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Shabbat Services:
Shabbat Vayera
Friday October 30, 2015
7:30 PM Shabbat Family Service
Oneg Hosts: Herschkopf Family in honor of Sophie
and Jake Pollack's 90th Birthdays.
Saturday October 31, 2015 9:00 AM Torah Study
Shabbat Chaye Sarah
Friday November 6, 2015 8:15 PM Shabbat Evening Service
Oneg Host: Oppenheim Family
Saturday November 7, 2015
9:00 AM Torah Study
10:30 AM Morning Service ~ Adam Oppenheim will
be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah.
Childcare is available on Friday nights
during services in our nursery
Message from Rabbi Cosnowsky
Being Jewish isn’t Always Easy
The sentiment, “S'iz shver tzu zain a Yid - it's difficult to be a Jew," reminds me of the saying that was heard around the communities of first generation Jewish American’s. So, in a sense, things haven’t changed over the years. Today, it is still difficult and somewhat expensive to be
Jewish, which is why it’s important for parents to pass along why it’s important to be Jewish. The Torah is a tree of life. Learning from the lessons contained therein, is a great way to teach our children how to grapple with ethical situations and learn from the mistakes of our ancestors in the Torah. Then, when we and our children face difficulties, as humans always do, we will be able to put them into the proper perspective, realizing that nothing valuable in life comes without sacrifice and hard work.
We see this portrayed in this weeks’ Torah portion when Abraham leaves his homeland to move to Canaan. Then, he follows God’s command to circumcise not only himself, but all of the males in his camp. This is painful and very inconvenient to undertake. But they all do it, because that was part of the deal Abraham made with God to be a follower of monotheism. They didn’t weight the cost, nor wonder if it was worth the sacrifice, they understood that this was part of being in the community, and they made the decision to do so.
Being Jewish is not always comfortable nor convenient. In fact, many things seem inconvenient and maybe even irrelevant. Why should we pass on the pepperoni pizza? Why shouldn’t we participate in homecoming when it falls on Yom Kippur? Why should we strive to act with integrity, when it seems that so many around us do not?
That is what it means to be Jewish! The very thing we are trying to teach our children and to strive for ourselves. If being Jewish was easy and convenient, everyone would be doing it. But it’s not. It is difficult, but the value is that we emerge from the struggle as better human beings. That nothing comes easy – without hard work, sacrifice and dedication. And to teach our children how to struggle and prevail, is one of the greatest gifts we can give away.
October 28, 2015
Don’t forget to change your clocks
back this Saturday, October 31
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Message from Our President Ken Markwell
Dear fellow congregant,
I was at synagogue today (Sunday October 25th) and saw Jon
Berman sitting at his normal place, the Manna table. Jon,
Mike Fields and Barry Freeman are to be commended for
being there every Sunday asking members to support this
great fundraiser. Manna are gift certificates from a wide
variety of retailers from groceries to hotels to home improvement centers.
Congregants purchase gift certificates in specified amounts and use them
just as cash when making purchases. Purchasers receive 100% value for
their contribution! Seeing Jon sitting there prompted me to go into our
social hall and see many of our members enjoying Tumlar. Now that we are
all together in one building, it is great to see so many tables filled with lively
conversations going on covering many interesting topics. It then dawned on
me that this would be a golden opportunity to walk around to each table to
introduce myself as well as put in a plug for Manna and to pass out some
forms. I hope my small effort bears some fruit in November. It also made
me think that I should begin all of my newsletter articles with a short blurb
reminding everyone of the next Manna date which will be Sunday Novem-
ber 15th (pickup on Wednesday November 18th).
After leaving the synagogue, I was able to go out and enjoy a beautiful
sunny fall day. I love this time of year as we can still wear a light jacket or
sweater and take in all the amazing color changes going on. Each tree is
giving back all the colors of the sky it has seen since spring. I will admit I am
not looking forward to the season that follows. I am already getting cabin
fever just thinking about it and the first snow flake hasn’t even fallen yet!
Speaking of cabin fever, I can think of no better way to avoid that
completely this winter than to partake of all the services, programs,
meetings and events our synagogue has to offer. I could mention many here
but better for me to direct you to our website (www.congetzchaim.org) or
this very newsletter to see what’s going on.
Reading our newsletter and checking out our website can also help pass
away the time in the coming months so you can avoid looking out the
window at the grayness that is sure to come. Between reading our
newsletters, viewing our website and anticipating so many exciting and
interesting synagogue functions, spring will be here before you know it! OK,
I know that’s a bit of a stretch, but I’ll bet you it will make the coming winter
months much more tolerable and what’s wrong with that?
Until the next newsletter I wish everyone a safe, healthy and happy Fall!
Tot Shabbat Services ~ 6:30 PM
November 13
December 4
January 15
February 12
March 25
April 29
June 17
Shabbat Family Service ~ 7:30 PM
October 30
November 27
December 11- Hanukkah Family Service
January 29
February 26
March 18
April 15
May 27
June 24
LOBBY TZEDAKAH BOX
NAMI DUPAGE
As Jews we are commanded to heal the sick which
includes those who are physically and mentally ill.
Please hear Rabbi Cosnowsky's Rosh Hashanah
call to support mental health awareness and
respond by making a generous contribution to the
National Alliance for Mental Health of DuPage
(NAMI DuPage). The tzedakah box is located in
the lobby, right in front of the gift shop case.
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SHABBAT CHAVERIM
Our next "Shabbat Chaverim" will be Friday morning,
November 6 at 10:00 AM. This program is for young
children and a parent/guardian.
Carrie Barrera will guide the group in a simple Jewish themed
craft, often related to a holiday. These have included making
edible Torahs out of pretzel sticks and fruit roll ups, colorful
bookmarks with stick-on stars of David, delicious
hamentashen, Hebrew alphabet snowflakes, dried orange
slice pendants, and matzoh s’mores, to name a few.
Cindy Michelassi will tell a story relevant to the parsha of the
week or current holiday and leads everyone in song. Some
involve a little dancing, and others offer each child the
opportunity to keep time with one of a variety of percussion
instruments.
The program will end with an oneg. Everyone blesses the
candles, juice and challah. Following blessings a variety of
tasty snacks and conversation are enjoyed around the table.
SKIP: SEND-A-KID-TO-ISRAEL-PARTNERSHIP
Enroll Your Child in SKIP Now-
The SEND-A-KID-TO-ISRAEL PARTNERSHIP (SKIP)
program is a special 3rd -9th grade
savings plan that helps Chicago-area youngsters
visit Israel as an integral part of their Jewish
education. Please contact Rachel Wood if you have not
received your packet.
Learn more about SKIP at http://congetzchaim.org/SKIP.
Enrollment packets need to be received no later than
November 16, 2015.
Rabbi Bob’s Retirement Weekend
Celebration
May 6, 7, 8, 2016
We invite you to participateIN THE
GARRY GARDNER MEMORIALBOWLS FOR HUNGER PROJECT
The Garry Gardner Memorial Bowls for Hunger Project is an "Empty Bowls Project". The “Empty Bowls Project” is an international
grassroots effort to raise both money & awareness in the fight to end hunger. The mission is to create positive & lasting change through
the arts, education, & projects that build community.
Congregation Etz Chaim1710 S. Highland Ave
Lombard, IL 60148
A Donation of $3 PER CHILDINCLUDES: A Cup Of Homemade Soup,
Bread & A Drink
A Donation of $12 PER ADULTINCLUDES: A Cup Of Homemade Soup,
A Handcrafted Ceramic Bowl Keepsake,(as a reminder of all the 'empty bowls' in the world)
Bread & A Drink
Ceramic pieces will also be available for purchaseChecks & Credit Cards will be accepted
PROCEEDS FROM THIS EVENT WILL BENEFITTHOSE WHO ARE HUNGRY IN DUPAGE COUNTY
Sunday, November 1, 2015 11:30 am - 2:00 pm
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EVENING BOOK GROUP
A Backpack, A Bear & 8 Crates of Vodka, by Lev Golinkin– November 10
A compelling story of two intertwined journeys: a Jewish refugee family fleeing persecution and a young man
seeking to reclaim a shattered past. In the twilight of the Cold War (the late 1980s), nine-year old Lev Golinkin and
his family cross the Soviet border with only ten suitcases, $600, and the vague promise of help awaiting in Vienna.
Years later, Lev, now an American adult, sets out to retrace his family's long trek, locate the strangers who fought
for his freedom, and in the process, gain a future by understanding his past.
A Dynamic View of Aging
Sunday, November 8, 2015 10:15 – 11:15 AM Lower Level
You’re not retired…yet. But your children are growing up. You’re starting to look at the coming years and
wondering, “What’s next?” You know about planning for your financial future. But what about your life’s
future? How do you get there? Where do you begin?
The Lifelong Learning Committee and the Etz Chaim Brotherhood are proud to host a special
presentation on , an approach that provides new insight into the concept of aging and how to
reach its full potential.
You will learn
About the origin, uniqueness and relevance of the Third Age
How you plan for the Third Age in your pre-retirement years
– The Five Main Components
What are Third Age Dreams
What is a “Beautiful Mind”
And what are ten things you can do TODAY to enhance the depth and diversity of your Third Age
Your presenter is Bruce Mondschain, president/CEO of Catalyst Benefits Inc., in Deerfield, IL. Named “2004
Company of the Year” by the American Society on Aging, Catalyst is a premier provider of health and “lifestyle”
benefits to over 250 hospitals and organizations throughout the United States. Prior to Catalyst, Mondschain
was the Associate General Director of the Jewish Community Centers of Chicago and later was Vice President of
Hyatt’s senior living units. An avid photographer, Bruce has more than 80 photos in the Smithsonian Institute
including photos of Pete Seeger, Bruce Springsteen, Joan Baez and Arlo Guthrie.
In early 2014, Mondschain was named one of ten “Beautiful Minds” in the United States, an award co-sponsored
by the National Center for Creative Aging.
Bonus! Attendees will receive a complimentary code to complete their own Third Age
Portfolio survey, gaining insight into their personal readiness for the next phase.
For questions and to ensure adequate seating, please RSVP to [email protected]
Our language, Our Culture – and You!
The Lord said, “Behold, they are one people, and they have all one language,
and this is only the beginning of what they will do. (Genesis 11:6)
So, what happened? Why don’t we all speak the same language?
If you’ve had any of these questions, then you are ready for some of the toughest questions tackled by linguists and scholars of literacy, language, and culture. We are delighted to welcome Dr. Aria Razfar (Ari), who will lead us on a fascinating journey of language from simple sounds to complex layers of meaning and possible applications to sacred texts. Ari is a professor of language, literacy and culture at the University of Illinois at Chicago. His research interests focus on the sociocultural dimensions of language and its meaning to human development.
Please RSVP to [email protected] or call the office - 630.627.3912.
Thursday, November 12
From 7:30-9:00 PM
In the Social Hall
Refreshments provided.
No cost to attend.
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DUPAGE UNITED DUPAGE UNITED FALL ASSEMBLY focusing on Mental Health, the treatment and incarceration of those with mental illness, will be held from 3:00 - 4:30 PM on November 14. The Union Church of Hinsdale, 137 S Garfield St, Hinsdale, IL which is a newer member of DuPage United will host the assembly. This meeting will focus on Crisis Intervention Training (CIT) for law enforcement, crisis triage centers and other jail diversion strategies so that there will be fewer people with mental illness in our jails and they can receive treatment. Did you know it costs 5X more to incarcerate someone than to provide proper mental health treatment? Come and learn more at this informative meeting. Help us show that Etz Chaim cares by attending. RSVP to Harriet Rose [email protected]
Senior Youth Group Kickoff Event
Saturday, November 14 at 6 PM
Join us for a Nerf gun fight, pizza dinner
and election of officers!
RSVP to synagogue office at
(630) 627-3912 CHILDREN’S PLAYGROUND
Recently more blue mulch was added to our renovated children’s playground. Please help us keep the mulch off the concrete and within the equipment area. There are several types of brooms in the children’s outside storage unit with which the children can sweep the mulch. We hope this will be a fun learning activity for those who use the area.
MEMORIAL GARDEN
Do you know about the Etz Chaim Memorial Garden which is
located close to where our Sukkah is placed each fall? Our
Memorial Garden was a result of a fundraiser to enlarge our
parking lot. Families donated money for the project and
could then choose an inscription for their brick. In the
center of the brick paving is a small garden which we are
replanting this fall.
Last Sunday and next Sunday the primary classes are
planting bulbs in the garden. The teachers planted allium
bulbs which will bloom in late spring and the students
planted a variety of bulbs (Pre.-yellow winter aconite,
K-snow drops, 1st -snow crocus and 2nd -grape hyacinths)
which will bloom in early and mid-spring. There are also
perennials in the small area along with annual pansies so
that hopefully there will always be something interesting to
see.
As the snow begins to melt in March check out this small
area for the first signs of spring. Just as Noah was so happy
to see the dove return with a green branch we also rejoice
when we see our first spring flowers.
MISCELLANEOUS INFORMATION…
Tikkun Olam – Wherever there is brokenness, we must bring healing.
In her sermon erev Rosh Hashanah, Rabbi Cosnowsky reiterated her charge to the congregation “to begin to have more open conversations about mental illness.” In response, the Social Action Committee has created a Mental Health Team to help educate our congregants and expand our role as a caring community.
All are welcome to the Lunch and Learn/Seniors program on Wednesday, November 18th
Mental Illness - from a Personal and Family Point of View At this Lunch and Learn, Etz Chaim congregant John Wilkerson will tell his personal story of struggling with mental illness. He will bring a guest from NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) to speak from the impact of mental illness on family members. There will be time for questions and for learning more about NAMI at the end of their presentations.
Optional lox and bagel lunch ($7.00) – 12:00 PM
Program begins – 12:30 PM
Please RSVP to Mark Turner at [email protected] by Monday,
November 16th, and indicate if you are having lunch. If you need to cancel,
remember to notify Mark.
Improving the lives of people and families
struggling with mental illness is also
a DuPage United initiative.
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WANTED COLLEGE STUDENTS ADDRESSES
In order to keep our college students connected to the Etz Chaim community, we need
both regular mailing addresses and email addresses of freshmen as well as returning
college students. Addresses are not saved from school year to school year, so we need
addresses even if you sent them in past years. Please send address information to the
synagogue office by email at [email protected].
WHAT DOES THE CARING COMMITTEE DO? The Caring Committee will assist with most anything that is needed for someone who temporarily needs a hand. We arrange rides to doctor’s/medical appointments or synagogue services, provide assistance with grocery shopping for someone just out of the hospital, help in the kitchen during a shiva, prepare meals for members requiring help due to illness or the birth or a child (including Passover and holiday food), visit a member in the nursing home, and provide overnight assistance with a hospital release. We are open to helping you when a need arises. The Caring Committee has captains in each area served by the synagogue. They will contact congregants in your neighborhood to lend a hand. When you receive an email about a need in your area, please respond to help when you can. If you would like to become a captain, please let us know. We have so many caring synagogue members and we would love to have more people to help out in each community. With a lot of involvement from our community members, the burden is reduced when it is shared by all. When in need, or if you know someone who is in need, please contact the synagogue office. Our staff will pass the information along to us.
SYNAGOGUE GARDENS Our synagogues gardens are still blooming and many people have asked about certain plants, which they would like to plant in their own gardens. We will have some extra plants to share with you. Over the years, volunteers from the Landscaping Committee have weeded, planted and maintained the gardens. Each spring, many additional volunteers, along with the committee, work together on a spring garden clean-up and transplant day. In the coming spring, 2016, volunteers may take home extra plants such as our pink Japanese anemones, hostas, bluebells and Happy Returns daylilies, which are from the entrance area. From other synagogue gardens there will be Stella D’ora daylilies, milkweed, liatris, asters, tall Joe-Pye weed, and some ornamental grasses which volunteers may want. If you are interested in helping on a day next spring and adding some plants to your garden, or if you have questions about plants in the synagogue gardens, contact Mary Hason at ([email protected]).
MENTAL HEALTH TEAM
The Etz Chaim Mental Health Team planned and hosted listening sessions on mental health last spring to listen to congregants as we shared stories and concerns. The Etz Chaim team is a part of the Social Action Committee and the regional DuPage United Mental Health Team which is working together with others in the Chicago region to increase Crisis Intervention Training (CIT) for first responders and to explore issues around mental health. All of these mental health teams are also working to decrease the stigma of mental illness. The Etz Chaim team will be meeting soon and invites you to join the team. To learn more or join the team contact Len Gesinski at [email protected].
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JEN (Jewish Employment Network) under JVS Career Moves is now
LOCATED IN CONGREGATION ETZ CHAIM
LOMBARD
IF YOU ARE A JOBSEEKER, CAREER CHANGER, PROFESSIONAL, DOWNSIZED OR MATURE WORKER
JEN WILL ASSIST YOU WITH:
Planning a career path Tune you up for that important interview
Revamp your resume Teach you how to network successfully
Submit you to positions listed with JVS by our employer partners
For information about our services call
Joyce Bogolub, JVS Career Counselor, in Etz Chaim 312-907-0094
INTERFAITH THANKSGIVING SERVICE– NOVEMBER 23, 2014
The DuPage Interfaith Resource Network Thanksgiving Service will be held on Monday, November
23 at 7:30 PM in the beautiful sanctuary of St. Procopius Abbey at the
corner of Maple and College in Lisle. The service features broad
participation from a wide range of religions including: Protestants,
Buddhists, Catholics, Jews, Moslems, Zoroastrians, Sikhs, and B'hai. We
hear the prayers of other religions, sung and chanted. The service is a
wonderful way to begin the week of Thanksgiving. The warmth and
diversity of the worshipping congregation expresses the promise of America. We respect our
differences and appreciate that which binds us together. We proclaim a common message of thanks
with our words and melodies of prayer.
Early Hanukkah Ideas
Looking for a unique Hanukkah present for that exercise enthusiast in your life? We have extra tee shirts from the High Holiday Hustle available for only $5 each. Please consider supporting the Robert Scott Samuels Fund by buying some Hustle swag this holiday season
2014 White Tech Tee Shirt - $5
Available in Small, Medium, Large, Extra large – Please indicate Male or female
2015 Red Tech Tee Shirt - $5
Available in Small, Medium, Large, Extra Large and XXL – Please indicate Male or Female
2013 Cotton Tee shirt – Limited size Availability - $3
Red Sneaker Wallet (Store your key and money on your sneaker) $2
Contact [email protected] with your order. We can send it to you or have it available at the synagogue
Coming to Etz Chaim this spring!
~ to raise money to support the congregation we call home ~
Whether you do fall, winter or spring cleaning,
please set aside gently used clothing (all ages), accessories,cookware bakeware, kitchen
utensils,bed linen,table linen,towels, toys,
games,pictures,books,DVDs, CDs…
tools and small appliances (in good working order)
~ Details to follow but, for now, please save your stuff! ~
Questions? Please contact Barbara Turner at
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S I S T E R H O O D
WE ARE IN NEED OF A MANAGER AND STAFF TO RUN OUR GIFT SHOP
Please contact Melissa Ladin at 630-605-6952 or [email protected]
regarding information and opportunities to "spend a day at the shop" to see what great fun this volunteer position is.
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STITCH N KVETCH
The Stitch N Kvetch group meets at the synagogue monthly on Sunday mornings at 10:00 AM.
All are welcome to join the group.
MAH JONGG
Mah Jongg continues thru Hanukkah! Monday evenings at the synagogue,
7:15 - 10:00 PM. Wednesday afternoon mah jongg will be the
2nd and 4th Wednesdays of the month at 1:15 PM. Those interested in Mah Jongg
lessons are invited to join us Wednesday afternoons.
Please RSVP to Merle Erlich at [email protected]
The manager and staff of the gift shop would take charge of all inventory, ordering and staffing during the course of the Hebrew School year. The Sisterhood Gift Shop is open and staffed during Wednesday and Sunday Religious School sessions. We participate in the annual Hanukkah Gift Bazaar and provide useful and timely products for our community. It is a wonderful opportunity to meet many community members, share your knowledge of Judaica, needs for a particular event (like a Bar/Bat Mitzvah), and even participate in educating our youngest members as to what supplies are needed to make latkes!
The Sisterhood Gift Shop operates to provide our community members with a large source for Judaica, holiday and ritual supplies, jewelry and gifts for all life events. Some of the Sisterhood Gift Shop proceeds directly benefit Congregation Etz Chaim and its special projects.
Gather some friends and become the next team to run the Sisterhood Gift Shop!
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MEMBERSHIP COMMITTEE & CONNECTIONS TEAM
BASIC CANASTA
Basic Canasta will be played on Wednesday afternoon 1:15 PM at the synagogue. For times and
basic canasta rules go to https://congetzchaim.org/play-canasta.
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BRIDGE
We continue to play bridge Wednesday mornings 10:00 AM at the synagogue Looking for Bridge Players? Are you looking for other Etz Chaim Bridge Players? Add your name(s) to a list being started by the Connections Team to share with other interested players. Provide your contact info, skill level, & preferred playing times. Contact Merle Erlich at [email protected] It will be up to you to make your own contacts and arrangements. As the list is generated, you will be emailed updates.
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PINOCHLE
Pinochle continues Monday evenings at the home of Harve Bogolub 7:00 PM.
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ADULT CHOIR
The Congregation Etz Chaim adult choir wants you! Do you enjoy singing? Did you enjoy hearing
the choir at High Holiday services? If you answered "yes" to either of these questions, please
consider joining the adult choir for Shabbat and special services. It's fun AND fulfilling! Rehearsals
are currently held twice per month, and we sing at two services per month. You are not obligated to
sing at all adult choir services, but any and all participation is greatly appreciated. Please consult the
synagogue web site calendar (http://congetzchaim.org/calendar) for rehearsal information. If you
have any questions, please contact Barbara Tischler .
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CHAVURAH GROUPS
The Connections Team and the Membership Committee are spear-heading an ongoing initiative to expand our Chavurah offerings, and
you are invited to consider being a part of one. Some have been going on for many years, some started this past year, and others are
forming now. The participation form is located on the Etz Chaim website, in the newsletter and in the synagogue lobby.
Chavurot at Etz Chaim are small groups of members who come together to share Jewish and/or secular experiences—from learning, to
worship to social or cultural or even community volunteerism. Chavurot can be groups of people who live in the same neighborhood or
groups with children of similar ages or groups with similar interests.
Over 40 congregant families have indicated interest. The establishment of Chavurah groups is an ongoing endeavor of the Membership
Committee and Connections Team. Find the Chavurah interest form below, on the Etz Chaim website or in the synagogue lobby. Contact
Merle Erlich: [email protected] with questions.
FORMATION OF CHAVURAH GROUPS IS AN ONGOING CONNECTIONS TEAM ENDEAVOR.
PLEASE PRINT THIS FORM, FILL IT OUT AND RETURN IT TO THE SYNAGOGUE
CHAVURAH INTEREST INDICATOR FORM
My Name:_________________________________________________________________________
Spouse’s/Partner’s Name____________________________________________________________
Number of children: _____ (Names & Ages)
_________________ _________________ _________________ _________________
Telephone ________________________________ Email___________________________________
Type of Chavurah that appeals to me: Family oriented _________ Adults only __________
Members of my ideal Chavurah would include: (check all that apply)
Families with children my own children’s age ________
Multigenerational members_______
Singles _________
Other (please specify) ___________________________________________________________
My ideal Chavurah would provide opportunities to: (check all that apply)
Celebrate holidays together ________
Spend time in Jewish learning ________
Spend time in secular learning ________
Social action/community involvement/volunteerism _____________
Cultural experiences __________
Purely social ___________
Physical activity/exercise __________
Play groups (parent/child) __________
My preference for meeting times would be: daytime _____, evenings_____, and/or weekends____)
Please feel free to add any additional details or clarify any of your responses above:
________________________________________________________________________________________
I would be interested in leading a Chavurah: ___________________________________________________
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Kaddish October 30 – 31 10/25 Lillian Spiegel 10/26 Dorothy Hunter 10/26 Gabriella Miller 10/26 J.R. Mitchell 10/26 Israel Nadler 10/26 Frank Sirota 10/27 Louis Kaplan 10/27 Henry Levi 10/27 Minnie Simons 10/27 Atalee Stoller 10/28 John Gubbay 10/28 Joyce Gubbay 10/28 Mary Lernor 10/28 Annabelle Perlman 10/28 Rose Marie Rubin 10/28 Alvin Schuman 10/28 Mary Jo Szarzynski 10/29 Henry Mindel 10/29 Andrea Stein 10/30 Sidney Feiss 10/30 Gerald Martin 10/30 Max Porton 10/30 Janet Roth 10/31 Bernard Ginsberg 10/31 Tybe Mash 10/31 Edward Ross 10/31 Paul Spenadel
Kaddish November 6 – 7 11/1 Margaret Berkowitz 11/1 Florence Bland 11/1 Mussie Coleman 11/1 John Dustan 11/1 Max Ein 11/1 Sylvia Frankel 11/1 Florence Singer 11/2 Jack Bacol 11/2 Reuben Fensin 11/2 Jean Goldstein 11/2 Irving Lewis 11/2 Herbert Lucks 11/2 Louis Meyers 11/2 George Schneider 11/2 Ethel Sharasheff 11/2 Donna Silver 11/2 Irvin Warner 11/3 Naftali Frankel 11/3 Eli Mandel 11/3 Lucille Winkelman 11/4 Jeanette Chernick 11/4 Henrietta Gorbien 11/4 Jeffrey Kutler 11/4 Daniel Mendelsohn 11/5 Robert Becker 11/5 Leonard Mendelssohn 11/5 Sara Warshawsky 11/6 Wilma Leftwich
Kaddish November 6-7 Continued 11/7 Stephanie Foler 11/7 Edith Pelzner 11/7 Harry Soreff 11/7 Jack Teller Kaddish November 13 – 14 11/8 Irene Cohen 11/8 Jeanne Erlich 11/8 Toby Fensin 11/8 Gertrude Rovel 11/9 Alvin Burstein 11/9 Jack Edwards 11/9 Geri Reich 11/9 David Sharasheff 11/10 Sam Dubin 11/10 Leonore Mittler 11/10 Samuel Titiner 11/10 Philip Unger 11/10 Sam Winston 11/11 Melissa Carrier 11/11 Milton Sklar 11/12 David Galinkin 11/13 Harold Abrams 11/13 Murray Glass 11/13 Odessa Robinson 11/13 Martin Stoller 11/14 Lillian Herbach 11/14 Marion Manheimer 11/14 Ruth Rovell 11/14 Thomas Seres 11/14 Sy Vogler Kaddish November 20 – 21 11/15 Norman Hochman 11/15 Gloria Levenstein 11/15 Alfred Lewis 11/15 Dora Samson 11/16 Brian Horwich 11/17 Stanford Menachof 11/17 Joseph Weinstein 11/18 Melaine Meyer 11/18 David Safer 11/18 Hans Tischler 11/19 Carole Convissor 11/19 Florence Green 11/19 Mildred Lewis 11/19 Sam Nicholas 11/19 Devin Nieze 11/19 Jewel Popper 11/20 Elijah Godfrey 11/20 Fanny Lucks 11/20 Paula Marion 11/20 Rosalie Mark 11/20 Mervyn Posner 11/21 Marilyn Blonder 11/21 Herbert Diamond
The congregation offers its congratulations to…
Dave & Barb Carlson
on the marriage of their son,
Aaron to Emily Schultz.
Mike & Cynde Sawyer,
Ryan & Susanna Sawyer
on the birth of their granddaughter and niece,
Sophie Margaret Sawyer.
The congregation offers its
condolences to…
Jen Gesinski and her family
on the death of her father,
William Gilbert.
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Donations Received October 2015
Senior Rabbi Discretionary Fund
In memory of Donated by
Mildred Wasserman Marc Wasserman
Associate Rabbi Discretionary Fund
In memory of Donated by
Louis Meyers Gossage Family
Elden Gossage Gossage Family
Mussie Coleman Gossage Family
Leonard Mendelssohn Marcey Siegel
Constance Bornstein Elisa Crandell
Andrea Stein Harvey Zoll
Mildred Wasserman Marc Wasserman
Bernard Berman Jonathan Berman
Barbara Baruch School Scholarship Fund
In honor of Donated by
Nate and Bernadette Winter's 70th Wedding anniversary Gloria Kahn
In memory of Donated by
Alter Casper Alan Wolsky
Thomas Seres Margaret Seres
Building Fund
In honor of Donated by
Miles Nathan Johnson's birth Gossage Family
Aya Gray Wolsky-Bills' birth Gossage Family
In memory of Donated by
Israel Nadler Lilah Warshawsky
William Gilbert Don & Diane Roubitchek
Paul Spenadel Joel Spenadel
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Social and Cultural Fund
In memory of
Donated by
Leonore Mittler Judith Witkov
Ethel Siegel Barbara Turner
Sam Turner Mark Turner
Florence Farone Lois Abramowitz
Devin Nieze Cara Cap
William Gilbert Harold & Judy Witkov
Facility Fund
In memory of Donated by
George Schneider Marc Schneider
Jeremy Bruder Memorial Scholarship Fund
In memory of Donated by
William Gilbert Joel and Beth Spenadel
Landscape Fund
In honor of Donated by
Carol Meyer Neufeldt Family
In memory of Donated by
Mary Jo Szarzynski Jody Freeman
Louis & Bettye Kaplan Social Action Fund
In memory of Donated by
Ruth Bennett Tammy Meyers
Ernest Ulrich Werner Ulrich
Else Wolff Ursula Ulrich
Morris Grubstein Marcey Siegel
Louis Kaplan Ruth Kaplan
Music Fund
In memory of Donated by
Leah Kaplan Marcia Kaplan
New Prayer Book Fund
In memory of Donated by
Stephanie Foler Deborah Harris
Marvin Foler Deborah Harris
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Norman Yellin Emergency Aid Fund
In memory of Donated by
Dorothy Schneider Marc Schneider
Marilyn Blonder Michael Blonder
Ritual & Religious Fund
In memory of Donated by
Donna Silver Linda Yeager
Jacob Stern Elise Ciribassi
Robert Scott Samuels Scholarship Fund
In memory of Donated by
Jacob Rovel Merle Erlich
Rose Rubinstein Merle Erlich
Gertrude Rovel Merle Erlich
Alice Dern Herbert Dern
Sophie & Jack Edwards Scholar-In-Residence Fund
In memory of Donated by
Julius Seres Margaret Seres
Connie Farber Neil Farber
Elwood Bryan Mary-Jo Bryan Wolsky
Emma Bryan Mary-Jo Bryan Wolsky
Stu Soreff Office Fund
In honor of Donated by
Diane Roubitchek Howard & Julie Benario
Youth Group Fund
In memory of Donated by
Lesser Levin Steven Levin
Fanny Levin Steven Levin
Michael Peck David and Wendy Peck
General Operating Fund
In honor of Donated by
Ruth Halle Don and Diane Roubitchek
Diane Roubitchek's birthday Marv & Marilyn Wigder
In memory of Donated by
Henrietta Gorbien Don and Diane Roubitchek
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ANNOUNCEMENTS & COMMUNITY PROGRAMS
PADS Wake Up Your Spirit Breakfast
Go to: https://congetzchaim.org/sites/default/files/uploaded_documents/wake_up_your_spir it_breakfast_pr .pdf
Abraham Heschle Joshua Lecture
Go to: https://congetzchaim.org/sites/default/files/uploaded_documents/heschel_lecture.pdf
AIPAC Policy Conference 2016
Go to: https://aipac.secure.force.com/event/EV140546
Ashkenazi Jews & Parkinson's Disease
Go to: https://congetzchaim.org/ashkenazi-jews-and-parkinsons-disease
OSRUI Programs:
Mah Jongg & Canasta Weekend
Go to: http://osrui.ur jcamps.org/year round/mah_jongg_weekend/
Devorah Quilting Kallah
Go to: http://osrui.ur jcamps.org/year round/programs/devorah/
PADS Volunteer Training
Go to: http://dupagepads.org/solutions/volunteer/
Taglit Birthright Israel
Go to: http://www.gokesher.org/
Upcoming Programs at Spertus
Go to: http://spertus.edu/programs-events/all
Jewish Healing Network of Chicago
Go to: http://www.jcfs.org/jhnc
Jewish Child and Family Services
Go to: http://www.jcfs.org/
Jewish Employment Network
Go to: http://congetzchaim.org/Jewish_Employment_Network
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NFTY - EIE
Spend a semester
at the NFTY-EIE
High School in
Israel and take
your own!
Why just look at pictures in your history textbook?
Earn High School Credit.
Apply for the Spring or the Fall semester.
Live in the picturesque Judean Hills on Kibbutz Tzuba.
Discover your Jewish past as you live the Jewish present
Learn to converse in modern Hebrew.
Climb Masada, swim in the Dead Sea, hike from Sea to Sea, explore and camp out in the Negev.
Travel to Poland for a week to continue your study of Modern Jewish History.
Make new NFTY friends and build a strong Reform Community.
For more information please contact
Robin Kulwin
Director of Admissions (212) 650-4073
A NOTE FROM THE LIBRARY COMMITTEE: WHERE TO DONATE BOOKS
Etz Chaim is fortunate to have a vibrant and vital library. Thanks to the efforts of a dedicated corps of volunteers and
the generous contributions of the congregation to the Robert Glass Memorial Library Fund,
the library collection grows and is kept up-to-date.
If you have books that you no longer wish to keep as part of your library, please consider
donating them to your public library or to SCARCE - School and Community Assistance for
Recycling & Composting Education (www.bookrescue.org), located at 799 Roosevelt Rd.,
Bldg. 2, Suite 108, Glen Ellyn.
Please do not bring books to the Etz Chaim library unless previous arrangements with the library chair have been
made. Thank you.
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Schmaltz Deli
We're the only classic Jewish delicatessen west of Chicago. Visit us
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Chesed v “Emet
"Families need a safe and secure environment in which their emotional needs are promoted and
their financial needs are protected. This can be accomplished through their congregation
supporting a provider whose primary concern is the family. Chesed v'Emet is just such a
resource - personally representing congregations by serving only its members and their
families. This individual approach provides the distinctive value of combining the support of
personalized attention to savings."
For more information, call Chesed v'Emet: 847.577.0856
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It should be, first and foremost, about service. It should be personalized and compassionate. It should
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Pinstripes features a distinctive entertainment and dining venue
Celebrate “sophisticated fun” in our warm and inviting 45,000 square foot indoor/outdoor facility
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Visit us for all your printing & copying needs
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Simon’s Restaurant & Bakery
We are a traditional American-Style restaurant that offers a large variety of dishes for breakfast,
lunch & dinner every day. Try one of our daily specials and homemade desserts from our bakery.
Breakfast is served all day at Simon's. A family owned & operated restaurant located in Villa Park
since 1986.
Open 7 Days a Week 6:00 AM to Midnight
2 West Roosevelt Road
Villa Park, Illinois
Phone: (630) 530-0200
Fax: (630) 530-0267
http://www.simons-restaurant.com/
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Sanders Family Dental
We treat the fearful, anxious and those patients who are unable to see a general dentist in a
typical office setting. We are one of the most experienced dental practices in the western
suburbs of Chicago offering IV Sedation in an out-patient setting. Open since 1972 in
Lombard, we are a Father, Son, and Daughter general dentistry practice that caters to
nervous, fearful, those who have not been to the dentist in “a while” and even everyday
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630-620-0929