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40 Parenting Quickies

Family Life Tools

For The

Law Of AttractionGeneration

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40PARENTINGQUICKIES

For Law of Attraction Fans

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The following 40 points are quick steps or reminders

any parent can take and apply in their family life.

They are intended to get you more aligned with the Law of Attraction, in

a way that attracts an easier, more joyful, more fun life with your kids.

Just let your eyes rest on the list, and pick whatever catches your eyes. Let

the thoughts work on you; just let it percolate into your subconscious. Then

one day, one moment it will re-emerge in your thoughts and you can give it a

try.

Rule #1 in Zero Worry Parentingis: try not to force anything on yourself or

your kids. And conversely, whatever comes naturally and feels good... keep

doing it.

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INTRODUCTION


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1. Give some personal, one-on-one time for each

family member. They will feel they have the full

attention they deserve, at least sometimes, and feel

great. .

2. First listen to what your child has to say to you.

Then they will be more receptive to your advice.

3. If you have a teenager, actively find ways to accept

the way they are just now, and ways to show it to them.

4. Always see the whole child - even when they're

causing problems, resist the temptation to see him/her

as just a troublemaker.

5. Be consistent with everything you say and do with

kids.

6. Speak simply and clearly.

7. When possible, let your children decide what they,

and the family will do (this builds their self-esteem

like nothing else!)

8. Show your kids how much you trust them, for

instance by letting them do things their way..

9. Be relaxed when with kids, when there's laughter and

an easygoing atmosphere, you can get them to do

anything!

10.Challenge your imagination spice up the recurring

everyday events that would otherwise be boring.

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11.Reduce the use of the word NO.

12.Think of something to do together instead of watching

TV.

13.Start a common hobby with your son or daughter:

dancing, riding horses, chess, jogging... anything the two

of you can enjoy together.

14.Tell stories about the best moments in your

childhood, and of good times when they were younger.

(This will create positive expectations about their future.)

15.Cook a meal together with the kids (at home, in the

backyard, on a campfire, while hiking...)

16.Have a wish-fulfillment day once a month one childat a time can express their wishes about how to spend

the day.

17.Read something together even older children enjoy

reading things aloud.

18.Show love to ALL family members (give your child the

gift of a good relationship model).

19.Instead of giving new toys, give your kids something

new to do.

20.After having a big cleaning day at home, or even just

a moment to arrange things in their room, have a

small party to celebrate the achievement. (This will

reduce the resistance when the next time comes along)

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21.Surprise your family by suddenly inviting

everyone on a road trip, to a spa day, to a play...

22.Build a hut or cubby-house with the kids,

either inside or outside. Every child loves the

chance to build at least one hut! Its even better

if its in a tree.

23.Allow for imperfection. If everything/everyone

around the child is perfect, they cannot learn to

accept their own shortcomings.

24.Practice Just Being. Lying on a bed, sitting

around in nature, staring into a fireplace...

together with your kids.

25.At least on weekends, live according to thechildren's natural rhythms. (This will

effortlessly enhance bonding and increase their

trust in you)

26.Promise the kids something they like, to get

them excited about working with you (on

something they'd otherwise not be so excited

about).

27.Think about the influence or effect you want

to make on your kids just like adults, they

may not remember every detail about what

happened, but they will remember what it felt

like.

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28.Get emotional support from another adult, not

from a child.

29.Have a 'vice day'. If you normally eat 90%

healthy meals, you can sometimes have small

vices such as junk food. (So that what's normally

forbidden doesn't start to attract them too much

over time)

30.Let your child use your camera take pictures

together! (Children are free of the esthetic

conceptions adults have give them a chance to

express themselves with you, and wow you!)

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31.Sometimes you have differences of opinion. Does

it always really matter? Give in to your child once in

a while. Just say you're right. That will take the wind

out of their sails and you'll be able to communicate

again.

32.Give old mattresses and sofa cushions to the kids

they love jumping on their own creations!

33.Theme color days: wear certain colors on certain

days with your kids. Have fun.

34.Make conscious choices to make your everyday

life enjoyable. Everyday life makes your overall life

good, not just the occasional highs.

35.When having parties, give the kids the fine

dinnerware too (the best china and linen, the sameyou give to the adults). Even quite small children can

eat with dignity when they get the feeling it's a festive,

valuable occasion. It's best to practice this at home.

36.Bake something together! Something he or she

chooses to cook. Make a feast.

37.Apologize to your child when the situation calls

for it. Your own example works as the best teaching.

Were not perfect either thats for sure.

38.Try to imagine how you would feel if you were

your child. Put yourself on the level of the child

what they want and need. Its quite revealing, and may

change how you relate to them.

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39.Encourage them to give their weekly allowance to

charity one time. Explain about charities - where the

money goes and what it does. Let him/her choose the

charity he/she gives to.

40.Give praise to your child every chance you get!

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