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Child
There Blessing can turn Crisis
into Opportunity Their blessing will make impossibleto possible
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Old Age Father is an Asset
not a BurdenImagine how your child will
behave with you when you willbecome old?
They will follow what you do notwhat you say
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of our life in uncertainty,chaos, calamities and
terrorism. Any of us can beVictim of Time?
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Take care of their Relationshipand Love that is important
more than money and material
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Need Hierarchy for the Old ageParents
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Do not feel Labor inrepaying Love
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Major Threats
Young generation underestimatingthem
Thinking them rejected
Obsolete
Rejecting their remarks and advise asoutdated ,obsolete
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They feel most threatened
When they cannot exercise theirfreedom
They cannot express their inner voice
They cannot love and advise theirgrand child
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In old age Parents are yourChild
As they had risk their social status,social image being a child
we had done many thing which canhamper our parents prestige
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During your Childhood Riskyour Parents Image in Society
We had done many thing wrong For us our parent had faced many criticism,
bad remarks and odd situation , still theyhad tolerated
They had taken care of our illness withlove ,sacrifice and empathy
But they have tolerated, they had loved ,they had sacrificed and trained.
Th i ill b l d
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Their illness can be lessenedthrough Emotional share and
care Become Friend and Father of yourFather at his Old age
The way he has sacrificed youbelieve me through love theirillness will be reduced they willmentally fit and fine it will also
effect his physical health It is a challenge to satisfy them
without hurting their ego
A t f i b h
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A moment of misbehave canthreaten the future develop
control over toungue A moment of anger separate thefamily
You cannot understand theconsequences of curse of old ageparent
If they will leave home that will home
the pain of separation will beintolerable
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L f S lf t l l d
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Loss of Self control may leadsto unhealthy entertainment
and gambling "And older adultsare thedemographicshowing thegreatest increasein gamblingproblems," ABCScience quoted
him as saying. Nurture them
spiritually
Let them enjoy
divine
P bl ith Fi i l th ft
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Problems with Financial theft,fraud, scam and old age
financial health In USA due to Madoff Bernard scammany old aged lost their hardearning
They lost their saving for survival
Many old aged were forced toundertake many income sources
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Old age Parents can be shieldagainst all odds in the life
They are having enough money intheir account
You do not think they as dependent
on you financially Old age parents can help at the time
of your need financially, physically ,
morally and psychologically as theyare experienced and skillful indealing with problems of life
They had a lot of readymade
solutions
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Wrong Conception about oldaged people
Do not feel they do not have dream
Do not fell they do not have theirdesire
Do not feel they do not have anychoice and preferences
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Negative Feeling for Parent
Definitely they are weak and are notgood looking
They are irritating
May not be satisfied
May be complaining
May be spreading bad messageabout you in the society
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Do not feel they Cannot beTransformed
Do not give the certificate that theycannot be changed
They cannot be satisfied
They cannot be corrected
Love and patience can do wonder
You are not careless about old
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You are not careless about oldparents You are showing
Disrespect to you own old age No one remainyoung andcharming ever
Do not get
attracted to yourown youngcharming face
Think about yourold age period
Some thing which
is unavoidable
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Law of Karma
If we will treat our old aged parentproperly to morrow our children andyounger generation will also
behave accordingly The behaviour passes through
generation
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Old age Misery
Old age stresstension
Fear
Insecurity Psychologically
shocked
Repentances
Aloneness
Negative self talk
No future no Hope
Awaiting for silent
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Comparing caring new bornBaby and old aged Parent
Caring Children
Children are pure, justlike flower
Their fragrance of
innocence andpurity attractedother
We love childrencripple
Caring Old Aged
They seems to beburdened
Ill
Disfigure
Complex
Hate old aged
parents crippling
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Advantage of RepayingParental Debt
Repay it with Love not with Labor
You will feel light and delighted witheach repayment
Do not show your ego or socialinfluence
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Old age weakness
Physical debility
Lack of income
Mental debility Psychologically oppressed or
depressed
To compensate loneliness quite oftenbecome addicted
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Good thing about Old agedPerson
They are thoughtful Sacrificing Experienced Having good contacts Wise Truthful Religious Can be a best guide Empathetic and well wisher Philanthropist Believer of Law of Karma
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New age attitude towardsOld
Denigrated
Dejected
Challenging
Handicapped
With old age Physically may
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With old age Physically mayweak but habit and nature
firmer With age a person develop firmhabit, trait, attitude, or behavior
Changing attitude and behavior is
the painful process
Changing their thought process is noteasy
With growing old age should bedealth with patience
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Paradoxical Assumption of oldaged traits
Normally : With age man used todevelop disinterest with age
But in modern age after retirement ,
a person opt for relaxation andrecreation
Against our normal believe the desire
of the old people used to increase They had also enough money to
satisfy their dream
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They will also take care of yourFuture your children
After caring you forso long definitelythey are having
enough spaceand empathy totake care offuture of Grand
children
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Make them Fit and Happy
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References
http://www.kazuya-akimoto.com/2007/2
-www.topnews.in/files/Self-Control-140
www.20plus30.com
www.Bibleplace.com
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