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1 Shabbat Services: Shabbat Vayera Friday October 30, 2015 7:30 PM Shabbat Family Service Oneg Hosts: Herschkopf Family in honor of Sophie and Jake Pollack's 90th Birthdays. Saturday October 31, 2015 9:00 AM Torah Study Shabbat Chaye Sarah Friday November 6, 2015 8:15 PM Shabbat Evening Service Oneg Host: Oppenheim Family Saturday November 7, 2015 9:00 AM Torah Study 10:30 AM Morning Service ~ Adam Oppenheim will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah. Childcare is available on Friday nights during services in our nursery Message from Rabbi Cosnowsky Being Jewish isn’t Always Easy The senment, “S'iz shver tzu zain a Yid - it's difficult to be a Jew," reminds me of the saying that was heard around the communies of first generaon Jewish American’s. So, in a sense, things haven’t changed over the years. Today, it is sll difficult and somewhat expensive to be Jewish, which is why it’s important for parents to pass along why it’s important to be Jewish. The Torah is a tree of life. Learning from the lessons contained therein, is a great way to teach our children how to grapple with ethical situaons and learn from the mistakes of our ancestors in the Torah. Then, when we and our children face difficules, as humans always do, we will be able to put them into the proper perspecve, realizing that nothing valuable in life comes without sacrifice and hard work. We see this portrayed in this weeks’ Torah poron when Abraham leaves his homeland to move to Canaan. Then, he follows God’s command to circumcise not only himself, but all of the males in his camp. This is painful and very inconvenient to undertake. But they all do it, because that was part of the deal Abraham made with God to be a follower of monotheism. They didn’t weight the cost, nor wonder if it was worth the sacrifice, they understood that this was part of being in the community, and they made the decision to do so. Being Jewish is not always comfortable nor convenient. In fact, many things seem inconvenient and maybe even irrelevant. Why should we pass on the pepperoni pizza? Why shouldn’t we parcipate in homecoming when it falls on Yom Kippur? Why should we strive to act with integrity, when it seems that so many around us do not? That is what it means to be Jewish! The very thing we are trying to teach our children and to strive for ourselves. If being Jewish was easy and convenient, everyone would be doing it. But it’s not. It is difficult, but the value is that we emerge from the struggle as beer human beings. That nothing comes easy – without hard work, sacrifice and dedicaon. And to teach our children how to struggle and prevail, is one of the greatest giſts we can give away. October 28, 2015 Don’t forget to change your clocks back this Saturday, October 31
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Shabbat Services:

Shabbat Vayera

Friday October 30, 2015

7:30 PM Shabbat Family Service

Oneg Hosts: Herschkopf Family in honor of Sophie

and Jake Pollack's 90th Birthdays.

Saturday October 31, 2015 9:00 AM Torah Study

Shabbat Chaye Sarah

Friday November 6, 2015 8:15 PM Shabbat Evening Service

Oneg Host: Oppenheim Family

Saturday November 7, 2015

9:00 AM Torah Study

10:30 AM Morning Service ~ Adam Oppenheim will

be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah.

Childcare is available on Friday nights

during services in our nursery

Message from Rabbi Cosnowsky

Being Jewish isn’t Always Easy

The sentiment, “S'iz shver tzu zain a Yid - it's difficult to be a Jew," reminds me of the saying that was heard around the communities of first generation Jewish American’s. So, in a sense, things haven’t changed over the years. Today, it is still difficult and somewhat expensive to be

Jewish, which is why it’s important for parents to pass along why it’s important to be Jewish. The Torah is a tree of life. Learning from the lessons contained therein, is a great way to teach our children how to grapple with ethical situations and learn from the mistakes of our ancestors in the Torah. Then, when we and our children face difficulties, as humans always do, we will be able to put them into the proper perspective, realizing that nothing valuable in life comes without sacrifice and hard work.

We see this portrayed in this weeks’ Torah portion when Abraham leaves his homeland to move to Canaan. Then, he follows God’s command to circumcise not only himself, but all of the males in his camp. This is painful and very inconvenient to undertake. But they all do it, because that was part of the deal Abraham made with God to be a follower of monotheism. They didn’t weight the cost, nor wonder if it was worth the sacrifice, they understood that this was part of being in the community, and they made the decision to do so.

Being Jewish is not always comfortable nor convenient. In fact, many things seem inconvenient and maybe even irrelevant. Why should we pass on the pepperoni pizza? Why shouldn’t we participate in homecoming when it falls on Yom Kippur? Why should we strive to act with integrity, when it seems that so many around us do not?

That is what it means to be Jewish! The very thing we are trying to teach our children and to strive for ourselves. If being Jewish was easy and convenient, everyone would be doing it. But it’s not. It is difficult, but the value is that we emerge from the struggle as better human beings. That nothing comes easy – without hard work, sacrifice and dedication. And to teach our children how to struggle and prevail, is one of the greatest gifts we can give away.

October 28, 2015

Don’t forget to change your clocks

back this Saturday, October 31

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Message from Our President Ken Markwell

Dear fellow congregant,

I was at synagogue today (Sunday October 25th) and saw Jon

Berman sitting at his normal place, the Manna table. Jon,

Mike Fields and Barry Freeman are to be commended for

being there every Sunday asking members to support this

great fundraiser. Manna are gift certificates from a wide

variety of retailers from groceries to hotels to home improvement centers.

Congregants purchase gift certificates in specified amounts and use them

just as cash when making purchases. Purchasers receive 100% value for

their contribution! Seeing Jon sitting there prompted me to go into our

social hall and see many of our members enjoying Tumlar. Now that we are

all together in one building, it is great to see so many tables filled with lively

conversations going on covering many interesting topics. It then dawned on

me that this would be a golden opportunity to walk around to each table to

introduce myself as well as put in a plug for Manna and to pass out some

forms. I hope my small effort bears some fruit in November. It also made

me think that I should begin all of my newsletter articles with a short blurb

reminding everyone of the next Manna date which will be Sunday Novem-

ber 15th (pickup on Wednesday November 18th).

After leaving the synagogue, I was able to go out and enjoy a beautiful

sunny fall day. I love this time of year as we can still wear a light jacket or

sweater and take in all the amazing color changes going on. Each tree is

giving back all the colors of the sky it has seen since spring. I will admit I am

not looking forward to the season that follows. I am already getting cabin

fever just thinking about it and the first snow flake hasn’t even fallen yet!

Speaking of cabin fever, I can think of no better way to avoid that

completely this winter than to partake of all the services, programs,

meetings and events our synagogue has to offer. I could mention many here

but better for me to direct you to our website (www.congetzchaim.org) or

this very newsletter to see what’s going on.

Reading our newsletter and checking out our website can also help pass

away the time in the coming months so you can avoid looking out the

window at the grayness that is sure to come. Between reading our

newsletters, viewing our website and anticipating so many exciting and

interesting synagogue functions, spring will be here before you know it! OK,

I know that’s a bit of a stretch, but I’ll bet you it will make the coming winter

months much more tolerable and what’s wrong with that?

Until the next newsletter I wish everyone a safe, healthy and happy Fall!

Tot Shabbat Services ~ 6:30 PM

November 13

December 4

January 15

February 12

March 25

April 29

June 17

Shabbat Family Service ~ 7:30 PM

October 30

November 27

December 11- Hanukkah Family Service

January 29

February 26

March 18

April 15

May 27

June 24

LOBBY TZEDAKAH BOX

NAMI DUPAGE

As Jews we are commanded to heal the sick which

includes those who are physically and mentally ill.

Please hear Rabbi Cosnowsky's Rosh Hashanah

call to support mental health awareness and

respond by making a generous contribution to the

National Alliance for Mental Health of DuPage

(NAMI DuPage). The tzedakah box is located in

the lobby, right in front of the gift shop case.

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SHABBAT CHAVERIM

Our next "Shabbat Chaverim" will be Friday morning,

November 6 at 10:00 AM. This program is for young

children and a parent/guardian.

Carrie Barrera will guide the group in a simple Jewish themed

craft, often related to a holiday. These have included making

edible Torahs out of pretzel sticks and fruit roll ups, colorful

bookmarks with stick-on stars of David, delicious

hamentashen, Hebrew alphabet snowflakes, dried orange

slice pendants, and matzoh s’mores, to name a few.

Cindy Michelassi will tell a story relevant to the parsha of the

week or current holiday and leads everyone in song. Some

involve a little dancing, and others offer each child the

opportunity to keep time with one of a variety of percussion

instruments.

The program will end with an oneg. Everyone blesses the

candles, juice and challah. Following blessings a variety of

tasty snacks and conversation are enjoyed around the table.

SKIP: SEND-A-KID-TO-ISRAEL-PARTNERSHIP

Enroll Your Child in SKIP Now-

The SEND-A-KID-TO-ISRAEL PARTNERSHIP (SKIP)

program is a special 3rd -9th grade

savings plan that helps Chicago-area youngsters

visit Israel as an integral part of their Jewish

education. Please contact Rachel Wood if you have not

received your packet.

Learn more about SKIP at http://congetzchaim.org/SKIP.

Enrollment packets need to be received no later than

November 16, 2015.

Rabbi Bob’s Retirement Weekend

Celebration

May 6, 7, 8, 2016

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We invite you to participateIN THE

GARRY GARDNER MEMORIALBOWLS FOR HUNGER PROJECT

The Garry Gardner Memorial Bowls for Hunger Project is an "Empty Bowls Project". The “Empty Bowls Project” is an international

grassroots effort to raise both money & awareness in the fight to end hunger. The mission is to create positive & lasting change through

the arts, education, & projects that build community.

Congregation Etz Chaim1710 S. Highland Ave

Lombard, IL 60148

A Donation of $3 PER CHILDINCLUDES: A Cup Of Homemade Soup,

Bread & A Drink

A Donation of $12 PER ADULTINCLUDES: A Cup Of Homemade Soup,

A Handcrafted Ceramic Bowl Keepsake,(as a reminder of all the 'empty bowls' in the world)

Bread & A Drink

Ceramic pieces will also be available for purchaseChecks & Credit Cards will be accepted

PROCEEDS FROM THIS EVENT WILL BENEFITTHOSE WHO ARE HUNGRY IN DUPAGE COUNTY

Sunday, November 1, 2015 11:30 am - 2:00 pm

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EVENING BOOK GROUP

A Backpack, A Bear & 8 Crates of Vodka, by Lev Golinkin– November 10

A compelling story of two intertwined journeys: a Jewish refugee family fleeing persecution and a young man

seeking to reclaim a shattered past. In the twilight of the Cold War (the late 1980s), nine-year old Lev Golinkin and

his family cross the Soviet border with only ten suitcases, $600, and the vague promise of help awaiting in Vienna.

Years later, Lev, now an American adult, sets out to retrace his family's long trek, locate the strangers who fought

for his freedom, and in the process, gain a future by understanding his past.

A Dynamic View of Aging

Sunday, November 8, 2015 10:15 – 11:15 AM Lower Level

You’re not retired…yet. But your children are growing up. You’re starting to look at the coming years and

wondering, “What’s next?” You know about planning for your financial future. But what about your life’s

future? How do you get there? Where do you begin?

The Lifelong Learning Committee and the Etz Chaim Brotherhood are proud to host a special

presentation on , an approach that provides new insight into the concept of aging and how to

reach its full potential.

You will learn

About the origin, uniqueness and relevance of the Third Age

How you plan for the Third Age in your pre-retirement years

– The Five Main Components

What are Third Age Dreams

What is a “Beautiful Mind”

And what are ten things you can do TODAY to enhance the depth and diversity of your Third Age

Your presenter is Bruce Mondschain, president/CEO of Catalyst Benefits Inc., in Deerfield, IL. Named “2004

Company of the Year” by the American Society on Aging, Catalyst is a premier provider of health and “lifestyle”

benefits to over 250 hospitals and organizations throughout the United States. Prior to Catalyst, Mondschain

was the Associate General Director of the Jewish Community Centers of Chicago and later was Vice President of

Hyatt’s senior living units. An avid photographer, Bruce has more than 80 photos in the Smithsonian Institute

including photos of Pete Seeger, Bruce Springsteen, Joan Baez and Arlo Guthrie.

In early 2014, Mondschain was named one of ten “Beautiful Minds” in the United States, an award co-sponsored

by the National Center for Creative Aging.

Bonus! Attendees will receive a complimentary code to complete their own Third Age

Portfolio survey, gaining insight into their personal readiness for the next phase.

For questions and to ensure adequate seating, please RSVP to [email protected]

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Our language, Our Culture – and You!

The Lord said, “Behold, they are one people, and they have all one language,

and this is only the beginning of what they will do. (Genesis 11:6)

So, what happened? Why don’t we all speak the same language?

If you’ve had any of these questions, then you are ready for some of the toughest questions tackled by linguists and scholars of literacy, language, and culture. We are delighted to welcome Dr. Aria Razfar (Ari), who will lead us on a fascinating journey of language from simple sounds to complex layers of meaning and possible applications to sacred texts. Ari is a professor of language, literacy and culture at the University of Illinois at Chicago. His research interests focus on the sociocultural dimensions of language and its meaning to human development.

Please RSVP to [email protected] or call the office - 630.627.3912.

Thursday, November 12

From 7:30-9:00 PM

In the Social Hall

Refreshments provided.

No cost to attend.

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DUPAGE UNITED DUPAGE UNITED FALL ASSEMBLY focusing on Mental Health, the treatment and incarceration of those with mental illness, will be held from 3:00 - 4:30 PM on November 14. The Union Church of Hinsdale, 137 S Garfield St, Hinsdale, IL which is a newer member of DuPage United will host the assembly. This meeting will focus on Crisis Intervention Training (CIT) for law enforcement, crisis triage centers and other jail diversion strategies so that there will be fewer people with mental illness in our jails and they can receive treatment. Did you know it costs 5X more to incarcerate someone than to provide proper mental health treatment? Come and learn more at this informative meeting. Help us show that Etz Chaim cares by attending. RSVP to Harriet Rose [email protected]

Senior Youth Group Kickoff Event

Saturday, November 14 at 6 PM

Join us for a Nerf gun fight, pizza dinner

and election of officers!

RSVP to synagogue office at

(630) 627-3912 CHILDREN’S PLAYGROUND

Recently more blue mulch was added to our renovated children’s playground. Please help us keep the mulch off the concrete and within the equipment area. There are several types of brooms in the children’s outside storage unit with which the children can sweep the mulch. We hope this will be a fun learning activity for those who use the area.

MEMORIAL GARDEN

Do you know about the Etz Chaim Memorial Garden which is

located close to where our Sukkah is placed each fall? Our

Memorial Garden was a result of a fundraiser to enlarge our

parking lot. Families donated money for the project and

could then choose an inscription for their brick. In the

center of the brick paving is a small garden which we are

replanting this fall.

Last Sunday and next Sunday the primary classes are

planting bulbs in the garden. The teachers planted allium

bulbs which will bloom in late spring and the students

planted a variety of bulbs (Pre.-yellow winter aconite,

K-snow drops, 1st -snow crocus and 2nd -grape hyacinths)

which will bloom in early and mid-spring. There are also

perennials in the small area along with annual pansies so

that hopefully there will always be something interesting to

see.

As the snow begins to melt in March check out this small

area for the first signs of spring. Just as Noah was so happy

to see the dove return with a green branch we also rejoice

when we see our first spring flowers.

MISCELLANEOUS INFORMATION…

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Tikkun Olam – Wherever there is brokenness, we must bring healing.

In her sermon erev Rosh Hashanah, Rabbi Cosnowsky reiterated her charge to the congregation “to begin to have more open conversations about mental illness.” In response, the Social Action Committee has created a Mental Health Team to help educate our congregants and expand our role as a caring community.

All are welcome to the Lunch and Learn/Seniors program on Wednesday, November 18th

Mental Illness - from a Personal and Family Point of View At this Lunch and Learn, Etz Chaim congregant John Wilkerson will tell his personal story of struggling with mental illness. He will bring a guest from NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) to speak from the impact of mental illness on family members. There will be time for questions and for learning more about NAMI at the end of their presentations.

Optional lox and bagel lunch ($7.00) – 12:00 PM

Program begins – 12:30 PM

Please RSVP to Mark Turner at [email protected] by Monday,

November 16th, and indicate if you are having lunch. If you need to cancel,

remember to notify Mark.

Improving the lives of people and families

struggling with mental illness is also

a DuPage United initiative.

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WANTED COLLEGE STUDENTS ADDRESSES

In order to keep our college students connected to the Etz Chaim community, we need

both regular mailing addresses and email addresses of freshmen as well as returning

college students. Addresses are not saved from school year to school year, so we need

addresses even if you sent them in past years. Please send address information to the

synagogue office by email at [email protected].

WHAT DOES THE CARING COMMITTEE DO? The Caring Committee will assist with most anything that is needed for someone who temporarily needs a hand. We arrange rides to doctor’s/medical appointments or synagogue services, provide assistance with grocery shopping for someone just out of the hospital, help in the kitchen during a shiva, prepare meals for members requiring help due to illness or the birth or a child (including Passover and holiday food), visit a member in the nursing home, and provide overnight assistance with a hospital release. We are open to helping you when a need arises. The Caring Committee has captains in each area served by the synagogue. They will contact congregants in your neighborhood to lend a hand. When you receive an email about a need in your area, please respond to help when you can. If you would like to become a captain, please let us know. We have so many caring synagogue members and we would love to have more people to help out in each community. With a lot of involvement from our community members, the burden is reduced when it is shared by all. When in need, or if you know someone who is in need, please contact the synagogue office. Our staff will pass the information along to us.

SYNAGOGUE GARDENS Our synagogues gardens are still blooming and many people have asked about certain plants, which they would like to plant in their own gardens. We will have some extra plants to share with you. Over the years, volunteers from the Landscaping Committee have weeded, planted and maintained the gardens. Each spring, many additional volunteers, along with the committee, work together on a spring garden clean-up and transplant day. In the coming spring, 2016, volunteers may take home extra plants such as our pink Japanese anemones, hostas, bluebells and Happy Returns daylilies, which are from the entrance area. From other synagogue gardens there will be Stella D’ora daylilies, milkweed, liatris, asters, tall Joe-Pye weed, and some ornamental grasses which volunteers may want. If you are interested in helping on a day next spring and adding some plants to your garden, or if you have questions about plants in the synagogue gardens, contact Mary Hason at ([email protected]).

MENTAL HEALTH TEAM

The Etz Chaim Mental Health Team planned and hosted listening sessions on mental health last spring to listen to congregants as we shared stories and concerns. The Etz Chaim team is a part of the Social Action Committee and the regional DuPage United Mental Health Team which is working together with others in the Chicago region to increase Crisis Intervention Training (CIT) for first responders and to explore issues around mental health. All of these mental health teams are also working to decrease the stigma of mental illness. The Etz Chaim team will be meeting soon and invites you to join the team. To learn more or join the team contact Len Gesinski at [email protected].

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JEN (Jewish Employment Network) under JVS Career Moves is now

LOCATED IN CONGREGATION ETZ CHAIM

LOMBARD

IF YOU ARE A JOBSEEKER, CAREER CHANGER, PROFESSIONAL, DOWNSIZED OR MATURE WORKER

JEN WILL ASSIST YOU WITH:

Planning a career path Tune you up for that important interview

Revamp your resume Teach you how to network successfully

Submit you to positions listed with JVS by our employer partners

For information about our services call

Joyce Bogolub, JVS Career Counselor, in Etz Chaim 312-907-0094

INTERFAITH THANKSGIVING SERVICE– NOVEMBER 23, 2014

The DuPage Interfaith Resource Network Thanksgiving Service will be held on Monday, November

23 at 7:30 PM in the beautiful sanctuary of St. Procopius Abbey at the

corner of Maple and College in Lisle. The service features broad

participation from a wide range of religions including: Protestants,

Buddhists, Catholics, Jews, Moslems, Zoroastrians, Sikhs, and B'hai. We

hear the prayers of other religions, sung and chanted. The service is a

wonderful way to begin the week of Thanksgiving. The warmth and

diversity of the worshipping congregation expresses the promise of America. We respect our

differences and appreciate that which binds us together. We proclaim a common message of thanks

with our words and melodies of prayer.

Early Hanukkah Ideas

Looking for a unique Hanukkah present for that exercise enthusiast in your life? We have extra tee shirts from the High Holiday Hustle available for only $5 each. Please consider supporting the Robert Scott Samuels Fund by buying some Hustle swag this holiday season

2014 White Tech Tee Shirt - $5

Available in Small, Medium, Large, Extra large – Please indicate Male or female

2015 Red Tech Tee Shirt - $5

Available in Small, Medium, Large, Extra Large and XXL – Please indicate Male or Female

2013 Cotton Tee shirt – Limited size Availability - $3

Red Sneaker Wallet (Store your key and money on your sneaker) $2

Contact [email protected] with your order. We can send it to you or have it available at the synagogue

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Coming to Etz Chaim this spring!

~ to raise money to support the congregation we call home ~

Whether you do fall, winter or spring cleaning,

please set aside gently used clothing (all ages), accessories,cookware bakeware, kitchen

utensils,bed linen,table linen,towels, toys,

games,pictures,books,DVDs, CDs…

tools and small appliances (in good working order)

~ Details to follow but, for now, please save your stuff! ~

Questions? Please contact Barbara Turner at

[email protected].

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S I S T E R H O O D

WE ARE IN NEED OF A MANAGER AND STAFF TO RUN OUR GIFT SHOP

Please contact Melissa Ladin at 630-605-6952 or [email protected]

regarding information and opportunities to "spend a day at the shop" to see what great fun this volunteer position is.

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STITCH N KVETCH

The Stitch N Kvetch group meets at the synagogue monthly on Sunday mornings at 10:00 AM.

All are welcome to join the group.

MAH JONGG

Mah Jongg continues thru Hanukkah! Monday evenings at the synagogue,

7:15 - 10:00 PM. Wednesday afternoon mah jongg will be the

2nd and 4th Wednesdays of the month at 1:15 PM. Those interested in Mah Jongg

lessons are invited to join us Wednesday afternoons.

Please RSVP to Merle Erlich at [email protected]

The manager and staff of the gift shop would take charge of all inventory, ordering and staffing during the course of the Hebrew School year. The Sisterhood Gift Shop is open and staffed during Wednesday and Sunday Religious School sessions. We participate in the annual Hanukkah Gift Bazaar and provide useful and timely products for our community. It is a wonderful opportunity to meet many community members, share your knowledge of Judaica, needs for a particular event (like a Bar/Bat Mitzvah), and even participate in educating our youngest members as to what supplies are needed to make latkes!

The Sisterhood Gift Shop operates to provide our community members with a large source for Judaica, holiday and ritual supplies, jewelry and gifts for all life events. Some of the Sisterhood Gift Shop proceeds directly benefit Congregation Etz Chaim and its special projects.

Gather some friends and become the next team to run the Sisterhood Gift Shop!

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MEMBERSHIP COMMITTEE & CONNECTIONS TEAM

BASIC CANASTA

Basic Canasta will be played on Wednesday afternoon 1:15 PM at the synagogue. For times and

basic canasta rules go to https://congetzchaim.org/play-canasta.

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BRIDGE

We continue to play bridge Wednesday mornings 10:00 AM at the synagogue Looking for Bridge Players? Are you looking for other Etz Chaim Bridge Players? Add your name(s) to a list being started by the Connections Team to share with other interested players. Provide your contact info, skill level, & preferred playing times. Contact Merle Erlich at [email protected] It will be up to you to make your own contacts and arrangements. As the list is generated, you will be emailed updates.

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PINOCHLE

Pinochle continues Monday evenings at the home of Harve Bogolub 7:00 PM.

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ADULT CHOIR

The Congregation Etz Chaim adult choir wants you! Do you enjoy singing? Did you enjoy hearing

the choir at High Holiday services? If you answered "yes" to either of these questions, please

consider joining the adult choir for Shabbat and special services. It's fun AND fulfilling! Rehearsals

are currently held twice per month, and we sing at two services per month. You are not obligated to

sing at all adult choir services, but any and all participation is greatly appreciated. Please consult the

synagogue web site calendar (http://congetzchaim.org/calendar) for rehearsal information. If you

have any questions, please contact Barbara Tischler .

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CHAVURAH GROUPS

The Connections Team and the Membership Committee are spear-heading an ongoing initiative to expand our Chavurah offerings, and

you are invited to consider being a part of one. Some have been going on for many years, some started this past year, and others are

forming now. The participation form is located on the Etz Chaim website, in the newsletter and in the synagogue lobby.

Chavurot at Etz Chaim are small groups of members who come together to share Jewish and/or secular experiences—from learning, to

worship to social or cultural or even community volunteerism. Chavurot can be groups of people who live in the same neighborhood or

groups with children of similar ages or groups with similar interests.

Over 40 congregant families have indicated interest. The establishment of Chavurah groups is an ongoing endeavor of the Membership

Committee and Connections Team. Find the Chavurah interest form below, on the Etz Chaim website or in the synagogue lobby. Contact

Merle Erlich: [email protected] with questions.

FORMATION OF CHAVURAH GROUPS IS AN ONGOING CONNECTIONS TEAM ENDEAVOR.

PLEASE PRINT THIS FORM, FILL IT OUT AND RETURN IT TO THE SYNAGOGUE

CHAVURAH INTEREST INDICATOR FORM

My Name:_________________________________________________________________________

Spouse’s/Partner’s Name____________________________________________________________

Number of children: _____ (Names & Ages)

_________________ _________________ _________________ _________________

Telephone ________________________________ Email___________________________________

Type of Chavurah that appeals to me: Family oriented _________ Adults only __________

Members of my ideal Chavurah would include: (check all that apply)

Families with children my own children’s age ________

Multigenerational members_______

Singles _________

Other (please specify) ___________________________________________________________

My ideal Chavurah would provide opportunities to: (check all that apply)

Celebrate holidays together ________

Spend time in Jewish learning ________

Spend time in secular learning ________

Social action/community involvement/volunteerism _____________

Cultural experiences __________

Purely social ___________

Physical activity/exercise __________

Play groups (parent/child) __________

My preference for meeting times would be: daytime _____, evenings_____, and/or weekends____)

Please feel free to add any additional details or clarify any of your responses above:

________________________________________________________________________________________

I would be interested in leading a Chavurah: ___________________________________________________

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Kaddish October 30 – 31 10/25 Lillian Spiegel 10/26 Dorothy Hunter 10/26 Gabriella Miller 10/26 J.R. Mitchell 10/26 Israel Nadler 10/26 Frank Sirota 10/27 Louis Kaplan 10/27 Henry Levi 10/27 Minnie Simons 10/27 Atalee Stoller 10/28 John Gubbay 10/28 Joyce Gubbay 10/28 Mary Lernor 10/28 Annabelle Perlman 10/28 Rose Marie Rubin 10/28 Alvin Schuman 10/28 Mary Jo Szarzynski 10/29 Henry Mindel 10/29 Andrea Stein 10/30 Sidney Feiss 10/30 Gerald Martin 10/30 Max Porton 10/30 Janet Roth 10/31 Bernard Ginsberg 10/31 Tybe Mash 10/31 Edward Ross 10/31 Paul Spenadel

Kaddish November 6 – 7 11/1 Margaret Berkowitz 11/1 Florence Bland 11/1 Mussie Coleman 11/1 John Dustan 11/1 Max Ein 11/1 Sylvia Frankel 11/1 Florence Singer 11/2 Jack Bacol 11/2 Reuben Fensin 11/2 Jean Goldstein 11/2 Irving Lewis 11/2 Herbert Lucks 11/2 Louis Meyers 11/2 George Schneider 11/2 Ethel Sharasheff 11/2 Donna Silver 11/2 Irvin Warner 11/3 Naftali Frankel 11/3 Eli Mandel 11/3 Lucille Winkelman 11/4 Jeanette Chernick 11/4 Henrietta Gorbien 11/4 Jeffrey Kutler 11/4 Daniel Mendelsohn 11/5 Robert Becker 11/5 Leonard Mendelssohn 11/5 Sara Warshawsky 11/6 Wilma Leftwich

Kaddish November 6-7 Continued 11/7 Stephanie Foler 11/7 Edith Pelzner 11/7 Harry Soreff 11/7 Jack Teller Kaddish November 13 – 14 11/8 Irene Cohen 11/8 Jeanne Erlich 11/8 Toby Fensin 11/8 Gertrude Rovel 11/9 Alvin Burstein 11/9 Jack Edwards 11/9 Geri Reich 11/9 David Sharasheff 11/10 Sam Dubin 11/10 Leonore Mittler 11/10 Samuel Titiner 11/10 Philip Unger 11/10 Sam Winston 11/11 Melissa Carrier 11/11 Milton Sklar 11/12 David Galinkin 11/13 Harold Abrams 11/13 Murray Glass 11/13 Odessa Robinson 11/13 Martin Stoller 11/14 Lillian Herbach 11/14 Marion Manheimer 11/14 Ruth Rovell 11/14 Thomas Seres 11/14 Sy Vogler Kaddish November 20 – 21 11/15 Norman Hochman 11/15 Gloria Levenstein 11/15 Alfred Lewis 11/15 Dora Samson 11/16 Brian Horwich 11/17 Stanford Menachof 11/17 Joseph Weinstein 11/18 Melaine Meyer 11/18 David Safer 11/18 Hans Tischler 11/19 Carole Convissor 11/19 Florence Green 11/19 Mildred Lewis 11/19 Sam Nicholas 11/19 Devin Nieze 11/19 Jewel Popper 11/20 Elijah Godfrey 11/20 Fanny Lucks 11/20 Paula Marion 11/20 Rosalie Mark 11/20 Mervyn Posner 11/21 Marilyn Blonder 11/21 Herbert Diamond

The congregation offers its congratulations to…

Dave & Barb Carlson

on the marriage of their son,

Aaron to Emily Schultz.

Mike & Cynde Sawyer,

Ryan & Susanna Sawyer

on the birth of their granddaughter and niece,

Sophie Margaret Sawyer.

The congregation offers its

condolences to…

Jen Gesinski and her family

on the death of her father,

William Gilbert.

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Donations Received October 2015

Senior Rabbi Discretionary Fund

In memory of Donated by

Mildred Wasserman Marc Wasserman

Associate Rabbi Discretionary Fund

In memory of Donated by

Louis Meyers Gossage Family

Elden Gossage Gossage Family

Mussie Coleman Gossage Family

Leonard Mendelssohn Marcey Siegel

Constance Bornstein Elisa Crandell

Andrea Stein Harvey Zoll

Mildred Wasserman Marc Wasserman

Bernard Berman Jonathan Berman

Barbara Baruch School Scholarship Fund

In honor of Donated by

Nate and Bernadette Winter's 70th Wedding anniversary Gloria Kahn

In memory of Donated by

Alter Casper Alan Wolsky

Thomas Seres Margaret Seres

Building Fund

In honor of Donated by

Miles Nathan Johnson's birth Gossage Family

Aya Gray Wolsky-Bills' birth Gossage Family

In memory of Donated by

Israel Nadler Lilah Warshawsky

William Gilbert Don & Diane Roubitchek

Paul Spenadel Joel Spenadel

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Social and Cultural Fund

In memory of

Donated by

Leonore Mittler Judith Witkov

Ethel Siegel Barbara Turner

Sam Turner Mark Turner

Florence Farone Lois Abramowitz

Devin Nieze Cara Cap

William Gilbert Harold & Judy Witkov

Facility Fund

In memory of Donated by

George Schneider Marc Schneider

Jeremy Bruder Memorial Scholarship Fund

In memory of Donated by

William Gilbert Joel and Beth Spenadel

Landscape Fund

In honor of Donated by

Carol Meyer Neufeldt Family

In memory of Donated by

Mary Jo Szarzynski Jody Freeman

Louis & Bettye Kaplan Social Action Fund

In memory of Donated by

Ruth Bennett Tammy Meyers

Ernest Ulrich Werner Ulrich

Else Wolff Ursula Ulrich

Morris Grubstein Marcey Siegel

Louis Kaplan Ruth Kaplan

Music Fund

In memory of Donated by

Leah Kaplan Marcia Kaplan

New Prayer Book Fund

In memory of Donated by

Stephanie Foler Deborah Harris

Marvin Foler Deborah Harris

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Norman Yellin Emergency Aid Fund

In memory of Donated by

Dorothy Schneider Marc Schneider

Marilyn Blonder Michael Blonder

Ritual & Religious Fund

In memory of Donated by

Donna Silver Linda Yeager

Jacob Stern Elise Ciribassi

Robert Scott Samuels Scholarship Fund

In memory of Donated by

Jacob Rovel Merle Erlich

Rose Rubinstein Merle Erlich

Gertrude Rovel Merle Erlich

Alice Dern Herbert Dern

Sophie & Jack Edwards Scholar-In-Residence Fund

In memory of Donated by

Julius Seres Margaret Seres

Connie Farber Neil Farber

Elwood Bryan Mary-Jo Bryan Wolsky

Emma Bryan Mary-Jo Bryan Wolsky

Stu Soreff Office Fund

In honor of Donated by

Diane Roubitchek Howard & Julie Benario

Youth Group Fund

In memory of Donated by

Lesser Levin Steven Levin

Fanny Levin Steven Levin

Michael Peck David and Wendy Peck

General Operating Fund

In honor of Donated by

Ruth Halle Don and Diane Roubitchek

Diane Roubitchek's birthday Marv & Marilyn Wigder

In memory of Donated by

Henrietta Gorbien Don and Diane Roubitchek

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ANNOUNCEMENTS & COMMUNITY PROGRAMS

PADS Wake Up Your Spirit Breakfast

Go to: https://congetzchaim.org/sites/default/files/uploaded_documents/wake_up_your_spir it_breakfast_pr .pdf

Abraham Heschle Joshua Lecture

Go to: https://congetzchaim.org/sites/default/files/uploaded_documents/heschel_lecture.pdf

AIPAC Policy Conference 2016

Go to: https://aipac.secure.force.com/event/EV140546

Ashkenazi Jews & Parkinson's Disease

Go to: https://congetzchaim.org/ashkenazi-jews-and-parkinsons-disease

OSRUI Programs:

Mah Jongg & Canasta Weekend

Go to: http://osrui.ur jcamps.org/year round/mah_jongg_weekend/

Devorah Quilting Kallah

Go to: http://osrui.ur jcamps.org/year round/programs/devorah/

PADS Volunteer Training

Go to: http://dupagepads.org/solutions/volunteer/

Taglit Birthright Israel

Go to: http://www.gokesher.org/

Upcoming Programs at Spertus

Go to: http://spertus.edu/programs-events/all

Jewish Healing Network of Chicago

Go to: http://www.jcfs.org/jhnc

Jewish Child and Family Services

Go to: http://www.jcfs.org/

Jewish Employment Network

Go to: http://congetzchaim.org/Jewish_Employment_Network

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NFTY - EIE

Spend a semester

at the NFTY-EIE

High School in

Israel and take

your own!

Why just look at pictures in your history textbook?

Earn High School Credit.

Apply for the Spring or the Fall semester.

Live in the picturesque Judean Hills on Kibbutz Tzuba.

Discover your Jewish past as you live the Jewish present

Learn to converse in modern Hebrew.

Climb Masada, swim in the Dead Sea, hike from Sea to Sea, explore and camp out in the Negev.

Travel to Poland for a week to continue your study of Modern Jewish History.

Make new NFTY friends and build a strong Reform Community.

For more information please contact

Robin Kulwin

Director of Admissions (212) 650-4073

A NOTE FROM THE LIBRARY COMMITTEE: WHERE TO DONATE BOOKS

Etz Chaim is fortunate to have a vibrant and vital library. Thanks to the efforts of a dedicated corps of volunteers and

the generous contributions of the congregation to the Robert Glass Memorial Library Fund,

the library collection grows and is kept up-to-date.

If you have books that you no longer wish to keep as part of your library, please consider

donating them to your public library or to SCARCE - School and Community Assistance for

Recycling & Composting Education (www.bookrescue.org), located at 799 Roosevelt Rd.,

Bldg. 2, Suite 108, Glen Ellyn.

Please do not bring books to the Etz Chaim library unless previous arrangements with the library chair have been

made. Thank you.

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PLEASE SUPPORT THESE BUSINESSES WHO SPONSOR ADVERTISEMENTS IN OUR BULLETIN

______________________________________________________________________________

Crowne Plaza The newest Bar/Bat Mitzvah location in the Western Suburbs!

Weddings

Bar/Bat Mitzvahs

Social Events

Banquet Facilities for 10 to 200

1250 Roosevelt Road, Glen Ellyn, IL 60137

www.cpglenellyn.com

Contact: Becca at [email protected] Phone: 630-629-6000 Ask for Sales

____________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Schmaltz Deli

We're the only classic Jewish delicatessen west of Chicago. Visit us

for overstuffed sandwiches, fresh baked bagels, honest-to-goodness

homemade soups, meats by the pound, fabulous desserts and traditional

Jewish foods. We cater, too!

1512 North Naper Boulevard, Naperville

(630) 245-7595

http://www.schmaltzdeli.com

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A Balloon Creation

Celebrating your daughter or son's Mitzvah?

We can help decorate for any theme.

We also can create one-of-a-kind candle-lighting pieces.

Call to schedule an appointment to discuss how to make your Mitzvah the talk-of-the-town

518 S. Lake St.

Aurora, IL 60506

Phone - 630-892-4053

http://www.aballooncreation.com/

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Chesed v “Emet

"Families need a safe and secure environment in which their emotional needs are promoted and

their financial needs are protected. This can be accomplished through their congregation

supporting a provider whose primary concern is the family. Chesed v'Emet is just such a

resource - personally representing congregations by serving only its members and their

families. This individual approach provides the distinctive value of combining the support of

personalized attention to savings."

For more information, call Chesed v'Emet: 847.577.0856

http://www.chesedvemet.com/

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Independent Jewish Owned Since 1997

The Way It Should Be

It should be, first and foremost, about service. It should be personalized and compassionate. It should

be about commitment. It should be from people who work and live right here, in our community. It

should be about having a service where you want it: chapel, synagogue, or graveside. It should be

about being able to pre-plan for your family. It should be about the way you want to mourn.

For immediate assistance with a death please call: 888.509.5011

http://www.chicagojewishfunerals.com/

___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Pinstripes features a distinctive entertainment and dining venue

Celebrate “sophisticated fun” in our warm and inviting 45,000 square foot indoor/outdoor facility

complete with eighteen bowling lanes, six bocce courts, exceptional Italian-American bistro and wine

cellar, outdoor patio and fireplace and beautifully appointed event and party rooms that can accommo-

date groups from 20-600.

Contact us at [email protected]

___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

The Ink Well

A Complete Print Service

Family Owned and Operated

Visit us for all your printing & copying needs

Wedding Invitations | Business Cards | Stationery Letterhead | Envelopes | Flyers Programs | Menus

School Programs | Newsletters | Booklets

Monday - Friday 9 AM - 5 PM

119 E Roosevelt Rd. | Lombard, IL | 60146

Ph: 630.268.0050 | Fax: 630.268.0170 [email protected]

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Celebrate in Style at Lucky Strike!

Lucky Strike can accommodate groups up to 650 guests and blends state-of-the-art bowling

with a plush, high energy atmosphere. Offering 18 bowling lanes, 3 billiard tables, DJ booth

and 12 projector screens; let us create a unique and personal party that will be a lifetime

memory for your daughter or son’s mitzvah. Relax, enjoy and leave the work to us!

Contact us today at [email protected] or call us at 630.916.8681

www.bowlluckystrike.com

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Simon’s Restaurant & Bakery

We are a traditional American-Style restaurant that offers a large variety of dishes for breakfast,

lunch & dinner every day. Try one of our daily specials and homemade desserts from our bakery.

Breakfast is served all day at Simon's. A family owned & operated restaurant located in Villa Park

since 1986.

Open 7 Days a Week 6:00 AM to Midnight

2 West Roosevelt Road

Villa Park, Illinois

Phone: (630) 530-0200

Fax: (630) 530-0267

http://www.simons-restaurant.com/

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Sanders Family Dental

We treat the fearful, anxious and those patients who are unable to see a general dentist in a

typical office setting. We are one of the most experienced dental practices in the western

suburbs of Chicago offering IV Sedation in an out-patient setting. Open since 1972 in

Lombard, we are a Father, Son, and Daughter general dentistry practice that caters to

nervous, fearful, those who have not been to the dentist in “a while” and even everyday

patients looking for a good family practitioner. Call to schedule and check out our website

for more information.

929 South Main Street | Suite #100 | Lombard, IL 60148

Sandersfamilydental.com

[email protected]

630-620-0929


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