a variety of

sources. But once they find us, what

are they looking for? How do they

know they are in the right place?

Does what we have to say make any

sense to them? Satisfying all of this

uncertainty in the few seconds that a

first time visitor affords us is quite a

challenge.

Online communication is not like the

face-to-face interaction taking place at

our meetings. Although by reading

the experience, strength and hope of

members who have been where they

are, visitors are likely to identify what

they are feeling. Incorporating articles

from The Forum into our area website

may prove to validate why they are

reaching out for help. By attraction we

may compel others to take action and

get to a meeting.

How can you take action? I am glad

you asked. We need someone

who’s willing to make this happen; to

read the monthly Forum magazine or

check the articles published on the

WSO members’ site and then cut and

paste a selection into the WordPress

editor. It can be done once a month

or at your own pace, as long as the

chosen article is reprintable with WSO

permission. Come be a part of our

wonderful Web Team!

Of course you can also be the person sharing your unique experience with The Forum. Go to www.al -anon.alateen.org/members/sharingsheets.php for more information on how to submit your thoughts. Whichever

way you communicate your recovery, whenever “anyone, anywhere reaches out for help, let the hand of Al-Anon

and Alateen always be there, and . . .”

Love in service,

Shelly F., Website Coordinator

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ARCHIVES

CHAM B.

NFATRAVELING ARCHIVES SHOW:

We as a group were able to partici-

pate in the following endeavors:

NFA Colors Convention held in

Melbourne, FL

AA National Archives Workshop

held in Cocoa Beach, FL NFA Assembly held in Ocala, FL

before moving to Orlando, FL

WSO Thought Force for Guideline 30

ARCHIVE STORAGE UNIT:

Our storage area is much too warm

now! We have moved it to the

second floor of main building Metro

Self Storage, 4216 Gunn Hwy, Tampa,

33618; Thursday, August 16, 2012.

STORAGE OF MATERIAL FOR ‘ALL’

AREAS.

The WSO suggested ways for us to

store our “valuables”:

Please keep all material in a cool, dry

place. It is important to put all material

in acid-free sheets, heavy-duty plastic

boxes; photo albums; binders and add

inventory lists with all items that are

included with copies of disks, which

are marked.

Items should be conspicuously dated

and marked on the front, side and

back, i.e. binders — A collection of (all)

World Service Conference Summaries,

etc.

A committee is the best way to work

with Archive Material—request help—

note paper passing around asking for

VOLUNTEERS.

Need storage shelves immediately -

NFA.

Inventory lists always needed. Re-

quest help! (Last inventory for NFA

Archives 1979).

Other items to keep, i.e.:

WSO/AWS all newsletters, district

newsletters, memorabilia, souvenirs,

programs/books of past conventions,

conference materials, where and

when (old and new).

PLEASE make sure there is a disk of

the information with each ‘item’ from

this date 8/18/2012 forward, and use

flash drives too in order to protect our

valuable past and present, which can

handle groups of information….please.

It has been recommended from WSO

that all areas of information be saved

on a flash drive in a separate location.

Please include Groups, Districts, Area.

Newsletters, Where and When, Fly-

ers—All event flyers, anything you

worked on and are proud of.

Recordings and artifacts which are of

historical significance to Al-Anon in

North Florida, District, WSO (please

keep). Anything that gives clues to

“how we did it or how we do it” is

archival material.

Relevant correspondence.

Long-timers’ Questionnaires, Group

History Forms, story of any group.

Conference information from present

and previous delegates, reports, etc.

Items should be conspicuously dated

and marked on the front, side and

back if possible, i.e. 3-ring binders.

A committee is recommended (and

most welcome), redundant.

Collect, preserve, and organize infor-

mation, including inventories.

Items to keep for example:

WSO/AWS newsletters, memorabilia

souvenirs, programs of past conven-

tions, conferences.

Coordinator Reports.

Directories; world and area.

Minutes of AWSC and Assemblies

meetings, which is already in effect i.e.

(motions indexed separately for quick

reference) NFA ahead of the game.

A copy of CAL literature, especially

those that may no longer be availa-

ble…what a great find!.

AA ANNUAL NATIONAL ARCHIVES

WORKSHOP:

This year’s Conservation, Preservation

& Display Chair for the National AA

Archives workshop…on behalf of this

year’s committee for the 16th

Annual

National A.A. Archives Workshop was

held October 4th

thru the 7th

at the

International Palms Resort & Confer-

ence Center in Cocoa Beach Florida.

They have extended an invitation to

the North Florida AFG Archives to

participate with their Archives displays

at this year’s event and learn about

the proper way to treat Archives. I

spoke with many Al-Anon Archivists

across the US who confirmed the

need for this particular workshop and

what it has meant to every attendee. I

attended with Terry F. Others that

at tended were Carolyn H. —

Jacksonville; and Al-Anon Archives,

Arkansas.

NFA AL-ANON "COLORS" CONVEN-

TION; AA ANNUAL NATIONAL AR-

CHIVES WORKSHOP; AND OCTOBER

12-14 ASSEMBLY:

I prepared an Archives “Table of Infor-

mation” from the Area Districts that

included the following:

1. Previous Conventions or events.

2. Extra Al-Anon Books, Pam-

phlets, The Forum (new or old)...like a

lovely blanket.

a. Writings by members from NFA

found in CAL.

3. Items in all Districts' archives stor-

age and GR Groups that repre-

sent the meaning of the principles of

the Al-Anon and Alateen program or

new items.

4. Any item that makes your District

stand out; which helps make NFA and

Al-Anon/Alateen a viable and worth-

while organization.

5. A clear copy of the NFA division

district map dated Panel 34. Effective

Panel 52--October 14, 2012, District

13 has been added on a 3-year trial

basis.

6. Some type of information repre-

sentative of our Spanish groups or any

other language groups.

7. Some type of job material repre-

sentative of any position that is held

now or has been held -- within Al-

Anon guidelines.

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8. Al-Anon guidelines old or new that

can be compared.

9. Al-Anon related Art work, pictures

of Lois and Ann.

10. Previous and present Delegates'

Reports and any books that represent

the conference.

11. Information about individual

groups — particularly it's beginning

story.

DIVISION OF FLORIDA NORTH AND

SOUTH — APPROVED 1987—Delegate

Installed 1988

ARCHIVES VISION WRITTEN By Lois W., October 12, 1986 “We have an archives in part to pro-vide a record of our development for future historians…but also because, as time passes and our Fellowship con-tinues to grow and expand, we find ourselves further and further away from the events of our past…we must be assured that the facts will always be available to guard against a misun-derstanding of what has taken place.” Cham B.,

Archives Coordinator

NFA Panel 52

Literature:

DI T.

GROUP

RECORDS:

TONI C.

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Since the last report there are still only approximately 525 submissions for intimacy in ALCOHOLIC RELATION-SHIPS (working title): Again sharing's from men, parents, siblings, gays, and

lesbians are especially needed if it is to express the diversity of our fellowship and its experiences. How Al-Anon Works (B22, B32): The latest printings of both the hard cover and soft cover editions of How Al-Anon Works now include a full description of “Didn’t cause, Can’t cure, Can’t control” (known by some as the “Three Cs”). It can be found on

pages 16-17 of hardcover printings that have the number “11-11” in the bottom left corner of the copyright page, and in soft cover printings that have the number “12-2.” While the Literature Committee agreed that making this small addition to the book has value, it in no way invalidates pre-vious copies of the book sold over the last 17 years. The Committee felt the

new wording would be helpful, but that does not mean it is essential. CAL Sample Chapter: Each quarter WSO posts a Sample Chapter of Con-ference Approved Literature on both the Public Outreach site, www.al-anon.org and the Members’ site, www.al-anon.org/members. This quarter it is a chapter from Opening Our Hearts, Transforming Our Losses

(B-29). “CAL Corner”: Each month, the “CAL Corner” feature in The Forum includes members’ sharing’s on how a parti-cular piece of our literature has enhanced their recovery. Remember when you open a page of CAL you always get what you need.

Love in service,

Di T.,

Literature Coordinator

NFA Panel 52

I am so grateful that there have been

so many new submissions to the North

Florida Group Records and that they

have been submitted on the new GR-1

Change Form, all except one. This is

incredible and I am so happy that the

North Florida Area has helped in

spreading the word on how to obtain

the new GR-1 Change Form.

You may obtain a GR-1 Change Form

from your district group records chair,

find the form and fill out online at the

WSO (World Service Office) website or

the North Florida Area website, where

you will find instructions on how to fill

out the form. You can save the form in

a file, then attach file to an email and

send it to your district group record

chair that will then pass your file on to

me. (The filled out files I receive online

are so easy to read as I do not need to

decipher cryptic code to read it. And it

also ensures that I submit the correct

information into the data base at the

WSO.) I also ask that you fill out the

form with your group as the group

conscience decides if your group is

‘open’ or ‘closed’.

Is your group receiving the free month-

ly Forum magazine? Did you see the

August quarterly appeal letter from the

WSO passed around at your group? If

not, perhaps your group needs to

check and see who is listed as the

groups CMA (current mailing address).

Perhaps this member no longer

attends your meeting and does not

bring the group’s mail anymore. Or

perhaps this member moved and the

monthly Forum magazine was re-

turned to the WSO and your group

has been placed on the ‘No Mail

Status’. It costs three times as much for

returned mail to WSO. Please check

with your district group record chair or

myself for accuracies in your group’s

information. It is also helpful if you

would please check this information

every six months to ensure that

your group’s information is correctly

updated. After all, life happens and

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sometimes a member stops attending

but said member is still listed as a con-

tact person for your group. A contact

person is a member who lists their

name and phone number at the WSO

for potential members who may need

to call and ask questions about your

meeting or an out of town member

who is not familiar with the area and

looking for your meeting.

Thank you for the opportunity to

serve as your North Florida Area

Group Records Coordinator.

Gratefully submitted,

Toni C.,

[email protected]

Hello to everyone, Attending the recent Fall Assembly re-energized me as a D.R. as our Attend-

ance for my first year as a D.R. was again 20 members. Even though not all our Chair positions are filled at the District level, our members who sup-port the District at our Assembly has increased from maybe 4 or 5 mem-bers to 20. As a D. R., I am very grate-ful for this support. We are planning for our Gratitude Luncheon Saturday November 10,

2012 and a lot of excitement is in the air. I believe the crisp weather may have something to do with this! Some members have approached me in regard to having a Holiday party, and I am looking forward to this Holi-day fellowship as plans are in the works. I will have some details later and will forward the information to

the other Districts. Our Alateen program is getting lots of attention even though we do not have a Chairperson at this time. We will be having an A.M.I.A.S. training meeting February 2, 2013 in Inver-ness. A flyer will go out to the Districts and to the N.FL. Alateen chair per-

sons. We will be adding at least 2 A.M.I.A.S. meetings in 2013 after our District Meetings, for fellowship and resolving issues. We will encourage a (How can I help plan?) at this time. A

new evening Alateen meeting is possi-ble for our Pasco County area as dis-cussion has come up. Members are looking into opening beginner meetings in our District as there is much need in this area. Our District will be doing letters to Doctors along with a packet of infor-mation and Where & Whens for our

Public Outreach project for November 2012. Yes, we are growing in service and ideas! I look forward to the upcoming year. Love in Service, Sharon N. (District 5) Communicate Recovery

Greetings: It doesn't seem possible that we have held five District meetings this year and that the year is almost over. The

average attendance at these meet-ings is about 28 people. District 6 offered $100.00 Grants to Alateens from our District so that they might attend the recent Convention in Melbourne. One took advantage of it. We have 46 active groups and one Alateen group in the district. The two

newest meetings in the Villages are well attended and we hope to be able to start more as the area grows in population. Our Thursday night “Hope & Recovery” group has moved its location to the Community United Methodist Church in Fruitland Park. The District Gratitude Dinner is being planned for March 2013 by the

District 5 Rep:

SHARON N.

District 6 Rep:

EVA N.

Winter Park Winners AFG. The date of the event will be forthcoming. Our District remains financially solvent and we are grateful to all those who

support us. District 6 Public Outreach participated in Lake County Health Fair in Eustis on October 20, 2012. We manned a table acting as a resource and passing out pamphlets, etc. The Fair was very well attended. It is the first of its kind in Lake County. We were graciously wel-comed and obtained leads to future Health Fairs. There were many visitors

to our table. Lots of meeting lists passed out. In addition, we will pro-vide a Literature Table at the AA Cen-tral Florida Intergroup Gratitude Din-ner in November. This is being coordi-nated by our LDC and AA Liaison. Our chair positions of LDC, Website, W&W and Archives are strong. We are weak in Newsletter, Alateen and Pub-

lic Outreach — needing Chair People in these positions. We requested, at our last District Meeting, that the GR’s canvass their groups to see if there were any members interested in these service positions. Even though we do not have an Alateen Chairperson it is expected that we will have a new Alateen Meet-ing in Fruitland Park in the late fall.

There are two members who have been trained willing to sponsor a new meeting. We brought one GIP to the AWSC Meeting in August and one to Fall Assembly. This is to continue to en-courage people in our District to learn about the NFA and AWSC. This builds a healthy service base for the District and we will continue this practice.

Wishing you all Peace and Serenity. Eva N. DR #6

REMEMBER

“WHEN WE GET BUSY

WE GET BETTER”

SERVICE WORKS!

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District 7 Rep:

ANA D.

Hello everyone!

I’m Ana D. Q., your District Represent-

ative for District #7. The Fall Assembly

was my first as DR. Melanie B’s first

Assembly as Alt. DR, and Ginny B.’s

first Assembly as AISL! We have made

it through many changes over the

past 4 months and with flying colors.

Our District is very resilient and com-

mitted to service and I’m very grateful

to everyone for all their wonderful

work!

We hold our District meetings every

month and this year we’ve had any-

where from 24-45 GR’s in attendance.

At our Sept. 8th District meeting we

had 32 GR’s and 2 visitors in attend-

ance. At our Oct. District meeting, we

had 24 GR’s and 3 visitors.

We continue to practice the Area slo-

gan “ Communicate Recovery” when-

ever possible in our verbal as well as

written communications. It is very

important to the success of our District

to be aware of how we communicate

with one another in service and be-

yond.

Currently, our district has 45 regular

meetings and eight Beginner Meet-

ings for a total of 53 groups. We also

have ten Alateen Meetings, and a con-

tinued effort is being made to reach

out to teens in the community. Our

District meeting address is: Largo Alli-

ance Church, 1633 Lake Avenue NE,

Largo, FL

My goal is to visit all of the groups in

our District along with the Alternate

District Representative, Melanie B.

over the next 2 + years. I think it’s im-

portant that the groups are aware

that the District fully supports them

and will also help them if requested. I

recently attended a meeting at my

home group. (I had previously visited

this meeting with our Alt. DR to see

how the District could help them be-

cause they did not have a GR or Alt.

GR or CMA). I again mentioned the

importance having a GR and CMA

and the possibility of the group’s sta-

tus being designated “Inactive,” and

what that meant. A concerned mem-

ber raised her hand cautiously and

volunteered to be GR. She is also a

fairly new member and I took her un-

der my wing, and the next day she

was at her first District meeting. I can

really see the importance of the Dis-

trict visiting groups and the positive

impact we can have on groups.

I also have ideas of how we as a

District can better connect with our

Area in between Assembly and AWSC

meetings. I will be sharing these ideas

during our upcoming Panel meetings

as more will be revealed...

We are also holding monthly District

Panel meetings which are held a

week or two before the District meet-

ing. This way, we can discuss or hash

things out before the District meeting

and not during the District meeting.

We also discuss the agenda for the

upcoming meeting and I encourage

everyone’s input.

We have a District suggestion box

which we place on the front table

during District meetings. We (our

panel) review and discuss the sugges-

tions, during a 15 minute break. Our

Alt. DR., Melanie B. reads them and

presents the panel’s decision of

whether we can utilize the sugges-

tions. We (our panel) want our Chair

people, GR’s, Alt. GR’s, to know that

we are listening and are considering

all their suggestions.

We formed a committee to design a

poster for the LDC Area Archives Pro-

ject for 2012 NFA Convention & AA

Archives Convention. Elizabeth W.

was Chairperson of this project and

formed a committee. We learned that

District #7 was the first District in all of

Florida to have an LDC (Literature

Distribution Center). This information

was very helpful in helping the com-

mittee to design this poster. They did

a super job and the poster really por-

trayed in detail, the history of our

LDC. CAL, our handmade Literature

doll, and bookworm -- that were

made by Ruthie -- were placed next to

the poster which really made the

poster extra special! Such talent we

have in our District! We also had 4

volunteers that presented workshops

at the NFA Al-Anon Colors of Recov-

ery Convention. Thanks to Beth C,

Julie H., Renee E., and Anne A. who

did a wonderful job!

We finally filled our Web Coordinator

position, and we have one position

left - Archivist. Our past Archivist will

work with anyone and accompany

anyone to the storage unit who is

interested in learning more.

Yours in Service, Ana Q. District Representative District #7 / Panel #52

District 9 rep:

JILL O’B.

District 9 had 7 GR’s, the DR & AISL at the Fall Assembly. We are excited to have the Assembly moving to the Orlando area next year. It will be clos-er for us and hopefully we will have

even more GR’s in attendance.

Since our last report the following

things have taken place in District 9:

After our Treasurer had to resign due to her husband’s job change and hav-ing to move, we now have a new

Treasurer in place, and she is ready to

begin her new responsibilities!

Public Outreach continues to impress. More health fairs attended and a large Outreach Project for September Re-covery Month is still under way - 400 AFA’s and Where and When’s were given to groups to take to Profess-

ionals in our area.

The Spanish speaking AFG in Haines City has closed. It has been a difficult process due to not speaking the same language. I had tried to attend the meeting hoping to have some com-munication but was unable to find the meeting. Our Public Outreach chair, Where & When chair & Webmaster had spent a lot of time translating in-

formation and reformatting things for our Spanish community, and then a couple of weeks later we found out it

had closed up.

District 9 did four workshops at the Convention this year. Being a part of that I can say that I watched as others

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found healing and spiritual growth and I am thrilled to have been able to

have experienced that myself.

We did not have any volunteers to host our Gratitude Dinner this year. As a District we voted to follow the actions of WSO and NFA and create a District appeal letter that will be read to all the groups at three meetings in November. We are trusting that our members will show their gratitude and donations will increase District

funds.

Our Holiday Party is being planned for December 8

th, after our District

meeting.

We held an AMIAS training session in our District on November 3

rd, 2012.

Marilu did the training – 3 received

the training.

There is talk of a couple of new meet-ings starting in Polk County. I am ex-cited to see progress being made. A meeting place seems to be the big-

gest obstacle at this time.

We have begun talking about our

Spring Workshops. Several GR’s will be talking to their groups about plan-

ning and hosting this event.

Continuing to Communicate Recovery,

Jill O’B. DR and

Betty C. AISL

District 10

rep:

Michel s.

Greetings and Salutations from Dis-trict 10. We are excited to be the new home of the North Florida Area and looking forward to all the new changes.

Fall not only brings long awaited cooler temperatures, but our annual Gratitude Dinner. Our 'Growing in Recovery' gratitude dinner was held Nov.3rd. Nancy C. and her commit-tee did an outstanding job. We had a wonderful AA speaker, and our own

Bob C. was the Al-Anon speaker. We had awesome participation at every level, tons of food, fellowship, and good ‘ole Al-Anon FUN!

District 10 also has some open posi-tions at this time. The Alateen Chair position is open. The Newsletter and Public Outreach are also great service opportunities. Our next District meet-ing is Saturday Nov. 17. I hope to talk about these open positions and see if we can get some willing members to step up. I would like to extend a special WEL-

COME to our newest district. Welcome aboard District 13! Yours in service, Michel S. D-10

Our Three Legacies:

RECOVERY

Through the Steps

UNITY

Through the Traditions

SERVICE

Through the Concepts

AL-ANON 2013

INTERNATIONAL CONVENTION

VANCOUVER,

BRITISH COLUMBIA,

CANADA

JULY 5 — 7, 2013

Registration and Information

Can be obtained on the

Members’ Web site:

www.al-anon.org/members

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DATES

(2013)

EVENT LOCATION ROOM

RATES ASSIGNMENT DISTRICT NOTES

Feb 15-

16th

AWSC

Sheraton Lake Buena Vista-

12205 South Apopka Vineland Rd.

Orlando, FL 32835

1-800-423-3297

www.sheratonlakebuenavistaresort.com

$95

Hospitality Fri & Sat

Spiritual Meeting Saturday evening

Sgt. At Arms

District 5

District 2

District 9

Remember to get a confirma-

tion number when you make a reservation. When rooming

with someone include both

names on the reservation. Reservations must be made 30

days in advance of the event. There is a 48 hour cancellation

notice. Make sure you inform the hotel you are with NFA

AFG (North Florida Area AFG)

to get the room rate and a reservation for blocked dates.

Tax exempt applies only to payments make by the North

Florida Area Treasurer.

May 3-

5th

Spring

Assem-

bly

Sheraton Lake Buena Vista-

12205 South Apopka Vineland Rd.

Orlando, FL 32835

1-800-423-3297

www.sheratonlakebuenavistaresort.com

$95

Hospitality

Fun Shop Fri

Light Side Sat

Raffle Sat

Registration Fri Sat

Red/Grn Light Sun

Spiritual Mtg Sun

Sgt. At Arms

District 1&3

District 4&2*

District 12

District 10

District 11 &

8

District P5

District 7

District 6

*D4 Traditions 5&6

*D2 Concepts 5&6

Aug. 16-

17th

AWSC

Sheraton Lake Buena Vista-

12205 South Apopka Vineland Rd.

Orlando, FL 32835

1-800-423-3297

www.sheratonlakebuenavistaresort.com

$95

Hospitality

Spiritual Meeting Sat

Sgt At Arms

District 10

District 3

District 1

Oct 4-6th

Fall

Assem-

bly

Sheraton Lake Buena Vista-

12205 South Apopka Vineland Rd.

Orlando, FL 32835

1-800-423-3297

www.sheratonlakebuenavistaresort.com

$95

Hospitality

Fun Shop Fri

Light Side Sat

Raffle Sat

Registration Fri Sat

Red/Grn Light Sun

Spiritual Mtg Sun

Sgt. At Arms

District 6&4

District 7&8 *

District

District 12

District 9&2

District 1

District 11

District 3

*D7 Traditions 7&8

*D8 Concepts 7&8

NORTH FLORIDA AFG AREA AREA WORLD SERVICE COMMITTEE (AWSC) AND AREA ASSEMBLY

PANEL 52 – 2012 HOTEL INFO AND ASSIGNMENTS

Remember to get a confirmation number when you make a reservation. When rooming with someone include both names on the reservation. Reservations must be made 30 days in advance of the event. There is a 48 hour cancella-

tion notice. Make sure you inform the hotel you are with NFA AFG (North Florida Area AFG) to get the room rate and

a reservation for blocked dates. Tax exempt applies only to payments make by the North Florida Area Treasurer .

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Current Mailing addresses

Panel 52 Officers & Coordinators

Delegate Terry K, Dist. 7

Officer

[email protected]

Alternate Shelley C, Dist. 8

Delegate

Officer

[email protected]

Chairperson Wendy R, Dist. 12

Officer

[email protected]

Secretary Kimberly P, Dist. 7

Officer

[email protected]

Treasurer Cindy J, Dist. 1

Officer North Florida Assembly

Contributions 1700 N Monroe Street

Only Suite 11-120

Tallahassee, FL 32303

[email protected]

Alateen Bobbi M, Dist. 11

Coordinator 114 Hogan Road, Apt F

[email protected]

Alateen Rene E, Dist. 7

Area

Process

Person/

(AAPP) [email protected]

Archives Cham B, Dist. 8

Coordinator

[email protected]

Group Toni C, Dist. 3

Records

Coordinator

[email protected]

Newsletter Janet O, Dist. 4

Coordinator

‘The Legacy ‘

[email protected]

Literature/ Di T, Dist. 8

LDC

Coordinator

[email protected]

Public Ann Q, Dist. 7

Outreach

Coordinator

[email protected]

Spanish Leticia R, Dist. 8

Intergroup

Liaison

[email protected]

Website Shelly F Dist. 7

Coordinator

[email protected]

District Representatives

Dist 1 Walter T.

Rep

[email protected]

Dist 2 Elsa M. C.

Rep

[email protected]

Dist 3 Charlene S.

Rep

[email protected]

Dist 4 David H. Rep

[email protected]

Dist 5 Sharon N.

Rep

[email protected]

Dist 6 Eva N.

Rep

[email protected]

Dist 7 Ana D-Q

Rep

[email protected]

Dist 8 Charon L.

Rep

[email protected]

Dist 9 Jill O’B.

Rep

[email protected]

Dist 10 Michel S.

Rep

[email protected]

Dist 11 Pauline C.

Rep

[email protected]

Dist 12 Sandy D-T

Rep

[email protected]

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